The greatest issue for me is debt. Most women with great jobs have six figure debts due to student loans and out of control spending. That would send me running for the hills. Also, bitching everyday about work.
It’s very hard to find such accommodation unless you look only at wartime homes. You will need to knock a few walls down thereafter to make it livable. Eyeball any site with less than 1000 sq/f.
I’ve been living alone for 14 years and upon reflection noted that my life is far more fulfilling than others my age. Freedoms galore. Yes, one gets lonely. Pets and hobbies are key. It can be done! It should be done! That is if you yearn for a drama free life.