TurduckenII Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Men in Shed’s pressured into allowing women to join "Patriarchy hurts men, too" Hit em with their own line.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/25 06:09 AM
46	Gender Disappointment in 2024 is Almost Always About Boys. "A shameful secret kept from the public eye but omnipresent in online mom spaces" It's ok to be a man. It's not a misdeed to be born the way you are. It is a misdeed to punish an innocent boy for the crimes of other men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/05/24 10:33 PM
2	Get out the Redpill as fast as you can. Especially the black pill which is poison. Back to philosophy	/r/ExRedPill	17/09/23 05:22 AM
78	Accused of being a pedo for taking my daughter to the park. Cops oftentimes don't witness robberies or rapes, that doesn't prevent filing a police report.	/r/MensRights	30/05/17 04:42 PM
18	It's not misandry As awful and twisted as racists are, they usually have a fucked up but coherent worldview about how they are protecting themselves and people like them. Ask them. Few people hate others "for no reason", there's supposedly lotsa reasons to hate ____ group, and they're happy to tell you.	/r/MensRights	09/05/17 05:32 AM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2017 "You only do one thing at a time" My wife pointed this out to me. We're relative newlyweds, no kids, both just graduating grad school last year. As I've gotten my first job in my professional field, I've been slacking on anything that wasn't my job--chores, plans for weekend, gym, friends, etc. I would occasionally do a thing but most of the time I go to my job, she goes to her job, but then she ends up doing everything else. I had this pattern in grad school too when we were together. My job in…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/05/17 01:43 PM
1	How do you guys stay faithful?? Running away from making women your mission is still making women your mission, just in the negative. Can you mention some of the things you want out of life and career? Do you want to be a manager at your job? Do you want to be independent and set your own hours? Do you want to travel frequently? Do you want to be an ideas man and generate creative content? All of these are great things to consider for your MAP. What do you do when you're not trying to fuck, lifting, or earning money? It doesn'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/03/17 05:44 PM
1	How do you guys stay faithful?? OP this is important. The high water mark of an LTR couple is usually before marriage, if there is marriage. Meaning that even if you aren't married, sex usually doesn't get more frequent than it did at the beginning of the relationship, in the honeymoon phase. It almost never increases beyond that, and also rarely remains constant at that point either. The hard part about MRP is keeping mutual sexual enthusiasm and novelty at its highest rate through self improvement to the point where effort b…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/03/17 05:36 PM
6	You're the only other group of savages I know. There has got to be a middle ground where you can say to yourself "no girl is out of my league, especially if I have my game tight" and "I should wear protective gear, keep my speed down and make good choices while cycling or any other risky sport." You can get rejected every day of your life, but sustain bodily injury or legal trouble and your opportunities dwindle. I guess as long as you literally CAN chat up ladies and you want to, you should.	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 07:41 PM
29	I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it. "Sex and cuddles" = Passing shit tests and comfort tests = AF/BB and the hypergamous strain of trying to optimize the two in one man.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/17 05:34 PM
2	Marriage? Worth it? Listen to this shit Unless she was armed with something else and he was unable to retreat, he couldn't claim self defense.	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/17 04:06 PM
9	On the confessions sub: "My husband had been under a lot of pressure because his boss was making him work longer hours... I asked one of my (male) friends to help me put together my desk... we were sitting on the couch having a drink..." You know where this is going. Some guys really don't mind raising other men's kids. They marry single moms, or open their homes to adoptions or become foster parents. So does the woman have a good point, that her husband will always be the father, no matter what any test says? Sure! Lots of guys wouldn't care. Family is family, and he's been there for the boy his whole life, so what does it matter? So, why doesn't she tell her husband? Those are all good points to bring up. For all we know, he'd swat the test away and give h…	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/17 04:01 PM
9	I fucked up. Don't be like me. We can't know whether she was conscious of this behavior or not (i.e. "I should clean up that stuff so...nah, I'll leave it out so it'll crush him") From my (limited) experience, denial doesn't feel like denial. Her motives seem so obvious to us when we look at it from a 3rd party perspective reading an account of the situation. However, denial is her looking around the room, and the thought of "I should put that away" just never coming up. The thought simply does not occur. The brain subconscio…	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/16 10:25 PM
3	Man in deadbedroom asks for advice, gets labeled a narcissist Women operate like a cartel or a union. Men are built with a strong desire for pussy. Women also desire sex, but can go without it a lot easier than men can. Women want sex with a valuable man, but get turned off by a man with low value, which is why they can go without for 20 years married to a husband who doesn't do it for them. Men are notorious for flexible standards--why sex happens in jail, or why the one woman on a navy boat is "boat hot", etc. So if women all agree to make sex harder for…	/r/TheRedPill	26/08/16 02:49 PM
13	Double standards 2016 in a nutshell There is a difference in the ethics. People like paparazzi can take photos of you in public where there is no reasonable expectation of privacy--nude beaches included. You can get prosecuted for filming a bathroom or locker room where one could expect privacy, but you can't expect privacy in the ocean or on a nude beach. I hate to say it, but while Orlando was not asking for it, he shouldn't be surprised that people snapped and distributed perfectly legal photos of him. The "spirit" of this is t…	/r/becomeaman	25/08/16 10:24 PM
1	Wife is making me look bad Do you feel like you would have to tell her about it later?	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/08/16 01:54 PM
1	Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The Beta I look at it like trying to out-lift someone stronger than you. There will always be people stronger than you, and always people weaker than you. You're never going to be the strongest person. If you max out your squat at 315, then don't try to lift 365 or it will hurt. When you train, the weights that you lift are almost always under your 1 rep max. But lifting the weights is how you get stronger, and getting stronger is a worthy goal. Eventually you may lift that 365. Doesn't mean you shouldn'…	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/16 02:49 PM
11	Schoolboys, 14, who were banned from wearing shorts to school on the hottest day of the year used a uniform loophole to wear SKIRTS instead Sport kilts are usually made for field hockey.	/r/MensRights	22/07/16 06:03 PM
1	Suicide and young men who are not mentally ill There is a valuable distinction. We expect suicide to be more common in those with depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, OCD, PTSD, etc. Even if there is no diagnosis by a mental health practitioner, family and friends would hopefully be able to spot odd or maladaptive behavior before the suicide. The mental illness seems to "drive" the suicide and progresses in intensity until the patient attempts suicide and then either succeeds or fails. It's far more insidious if someone with no history of dia…	/r/MensRights	18/07/16 06:56 PM
2	After going on DeadBedrooms, a kind fellow sent me the link to this sub. Why not buy her a pair of white wrangler jeans in her size and then the blue car that OP likes? If the color is so important to her then OP can take it to a shop for aftermarket white paint if she shows she can handle the car and demonstrates good behavior for a few months. If she stays sore about it then it really matters to her and he can get it done. Better yet if it falls on birthday or anniversary. It's not catering to her if it's progressive and conditional since OP is only breadwinner.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/07/16 03:20 AM
1	The Bitch Factor I for one would appreciate some detail on your methods. Some of us would benefit from rounding out our knowledge on things that we're weaker on. Systems can be really important for that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/06/16 11:53 PM
1	Sydney man who "degraded" female Tinder user on Facebook faces three years behind bars, WTF??? Although the topic in the OP concerns Australia, the comment above mine brought up how this case might pan out the American legal system, which is why I referenced the first amendment.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/16 02:43 PM
8	Sydney man who "degraded" female Tinder user on Facebook faces three years behind bars, WTF??? You are correct. From a legal point of view, there are limits in the first amendment. IANAL, but off the top of my head there are a few main limits: -Clear and present danger: Can't yell fire in a movie theater and call it free speech because it presents a clear and present danger to people trampling each other. Not protected speech. -True threats: Saying "I will kill you for that!" is not protected by 1st amendment. You can't threaten people because even if you don't follow through, lots of peo…	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/16 07:59 PM
2	Look at men’s bodies, notice how disgusting most of them are. Stand up. Look down at your thumbs. Bring your shoulders back so that your thumbs are pointing straight ahead, and not at each other. That's how far back they should go.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/16 07:14 PM
6	Masculine Needs Form a Hierarchy. Design Your Life Accordingly. It can be just as satisfying, if not more so. When you quit an addictive game or pursuit (gambling, shopping, LoL, WoW, reddit, phone games, etc) and do life, then it feels like you're starting over. Do you want to go from level 60 to level 10? The rewards you get from your investment in gaming are so much more than the rewards you get from life when you've put so much more into gaming than life. The solution is to find a system that works for you that will allow you to use willpower as little a…	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/16 07:11 PM
2	Senate: Women must register for the draft Men can be tortured and raped. Rape of men has been used in war from advanced nations (Abu Gharib) to less developed ones (D.R. Congo). But people don't care about that as much.	/r/MensRights	16/06/16 07:58 PM
4	I just left my wife in another city because she couldn't stop verbally abusing me Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize None of them ever win arguments, and they often make them madder. No matter how much explaining you do, you haven't internalized that they just don't care. Change her mood, not her mind. You "required a reversal of her position". This means you care about her position. How would you behave if you knew that she didn't care about the content of her abusive words, but did care about the reaction they got? How would you act if she didn't care what you thought about …	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/06/16 06:30 PM
2	Current state of my relationship OP, you spent half a paragraph describing how you think she's using unreliable anecdotal sources of information to make choices about birth control that affect both of you. To build on the above poster, if you've done a bit of research and it runs counter to what she's read on her own corner of the internet, then make sure to avoid trying to persuade her yourself with your own research. It won't work and she'll just feel invalidated. Instead, emphasize the doubt that comes with anecdotal interne…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/06/16 05:35 PM
2	Current state of my relationship Absolutely agreed. Especially for folks new to the process, there is a lot that can go wrong with trying to verbally handle situations in which you're being disrespected. Too easy to say the wrong thing, which is why we advocate STFU. Removing yourself from the situation shows that because she is breaking the rules of engagement, you won't engage. It's just as effective, often more so, than saying the perfect thing. OP, you've already said "watch your tone" or asked her to respect you. Has she e…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/06/16 05:11 PM
1	Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it. [BTW if you're pro-life this argument wouldn't even get to this point. This is assuming a pro-choice viewpoint] Of course it's not a valid argument. Something being easy doesn't make it right. In fact it's often the wrong thing to do. It's the only justification I could think of. Attempts to assuage the female poster of her guilt used legal arguments (ex: you don't have to tell him) in the place of ethical arguments. Ethically, she really should tell him before she does what she wants, and he sh…	/r/MensRights	14/06/16 02:39 PM
3	Just got banned from /r/relationships for saying a man deserves to know about his child before the woman straight up aborted it. Legally, she doesn't have to tell him. If he is opposed to it, he will have no legal grounds to stand on. If he is informed and he is against it, he will watch helplessly as she terminates. This could cost her the relationship and all she gets out of it. Maybe he doesn't watch helplessly, and impedes her access by threatening to cut her off financially, hold their relationship hostage ("I'll break up if you do this") or hold their social lives hostage ("I'll tell everyone that you killed our chi…	/r/MensRights	14/06/16 02:19 PM
4	So what happens if women get to be in combat but don't have to sign up for selective service? no state shall "deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws." -from the 14th amendment. It just takes one lawsuit.	/r/MensRights	04/06/16 02:58 AM
2	Man gets his child taken away due to Utah laws and tumblerina accusses him of throwing a "public tantrum" of it. Following the Tumblrina's logic would also lead to disenfranchisement of adoptive parents. All they did was just "sign the papers", but the bio mom put up with conception and birth! Who are adoptive parents to say they own the child? The bio mom should always be free to change her mind. /s It's ridiculous. Once the cord is cut, both biological parents should be presumptive caregivers of the child. Incubating a child for 9 months is necessary because one of the sexes has to do it but that should …	/r/MensRights	04/06/16 02:48 AM
18	Want to know what goes on in an Alpha Widow's head? Here is the letter my ex-wife wrote to her affair partner right before I found out.... Personally I think she's just a drama queen. She admits to it and the sheer length and shitty writing of this stupid thing really adds to the case.	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/16 02:40 AM
1	Red Flags: How to Judge your potential LTR Work hard, and look into PCA's (personal care assistants). Sometimes can be paid for if she has a disability or is on medicaid, or decent health insurance. You might not have to be there in person and sometimes these services don't cost an arm and a leg.	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/16 11:40 PM
31	Beta guy changes his best friends tampon, literally. Chicks bleed through all the damn time, especially if they were too drunk to notice. They wash their clothes and are done with it. They're WAY more comfortable with that than with a guy cleaning and pampering their nethers while they're unconscious.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/16 02:56 AM
1	FR: “I’m nervous. You seem to be going through some sort of phase.” She'll only be submissive for/with someone/you who has established dominance over her - gained her respect. OP, how do you know that she hasn't been more confident with other people when you haven't seen her? Maybe she's only doing it in front of you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/03/16 10:24 AM
19	From Having To Deal With So Many Women In My Line Of Work I Now Can't Fucking Stand Them At All "Speaketh plainly what thy heart desires, my love, and I shall endeavor with greatest haste to act upon it! How can I know with what thou shouldst find favor if thou art loathe to communicate? Where art thou going? I am still having words and I shall not be--Have a care for the safety of the door, at least!"	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/16 01:16 AM
1	Women giving up sex is like a bank giving up a loan The meaning isn't lost. Jews still have the Torah in its original hebrew. It's only through translation that the meaning is lost.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/16 01:08 AM
3	A RPs guide to Colombia /u/retiredtimeho I would listen to the local^ over OP in this case.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/16 04:20 PM
1	LTR Learnings - Part 3 - Emotional Support “Women don't want to hear what you think. Women want to hear what they think - in a deeper voice.” ― Bill Cosby	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/16 03:57 PM
1	This One Did Not Survive the Pill Don't give in too easily. If you did add value, maybe you didn't add enough. Let's say you have a silk shirt that you love, but for the first few years you put it in the washing machine with hot water and heavy towels that beat it up and aged it. Then you found out that you were ruining your nice shirt. You stopped washing it with the towels and started patching it up. Then you started hand-washing it with cold water, and feel like you've learned to take better care of your shirt. However, it's …	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/02/16 05:02 PM
1	Crosspost from TRP.....the saddest betas ever. They make the deadbedrooms crew look strong I'm not going to make a comment on the prevalence of the two kinds, the "searching for a new husband" cheaters or the "wants to fill a void" cheaters. One might be more common than the other and I have no idea which one is which. But isn't the reason why we have the term "Chad" is to highlight the kind of guy who women cheat with when they try to fill a void? The guy who is not husband material, who is just weirdly attractive to her in some way that her husband wasn't filling. Bartenders, musici…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/02/16 04:38 PM
2	PSA: Fuck you, hyperlordosis. You're referring to the posterior pelvic tilt, the "humping" movement. Anterior pelvic tilt is to stick your butt out there. Excessive, constant anterior pelvic tilt is what OP is referring to.	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/02/16 06:50 PM
1	Women, their Nature, and the Effects of Being Her Oak She's repeating things I told her we needed to do...as if they were her ideas. And you repeat her emotions back to her as a form of validation. You don't have to open up about yourself. You have to say that anyone would feel this way, and it's understandable. Thus, she gets her emotional validation, and you get her coming around to actionable items. Complementary.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/02/16 05:38 PM
2	Tune-up Tuesday: What is your #1 issue you need help with the most? Your body processes sunlight through your eyes and skin. The skin metabolism of Vitamin D is usually more bioavailable than the dietary kind that you would get through fish, organ meats, milk, or artificially fortified foods. The eye metabolism of sunlight isn't really metabolism per se, but your body does understand how much light you are getting throughout the day, and the light you see helps regulate the pineal gland, and hormonal secretion. Less light at night signals your pineal gland to se…	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/16 02:38 PM
7	Ronda Rousey admits to having suicidal thoughts, but then looked to her man and thought "I need to have his babies. I need to stay alive." You just can't make up how true TRP is Yeah but she lost to a woman. That's the thing about women's fighters, every time a woman loses, another woman wins. Why is it that everyone is talking about Ronda losing and nobody's paying attention to Holly's victory and now-championship?	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/16 02:24 PM
12	It's a deadbedrooms post referenced in askmen, but it's exactly what we talk about here. One of his follow-up comments is also dripping of RP truths: Now I'm older and have more experience, I now know that all relationships ARE like that if you let them be like that. Of the 50+ women I have dated since the break up, my subconscious tells me that women are completely happily capable of that level of toxicity if you let it. Simply as I have seen them treat others in similar fashions. AWALT: All women CAN be like that if you LET THEM. Controlling yourself is the first step towards find…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/02/16 03:50 PM
2	Does this apply to homosexual relationships? For a good statistician, you would actually ignore the outliers in your data collection. If you're trying to analyze how a population of 10,000 people earn money and how much they earn, and one of those people is Bill Gates, including him in your calculations would screw up everything. Cutting him out of the calculations creates a much truer picture of the population.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/02/16 03:31 PM
8	While drunk, my old oneitis basically admitted she misses when I was her little beta bitch. Hey, you don't have to agree with everything you see here. A lot of this sub has an incoherent message to it. It's like you're trying to learn how to be a doctor by going to a conference for doctors, and they also let in naturopaths and chiropractors too. Meanwhile, the sidebar tools are good "medical schools" for getting straightforward theory behind what we say. Anyway, I'd like to ask you a few questions. A good friendship is mutual, where people enjoy each other's company and help each other…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/16 03:26 PM
2	"Squeeze your Glutes" or "How not to get hurt as a fat lazy fuck new to lifting" http://breakingmuscle.com/strength-conditioning/4-simple-exercises-to-get-your-glutes-fired-up This is a good introduction to gluteal amnesia, common in a sedentary lifestyle even with occasional trips to the gym.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/16 07:19 AM
1	Feminist Hamster: Leonardo DiCaprio will end up "miserable and alone" Look at obesity trends. Younger guys are probably just adapting to the times. The 2/10's of yesteryear are probably 6/10's today because the fatties keep getting fatter, and it becomes whatever a guy can pull.	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/16 05:59 AM
10	NJ Dads May No Longer Be Able to Be in the Delivery Room to Witness Their Child's Birth. Awwww, and they say we in TRP have no hearts.	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/16 02:38 AM
1	2.5 million men 'have no close friends'; Lets Brainstorm How to Make Friends post-College I as well youtube searched it and couldn't find anything. Could anyone provide the link?	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 03:33 PM
5	5 things you can do to improve immediately. I'm not OP, but when you start to meditate more often you get better at frequently recognizing what it is you're thinking. You start to see that when you get scared of opportunity or failure, or disappointed in yourself that you're having an automatic negative thought. "Ah, there I go again, judging myself. I don't have to do that right now. What's right in front of me?" Imagine if you didn't cut yourself off from thinking. Past, future, judgement, rumination, blah blah blah. Your voice in your …	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 04:52 AM
-1	Just got thrown out of a feminist restaurant Depends on the setting. Like you said, you were in the city's center for feminists and the politically correct locals. I do have a problem imagining a scenario that you describe occurring in modern day America. However, it could happen in a far, far right-wing country ruled by religion, such as Saudi Arabia or Iran, which still hold conservative public sexual morals in high esteem.	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/16 05:37 AM
5	Response to AskMRP: 17-year Oneitis Marriage; You Can't Fix your Marriage... You Can Only Fix You Women can act either turned on or nurturing, but not at the same time. When they act turned on, it meant that everything is good in the world, there is plenty of food, plenty of safety, and that she sees a member of the tribe who she feels attracted to because of his good genes. If he makes her feel safe, that's a plus, but not a necessity for a short-term mating strategy. Women see enthusiastic sex opportunistically, when the stars align. They perform duty sex as little as possible to keep the …	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/02/16 05:32 AM
7	Just got thrown out of a feminist restaurant You're angry and worked up right now so you're thinking that you want to "get even" somehow. Don't make an emotional decision. You do want to be better than that, don't you? You've already emailed the owner. If you're in a real screwy "that'll-show-'em" mood, then leave a snippy Yelp review if it helps you cope. Personally I would recommend not going that route, but if you still have a lot of anger within you then go to the gym and hit a punching bag. When you've become more rational you'll see …	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/16 05:08 AM
2	Intel Finds No Pay Gap Between Men and Women - Uses REAL Statistics The wage gap theory has a lot of problems with it, but this study proves nothing. If you're trying to disprove the idea that "as a nation of workers, women receive less money for the same job as men", and you reply with "yeah but it's not a problem at one company called Intel", that does not disprove the first point! Again, I'm not a fan of the wage gap idea but I think lots of other resources debunk it better than a SINGLE COMPANY'S REPORT. It's a shame to see such a lack of critical thinking o…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/16 04:49 AM
19	AWALT: Nigerian girl saved from Boko Haram still misses the time she had with her militant husband Absolutely! To everyone (including OP) who simply cannot understand why women do this, read this and Rollo Tomassi's "War Brides". Every female ancestor of the women alive today was likely a team-switcher who would rather be raped than killed. It makes perfect sense to a woman, and I don't fault them for that. It's in their nature. Men don't get the same choice because we don't have a vagina.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/16 03:31 PM
1	A friend of mine is getting married and he's taking her name. Picking a new family name cuts you off from prior generations in a genealogical sense. You'll always have to explain yourself when the topic comes up, like in family history. It's a lot easier for the government or doctors to make mistakes when you don't share surnames with people. Hyphenated names cut you off from the future because they only last one generation and presume the next generation will figure it out for themselves when they get to the same point in their lives. What happens when Ja…	/r/TheRedPill	03/02/16 02:25 PM
1	Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes. I believe that murder is wrong, by that logic does that make me a Catholic?	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/16 12:48 AM
1	Women Do Not Want Equality Your marriage is only scrutinized if you're seen as trying to cheat the government somehow. NOT by filing jointly. If you're a man married to your best male friend, they can't test to see if you're "really" gay any more than they can test to see if a sexless straight marriage is "really" straight. There are two exceptions where the government does have a vested interest in seeing if you really "mean it" when you marry someone: -Military marriages: When you're getting money and benefits from the …	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/16 07:37 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - January 26, 2016 Sounds like you've started to own your shit and are on a good path. Good work, man. I wanted to share a few strategies that I thought of when I was reading your post. I'm assuming that you're telecommuting. How often are you on the phone? If you don't talk a lot but still do a lot of virtual work, then maybe look up a library or coffee shop in your area. It depends on whether you like some background noise when you work or prefer quiet. Naturally you can't talk in the library but (surprise) you …	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/01/16 02:25 PM
1	I want the brutal honest truth about a vasectomy For younger women, they can "heal" past a tubal ligation. It's just not as effective as when they're older.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/16 03:12 AM
7	Go Full Patriarch I also know that the majority of the men here sprinkle TRP on top of their Bloopy Feminist relationships instead of going full Patriarch. God dammit you have me and a lot of us pegged (no pun intended).	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/16 04:48 PM
1	Time to fill up the calendar. Has anyone made a list of suggested possible activities men can do outside of home? Let's do one here! These are all best with a goal in mind, rather than just "a nice skill to have." Take some of the examples listed above. If you were to learn languages, it would be a good idea to pick a language of a place you'd like to travel to. Why do you want to go to that place? Could you reasonably allocate your money and save up for a trip to go there? Could you do so within 1-2 years? If so, start making definite plans as soon as you can. Butchering is a good skill to have if you want to show off how mu…	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/01/16 03:19 PM
2	[FR] "You're trying to have sex with other women" Depending on your insurance you may need to see an MD before you see a physical therapist about your neck pain. There's a lot that PT can do, and if it came on suddenly 10 days ago then you may have a positional fault or a muscle spasm. They're usually fixed up in a few appointments. I am not a doctor, just a student of PT. Thanks for the FR.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/12/15 10:34 PM
1	The wife tells me I always do something else when sex doesn't happen. What to do? I think you're on to something. Just look at her complaint. "You always go and do something else when I say no to sex." Yes, as opposed to doing what? Staying around and complaining? Wouldn't you hate that? I think she's just shit-testing you to see if you'll resume old patterns of whining or DEER-ing her or trying to talk her into it. Or maybe she wants to see if you'll spend time with her and validate her and shit without her having sex with you, basically entering her frame. If you say no to …	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/12/15 08:02 PM
20	Man's wife's been urging him to reverse his vasectomy. Why? She cheated, got pregnant, and wants an alibi. France has an extensive welfare, healthcare and social support system. It's not about whether you want the child or not. It's about keeping as many people as possible off of government support while still maintaining the welfare state for those who they think need it more. If paternity tests were allowed, lots of fathers would walk out of their families, leaving single moms to ask the government for support. That's why they're banned, "to preserve the peace of French families" is only an excuse.…	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/15 01:52 PM
1	When women black-knight you: Institutional power and gender through the gravitational lensing of this obese woman in purple. I would add friends as well. Nothing wrong with having a few guy friends to shoot the shit with and go fishing.	/r/TheRedPill	26/10/15 03:40 PM
1	Why living in a "red pill" country is bad. Does it ever happen to you to instantly realize that you're alive? And how absurd the whole concept is, it literally feels like I have awaken, and that I must go back to the previous state. This is triggered by staring at my hands and realizing that I'm human, alive, along with other humans, it just feels like a fucking joke, this state gets stuck with me for about 2 days then I'm back to normal. Any pointers at what may be happening is appreciated. I get that too, sometimes, and it also happens…	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 03:45 PM
7	Kaley Cuoco's Husband Files For Alimony - women collectively lose their shit What will happen when lesbians start getting divorced now that gay marriage has become legal nationwide?	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 03:12 PM
0	Little trick for weight loss, hydration and health - plenty of tea and no sugar Several strategies you could use. Pre/post workout: Chocolate milk is great on days you workout to give you energy for performance or replenish muscle glycogen after a workout. Recognizing what chocolate milk does for you: Maybe it's not the sugar, maybe it's the chocolate. Theobromine is a chemical in chocolate that boosts energy, well-being, and cognition in a way similar to caffeine or serotonin. Maybe try to mix cacao powder in milk and see how you feel afterwards. It could be that without t…	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 02:03 PM
1	Guy who rescued a deadbedroom after stumbling onto RP tactics is now angry and getting propositioned by hot young women 2000 years ago Catullus wrote a poem expressing the idea that women are fickle and only say what they feel in the moment. (Catullus 70). dicit: sed mulier cupido quod dicit amanti in vento et rapida scribere oportet aqua. she says: but what a woman says to her passionate lover, she ought to write on the wind and swift-flowing water.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/10/15 09:05 PM
1	Discovered an anti-Red Pill Sub and had to post Another good example would be mallard ducks. They mostly look the same in terms of body shape but the male is brightly colored to attract attention, while the female is colored with dull browns to camouflage itself and avoid predators. Gorillas and lions exhibit sexual dimorphism, with the male looking different from the female, usually larger mass, greater musculature. Compared to gorillas, chimps, orangutans and other primates, I would second that humans aren't that different. Sure, men are us…	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/10/15 08:07 PM
3	Today's relationships sub digest Excellent work! I think this might work for FB too.	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/15 04:55 PM
1	Literally started reading MRP two days ago and had to post this (my first post)... Good point. I think a lot of the flack that "choreplay" gets is from the implications of choreplay. If men do choreplay simply to earn sex from their wives, then it sends an implicit message: the husband is doing his wife a favor because the chores are her responsibility. She doesn't want that responsibility, or at least not all of it. It's not that she never wants to do dishes, just that when you do dishes for sex, you're sending her the message that "while this is normally YOUR JOB, I'm doing …	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/10/15 08:36 PM
2	Literally started reading MRP two days ago and had to post this (my first post)... The bit about getting energy because she rejects you is really spot on and insightful. I haven't read much Athol Kay, but did this idea come from him? I think his second book talked about viewing human interaction as exchanges of positive and negative energy and how that model can really help visualize behavioral adjustments and understand why people do what they do.	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/10/15 04:14 PM
1	Literally started reading MRP two days ago and had to post this (my first post)... You do have a point, and I think it's really hard to reconcile the two sides of housework. On the one hand, if you do too little housework then she feels overwhelmed, like she "has to do everything," like she doesn't have any help, and that she has no energy. This is a classic case of useless husband. On the other hand, you're saying that if you're TOO effective, then she won't have enough work to keep her validated in her role and her worth, that she's not contributing anything, or that the kid…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/10/15 04:10 PM
1	I used to hate PMS I've got a nutribullet but I usually do a similar breakfasty smoothie recipe each time: baby kale, apple, something sweet and frozen like mixed berries, peaches, or mango, protein or flax powder, and lactose-free milk. Average one smoothie a week or less, though. She likes it sweet but not too sweet. Me, I'll drink anything and am fine with bitter/sour green veggie shakes. Got any good recipes you wouldn't mind sharing?	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/10/15 05:13 PM
4	Let a woman's honest perspective destroy your Blue Pill Fantasies Close, the 300 who were all lovers were the Sacred Band of Thebes who were never defeated except by Philip of Macedon (Alexander the Great's dad), while the 300 who defended Thermopylae against the persians were a band of 300 Spartans, number is same but different group of people.	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/15 12:10 PM
3	[FR] Turned down affair with co-worker. Still not sure if it was a good or bad idea. Never, ever cheat. There is no happy ending. If your marriage ends in separation, divorce, death (hopefully not) then it ends. But what's the "best case scenario" of cheating? You and your wife are both 80 years old and she's never found out and she's looking at you with love in her eyes, and in the back of your mind you think "I betrayed you." That's the best you can hope for, to say the least of she inevitably finding out anyway and the whole thing destroying your marriage. You're at a plateau…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/08/15 01:51 AM
1	Every unhappy wife is a rape victim TRP endorses feminism and everything comes full circle.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/15 09:51 PM
3	[Rant/Vent]Found Redpill 4 months ago and I think it nuked my marriage... Don't close on the house. There will be others if you still want to buy a house but take some time when you can to think about your future.	/r/TheRedPill	27/04/15 03:28 PM
14	/r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomes Both of you folks bring up excellent points on the same issue. I feel that this is an issue of the husband feeling like he missed out. She feels like she experimented in those days, and although she may or may not have (probably did) enjoy it, she regrets it now. She probably loves her life with her husband and doesn't want it to fade. He, however, probably has a different viewpoint. He may not have had promiscuous lays, or as many, or of a lower quality than she did. He feels like she's privile…	/r/TheRedPill	21/03/15 06:44 PM
3	You are nothing but the sum of your useful skills. This is something that is involved in growing up. When you are a child, you are loved just for existing. You are a defenseless, innocent baby and your parents give you food, resources, time, just for existing. This makes us think that we have inherent value. We get less of it as we grow older and learn to fend for ourselves. Part of growing up is realizing that we are never going to have that experience again of being loved unconditionally just for who we are, with all of our selfish actions for…	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/15 01:41 PM
1	My married red pill success In my experience, there's absolutely nothing wrong with saying the same thing but with different words. I rarely use RP terminology--I'll use "desperate" instead of Beta, "strong/successful/sexy" instead of Alpha, and I found that the terms Orbiter and The Wall translate quite well to her. She's very empathetic and socially-aware, and all I'm doing is demonstrating increased understanding of social dynamics. If you use all the terms at once and say that it comes from a system of beliefs called R…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/03/15 09:55 PM
1	TRP needs to be propagated. I have lost my third friend to suicide. The only thing I think we should improve on is the idea of men being the stoic rock... What if you changed one letter of that? What if it was, "we should improve on the idea of MAN being the stoic rock." A lone man is weaker than we'd like to think. Together, MEN are strong. A phalanx, a company, a squad, a team. Together we are stronger than individuals. Cooperation is a source of strength in addition to competition.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/15 09:13 PM
3	Quick-and-dirty tips and tricks for aspiring alphas Most people aren't going to get a therapist so there is absolutely nothing wrong in talking with your girl. Just don't be a whiny bitch. You're quite right in that this is possible in the context of an LTR/Marriage. Let's say that you're having trouble in your life somehow, school/work, professional, personal, etc. This isn't everyday frustrations, this is something that actually affects your functioning and will be noticed either way. One thing I've learned is that it's best to come to your gir…	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/15 03:05 PM
16	Estrogenic BP Male is "fired" has character defamed with false accusations, bursts into tears and subsequently runs into the arms of wife sobbing and wondering what he should do. not sure of /u/theproudbanana's country, but another foreign example which comes to mind is this one from Sweden: Lunch lady does too good of a job, told to stop it This lunch lady made an effort to use fresh ingredients, delicious flavors and innovative cooking styles to improve nutrition, taste, and maybe save money. Her bosses told her that doing so would be unfair to kids in other public schools who only receive standard food. Instead of upping the game of other public schools, they told her…	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/15 10:27 PM
1	FOUNDATIONS OF STRENGTH 7 - Stand-for-ism, a new approach to optimism This is true. Showing off what you know, being the king of minutiae, is no way to make people like you, do what you say, or give you good feels. Even if you demonstrated how smart you are, nobody wants to spend time on that level. Instead, if you project a confident affect and are empathetic enough to use words and patterns of diction that people are likely to respond to and it feels congruous with you, then you can get a much better result compared to if you said virtually the same thing with n…	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/15 09:57 PM
4	Don't be a slave It sounds more like Trainspotting, but the themes are similar.	/r/TheRedPill	18/02/15 04:57 AM
3	I am truly fascinated by a females natural ability to create an assemblage of orbiters, betas and alphas to tend to her different "needs". Reminds me of this, "But If We Started Dating It Would Ruin Our Friendship Where I Ask You To Do Things And You Do Them"	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/15 04:49 PM
5	"just do what you want, I'm sure you will anyways." Is there a more appropriate way to go about this than just manning the fuck up, disregarding her feelings, and teaching her that i will not be manipulated and just do whatever the fuck i want? That IS the most appropriate response. She's being passive-aggressive. You are saying assertive things but she's wondering, can you follow through and make it happen? If you can follow through against her, then you can follow through with her. If you can stand up to her, then you'll stand up for her. This …	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/01/15 07:03 PM