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Inspiration is just a positive form of manipulation. Manipulation isn't necessarily bad if your goals are good and you aren't harming anyone.
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:21 PM
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"If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea." It's a very basic concept in man-management. If you want someone to do a menial task you have to frame it as part of a grander goal that they themselves (the employee) also wants. He is framing the request as a way of helping protect children's safety and protecting the business from huge lawsuits, which are big important go…
/r/seduction13/07/19 03:17 PM
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Just because he talks about politics doesn't mean politics is what motivates him. If that's your logic then you shouldn't read any book by any author who has expressed a political opinion. He's a clinical psychologist with what appears like a sincere desire to use his expertise to help people. He happened to get famous due to expressing a political opinion, but that's more due to the hyper-politicised times we're in, not because he himself is hyper-political. I love a bit of King Crimson. Have a…
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:11 PM
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Most people can't afford a licensed therapist though. You get into negative mental states usually by getting stuck in unhealthy feedback loops, and the problem snowballs from there. That same concept of momentum and feedback loops is also what gets you out of those negative mental states. Advice like clean your room is meant to be the first step of getting the ball rolling in a positive direction. It might seem trivial but momentum is key to achieving anything and it has to start somewhere. And …
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:15 PM
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The best clubs are ones where you're kinda expected to be on some drugs. It sounds bad but it allows people to let go more and have genuine fun. Regular nightclubs are just boring and feel kinda fake.
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:15 PM
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Why is this comment downvoted?
/r/seduction04/11/18 04:29 PM
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It amazes me that this even has to be said. If a fat girl walks up to me there's nothing she can say or do that is gonna make me suddenly attracted to her. I'm just not into fat girls. I can only imagine girls are no different in their preferences.
/r/seduction20/09/18 02:44 AM
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Most boyfriend's of attractive girls I know don't have abs or loads of muscle. Not saying it doesn't help, but it definitely isn't a necessity. What they all have is a good social life, are reasonably fit and have some level of charisma.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:31 PM
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Most boyfriend's of attractive girls I know don't have abs or loads of muscle. Not saying it doesn't help, but it definitely isn't a necessity. What they all have is a good social life, are reasonably fit and have some level of charisma.
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:30 PM
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As well as the word association thing I'd recommend learning about 'active listening'. This is where I struggle due to anxiety. I'm too busy worrying about how I'm coming across or how quickly I'm responding that I find myself not properly listening to the other person. Don't be the person who is just waiting for their turn to talk, you need to be 100% attentive to what the person is saying. Don't fret if there's a couple of seconds of silence after they've said something. It's better to use tha…
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:53 AM
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Do you have anxiety when trying to small talk? Because I do and it can make your mind go blank and you just sort of freeze. The more you small talk the less anxious you'll feel doing it and the less likely you are to freeze like that. Although I get what you're saying. You'll get the best results by not just practicing, but by also analysing each time you have an interaction. So a girl tells you her job and then you don't know what to say in reply. You could repeat that scenario a million times …
/r/seduction07/09/18 11:17 AM
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This sounds a lot like me. I just never learned how to make small talk, and because I never learned it's always an awkward affair when I try. So now I just don't enjoy talking to strangers and have very little interest in doing so, even though I know I should. In general, I tend to avoid things that make me uncomfortable. The problem is that this results in your comfort zone shrinking and shrinking over time.
/r/seduction07/09/18 03:46 AM
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The fact that you're even attempting to apply Occam's razor here tells me you're the one overthinking this. The guy said he doesn't talk to some girls because he doesn't just want to be another guy. That is a ridiculous reason not to talk to a girl you're interested in.
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:43 PM
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If he just wanted to stand out then he'd say he spoke to them in a way to catch their attention or stand out. That's not what he said. He said he won't even talk to them because he doesn't want to just be another guy. That's not him competing for their attention, that's him wanting their complete and full attention from the start.
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:31 PM
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In what way is what I said mental gymnastics?
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:10 PM
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Well he wants to be the only guy the girl talks to. No matter how you look at it that's an unreasonable thing to expect.
/r/seduction29/08/18 04:10 AM
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cause I don’t want to just be another guy Literally why? You're being possessive over girls you've literally never even spoke to.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:49 AM
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This is true of outgoing extroverted girls. But there's plenty of high quality introverted girls that resort to tinder because they're rarely in situations to meet guys.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:48 AM
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I think not knowing the music is a big one for me. Especially in clubs because club music is just so far from what I'd normally listen to. It often seems like everyone knows the songs and lyrics while I've never even heard 99% of what gets played, which obviously makes dancing to the beat harder.
/r/seduction31/07/18 06:19 PM
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Got any tips on the actual dancing part? My dancing usually consists of being too self-conscious to do anything or being so fucked up I no longer give a shit and do some spazzy flailing.
/r/seduction31/07/18 01:25 PM
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Yep, this right here. I'm home from university at the moment in a packed house; not really ideal for bringing girls back. And girls in my age range are virtually always living at home as well.
/r/seduction28/07/18 12:05 PM
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Haha yes. Great guys, but nobody ruins the mood quite like em
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:07 AM
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Liverpool atm, but going back to Leeds for uni in September
/r/seduction21/07/18 11:04 AM
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find 1 solid guy that likes to approach girls How would I even do this? Wish there was a dating app for wingmen looking for wingmen...
/r/seduction21/07/18 02:32 AM
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To be fair I've never actually tried this, I just imagine it wouldn't work. The few times I've seen guys by their self trying to join in with groups they've always come across as creepy/cringey/desperate. But I suppose that could be down to poor execution rather than an inherently flawed tactic.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:30 AM
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This is pretty much the closest I've gotten to success before is when I either lose my friend/friends or they go the toilet or something and I just approach girls by myself. The "I've lost my mates, can I hang out with you lot for a bit" is a half decent ice breaker.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:27 AM
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Nah, UK. The thing is, because going out by yourself here would be very strange any other guys are already going to be in a group.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:24 AM
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Maybe it's a cultural thing, but going to a club by your self would be considered very strange here.
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:10 PM
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That seems incredibly manipulative.
/r/seduction27/05/18 11:02 PM
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I don't really see a problem here. You don't need to constantly be pursuing sex from girls. If you can't be arsed pursuing these girls then don't.
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:28 PM
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The thing is the more attractive you are the more pressure you feel to be attractive and hide your flaws. Everyone has insecurities and no one is perfect.
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:25 PM
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I swear this subreddit can feel more like a philosophy sub at times. Some seriously good life advice here that goes far beyond just seduction.
/r/seduction27/04/18 05:04 AM
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You're worried about being seen as one of the guys who grabs asses randomly and doesn't take no for an answer? So don't grab asses and respect when they're clearly not interested.
/r/seduction26/03/18 04:01 PM
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but it's not needed at all to get women Where exactly did I say this? I said it would help, which it obviously would.
/r/seduction19/03/18 10:41 PM
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Doing these things will improve every facet of your life. Everyone should be doing them regardless of whether they're trying to be successful with women (although it will also help in that arena).
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:53 PM
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That's because these things are super important. They need to be drilled in, and practiced every day. If you already do all of these things then just move onto the next reddit post. But I suspect virtually no one here does employ all these things, so it's helpful to be reminded.
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:25 PM
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A few more I would add: Go to a hair stylist and get a quality haircut that suits your face shape. This is the one thing other than gaining or losing a lot of weight that will change your appearance the most. Get a tan if you're very pale. You don't have to be bronzed, but just having a little colour can make you look a lot more attractive. Bonus points if you've got light coloured eyes. Always wear just a little cologne. People notice, and people like it (as long as you're not dousing yourself …
/r/seduction19/03/18 05:18 PM
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Please elaborate on how what the OP said translates to a lack of dignity. Being unapologetic =/= undignified.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:10 PM
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some really rude girl was like ''You don't even know me! Fuck off!!'' Some girls are just like that. She would have said that no matter what your opener was.
/r/seduction27/02/18 03:05 PM
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Yeah I never understood why people think the gym's a good place to meet the opposite sex. Everyone's sweaty, gross and probably wearing earphones. It's just about the worst place to meet people imo
/r/seduction23/02/18 05:18 PM
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You consider socially awkward friends to be toxic? Also I fail to see how that story in any way relates to game or seduction. It's just evidence that you're probably physically attractive.
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:03 PM
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This and the implication are my most effective seduction techniques.
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:25 PM
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Great advice. Think my problem is almost definitely due to poor listening ability now that I think about it.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:33 PM
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Are you physically attractive? You don't have to be a 10, but it's still pretty pertinent info when figuring out why you're struggling
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:22 AM
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Are you retarded, drunk, or both?
/r/seduction04/05/17 04:59 PM
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FYI: kinder = brand of chocolate, kinda = kind of.
/r/seduction04/05/17 04:56 PM
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Most guys here are young and healthy, so I doubt they're concerned about prostate cancer.
/r/seduction04/05/17 04:51 PM
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Am I the only one here who simply doesn't believe in the friendzone? If a girl likes your personality and is attracted to you, you won't get friendzoned by her; there will always be the possibility of developing a sexual relationship. If she's not initially attracted to you, and you need to win her over with your personality/game/whatever, then there's no magical deadline to this.
/r/seduction04/05/17 04:31 PM
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Yeah, I'm not talking behaviourally either. There's obviously exceptions, but a lot usually happens between 17 and 26 that mentally changes a person. But physically, if a 17 year old girl walks up to you there's a good chance you'll think she's early 20s.
/r/seduction19/04/17 02:10 AM
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Are you talking about behaviourally or physically? And I'm 19 and regularly see people aged around 15-23
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:58 PM
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100%. There's a good chance the relationship goes bad at some point and if she's vindictive the guy is fucked.
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:53 PM
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You often can't tell the difference between a 17 year old and someone in their 20s. Just saying.
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:51 PM
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Asking for someone to call the police isn't attempting to destroy someones life. The same way asking someone to hand you a knife doesn't constitute stabbing someone, or even attempting to stab someone.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 04:53 PM
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This. I get that people are angry at this woman, but do people really want to live in a world where words are punished as severely as actions? I sure as fuck wouldn't.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 03:45 PM
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You're assuming that if the police had turned up that she would have genuinely pressed charges for rape. Do you actually think she would have? It was so obviously a bluff from an enraged woman with very little control over her emotions.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 03:43 PM
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No, she actually attempted to destroy his life in the video footage Where? She threatened to. Threatening and attempting are not the same thing. Attempting would be if she actually told the police he had raped her and tried to press charges. She didn't, and it seemed pretty clear she was bluffing.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 03:39 PM
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This. People here saying she should get serious jail time for saying she'll commit a crime are fucking retarded.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 03:38 PM
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Go to prison for saying she'll do something, but not actually doing it? That's a bit extreme. Are we giving people life sentences now for saying they're going to kill someone? She was just trying to scare the guy. Same way you would hear someone say "I'm gonna fucking kill you" if they get into a serious argument/fight. The idea that you could go to prison for just SAYING anything is absurd and totally fucked up imo.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 03:34 PM
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This guy says "fuckin'" way too fuckin' much.
/r/seduction04/03/17 05:23 PM
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I'm just as attractive as OP, but 5'11 instead of 5'3. I'm not looking for excuses at all, I'm just pointing out that OP is attractive, so these little experiments will obviously go better for him that less attractive people.
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:03 AM
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Well it takes lots of time and effort to shift the subconscious mind into this way of thinking, but it does happen eventually. Basically fake it 'til you make it.
/r/seduction26/02/17 03:52 PM
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If you HAVE TO have an intent, then think of your intent as just getting more comfortable with social interactions/small talk.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:43 AM
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The absolute most important thing he said for me was "confidence=competence". I am a genuinely very confident person when I'm experienced in a situation and know what to do. My "shyness" comes purely from an insecurity about my social prowess. Then obviously this tells you the only solution is practice and experience.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:22 AM
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Stop seeing confidence/game as something you turn off or on. It should be a way of thinking that is 24/7/365.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:17 AM
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Sorry, I actually like myself and most women.
/r/seduction24/02/17 09:39 AM
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Well it's just true. Sorry fellas.
/r/seduction24/02/17 05:22 AM
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This seems cringey af and you outright got rejected most of the time. All this proves is that you're confident and/or have no shame. Also you're pretty attractive, so this won't mean much to short guys that are also unattractive. I'm not hating, and doing this is definitely better than doing nothing at all. I just don't think it proved anything.
/r/seduction24/02/17 05:07 AM
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Make sure you aren't wearing clothes that hide it, but obviously don't wear skin-tight stuff. Don't have an ugly face. Make sure you don't have resting bitch face, or are in any general way unapproachable. If you do all of that and still don't get attention from women then I don't know what to say.
/r/seduction24/02/17 04:56 AM
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This is a serious problem I have. I have high standards for what is worthy of conversation and generally will opt out of saying anything unless it's interesting, insightful, funny, etc. And considering the vast majority of conversation isn't I end up being far too quiet and hesitant.
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:34 AM
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But most girls don't go immediately to grinding unless they're blind drunk or super slutty. There's usually some actual dancing before it gets that sexual. A lot of people here are saying they never dance, but guys who don't dance in clubs usually look awkward and antisocial in my opinion. Or just overtly predatory.
/r/seduction18/02/17 06:39 AM
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Yeah, this shit ain't no Invisalign, but I get what you're saying. I know future me would be kicking myself if I sat out the next year.
/r/seduction11/02/17 05:45 AM
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drunk bingo
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/16 11:06 PM
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My point is that they weren't trying to "subdue" him, they were trying to kick his ass. I don't blame them, but let's call a spade a spade.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/16 12:37 AM
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How is kicking a grill worse than rear ending said grill?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/16 08:30 PM
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hold him down Yep, they both rushed over flailing their fists in an attempt to "hold him down"
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/16 08:28 PM
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haha that guys a fucking dickhead. Screaming at the security guard when he starts to walk away like he's some tough guy. What does he do when one of his little girly friends gets yanked away and restrained? "c.. can you tell him to let go of her? Please tell him to let go of her." He sure calmed the fuck down then didn't he. God I fucking hate that guy more than anyone else in this video. As soon as actual violence or physicality becomes a possibility he becomes fucking Mahatma Gandhi. Edit: Oh,…
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/16 07:06 PM
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I'm honestly lost as to where we disagree
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/16 04:00 PM
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Just to clarify, I absolutely do not condone people just standing by and watching, I even said I would have stepped in. I absolutely do not condone any woman-on-man assault. Buuuut, all I was pointing out was that there is a reason people jump in to protect women more so than men, other than being a white knight(which is also a big factor). Not that I condone it, simply that I understand it. A man is more dangerous. Drop an angry guy waving his fists around into a crowd of people and they'll sta…
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/16 07:16 AM
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Yes, exactly. I'm just pointing out that there is a reason for that beyond "hurr durr stupid white knights". That guy could have easily defended himself if he wanted to, in the reverse the woman would have been completely helpless. If I was watching that incident occur I like to think I would have intervened. But do you guys actually expect the response from the public to be the same for when a much larger man attacks a small woman than when a tiny woman attacks a larger man? If so, you're just …
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/16 03:13 AM
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err no, far from it. I hate the fact that women can get away with stupid shit like this just because they're women; why do you think I'm subscribed to this sub? But I also don't like a lot of people that swing too far the other way. Men and women are different in terms of physical strength, at least 99%. That's why the "equal rights, equal lefts" sentiment is good for pointing out certain hypocrisies in modern feminism, but maybe shouldn't be put into actual practice. Because they AREN'T equal. …
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/16 06:54 PM
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yeah and after a 5 minute beating by an average man that girl would have been unconscious and possibly dead. That guy didn't have a scratch on him. Assault of any kind is bad, but let's not pretend male-on-female violence isn't usually much more dangerous for the victim.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/16 02:44 PM
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Don't know why you're getting downvoted, he was bullshitting for lots of the video. He was reversing their arguments to highlight how stupid some of them sounded coming from a man. It appears as though a worrying number of people didn't pick up on this.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/15 02:35 AM
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That is one scary looking woman. She looks like a demonic mannequin
/r/PussyPassDenied24/06/15 09:39 PM
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I'm from Liverpool, so fairly certain it's that. But I fucking hope I'm wrong and not sharing a city with these people.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/15 11:58 PM
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Sounds like Liverpool to me
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/15 08:15 PM
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