Tushuguanliyuan996 Archive

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1	Post-Nut Clarity and what it suggests about males This is a shorthand term guys made up, but it's not really an accurate description of the change ejaculation causes in a man's feelings and mental state. A better way of describing the distinction would be that a man beforehand is sort of inflated with sexual feelings and energy, and afterwards he is deflated. Neither mental and hormonal state is really "neutral" or clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 12:46 PM
0	Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce? I’m going to tell my future son to pump n dump girls This isn't necessarily great advice, even if you have no moral qualms about it. Particularly in our modern, interconnected world as well as the current social climate, that shit can and often does come back to haunt you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 09:34 AM
3	Why do women tend to get aggressive at divorce? That's not all there is to it, though. There's something specific that goes on with women when their marriage ends. You know how women will say that they feel confident and beautiful in the 30s and 40s? Yeah well, they're lying, and they see having given precious youth and a relationship that ended to a man as something wasted and stolen (even if she's the one who ends it). A man who took up a woman's youth in a relationship that ultimately ends (especially if he was an ordinary pleb who didn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 08:25 AM
6	What's the difference, in principle and in morals, between pump-and-dump and serial monogamy? The difference is that women talk themselves into being okay with the latter... for a while at least. That's it. Ultimately they don't like either, though. Guys like Russel Brand actually took society at its word that we were living in a fun exciting era of sexual exploration or whatever and then was surprised when decades later half the women he banged got their knives out when they found themselves 30- or 40-something and not married. Many such cases! Thing is, walking soyjak guys who think th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 05:42 AM
2	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? I've gotten the impression that "activist" subs are mildly to extremely hostile to anyone perceived to be opposing or even just distracting from their "mission." People with critical views aren't just that, people with different views, they're "infiltrators" and trolls trying to frustrate and put obstacles in the way of your goals. Are they three-letter glowies? Foreign agents? Operatives from an (((NGO)))? (To be fair, it is of course true that various forces and organisations do seek to influe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 03:13 PM
6	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? You may be missing my point, which isn't about whether censorship does or doesn't always or even mostly successfully repress heretical views. It's more that it's in the nature of ascendant forces to completely uproot their opponents, up and including their opinions. There's no particular good reason for people in power to give their rivals and enemies a voice to harry and criticise them, so they mostly refuse to (accepting that depending on political system, culture, etc. the extent of this repr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 01:30 PM
10	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? The idea that people in power welcome the chance to refute opposition viewpoints is painfully naive. Obviously, there are degrees of this shit, but in practice political and social forces in their ascendancy ruthlessly uproot competing narratives whenever they can, and it's only on the up and downslopes that they claim to welcome criticism, mainly because it's in their interest to be engaged with even in an adversarial way since it gets people exposed to their ideas and way of thinking. This goe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 12:24 PM
3	Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac? And all of those things are also attractive to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 06:04 AM
1	Why is confidence such an aphrodisiac? Confidence hints at power/freedom, which women like for obvious reasons. Truly oppressed and socially low men are often by custom or law basically not allowed to behave in a confident way and learn to keep their head down just to survive, so while it's not a perfect guide, for most of human evolution when you went for the confident guy you were going for a winner or at least a possible winner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 06:03 AM
2	If one group is more desperate than the other in a deal, that increases the chance of injustice happening to the desperate member of the deal. Women are wonderful, also most men don't want to show their hand and admit they aren't Gigachads with massive social and sexual power. The only way most men are willing to even discuss things like the dating market less still the negative side of being a man in society is by starting with a third-person disclaimer to the effect of, yeah there sure are a lot of betas and creepy incels out there now bitching about feminism and other social changes, saying how dating apps supposedly ruining womens'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 06:26 PM
1	You're not forced to be with women who don't want you. I would agree that younger men often do match your description, to the extent that their hormones are pushing them to basically chase everything remotely feminine. While young and attractive women might be the most alluring, the sheer force of the male sex drive at that age (roughly 16-26) is so overwhelming that even older and less attractive women will still receive massive boners and huge loads all of whatever young men have to give them. I'm not so old that I don't remember what this age is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/24 12:10 PM
13	You're not forced to be with women who don't want you. The claim shifts depending on what argument they're making. When the argument is about how fussy men in general are or aren't, they'll say men will date any woman up to 40 lbs. overweight who isn't a ballbusting nutcase unlike women who are all holding out for 6 ft. 6-figure income 6 in. cock Chads. When their ego is on the line, they'll say I have standards and I would never date the crazy fat slags the average beta loser would settle for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 08:12 PM
7	You're not forced to be with women who don't want you. Maybe they want the woman to settle from a position of greater humility and lacking bitterness, but that's unrealistic given how unhappy they themselves are at the idea of settling for fat/party/plain/[insert deficit here] girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:50 PM
9	You're not forced to be with women who don't want you. Seems like some dudes want to distinguish being the settler and the settle-ee, and see the latter as more humiliating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:48 PM
59	You're not forced to be with women who don't want you. Women who are settling are obviously not going to be upfront about it, for obvious reasons. That said, I feel like true feelings and attraction are distinguishable from politeness or feigned interest. The problem is that some men are so lonely that they will be wilfully blind to red flags, or worse (and as harsh as this sounds) having never or not for a long time actually experienced genuine excitement or interest from a woman that they can't recognise its lack. To be fair, women do this too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:46 PM
3	Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent Men That calculus could be different depending on your location and environment. Suppose you are living in St. Louis or New Orleans, let alone Johannesburg or Rio.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:12 PM
0	Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent Men I honestly think more men were likely more willing to deal with difficult women in a pre-MeToo, pre-social media era. Obviously, women could always lie and gossip, make scenes, be crazy and all the rest, but the proverbial panopticon and a more punitive environment generally has made what would already have been an unwise decision that much less palatable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:10 PM
9	Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent Men All authority ultimately rests on violence, so men who are able to wield violence themselves will always enjoy higher status than those who aren't. And why would it be any other way? Why should it? Any man who himself doesn't wield violence is subject to other men who do. This is an absolute rule. B-but why are they attracted to criminals? Criminals are essentially men who challenge the authority and monopoly on power of the State. The murderer defies the State's monopoly on violence; the tax-ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 06:24 PM
0	There's a viral phenomenon on social media (mainly tiktok) of porn bot sites stealing videos of women to pretend to be single lonely older women. What do you think of this trend? Probably because they're insecure about aging, and are projecting? Seems obvious to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 06:08 PM
5	Why do Western Women believe in casual relationships the most? You're at least a decade too late: negative attitudes towards marriage and le trad relationships in practice among both men and women are spreading rapidly, not just in developed non-Western nations like South Korea and Japan but are also becoming a thing in the developing world. The idea that changing sexual and social mores are a Western perversion is rapidly being proven premature. Wrenching economic, social, and technological changes are upending the trad meme practically everywhere at this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 04:06 PM
2	There's a viral phenomenon on social media (mainly tiktok) of porn bot sites stealing videos of women to pretend to be single lonely older women. What do you think of this trend? Obviously. I mean the male fantasy of the more attainable woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 03:34 PM
–	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? The removed comment was not mine, by the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 02:28 PM
1	There's a viral phenomenon on social media (mainly tiktok) of porn bot sites stealing videos of women to pretend to be single lonely older women. What do you think of this trend? They fit the fantasy of the more attainable woman. Same reason for the ads about jOiN fUcKtUbE! yOu WILL hAvE tO bAnG oLd WoMeN wHeNeVeR tHeY aSk Or YoUr AcCoUnT WILL bE cAnCeLlEd!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 02:18 PM
1	Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue? I'm baffled by the amount of time some men spend thinking about this issue. Obviously, yes: on principle, it is unfair that in much of the West and the world, selling is legal but buying is a sex crime. But on the other hand, if you wish to give favours and benefits for the receipt of certain... other favours, this is not something difficult to achieve, and it is perfectly kosher. Just as how savvy lobbyists and businessmen court politicians, you can avoid awkward and potentially legally problem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 02:01 PM
9	Why do some people bend over backwards to find excuses for everything women do? Men (perhaps I have to qualify this by specifying men in Western and developed countries) are undeniably less violent, less aggressive, and both less inclined and less capable of being callous or dangerous to women than ever before, and yet they have never been under more sustained criticism. This is partly because of the law of Revolutions (obviously when the proverbial king or noble accepting for a minute that this isn't a perfect analogy but still, whoever that is in the particular case, is i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 12:00 PM
2	Do men/women actually settle, or are they just unable to come to terms with their actual matches? It's interesting to compare this to the job or (to a lesser extent) housing markets. People settle for all kinds of jobs and sometimes accommodation options they hate, and yet it seems like the very same people can be more loathe to compromise when it comes to finding a partner and see it as somehow more pathetic and dishonourable. I suppose this is because of the perception that accepting employment or a place to live is considered a matter of survival (and yet it usually isn't; it's just that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 05:53 AM
1	Which historical women =did not survive because= they refused to marry anyone? It's a hyperbolic statement and is the feminist counterpart to manosphere claims like men have always been totally disposable or most men were always peons no different than women. It's not quite true, and yet there is an element of truth to it, in the sense that women who refused to marry back then often had rather unappealing alternatives and were at risk of dire poverty, especially if they were poor and/or aging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 05:45 AM
1	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? You do not like women because your testosterone levels are low. It's all a matter of degree. Given that when I was much younger, I would spend hours and hours every day thinking and fantasising (positively) about women and had a strong inherent desire to show affection and favour to women that I don't really anymore, then I suppose you're correct, at least in a relative sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/24 02:37 AM
3	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? Me: I don't care about women as much as I did when I was a teenage boy. You: Why do you hate women? Also, seek medical advice. Touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/24 12:41 AM
1	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? If you cannot contribute in a meaningful way to my life then you are immediately not an option. How romantic :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:31 PM
–	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? But your meme 40 year old 4chan addict guy who jerks off to porn all day is going to be far less able to manipulate or control anyone than his more aggressive, socially adept peer, and probably even better-socialised younger men, which is the point. Your argument that many inexperienced older guys in the world today have probably spent a lot of time consuming unhealthy media and might deserve a hard pass generally is I will admit a reasonable enough one, but it seems somewhat separate from the q…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:22 PM
2	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? I know what you mean, but you overstate your case. On the whole, it is true that older women are more willing to date and marry physically less attractive men both for practical reasons and more generally because their own options are narrowing, and that younger women are generally more fussy. But I think it is the case that for a minority of older men and indeed men of all ages, at least a few younger women may become truly infatuated with them for emotional (i.e., the best) reasons. Older wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:10 PM
3	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? If it was mostly an equality thing or people being worried about abuse or manipulation, people would be less creeped out by inexperienced (shy/diffident, geeky, few/no previous girlfriends) older men seeking younger women than experienced men doing the same, but the opposite is true. For this reason, this argument doesn't make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 06:01 PM
2	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? Older women aren't entirely lying when they pull this one: it is actually the case that older women (and to be fair, a lot of men too) are more calculating and not very romantic in how they deal with the opposite sex. So some older men who are charismatic and attractive but not as "rationally" a good choice (no house, car, high income etc.) can do better with younger women than with women their own age who are looking for the settle down guy. Older women feel like it's genuinely "unfair" that (a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 05:56 PM
–	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? The difference, though, is that it seems that feelings and instincts about these things are different between men and women. I can't speak for all aging men, but as a teenage boy I if anything found older women as or more attractive when I was much younger than I do now, due to the ridiculous male hormones at that age. Sure, I found younger women even more arousing and distracting, but it was a difference of degree rather than kind. The weakening of my attraction to older women has come with adv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 05:30 PM
–	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? I see no reason to particularly assume that those men who date women of the same or an older age is more likely to have positive views than a man who dates younger. It goes completely contrary to the modern accepted wisdom, but I believe older men in their 30s or 40s who date women their own or an older age are actually more likely to have bitter or unpleasant attitudes than those men who can and do date younger women. They're usually both more "practical" and less romantic (which to be fair, is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 02:42 PM
–	Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple? This is the heart of the matter. Older women commenting on this issue will in one breath wax lovingly on and on about how ugly and repulsive older men are and why and how foolish it is for older men to imagine their crease lines, wrinkly balls, balding pates, fat bellies, etc. would still be attractive to young women with options... and then in the next, protest that older women are the natural and proper companions for these same men. I suppose it's possible that these older women are exaggerat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/24 02:28 PM
1	Men need to stop being so thirsty. In a way, there is actually a good parallel here with the job market. So many people just will not consider the option of dropping out of the labour force. You can't do that? What about the future? What about being a loser for the rest of your life? But you need money. The overwhelming majority of people would not actually starve or become street people if they stopped working. They'd just have to seek public assistance, or lean on an irritated relative or two. But they still don't even entertai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 10:11 PM
1	Men need to stop being so thirsty. They are: men are being more passive, less sexually aggressive, and less desperate (on average) than ever before in history. It doesn't really change the situation overall that much, though, because there's still a veritable ocean of thirst out there not to mention now the West is experiencing mass migration that is heavily male. There are amusing and equally depressing parallels here with both the housing and job markets. Literally tens of millions of men (a veritable army) can sit in their par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 10:05 PM
5	To what extent are age gaps in relationships due to the preferences of women vs men? Biologically, young women and young men just are more fertile and have more of the right stuff, anything to the contrary is massive cope. Sure, in terms of literal ability to produce fertile offspring, women decline faster, but unfortunately for men, this is more than counteracted for by how much pickier women (especially younger women) are by nature than men. This means that signs of aging in men like wrinkles, weight gain, and especially hair loss are a massive hit to a man's ability to be att…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/24 04:24 PM