Tutorzilla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to deal with a low effort person? I hate when guys expect me to text them a lot. I don’t know what to say to them that wasn’t covered on the date. We don’t have many inside jokes yet. The more a guy pressures me to text, the less chance I’ll open his texts because it feels like I’m being smothered and I just want to ignore it. Just ask her on a second date and only text about logistics or a “thinking of you” message. She has a full life and up until now you weren’t in it. Give a girl a minute.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 01:09 AM
1	If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies? If you go on AITA you’ll mainly see stories of women carrying the entire household (children, cooking, cleaning, mental load, and full time job) while their male partners game all day, or worse, use their rent or Birthday or promotion money for a surprise new gaming setup. Two of my close family members are unfortunately men like this. I’ve lived with them while they spent 8-10h/day gaming, never cleaning, and most assuredly not working. Thankfully one of them is now recovered but he had to get …	/r/seduction	02/09/22 03:36 PM
9	Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recover Do not do this. That will mean you created a sex tape without her consent. Could be illegal. Just audio record her giving consent! Be up front about it. Because if deliberately and consciously giving consent is “weird” or too difficult for her, you probably should end the night there.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 08:04 AM
4	Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot? Yes, yes we do. We also send pics of the guy to our friends before the date if it’s from an online profile. They’ll be like “he’s cute! Go for it girl!” And maybe we’ll talk about if he has cute eyes or something.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 07:56 AM
7	[deleted by user] So she isn’t putting a roof over your kids heads, feeding them, looking after them, buying them clothes, shoes, school supplies, and possibly enrolling them in after-school activities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/22 11:17 AM
2	Approaching a girl checklist: Did I miss anything? Deodorant AND anti-perspirant. Don’t think that colone is going to cover up BO, it only enhances it. Make sure your lips are hydrated (I use shea butter nightly on mine). Make sure your facial hair is in order.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 03:24 AM
3	Romance/erotica novels are no better than pornography I definitely think they are. I’m active on a sub for romance novels	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 06:30 PM
6	Romance/erotica novels are no better than pornography Totally untrue. They still publish historical romance novels with those types of covers all the time. I know because I love them. Contemporary romance doesn’t do that. They usually have cutesy covers with illustrated men or women on the cover.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 05:50 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Yep. I’d rather be single than a maid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 05:13 AM
1	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Oh, agree 😬 some of the states their rights really are being denied.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 01:18 PM
3	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? A drink sends a message. I’m not arguing that (although paying for something never equals consent. Consent can be revoked at any time). I’m talking about how one time I went on a date with a guy. I was fully ready to pay for my $2 coffee but he insisted and I thought “what’s the harm”. He ended up preventing me from leaving the date until he could run his hands up and down my body and grope me. He told me I owed him that because he paid. I tried to leave 2x but he held onto me and I got scared a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 04:50 AM
9	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? WTF. I don’t even have the energy to go into details about how much being a SAHP is not that great. How dangerous it can be for any person to give up their economic power and independence. Divorce is super prevalent and usually the SAHP ends up getting much less than they need to maintain an independent household and their degree has become useless with disuse leading them to a precarious situation. Reminder, women are people too. We didn’t get an education to let it go to waste. We can find wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 04:31 AM
14	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Not surprising. There’s a story going around on social media for a while now about a woman who switched emails with her male coworker and was automatically treated with more respect than she had been previously. Her coworker also noted that he was treated much differently and was not able to be as productive as usual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 04:01 AM
10	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? I’m trying to talk about one thing and answer OP’s question. But both women and “unmasculine men” can have an issue getting respect and it doesn’t mean we should deny empathy and not support to each other. Let’s all just agree we are all people with feelings, opinions, etc. we all deserve to be seen and heard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 03:03 AM
4	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? That’s not how the real world works. You don’t get to choose your coworkers. And sometimes if you’re desperate you take any job you get offered. And maybe respect is overstating it. Being treated like a human being with thoughts and feelings is really what I’m talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 01:40 AM
6	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Also, it was high school…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 01:25 AM
21	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Exactly. There is nuance. Am I being killed for being a woman? Are my rights being denied? No. But sometimes I do feel treated with less respect, treated poorly. Over time it has created a lot of anxiety. I’m constantly thinking in situations with men “shut up. Don’t speak. Don’t make yourself a target. Be smaller. Cater to their ego.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 01:16 AM
197	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Respect. I’ve been in many business meetings where I provide my opinion and I am told I am wrong. Then later a male colleague will have the same idea and everyone will like it. The first time this happened was in high school. I was the only female on a club executive. We needed to order pizza. I researched where could give us the best deal. I was told that place had gross pizza. Later on the topic came up again and the guy sitting to my right suggested the same place. They all conveniently forgo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 12:46 AM
1	Are men more fearful of losing their masculinity then women are afraid of losing their femininity? Masculinity may be a performance but Femininity is bought, not innate. It’s good shampoo and conditioner, hair styling tools, makeup, nails, waxing, creams, clothes that show off the body, and sometimes plastic surgery.acting feminine is having a soft or high voice, letting men be in charge, being ditzy. It’s also a performance. We’re just people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 02:22 PM
-1	As a man you can't seduce women with just basic hyigene I wanted to make clear what basic hygiene was!	/r/seduction	01/02/22 04:25 PM
–	As a man you can't seduce women with just basic hyigene So is deodorant, anti-perspirant, and regular showers and laundry. Just putting it out there for the numerous guys I’ve met who hadn’t got the memo.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 03:45 AM
2	How do you get women to feel connected to you whilst still being mysterious? I second this (I am a woman). The only women that want mystery are the ones that aren’t looking for a relationship.	/r/seduction	09/01/22 03:05 AM
1	Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a provider I don’t want a man that is a “provider”. I want a man that is equal to me. If I can work a good job, cook, and clean, so can he. But few men are willing to provide all those things. They’re stuck in the past thinking a good job is enough. Women nowadays have options. Want children and companionship? Me and my bff can move in together and I can get IVF. At least then I won’t have to carry the mental load of another person cause I know my bff knows how to take care of herself and the house. My wor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 04:57 AM
3	Women agree to coffee/drinks but when I ask to exchange phone numbers they stop responding? (OLD) I’m a woman. This is it exactly. These days our phone numbers are connected to all our socials, you can reverse search our address using our phone number. Don’t ask for her number until after the first date, if she agrees for a second. Otherwise you risk her getting anxious and ghosting you. It’s not about a lack of interest, it’s about deeply ingrained anxiety over our safety. If you try asking for only a date and she doesn’t respond, then assume she’s not into you.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 04:01 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yeah, sounds like a plan.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 05:52 PM
–	[deleted by user] So If she texts you back you’re just going to ignore it?	/r/seduction	29/12/21 11:08 AM
2	Asperger’s Success? Is it Possible? Came here because there’s actually a romance book called “The Bride Test” about a man with Asperger’s finding love, albeit it is from the woman’s perspective mostly. I just mention it because it is important to see ourselves represented. Also, if you’re looking to lose a lot of weight (as am i), i am going to start taking a new weight loss drug called Wegovy that is supposed to actually work. The studies were very promising and significant in comparison to existing weight loss medication. I have…	/r/seduction	29/12/21 06:42 AM
–	[deleted by user] I think it’s normal. She doesn’t know you well, perhaps she is unsure. Or maybe she has a lot going on and texting someone new is overwhelming at this time. If she texts you back then keep the conversation going. Depends how much you like her too I guess.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 06:31 AM
–	[deleted by user] Text her. She has a life too, you know? It’s been exams and Christmas.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 05:17 AM
–	For Ladies: How much does being overweight/obese impact your opinion of a man? Humans are more nuanced than that. Honestly, If I was swiping on a dating app I might pick the fit one, if I had to choose one to interact with. If I knew them in real life then I could pick based on personality. To be honest, the reason I wouldn’t swipe on a guy is because of horrible photos or horrible profile or both. I don’t understand why 99% of men are incapable of taking a good photo. Smile! Take off your hat, make sure your hair and beard are groomed, look at the camera. It’s not hard. O…	/r/seduction	28/12/21 06:36 AM
–	For Ladies: How much does being overweight/obese impact your opinion of a man? Ngl, I find it hard to build attraction but what’s more important is that they have other good qualities like kindness, personality, funniness, a job, manners.	/r/seduction	28/12/21 04:54 AM
2	What's a reliable way to sexually escalate an interaction? So by sex jokes I also meant the screaming orgasm thing you mentioned. If you haven’t reached a level of intimacy with her then it’s presumptuous and can weird her out. Just being funny, genuine, and interesting is enough, no need to make it sexual so soon. I understand some guys think it kills the mood to ask but I swear there’s nothing sexier than being asked if we are comfortable with something. Way sexier than a joke. It shows you actually care about her as a person. Total turn-on in my book…	/r/seduction	21/12/21 04:57 AM
–	What's a reliable way to sexually escalate an interaction? I’m a girl. Just be straightforward about your intentions respectfully. Don’t play games. Don’t feel her up until you know she’s into it (and I do mean hugs too). Don’t make sex jokes unless you know she wants to have sex with you. That makes me so uncomfortable cause it puts me on the spot to say yes, or no and appear rude, and I’ve heard them all before. There’s a difference between being flirty and being creepy or objectifying. Honestly, the most sexy way to act around a girl are to have clea…	/r/seduction	21/12/21 03:32 AM