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TvIsSoma/r/seduction12/05/22 10:57 PM
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TvIsSoma/r/seduction29/04/22 05:50 PM
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Do you wanna be on and off with this gal till the day you die? That shit is exhausting. I’ve been thru a round or two of that and now that I’m talking to someone who’s consistent it made me wonder why I ever put up with that shit at all. In the end why doesn’t matter, it’s just games and someone who won’t fully commit for one reason or another but remains just available enough to keep you hooked.
/r/seduction27/03/26 10:39 PM
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Yeah man women with daddy issues love dating older men but not if they wanna settle down after banging a couple of times lol. It reverses the polarity. Also you’re in your 30s and she’s 22 that’s not gonna be your wife in 10 years don’t even think of it. 99.9% of the time this is gonna be short term.
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:24 PM
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Let’s be real that’s a huge gap because she’s so young, women that age are flaky, you won’t be with her in 10 years just enjoy this while you can. Don’t rush for exclusivity or anything with her otherwise she will run away faster.
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:17 PM
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IMO don’t get too wrapped up in some market value shit it can be useful to an extent but don’t hold it too tightly. Everyone is a little different. Maybe you were too good for her and she’s scared. Maybe she’s just not a serous type of gal. Nothing wrong with feeling feelings and being disappointed but it’s not all about measuring yourself up to some arbitrary market value. You just be you and your authentic self and the right ones will stick around if you’re ready and that’s what you want.
/r/seduction22/10/25 03:54 AM
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Some women just like novelty. Some don’t like longer term commitments, they just like the thrill. Maybe she put you in that box of just hooking up a few times. If she’s an 8+ she has a million other options and you probably weren’t the best one for her. It can be hard to make someone like that stick. Some women won’t stick with anyone even if they are perfect together, it’s too scary.
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:12 PM
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She ghosted you for 10 days that’s a long time. Assuming this is all pretty new…. If you’re interested at all keep her on the major back burner, that’s what she thinks of you. Message her back if you get really bored. Give it some time. She’s probably gone anyways and was carried away with something else she found more exciting till it didn’t work out. Maybe she will start biting a lot more. If so you can match but watch out for the hot and cold cause she will do it again. If she still seems to …
/r/seduction21/10/25 09:06 PM
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How do you define out of your league here then? Is this someone you want to spend time with because you value her or because she’s simply hot? Why is this rich socialite even someone you desire in your mind at all?
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:49 AM
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You’re probably overthinking it
/r/seduction03/10/25 05:08 AM
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You can’t even read what I said, you assume all models and attractive women are the same but they are not. You do not need to work with them to understand that basic concept. Models are as different as any other women in who they will have sex with.
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:56 AM
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You don’t need to know models to answer this question. Models do not all think and act exactly the same. Everyone is different. Your focus on body count or even “models” seems really off to me. Try to understand women as people first it will be more attractive to them and be seen as less weird.
/r/seduction29/09/25 04:19 PM
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Focusing on body count is weird and not even really a standard. I’ve never asked a woman her body count. This can only come from insecurity.
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:47 PM
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Bro what you are describing is unethical and predatory.
/r/seduction28/07/25 01:14 PM
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Concerts, festivals, EDM, bars (soon), coffee shops, climbing gyms, sometimes book clubs, it’s easier if you find a few friends who are doing these things. Also learn to say yes. If someone invites you to a bonfire say yes. Be irresponsible this is the time for it.
/r/seduction28/07/25 02:38 AM
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Dating for the wrong reasons then
/r/seduction25/07/25 03:10 PM
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If you’re looking to do more than smash I suggest women who are at least in their 30s. Those 23 year olds will start to feel like children.
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:44 AM
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You do that through swiping and being decisive on dates not whining and being negative as your first impression
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:53 PM
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Comes off as insecure and ungrounded.
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:30 PM
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Unless she’s poly/ENM it’s not worth it. Either she will come to you when things are bad with him and then onto the next or she just wants attention. Even the “best” case scenario is that she cheats and you get laid but lose some integrity. Not somebody worth investing your real energy into.
/r/seduction08/07/25 11:00 PM
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🤮 you do you bro but lots of good women will push you away at the very beginning even if they are attracted to you, assuming they want to see you long term and don’t see you as a fling.
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:09 PM
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Lots of women will reject “my place” when it’s not even the second full date yet. Give it a bit more time for that she doesn’t want to feel like a hoe or get raped. If you want to see her long term it’s a sign she respects herself and you enough to not want the implication of shagging immediately.
/r/seduction30/06/25 11:06 PM
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Dude you need to read the room. It’s not all about getting laid. You’re putting the moves on her but there’s plenty of women out there that actually WANT what you have, why ignore what she says and push anyways? Makes you sound like a sex pest.
/r/seduction10/05/25 05:54 PM
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Women to me are not things I conquer, I’m not trying to impress myself or other men by “pulling” a “10”. If you are having sex with women because you are bored or you want a “challenge” you are coming at sex and intimacy from an empty angle. Might be good to examine your motives, look out for sex addiction.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:27 AM
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Go to therapy
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:48 AM
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Grow up and stop chasing insecure women with daddy issues. You definitely don’t want her to fall in love with you. You’re thinking purely about how hot she is, she consumes you, it’s not healthy for either of you. If you do anything, keep her at a distance. Women like this will make your life hell.
/r/seduction27/04/25 10:46 PM
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This is so fake. Who is looking over your shoulder as you’re on your phone? Absolutely no one unless it’s your jealous girlfriend. No stranger gives a shit unless you’re spending a lot of money in front of them.
/r/seduction09/04/25 11:30 PM
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Buy magnum XXLs and complain about how small they are on you. If it’s crowded try to spend a lot of time at her till, she will most likely enjoy your company. Most people will assume the interaction is over after she rings you up but feel free to hover and try to keep the conversation going. Make comments about her appearance. If she doesn’t reciprocate, tell her that she smiled at you so she owes you.
/r/seduction04/04/25 04:51 PM
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Masculinity is about building inner structure, direction, and presence. Start by committing to something meaningful, even if it’s small. Practice stillness and being grounded in your body. Learn to hold your boundaries without needing to fight. I’d recommend checking out the book King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. It breaks down the four core masculine archetypes in a way that’s practical and insightful. It helps you recognize the mature and immature sides of each, so you can step into your masculi…
/r/seduction03/04/25 09:04 PM
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Defining it strictly as the opposite of femininity can lead to a shallow version of it. The mature masculine doesn’t need to be reactive or oppositional, it’s about clarity, grounded action, and integrity, not just doing the inverse of what you perceive women do.
/r/seduction03/04/25 09:00 PM
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Don’t explicitly ask for them but get progressively more flirty and bring up some sexual topics if she’s receptive, especially if you talk late at night. Also seek out real women. Long distance is pretty worthless.
/r/seduction01/04/25 12:54 AM
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Just because she didn’t want to continue with you doesn’t mean she has any ill will. I think most people would appreciate a short non needy reply to a rejection.
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:56 PM
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This is only if they don’t like you or if they have really good boundaries. I’ve had a lot of women give me their phone number for them to just be dating someone when I escalate over text. Two categories here…. One she really liked the attention and honestly kind of wanted to get with you but she’s faithful. Or She is fairly oblivious, does like attention, and has male friends and is looking for those. Chances of this interaction are higher if your conversation wasn’t super flirty or emotional.
/r/seduction25/03/25 03:48 AM
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Women who define effort by how much money you spend are materialistic and don’t really care about the connection, they are looking for a provider not you as a person. You might lose your shot with some women but you will find someone who’s genuinely interested in you. A lot of the women who consider going on a walk to be low effort also consider drinks to be low effort. That said I usually do simple drinks for a first date too. I try not to go to fancy cocktails but sometimes it makes sense. A s…
/r/seduction24/03/25 10:39 PM
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That’s fair man live your life. Maybe in person will be better. Or find hobbies where you run into ppl naturally. With a small area there just aren’t as many women around so it makes it harder. Pursue what makes you love life and women will be attracted to that.
/r/seduction23/03/25 10:54 PM
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For me tinder platinum is 180/ for 6 months so almost 400 a year
/r/seduction22/03/25 10:02 PM
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You gotta move to a medium sized city at least man you’re pretty far out. For comparison my area has about 2.8 million living in the metro area and I get matches but it’s not flooding.
/r/seduction22/03/25 10:00 PM
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Yep you should always be authentic and real.
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:29 PM
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Show them this post
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:26 PM
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Yet you’re going to pay someone to have sex with you as if that’s not the most simp move imaginable 🤡 If you need release just go into your brain instead of a screen.
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:14 PM
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It’s way worse to pay for sex than to jerk it to a screen
/r/seduction21/02/25 05:03 PM
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Maybe improving his life instead of picking up a shitty and expensive habit and going rock bottom?
/r/seduction21/02/25 04:54 PM
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Bro you want to break your porn habit by going to escorts? Are you mental? I’m guessing your self esteem will hit the bottom of the pit when you start using escorts. This is the opposite direction you should be going.
/r/seduction21/02/25 04:39 PM
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Does LeBron keep trying when the lights turn off and the score is called? You shot your shot, that’s amazing. Now she doesn’t like you and never will.
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:57 PM
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Ignore her. Focus on other women or even better yourself. Examine why you are hung up on someone who doesn’t like you. Mourn the loss of her. Kill her in your mind. It’s not about you or her it’s about a connection that will never be. You don’t even want her man. Cause if you get her she will do this again. Then you are back and forth again.
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:53 PM
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Respect yourself and your own worth. Connection is rare and they won’t all feel the same way back. More will come and if you stay hung up you get back into a scarcity mindset and put her on a pedestal. You honestly probably don’t even love her you are infatuated with a projection. Something inside these rare women that are missing inside yourself. Her turning you down should be the most unattractive thing in the world. No use wanting someone who doesn’t want you.
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:49 PM
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I agree that we shouldn’t change just for someone else. We all have things we can work on, and that should be for our own benefit. But I don’t think holding onto “toxic” traits is the answer. It seems like that’s still focusing too much on what you think women want, even if it’s in a negative way. like attracts like. If you’re putting out negativity, you’ll probably attract people who are into that. But if you work on becoming a better, more self-aware person, you’re more likely to attract peopl…
/r/seduction10/01/25 01:35 AM
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Are you including pornhub in your body count? Even if you have been with 700 that’s not the brag you think it is.
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:58 PM
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Just walk away bro. You already know she doesn’t like you, there’s someone that does like you as you waste your time flirting with someone who doesn’t wanna be flirted with.
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:25 PM
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Dude with all due respect do you really think it’s less awkward to see someone’s 🐱 before you’ve even met in person? Imagine sitting across from a guy knowing he’s seen your full naked body. Make sure she has full body photos online and don’t swipe on ladies with just face photos. Go on first dates and see how the chemistry is in person. Keep them low key so at worst you lose an hour of your time. Nothing wrong with politely excusing yourself. You seem like you just wanna bone but don’t invite h…
/r/seduction19/12/24 02:34 AM
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You should never ever sext or do nudes with anyone you want to meet. This might change if you know each other well, but if you sext they will only think of you as some online thing. For women crossing this barrier does not feel safe. You can either give them online validation or meet them in person but almost never both, especially if you have never met.
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:56 AM
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You gotta cut off contact with her. Then mourn the relationship. Mourn what never happened. Cry it out. Put it in your heart that this will never be. This could take many months with how long you’ve focused on her. If you don’t mourn this and truly get over it she will have you hung up forever when someone who’s right for you could be out there. The right person will say yes to you. She is a mirage. You never had anything with her and you never will.
/r/seduction11/12/24 10:02 PM
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Keep busy pursuing your hobbies, interests, and personal goals. Go out and make friends. Expanding your social circle naturally creates more opportunities to meet people, including potential partners. Remind yourself that you just met this person. Know you are attractive and interesting. Remember that a healthy relationship complements a fulfilling life, it doesn’t complete it. Relationships will trigger you. Any time you get triggered, try to see why. Does it remind you of something from your c…
/r/seduction06/12/24 03:59 AM
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Move on bro. Are you a piece of trash? Why chase after someone who treats you that way and discards you. Find someone who will actually like you.
/r/seduction30/11/24 02:49 AM
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Maybe this is an age thing, but I know a lot of women that would feel uncomfortable with this at first. Especially as a first date. Even if they like you they are on guard. This might change if you have a motorcycle or sports car.
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:16 PM
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Username checks out
/r/seduction16/11/24 12:02 AM
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Tread very carefully. Like maybe if you have been going to the gym for a long time and you’ve had a few chance interactions with someone. If you’ve noticed the same woman in the gym multiple times and she seems friendly to you. Women are more on guard at the gym than most other places, they are in a vulnerable spot, they are wearing tight clothes and focused on themselves, so be mindful of this when you want to speak with them. I would approach someone at the grocery store before the gym, but it…
/r/seduction14/11/24 03:46 PM
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Ignore all of these absolute clowns in the comments OP. You can be vulnerable around women. It won’t help if you’re trying to be an emotionally constipated player like the men in these comments. My suggestion is to be vulnerable (not all at once) and use that to help select what really matters to you. If you just want to plow, act like some big tough guy with no feelings and move on to the next every couple of months but don’t become as miserable and neurotic as the men here if you’re actually a…
/r/seduction08/11/24 01:05 AM
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Nah dude, act like you’re fine with it and then drop it on the floor and tell her you don’t do “girly” things like that and stomp off. That way she knows you’re a real man.
/r/seduction07/11/24 07:08 PM
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Do you really even think a woman you have to try that hard for is your woman to begin with? I want it to be mostly easy. Those are the most fulfilling connections. Not the ones I feel like I have to contort myself for her to maybe like me. Maybe I’m just getting older but I have zero satisfaction from getting a woman to sleep with me if she doesn’t even really like me that much. People who don’t like you are doing you a favor by rejecting you, trust me. On top of this, taking this message too fa…
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:48 PM
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Lie? This is psychopath behavior.
/r/seduction30/10/24 02:40 PM
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Yeah once you can tell when she’s into you then it’s easy. It’s pretty obvious. I usually don’t bother asking out women who don’t seem into me. It’s a learning process though. If you hooked her she will with her body language and words almost be begging you to ask her out.
/r/seduction17/10/24 08:31 PM
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This is the difference between a man who is emotionally mature and growing and a man who sticks his head in the sand and runs away from mature relationships.
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:10 AM
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So if you want to be with someone for a long term relationship or a life partner…. Should you intend to keep this relationship surface level? Be detached, aloof? That’s a sad way to live. I’m sure it’s a way to pick up women with low self esteem, and a good way to get laid for a couple of months, but it doesn’t sound fulfilling.
/r/seduction13/10/24 04:09 AM
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Yeah for me it’s been a big part of discovering myself. The cool thing for me is that this still involves a lot of rejection both ways but I’m actually happy about this now. It’s risky to express what you do want and who you are because many women won’t like it. You might not get laid from everyone you find cute. But I’m personally seeking something deeper and more authentic. If they don’t like that part of me it’s truly for the best that we reject each other. If you go to therapy I strongly sug…
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:55 PM
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It’s helped me become more confident, know what I want, and seek that out. I am less willing to settle for less or accept any poor behavior. I’m also better with my emotions and communication. The women who I want to date are also good at these things so they appreciate it when a man also has these traits.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:24 PM
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If your perceptions are even accurate, why bother? But honestly your view seems kind of whack. Lots of women will get with an abusive partner and they tend to go for that type. But making effort is a whole different topic… what the hell even is a “hoe” in your mind? Figure out what you want to do and be authentic. Don’t hold women on a pedestal. Treat people with respect even if you want short term relationships or fwb. Maybe start at the beginning and read models or something. Don’t regress and…
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:36 PM
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Yeah there’s a special smell to them. You should go around sniffing and ask if they are DTF so you can make the association muscle memory. Or just fucking talk to them you weirdo (I say this with peace and love). It depends on a million factors including how the interaction goes. Her mind isn’t set when she checks you out, it’s set when she gives enthusiastic consent.
/r/seduction01/10/24 02:19 AM
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Bro, are you fucking serious?
/r/seduction02/09/24 04:48 PM
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Don’t hold women on a pedestal. They are just like you. This applies 10x for you because you seem to have a particular woman in mind. She won’t like you if you think she is some goddess.
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:45 PM
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Send “sup” to all of them at 11pm
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:30 PM
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Are you sure she’s even real? Sounds like a bot.
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:55 PM
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Sounds like you aren’t compatible. Look for someone you also wanna be with not someone to check off the boxes.
/r/seduction17/05/24 02:37 PM
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Bro is doing all of this instead of communicating
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:54 PM
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You can be strong and vulnerable at the same time. Read models. If you refuse to be vulnerable with anyone ever that’s a sad fucking life my man.
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:34 PM
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You have lower self esteem than the most pathetic incel on this sub, lmao.
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:55 AM
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Yeah I'm all for men bettering themselves (as a guy who sometimes lacks self confidence and needs to work on social skills) but this thread is full of incel-adjacent ideas. Lots of hurt feelings and entitelemt to sex. If you don't want to wait that's fine just let her know and move on with your life.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:27 PM
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Sure but you can figure that out by focusing on you and her and how you relate. I'm not saying you should completely ignore her past- but comparing yourself to other men is never a good thing. It will make you feel inadequate.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:30 PM
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Stop thinking about her exes and what they can have and what you can't. Thinking about who she's been with and comparing yourself to them is toxic to your own self esteem. You can set a standard, I for one would reject a woman who wasn't compatible with me sexually, but I don't care about the men of the past I care about myself and my own standards.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:15 PM
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I’m 5’4 Models by Mark Manson helped me out a lot. Biggest thing that helped me was dating more than one woman at a time (before things get serious) and rejecting women more. Helps you not hold them on a pedestal. Whenever you do that you’re absolutely fucked. I’ve slipped back into old habits before and every time I do I get burnt bad.
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:45 PM
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Early 30’s so I’d say I do as well as most guys I’m pretty good at conversation but always try to improve my game I take good photos for online dating and stand out from the crowd I don’t let my height get to me at all and try not to take rejection personally. It’s all a numbers game. The last several women I’ve been out with have been 5 in or more taller than me. If u seem insecure about it ur toast so you gotta actually not give a f.
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:32 PM
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I’m short af and get rejected all the time but I’ve slept with dozens of women as well. Sometimes i get rejected because I’m short sometimes it’s for a million other reasons. You can’t make that your excuse you just gotta work around it.
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:06 PM
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Make sure the woman is able to consent before having sex with her. If she’s stumbling over herself or not coherent or seems like she won’t remember the night don’t take her home. If she can’t hold a real conversation don’t take her home. If you’re carrying her to your car don’t take her home.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:21 PM
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So is there anything you set your mind on when you go out and are practicing? Should I memorize an elaborate ritual? For example with the things I’m working on right now I don’t come with some map in my head but I tell myself silence isn’t bad, talk slower, I count to three and approach, and I don’t need anyone there’s always more women.
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:54 PM
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