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| -1 | Do any of you have a husband with no work ethic?No. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 5 | I lost my baby.Praying for you and your baby. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 4 | My boyfriend seemed like a mature, intelligent guy but he's actually a huge man-childNgl this sounds like a movie premise lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 3 | A tribute to BarbieBig fan of baby dolls, rag dolls, and American Girl dolls for older girls. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | A tribute to BarbieYou said in your own post that you didn’t notice her finer feminine qualities until you were older because the “get a prince” narrative pulled so much focus. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/20 11:58 AM |
| 8 | A tribute to BarbieI won’t be buying Barbies or anything similar for my daughter because of the consumeristic elements. They made to break and instead of buying (or making!!) clothes for your existing doll, you’re pushed to buy more more more with each new franchise. There’s also a sexual element to the makeup and clothes that I despise for girls. Overall, her truly feminine virtues are overshadowed by agressive consumerism and sexuality—both masculine traits. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/20 07:00 PM |
| 16 | "Post-wall" ladies, how do your red pill efforts shift with age? How do your efforts change in terms of still feeling attractive to your man? Does age impact how you support your man and family?You’ll know when you’ve hit the wall | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | how to know if you’re a feminine woman?If you’re humble, generous, and nurturing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/20 01:15 AM |
| 10 | Horrendous and toxic advice in the comments of the thread. A helpful “case study” for women, their husbands and MIL dynamicI would not appreciate that—especially since she mentioned she had children. If they get junk it’s so hard for them to eat healthfully | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | A major difference in opinionYou brits are weird sorry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | What makes a good grandmother?There’s definitely a lot of tension in the idea. On one hand, I would love to have parents that I wanted to travel home to and honor but the parents I have are increasingly senile, violently abusive, and, clearly, mentally ill. It’s parallel to the RP idea of submitting to your husband BUT it hinges perilously on the husband’s worthiness. If allowed, my parents would insert themselves into every facet of my life out of sheer amusement and avoidance of their own lives. Ideally, if you’ve done you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | What makes a good grandmother?I don’t mean that I think you personally are doing this but this was the experience I had with my mom and MIL. If I breastfed, they got really sensitive and insecure about their choice not to and spent a lot of time justifying their choices to me when I was half dead post birth instead of being helpful, wise strong women. This isn’t an uncommon behavior either which is why I mentioned it. I think grandparents have the opportunity to play a wonderful supportive role and add so much to their famil… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | What makes a good grandmother?Gifts: when birthdays/holidays come up, just ask what the child is interested in at the moment—do bot under any circumstances buy large toys without asking first. My mom sends my daughter stuff constantly and it’s frustrating because we don’t want to live in a daycare and it deprives us an opportunity to buy her anything because she already has so much coming in. My daughter yells “presents” every time the mailman comes. As far as advice goes, it’s tricky. It depends on each situation and how di… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/20 05:21 PM |
| 5 | A major difference in opinionHmm. Your bf seems really considerate. I was a vegetarian for a decade, starting when I was a teen. I think a lot of people, myself included, crave this safe, sanitized reality. Elevating animals and drafting a easy moral binary of killing bad/soy good isn’t going to help anyone cope with the nasty realities of life and death on Earth. I have also noticed that people who don’t work out in a garden, farm, or do any intense backpacking have this cartoonish view of animals as being these cute littl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | I found Sarah Therese’s YouTube channel after a whole bunch of feminists were upset about her being pro-life and loving her husband.Same. I really like a lot of things about her but she seems like she’s not mature enough to handle her influencer success and spirals into trends. I also find it really obnoxious that she gives advice so freely and immodestly about every topic when she has no real wisdom or experience. Her content is very wellness-magazine to me. Maybe I am too old for her content at 30 lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 8 | Do you girls know any clothing brand that are both comfy and feminine?Ayyy Orthodox Gang! Sezane is my new favorite right now. It’s about $100/piece and made in small batches each month so they sell out quick; it’s not a fast fashion brand. It has a very vintage European look. I find that it’s similar to Rouje and Reformation without being so immodest. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/20 07:49 PM |
| 2 | What to bring to the table when you feel brokenWhy don’t you offer to help your SO’s mother in exchange for some guidance. Tell her you admire her skills and she’ll likely want to help someone who wants to better herself—I would! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | About to turn 27, and I've realized the truth about "The Wall"Seconding this diet! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | About to turn 27, and I've realized the truth about "The Wall"There’s a bell curve. Women 16-23ish who marry generally haven’t been vetting their partner very long. The same is true for women in their 30s. The sweet spot in our western society seems to be mid-late 20s. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | About to turn 27, and I've realized the truth about "The Wall"This was exactly my dating experience too. Older (26+) respected me and cherished my “inexperience” whereas younger men bullied me for not sleeping with them immediately. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 13 | About to turn 27, and I've realized the truth about "The Wall"I am not saying you think it’s the most important. I am trying to explain to you that just because you may have saved 5 perceived years by not acting like Tana Mongeau (sp?), that’s not a permanent gain. I was a model (agency, international market) and retired at 27—I spent 20 hours a week on skincare, saunas, and workouts. I passed for late teen/early 20s. All that effort and work was for nothing (assuming you’re not getting paid) because I look my age now, at 30. Now, I look good for my age, m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 8 | About to turn 27, and I've realized the truth about "The Wall"I was like you but then I had my first baby at 28 and aged five years in the first year of her life due to the stress and sleep deprivation and no time to sit and think of myself for hours a day. I do a quick wash and moisturize now, wear a sun hat, and exercise (ballet, walks, pilates) and that’s it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Organizing and scheduling as a housewife and SAHMAll of this is spot on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 10 | How to stop swearing so much?It took me a year to break this habit. know your triggers and influences. If I am talking to people who are swearing . . . I follow suit. If I consume media with swearing . . . I follow suit. rebuild your vocabulary and think things through more precisely. Curse words are so multi-purpose and dual-meaning that what you're doing when you use them is speaking with emotions and inflection only. Without them, you have to think your thinky-thoughts and be precise. That's why you feel like a neanderth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What is it like to have children?no, I was too aghast. :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/20 04:18 AM |
| 11 | How to let my boyfriend’s “helpful” fitness advice stop working my nerves?I broke up with a guy over this kind of thing. I had to beg him to walk with me in the park. His apathy and arrogance toward health were also directed at other areas of life down the road. Red flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 7 | How to let my boyfriend’s “helpful” fitness advice stop working my nerves?Absolutely correct. Just to add that there are so many wonderful styles of dance out there. There’s a learning curve when you begin but it’s worth it. I do ballet and it’s a intellectual and physical workout. Also fun skirts, shoes, and ways to style your hair lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/20 01:06 AM |
| 3 | What is it like to have children?It depends on what you’re used to and genetics/fate. I had my first at 28, pregnancy was hard but manageable. I learned a lot of hard lessons during pregnancy and the newborn period. That I wasted so much time as a single girl and let other people use me and waste me time. Now, if someone waves red flags—I believe them. Now, I never procrastinate because if I get a rare moment to do something I will 100% do it but I don’t know when it will be easy to do again. My time is so valuable. You have to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I find myself deeply regretting losing my virginity ( how I did, who with ) years later. Hate feeling this way. Any words of wisdom ladies?I have had the opposite experience; in high school and college, virginity was ridiculed and flagged girls as being high maintenance (requiring the work of a ltr to get sex). Older men always thought of my virginity as a good, attractive thing—less baggage and trauma. To OP, I also regret my first. No one is perfect and the longer you live the more you will regret. All you can do is learn from this mistake. My second was the man I married. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/20 04:40 AM |
| 4 | My husband found out I’m pregnant yesterday but hasn’t said anything about it yet. Should I be worried?Woah that’s really close together! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | I think I'm falling out of love and am not sure if i should persue this relationship furtherMy husband and I have been together for a decade (met when I was 21 and he was 26) and while I would generally characterize our relationship as peaceful, loving, and rewarding there have been seasons where one of us hasn’t been the best version of ourselves. Like when he had a terrible boss (he became irritable and irrational) for a few months or I took too many classes (I became bitchy, whiny, selfish). I also felt so terrible physically after giving birth that I couldn’t stand him even though … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 3 | I think I'm falling out of love and am not sure if i should persue this relationship furtherI had a similar hormonal funk after I had my baby. I hated my husband for the pettiest reasons. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Catholic Birth Control and anxieties over sexYou can also add ovulation strips to your routine; they’re very cheap on Amazon. They make machines that go on your bed side table that take and track your temp. Don’t just use an app. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Catholic Birth Control and anxieties over sexWe’ve been doing that method too for 10 years but got pregnant on out first try. It depends on his control though. Ymmv | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I be concerned?Chiming in to also agree about the Santa bit. We are raising our daughter with St. Nicholas the actual person not a magician at the mall | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/19 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Any recommendations for flirty nightwear/loungewear?Cosabella! It’s made in Italy | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Keeping conversation meaningful while long distanceMy husband and I were long distance for a few years while we dated. Even though it doesn’t seem ~meaningful~ we just texted each other throughout the day about mundane things and sent lots of jokes and memes. It kept us close. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | How to dress feminine when you have a masculine figure.This is solid advice—for OP’s post, Meghan Markle might be a good reference, although she doesn’t always dress well for her type, sometimes negative examples are helpful too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | How do I suppress my desire for wanting to have children?Have a toddler; can confirm | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I suppress my desire for wanting to have children?I felt like this for basically all of my twenties and I finally got my wish! As soon as I got pregnant the obsession lifted. I think it’s normal to want to mother. Try to redirect that energy to learning about child development, cooking nutritive budget-friendly meals that are easy to serve and make, and keeping your cool when your toddler headbutts you in the face. Put together a budget for baby—we spent 3K the first year. Start thrifting baby clothes because that sht is time consuming and once… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/19 02:41 AM |
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