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The concept of value isn't determined solely by whether an item is considered a necessity or not within a society. If this were the only factor at play, then diamonds and other luxury goods, which are by no means essential to human survival, wouldn't be so highly desirable and command such high prices. This would be especially true when compared to a basic necessity like water, which despite being fundamental to life, doesn't hold the same high market value. This disagreement on value only highl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:25 AM
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Women don’t need men to do anything. We are in the age of Aquarius. Things are changing and certain truths are coming about. And, one will be female exceptionalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:59 AM
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I can assert what I believe. It's not necessarily true that men contribute more value to society proportionally, but that was never the crux of the discussion. The original post was clearly about the distribution of value to society as a whole. I don't debate values with people. Claiming that men offer more value inevitably becomes subjective. You either agree or you don't. You guys seem very clear on pushing the conversation to something irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:00 AM
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Just because something is ‘failing’ does not mean it holds no value. I’m not here to debate values with people anyways. You either agree or don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:15 PM
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And I don’t care. People with higher income have to pay more taxes. Single childless people pay more taxes. What is your point? You are not the only group that pays more taxes. Women pay less in taxes because they work fewer hours and earn less than men. However, you guys fail to mention how wealthy individuals, who earn significantly more than your entire life span, often completely avoid paying taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:31 PM
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Of course it’s not a sustainable issue But, as of now it’s remains the main way they want to solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:15 PM
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Single people with no kids get taxed more than married people with kids. I don’t get why you guys make it seems men are the only group that pay more taxes. Single and childless people pay more in taxes due to no deductibles. What’s your point? No one cares you have the responsibility to support the child you made. No one cares about alimony. Most divorcing individuals do not receive alimony, and of those who do, few receive permanent alimony. Only 10% of women receive alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:08 PM
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Most western countries fix their birth rate through immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:00 PM
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Has nothing to do with my comment. My comment has to do with the fact women value is used by society. This is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:15 PM
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As I thought. Your initial comment discussed the VALUE men offered. And, how it’s used by society. I could tell you where implying women value came from if they reproduce or not. Try hiding it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:10 PM
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Education is not geared towards women. Society has different expectations for how girls and boys should act. They place higher expectation towards girls to behave a certain way. And, the pay off is seen in how they flourish in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:07 PM
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Sorry for not wanting to debate with little boys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:01 PM
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The value provided by women is used by society and distributed. Teachers, nurses, social workers and more are predominately women. The only issue is that women don’t claim since they are doing the most basic adult thing (going to work). That they should be rewarded more than just a paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:49 PM
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Yep, and here comes the brain rot comments from little boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:47 PM
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The only reason why Is because they oppose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:28 PM
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No the divide is due to what the left stands for. Which includes women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:25 PM
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Dating dynamics is not causing the gender divide. Or, maybe you meant for men that’s why? Because the reason women lean left is not partially nor minimally due to dating dynamics. It’s the fact the left supports women rights way more than the right does.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:24 PM
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What is this????? If the man is working two jobs and the wife is a stay at home wife. Wtf do you think the answer is? Because for centuries that HAS been the outcomes of a men being the sole provider. She took care of the home while he worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:38 PM
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You don’t have to repeat it. It was ignored because it does not apply to me whatsoever. Men here have a good way of jumping to conclusion and assuming things. I wouldn’t be surprised if it applies to your so called 100 hours of being around women on ‘social media’. I doubt it’s real life and accurate at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:26 PM
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You hate your job but go there daily. Idk what is different here. You try to change it or accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:27 PM
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Lol women are not unaware of what men want. Women are told their entire lives this. Most women simply don’t care about what you want. And, it’s not taking priority over theirs unless they see the benefit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:22 PM
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Doesn’t matter. You can still have that preference. Issue is some of you guys are so inept you haven’t realized it’s better to silently disqualify ppl. Not only this but most of the time it’s insults being thrown at what they don’t prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:00 AM
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No duh they will be hell bent on denying it. The same men that claim it’s sex that motivates the majority of what men do. Are, the same ones to blame women for men’s lack of success. Even then we know most men motivation aren’t primarily driven by sex. But wanting basic needs, meeting expectations of others and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:57 AM
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I won't engage in a debate with you. Your broad negative claims about men supposedly having no standards basically, along with your belief that women are overly selective, highlight your dualistic mindset. Your perspective on relationships is black and white, perceiving men as entirely lacking in standards while portraying women as the complete opposite. That viewpoint doesn't even allow for nuances inherent in human relationships. It’s giving I’m inexperienced or on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:51 PM
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Men don't engage in dating beneath their level. It's fallacious to assume that there are only two options. The other option is to date on the same level. Men seek partners who they perceive as having equal value to themselves. This isn't dating down, it's dating across.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:24 AM
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Men do not date down. Just because the trade off is different does not mean it’s not equal in value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:40 AM
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Nothing you said disproved my point. Everything listed on further my claim it’s socially constructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:28 PM
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You guys claim up and down male and female sexuality is different. And, yes certain preference people have is socially constructed. Just a few years ago being tan was not attractive. Now it is. Big lips were not attractive. Now they are. Society does construct what is attractive and not attractive for certain things. And, promiscuity is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:53 PM
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Nothing about that is unconscious. It’s very much conscious and something socially ingrained. Since we are very young people have always talked badly about women who slept around a lot. This negative perception of promiscuous women has been reinforced by your parents, TV shows, music, movies, videos and more. Most people's concepts towards this topic are not unconscious at all. They are deliberately constructed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:08 PM
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Refutes nothing I said. I can say something absolutely tactless yet still call out the fact not calling someone fat is being courteous and showing basic tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:03 PM
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Stop replying to me. As soon as you describe someone as a pig or cow I already can tell you’re not trying to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:58 PM
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I don't understand the purpose of your comment. If you lie to enhance your positive traits, what do you expect the outcome to be? This reflects negatively on your character and says nothing about the person being deceived. Most people don't go around assuming that others are lying to them about their career or life experience. If you were to tell them a made up story, they would likely believe you. Unless something does not add up. This speaks more about your personality than anyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:53 PM
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Not just entitled. But, how hateful they are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:04 PM
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Awe man. It seems like the government is gonna need a dAddY soon seeing they are also in debt. Society is truly going to shit when the government can’t pay its debt but expects citizens to follow. Citizen acting like jokes but the government is a whole circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:33 PM
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There’s other things to worry about that has massive global ramifications. Obesity isn’t top 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:18 PM
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Read your own text. You said, “as long as both parties can consent.” Yeah, no that mean NOTHING. We can consent to a lot of stuff. Using consent as justification means nothing. It seems your projecting here. All caught up in your feelings you need to project your own feelings towards yourself unto me? Yeah, no look in the mirror to find who’s stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:24 PM
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K, then what you said was irrelevant. The person I replied to said they should be treated poorly because they eat like ‘pigs’.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:19 PM
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Assumption made. When I said behavior it was in relation to how they treat you. Not how they treat themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:17 PM
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It does not matter. How you treat people is based on how they treated you. Being fat is no reason to treat someone disrespectfully. No wonder none of you don’t go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:15 PM
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You? Who is that? Because nowhere in my text did I say men need to actively change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:13 PM
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Consenting means nothing. I can consent to a loan outside of my means. Does not mean it’s a good choice. Hence, why older individuals give advice to younger people on want to avoid. Men and women life existences are bit drastically different. Someone with 7+ years of experience is drastically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:58 PM
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Imagine thinking you should treat someone like a pig not because of behavior but physical characteristic. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:54 PM
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Men prefer younger women. Men don’t prefer fat women. Men find average women more attractive than average women find men. The average American woman of 20 years of age and up weighs 170.8 pounds (lbs) and stands at 63.5 inches (in), which is almost 5 feet (ft), 4 in tall. The lies men tell. Because, from my understand the average men find the average women attractive. Or, is this implication men are only looking at a minority of women that are young and thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:52 PM
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How is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:46 PM
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No, it's called being courteous. Gotta love the negative framing of understand basic tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:45 PM
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Imagine thinking that just because most women don't meet your standards, the world should actively change to accommodate you. The world is not going to give in and start fat-shaming just so you can find a thin woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:43 PM
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You both being adults means nothing for starting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:35 PM
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Righht. The person graduating college possibly definitely has something in common with a person that graduated high-school one year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:26 PM
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Nope, many of you are simply incapable of actually listening. Because, I know for a fact that when women mention an age gap, they typically refer to a gap of 10 or more years for younger women. And, that is factually correct since age gaps are the minority. Most relationships consist of a 2-3 year age gap. And, I doubt women are denying this. So who's really incapable of admitting something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:24 PM
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No one cares about reasons they don’t apply to the majority. Your average inexperienced men is inexperienced because he is unattractive. It’s simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:47 AM
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How is that natural? Define what you mean by natural. Because kids are early on influenced by their environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:40 AM
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If women care about experience. Why would a 19 year old give an inexperienced 27 year old a chance? If women care about it so much he would be a dealbreaker from both experience and his age. If a women is dating a men 8+ years older than her she is reaching for attractive, well established and experienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:54 PM
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What does that have to do with productivity? Productivity is typically in relation to the labor your produce. Aka your work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:48 PM
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Why would an inexperienced 19 year old even give an inexperienced 27 year old when she can just go find an experienced 25 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:46 PM
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The big question: What 19 year old woman is going to want an inexperienced 27 year old man? If a women is at her so called peak when she is younger. Why would she go for an inexperienced men when she could find a so called ‘chad’ like how you guys love to preach?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:45 PM
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What makes someone a productive members of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:43 PM
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Understandable I wish I had knew about the hot and cold method. Shit still gets me til this day sometimes lol 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:01 AM
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And don’t forget the tactics they use against the women: The main tactic is the hot/cold treatment. He will promise to change. He’ll get friends and relatives to feel sorry for him and pressure her to give him another chance. He’ll get severely depressed, causing her to worry whether he’ll be all right. And, depending on what style of abuser he is, she may know that he will become dangerous when she tries to leave him. Fills your head up with excuses and distortions and keep you weighed down wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:35 PM
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The main tactic is the hot/cold treatment. He can be a different person from day to day, or even from hour to hour. Weeks of peace may go by, but eventually it starts once again. He will promise to change. He’ll get friends and relatives to feel sorry for him and pressure her to give him another chance. He’ll get severely depressed, causing her to worry whether he’ll be all right. And, depending on what style of abuser he is, she may know that he will become dangerous when she tries to leave him…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:29 PM
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That's your personal experience, just one instance among millions of others. Your personal experience does not give you the authority to make claims about how others experience is. The warning signs are not always there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:24 PM
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You make no sense. How is it a stereotypical narrative pushed by Hollywood when people in real relationships are saying the exact same thing. Fault and responsibility aren’t the same thing. Go learn the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:33 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with their energy. People aren’t impressed by common things accomplished in their own age range. Plus older women objectively have experienced more. Naturally they won’t be easy to impress in comparison to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:02 AM
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He really thinks younger women don’t want him for the same thing older women do. Like this is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:10 AM
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It’s not exploitation when both are mutually benefiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:09 AM
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None of that is exploiting. Buying me clothes with the assumption it leads to a romantic relationship or sex is a faulty judgment on your part. And, yes I’ll accept all of that with zero interest. You offer and I’ll take. Yet, I’ll repay it back with offering the same in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:37 AM
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The same women that didn’t want you when you were younger will be the same for the 20 year old in the present. This is pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:28 AM
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No, it does not. Your entire comment is a rant against larger women when it should be a debate. You are being disrespectful towards that group without any valid reason whatsoever. In my initial comment, I never said that they referred to themselves as queens. So don't bring it up. What I did say is that most larger women do not refer to themselves as BBW. That's a porn category for online usage. In real life, most large women refer to themselves as curvy or plus size. Now you are attempting to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:20 PM
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Does not disprove nothing I said. At this point this sounds like ranting from a sperg.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:56 PM
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I never said they didn't create the term. What I did say was that most women who are actually larger don't refer to themselves as a bbw. Just because a woman created the term does not mean that most women actually use it to describe themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:52 AM
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The term "BBW" is used as a category in pornography. Larger larger women typically do not refer to themselves by this term. They often describe themselves as plus size or curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:15 AM
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Well they don’t have a stable sense of self esteem to begin with. That’s the whole reason they are seeking out external validation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:37 PM
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Most men do date younger women. In general, men tend to date within their own age range, with the age difference typically being around 1-3 years younger. Focusing on something that is not the norm for the majority is unusual. You don’t posses the qualities of Leo or look like Brad Pitt at 40. So, it is unclear why there is so much discussion about age gap relationships. You guys are just obsessed with young women, even when they are unaware of your existence or have no intention of dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:24 AM
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Most men have kids in their 30s or are divorced. If for over 10 years you couldn’t find anyone that found you desirable? I don’t know why you would think a young women would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:16 AM
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No one throws out negative generalization about men like other men. Keep in mind these are the same men complaining about why society won’t take them serious when they say most men would cheat when given the opportunity and are sex addicts basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:32 PM
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Not really. Although women have often been portrayed as essentially lacking the need of sex, society has consistently tried to suppress women's sexuality. If society truly believed that women didn't require sex, it wouldn't have resorted to religion and social conditioning to repress their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:12 PM
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The point being made is that the justification behind why it is acceptable is exactly the same, which is why they are being compared. It is acceptable for her to be involved in an age gap relationship because she is giving her consent. It is acceptable for her to sign the loan because she is giving her consent. There is nothing negative about this example as the justifications are equal to each other. It is a common occurrence for older individuals to offer guidance to younger individuals, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:06 PM
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What does saying "well it's, 'two consenting adults'" in this discussions do? Do you think that's sufficient enough to alleviate anyone's doubts or concerns? Consent is just one aspect of a much broader context. While consent is crucial, it's equally important to acknowledge that it alone wont guarantee the absence of questionable intentions or unethical behavior. By solely focusing on consent, you guys want us to risk overlooking other factors that could contribute to potential issues or raise …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:41 PM
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Judging someone negatively off solely the fact they are ugly is not only cruel it has zero basis on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:30 PM
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Yep, the only possible reason is negative. Keep revealing your bias against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:28 PM
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If you are violent, it is safe to assume that you wouldn't mind engaging in manipulation, violence, and other means to obtain sex. This is the same reasoning behind why individuals who are willing to deceive others often succeed than those who wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:40 PM
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These same men always complain about ugly men being judged negatively for their appearance but want to do it towards women. It’s ironic!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:37 PM
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You guys are such amazing mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:52 PM
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There is no maybe. That’s the entire point. But, not surprising coming from someone who assumes tech = Coding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:02 AM
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There is no proof of this. This argument is similar to the notion that women may be bad at math. Such statements, which are not factually true, reveal your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:45 AM
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False equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:05 AM
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I can’t imagine someone not using social media but I guess it’s a gen Z thing. That’s crazy but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:51 AM
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“I don’t use an algorithm.” You don’t even know what an algorithm is but can definitely say you don’t use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:45 AM
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And I didn’t say any of that so don’t reply to my comment as if I did. Everything said was irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:28 AM
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No one said any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:50 PM
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And in no point does his comfort outweighs her freedom to record him as retaliation. Once again cry about the fact she is doing the exact same thing he did to her first. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:15 PM
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Okay? She was rude back by filming him. He was rude and in return she was rude back. Glad we agree. If you want other to show empathy and awareness of your emotions make sure you’re actually doing that to them. You sound entitled thinking he can disregard her well-being but she is supposed to care about his. Go cry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:08 PM
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I don’t care. Don’t disregard other people feelings and expect them to give a fuck about you back. It’s fair game!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:59 PM
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There's nothing wrong here. You can't disregard other people's feelings and then get all caught up in your own feelings and call it pathetic when they decide to do the same to you. Why should she care about the fact that he will be shamed when he didn't care about the fact that she was uncomfortable? You can't ask others to respect your feelings when you don't even want to offer the same to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:54 PM
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Don’t project now buddy. We all know most of you men here are heavily reliant on outside information to support your views (stats and social media) because you don’t actually have any personal experience in the real world to begin with. Men hardly EVER complain about women wearing provocative clothing and making them uncomfortable. That right there is keen to saying the sky is fucking green and expecting people to believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:21 PM
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Women are not constantly filming every single glance. Comments like this only demonstrate how terminally disconnected you are, it's unbelievable. Just because your algorithm has realized you enjoy watching content featuring a small group of women doing outrageous things, does not mean it accurately represents all women. Respectfully go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:10 PM
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I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:04 PM
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Go cry about it. We all have to navigate societal conventions and constructs that shape our behavior. These conventions serve as guidelines for how we interact with others and play a significant role in maintaining harmony within our communities. We do no cut in line, the simple act of saying thank you, or the importance of avoiding prolonged stares. These are all examples of societal norms that are instilled in us from a young age. You do not have to adhere to these conventions. They are not ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:59 PM
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Right Wtf? I’d start wondering why the hell are you repeatedly glancing over here. These people don’t have any courtesy. You don’t stare at people nor do you repeatedly glance at someone. Especially a damn stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:38 PM
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An example that rarely happens to support your point? Really? Neither are equivalent to be compared. One actually occurs frequently another doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:34 PM
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These men are not even teenagers. That’s what makes it even more crazy. The largest portion here are 25-30 years old. They should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:38 PM
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Okay? That does not disapprove my point? Unless you want even more useless advice from other virgins than stay on Reddit asking for advice k.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:33 PM
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When it comes to rich men and their ability to find new women, it's often because those women never placed much importance on character from the start. Congratulations on finally recognizing that there exists a group of women who prioritize other qualities over a man's character, as long as he can provide some form of value to them. Individuals with questionable morals can possess good traits. So, if we're talking about confidence being one of those positive aspects pimps have, then sure, I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:54 PM
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It changes the entire course of the discussion. I’m not interested in discussing things with someone who wants to be intellectually diShonEsT
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:50 PM
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Stop being dishonest. The recent survey indicates it’s 22.1% here on PPD. You gotta lie to support your narrative I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:30 PM
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Well glad you admit most of the men here aren’t actually talking about average women but a minority. You guys love to claim women go after the 20% of men and develop distorted and cynical perceptions of men when you guys do the exact same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:27 PM
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That your wrong Sherlock. It’s not plenty of red pill men on PPD that are successful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:19 PM
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What a joke. A disproportionate number of men here are virgins. The PPD demographic showcase this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:17 PM
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If you go outside and stare at someone, they are going to react negatively. Just watch any prank or social experiment involving someone staring. The reactions are always negative. The fact that these men can't grasp the most basic social skill of not staring at strangers in public leads me to believe that their fear of being seen as a creep is completely justified. Because if they think this behavior is okay, then who knows how they act outside. They clearly lack social skills and were never tau…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:23 AM
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Are you confused about the meaning of playing hard to get or being cool? Staring at someone is not a behavior associated with playing hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:16 AM
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Go cry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:30 AM
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How do people react to being stared at in public by a total stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:48 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:42 PM
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You socially stunted mf have every right to be concerned about being labeled as a creep. The fact that many of you think it's acceptable to openly stare at someone speaks volumes about your lack of social skills. Be mindful of being labeled as a creep, just like this man, because your current responses are likely to lead others to view you in that way. Go up to ppl and stare at them. See. How they react. Watch any social experiment on someone just staring and see how they react. It’s always disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:39 PM
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And don’t be complaining when your ass is on social media from being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:35 PM
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Makes no sense when following the statistic don’t help either. You think these men from 16-24 weren’t trying to follow statistics back then??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:01 PM
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Most of the men here are virgin between the age of 25-30. None of the stuff you guys are doing is helping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:00 PM
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There problem. Noting about life is a fair shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:41 PM
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Not by being on Reddit. That’s for damn sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:02 AM
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This subreddit is not specifically for people struggling with dating. The fact you think that way highlights the entire issue with incels and such. You come here to rant about your struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:22 PM
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Wow most men here are 25-30 years old? Yet, the n count thread is at 0. No relationship experience nor dating experience yet we are supposed to take them serious right???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:49 PM
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You don't really need to have kids to understand this. Having younger siblings, cousins, or talking with other people who have kids can easily demonstrate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:20 PM
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Love bombing during the beginning when you hardly know the person is what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:08 PM
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When men say "I hate my wife" they don't mean it literally. They just hate she makes them fix things at house after hours working, they hate that they are demonized when they take time for themselves or play video games, when she claims she is not annoyed but she is, etc. But overall they don't hate them to the point of divorce, they desire them, they love the good moments with them, etc. You have to love how the men here are always using negative reasoning behind why a woman is angry at a man o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:06 AM
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No I’m not. You said you weren’t responding. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:36 PM
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Couldn’t even get the joke. BOB THE BUILDER FIXES THINGS. Men offering solution is done to fix things right???? Connect the dots so you can actually understand tf I said. And I'm still waiting for a response to my comment addressing your post that’s me being serious. Repeatedly using the laugh emoji is a sad reflection of how you perceive yourself and this sad post. Don’t project!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:34 PM
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“The most valuable skill in dealing with people and relationships is adaptability.” I been answered the question. And, if you’re going to use an example. Make sure it actually has a chance of playing out in actual reality. No one gets angry at someone for not proposing solutions when they are done venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:31 AM
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I already did and I’m still mad? Y’all always trying to propose solutions that don’t work 9/10. Then wonder why women are angry. You can’t fix shi. You’re a wannabe Bob the builder at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:27 AM
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No, the only issue here is that you don't have the necessary skill set to help someone. You are not in a position to offer assistance, solutions or even hear someone vent because you lack fundamental skills such as empathy and perspective-taking. Using the excuse of "going against my biology without any cues" is a weak justification for your lack of skills that could be developed. It is clear that you never wanted to understand women. The telltale signs are evident in this comment, which essenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:05 AM
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The helping process requires empathy and perspective-taking skills. Chances are when someone is coming to you to vent or rant. That means they are coming to you for emotional support. Have you gathered all the facts? Did you ask open-ended questions to give them the opportunity to describe the situation, what happened, what may be causing the problem, how they feel about it, what they have or haven’t done about it, etc? I notice that certain personalities are often quick to assume they know the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:46 AM
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"The only way..." Yep, thank you for once again proving my point. Your entire viewpoint revolves around a singular possibility when it comes to the dating practices of an average woman. I prefer not to engage in debates that rigidly adhere to the notion of a single "right" way of doing things especially when it’s a nuanced concepts like dating. Therefore, I am ending it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:06 PM
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Nah, it’s fucking hilarious you talk about possibility and potential, although it is notable that your perspective on the matter IS very inflexible. Your entire viewpoint revolve around a singular possibility when it comes to the dating practices of an average woman, which involves the act of investing in potential. It’s funny asf. It wouldn’t matter if it was a real option or not if both lead to them leaving you. Your time was wasted and effort useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:45 PM
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You often speak about seeing possibilities in people and being willing to invest in their potential. However, you seem to overlook the fact that there are many different paths to achieving something significant in relationships. If you desire something substantial, you can choose to invest in potential or pursue someone who is already established. Both options come with risks. Taking a risk with potential is one strategy that carries its own risks. This includes the possibility of wasting your t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:34 PM
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Not everyone is willing to take risks and gamble their precious time and effort on uncertain outcomes. It takes a special kind of vision to see beyond the present reality and recognize the untapped potential within someone. It's about perceiving the possibilities of what they could become in the future, rather than being limited by their current circumstances. First off not everyone embraces this forward-thinking perspective. Some people may prioritize tangible evidence and concrete results over…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:10 PM
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Using the Middle East is not a good example. It’s due to the fact homophobia is highly prevalent no one assumes they are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:45 PM
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What type of comment is this. A women youth what is that? When she is young? That can be taken. Her young looks? That can also be taken? Beauty can be taken with time. Fertility can be taken with time. Everything you mentioned can be taken with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:28 PM
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The 3 month rule is a real thing. Doesn’t even take 6 months but 3 months before someone no longer can fake their personality and will out themselves. Issue is what the person does during this time. And that’s determined on the persona esteem, character, expectations and what they want out of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:03 PM
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Glad men are admitting men LIE all the time to women when dating. Now I don’t have to worry about anyone claiming women should have just known he was an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:58 PM
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No, the only issue here is that you're overly reliant on what other people have told you. When you ask a question on the internet, you're likely to receive a mixed response of answers. This is a common problem for a lot of you men. You want a simple answer when it comes to dating, but it's much more nuanced and there isn't a one-size-fits-all solution nor response. This post serves as further evidence of that. Instead of reaching the conclusion that the topic is nuanced and you will receive mixe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:46 PM
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No it’s not. Most women would rate him a solid 5. He’s very average looking even at a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:41 PM
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Being above average includes both facial and bodily features. Merely focusing on someone being at a healthy weight is not meaningful if their face looks very average. As a man, being slim does not automatically make you above average. You still remain average. Above average refers to someone who is considered a model or known for being physically attractive. He does not possess those qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:37 PM
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I am talking about his overall appearance. He’s average looking. He looks like another White guy down at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:03 PM
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That bloated faced looking chipmunk is average. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:53 PM
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The ones you mentioned are not accurate. Referring to someone as a creep or weirdo is not a therapeutic term, nor is claiming that someone activated your fight or flight response. Examples of therapeutic terms that are commonly misused include gaslighting, emotional labor, trauma dumping, narcissistic, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:33 PM
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So the only characteristic we are going to focus on is hobby? Not personality type at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:29 PM
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If you take the time to research psychopathy, you will find that one of the included traits is superficial charisma. It is important for people to understand that even bad individuals can possess good traits. However, most people who score high on dark traid traits only do well during short-term dating, not in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:09 PM
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No one is here to prove to you why you should commitment. We aren’t your damn gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:36 PM
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Most young people use Instagram to hook up and find partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:14 PM
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Risk adverse socially inept men that overcompensate for their lack of experience through ruthlessly finding any sources on the web and heavily reliant on second hand experience from other bitter men. Yet, have the idea they are defiantly knowledgeable on dating dynamic and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:40 PM
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No one is denying that the DEI exist. If the DEI exist than it should have source to showcase how much it helped women get jobs through job quotas right????
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:35 PM
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Personal experience means nothing? If that’s the case maybe I should start calling out the privilege white and Asian men have in STEM spaces? Especially engineering and computer science.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:05 PM
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nice job opportunities (job quotas and positive discrimination). Source.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:13 AM
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It's always comical to me when a woman pre-selects a miniscule part of the population, and expects him to have the same traits of a down-to-earth guy, and then makes comments like "somehow, every guy I've picked is rotten" as if it's a surprise. The claim that women pre-select a small portion of the population is quite ambiguous without a clear specification of the traits they're purportedly selecting for. If the argument is that salary is a significant factor, I would argue that this doesn't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:03 AM
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How do some of you go about still having the energy to talk about N count every month. This conversation is getting tiring asf!! If you want to date women who have a low n count. Then go ahead and have your preferences. Just don’t go around getting mad at others for not sharing your subjective values and not being able to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:01 PM
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A significant number of individuals within the manosphere are unaware of what stoicism is. Merely possessing a surface-level comprehension of stoicism, where one acknowledges the dichotomy of what can and cannot be controlled, represents a rudimentary understanding at best. The fact of the matter is, you all lack the requisite knowledge to authentically embrace and embody this philosophy. Stoicism has 100% being misinterpreted and oversimplified due to most men. Like just stfu talking about it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:24 PM
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If every women has disliked you in your personal experience. That’s a you issue! Oh, wait you’re talking about what social media said right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:23 AM
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What do you mean by mediocre face? Darkest skin? What’s your ethnicity if you don’t mind me asking? Are you surrounded by majorly people who also are your ethnicity? It could be environment that needs changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:08 PM
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LMAO right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:27 PM
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Your comment makes no sense. What determines if someone is head over heels for you is your compatibility, looks and personality. Not how many options you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:58 PM
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How does it matter? You want the women that are 5’2 and weigh 200lbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:09 AM
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What’s there to hold accountable? She just claimed she is asexual. Women are supporting her. Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:53 AM
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I have a younger brother. First hand experience witnessing the role boys play in making other boys adopt aggressive and toxic traits. Either for acceptance/belonging or to defend against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:46 PM
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It’s hilarious how often certain people vilify emotion. It's quite ironic, really. When you think about it, most of our most memorable and impactful experiences stem from the emotions they evoke within us, rather than from any logical formula we may have constructed. It's the highly emotional events that tend to leave a lasting impression and drive us to change, develop, or seek out something new. Emotion has a way of shaping our lives in profound ways, influencing our decisions and shaping our …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:40 AM
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Not reading all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:59 PM
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In a situation where someone says both "they didn't say you can sit there" and "idk" in response to a request, it becomes apparent that they are conveying their unwillingness to have you present in that particular space. It is difficult to misconstrue someone explicitly telling you that they did not give permission for you to occupy a certain space. Their words serve as an unequivocal indication of their disinterest in your presence. Despite this, the individual proceeded to engage in conversati…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:42 PM
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These people are a broken record. They always resort to using black peoples as a gotcha like it’s a Pokémon I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:36 PM
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She didn't mention to him that she wasn't aware of it until later on. In the first video, she explicitly stated, "I didn't say you could sit there." Doesn't that indicate that she didn't want him to sit there? Indeed, all of you lack social etiquette, which gives off a creepy impression. How can you ignore her statement that she didn't mean for him to sit next to her? However, her body language indicates that she's anxious. Moreover, stroking the neck is a gesture that signifies nervousness. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:27 PM
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I’m going to need more people to continue posting videos like this to highlight the social ineptitude of many men here. The woman in the video is clearly nervous and wishes to be left alone. Touching or stroking one's neck is a common pacifying behavior used to respond to stress or anxiety. She explicitly told him that he could take the chair not that he can sit next to her. She even verbally expressed, "I didn't mean you can sit there." It is evident that he is behaving inappropriately by disre…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:21 PM
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Responding to a person with condescension and hostility? Beautiful night were having!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:29 AM
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Tolerating someone presence is not the same as liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:02 AM
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You cannot make a claim without providing actual real-life examples to support it. It is also not reasonable to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:27 PM
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Imagine having a mindset where you constantly compare your circumstances with others. Do you also do this with people who are richer than you? People who have more connected than you? This can happen when comparing ourselves to individuals who are financially affluent, physically attractive, well-connected or influential, and highly skilled at socializing. Disparity in treatment is prevalent in various social situations, as biases and preconceived notions can significantly influence how receptiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:24 PM
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Li
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:31 PM
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No one talks to people they are interested in sexually or romantically the same way they talk to their friends. There may be overlap in similarities. But, the way you communicate to move things towards a romantic relationship is different than a platonic friendship. You guys are clearly misconstruing what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:50 PM
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Ah, not trying to disregard your answer. But, I would have preferred a response that wasn’t based on anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:30 AM
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You never answered my question. My questions was do you think this generation of men WILL do it. And, my answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:29 AM
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How does it become easier? If you believe it's because men have a stable career and home, then I have to ask: do you think this generation of men will demonstrate that given how different the economy is compared to the previous generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:22 AM
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Sex is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:23 AM
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Because people have a thing called altruism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:22 PM
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No one is trying to change what you said to begin with. If your whole perspective on this is, “this user is trying to change my opinion.” Than BYE. We’re exchanging different perspectives. You never claimed men want sex. You said men put sex on a pedestal. Let’s stick to our initial claims. I can want sex but that does not mean I put it on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:53 PM
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And once again these two aspects are not mutually exclusive. The validation from women and the act of sex are interconnected concepts. Stop treating them as if they are different. The question arises: why do men perceive sex as validating? It is not solely about the physical act itself rarely, but more about the willingness of a woman to engage in sexual activity with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:45 PM
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No, women are put on a pedestal for validation. Having access to sex with women is a form of women validating men about themselves. You’re treating them as if they are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:11 PM
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The women is expected to quit her job and become a housewife once the children are born. Not only this but companies don’t want to even hire mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:11 AM
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Y’all need to maybe decenter women from what determines your behavior. If validation from women is the determining factor for your behavior. If toxic masculinity persists solely because men seek validation from women, then perhaps it’s time to remove women from the pedestal, particularly if this behavior is deemed toxic. What happened to men being mentally independent and less influenced by women? The underlying theme of this post seems to suggest that women possess an overwhelming power over sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:15 AM
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You know this is a 13 year old when they write noob. You’re not being taken serious either. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:25 AM
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Hair color is not irrelevant to men. I’ve seen men go crazy over a women simply because she had blonde hair and green eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:18 PM
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A causal style that looks nice is a thing. You don’t have to be going around wearing a suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:12 PM
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Stop trying to deflect. It’s known men have lower standards thus it’s easier for women to meet the looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:11 PM
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And I don’t believe them. Just because you put in effort doesn’t mean you get the best results. I can go and get a full bob with full bangs. Yet come out looking uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:10 PM
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Extreme outlier mean nothing. We are talking about your average man. And, the average height is 5’8 - 5’9 in America. A lot of you underestimate how much taking care of your appearance boost your attractiveness. Having clear skin, a nice hair cut that compliment your face, nice clothes, cologne and more will make you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:04 PM
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Feminism didn’t start talking off until 2011 when the slut walk came about. Feminism and gender dynamic blew up post pandemic. All of this is very recent. Don’t categorize all of gen Z as being the first generation to experience post feminist. Kids born in 2010 and younger will be the first generation born not someone born in 2003 nor 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:58 PM
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Because they are projecting male thinking unto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:09 PM
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Few questions: Do you agree that men have higher sex drive than women and seek out casual sex more than women? Do you agree attractive men on average have a much easier time getting into a long term and short term relationship than average men? If you agree with both of these claims. There is no way an attractive men is still a virgin at 30 years old. Hence, why women do not date them. They are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:48 AM
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If you: 1. Have a normal sex drive. 2. Want to get into a relationship either long term or short term. Yet, you cannot and you’re 30 years old. Tell me right now why you wouldn’t be the less desirable option?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:11 PM
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Let's say you meant social proof. This concept naturally applies to any sector of socializing. People who are liked by your friends also have social proof. When you buy a product, don't you look at the reviews of other people? That is a form of social proof. Customer testimonials, online reviews, social media shares, celebrity endorsements, and case studies are all examples of social proof. It's a way of judging something or someone that everyone does. I'm going to need some of you guys to stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:07 PM
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Never was debating that point. OP explicitly said: It does support the theory that women are attracted to guys who are successful and wanted by other women Women are attracted to attractive men!!!! How crazy is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:01 PM
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What? He replied to someone who claimed that women are attracted to men who are desired by other women and successful. He responded by saying that this is a herd mentality. The issue here is that an average guy who is successful and desired by many women is simply attractive. Therefore, he will naturally be desired by many women. Calling something as natural as being attracted to attractive men a herd mentality is absurd. By his thinking, a group of women being attracted to Chris Hemsworth is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:53 PM
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Holy shit!!! Finding attractive individuals desirable is not a new phenomenon. From time immemorial, human beings have been wired to be attracted to certain physical attributes of the opposite sex. So why would it be considered having a herd mentality? Finding someone physically attractive would naturally garner the attraction from multiple women. That is not a herd mentality, but rather a natural response of being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:31 PM
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Exactly. Only men seem to be creating these same posts. Ironically, those who claim that only older, bitter women are 'pressed' seem to be projecting their own feelings onto random people they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:50 PM
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If you're basing your judgment solely on consent, that's a narrow qualification for whether or not a relationship should happen. Other people don't rely solely on consent to determine if a relationship is acceptable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:47 PM
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Younger women = A women that is younger in comparison to the men relative age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:45 PM
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Classic black and white thinking that shows up as false dichotomy. It’s either X OR either Y. It’s cannot possibly be a middle ground to this discussion. You gotta love the discussion on age gap relationship. When we know most young women prefer dating men close to their age meaning they have no interest in dating significantly older men. You guys keep discussing a demographic that isn’t even interested in your old asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:42 PM
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Man I can’t even deny it. You’re not lying it’s a lot of exception here. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:33 PM
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Except we are talking about YOUR EXAMPLE. Don’t try to deflect now bringing up the incel community. You used an extreme example that will not happen to the average men as a counter argument for my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:30 PM
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Pretty extreme example that will only apply to a minority. Using exception to disprove a general rule means nothing. It’s keen to me saying I know a 4’11 midget making 30k that knows how to pull extremely attractive women off of game alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:19 PM
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Anyone can read books about bodybuilding or building a business, but they are not taken seriously if they lack tangible evidence of their competence. Can you name one person who was taken seriously as a business expert without actually having a business? Can you name one person who was taken seriously as a bodybuilding expert without having any physical evidence of their expertise? The same applies to men who observe but never actually participate in the game called dating. Your not taken seriou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:17 PM
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You cannot have the knowledge to get laid yet cannot get laid. That’s contradicting. It just means that the “knowledge” you think you have is actually false or the reason you cannot get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:49 PM
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This comment is hilarious when you take out the time to see most men here are inexperienced young boys who never even had sex nor a relationship yet. But for some reason you guys sureee do know a lot about gender dynamic yet can’t actually get laid. Something ain’t adding up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:21 PM
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Lol, took the word out of my mouth. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:21 PM
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The advice that older women give is universally applicable and will never become outdated. Typically, they offer guidance on boundaries, discernment, mistakes they made, red flags, and setting standards for yourself and your relationships. These categories are broad and can be broken down into many subtopics, all of which will always be relevant regardless of the time period.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:02 PM
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No, people are nicer to women because they are better to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:58 AM
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There is no such thing as, “all else is equal”. When genetic and race are factors that determine aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:58 PM
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It all can be broken down into one thing. Women are reporting in higher numbers they are in relationships. While men aren’t. Two other explanations is women dating other women, dating older and dating the same man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:32 AM
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No one is saying that women don’t care about moral quality of a man as long as he is coOonFiDenT and sTrrroOonG. This is an assumption you're making based on their statement. What people are actually saying is that, upon first meeting someone, surface-level assumptions are made based on their confidence and strength, which can be attractive to women. However, you can't truly grasp someone's moral qualities until you've spent consistent time with them. The more time you spend with someone, the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:37 AM
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Reoccurring experience of most women. You can find other post with over 100+ response saying the exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:23 AM
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How other people treat you. Plain and simple. Have you been called attractive by the opposite gender and same? Always had other attractive people try to pursue you or crush on you? It’s always about comparison of experience to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:17 AM
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No, what you linked. It only said they moved forward in the interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:29 PM
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I asked for evidence that women are more likely to be hired because companies want to diversify their teams. The only thing that proves is that women's chances of being hired have increased. What I meant was that women are more likely to be hired simply because of their gender, as part of a diversity initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:18 PM
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Give me concrete proof that women have an increased chance of getting hired due to companies wanting diversity. I WANT PROOF.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:35 PM
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Women pretend to want to be safe but if you look at who they open their legs for, it's rarely for the safe option. None of what you said refutes the argument. You assume that men who are not the "safe option" will exhibit dysfunctional traits that reveal they are not safe, particularly when approaching a complete stranger. However, this is rarely the case. Every person who approaches new people presents their best self until it no longer serves their purpose. This applies to men who are not cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:42 AM
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People generally do not approach others for no reason. Men often approach women to see if they can develop a casual or romantic relationship with them. Deciding not to care about someone's feelings and openly showcase that during the beginning stage when there is no emotional investment. Is the surest way to backfire on your goal. Seems as though you want to do everything in your power to not achieve your goal when you approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:37 AM
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Go learn what an dichotomy is k. When you present two extreme behaviors that are polar opposite to one another. Making it seem those are the only two traits that occur normally. Not only are you thinking in extreme black and white you’re presenting a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:05 AM
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Ideally, most women want this perfect combination of both but we don't live in an ideal world. Most men are either too nice or too selfish. Extreme dichotomy of either nice or selfish. Nah, that’s extreme thinking. Good day though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:29 PM
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These extreme dichotomy of either be a nice guy or an asshole is extreme thinking with no nuance. I don’t have time to be debating extreme talking points as if it’s not a middle ground. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:55 PM
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Last place you ask is Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:55 AM
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Define selfish and asshole approach. I swear to god if you start explaining playfully teasing someone. Define the nice guy approach. I think it says nothings. Since attractiveness needs to be added in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:54 AM
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If you behave like a manipulative asshole, people will hate you. That's the surefire way to make someone hate you. If you agree that most men are resorting to this strategy because being good doesn't seem to work, then you are admitting two things. First, that most men have no moral code they follow. And secondly, that most are not very smart, since the dichotomy of "be good or be an asshole" shows a lack of critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:11 AM
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Before discussing this topic, OP needs to define what makes a relationship better than an average one. It's unlikely that anyone will believe a relationship is better than another if only one person is receiving the majority of the perks and constantly taking without giving. Relationships are a partnership between two people, so naturally, it's important to consider whether both parties are benefiting positively from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:59 AM
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You can do all this researching but can’t do it here??? Most sexual assault goes unreported. https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system Only 310 out of every 1,000 sexual assaults are reported to police. That means more than 2 out of 3 go unreported. The same thing with rape. Only 16-40% of rapes are reported. Both are underreported and there is more happening than what’s being reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:13 PM
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Does not prove anything when rape and sexual assault is still under reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:01 PM
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Because these guys overcompensate for their lack of experience with women through researching studies. We all know about the Dunning Krueger affect where people who are incompetent tend to be the most confident. The really think they get women from studies and second hand experience. When in reality when know that if they did understand women’s they wouldn’t be single nor sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:50 PM
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No and no. Let’s clarify this. I never said half the population to begin with. I said the number is higher because both are underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:46 PM
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Exactly wish they would think. It’s way more than that. Those are the only ones convicted and reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:07 PM
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And sexual assaults? Because I guarantee you many aren’t. So how can you guys be so confident that’s it’s not a larger pool of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:06 PM
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Okay and how many rapes and sexual adult are actually even reported to the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:53 PM
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Glad you agree with my claim. I clearly said: You do understand that being cautious requires a sense of paranoia right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:10 PM
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It changes a lot. Your only experience is with literal teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:34 PM
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Man OP is literally 16 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:55 PM
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It does matter. At this point y’all just conflate women taking caution as paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:47 PM
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To be frank, I don’t believe that most men are being seen as rapists or murderers. Where are you getting your evidence from that most men are being seen as rapists or murderers? If you’re referring to social media, then you’re not in reality. Just like how you claim that it’s a minority of people committing rape and homicide, the same applies to social media where a loud minority is claiming that all men are rapists. It seems as though you’re suffering from the same issue that you claim women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:36 PM
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How do you know it’s a small percentage of men committing these crimes though? How did you reach that conclusion?? Off of men that are convicted of rape and sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:12 PM
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Wow, dude you’ve learned today that people deal with trauma differently. Let’s give him a round of applause
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:09 PM
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You do understand that women view regarding this does not come from media but real life experiences???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:08 PM
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You do understand that being catious requires a sense of paranoia right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:07 PM
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Lmao someone’s a child because they don’t expect the bill to be spilt 50:50. That’s the least reason why I would call someone a child but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:51 AM
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No, it’s a lack of experience. We do poll here to analyze the demographic and most men here are virgin who are inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:02 AM
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Yes, they are and can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:54 PM
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The only person who views it as not an actual friendship is you. Deciding to spend quality time, having quality conversations, and building rapport are all part of the process of developing and sustaining a friendship. That is what a friendship is. The issue here is that some men come with motives that were never about building and sustaining a friendship, but rather pursuing something more. Then, when their advances are not reciprocated, they complain about being "friend-zoned" and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:45 PM
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No, Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:53 PM
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Did you think that dating apps were created to help men find women? Think again. At the end of the day, dating apps are a business designed to maximize profit by targeting their primary audience: men. The overall design of these apps banks on men's strong desire to be with women casually or romantically. Women are not the target audience, but rather a means of luring men in and keeping them on the app. This is why most normies advised the slow men here to NOT base reality on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:14 AM
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It takes much more work for women to be considered attractive. Beauty is a lot of work! I always say that "baddies" are not born, they are made. The beautiful women who appear effortless actually put in a lot of work to maintain their looks. I honestly admire them because balancing work, school, and errands is already tiring. Women put in a lot of effort to maintain their looks. They get their hair done, apply makeup daily, get eyelash extensions every two weeks, maintain their tan, follow skinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:32 PM
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It is easier for men to teach. Just like how we need more men in psychology then choose not to because pay is horrible. Proof things are theoretical and not practical? Especially in math or science? Math is too broad of a topic and encompasses algebra to calculus. Same I for science. Be specific and have examples. They do have gym classes. It’s an entire class called PE.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:46 PM
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That level of money most men will never achieve. Do you know how much you need to fly private jets and eat at 5 star places?? Women will want that treatment frequently not ever 2 months of you saving your entire paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:06 PM
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And I’ll pray you are going away back to school to learn English. To wins for the both of us I guess 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:36 AM
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The only thing you have proven is that you do not understand connotations. "Fuckboy" can have either a positive or negative connotation depending on the person using it. This is basic knowledge that one learns in an English class when in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:27 PM
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The term "fuck boy" can have either a positive or negative connotation. When we use words, we attach emotions to them, which can categorize them as having positive, neutral, or negative connotations. However, the exact connotation of certain words is not set in stone and can change depending on the context and the person's perception. The connotations of the term "fuck boy" can vary depending on the context and the person using it. Understanding the nuances of words and the emotions associated w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:18 PM
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Anecdotal evidence is not MoraLlY conVinciNG. This is a chronically online take. In reality, 99% of relationship advice comes from personal experience, which remains the most used and convincing way. People rarely use statistics and data to convince someone about relationship advice, except for Reddit users who don’t go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:29 AM
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They don’t even factor in the intensity of the work. Imagine someone with an office job telling a nurse they need to do most of the household chores because they make more. When the intensity of her work is way more. They don’t live in reality and I really wish men with zero experience being in a relationship would just stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:52 PM
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What is the average age a sex worker starts? Doesn’t human trafficking INCREASE when prostitution is legalized? Sure, it may decrease the risk of women getting raped. But it still somehow leads to other negative aspect taking its spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:11 PM
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Sex isn’t a need. Stop that shit!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:06 PM
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Hearing men nearing 50 years old still talk about how much they love young women bodies and pussies has got to be the most weirdest shit I’ve read this week. How are you 50 years old and STILL occupied with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:17 PM
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Nah, it’s because the majority of men only befriend women they are physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:05 PM
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Because men only befriended women they are attracted to. Women befriend people simply because they think they are cool and want to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:03 PM
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Sitting her acting as if it’s anti women content that turns boys into ‘monster’ is crazy. If anything it’s other boys that turn them into monsters
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:45 AM
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My only issue is the dichotomy between looks and good men, as if you can only have one and not the other. However, it is possible to pursue attractive men with good personalities. The problem is that men like that are often already married or in long-term relationships, making them unavailable, especially once you enter your 40s. This applies to both genders if your average; as you age, your dating pool shrinks because all the attractive and good people are likely taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:40 PM
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Narrow minded thinking like this limits you. So the only way to be fun and spontaneous is by exhibiting it the same way dark triad men do? Have you even encountered a men deemed dark traid? You wouldn’t even know how to explain it probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:53 PM
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Define asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:07 PM
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What’s their job occupation typically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:06 PM
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The term "ideal man" refers to describing your perfect man. "Perfect" implies being free of any imperfections. When asked to describe their ideal type, people often only mention traits that contribute to what makes them perfect. There's no point in listing flaws when you're asked to describe your dream man, and no one does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:12 PM
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People who are unhappy with their condition are going to be the ones creating account complaining about their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:25 PM
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The Dark Triad is a term used to describe a set of personality traits that include both positive and negative qualities. While women are typically drawn to the positive personality traits of Dark Triad men, such as their confidence, charisma, and decisiveness, they may not be aware of the negative traits that come with it, such as their tendency to manipulate others, lack of empathy, and lack of remorse. These negative traits are often not revealed until a deeper relationship is established, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:52 AM
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Yes I could. You have a damn brain and are conscious of all the decisions you make. Just because I’m around attractive people doesn’t mean I just lose any ounce of self control I have. Plus I don’t believe in dating coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:41 AM
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Uhm no. If your confident in your own attractiveness and being able to vet a man you would give it a go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:26 AM
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I stated that men use this particular strategy in relationships because PPD focuses on romantic relationships and dating strategies between men and women, not a fucking parent-child relationships. Either stay focused on the topic or move along. Moving the goalposts to a different type of relationship is a desperate attempt to deflect from the discussion. You claimed that their reasoning can amount to nothing, but that makes no sense. If something is an issue, it cannot also amount to nothing. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:48 PM
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The black and white thinking that eliminates any source of nuance. The fails attempt to systemize complex situation like relationships and social interaction. Talking everything at face value. The apparent lack of real world relationship experiences or overall interaction with people. It makes sense why some turn to the RedPill. Their approach offers a simplified, step-by-step guide that promises results (do X, get Y). This appeals to a certain type of personality that prefers research over real…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:25 AM
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I never said that this approach applies only to romantic relationships. However, it is a terrible way to resolve conflicts in any type of relationship. The fact that this strategy may be used in a child-parent relationship is irrelevant, since this type of relationship is fundamentally different from a romantic one. What I said is not hogwash. Divorce is a serious matter, and the reasons behind it are hardly ever insignificant, as you suggest. If they were insignificant, it would not be an issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:16 AM
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Mentally weaker can mean a variety of things. Simplifying it down to ONLY one thing is a horrible attempt to prove your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:09 AM
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Well to begin with women have a significant presence in certain STEM fields. Statistics, botany, and healthcare are examples of areas where women dominate. So I don’t know what your defining as STEM unless your being biased and exclusively focusing on male-dominated fields like engineering and computer science. The choice to not pursue a career in specific STEM fields should not be automatically attributed to an inability to excel in those areas. Career decisions are influenced by individual tem…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:02 AM
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How the women feels about you and perceives you. That quite literally is all to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:13 PM
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It is important to recognize that just because something is considered "common," it does not necessarily mean that it is not problematic. Ignoring or dismissing problems may only serve to temporarily bury them, rather than truly solve the underlying issue. While certain behaviors or actions may be tolerated in one type of relationship or dynamic, they may not be appropriate or effective in another. "Amounting to nothing" implies that the issue was never important, but if it were truly insignific…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:41 PM
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Who said they were incapable of learning it? Are you replying to the wrong person? I explicitly said some men here don’t believe in nonverbal cues and that it dosen’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:03 AM
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Jokes on you. You’re assuming they even believe nonverbal body language is a thing or not ‘sufficient’ enough to even care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:13 PM
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The assumption here is that it’s always present. However, knowing a few abusive men who are not good at masking their true colors is not sufficient proof that most abusive men cannot hide their abusive tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:11 PM
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OP is comparing men who have no emotional investment with women to men who do. Anyone who interacts with people knows that individuals tend to present their best selves during the first few months of interaction. It's unlikely for someone who is controlling, abusive, a cheater, or has baggage to show their true colors outright. It's typically after spending more time with the person, especially when in a relationship, that signs of such behavior become apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:08 PM
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Men who claim that she left for no reason are actually showcasing why she left. Dismissing the reason she left simply because it doesn’t make sense to you won't lead to any solution. If you think that she left for no reason, you're implying that the reason she left was not good enough. These same men will then go on to play the victim, when in reality, they are just showing why she left. If you don't listen and dismiss her reasons, you'll only drive her away further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:03 PM
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This. OP is comparing men who women haven’t emotionally invested time into vs men who have. Naturally it’s going to be harder for women to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:58 PM
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Jonah is a man right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:49 PM
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They both shouldn’t have been dating to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:36 PM
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He should have BEEN ended it before making any significant investments. It seems like you guys are acting as if this was a private matter that he just found out about, but it was actually known since he first met her. Waiting until you got serious with her to set boundaries about an issue apparent day one is laughable. He likely assumed that she would change herself for him, but when he realized that she wasn't changing anything dipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:29 PM
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Then you failed vetting the person. The point of the dating phase before anything becomes serious is to make sure you are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:46 PM
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Nope it’s just that manipulative men. Will use the fact they are going to therapy as a tool of manipulation against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:44 PM
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Lol good luck then. Find an attractive women that does not withhold sex til commitment, does not require princess treatment and does not uses her orbiters. 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:33 PM
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You cannot avoid FDS women. Attractive and beautiful women probably have no clue what that even mean. Yet, they still require and use the same strategies FDS advocates for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:56 AM
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Any women knows this. If you are want to attract high value men and not simply a desperate average men you need to come with game + looks. Men will sit up here and admit chad will pump and dump tons of average and pretty women. Yet, can’t fathom that means if you want a committed relationship you need MORE than just looks. Especially towards a men whose options are all attractive! Attractive simply becomes the default and personality, background and game become what determines who gets into a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:51 AM
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You guys OPENLY categorize women yet get mad when women do the exact same thing towards you?? You are the same guy who gets mad when she slept with one dude the same night but made you wait 3 months. When she says your just not in the same category as him you wanna cry😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:21 PM
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Thank you! These men are wild. Women have a sex drive and want to have sex just like men. While women may be more inhibited, it's crazy to assume that a woman won't engage in sex to the point where she only has 1-3 sexual partners. These men want women to not do something that they're naturally inclined to do since we have a sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:19 PM
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You’re ON FIRE!!!! AMAZING COMEBACKS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:15 PM
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Yeah, while I don’t agree with most men here. It’s very ignorant to just tell men to love themselves when they are being rejected. Especially if it’s being their entire life. It’s equivalent to telling a women to just ignore the beauty standards and that you don’t fit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:43 PM
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Yes, and that’s why I clearly said it’s more so based on values and character.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:39 PM
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I actually do think it’s to a certain extent based on the idea men will jump to have sex with any women if given the opportunity. Since attractive men get the eyes of women it’s assumed they are more likely to cheat since they have WAY more opportunity to do so. I don’t agree with this notion since it has nothing to do with their gender. But more so character and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:59 PM
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You have contradicted yourself. In your first paragraph, you claim that men love women, yet you also say that men would be indifferent towards women if sex was removed. Loving someone includes the entirety of a person and not just focus on their physical attributes and sex. Love includes not only physical attraction but also emotional intimacy and genuine care for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:11 PM
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Cant say fuck this unhealthy culture when 8/10 your unhealthy and fat as fuck too!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:43 PM
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In some cases, women may self-sabotage a relationship due to insecurity about their ability to sustain the attention or commitment of an attractive man who is receiving a lot of attention from others and may be seen as more likely to leave. I have heard women openly admit to dating less attractive men because they believe he won't leave or cheat. However, in terms of women rejecting or making it difficult for attractive men, I do not see this happening often. Most women are willing to take the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:07 AM
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Most people beginning looking for their long term partner around their mid twenties. There is definitely pressure once you turn 25+ to start taking dating serious if you want a husband and especially kids. Most 30+ year old women will already have the man they want to marry locked down in their mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:20 PM
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Well no one is trying to justify behaviors by claiming, ‘they do it too’. I’m simply exposing the hypocrisy of a certain group of men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:15 PM
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15+
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:36 PM
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Men will openly admit they categorize women into different groups and treat them different based on that. So why do men get mad when women do the exact same thing? When I say women do the exact same thing I mean: Sleeping with a men day 1 but making another one wait 3 months? Having a wallet guy, food call guy and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:33 PM
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And I’m telling you it does NOT tend to happen. The sample size of that study is 400 men. That not an accurate representation of a group consisting of more than 2,000+ men. Hey for real right now. Once again using outliers to disapprove the general trend ain’t disproving shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:08 PM
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Yes, we are disregarding an irrelevant time period that has no bearing on the discussion. You claimed that historically, it was not uncommon for age gaps to exist. However, in the 21st century, the average age gap of couples is not 15 years, making it irrelevant. Using the past as evidence is irrelevant when we no longer abide by it in the present. It's unreasonable that you provided me with that age range when I specifically asked for what the article said. I did not ask for your estimate. I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:27 PM
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Historically don’t mean shit since we know we are talking about the 21 century here. You said the age range for their first marriage was 40-50. The average age gap was 7 right here? That’s a women in her 30s. Second, marriage they are still going to be in their 30s since they are way older by then. They already had their wealth by then. Sure, they were getting more but they already were wealthy by the time they are 40-50. Men rating women doesn’t mean shit since I never said they didn’t. I did s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:50 PM
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K then? You didn’t prove anything. No one is saying men don’t marry younger women. Data says otherwise. What we are saying is that they don’t marry women 18-25 since they are at their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:37 PM
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Women dress up and look pretty for a combination of MANY THINGS. It’s not solely one reason why women do this. Both things can be true at once. Women dress up to compete with other women. Women dress up to compete to get the best men they deem ideal. Women dress up for confidence. Women dress up for external validation 5 Women dress up to reap the reward of pretty privilege + halo effect 6 Women dress up because they feel the must always look presentable and desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:23 PM
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Bring up astrology and how we are/not compatible based on our signs. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:17 PM
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How old are those men when they first marry? What’s the common age range the link gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:59 PM
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For most people including older women, giving advice to younger women is not motivated by jealousy or negativity, but rather a desire to share their experiences. Similarly, older men warn younger men about certain types of women, such as those who are promiscuous or have children from previous relationships. Are they bitter and just coming from a place of negativity? No, and the same is true for older women warning younger women about older men. It's also worth noting that when men date younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:53 PM
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It’s the only group they can actually use to justify why it should happen. They know it’s a minority that can do it and most cannot. I will never fathom why they care so much about age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:41 PM
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Traditional masculine traits are valued more than traditionally feminine traits. Leadership, courage, strength and independence are valued more than sensitivity, expressiveness, kind and passivity. More often than not masculine traits are viewed positively than feminine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:59 PM
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You finally realized how whiteness is the default here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:48 PM
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Height makes absolutely no sense. There is no such thing as men dating down. If the value of looks + younger age is equivalent to a certain income that is equal exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:47 PM
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Okay then we disagree on what leaving means. “What I just quoted is just something that women tell themselves to feel better about ending it.” The quoted text above is an example of a man resorting to opposition tactics when he lacks a valid argument. This common tactic of dismissing and discrediting claims is often employed by men towards women as a means of avoiding the need to actually improve. It's no wonder that women shut down and no longer want to talk about the issues, leading to divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:10 PM
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Older married men don’t complain about the women that divorced? Goodbye you’re arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:58 PM
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Lol, and you guys are just trying to frame their advice in a negative way so that younger women won’t think nothing of it. It makes sense. Older women warning younger women makes them more aware and thus less likely to date older men. It’s in you guys best interest to paint older women advice as bitterness and secret competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:53 PM
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It’s not simply them being unattractive. I’ve had unattractive men hit on me and I wasn’t uncomfortable. It’s only becomes uncomfortable when they keep trying to make you like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:47 PM
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You’re assuming they are hot. A creepy old head that’s bald and fats asf is not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:45 PM
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Okay??? And the men warning other men about divorces was once married? I don’t hear you guys calling them bitter and having negative intentions? Just be honest and say you don’t want older women to warn younger women so it’s more easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:44 PM
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Because not all young women come from equal backgrounds. Sure, some young women are not easy. The women used to men doing above and beyond for her is going to be hard to get. The young women who are extroverted and have experience won’t be easy. But, a sheltered women? A young women that comes from a dysfunctional background Young women who are neurodivergent? Young women who are in troubling circumstances and want out? These women circumstances make them easier targets on top of the fact young …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:42 PM
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The fault does not lie with the person who filed the paperwork. Only men on Reddit assume that the fault lies with the person who files. If one partner is trying to communicate and resolve issues in the relationship, but the other partner refuses to put in effort, then the fault for the relationship ending is on the party who did not want to work on the relationship. Filing paperwork is simply an outcome of the situation. Leaving a relationship is not solely about physically opting out but also …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:18 AM
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Ending a relationship does not always mean actively leaving it. There are many ways in which one can give up on a relationship or end it, such as by not putting in any effort to solve problems and simply accepting that the bad outweighs the good. Ignoring your partner's concerns and needs can also be a sign of giving up on the relationship. Furthermore, becoming emotionally and physically distant from your partner may also indicate that you have ended up on the relationship. Emotionally opting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:09 AM
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You seem to want teamwork. LOL, I swear this subreddit is not in reality. You have to be a team and work together to keep a healthy relationship going. Both most reciprocate the same and give and take equally. If one person refuses to admit there is a problem they are not pulling the rock. They are just an added weight that needs to get cut tf off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:03 AM
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I mean yeah. If you file the paper work and divorce your partner. You did end the relationship even if the reasoning was justifiable. OP point is more towards people branching off and assigning fault to the failure of the relationship being on the person who filed also.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:00 AM
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It seems like you are projecting your own values and beliefs about what self-respect means onto others. While self-respect is a fundamental aspect of human dignity and personal worth, its origins and interpretation can vary among individuals and different cultures. What you may considered the crucial aspect to self-respect may not hold the same weight for another. Regarding your second argument, the concept of ‘value’ is subjective and contextual. There are two types of value; value in use and v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 11:09 AM
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You’re mad about something that is NORMAL to do to individuals you do not have to interact with nor want to get involved with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:43 AM
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Except define how these women are treating these men as trash. Because rejecting you is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:27 PM
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What makes someone gain self respect in your opinion? What do you mean self respect comes from against the odds for men? First we would need to understand where men self respect comes from to really see if it’s against the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:19 PM
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Id say 6’5 is actually the minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:50 PM
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Lol, no it’s not. Both examples are excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:49 PM
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Your statement doesn't make sense. Abusive or hateful people don't want to be exposed as such, and they go out of their way to hide these aspects of their personality well. If they didn't, you would easily know that they are abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:42 PM
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No, it all boils down to the fact. You can actively hate a group yet still not actually show it to them. Human being can consciously fake behaviors for a certain period before it shows through words or actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:31 PM
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You’re not for real are you? Pain as in emotional pain SHERLOCKKKK. When you mentioned pain you were talking about emotional pain. Don’t switch what pain being inflicted on mid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:24 PM
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Explanation: a statement or account that makes something clear. Or a reason or justification given for an action or belief. If necessary, use Google for basic definitions before you respond to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:23 PM
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Nope, biological determinism is commonly used to steer from accountability and fault especially with male cheating by saying I have no control over it since it’s natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:14 PM
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It’s about cheat codes. Because the realest advice is to actually go outside. They want to be told do A and B to get C thinking social situation are monotonous things that produce the same outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:45 AM
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Sources? The example of Home Depot girl is not relevant because the 70-year-old men only wanted sex from her. We are talking about who they marry and date long term. Men in high-earning fields tend to date women in proximity to them frequently, and it has been proven through data that people tend to date within their own social class. While it is true that men tend to date younger women, the age difference is typically only 1-2.3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:42 AM
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No, it all comes down to the false assumption women only need to look good. Which is false. The men that women want has options that are also pretty. It’s becomes an assumed default by that point. To actually get into a long term healthy relationship a women still does need to put in some work. The only men requiring solely be pretty are men who have low standards because they can’t ask for shit else in their minds so they require only that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:38 AM
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No, it is not. People who have experienced pain recognize how terrible it feels, and they do not want to inflict the same pain on others that caused them to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:50 PM
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What evidence do you actually have to support any of this? All of these are baseless claims made from an outsider's perspective on other people's relationships. People who think they've cracked the code to understanding other people's relationship issues need to humble themselves because you don't know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:41 PM
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You do know that excuses are explanations?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:35 PM
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There isn’t much of a difference since both are trying to run from taking accountability and fault for their actions. They’re not that’s different and you’re overblowing the only difference they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:33 PM
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Because we value objective signs of success over subjective values.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:49 PM
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If you don’t have an argument then just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:33 PM
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Your right. I don’t care about incels when I’m outside because they hardly are uhm outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:30 AM
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Define the basic of cross gender relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:17 AM
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At a certain point in a woman's life, I would expect her to notice when a man wants something romantic with her but is pretending to be just a friend. And there are ways to at least guess this. If you can't tell when someone has a crush on you, you're either out of your mind or lack situational awareness. The questions they ask, the gestures they make, and how they act around you compared to how they act around others always give them away. It's time to cut your losses. Using PPD men's logic, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:14 AM
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No one is infantilizing shit. Admitting women can be groomed by older men is recognizing reality as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:03 AM
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None of those concepts you mentioned are mutually exclusive. It is possible for both to be true simultaneously. Even though performing basic tasks such as those listed, such as wiping your ass, paying your bills, brushing your teeth, and driving, may indicate a certain level of independence and capability, it does not necessarily mean that an individual is not susceptible to manipulation at the end of the damn day. This is because manipulation often requires a different kind of intelligence, one…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:01 AM
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The average age a person loses their virginity is 17.1. Idk what you’re talking about. Even then no one cares about data when they are actually interacting with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:37 AM
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Thanks for confirming my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:07 PM
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Good luck with dating. Being this dense in terms of viewing sex has got to help you a lot!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:49 PM
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Expect I never said before they turn 18. I’d advice you to actually read my comment because I explicitly said: above the age of 18
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:49 PM
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no duh. But most people have sex around 17-20. So idk what you’re talking about. It’s two people wanting to have sex and explore their sexuality. Not everyone views sex as sole sacred action done for your most intimate partner. It’s just a pleasure experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:48 PM
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They can't even begin to understand gender issues in terms of nuance without thinking in an oversimplified black-and-white lens that relies solely on cherry-picked statistics to support a very specific view of how the world works. All this overcompensating due to a lack of experience with women, and their belief that they have found the "truth" despite a limited perspective and experience. Moreover, they struggle even to socialize with women of the same race as themselves. I don’t expect them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:46 PM
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18 is considered adulthood. Look up the average age of when people lose their virginity it’s late teen hood. It’s normal for people to want to fuck especially once you hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:38 PM
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Because no one that’s actually goes outside expect anyone above the age of 18 to be a virgin still. Literally no one and it only increases as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:35 PM
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No the claim is that. The average men finds the average women attractive. As said by the infamous study y’all want to use from online dating. Idgaf if the average American women is a 4/10 since PPD junkies whine on here how they can’t attract them same women they deem unattractive. PLZ STFU AND STOP LYING
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:34 PM
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The autism is showing because I never said it DID
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:31 PM
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I mean we understand this? Reddit issues will always default to whiteness since the majority of people are white. If I want to talk about issues and get the lense of other black people. I’m not going to Reddit for that. There are other sites for black people to discuss there issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:28 PM
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Cynthia G is extreme in her opinions but occupies a niche that has not gone mainstream. That’s why she hasn’t been banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:23 PM
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These are basement dwellers autistic junkies that need to emotionally cope with the fact they are ugly ASF inside and out. Purge weeks showcases why a lot of the men here are single. They show there true personality here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:19 PM
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No fucking duh? You let them drive because they got trained by a professional. Why are you acting as if driving is something that requires 200 iq.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:15 PM
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You guys make no sense. The average men finds the average women attractive. Time and time again men here complain about women not reciprocating back this attraction. They do find the average women who is 170lbs attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:32 PM
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Putting someone on a pedestal is never a privilege. It’s actually always dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:12 PM
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And most men ARE overprotective of their daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:11 PM
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If she truly was saying she is looking for a men that showcases: 1. He is a dedicated man 2. He works hard (strong work ethic) 3. He doesn't cheat 4. He earns good money and loves her. Those traits are not confided to your political standing. Those traits do not describe conservative men to begin with. Where does she live at?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:45 PM
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A prime example of someone taking a statement that is generally true and pushing it to straight absurdity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:32 AM
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Which is???? His height?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:17 PM
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He’s not above average to begin with unless you’re hyper focused on using his height. He’s very much average in the face. That’s the whole point of my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:45 AM
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To add. Women aren’t as open about their attraction unless it’s around trusted people. If you’ve never befriended a women before you might not see how we talk amongst each other about men we find visually attractive. We are as visual but we just aren’t as open about it in public sectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:59 PM
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Him in the office??? He’s very much average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:50 PM
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It really wouldn’t matter. Age gap relationship are a minority. Most men still date within their age. So these desirable men still date women 1-3 years younger than them. You guys don’t live in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:33 PM
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Just because someone isn’t actively protesting something does not mean they don’t care. There are a list of ways people showcase they care. Someone giving their perspective or advice from experience is another way to show your care. Even then the only reason this discussion keeps getting brought up is dominantly men trying to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:31 PM
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You’re making the assumption they agree it’s okay for 18 year old to join the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:30 PM
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Okay WHO told you that. Someone in real life or on the internet. No one in real life cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:18 PM
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It does not matter. Being a man is not the sole factor that enables you to take credit for what a hyper minority does. Just because you share one characteristic with those men (same gender), does not mean you share the same attributes as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:47 PM
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PeriodT😩👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:37 PM
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This thinking isn’t limited to romantic relationships either though. People use this same line of thinking for forming friendships or making judgments about strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:25 PM
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I agree that pre-selection exists, but the way men here showcase examples is often just about an attractive person. An example of pre-selection would be a man not receiving any attention from certain women, but suddenly becoming desirable to those same women when he gets a girlfriend. I agree with this example because I've seen women do strange things like this. Additionally, just being friends with attractive women can make other women more open to talking with you. I tend to disagree with RP b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:23 PM
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You do understand that the point of my comment wasn’t that preselection does not exist? It was claiming the example they gave did not actually demonstrate preselection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:08 PM
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Nah, if anything stick to your claim. You said you were out in the heat 10 hours a day. You’re either picking fruits or doing construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:39 AM
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If a men is attractive to other women it’s because he’s attractive. It’s basic knowledge attractive people will have options and be desired by many people. That doesn’t end when they’re suddenly in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:36 AM
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No one is arguing in bad faith. The issue with most of you guys are you don’t know the difference between responsibility and fault. And clearly OP is saying it’s the victims fault and responsibility. Don’t claim I’m arguing in bad faith and reply to me with a comment trying to reframe OP position to suit your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:35 AM
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Yes, and as you said they are raped by partner and as you also said it’s only men who don’t have shit to lose that rape women. I hope you don’t believe in hypergamy saying this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:32 AM
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Attractive men are going to have options and be desired. So naturally other women will be interested in them because well they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:30 AM
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Right and you believe women are dating men who don’t have shit to loose? Because as you even said those are the only men who would rape a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:12 AM
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That has nothing to do with pre selection. Women like attractive men who are well off. That’s basic desire not pre selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:10 AM
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Lol, you shouldn’t even reply back to people who say stupid shit like this. I’d move along and end the discussion. If someone who paragraph is blaming the victim for getting raped you’re not debating someone who is being reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:10 AM
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Your whole paragraph is putting accountability on the person who got drunk but not the person who decides to take advantage of someone else. Yep, classic victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:09 AM
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This isn’t what I was saying to begin with. Op claimed women do need to provide some some sort of value as said here: A woman doesn't have value on her own in most societies, she only has whatever value a potential husband uses her for. And I agreed with that small section of the text. What’s happening in India I never was commenting on to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:53 AM
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Which immediately debunks this entire post. Women aren’t loved for simply existing they still need to provide some sort of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:19 AM
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What’s your job? Picking fruit or construction?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:21 PM
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Neither does it work out where the men is making exceedingly more than the women. Your average men is not making 100k and dating a women that’s making 50k.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:18 PM
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Good day. It seems like you want to comment, but you haven't read the entire discussion yet. Before replying to someone's comment directed at someone else, make sure you read the whole discussion so you can understand the context and what was being debated. I know for a fact that the person I initially replied to said: They are becoming the men they want to marry but because of hypergamy they still want more/better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:02 PM
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This entire post is yet another example of a person disconnected from reality, yet confident in their own made-up fantasy world. Being on this subreddit continually exposes this fact regarding the men here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:51 PM
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Totally irrelevant to my comment. Did you reply to the wrong person? Because nothing you said refutes my argument. OP example does not showcase a women becoming the men she wants. And your comment doesn’t refute mines. Your entire comment is describing the dating market and limited supply. Tf does that have to do with what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:47 PM
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Social awkwardness or ineptness is seen as a negative thing for both genders. These women are also seen as odd or unusual, which can lead to them being ostracized or excluded from social groups . Although the negative terms used to describe women may differ from those used for men, women are still called "weird" or "creepy." It is also worth noting that anyone who is neurodivergent will experience issues with social interaction until they learn how to mask their symptoms. This can be a difficult…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:30 AM
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No one is going to ask for an explanation from someone who replies in a condescending manner. I don’t want an elaboration because the discussion is over. The way you framed it, implying that I did not understand what you wrote, was unnecessary. In this case, the issue is not a matter of comprehension, but rather a lack of supporting evidence for the presented conclusion. The evidence provided does not support the conclusion at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:10 AM
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You didn’t present anything ‘good’ evidence. What do laws have to do with men dating down?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:24 PM
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How does this showcase a women wanting to become the man she wants to marry? All we got here was a woman with an advance degree not wanting to date a man with the same degree. Okay? That does not indicate she is becoming like the man she wants to marry since you just said she wants a man who owns the entire hospital. Even then she got the degree for stability or/and achievement. Not to become like a man she wants to marry. I understand a lot of you men here centralize everything around will this…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:22 PM
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Those two thought process can exist at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:09 PM
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No, they are not Online dating only gives you a bio and photos. Real life has way more factor to determine if you will accept or pursue someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:40 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:34 PM
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Honestly I think you need to once again stick to an argument. Don’t claim it’s rare than assert it as an argument. Using exception to prove something is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:03 AM
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So a man making 30k then is high value 😂😂😂😂 YOU GUYS ARE UNSERIOUS BECAUSE HELL NO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:00 AM
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When you look cute EVERYTIME you leave the house. It’s a signal that you can leave him ANYTIME. A motto to never forget😛
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:59 AM
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When someone claims to have improved but nothing happened, it usually means that they put in effort but did not do it correctly. For example, getting a haircut does not guarantee that you will look better. You could get full bangs that are too short and end up looking worse. Similarly, buying new clothes does not necessarily mean that they will look good on you. Unfortunately, people tend to hyperfocus on looks because it is easier to access and overlook how much personality, perception race, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:45 AM
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Which he has none. Older men can just seek out young women that come from dysfunctional backgrounds making it easier to manipulate? Which is what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:38 AM
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In your previous statement, you claimed that it is unlikely for a 38-year-old man to date an 18-year-old woman. You most likely also think that its also unlikely for men to date women aged 19-24. This is why you stated that 25 years old is a more likely age for such a relationship. However, these statements are contradictory, since you cannot assert that men in their 30s date women in their 20s while also claiming that such relationships are unlikely to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:34 AM
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You know something. I would love to be as ignorant as this thinking process. I can’t possibly believe X is true therefor it’s not. Man, I’d love to just say that anytime men here claim anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:27 AM
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It seems you need to read your own post again: I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT A 40M DATING A 18F. Those relationships are rare as fuck, and I agree that they are creepy. I'm talking about the much common 38M dating a 25F, for instance). Yes you are specifically referring to 25 year old women. Yet, here now you’re talking about women in their 20s. Make up your mind and read your post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:26 AM
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You explicitly said: You literally have to be a high value man to date a younger woman, especially an attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:24 AM
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In my opinion, the focus on age gap relationships is foolish and it doesn't matter. The reason for this is that data shows that the average gap between couples is only 2.3 years. This includes both average and above-average men, and therefore, focusing on outliers and exceptions to the rule is pointless. It is a minority of people who engage in these types of relationships, so being preoccupied with something that is unlikely to happen to you, or that most people will never encounter, is foolish…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:23 AM
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Pick an argument and stick to it. Your post refers to 25-year-old women specifically, but now you're referring to "20s". Be clear about what you mean and are arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:07 AM
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The most common argument is that the average man isn't dating a young woman, and that's it. This is just another example of a guy hearing 1-3 women claim that men date younger because they can't get women their age and then generalizing everyone else. No one is saying that this happens half the time, and it's pointless to debate. Men with means tend to date women within their socioeconomic status, class, and age range. A 38-year-old man is dating, at best, a 32-year-old woman, not a 25-year-old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:04 AM
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Define high value man. Because I now plenty low income men that are in there 40+ dating women in their 20’s that don’t have a cent to their name.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:53 AM
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The studies you are referring to are about online dating. They do not necessarily reflect how men look in real life because they often take poor photos and neglect their grooming. This puts them at a disadvantage and results in lower ratings for attractiveness. Real-life dating allows you to take your time and truly see the full picture of a man's appearance, voice, mannerisms, and behavior. This can significantly impact the way men are perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:50 AM
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The evidence they use is television, which just proves that the individuals in question were never truly in touch with reality to begin with. I agree with the assertion that one cannot go through life believing that looks do not matter to women. The experiences of middle and, particularly, high school should serve as a wake-up call. However first they would have to admit they weren’t engaging with reality rather living in a fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:30 PM
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Beside my point? I was discussing that being a short fling when you want commitment isn’t the toughest part for women. It’s finding a man worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:39 PM
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There’s a multitude of reason dating is harder for women. Wanting commitment but only being able to be a short term fling is one reason but not even the major reason why it’s tough. The main reason is finding a men that’s worth it not being able to secure commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:06 PM
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You’re assuming it was like a cold approach or something. It’s typically way more organic and just naturally happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:18 PM
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This racially motivated!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:59 PM
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The mirror pictures, multiple friends so you don’t know which one is him and the close up to the point you can see their pores and nose hair. Unkempt hair and zero style. I matched with women and their profile is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:55 PM
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You still don’t need to ask. That’s the point of early dating and the talking phase. To weed out people you’re not compatible with or don’t offer anything. You do need to outright ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:21 AM
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You don’t even need to ask the question. That’s the point of the talking phase and early stages of dating. To see if you like them and if they offer you anything anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:19 AM
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Except they never claimed ALL women will be able to filter out these men to begin with. The explicitly said, “a women who knows what to look for.” Will be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:30 AM
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I know life must be hard being this dense. Stop acting obtuse you know exactly what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:31 PM
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It’s not instinct. The only logical reason people cared about virginity back then was to ensure they knew who the father was. That’s the only reasoning that actually makes sense. Anything else is ALL feels and not instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:33 PM
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So logical yet zero evidence to back it up. If it’s just logic then it shouldn’t be hard for you to back that logic up with multiple credible sources. Show me consistent results that showcase HVM men consistently marry young virgin. Since that is explicitly what I said does not happen. Oh! You can’t because, “that’s just logic” is really that’s just how I feel but I don’t want to admit it!!!🤭🤭🤭🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:29 PM
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There doesn't seem to be anything here. I doubt they are [feminist]. And let's say they are feminists. The reason for mocking him is not because they dislike emotional men. It's because they don't like Peterson and probably view his constant crying as ironic and hypocritical given what he teaches about gender and how men act like X
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:21 PM
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Like I said before in my previous comment. Your conclusion is false because it’s a misinterpretation of what people have said. You misinterpreted this: "It's not we prefer bad men; it's just those types of men usually display more confidence, charisma and (insert any other quality) than good men." To reach this false conclusion: The conclusion I draw is women seem to care little about the morality of their potential partners. It doesn't matter if the man treats others badly, if he shows no empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:17 PM
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“It doesn't matter if the man treats others badly, if he shows no empathy, if he is a bully or even a criminal as long as he demonstrates confidence, charisma, strength and (insert any other masculine trait) then finding a partner won't be a problem for him.“ No one is saying this. You basically just straight up constructed a misinterpretation of what people have said and called it a day. What people argue is that these men, when superficially read, appear as charismatic and confident, which hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:11 PM
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You're moving the goalposts. I never claimed whether or not her behavior leads to getting involved with a high value man to begin with. I never argued that nor claimed it. What I did claim was that having fun and building a good life are not mutually exclusive. You made a lot of assumption in your original comment: Men are busy setting themselves up for having a good life in their thirties, fourties and upwards. A woman who's "had her fun" in twenties can still find a sucker-provider. I brought …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:57 PM
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I don't see how this is a "BS feminist message." We have no way of knowing if the people who mocked Peterson are also telling men to open up and show their emotions to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:34 PM
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This has nothing to do with women disliking weak, emotional men. They mocked Peterson simply because they didn't like him to begin with. It was a golden opportunity to attack him, and that's all there is to it. It has nothing to do with him actually crying and everything to do with wanting to mock someone you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:31 PM
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In my first paragraph, I claimed women can balance having fun + working towards a good life. My text did not originally pertain to men, so the paragraph you provided is largely irrelevant to my claim. I did not make any claims about women earning more than men, so your second paragraph is also irrelevant and does not refute my original claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:25 PM
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You can have fun in your twenties and still work towards building a good life. These two actions are not mutually exclusive. People practice time management to finish their school work and enjoy their free time without sacrificing one or the other. More women are enrolling in college and buying homes while staying single, setting themselves up for a good life in their thirties. Meanwhile, men are dropping out of both the workforce and college, suggesting they may not be as busy as you assume the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:19 PM
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Yep, the only women against age gap relationship are old and bitter women. Y’all sound just like women telling men they are incels and insecure if they criticize promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:37 PM
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People change a lot from 19-25. You guys need to stop the cap. More responsibility and more experience will change a person a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:35 PM
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Once people start to realize, they may understand that people tuning into FNF are doing so to emotionally cope with negative emotions they have towards women, rather than to actually solve the problem. In other words, it's all just a form of coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:00 PM
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OP post included a large range of things you can do to improve your appearance. It’s not limited to skincare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:09 PM
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Define take care of yourself. Just be a healthy weight? Because if this is what you mean. Most women even at a healthy weight won’t have a fat ass like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:05 PM
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You essentially answered your own question. If you don't value taking care of your appearance, then OP doesn't have to respond. Simply move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:57 PM
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This comment seems one-sided. Can men really be upfront with their intentions if they only want a casual relationship? Framing this as women deluding themselves because they don't want to face reality is biased. While some women may do this, I doubt it's the major reason. The term "relationship" may have different meanings for different people. However, the differences are not significant enough to suggest that the definition is highly subjective. When people say "we are in a relationship," ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:53 PM
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GIVE ME A CHA EUNWOO ANY DAY LORDDDDD!!!! The SK look when done right is so fine!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:06 PM
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Can you explain what you mean in the second paragraph a bit more? What studies are you talking about exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:29 AM
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Men here will claim that women are attracted to dark triad men, but at this point, this statement is getting old and oversimplified. While it's true that certain behaviors associated with these men, such as confidence, charisma, and coolness under pressure, can be attractive, it's important to remember that these men possess BOTH desirable and undesirable traits. In fact, it's not just women who are attracted to these traits. As HUMANS, we are drawn to confidence, charisma, and other desirable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:20 PM
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Why do people assume that those who exhibit dark traid traits don't also exhibit universally attractive traits? It's understandable to want to believe that someone's entire character is bad if they display negative behavior, but that's often not the case. Confidence and charisma are universally attractive traits that these individuals tend to possess. However, perception of these traits is often superficial and does not accurately reflect their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:03 PM
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How is he from a better social status?? Men and women social status comes from two different things. He can only be better if women’s social status came from the same factors as men aka resources also.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:52 PM
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Well when I said the Red Pill. I was talking about the men who consider themselves Red Pill aka the member not necessarily the ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:39 PM
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The only way she is dating up is if women and men value come from the same factor. You just said it’s looks for women and resources for men. Meaning both are of equal value. There is no “up” in terms of value when there is an equal exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:38 PM
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The Red Pill is finally getting exposed for the fake frauds they are. Their target audience is so easy to fool and market towards it’s ridiculous. It’s no surprise fakers keep coming in to make easy bank off of inexperienced, resentful young men. It’s a booming market to take advantage of and make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:47 AM
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At this point you just wrote back to me what I claimed in my second paragraph. I just stated in that paragraph IF social status is determined by looks for women and resources for men. The idea of "dating down" does not apply in this scenario because what is being exchanged are different, yet of equal value. One value is not lesser than the other in the exchange, there is no such thing as "down". This is quite literally an equal exchange for equal value. When reading your text, it appeared that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:31 AM
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Social status is determined by many factors, not just looks for women. Income, wealth, class, education, and employment are all examples of factors that contribute to social status. It is not true that looks are the ultimate factor. Even then the concept of dating down does not exist. Because we know that people tend to date others from similar backgrounds. Suppose it is true that a woman's social status comes mainly from her looks, while a man's social status comes mainly from his resources. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:12 AM
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Why are you using a word your cannot define to begin with? People who say this are most definitely apart of the same group who managed to make the term useless because they don’t know what the fuck they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:43 PM
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What do you mean by men date down or across?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:19 PM
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Can you PM me the breakdown based on race?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:29 PM
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It appears that there may be a misunderstanding here. The main point being made is that using a limited sample size can lead to false generalizations. This relates to the overall claim being made, which is that it is fallacious to base arguments on such generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:36 PM
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It seems that you may have missed the point that was being made. The example being used was meant to showcase how fallacious your thinking can be when you take one example and generalize it to an entire group. It is quite similar to women taking one example and claiming that all men are the same. The issue at hand is the sample size and generalization that is being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:20 PM
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Nice argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:15 PM
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Do you think someone abusing someone will simply let them voluntarily leave at any moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:12 PM
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Low standards for women is always traits average man or low value men showcase. A men of quality requires more than being slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:40 PM
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What incentive have men given women to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:09 AM
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It appears that you are using capitalist talking points, but you neglected to mention that a free market typically lacks regulation. Without regulation, unimpeded behaviors are likely to occur as long as the market is willing to provide value to the producer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:08 AM
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It is often said that individuals who claim they don't need someone are only getting into a relationship because they desire to. The desire for something implies that it has value to that person. When it comes to relationships, it's important to consider the value that the other person brings to your life. This can be in the form of emotional support, companionship, shared experiences, and more. For women, in particular, the provision of resources from men is just highly valued. This may include…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:52 AM
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To me, confidence means being secure in yourself to the point where you trust that you can achieve your goals. While going to the gym and getting good at something can certainly help boost your confidence, there are other ways to build it as well. For example, taking on new challenges and learning new skills can help you feel more capable and self-assured. Additionally, surrounding yourself with supportive people who believe in you can also help you feel more confident. From my experience, when …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:19 PM
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You do know she can find an average looking men attractive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:07 PM
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No, I just won’t ever understand. People making claims online does not stop me from caring about an entire group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:58 PM
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Okay bye. You don’t have any evidence clearly. You’re using vague arguments yet won’t show me shit. Have a good day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:43 PM
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Because men who have dating struggles significantly impact them, and leads to a sense of apathy toward important societal issues. In fact, there have been studies conducted on this topic that suggest a correlation between men's dating difficulties and a lack of concern for women and society issues. It’s fucking wild!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:40 PM
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Did you watch the video? Your claims are always dog shit. I mean, seriously, what are you even talking about? If you had watched the video, you would know that what you are saying is completely false. The fact of the matter is that the man in the video explicitly admitted to having raped those women. It's right there in black and white. And the worst part is that he seems to be completely unrepentant about what he did. It's truly sickening to see someone so lacking in basic human empathy. So, ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:36 PM
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No answer my question. What EXACTLY is he criticizing. Give me specific examples so we can understand exactly what is being criticized before drawing conclusions. You can’t just throw out a broad claim he is criticizing dating strategy when it’s not that broad. He’s criticizing something specific about the dating strategies they promote. Which is HARMFUL dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:31 PM
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Your post makes no sense. What does a men having a fat wife have to do with anything? That’s a baseless insult. While for Aba what exactly is he criticizing? Him paying for sex yet critiquing RP dating strategies does not mean dismiss him. Because most of the time he’s critiquing strategies he deems harmful. Aba and Preach do provide a thorough context before presenting their point of view. They often start by explaining the situation and then proceed to provide their insights. I understand that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:12 PM
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I agree. As long as you’re respectful and don’t run into a bitch. Then most women will talk to you even if it’s fake interest due to courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:39 PM
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Hm, so it’s a multitude of factors that make you come to this conclusion? Or does the women need to only have one of these factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:57 PM
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I really was not. A joke is supposed to be funny, no? If so how is saying your forced and drugged women a joke aka joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:25 PM
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How do men even go about figuring out a women n count. Because most people aren’t talking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:24 PM
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Surrreee. Maybe our definition of what is a joke is different. Because jokes are supposed to be funny in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:19 PM
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Do you really think I’m going to sit up here and assume a man making those claims is joking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:16 PM
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Define rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:16 PM
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Here’s comes the whataboutitism. I’m not taking you serious because I doubt you even care about what she did. It’s just a gotcha out your card to derail the topic I brought up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:57 PM
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I’m not rage watching them though? I watch commentary videos and the video I was watching went to a channel covering them. Before you assume it’s not that hard to ask a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:56 PM
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Fresh and Fit are fucking jokes. Imagine bringing on your show a known rapist who admitted to putting crack in white women cigarettes to rape them and admitted to forcibly raping them. Yet, make the claim rape culture is a myth. Their show and the environment this men put those women in quite literally is proving what the term is explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:46 PM
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So women are damaged because it’s affecting men chance of dating her? Lol I’m not taking this post serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:22 PM
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Interesting point and I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:17 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:06 PM
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To many assumptions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:55 PM
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If you are going to troll. At least be good at it. It’s quite obvious now you’re debating in bad faith. Have a good day!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:21 PM
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I don't care. You claimed men are the victims of violent crimes more than women and that men should be more fearful. I said they can learn something from women than limit it. I don't care about why it happens because that was never the argument or claim you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:50 AM
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You need evidence to be shown there can be no trustworthy male figures to evaluate who she is interested in. Yes, I can give you evidence though. My own father who is 50 years old was dating a 20-year-old woman with zero support. Her father wasn't present in her life while her mother was dysfunctional and unstable. She sought out men to give her a more stable shelter yet was clearly challenged due to her upbringing. My father took advantage of that, isolated her, and continued to degrade and rui…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:47 AM
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So what? It just means men actually can learn something from how women move to reduce their chances of being victims. You guys are so fucking unserious it’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:02 PM
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There's no point in responding to a comment like that. People lock their doors for safety reasons, and trying to make it seem as though it's gendered and misandry is a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:00 PM
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You’re trolling at this point seeing your comment history. I just said not all women have the resources nor support network.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:49 AM
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No, the only thing your showcased was your reliance on fallacious dichotomy. In your mind, it's only nice or the extreme opposite? Which is being a douchebag. Furthermore, it is essential to recognize that a middle ground exists between these two extremes. It is possible to maintain healthy boundaries and assert oneself without resorting to disrespectful douchebag behavior. How can you sit up here and claim you had a mantra yet still seem to showcase the brains of a high schooler? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:46 AM
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I’ve noticed that there is a selection issue where they only choose to react to videos that depict women in a negative light. This means that other videos that might have a different perspective on women are not being selected, and this can lead to a biased sample. By doing so, they only showcase these particular sampled videos to support the viewpoint that the red pill ideology is correct. However, this approach can create a negative feedback loop for these individuals, where they are constantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:37 AM
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You need to recognize that the world is not simply black and white. Complex situations often require nuanced thinking and careful consideration of multiple factors. Your generalized claim led to oversimplification and a lack of understanding of the complexity at hand. It's important to approach each situation with an open mind and a willingness to consider all perspectives. It is not uncommon for humans to make decisions that they later regret. Sometimes, the choices we make may result from a la…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:07 AM
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In your second paragraph, when you say "to talk openly about things," do you mean a group of men with whom you can be vulnerable and share negative experiences related to women, family, life, and your job? Also, when you say "openly," do you mean in any environment or just being vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:48 AM
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Nope. My grandfather had 7+ kids out of wedlock and was a heavy drinker, yet he provided for them all constantly. My grandmother didn't like him and only stayed because she didn't have any skills other than housework. She didn't even have a car, so she needed transportation when she worked part-time as a maid. My grandfather basically had complete control over her, and she recognized this and kept quiet. But once he died, my 70-year-old grandmother had a lot to say!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:27 AM
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There is no requirement for a woman to list her ability to cook, clean, have sex and provide support as prerequisites for entering a relationship with a man. These are generally expected tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:23 PM
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Literally. The comparison is laughable 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:00 AM
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It is important to avoid taking an extreme approach or resorting to dichotomous thinking. “Since being good didn’t work I’ll just became an asshole.” That’s extreme thinking. Instead, it may be more beneficial to aim for a middle ground and consider the positive aspects of their character. It is also helpful to transform their extreme traits into more neutral ones, allowing you to better emulate their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:17 PM
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Yes, because they tend to be down for manipulating and doing foul shit for sex and dates. If you down to lie, gaslight, manipulate, neg, lovebomb, or target specific women because they are easier it makes sense why you would be having more sex and dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:10 PM
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Stoicism is often misunderstood because of the misconceptions spread by many men who falsely claim to read and practice this philosophy. Most confuse stoicism when they really are nihilistic. Stoicism goes beyond the simplistic notion of “what's in your control versus what's not.” Something that is only discussed by these men with horrible reasoning behind why. It encompasses a wide range of concepts, such as the four cardinal values, Memento Mori, Prohairesis, and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:02 PM
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No formula given because you don’t have one so proceed to insults. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:29 PM
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That's literally mathematically wrong. How? What mathematical formula did you see? Show me it Maybe you just mean " most men aren't attractive" No, I said most men are low-tier. There are objective criteria to determine value. Human beings by nature create hierarchies surrounding these values. Attractiveness is only one aspect of value. One that Blackpill men tend to put way too much emphasis on in my opinion. Job occupations, mannerisms, and financial capability are other aspects of value that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:29 AM
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Your comment Is largely irrelevant to what I said and simply an insult. You claim regarding Blackpill men makes zero sense. Since they believe looks only matter. Yet, the examples I used of workforce participation and college admission should have suggested I believe men can work their way up based on merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:10 AM
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Most men are just low tier especially young men in this generation seeing testosterone levels are dropping, their work force participation is dropping, college admission is dropping and more. Across all board women are surpassing men both value wise in the dating market and workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:36 PM
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Love it! It gave us a choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:39 PM
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Wow, this was really interesting to read. However, isn't China facing a similar issue with a declining birth rate and men opting out? It seems that all developed countries are starting to face the challenge of young men not wanting to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:09 PM
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Where did I even say that at?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:21 AM
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One interesting point to consider is the impact that the availability of male birth control could have on societal attitudes towards reproduction. With this new option, it is likely that there will be fewer arguments made against men and their responsibility in this area. For example, the concept of "paper abortion," which allows men to legally disavow responsibility for a child they did not want, may no longer hold up as a valid argument. Instead, there will be an expectation that men take resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:43 PM
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We need to be more specific. I have heard many stories of low-income older men dating young women who are seeking out shelter, have "daddy issues," or are runaways. Does that make the men high-value? For you guys, the only thing that seems to matter is whether or not you can attract women. The actual quality of these women does not seem to be a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:28 PM
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I find to sooo funny. How men like you will go to insults instead of attacking the argument. Yet, do not see how you are acting like the same feminist who calls anyone a bigot or racist for questioning there’s. The only seething feminist here is you seeing you’re using the same strategies as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:14 PM
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I can’t even take this comment seriously. Anyone claiming there is no difference between a 20 year old v 30 year old is being disingenuous. I’m around older women and younger women daily. There is always a stark difference in maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:43 AM
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How old are you? Give an age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:42 AM
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This does not answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:39 AM
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Men: 20 year old women can be as mature as a 30 year old women. So how mature was she at 17? Like a 27 or 25 year old? Someone would have to go through VERY different life events either positive or negative. To be 20 years old and have 10 years of maturity above their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:05 AM
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So how mature were they at 19? Like a 29 or 28 year old? Okay then how about 15? A 25 year old? It’s not on average a 20 year old is going to be as mature as a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:00 AM
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Never said that but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:14 AM
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Op I love a good conspiracy theory. But what is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:00 AM
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There is a common misconception among some fathers that the best way to protect their daughters from the so-called "feminist world" is by sheltering them their entire lives. However, this approach can have unintended negative consequences. By shielding their daughters from the world and dictating their thoughts and values, fathers are essentially creating co-dependent women who may struggle to think for themselves. Some fathers really need to understand that teaching their daughters critical thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:10 AM
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It's because putting forth effort doesn't always mean that you're achieving the best possible outcome. Take, for instance, getting a new haircut. You could try your hardest to style your hair in a certain way, but it may not be the best fit for your face or overall appearance. Similarly, self-development is a highly individualized process that can't be easily summed up by simply saying that you're working on improving yourself. There are many factors that come into play when it comes to dating, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:29 PM
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The concept is not mutually exclusive. Women can say they want a provider yet still be able to provide for themselves. A woman saying she wants a man who can provide does not mean she cannot provide for herself. The quote listed above highlights, "wanting a man to be a provider is not the same as not being able to provide for oneself."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:34 PM
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Have you not heard of women saying "my money is mine, and his money is ours"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:55 PM
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I find this confusing. It seems that you are suggesting that women get married because they cannot provide for or protect themselves. But if they can do these things, what is the point of marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:44 PM
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Oh, I replied to the wrong person that's why. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:44 PM
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We both seem to be confused because my point is very clear: men view marriage as a good deal, as evidenced by their higher rate of remarriage. If you are still unsure, specify which section isn’t clear and I will provide further explanation. Is there a specific paragraph or sentence that needs clarification?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:43 PM
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Some people believe that marriage is a bad deal for men. Your reason is that they end up having to split assets evenly even when they have contributed more financially. However, statistics show that men tend to remarry more often than women. This raises the question, why would someone put themselves in a situation that is often regarded as a "bad deal"? Some may view marriage as a "bad deal" for men, but it is clear that many men still find value in this institution and are willing to take the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:06 PM
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When women say, "Oh, you want a cookie for being a decent person," they are referring to men, not literal children. Even if we remove the word "cookie," what do men say they want as a reward for being decent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:52 PM
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I find it interesting that some women use statistics to make generally negative generalizations about men. A counterargument to this is to replace gender with race and ask yourself if this is still acceptable. My issue with this claim is not the argument itself, but rather the hypocrisy being presented. Time and time again, we see a certain proportion of men making negative generalizations about women. However, I have never seen anyone make the argument that if you replace "women" with "Black pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:11 AM
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This is irrelevant and jumps to a different topic. So, do you feel that making a gender-based generalization is also wrong to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:28 PM
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When you refer to "these people" who get divorced for trivial reasons, you are actually talking about a minority then. One of the main reasons people file for divorce is lack of commitment. Sooo?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:25 PM
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No fault is a thing because no one wants the legal profession and its members to have to invent some cockamamie “fault” to justify why two people no longer want to be together in order for them to meet the requirements to dissolve their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:38 PM
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Explaining why people get divorced is complicated. Every relationship is unique, and the reasons for divorce can vary widely from one couple to another. Marital issues tend to run deep and become layered and complex over time. When people say that women divorce for any reason, I get the implication they mean women divorce men for trivial and random reasons, which is often not the case. Sure, some women may divorce for anything. But, even then I would need to know what counts as 'anything.'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:34 PM
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I did research and found that the difference between our perspectives is that I did not cherry-pick information. Women's increased anxiety levels are due to a multitude of factors, not simply hormones as you suggest. Your second source does not support your conclusion that hormones are the sole cause of increases anxiety. The source explicitly states that there are other reasons as well. Anxiety disorders can be linked to chemical imbalances in the body, along with other physiological factors su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:14 PM
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Her thinking women divorce men because of 'anything' says enough about her position.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:11 AM
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Based on the source you provided, there is no true evidence to support your claim that women's anxiety is caused by hormones. The study in question did not mention anything about brain chemistry or hormone fluctuations, which contradicts your conclusion. The conclusion reached said: Substantial evidence points to a preponderance of women demonstrating greater fear and anxiety than men across the life span. Many of the risk factors for developing anxiety form the basis for the expected gender dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:05 AM
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After looking at the data presented, there are some discrepancies between the sources cited and the argument being presented. Specifically, one of the sources used to support the claim regarding brain chemistry is not directly related to the topic at hand. Once I read the study the conclusion drawn from this source does not align with the assertion being made by OP AT ALL. They are misinterpreting the data and ultimately reached, an inaccurate conclusion. The only thing it said was that anxiety …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:56 AM
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It could be because of differences in brain chemistry and hormone fluctuations. Women's greater vulnerability for anxiety disorders can be partly understood by examining gender differences in the etiological factors known to contribute to anxiety The bold words suggest uncertainty regarding whether the cause is due to hormones, making it not good evidence. Furthermore, upon reading the source linked to support the claim, it is because of brain chemistry and hormone fluctuation. The source actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:50 AM
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It appears that you are using a different definition of "value.” Aka, women who are actual 5-6/10 but get told by their friends and simps on social media that she is boss queen, bad bitch and media telling her she should not settle for less will have a conflated idea of her value. You are using "value" to mean how one ranks themselves. Being successful in a high-paying career or profession” is of high importance to them. A successful marriage is “one of the most important things in life.” When O…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:25 PM
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Will this generation of men outgrow their singleness for the same reasons the previous generation did? Factors such as men earning more and changing standards of women as they age could explain why men aren’t as single in their 30s. However, it's unclear if those factors will carry the same weight for the next generation. Considering the current economy, financial stability may not be the primary reason for Gen Z men to outgrow their singleness. In fact, financial stability is often seen as a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:07 PM
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Resorting to personal attacks proves that you don't have a damn argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:11 PM
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Ah I see now your playing obtuse. The reason we difernate what makes a boy vs man is because you are not considered masculine nor a man just because you are born male. That why we call men who don't meet the standard of masculinity pussy, white knights or man-children. The man who lives in mommy basements and does nothing with his life is not a man in society eyes even if he's literally is a male. The thinking is not the same. Until your can name me what It means to be black, what attubites and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:09 PM
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The word has three meaning. Not solely being male. Once again if masculinity is solely about being male. Why do we make a distinction between what makes someone a man vs a boy? Why do we have the term manchild? Because it's not solely about being male but a set of behaviors and atttubities. Once again behaviors can become distorted or unhealthy. Derailing the discussion into race means shit. Are there a set of behaviors or traits associated with blackness like masculinity is? No, flipping the te…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:25 PM
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Masculinity is not the quality of solely being male. That's bullshit and you know it. If that was the case there would not be a distinct difference between what makes a boy vs what makes a men. Suck it up boo. Nearly all traits can be exaggerated and distorted into unhealthy forms. Agreeableness becomes people pleasing. Emotionally control can be repression. If masculinity has traits associated with it then those SAME traits become toxic aka unhealthy forms. Stay pressed at the term and distorti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:28 PM
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The most wildest jump to a conclusion I have ever seen before. I don't even want to see the mental gymnastics you would use to even tell me how this relates to what I said. ‘Average’ men bandwagoning off the achievements of great men because they know that's the only group of men that they can use to prove men are better is laughable. Classic apex fallacy and I'd advice you to look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:03 AM
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Why do you guys forget women can be just as shitty and stupid? Like you guys have women on such a high pedestal it seems it's hard to imagine that women can be just as trashy as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:25 PM
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There is nothing negative about this perspective. It's your fault you expected a naive optimistic response but instead got a realistic one. Making the question personal is irrelevant to the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:10 PM
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Unhinged behavior is toxic behavior. Using a different term with nearly the same definition does not refute my claim. The shit you are doing is not toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:18 AM
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The fact you think this is toxic further proves my point that PPD men that needed this advice were just once doormates that needed to loosen up a bit. Literally the over polite men that seem inhibited and always walking on egg shells because they were terrified women wouldn't like them. I've seen toxic shit from men and this is laughable shit. Toxic is: Embarrassing x for the fun of it. Randomly cursing out someone Toxic is negging women so they have lower self esteem so they cave in more. Const…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:03 PM
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LOL this is being toxic????? Wow....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:15 PM
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Most 12-16 boys go to ppl their age for help. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:55 PM
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No women should build a man up. Men should be able to clean themselves up without needing help. We aren't your damn mommies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:51 PM
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Well to bad. Sure, you might not get the validation your ego or self-esteem wants. But sadly most learn as they get older to not rely on external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:46 PM
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Is it being toxic or did you just develop boundaries and began speaking your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:43 PM
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Women don’t have to be upfront. Preference can be implied simply through who they like and date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:42 PM
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“You should be taught to be Irgun your same level.” Hint for you should date based on what level I think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:47 PM
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Like I said before: Hard truth is. While most young men keep proclaiming older men get more attractive dominantly because they have a car, home and finances in check. Chances are you are talking about men born a different generation from you and grew up in a different economy. Shit is different now and most young men this generation are going to be nowhere near economically attractive as the “older men” they keep saying slay young pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:45 PM
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Then next time be able to write your own thought on the topic. I don’t know about you. But after I finish watching an educational video. I can summarize their talking points in my own words. Same point just different words will convey the same claim. Seems you just don’t even know what the video overall point was.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:55 PM
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Nah, it’s simple. If you can link a video than you can summarize said video that disproved my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:01 PM
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Then don’t link a video. You should be able to quote the part that is a response to my text.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:26 AM
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Then quote it. I’m not watching a video. If you understood it so well you can summarize the points.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:09 PM
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Wtf is weak on intimacy? Even then intimacy is only one concept of how you try to be emotional The rest of your text you need to articulate better because I do not understand what claim you are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:44 PM
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I’m not watching that. That was made 5 years ago and the men’s movement still hasn’t done anything. It’s not because of society but because men seem to lack they need to frame and word their issues in a way that appeals to the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:42 PM
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Then there is no solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:39 PM
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Men are obsessed with sex to prove there masculinity and for an ego trip. It’s nothing logical about being obsessed over sex either. Everyone requires assistance on developing emotional and social skills. It’s jus that society neglects man and overcompensates with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:04 AM
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Women do have more freedom. It’s due to men standards being lower but also because women do not base there entire actions around the approval of man. Man do all this performative action for sex and validation from women. Feminism was about freeing women not men. Invest in your own fucking movemen instead of only fans, porn, video games and podcast and you might get somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:00 AM
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This is not a women's privilege. This is just you guys seeing white women's privilege in full action alongside how affirmative action helps them the most. It is well-documented that AA names get fewer job offers than white names.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 12:43 AM
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Right now do one with a name that sounds like it might belong to an African-American - say, Lakisha Washington. It's well documented AA names don't get as many as white names.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 12:33 AM
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Women are not putting 100% on the men. Putting 100% would be full custody, no child support or help from the other parent. That’s what YOU guys want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:30 PM
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Don’t project here buddy. It’s men that want a double standard on who should hold more responsibility. Just admit you don’t want accountability for your actions and instead want all of it to be placed on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:21 PM
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A whole paragraph of damn nothing. Both people decided to tango so deal with it. Keep your dick in your pants if you know you can’t financially support a child or mentally won’t be ready!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:19 PM
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Chooses mean you can say yes or no. Most men DO have a choice between the two. You just want man to not be accountable for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:17 PM
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The previous generations before Gen z. And I say this because younger men always proclaim as they get older they acquire more value. Usually due to security and provision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:09 PM
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Women have to open their legs. Men need to unbuckle their pants LOLOLOL that’s why. Access isn’t limited to entering but also meaning permission buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:06 PM
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Let’s just act like men do not allow people access to who gets the dick. No, both of you guys had sex and understand the consequences. Now deal with it the both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:01 PM
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Great where on the same page. A bullshit comment got a bullshit response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:00 PM
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The angry answers come from having to pay in taxes the stupid decision both people made. Hell no. The people who created that damn child who choose to keep it. One of y’all are paying that damn child support. Not me. Hell to the N O
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:25 PM
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Bullshit take. Both decided to tango so you both have to deal with the bullshit you both created called your “child”. The women has to deal with her crappy decision and so does the men by paying child support. Accountability for ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:23 PM
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Without the men’s sperm their would be NO CHILD. Equal responsibility is here. Just as a women has drawbacks the men knows the drawbacks for him include having to take care of it. Bo hoo. You have to grow up and be accountable for your actions. Who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:18 PM
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Hard truth is. While most young men keep proclaiming older men get more attractive dominantly because they have a car, home and finances in check. Chances are you are talking about men born a different generation from you and grew up in a different economy. Shit is different now and most young men this generation are going to be nowhere near economically attractive as the “older men” they keep saying slay young pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:05 PM
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To add. Men are wayyyyy more obsessed with women. Especially unsuccessful men that can’t get us out of their head. Dedicate podcast to us, claiming to go MGTOW yet still bitching about us and even wanting to enforce state laws to make women have no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:40 PM
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When you say fully developed you must mean physically. That’s the only thing that matters though right? No 18 year old someone fresh out of high school and still needing mommies helps with basic shit is fully developed mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:19 PM
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Because most of the time they are. The data backs this up. Chances are the power imbalance is in the older mans favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:16 PM
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They never said this to begin with. Your painting this as an ALL 30 year old men when we all know they are talking about a certain demographic of men who claim it’s due to wanting women with less baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:15 PM
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Then this applies even more to high n count men since: 1. Men have higher sex drives than women and seek out sex more. 2. Claim they don’t get emotionally attached making it easier to lay in bed with a stranger. With these two factors high n count men are are even more likely than high n women to not say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:47 PM
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Cheating is bad. There is no which is worser than the other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:44 PM
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Funny how you never gave a response to her debunking the pseudoscience you included with stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:59 PM
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Define the behaviors that you incorporated into your personality though? Also, what do you mean by jackass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:44 PM
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No it wouldn't. Not all women have high standards for men. I guarantee you if a men is truly willingly to have sex with a pulse they can find a women to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:15 PM
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Except strength, speed, stamina and gaining muscles is not gender neutral so why would the test be also when they are based on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:22 PM
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Reread your comment and actually think for a moment. In order to warn someone about something. You would first need to have some experience regarding that thing to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:54 AM
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Tons. Each day I go outside I see an attractive man. Honestly, 2-6 each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:09 AM
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It's not a different type of advice. Both come from having negative personal experiences with X. Adding nonexistent details doesn't change the fact both advice come from the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:43 AM
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Lol okay buddy. Being White it ethnic doe not matter here. They have emphasized the importance of being a racially homogeneous nation and the preference of pure blood for a very long time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:41 AM
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No the do not. Get real. South Korean want to marry and reproduce with South Koreans. They do not carry the same ideals as Western countries regarding mixed race kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:59 AM
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When are you guys going to stop claiming the reason women don't want to have kids is due to hypergamy. What do you know about South Korea and how their culture views marriage and kids? Do you even know anything about South Korea? If you did you would know most South Korean do not carry the same ideal of having mixed-race kids. Even if they come from white people. They are very nationalistic and want to have kids with other South Koreans. Importing white incels will do nothing. Lastly the reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:54 AM
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Yes, because people learn from their personal experience. Just like how the old heads in the RP forums warn young men about dating single moms or promiscuous women. Women are going to do the exact same regarding their personal experience with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:45 AM
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Who is discussing this or cares? No one's cares about age gaps nor about Leo. Hearing one chick on the internet complain about this does not indicate anything. Just like how older RP men warn younger men about their negative personal experiences. Women are going to do the same towards younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:44 AM
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Based on location and where you live at. I do not see many young overweight women here and I have hardly ever seen an obese one. For example, if you live in the south. Chances are the stat is accurate. Meanwhile just go to NYC, LA, Atlanta and any known city/state and most are average weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:59 PM
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Where do you live at? I see multiple attractive men each day I’m outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:54 PM
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Bro your making all these wild leaps. They even said what do you mean by rapport? Platonic or romantic? Let's start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:56 PM
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My entire argument was against you claiming. Women are interested in middle age men with kids and an ex wife. Women at there peak are getting attention from attractive young men and attractive older men. Your average old guy with kids and an ex wife is not pulling young women. It's not more than you think. It's way less than what you can imagine and think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:06 PM
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Women at there best get attention from young physically attractive men and older men who are both physically attractive and have money. No one denies attractive older men with it all can get younger women. Most people are saying your average men is not competing with neither young attractive men nor older men who are attractive. Men can whine all they want about how they can't get a young woman when they are fat, balding and making 40k finally at 35. But it only means you are overestimating your…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:52 AM
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The wall exist but it can be pushed back due to lifestyle choice, skincare, and race. If the wall is beautiful it varies but most average women lose it by 35-40. If it's about when can easily have a child unless she has medical issues it's 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:34 AM
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To bad most men are average and don't cultivate that much wealth or status to become attractive to nearly all women from 20-30. Older men get with women around there age or a few years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:25 AM
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But the last thing I'd do is doing 50% of what the average woman thinks is necessary. This comes across as if you assumed the majority of women are like that though. You did seem to have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:34 AM
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Okay then I’m confused. You claim you won’t do 50% of what women deem necessary yet what your listed you do is what most women want and nothing more. What extra would you be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:40 PM
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Think for a moment. I am talking about the average person. Is the average women a stay at home mom? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:37 PM
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Some of you guys need to think. How frequently are you even cleaning the yard and gutter? You don’t do those things as frequently as cooking and cleaning a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:58 AM
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Your assuming the wife does not work. Most couples are dual income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:57 AM
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What’s the basic stuff? How frequently do you do it? The dynamic changes when you live together and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:54 AM
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This isn’t true. Introverted people have plenty of location that are good enough. They just need to align with your own interest and be around the right group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:42 PM
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The group of men I’m talking about is red pilled men. Based on what the Redpill sidebar says: Dark Triad Personality, aka why “chicks dig jerks”: A catchall phrase that describes the personality types MANY women are naturally attracted to: Narcissists Machiavellian Psychopaths Why are women attracted to these “bad boys”? Power-driven (status) Low neuroticism and extroverted Low amounts of empathy and agreeableness Not prone to being needy or over investing In other words they're a challenge and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:56 AM
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There is a group of men here who tend to believe good-looking men are successful not only because of there looks. But also because they showcase dark traid traits. It's not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:46 AM
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The thread on how it was like to become attractive makes no sense. Chances are when you were unattractive you weren't attentive nor receptive to other unattractive women. So why are you bitter? I think it's a lot of lying in that thread anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:57 AM
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Yep it’s because the women wanted to take all the men’s cash. Not possibly they fell out, grew apart or couldn’t work out there differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:04 PM
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What does that have to do with South Korea though is the point of my comment. South Korean feminism isn't wokeism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:25 AM
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No duh. The government does not want to help Americans raise the kids to be able to actually support them. Instead, they ban abortion and not even help cure the baby formula shortage that's still currently happening. Maybe, if they help Americans with their financial struggles they would have at least one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:42 PM
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The reason feminism is getting deeper and deeper is because of the lack of employment. The unemployment problem in Korea is getting serious. Women avoid dangerous or physically demanding jobs and prefer high-paying office jobs or large corporations that can work in the metropolitan area. However, these companies are still generally maintaining the military bonus points. People who support feminism are calling for abolition of the military bonus point, but as you know, Korea does not recruit sold…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:37 PM
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Wtf is wokeism? Can you give me some examples of his this shows up in South Korean society???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:35 PM
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This makes no sense but okay. Go look up the definition of concrete information vs abstract information. Concrete information comes directly from our 5 senses, it's the tangible and what is there. Most of you guys are stuck in fantasy land preoccupied with what if’s that are not based on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:33 PM
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Is this comment directed as western feminism or feminism in South Korea? Because they are not the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:24 PM
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Women risk bringing placeholders and come up with women deciding to invest in potential. Something that isn't even concrete and guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:12 PM
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It’s easier to be attractive to men. To women it’s harder. That’s why women compliments towards my appearance are always the best
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:37 AM
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What aspect of masculinity do feminist want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:37 AM
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Op claim was: As women get older. They begin to need men. As men get older they begin to not need women. If a women needed a men as she got older. Meaning required a men because they were so important. There behavior would manifest in higher amounts of dating and marriage. 40 year old women can date 50+ year old men if they truly required it. The data shows men are more open to remarrying so a 50+ year old men will be fine marrying someone 10 years younger than him. Even though this is unlikely …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:59 AM
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I don’t care to discuss the reason behind why 40 year old women are choosing not to date. Talking about the why does not refute my claim. At the end of the day no matter the reason women are choosing to not date nor remarry as the age. Countering their claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:30 AM
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How are you going incentives people to care about freaking dating issues. When inflation is currently happening, rent is rising, gas is rising and basically everything else is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:19 PM
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Most 40 year old have that though so your talking about a minority. The only men I know pulling young women is through spending tons of money on them aka sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:17 PM
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Date younger women then. Why does someone need to tell you why you should? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:52 PM
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Which will not happen since America is arguably the most individualistic country and most people are to occupied with their own issues. Idk how people expect someone to give energy towards caring about others when most of their energy is towards making there own ends meet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:50 PM
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OP made it CLEAR and said NEED. He never made the claim of what NEED means. That is you filling in blank spaces to try and fit your narrative. Once again my comment dose refute OP claim. If men began not seeing a need for women as the aged. The data would show it. I have provided two source claims that actually show women behavior = as they age they begin not needing men. What data do you have that indicates as men age they begin not seeing the need for women? Using some make believe scenario wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:49 PM
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It does contradict his statement. He claimed: It’s when women realize they need a man, and when men realize they don’t need a woman. If men realize they do not need women. Why are they remarrying faster than women and want to date at a much higher rate than women in older age? The data shows women are the ones that as they age begin to see the need for men less. It manifest in there behavior where they do not marry again and don’t not seek out relationships. Men’s behavior reveals the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:33 PM
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Back in the day you could buy a home, car and raise a family at your retail job. Now it’s just harder to succeed economically. To add not only is it harder to succeed but every single metic of pricing has rising: rent, food, gas, homes and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:23 PM
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I agree. To add I always say men are not simply competing with OTHER men in the real world. But women’s acceptance of being alone if she can’t find what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:17 PM
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Name a list of women who have those three qualities and are being idolized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:15 PM
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After marriages end men are more likely to remarry in comparison to women? Pew research data also shows. Women 40+ have no interest in dating in comparisons to men. 71% of women are not interested in dating. While it’s only 42% of men. It seems it’s the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:03 PM
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Yep, it is crazy how some men really believe that. Men action are dictated by if they get X reward. Usually that reward being sex with women. Because no your basically saying it’s women choices that determine how men will act.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:47 PM
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As you put it men become what gives them the best rewards. That rewarding being sex correct? You do understand your basically claiming men actions are dictated purely by women pussies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:38 PM
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Incel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:59 AM
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You guys are so off. The economy is the reason this country is going to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:45 PM
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If you want to correct me. Learn to use a period at the end of your sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:31 PM
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The men here are claiming the reason men are bad is due to the fact they get pussy. That is saying men's moral is based on pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:29 PM
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Lol what. Now men want to tell women what is attractive 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:27 PM
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Pure bullshit. Attractive men on dating sites get the majority of swipes and matches. You guys are not in reality at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:26 PM
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You must have never seen a men considered attractive from a objective standard. Those men get women and they come to them. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:23 PM
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Yet all I see are hoards of men falling flat on their face to get the attention of even the most average girls, many of these guys are good looking, successful, personable from good backgrounds. Is there a common career they are under? Are they introverted and shy? Do they have frequent proximity to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:26 PM
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Do most of the women around your age look overweight? If your 6’2 and have an average face. Just lose weight and see who you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 04:11 PM
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You will notice a pattern regarding Q4W post. Where they will ask a question that requires personal experiences to be used. And they deny it, claim they are lying or over exaggerating their statements. Hardly, do most of these post come from a place of understanding. But usually a biased perspective that doesn’t allow them to see it from someone’s else POV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:22 PM
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Wait for the people here to try and justify their action with a false narrative they were bullied and reached their BrEakInG pOinT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:20 PM
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Having 3 body counts is not high. Wtf 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:19 PM
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Lol okay. If you think 2-3 partner is disgusting you definitely need help. Your not getting anyone chick with those standards at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:18 PM
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Deciding to have sex with many people isn't a right or wrong thing, to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:11 PM
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I'll add if a women is living with a men. He needs to compensate somehow due to most women dying from their partners. Increased if he's a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:27 PM
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Maybe you should read the entire comment thread. No one was asking for sympathy, to begin with. My post was pointing out it's hypocritical to claim you don't like being the last option yet claim X should be okay with it. You guys want empathy from women on your dating issues yet won't even give it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:43 PM
1

Right! Stick to girl code women!!!✊🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:59 PM
1

Are these women dating other Africans? Africans and African Americans have very different cultures and dating landscapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:32 PM
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No one was asking for sympathy to begin with. I was pointing out the comparison of the two and how hypocritical it is to say that. When most men hate the idea of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:26 PM
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Did you even read her post? And no, none of these guys were top 15% of men. They were average, and in some cases below average. And they were all men of different races--white, black, East Asian, South Asian, etc. They weren't muscular buff guys and they had average to low socioeconomic levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:45 PM
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What does you attract friends who are BW look like? Like how the media depicts attractive black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:44 PM
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No one wants to be the last option. I'm surprised a men cannot fathom this. Most men hate the idea a woman is settling with them because they couldn't secure an attractive guy. The same applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:40 PM
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Lol okay. Men who shoot up places are psychos who so happen to always be shy and quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:20 PM
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I’m not talking about ethnicity though. I’m speaking about RACE.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:26 AM
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No mass shooter was bullied to the point they were tortured socially. Most are little loner psychos that make ppl not want to be bothered with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:25 AM
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This mindset is only prevalent in psycho White men I fucking swear. No other group thinks your own country is an enemy that you need to walk into schools/churches/grocery stores and kill people who have done nothing to your ass. If your sooo pissed about society kill the people who set the policy and laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:10 AM
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Verbally hurting someone’s does not equate to murder you fucking dumbass. Many people get bullied. LBGTQ, minorities and women. Yet it really is only men that think this entitles them to go and kill people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:07 AM
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It does work. Explain how it's different. If you can't attract what you want your standards are too high and you're overestimating your worth toward the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:02 PM
1

Bro nobody is forcing you. Stop wanting to be the victim so bad. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 03:46 PM
1

Red Piller trying get some pussy after spending 25$ on a chick: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdsGbktG/?k=1 This shit is hilarious 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:29 AM
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Life does not revolve around feminism. Having a men or options does not = you will be more happy. Having all the excess of pleasure and luxury does not = equal women will be happier. I don't know what bubble you live in. But simply being given your rights does not mean you'll be oh lalalaala oH IM Sooo HapppY!!! Link the source that says women using antidepressants more and where it says WHY. Unlike men women are way more likely to actually get mental health treatment. So no duh they are going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:46 AM
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Yeah no duh. We have modern technology that makes it where. You won't spend as much time cleaning your house in comparison to that time. Second, gender roles have deteriorated. Of course, men are going to be doing more housework than men in the past. Now it's a standard for both that is no longer limited by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:29 AM
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Aligns with my parents too. He was apathetic and tolerant of her presence. It was only until he cheated and she was fed up with his lack of communication did she finally end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:00 AM
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As it should. You live in a society and benefit from other people. You can give back to that society so it can stay functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:34 PM
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Thankfully most women don't marry men they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:25 PM
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Your entire argument is well women won't fuck men who won't commit anymore. First, its no guarantee women won't stop having having sex with men who don't want to take care of the child. Instead they will do abortion even If its no confirmation it's safe. 1600s to the 19th century shows abortion have been around for A LONG TIME. Making it illegal won't do shit. Second, you don't even care about the kids. You just care about women no longer having sex with commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:37 PM
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Lol okay. Being respectful and civilized with formatting your words to people. Is coddling them. You can give someone the hard truth WHILE being respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:25 PM
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Yes that's the AF/BB staretgey. It's clearly wrote about in the red pill side bar. Beta use resources to attract women. If the women is marrying the beta its because she is attracted to his resources. Stop being so emotional. No sensible person would say they would spit on someone if they were on fire. Get a damn grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 02:22 PM
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They are attracted to them. Their resources, stability and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:51 AM
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Tact is the ability to tell the truth in a way that considers other people's feelings and reactions. People don’t simply react to his actual advice but the way it’s worded. And it’s nothing wrong with that when it’s clear it’s disrespectful. It’s not hard to present your arguments in a rational, civilized manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:25 AM
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Lol okay. We all know when people say dying alone. They are talking about without a significant other not literally alone. Don’t switch the definitions to try and prove your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:17 AM
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And to add. The NYC shooter was a Kevin Samuel Stan and apart of the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:32 PM
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The NYC shooter was a Kevin Samuel Stan and apart of the manopshere though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:31 PM
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And those men who don’t have the same or less aren’t getting younger women most likely a 25-30 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:59 AM
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No because there is data that shows this. Across Western countries, about 8 per cent of all married heterosexual couples can be classified as having a large age gap (10 years or more). Where’s your proof the norms are changing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:58 AM
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The norms surrounding large age gaps are not changing. Your average 30 year old men is going to be with a women 2-5 years younger than him. Not 10 years. We both can pray one day it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:37 AM
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Women do not have a body count of 50-100 to begin with so your overestimating how much “experience” women have to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:35 AM
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People do not get married to someone 1-9 months in a relationship.The average length it takes couple to get married varies between 2-5 years. While the average age of marriage is 25-30. If you got her at 30 you met her when she was 25-28 years old. It’s false to even propose your settling if you didn’t get her young because most young people. Men nor women want to get married. If you think getting her at her best simply means early 20. You dont even care about marriage more so just banging a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:31 AM
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People aren’t getting married 1-9 months in. If your are married at 30 chances are you met her when she was 25+.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:19 AM
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An athlete is not equivalent to your average women. LOL WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:15 AM
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Going does not equate to actually getting. Some of you guys are so far from reality it’s scary. Age gaps that large are a very small minority. It’s reserved for sugar baby/daddy relationships, above average successful and rich men and maybe low income bums targeting women from broken families.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:12 AM
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Some of you guys need to go outside and touch more grass. If a 30 year old men has the same amount of experience as someone 10 years younger than him. He isn’t the men 20 year old women want to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:07 AM
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Yep, I bet lol. It gets to the point where it's don't go outside and have a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:19 PM
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What else do men ask? How do I become more attractive to women. How do I get women to view me as attractive? No men with an ounce of social courtesy literally ask: how do I get to be someone who a woman would date and fuck. My statement: “You don't need to be told X.” Was towards a very specific statement you made regarding attraction. Your the one taking the extra step and making it seem it's used towards all men's questions on dating when it's not. Sure some women might say you should already …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:14 PM
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How do you expect women to migrate being raped. Sure it's the simplistic answers of don't get drunk to the point your unconscious, go out with friends, party with people you know, leave at a certain time and etc. But most women do use those precaution already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:58 PM
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Those two things are not equivalent. You know the area has a high crime rate. There is no way of telling you're going to be raped unless the area is also known as having cases there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:49 PM
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Rape culture is real. Areas (Not all) with alcohol and drugs are some of the areas that have culture like this. I've seen many times men purposely pressure women to drink til she is flat-out drunk to try and smash. Bruski even did a video on this. https://youtu.be/mM51O2fN30Q
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:44 PM
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Most people assume already when someone is talking about who they want to date and fuck. They are physically attracted to them. I don't even get why you need to be told this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:47 AM
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No duh? If your popular you hold some type of desirable trait/s most people like. This is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 03:51 PM
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Thanks man. I’m interested in psychology but never really found much good sources. I’ll look into it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:45 PM
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Maybe your talking about white women. From my experience Asian women, black women and other minorities age well into there 30+. Usually there isn’t wrinkles or signs of aging as stark as white women. And it’s actually evidence of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:42 PM
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Exactly. I’m wondering what he means by older? Actual old men 50+. Or older men that are 3-5 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:36 PM
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Why are you using a dichotomy of looks or personality? You don't think a men can be attractive to a lady yet have a personality she likes??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:54 AM
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Wealthier means rich. Working class boyfriends aren't rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:33 PM
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Oh my god. How the hell did you learn about all this stuff? I’m interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:03 PM
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Lol obviously it's not if most women are willingly choosing not to have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:04 PM
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Oh plz where do you live at?? Based on your environment a random stranger approaching you is usually bad news. Shit gets weird on NYC bus trains all the time. Your post is vague and leaves out a lot of crucial questions regarding the men and envoriment. Is it nighttime? Do you live in an area with high crime rates? Does he look crazy or verbally actually said something crazy to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:43 PM
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Men are physically stronger than women though? So there is a power dynamic at play that can cause the women to be scared or uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:37 PM
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Nowhere in the text does it say this. OP post is vague as hell and your just filling in all the blank spaces he left out to to construct a false argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:32 PM
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Tha calculater is not accurate. How do you get 3/6 and most of the criteria is what's considered average? not married 20-35 any race at least 5' 9" tall not obese earning at least $35,000 - 40,000 per year. The average height in America is 5’9 for men. The average income in America for men is 37,000 but this is can be different based on where you live. The average guy is midly overweight not fucking obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:21 PM
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How the hell are you a grown ass men yet don't know dick will not make pussy lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:57 AM
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Damn you guys are really overdramatic. Yes, he shouldn't have slapped him on stage. But calling someone a psycho for acting out badly ONCE in his entire career on stage is a push. Give it a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:04 AM
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It was unprofessional for him to make a joke about her hair, to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:55 AM
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You don't have to worry. Most people have the courtesy to where they know not to crack a joke about someones else wife hair condition to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 09:54 AM
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It's not the most harmless joke when the reason she cut off her hair is because she has alopecia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:21 AM
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He wasn't trying to use the person who said the quote to prove his statement to begin with. His quote was the argument not that Albert Einstein said it Sherlock
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:43 PM
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Honestly yes. Constantly hearing the same narrative women go for dark traid assholes, drug dealers, alpha and hotties in their youth because they are mentally a teen that’s trying to capitalize hypergamously on her youth to secure the best alpha she can but later settle for a beta she doesn’t like but needs stability is very tiring. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:29 PM
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Who cares about outrage? Which gender actually puts in more effort and action to help these people? Last time I checked women volunteer way more than men when it comes to social and health services.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:08 PM
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They do when they are alone and actually have a group of guy friends they can talk with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:05 AM
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I copy and pasted the part of your comment I disagreed with. It has nothing to do with submission but you making the claim: Women want men who do not cooperate or compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:49 PM
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“who do not compromise or cooperate with women.” Are you being serious right now? No wonder your comment got downvoted. This is a ridiculous claim. The men here seem to not be able to fathom women want men who are balanced individuals. Under certain circumstances its perfectly fine to be disagreeable. But good luck keeping your relationship going good. When you are always disagreeable and uncooperative. This is the easiest way to be constantly bickering about even the small shit unless you get w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:07 AM
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Being extremely agreeable will manifest the traits of: Has no opinion and unable to think for themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:03 AM
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Not everyone one of your calls will be correct. I will say it's extreme to debate EVERYTHING your partner want: unless you lack making good judgment. But claiming if she dosen't respect your final call means she's trying to be dominate and wear the pants. Is ridiculous. Your final call may be: short-sighted, unreasonable, or selfish. To dismiss it as oh she's trying to wear the pants in the house is misleading. Your not always right and should be open to following your partner final call if it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:56 AM
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Saving this thread as proof. Some men here really think being an attractive men = Hes bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:22 PM
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How can you even test this? People are born into an environment from the day they are born. Wouldn't it be hard to distinguish if it's nature or just nurtures?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:01 PM
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Is your standard waiting til marriage to have your first sexual experience? If so look up the statistic of how many women remain virgins in there 20. Then subtract if they meet your other criteria: young, slim, mentally stable and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:09 AM
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Precise. If we did a poll on how many women waited til marriage. Included if they are young, attractive and mentally stable. You would have a small population of women left. Just as men claim the 666 standard women have is unrealistic. So is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:43 PM
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I have to disagree and I’m a women. If your pretty and quiet men will still approach you. The issue really is having the skills and mindset to SUSTAIN the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:18 PM
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Okay, keep projecting buddy. Something as miniature as not wanting to be a doormat is nothing compared to what the red pill side bar says is a jerk dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:30 PM
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This is not what I define as an asshole. READ. This is what the red-pill defines as the bad boy or asshole you are trying to say they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:47 PM
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Yes, I understood that already the bad boy archetype doesn't HAVE to means treat women like dogshit You claimed her saying the red pill advocates for being an asshole is a fallacy. I countered your argument with a direct copy and paste from one of the posts saved on the sidebar. The only one not comprehending is you. Don't claim what she said was fallacious when it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:09 AM
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For me it’s the lack of effort to my appearance. When I don’t put in effort I’m just your average gal walking. I’ll add also that I’m very quiet in public spaces and to myself. It’s only after I’ve done my hair and put on more flattering clothes do I notice attention being drawn to me BY BOTH genders. It’s honestly crazy how different I get treated when I decide to put more effort into my hair and clothes. People really do just notice you more, stare at you and take more action to try and speak …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:01 PM
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Its not a fallacy to make the claim: Aren't you the ones who say you act like assholes because it's clearly what women want? As she said. They do advocate to be an uncaring dark traid asshole because IT DOES get your laid. Once again red pill men trying to exclude content of the red pill they dislike. It's on the damn side bar. It called all in one guide to the red pill 101. If you scroll down you will see a section dedicated to the dark traid personality aka the bad boy archetype you are trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:56 AM
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I'm not lumping them up together because it's convenient to me. You're the one generalizing the entire groups philosophy so you can just exclude anyone that dosen't fit your idea of what it means to be redpilled. Most men in that community have different beliefs when it comes to marriage, relationships and more. Some want to spin plates, while others want traditional LTR, some advocate against marriage while other still decide to take the risk even after know female nature. Red pill men are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:43 AM
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Now your just derailing from the original argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:29 AM
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Every time someone doesn’t fit your definition of what it means to be redpilled. You guys always say, “Oh no they aren’t actually red pill.” If someone has accepted the red pill to be true they are red pilled. Doesn’t matter if it’s a more extreme version of it they still are red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:07 PM
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Well, I guess I know now just because people see many divorces. Doesn't mean they'll know it's not as simple as they cheat = divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:10 PM
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Lol back to square on. Female is a neutral word that can become perceived as negative based on the context it's used in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:07 PM
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No duh of course people are going to be more outraged. The president is going to be put to higher standards compared to a rapper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:01 PM
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What? She looks really pretty on her Twitter profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:49 PM
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Do you even have any experience regarding this topic? You sound like you have never seen a couple going through a divorce or possibly wanting a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:56 PM
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So now people shouldn't react to words they think are disrespectful to them? I'd think you were weak if you didn't stick up for yourself when it's blatant disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:00 PM
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That's not how connotations work though. I've seen plenty of times women call each other bitches and laugh it off. The literal meaning of a word vs the feeling it evokes are not the same thing. Some men do negatively use females while others don't. It matters the context of the discussion. If a guy says: “Well you females.” In a heated argument the feeling is entirely different from a guy saying that in a normal environment .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:53 PM
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Donald Trump was the president of the United States and will naturally have higher expectations placed on him. It has nothing to do with MakIng BeatS. But the fact he's the fucking president. Do you think rappers and our President share the SAME EXPECTATIONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:45 PM
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It won't ever be controversial. Beginning in the early 2000. Black rappers HAVE ALWAYS said vulgar shit about women and even present them as objects nearly in their rap music. Have your not heard of the 2000 Vixens? Just because some white feminist are going crazy about some video games or whatever does not mean other cultures give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:31 PM
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Traditional feminity only serves women in a privileged position where they don't have to work to begin with and can rely on a men for money. It does not serve any women outside that model.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:12 AM
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You gotta love when PPD claims women should not use their experience as an argument yet here it is. A good example that as long as it fits their viewpoint it's all good. But it's good you did find a guy that's not only financially stable but also willing to provide. If most men were like this I doubt we would see the need for women to still hold down a job despite being with a men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:07 AM
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Lol they really think people are going to believe them when they claim your average 40 year old is scoring young women. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:51 AM
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Most people feel the same about this. It's only men who compliment the guy on fucking the older chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:25 PM
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It does make sense. Anyone born in the 2000 and up has some type of social medial presence. Either Instagram, snapchat or Tik tok. They might not post anything but they do have it to stay updated. EVERY young person has these apps. If you don't your are either old or not normal/average. Shit even my mom and dad have TikTok and insta.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:51 PM
2

He's a good-looking guy. I prefer him with the beard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:35 AM
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Why do you guys strawmen this argument? It's always some guy saying, “The world wouldn't work without men.” I doubt they are saying women don't need men to keep society running. We need both participating to keep it running. They are saying in women intimate and personal lives. They don't need a men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:18 PM
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Only proves people perception of the Blue Pill is whatever they make it out to be. Going to the gym and working on yourself easily falls under Red Pill's advice. Going out and being social is legit advice. The issue is the men need it to be specific because they are clueless. Where they also need to be told exactly how to be social in those event to get a chick's attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:53 PM
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Some things TRP says does work though. While TRP didn't invent the practices of: Getting fit, increasing your money and putting women off a pedestal. They do work. The issue really is when men start reading on their theories on how women works can it get destructive. Even worse if the men already had many negative experience/perception with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:47 PM
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Maybe if you only care about casual sex. Then sure being a good person may limit your prospects. But if you want to be in a healthy relationship. You do need to at least hold some good traits. Not all since most people do have a few negative things about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:41 PM
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It's only logical BehAvioR broooo. No, it's not. It's from his internal feelings towards women manifesting as this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:02 AM
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Helping people out does not equate to being friends with people. I help stranger out when I'm at work and engage in small talk with them. We laugh and may discuss things further. But I never consider them friends just co-workers I talk with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:49 PM
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Who cares if low N aren't good in bed? As long as they are open minded and willing to get better as the relationship progresses then who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:53 AM
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Lol no. If someone with a 20 year gap between them somehow is friends or in a relationship. That's an exception to the rule. It dosen't disprove it but only offer a small possibility it can happen. Most people aren't in age gap relationships. And there's a reason for it. You can blame society pressuring people to not do it. But it's also because most people do not vibe with people significantly younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:18 AM
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This is literally a debate forum? Of course no one is going to bat an eye or say anything to stranger on the street? Its out of pure courtesy to the individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:59 PM
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Why are the men here go to argument centered around above-average men in either the category of attractiveness or income? Because y'all know your average 30-40-year-old men can't pull younger women. Which ironically is what most people here are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:54 PM
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Yep, and how many of those imaginary couples exist to even begin contemplating that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:40 PM
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You are using a false equivalence here. Just because height gaps/size gaps share one characteristic with age gaps does not mean they are to be compared. The reason no one cares about height gaps/weight gaps in comparison to age gaps is that. To most people, the order of magnitude is entirely different. The impact an age gap can cause vs a height/weight gap isn't the same. You're exaggerating the only thing they share. Which is they both have a gap between two things. While ignoring which gap wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:39 PM
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Can't disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:26 PM
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Most people know this type of stuff though? I don't know why he assumed my statement applied to above average men with higher income than normal or older good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:25 PM
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I never said 30 year old men couldn’t sleep around with younger women? I even said before: Just do it if you can anyways??? I do agree if you have an above average income in your area or still manage to be good looking. You can sleep with younger women? But the average men? With an average income? And average looks? Which most people are? I doubt it. And I hardly ever see it where it from
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:24 PM
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You need to try again. You literally just derailed from the conversation to make what point? That interracial couples also face a higher divorce rate as age gaps? No one claimed dating interracially didn’t increase the likelihood of divorce. To the point it’s irrelevant to the discussion and just a huge: Well what AboUt ThIs????? Even then your claim dating interracially increase divorces is false. Since AS YOU EVEN SAID: It depends which racial configuration you're taling about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:19 PM
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They don't care at all because she's young. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:13 PM
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Yet it's men constantly bringing up this damn topic. And the women are only going to respond with the same shit. Y'all need to give it a break and just accept if you want to have sex with younger women. Just do it if you even can once your in your 30. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:41 PM
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Yet a smart person MOST LIKELY will not be dating someone below average to begin with. Just as age gap relationships are rare so is this. Why is this topic always being brought up????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:17 PM
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It's false to assume people even give a damn about 25 year old dating way older people. NO ONE CARES ABOUT 25+ YEAR OLD DATING SOMEONE OLDER THEN THEM TO BEGIN WITH. No one gives a fucking damn about that age group. Second, using an extreme example to prove your point isn't proving anything. Your average 25-year-old isn't a virgin dating a 30+ single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:13 PM
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I see now. Both experiences are valid at the end of the day and my mistake for saying you're delusional. I do agree living alone from 50-90 is tough. But women build social networks more then men. I keep saying this. But I believe women will just build large networks of friends. Ranging from close buddies to people they might just go out with. I don’t think they will be ‘alone’ nor lonely as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:04 PM
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Yes and she is a nurse? So what’s your point? She’s around older people as a job? For 3-4 days a week working 12 hour shifts most likely? Your delusional if you think your personal experiences matches someone’s who’s salary come from watching, providing and interacting with older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:55 AM
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You two are really just throwing around your personal experience. Yet, can’t see from both perspectives there will always be groups of women who are lonely and some who are cool with being alone 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:12 AM
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LOL not it isn't. Someone being considered chad does not = something unpleasant or embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:37 PM
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Lol no you literally said: Why can't women ignore all chads. Chad's are usually just attractive men. So your basically asking women to ignore attractive men. No one is contradicting themselves. Some men here think this chad figure is bad and cannot be good. I was saying chad is just in reality a men that is good-looking or rich making him have many options. Having both or either of those things does not to make someone bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:06 AM
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Why don't people just ignore attractive people? You honestly sound fucking crazy saying that. Second, chad does not automatically equal = Toxic men. It's usually just a hot guy or rich guy with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:29 AM
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You just described someone who doesn't understand what tact is. You can be direct while being sensitive towards the person you are talking to. Even when efficiency is your top priority. These group of men should learn the honest, direct and logical thinking only works good at work or solving problems. Interpersonal relationships do not operate that way at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:52 AM
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And I don't blame women for finding super logical people unattractive. Do you not feel the same way towards super emotional people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:52 AM
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No. Most likely from the assumption if he slept with so many people he wouldn't be able to be monogamous to one person for a long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:14 AM
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Y'all know what I am saying so I don't see the issue? This is a causal discussion, not an essay getting submitted to my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:39 PM
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Okay, no argument. Y'all say a lot of shit also on how men are suffering from loneliness and women don't care. Yet, here it is a woman that is helping men. At least she's doing shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:56 PM
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You think a lot and don't do much external activities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:51 PM
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What do you mean by no personality though? As in your a boring person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:42 PM
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But where is this deconstruction of male bonding actually happening? Someone saying this does not mean they have done it? Gangs are not going anywhere even if psycho feminist want to end them. Those are usually found in areas where poverty Is widespread or the people have low income. I guarantee NO feminist is ever going to go to those areas and deconstruct them. Male competitive sports? Lol no where I grew up many of the men joined basketball or football at a very young age and continued playin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:04 PM
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But she has experience where people are helping men? Like did you read the post where she explained she has programs or participates in programs to help men? That alone would explain why she doesn't believe some of the things y'all are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:55 PM
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Yeah no. If you both are arguing over everything. That behavior could mean she's disagreeable or you both have different outlooks towards life. Neither require someone to be intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:04 PM
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Yet your average PPD user does live in the west? There's no point in mentioning the east when the op most likely does not live there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:42 PM
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Yes because thats your perspective. If the women didn't give a fuck about impressing you. Then it's time to face reality and see you really aren't doing them a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:26 AM
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As they should. None of the men look like they even put effort into their profile appearance nor actual appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:24 AM
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Studies are only better when dealing with things you can actually reach an objective conclusion on consistently. Most people aren't on the internet researching shit like this. And those people so happen to be better socialized then your average STEM lord who thinks he can crack the code of people by thinking objectively and being reliant on studies only.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:20 AM
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Yes and those ‘people’ are few on here. Most do not have an excellent ability and allow their bias to decide which studies they look for, accept and preach on here. Not only this but still somehow reach a bad conclusion from using studies. As I said before. I never claimed people should purely rely on personal experience. But that you shouldn't be overly reliant on them when discussing something as nuance as a social dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:13 AM
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Yes, real-life experience. Just go outside and go to areas where people go out with their boyfriend or girlfriend??? You will see average men with average women. But that's if you even go out to socialize with people. People who are overly reliant on studies and need them FOR EVERYTHING. Reeks as someone who does not have any experience and need studies to fill in those large ass gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 01:26 PM
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Your crazy bro. I literally have no argument against someone who wants to take basic rights away from another human because his dick isn't getting wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:58 PM
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But you do expect something? Your expecting a friendship and most likely possible relationship. Most men do not walk up and talk to any women. They only approach women they find attractive and as you put it want to see if they are interesting enough not for a friendship but relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:49 PM
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No it's just you putting women on a pedestal and thinking they solve all your internal agony. Inceks are not your average men. Hang around actual average men and try to build healthy connections with them. Not incels who suffer from emotional agony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:54 AM
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In my opinion. It's not society job to give anyone needs regarding the self. So meaning, identity, purpose, and achievement shouldn't be personal handouts the government gives to people. But something you build up by yourself. If you need to find a path towards happiness and you think the conventional route Is the way to go. You should build that yourself without needing the government to intervene and take away freedom from women. Your alternative of stripping women's right will never happen. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:41 AM
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No. I'm saying that they believe that being an asshole is tantamount intelligence, and that to be viewed as being intelligent, you need to be an asshole. So basically the way these so-called “intelligent” women express their opinions comes off as arrogant, an asshole, or as if they are superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:17 AM
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What? I understand nothing you mean. But the ending. If men need women to be satisfied. And as you claimed money is a way men make themselves attractive to women. Maybe men need to work harder to earn incomes women find attractive so they can satisfy themselves from being in her precious presence. You need to go read the damn Red Pill more so you can take women of a damn pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:29 AM
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Where is the source at?????? If women are in long-term marriages they are satisfied with it. Then sure they are going to be happy. But from the obvious statistic on divorces being initiated by women mainly and the marriage rate declining. Women aren't happy in long-term marriages with men. And maybe better of building communities or staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:26 AM
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I never claimed gay was never used as an insult? Under this specific circumstance it isn't being used as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:56 PM
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Yes, and what does that society give to these men who keep it working? It's called money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:55 PM
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Men need meaning, respect and something worthy to dedicate themselves to. As a general rule, that is happiness for a man. And so do women???? Like? Your point? These factors are for sex. You only care about men and do not care about women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:45 PM
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You don’t have to be ForveR alOnE. Go talk to men and build a social network to make you feeling alone not so damn bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:44 PM
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Society does not have to hand your ass happiness nor women. Y'all are just entitled I swear 😂 like this shit is crazy. Your average women isnt some commodity that can just be given to men to solely satisfy their desire of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:40 PM
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They are. But unlike your average women in order to actually have sex with them you'd have to consistently socialize with them. Unlike a prostitute where you pay and get the deed done and she's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:24 PM
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What proof is it that women are happier in long term marriages in comparison to being alone or building a community?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:20 PM
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You can be all three of those things and still content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:19 PM
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Yes and my comment was specifically addressing the men that do hate/dislike women yet as you claim still have a sex drive they need to satisfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:17 PM
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No one is using gay as a roast nor indult. It's a perfectly valid suggestion if you think they may possibly be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:15 PM
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If men only cared about satisfying their sex drive they used their hands, get a sex dolls, fleshlight or going to prostitutes. All options to stay away from the person you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:58 PM
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That's not an insult? How is suggesting you try fuck men since you seem so interested in them an insult? It's a suggestion of solve some of the mem issues here around not getting women???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:48 PM
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Except it really isn't sad. Especially if the women are content with being alone. But It wouldn't matter. Women build social networks more then men. And I can see in the future there will being communities created by women as the age so they don't feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:18 AM
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I'm sorry but your average man is going to most likely stay average. Most aren't going to have status or power as they age. Y'all are only setting yourself up to be betas in 30 being reliant on your average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:04 PM
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Yep cause they think they are gonna be the Next Leondardo in the making once they hit their prime from having ‘status’ and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:01 PM
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If they claimed you went full out hitler. I doubt you only said you are aren't attracted to black women biddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:53 PM
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Dude no. Man can have StanDards. Most just allow their aCtions to show what they like and not their Words. Especially if it's on race or weight. 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:51 PM
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Lol do you say this same shit to the incels who think reading the red pill sidebar makes them understand women? The 16 year old with actually experience knows more than the freaks here who go off theories and zero actual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:41 PM
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That's not the definition of hypergamy that is used here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:47 AM
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It's not Uber liberal. It's called living in the North.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:48 PM
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50 years ago it was a thing called erotic/ adult magazines. It’s not simply just sex. It’s the validation of knowing someone actually desires you for your body that isn’t going to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:14 PM
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I think plastic surgery will become even better than it currently is. Even surgeries we deem as costly overtime will become more affordable. I can also seeing it be normalized like South Korea. This will allow men to alter their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:11 PM
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I think social disapproval can be a reason why they don’t do it. I mean we are human and want acceptance and belonging. It’s just when looking at other groups who have fought against a system. Their response wasn’t to opt out because the system was discriminating against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:54 PM
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Then why don't all these men who are dropping out just go to STEM if they strive only In a competence hierarchies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:09 AM
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Lol, imagine if two other groups had this mindset. You do know women and POC faced even more discrimination then men yet managed to change the system right? You get nowhere with this weak ass mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:00 AM
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Because people do not understand. It's okay to be aggressive, disagreeable, and selfish sometimes. Someone gave me a list of what it means to be a good person and they just seem like a doormat. There's no middle ground here it seems. Either you are X extreme or X extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:10 PM
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Good explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 08:09 PM
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This is just post just proving some of the men here really think attractive men do not care about women or are bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:46 PM
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No one goes after only personality. No one especially not your average person. You hold some weird dichotomy where it's either looks or personality. When most people understand they need to balance the two. I don't doubt your experience. I just don't think it's as absolute as you claim it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:57 AM
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I agree. For this specific circumstance. Okay, he told her up front. But OP must not have much experience if they think all FWB experiences follow this same pattern. They tell the women after they have fucked her they want something causal then dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:43 AM
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Define what it means to be a good person. Some of y'all think being agreeable and pleasant is what makes someone a good person when y'all are just really harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:09 AM
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Not committing to someone nor marrying them does not indicate someone's isn't the nicest of people. Especially if they are young. You using youtperdonal experience isn't going to help anything progress foward. Since another person can easily just claim most good looking men they have been around where good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:05 AM
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Why are you making it seem women are the only incentive for men to become good people? That's complete bullshit. Even when men have zero options they really aren't any better and appear jaded and cynical towards women. Evidence in how some of the incels here talk and MGTOW men. Who go their own way because they are unsuccessful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 12:58 AM
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Women only raise one of their standards in your claim and that's looks. It can easily be said women raise their standards for long term relationships. Where one standard rises and its income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:09 AM
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This person just has to feel they are better then someone because of the writing genre they read. Never understand why they care so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:45 AM
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Not you making up an entirely new definition to fit your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:53 AM
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They do lower their standards? Once they hit thirty though???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:43 AM
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It does not matter if women withheld something men find valuable. In this context what the men has to offer back isn't valuable to the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:32 PM
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‘Subjective’ fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:22 PM
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You do know that some people overcompensate for their poor sense of self worth by doggedly pursuing success right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:07 PM
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Dude, you said you can generalize women's basic nature down. She only did exactly what you said you can do to women but with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:48 PM
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This isn't true. As long as you are okay dumpster diving and have a low sexual disgust rate. You can have a high n count as a men. This is one of the reasons dark traid men are more sexually successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:34 PM
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Troy is my favorite one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:12 AM
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You are just moving the goal post. My comment was directed to a comment you made in this thread not the post argument fucking dumbass. That comment we were discussing was this specific part: No one shames tall boyfriend / short girlfirend relationships and calls it exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:57 AM
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My argument is against you comparing height gaps to age gaps. I don't believe age gaps are predatory nor abusive so why will I argue against that? My argument once again is toward the false equivalence you used towards height gaps and age gaps. ​ Edit: Nowhere in my comment did I say this is the only option snd that anything else should be shamed. Stop putting things in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:36 AM
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I did prove it. You said: impact impying its the only gap that has a large negative impact . Even though you dont have any prove of that. I gave you proof age gaps have a negative impact on relationships. You still have yet to give proof on height/size gaps having a negative impact on relationships through data. It's even more funny when you tried to jump to another topic because you know there isn't any data that shows height/size gap impact relationships. I don't believe age gap relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:33 AM
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Quote me where I said old men are abusive and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:28 AM
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It will not stop though. These men demand the same treatment as attractive men when it comes to casual sex. If he dosen't wait I shouldn’t wait. While somehow ignoring a hard truth. Attractive people are treated better socially and get to bypass things us average people can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:19 AM
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Now you are moving the goal post. Where in my post did I mention looks gap, fame gaps, or wealth gaps. Your pulling shit out of your ass because you do not have anything to argue . You told me to bring proof that age gaps have a negative impact on relationships. Where is your proof height/ size gaps do? Wait there isn't any because the don't cause any fucking impact to relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:14 AM
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More proof: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6785043/#!po=0.438596 Research on marital dissolution has found that differently-aged couples are more likely to divorce than similarly-aged ones (Cherlin, 1977; Lillard et al, 1995), which suggests that differently-aged couples may experience greater declines in marital satisfaction over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:07 AM
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There is proof of this. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6785043/ We find that men tend to be more satisfied with younger wives and less satisfied with older wives. Interestingly, women likewise tend to be more satisfied with younger husbands and less satisfied with older husbands. Marital satisfaction declines with marital duration for both men and women in differently aged couples relative to those in similarly aged couples. These relative declines erase the initial higher levels o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:03 AM
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Quote my words where I have put a negative frame on age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:48 AM
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Here's my counterargument. You are using a false equivalence here. Just because height gaps/size gaps share one characteristic with age gaps does not mean they are to be compared. The reason no one cares about height gaps in comparison to age gaps is that. To most people, the order of magnitude is entirely different. The impact an age gap can cause vs a height gap isn't the same. You're exaggerating the only thing they share. Which is they both have a gap between two things. While ignoring which…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:36 AM
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Nah, I think you're just using that one example to prove your point. When it's other examples. The people here seem to not understand they should learn to balance whatever they wanna call beta/alpha behavior. Neither should ever go away or disappear when you are with someone. You just need to know which to use at the given moment. A good example is an agreeableness/disagreeableness. Most people will agree under certain situations, you should be agreeable while others are more disagreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:15 PM
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Yes and following simply one concept of stoicism does not mean TheRedPill ideology aligns with Stoicism. There is more to stoicism than acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:02 PM
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First off I think you mean guilt not shame. In order for men to feel shame from pursing age gap relationships. They must first view the norm as desirable and binding because only then can the transgression make one feel uncomfortable. You should be more specific. Most average women do not shame 1-5 year age gap relationship. And, they most definitely don't care about age gap relationships when the women is passed a certain age. It's usually 10+ age gap relationships that people express their dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:59 PM
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The side bar is a good example. They have an article called: Schedule of mating where they discuss two different types of men. Good dads v good genes. Essentially Beta v Alpha. They claim: The qualities that make a good long term partner (the Good Dad) and the qualities that make for good breeding stock (Good Genes) only rarely manifest themselves in the same male. Provisioning and security potential are fantastic motivators for pairing with a Good Dad, but the same characteristics that make him…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:47 PM
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No YOU guys don't and I see why. You guys are the same people who say watch what she's does not say. If this writing trope is able to get millions of women to find that behavior attractive. (50 shades of grey and Twilight for example) How is that not showing you guys women like hot men that display beta traits/tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:38 PM
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Yet women read these books that show these so called alpha men display beta traits toward the women. Yet, somehow y'all are still saying women don't want this. Women aren't claiming to want this. They are reading these books and love them. This is showing they want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:34 PM
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More than 1 in 3 women (35.6%) and more than 1 in 4 men (28.5%) in the U.S. will experience rape, physical violence and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime. There is no need for height gaps to be seen as exploitive once again when most men do not use it as an advantage that will put the women in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:18 AM
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I never said anything was wrong with it but that it's seen as WEIRD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:15 AM
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Just because the Red Pills follows one principles of Stocism. Which is understanding what is in your control/out does not mean it follows stoicism. Stoicism comprises of WAY MORE ideas than simply that one thing. The Red Pill is far from what it means to practice Stocism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:12 AM
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Please give me these abilities to see inside people's minds. I'd love to have it also.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:10 PM
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Why would a tall men dating a short women be exploitive? Under law a person can not use physical force that harms another person unless threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:36 PM
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You really don't see how ironic this is? Your whole post is you assuming shit about couples your literally don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:17 PM
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Your just mind-reading now. It's hilarious how much some of you assume about total strangers. If none of the couples were attracted to each other the women would leave because TRP says women are hypergamous whores that monkey branch to her next beta when he doesn't meet her unrealistic expectations. Go read TRP some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:16 PM
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No one is overreacting. A 20 year old dating someone with a 20 year age gapfor average people is weird. You only see that type of dynamic for rich men or very well known men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:01 PM
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Men's bodies and women bodies aren't the same. Women bodies are natural designed to hold more fat than men. Not only this but men on average have more muscle than women = needs to eat more food to show the same body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:55 PM
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What’s even weirder is their perception of what this imaginary chad is doing and how he is acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:37 AM
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That's not what they even meant. You claimed some imaginary assumption that women aren't attracted to their partners. There is no proof of this. Especially when looking at a damn stranger you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:36 AM
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what psychology books are you reading? Psychology today or an actual psychology course taught by a professor?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:46 AM
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What do you mean by being responsible for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 05:15 AM
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Are you going to explain why you disagree? You wrote a literal book chapter before. Now you can only write 2 sentences?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:54 PM
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Yes, it's sad. The person who usually shows you first what love looks like is your parents or main caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:57 PM
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You say racial preference but go on to use ethnicity. There not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:42 PM
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I’m not dating a guy I find unattractive. From my personal experience attractive men usually have options where women want them. Having no one wanting you is a sign your not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:44 PM
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If she's old with few or no sexual partners then she's a stuck up bitch whose standards are too high. Or she's simply a bitch lying to hide her high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:50 PM
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Why do you think the rates of male sexlessness are rising in North America?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:48 PM
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Men aren't getting anything from their labor? Under our economy you give labor for exchange wages. Everyone is benefiting of the fruits of people labors. Yet, most people understand that in return they get money. Not in exchange a baby, marriage or a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:55 PM
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So the only incentive for men to beyond substance levels is women? No other motivations or goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:27 AM
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Y'all act obtuse here. When someone says women don't need men. They mean women don't need men when it comes to intimate relationships or for financial reasons. Not to keep the whole fucking world going.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:18 AM
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“Go for the men who other women are not chasing.” So go for unattractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:22 PM
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I'm not fostering anything. No where in my comment did I say these men have to get in to relationships with these women and settle with them. My comment was about sex and that's it. Not relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:53 PM
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No thank you. I said this exact thing in a comment above. Unattractive men ESPECIALLY approaching you. Can make a women question if she is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:10 PM
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Thank you. Attention, compliments and cold approaches from men the woman doesn't deem attractive does not validate her nor boost her self esteem. Hell, it may make the women even question if she is attractive since an unattractive men approached her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:06 PM
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Most things socially you either learn, observe in the world or someone teaches you. Robert Greene laws of seduction may help though and his book on human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:01 PM
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So what’s your solution since women are destructive to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:52 PM
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Because most average men don’t have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:10 AM
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Yet men are complaining about unfair treatment and having to wait . When socially those two traits are prone to make dating easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:09 AM
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“Exactly. Some guys put no coins in and get pussy, and some guys will put coins in indefinitely.” And why is that? You haven’t learned socially some people just don’t have to put in the same effort as other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:26 AM
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Because y’all need to understand. Just because a men got it easier doesn’t mean your gonna get the same equality. Trying to have the same perks as X men ignores the difference between you and him. Imagine thinking an above average guy and an average looking guy will have the same perks when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:24 AM
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Take your time with every guy since scientifically speaking it produces better relationships. Women trade in sex hoping to attract and retain a better partner. This doesn’t work for the overwhelming majority of women Your making the mistake assuming the women putting out early are trying to even develop a long term relationship with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:19 AM
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PPD men and this wanting for people to be treated equal is pure idealism for social situation. Not every women gives a fuck about developing long term relationships with the men they have sex with. So they don’t make them wait and call it quits afterwards (Not for all circumstances) It’s the reason short term dating exist. You would think men know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:18 AM
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Won't work 100%. But you can identify the men. Most should know they can't say most of the things on that Reddit. But people beliefs will be known either subtly or explicitly. From certain terminology (Hypergamy, cock coursel, AWALT) they use, specific topic and there standing towards it and behaviors all can help. If you notice mutiple behavior and beliefs: not just one. Align with the Redpill they most likely are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 12:32 AM
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This should be the top comment right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:47 AM
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Can you explain more? I understand why you say it's black and white thinking. But circumstances will change, there will be uncertainty and complexity. But for each circumstance, most people continually flip from agreeable - middle - disagreeable for each interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:35 PM
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Yeah no it's not because all the other women are crushing on them. It's that they have an attractive quality most women so happen to all find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:04 PM
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I won't take it up with them. It's just that at a certain age you learn to not take things at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:45 PM
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Red Pill men here equate attractive man = asshole. It's literally on the sidebar under the schedule for mating. Where they claim men with good genes usually are not good for a long-term relationship. That's for the betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:34 PM
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Most narcissists reek with low self-esteem. What ends up happening is they seek external validation from others to make up for that low self-esteem. They go on to develop all the desirable traits society finds attractive to gain the validation they want (Appearance, flashy cars, high status jobs and etc). So no one should be surprised when an overt narc is attractive. They put in the effort to look attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:32 PM
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A thug is someone who participates in criminal activity. Your describing simply an asshole not a thug. A chick proclaiming her ex is (X) does not mean he is actually. Women will shit on a men after they break up because she's in her feelings. Yep most women at dating abusive men right? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:22 PM
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The discussion should never be that black or white to begin with. Most people are not overly agreeable doormats or overtly hostile misogynists. Instead of choosing between two extremes. Just maybe y'all need to learn which circumstance should I be agreeable and which should I be disagreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:17 PM
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How many women are coming in contact with thugs? You most likely are using the wrong term to describe the men your talking about. Most of the women this demographic talks about are not in the same perimeter to be around violent men who are criminals? A thug is not SIMPLY a VIOLENT men. Look up the words you use before using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:12 PM
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Plus you need to keep in mind the demographic/culture here. Where I come from. The men would openly make jokes most men here would deem as being an asshole. When in reality they are just ’roasting’ each other for the laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:09 PM
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You shouldn't be calling anyone a damn dummy when your using a thug as an example to prove your claim. Most women are not dating violent men who do criminal activities. Nor do most of the people in this sub actually be around “thugs.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:03 PM
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Ain’t no way your not understanding this. If fresh and fit are heterosexual and want to have sex with many women. Women have higher STD rates. It’s an increased each chick they fuck = STD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:41 AM
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Yes because of the rhetoric the men here spill. Yes, having bad experiences with women can send people the wrong way. But, with this sub it would be the men here that turns them further away not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:33 AM
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Yes they do. A newborn baby and toddler can literally do NOTHING alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:59 PM
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I disagree. The vast majority of men this generation can get married. Marriage rates in the USA are declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:45 PM
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To men husband material implies that. But to women it’s someone they find attractive + compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:05 PM
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Where did body shaming come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 09:17 PM
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Sex is not the most important aspect of a relationship. It’s the quality time and emotional connection that make a relationship worth while. Both that aren’t limited to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:42 PM
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What a load of bullshit. She's treating you differently from the hot guys because he's hot and you aren't. If you want to be her first option do what the Red Pill says makes you that men. Sorry we don't live in a fantasy world where everyone gets treated equally. Some people have certain qualities (wealth, attractiveness or status) that gives them better treatment socially. Either gain it or stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:40 PM
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Yes because women voice their concerns instead of remaining silent about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:22 AM
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I never used the term sjw derogatorily. Sjw is the umbrella term for people that fight discrimination issues. SJW is a term used derogatorily here. You can be obtuse and act as if people here don't use it like that all you want. ​ No one said EVERY person who dwells on racism develops a victim mentality. But in contrast to red pillers who OD on red pills, its a good comparison OP SAID BLACK PEOPLE. You can make it seem he is talking about the individual instead of group. But last time I checked …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:04 AM
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Yet the individual and society (system) overlap and share a very close relations with one another. Society is an essential condition for human life to arise and to continue. Man depends on society. It is in the society that an individual is surrounded by. To just accept the system is rigged against you is not outside your control. Changing the system is not outside of your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:33 AM
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To you society is showing a complete disregard for men because: There is a 'Women are Wonderful, men are simping , women will hive mind for them, women are hypergamous and are not actually looking for an equal but a better, women are more interested in your superficial qualities (eg. looks, height, status) then your personal qualities (eg. personality and character). None of these things are society showing a complete disregard for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:30 AM
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Not everyone’s an sjw who cares to fight racism especially if it’s not as prevalent around them. You do not have to be a SJW to fight racism to begin with. For you to even use SJW to define people who fight racism isn't a good luck. They’re not talking about racism hindering society but the individual who dwells on it to the point of self victimization. That is you and OP assumption. Not every person who dwells on racism leads to self victimization. They make two claim: You're best off accepting…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:26 AM
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What complete disregard does society show men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:56 AM
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There have been multiple instances where addressing racism has lead to changes happen for the future. Either socially or regarding the actual system. Where is your proof not addressing racism hinders people from moving forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:44 AM
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I'm confused by this post. Just accept racism and move on? What? Funny how they didn't even really go in-depth regarding racism. Just pasted one small paragraph on it and the rest on TRP. But please. Go to a PWI and experience racism first hand multiple times and come back to me saying. Yeah accept it, embrace it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:19 AM
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Yikes, not a good look. You can't expect an extroverted good looking men to stick around without possibly wanting to be like the person he desires himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:16 PM
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Sweetheart that is DISNEY. Most people stop watching that around the age of 13+ or when they are in high school. Did you not have experience with women in high school and after? That fake shit easily gets sorted as fake and highly idealized once you interact with the opposite sex actually. I don't get how some of you men hold on to that fake shit when if you were grounded in reality. Would have learned it's only found in the movies. Did you see geeks scoring hot women in school? If not maybe you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:52 PM
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No the RedPiller isn't true. Got outside the subreddit and most people do not believe the Red Pill. You can blame it on them either being blue pilled or trying to be politically correct. But that way of thinking is like a niche. To Red Piller they think they are seeing the world as it is. But most of the work there is simply what they think it is. Y'all need to learn just because you perceive something as true does not mean it's reality. Perception v reality is two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:47 PM
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I don't get why anyone is taking this post seriously. We don't know these people and second-hand information ain't the best information to rely upon to gauge a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:34 PM
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Yes this is seen through the lens of what a red piller thinks makes someone husband material. Keep in mind the Red Pill side bar even says: The qualities that make a good long term partner (the Good Dad) and the qualities that make for good breeding stock (Good Genes) only rarely manifest themselves in the same male. For a women husband material may mean a men she finds physically attractive + a good investor. The issue is that Red Pill men don't believe men like that exist or if they do it's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:29 PM
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The Red pill says. There are only two categories of men. Men who have good Gene's but usually aren't suited for long terms relationships. For them this is physically attractive men. Then men who can be good dads and are suited for long term relationship. But so happen to not be attractive. They don't believe good genes men can also be a good father and can't manifest in the same men. Or if it does these men are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:26 PM
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Y’all man complain how narrow masculine beauty standards are. How needing to have a chiseled jaw, HunTeR eYes, 6ft+ and muscular is to narrow of a standard to fit. Yet here we have a group of men going against that standard to try and give men more leeway. But what do men do? Oh they look feminine and like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:52 PM
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And okay? He looks feminine. But last time I checked masculinity wasn’t determined solely by looks but by personality also.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:49 PM
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You can make her feel secure enough that she won't be judged for her past you know. If you can get people to open up and disregard resistance then they may feel comfortable telling you their history. First they have to feel comfortable enough to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:40 PM
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I'm talking about your first comment. What are you saying? How aren't they masculine? Once again is masculinity based off physical traits or personality traits. You can't say they aren't without even explaining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:34 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:55 PM
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LMAO most kpop idols are not rich. If your talking about top group like BTS most kpop idols can only dream of reaching there level of wealth. They are not the norm at all. And even then. When they debuted and we're broke as fuck they still managed to get a fanbase. It's not because they are simply rich. They are attractive physically and personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:34 PM
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Why can't kpop idols be considered masculine? Is masculine simply based of how you look? Or actual personality traits? Anyway they are attractive. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:23 PM
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Can someone tell me why her story is gaining so much attention? Events like this aren't new.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 08:53 PM
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Right so men the next day can go on and complain about how women are still only fucking chad and being hypergamous bitches til 30 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:25 PM
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Yes let's make EVERYONE EQUAL and give everyone the same privilege. This is hilarious in what utopia will privileges not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:55 AM
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Nah he needs to understand it most likely because he’s short and poor at 31 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:40 PM
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That's not how it works. Y'all do know there are other influential factors that go on to shape people's perceptions? Just because we come out a woman does not man she is the sole influential factors that determines how they become as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:19 PM
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Society? Your acting as if this men isn't surrounded around other influential factors to shape this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:18 PM
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He's good-looking. He's a 7-8 for me. Definitely above average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:44 PM
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No those men are dumb if they think a woman whose income comes from seducing men and feeding his ego somehow really loves them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:16 PM
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Yes after she got thousand of comments from Blk men saying weird shit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:31 PM
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No, they don't. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:55 AM
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Work on your reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:32 AM
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I've been around women who were 100lbs before girl. My closest friend is 100lbs and like some. She wants to gain weight and be at 120 - 130lbs. Your assuming the skinner you are the more attractive you become. Which is true to an extent but ignores the shape of that person body. A 120lbs skinny twig looks different than a 120lbs slim thick body. Imagine that a woman was lined up next to girls who were, 100, 110, 120, 130, 140 lbs. Would any woman want to be on the bigger side of that line? Now t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:29 AM
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No one is denying attractive old men (Either due to his looks, job, income or status) can get younger women. We are talking about your average old men with average looks and average earning. They do not have the power and status women are drawn to. ​ Once again men on PPD using above average men to prove average men can get young attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 12:39 AM
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You guys are arguing against some made up argument. No one thinks a 0-6 year age gap dosen't happen. It's even data that shows most couples have a 1-3 year gap. Only dingo think such a small age gap is problematic or unrealistic. When we say age gap we mean 9-10+ gaps. Where 30+ average men think they can get a young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:56 PM
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Yet y'all say this shit. And wonder why some people believe masculinity is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:43 PM
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How is that misogny? Why take such an extreme stance of being misogynistic when you can take women off this pedestal without it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:38 PM
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Right and women carry fat differently. Not all women fat turns them into an apple shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:23 PM
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The men are right behind them. 🤷🏻‍♀️ A men with high fat does not look masculine. How may fat man you know with masculine frames 😂😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:45 PM
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I'm honestly flabbergasted at this: Most younger women are not in great shape either. And due to differences in testo it hits women much harder. An average woman = a fat guy. Cuz testo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:55 PM
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K? We are talking about physical aesthetics. Most normal people understand a women can get away with extra pounds. A men cannot. Your so far gone to think a fat men compares to your average women in terms of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:53 PM
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the they are incels. Most men do not willingly choose to be a virgin. There just in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:45 PM
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And women with OF and stripper are their best options? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:40 PM
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Lol K if you actually believe what you just wrote. I'm not even going to debate you on this mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:37 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:35 PM
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Or George Clooney. Like he still has his hair at 60 years old. You're already balding at 24 Conner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:54 AM
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Who is saying older men that are still handsome and financially stable are undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:51 AM
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You are incorrectly assuming a small group (Stripper and women who have an OF) somehow represent women as a whole. We are talking about your average woman. Last time I checked your average woman ain't doing OF or Is a stripper. And once again. Men using above-average men to try and prove your average men can do it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:11 AM
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No the disconnects comes from men looking at above-average older men. Either still handsome, financially established or has status. Then proceeding to think they can achieve the same level of options as them. When we say younger women aren't attracted to older men (More than 9 years older). We imagine your average-looking, average-earning older men. Not some outlier who you think somehow represents older men when he simply is an outlier and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:05 AM
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When people say older men. They aren't talking about exception to the rule. Instead your average 40 year old men. Since you know most people are average individuals. Using an outlier to prove your point does not actually prove anything. Since evaluating a group based on the best group members/outlier, is not a representative sample of the group members.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:52 AM
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If the guy is in great shape and they have compatible personalities, who cares about age? How many 40 year old men are in great shape? This exactly proves the issue with the younger women/older men dynamic. Most older men do not fit those condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:33 AM
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I would like the moderators and community to consider being big boys and girls and discuss race in a rational, logical, evidence based way. They don't even do that regarding women v men. So I don't get why you would expect RACE to not turn out the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:57 PM
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As someone here wrote: Attractive people are treated better in society. Makeup is a way to appear more attractive. So are clothes, haircuts, exercise/diet, skincare, etc. When you look attractive, you get treated better by everyone, not just men. The same thing can be said about men looking attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 07:27 PM
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This is arguably laughable. This shows you how subjective looks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:55 AM
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You presented only two options. There are other possibilities outside those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:39 AM
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No it's not. It's not an either-or situation. You can just be a unattractive guy who approached her or a guy she didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:13 PM
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Exactly what I said. They need an excuse to not approach. And they did so by thinking they know what the hell a chick thinks when the seem them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:11 PM
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You used a SNL skit as a supporting resources. Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:09 PM
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Yes you are. You claimed she would thinking you are an arrogant asshole if you approach her. That is exactly mind reading. Your essentially coming up with a made up reasons so you have an excuse to not approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:13 PM
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“Mindreading” often ends up being destructive because it easily leads to false assumptions, paranoia, or misunderstanding. You may get number of behavior that try to explain X. They are just assumptions and hubris. It says nothing about the reality of the situation. No matter, what i see in another there could be thousand reasons why they act, think and respond or seem in a particular way. It tells you nothing about their inner working.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:47 PM
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None of those things are done at the same rate as doing the dishes, cooking and doing the laundry. You mow the lawn every what? 2-3 weeks? And fix the roof every year or a few months. Does not compare to doing the dishes, cooking and cleaning an entire house on a weekly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:20 AM
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So your entire argument is. Well I live like X andlook for X so why can't women live like X and look for x?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:29 AM
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only because you are the best she can get. Which seems to be a common strategy for men to do. Since y'all love to say you guys rarely have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:23 AM
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Lol that women desperately want. Are you being serious rn? That's his money not dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 12:38 AM
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Nice guy can mean two things. It's means either: The first being a guy who is genuinely kind and caring. He is polite to everyone regardless of sex, age or race. He has no ulterior motive, i.e. he is not nice to get a reward, he behaves as such because it's human decency. The second kind of nice guy is the one who has ulterior motives. He believes that because he behaves in a certain way the world owes him for his actions. He doesn't make it clear what he desires from the beginning and becomes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:47 PM
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A geninue nice guy and doormat in my opinion shouldn't be categorized as the same thing. Yes, they share one similarity which is they are nice.e But, that dosen't mean they are the same thing. A nice guy can have boundaries and not be overly agreeablable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 10:44 PM
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I agree. I dislike the use of dichotomy either it's: nice guy v asshole beta v alpha. The man who claim to be nice guys from my experience here are just really walking doormats. Where they put the women on a pedestal and are overly agreeable believing she would like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:22 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:18 PM
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Ah yes because you know for sure most women who game won't do those things? If anything it's just a reflection of you, and has nothing to do with women who play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:51 AM
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You haven't twisted. When people say a 30 year old can manipulate a 20 year old while both are in a relationship. It isn't solely about sex and usually isnt. It can be finances for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:40 AM
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Right but older women advice is always framed as being rooted in jealousy. It's hilarious how some of the men try to disregard more experienced women advice to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:18 PM
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I'm not going to quit gaming. I don't care if it makes successful upper middle class men avoid me. Are you talking from personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:38 PM
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No one is saying women have to do this. But most people agree 10+ year age gap relations for women under 24 isn't good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:00 AM
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Sticking your ass out further for a cute guy isn't predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:53 PM
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We aren't talking about all women to begin with. No one cares about a 26+ year old women dating men way older than her. Because she has the experience the younger women lacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 09:49 PM
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Like a smart 18 year old can control a dumb 30 year old one. That RARELY HAPPENS. If a young women is dating an older men he is an attractive old men. They aren't dating low EQ men with hardly any dating experience to the point a fucking teen out of high school can manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:00 PM
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They won't get it. Some people just can't comprehend once you reach a certain age. Since we cant rely on others to give us constant validation the solution that works quite well. Is create a self, an image of ourselves that comforts us and makes us feel validated from within. That it's possible to have self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:25 AM
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Ah yes. The common response. Well Asian people are doing better. First off again people aren't some sort of monolith. Asians are doing better or a specific group of Asians are doing better. It's hilarious how people like you love homogenizing the Asian experience to east Asian people and Indians. Tell me are they the only asian people to you? Pointing to generalized data from the United States Census Bureau, where the median household income of Asian Americans is $68,780, higher than that of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:18 AM
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Ah yes. You have a victim mindset if someone without your approval chooses to do something sexual with YOUR BODY.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:59 AM
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exacerbated in the black community due to them being significantly more militantly tribalist than other races Ah yes. The reason societal issues are worse for the black community is because of the trait they hold. Nothing to do with the system and white people though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:39 AM
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You didn’t come across as dismissive. I just don’t see how it’s all over the place. They claimed it’s a cultural failure and she corrected them by bringing up two other cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 10:12 PM
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