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| 21 | A joint Facebook account won’t stop him from cheatingEvery couple I see with a joint social media account, I assume one of them (probably him) has already been caught cheating. What a cringey way to announce you’re staying with a cheater! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.“18-26” and he is 38 with nothing apparently to offer. I actually fit a lot of his criteria and would swipe left so fast it would give anyone a seizure Edit: not the insane size thing, I’m shortish/skinny with small feet but dude is way off on sizes and just in general. Yuck 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:55 AM |
| 64 | No hiking dates— ever(Clap Clap) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 75 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationLiving with a man—more to clean, more to worry about, higher utility/grocery bills, having to check in with someone…only worth it (maybe) if he’s a committed HVM. A female roommate you get along great with, who splits chores and is also about leveling up is the best solution to high rent costs sometimes! Plus it is safer than living alone—again, if you are on the same page and they aren’t bringing randos over. My NVX sometimes bought groceries and paid 50/50…but oh Lord my house is nicer without… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:29 AM |
| 34 | A guy I met on Hinge sexually assaulted me, so I get him banned on dating apps whenever I see him 💅Yess thank you! Similarly I once met an asshole at a NYE party (2020, guess it foretold of the shit year ahead) who I agreed to kiss at midnight but nothing else. The son of a bitch reached under my dress on the dance floor (pantyhose to the rescue though I normally curse them)—then when I kinda bent over to evade that assault he reached down the top for a boob grab! Like the 3 stooges who would hit one another in the gut then go for the eye poke! This idiot had given me his number and actually … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:03 AM |
| 39 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!“My girls”=no one. What an entitled loser. “Walk to my place”...low effort idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:46 PM |
| 16 | WHY are Males?Look at his dusty ass elbow, he looks unkempt in addition to being a perv | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 44 | "Why didn't she say no?" BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVER TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER.Reminds me of how Brett Kavanaugh’s intended rape victim, Dr. Ford, was partially saved because she had a 1-piece swimsuit on under her clothes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Just a reminder this is a representative from the other 50% of the world population. God bless the woman who got away from this creep.Just so nasty. Let go of the audacity and put a shirt on dude! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 8 | Leveling up is the best revenge.Preach, ever think of your ex and wanna dance for joy that you’re no longer with them but at the same time vomit in horror since that could’ve been your life forever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 12 | Leveling up is the best revenge.Your comment made me snort. Hit the wall at 80mph!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 4 | The look on his face was worth every pennySo satisfying to read. Glad you’re ok and keep on flexing! 💪🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 9 | If a NVM has the audacity to tell you "I don't think our relationship can handle you buying a house", trust his judgement, end it, and go get that house 💅Congrats on the house and for leveling up!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 9 | I often feel like the black sheep of the family being single, but when I compare it to my sisters…It can be tough sometimes. But take up hobbies and interests that fulfill you and keep you happy/motivated, stay busy, spend time with friends, exercise, travel alone or with a girlfriend! And get a good Bob (battery operated boyfriend) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 11 | How I Deliberately Revamped my OLD Profile to Attract HVM and Deter LVM (Example Profile and Rational Included)I’m a belly dancer. It’s my main hobby, I love it and in non-pandemic times was a big part of my life (performing with my troupe at festivals and such). I would never give up dance or reduce the time I spend on it for a man. Agree that revealing pictures are a bad idea, but what would you ladies suggest? Most costumes are a long skirt and bra top or crop top. Avoid a picture like this and just mention it in the description? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:33 PM |
| 5 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restI too would “dread spending time” with this moron | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 9 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restWhat a pedantic, entitled asshole..."lol" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:30 PM |
| 37 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you?For awhile I believed the excuses and promises to change. He was intelligent, funny, a good conversationalist, gave lots of compliments. I guess a lesson I learned is that a LVM may have some good qualities that suck you in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 52 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you?🖐🏼 me too. Jobless, always made excuses, porn sick, bad in bed. NEVER again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 9 | Scrote mad because he can't jerk off to pictures of some women because they have their kids with them.This is why my profile pic is often a cartoon or inanimate object and my accounts are set to private. When it was a picture of me, so many friend requests and messages from idiot men and I know I’m not alone on this! The audacity is nauseating...that anything anyone posts is about this man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:02 PM |
| 20 | Found this on tumblr and I’ve never agreed to anything moreAbsolutely love this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The bile!Good point, it's a way for their ego to stay protected. That's why I am resolved to just broken-record reply, "I am not interested". Of course taking safety into account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The bile!yass queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 05:33 PM |
| 206 | The bile!This enrages me but it’s true. They don’t respect your right to choose who you spend time with, but most will respect another man’s “property”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 21 | What are some prime examples of incompetence in men that you notice?Not taking care of their health—not getting a checkup at the doc, not getting their teeth cleaned, eating garbage. Then wondering later why they have health problems, but also then not taking the prescriptions they now need for high blood pressure, etc. | /r/askFDS | 13/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Just ewww. LVM picks his nose and scabby lips and gf doesn’t know how to tell him it turns her off. Comments telling her to CoMmUniCAtEReminds me of my ex in that when he lived with me, the bathroom always smelled of pee. I wondered if it was him or the dog? After giving him the boot, my bathroom smells fine again! He was missing the toilet and pissing on the bath mat. My dog is literally cleaner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:33 PM |
| 54 | Scrote makes female coworkers uncomfortable and feels emasculated because they don’t want to see his naked, 40 year old body.A joke about coming to the office “in your birthday suit” is gross, inappropriate and creepy no matter your gender or body type. This ranks high on the list of most pathetic posts ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:26 PM |
| 39 | During my quarantine, I’ve witnessed quite a few gals with their HVM following close by....Yes! They defend their partners and are attentive fathers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:14 PM |
| 7 | Why dont you like video games?Where. You’re. Are you 12? | /r/askFDS | 19/03/20 01:31 PM |
| 108 | I overheard a pick me on the busUggh once I was in line at the grocery behind a pick-me (years ago, I had no clue of FDS at the time). But I still cringed when she gave the male cashier her number unsolicited, asked if he would call, then proceeded to sing/rap the song "What's Your Fantasy" by Ludacris. A catchy song but damn girl have some self respect!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:03 PM |
| 19 | Beware of aggressive drivers/truck guys.I swipe left on any man with a truck pic in his OLD profile! Like maybe not all truck owners are assholes, but if you are so into your truck that it's one of your pix? Next. But agreed rude, unsafe and aggressive driving are signs of a LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 7 | How is this normal!?! *waves arms in every direction* 30+ yo Men need to be told to shower and brush their teeth before a date!?! WHY DO THEY NOT KNOW THIS!?"Ball-like", you cracked me up. Ugh I once saw no soap, but lotion, in a guy's bathroom. It was my stepbrother and he is super nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 74 | What is the proper response for being asked out on a low effort 'date'?Excellent response. I had the same quandry a couple of weeks ago. Texting w/a man from OLD, he asks me out on a coffee date at 1pm for "this afternoon". I replied that I was busy (I was busy taking myself to the gym! And never would make myself available at the last minute for a first date). He continued to follow up and asked for another coffee date, this time almost a week in advance. I considered going but ended up nexting him after remembering to hold to FDS principles! Tonight, I'm going to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:19 PM |
| 19 | This is a lot of words for "I expect sex on the first date and refuse to buy you dinner."Ugh. He wants to avoid "hard work" like getting to know someone or put effort in. "how ya guys judge if we can be with you long term"? Vomit. It's us who are judging you, bro. And from this post I am guessing he isn't judged very well by women that have given him "a chance". Cringey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:06 PM |
| 8 | Women, stop wasting years of your life begging and pleading with your partner to go to a doctor for his obvious issues. You are burning yourself out and it's not your responsibility.I'm scared of the doctor, and I still go. That's what actual functioning adults do! Why won't men take care of themselves?? I think their moms did far too much for them for far too long--definitely true of my ex I think. I hope we are raising sons to be better than previous generations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 139 | Two wonderful comments on yet another "AITA for spending next to no time, effort, or money on my fiancé's engagement ring???"Right you are. Love the Simpsons but Homer is a LVM and Marge is a pick-me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 23 | Why is all advice about toxic males on reddit the same???A good point here! Of course a woman tries to talk about a problem before she posts. You normally see that she HAS put the effort in, and things aren't changing. They can't think like us so they assume she hasn't even tried--what they would've done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 39 | Don't kneecap your sentences.So much this. I have been guilty of saying just and maybe way too much in life. Am beginning to write and speak more directly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:05 PM |
| 29 | Women and their damn standards, amiriteLmao, tumbleweeds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 10 | For Valentine’s Day please act like the HVW you areUghh Can I share how a LVM boyfriend ruined Vday a couple of years back? He showed up if not drunk at least pretty tipsy. With a cheap grocery store bouquet in its plastic wrapper, a large bottle of cheap wine (I like wine and this was everyday table wine, nothing special and he knew that) and no card. He clearly had just stopped at the grocery store on the way. Mind you, this is a 45 year old man with a good education--he could have, and should have, done better. I gave him a card and very thou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 08:35 PM |
| 11 | The bars are full of insecurec LVMYou are so, so right. I've lied and said I have a BF before, and they back off. Because they'll respect an imaginary man, but won't respect my "no". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Oh no, no thank you 🤮OMG so nasty in every way. No woman is swiping right on that mess. A complete lack of class and self-awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 41 | Mental prep before a first dateWatch his table manners and how he treats the server/wait staff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 9 | “Men are logical, women are emotional” is a lie. Anyone have go-to shit tests that will quickly show you a man’s ability to use reason and logic?Absolutely this! See how they react to a "no"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 168 | When he tries to sleep with you on the first date...Same thing happened to me on NYE. So much pressure to go home with him from someone I just met that night. "You can have the bed, I'll sleep on the couch!". Right buddy. That was a no from me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 05:40 PM |
| 9 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Pilots. Very entitled, narcissism, and cheating is their forte | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 21 | Pack your gym shit right now.Going tomorrow morning since I'll be off work! A workout gives you confidence and (I think) a more toned up appearance/glow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?Selfies in the car, frowning, sunglasses on Pictures of their car/truck/motorcycle. Any dead fish or animal One guy said he would know the woman was for him if "she cooks me good barbecue". Sir, I am a vegetarian and it sounds like you're looking for a servant. Hard pass. Shirtless selfies. Even if they are in good shape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: cutting ties and leveling up is possible at any time of year. The holidays are no excuse for you to accept poor treatment! #Kickhimout2020So much this! Holidays are way less stressful now that I'm not dealing with a spoiled man-child and crappy in laws! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 05:04 PM |
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