TwistAndStir Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Date was going very well until I said one sentence You skipped a bad apple 🍏	/r/seduction	28/01/26 03:32 PM
1	Do women instictively know when you have options? Fake it until you make it.	/r/seduction	20/01/26 11:57 AM
1	You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for. Sure, but you can't let other ensecure or unsure people to lead your life, some women know what they want. If she says she is not sure she is probably testing you 🤣	/r/seduction	09/10/25 09:01 AM
1	You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for. And you may end up waring time, is actually a good thing to ask. Why waste time if their objective is different than yours?	/r/seduction	09/10/25 07:57 AM
3	How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension? Exactly this!!! In fact, women love reading books about romances for that exact reason. Tell her how you feel and let her understand you would like to get intimidate. She will start fantasising about it, and with you!!! And she will get aroused too! Is a process, it takes time. And if you like the girl, we'll then go for it! Good luck!	/r/seduction	01/10/25 10:54 AM
1	Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It? One or two drinks is very far from being drunk come on.	/r/seduction	29/08/25 11:02 PM
1	You shouldn’t ONLY be texting a woman in the beginning! I never had any problems in texting, sometimes a lot, sometimes short and quick session, sometimes half to an hour long session, chatting about many things. Never limited myself to only text to set up the date. If there is a good vibe between us I find is fine to have bit of a conversation over text, so long as is interesting. Usually on subjects we're both interested or I ask questions about her and things she's doing. Sometimes mine and her texts are very long, I have had girls sending me long…	/r/seduction	29/08/25 11:00 PM
0	Approach when she has headphones in? Indeed!	/r/seduction	26/08/25 10:26 PM
1	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? You just went and asked that out of the blue, a bir rudely too, and you wonder why she said no? At the very least you wanted to start the conversation and then suggested that it was something that you were thinking and that would be nice to perhaps sometime chill together and maybe, just maybe it would have happened down the line. You can't expect a woman you know for a while to simply say yes, just like that out of the blue, is self respect.	/r/seduction	11/08/25 11:06 AM
2	How to go from talking in the club to making out? One more thing, when I was your age all it took it was "do you want to dance?" and if she said no, I would ask the next girl and if she said yes we would go on the dance floor, start dancing and after few seconds I would kiss her, is that simple!	/r/seduction	13/07/25 02:11 PM
2	How to go from talking in the club to making out? Think about fun! I usually compliment on her hair style, the outfit or something else, must be true though! Don't approach with the intent to pull, but for having a good time there and then. Yes, some conversations will be short and you move on. Best thing is to get on the dance floor on your own and start dancing as if nobody is watching, enjoy the music, girls that fancy you will come dance in front of you, or around. In the latter case they usually will break the touch barrier. Either way, on…	/r/seduction	13/07/25 01:59 PM
1	How to go from talking in the club to making out? I don't usually approach women when they are in a group, unless she smiles and looks at me, but sometimes is actually easier. Thing is you don't have to try to isolate anyone, talk to the group as a whole is best! Keep it light and fun, ask them if they like the dj and so on. Then if anyone of them fancies you she will make you know, and sometimes her friends will leave you alone with an excuse, happened to me few times. Where in Europe are you? I am 5.8 and I don't see the hight issue, unless y…	/r/seduction	13/07/25 12:42 PM
1	How to go from talking in the club to making out? Mate relax, you don't have to impress anyone. Have fun, chat, light touches, ask them to dance. Lead without pushing things, but don't do nothing either. That's it! Look at other guys how they do it and ask your female friends too, especially if they are out with you, ask them for advice if you feel shy. If she agrees to dance you're in, girls would say no if they don't fancy you, so if you get to dance with her is good. Put your hands on her waist, look her in the eyes, tell her she is super be…	/r/seduction	13/07/25 12:29 PM
2	How to go from talking in the club to making out? YES! ;) Just bring up the topic.	/r/seduction	13/07/25 12:19 PM
1	Sweet guy vs confident guy: results You got it! That's the way it works! If you don't ever ask or aren't clear about your intentions with her you will get nothing. Most of the time you can simply ask for sex and you will get it, that's what women mean for confidence. If you are always sweet and gentleman the women will think you are not interested in sex with them and that would be it, so yes, if you show your interest and intention to have sex with her you will probably get it. Good luck! PS I think she was looking for fun! That'…	/r/seduction	12/07/25 12:20 PM
5	When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you? If you see human connections as a service you're going to struggle to form a lasting relationship I think. We are people with feeling and emotions, you're should seek for a connection and not if the service provided (sex) was good! Second date is too fast also if you are looking for something serious, otherwise you are not serious about and is only for sex! If you are serious and she is too is not a problem to wait even four dates. I agree here with the lady posts too. BTW is not all always abou…	/r/seduction	18/02/25 07:18 PM
30	How to know if she wants to kiss you (so you don't make it awkward) Check the cues, and is up to you to set it up, she waits for you to do things. If you want to kiss her the best approach is to get closer, caress her hair or move them around her ear, if she let you do this she's comfortable with you. Then look her in the eyes, her lips, her eyes again, and slowly lean, move your hand on her cheek and go for a soft kiss, just a peck. And then pull back. If she fine she'llkiss you. If she's not ready, she will move and is all good, smile it off and tell her that …	/r/seduction	27/09/24 11:56 AM
1	I just met this girl on the weekend and have a question.. Text again if you want, there are no rules. Just do as you feel. I usually double text and usually get a reply, sometimes people are juat busy and women sometimes they will see your message and not respond for whatever reason. Text her again by asking something direct, ask her out of whatever you fancy. If doesn't answer again then close it. Good luck!	/r/seduction	21/08/24 10:58 AM
1	I approached my Gym crush and got rejected I disagree! This way you already rejecting yourself without even trying. There's no rules, just do what you feel.	/r/seduction	09/05/24 02:19 PM
1	I approached my Gym crush and got rejected You did very well! Go, ask, and get it out of your way, carry on doing your thing 👍🏻	/r/seduction	09/05/24 02:17 PM
3	I approached my Gym crush and got rejected Well done! Honestly, well done mate! That's the way to go, after so many glances you just go and see what happens. Don't take it as a rejection, we have to move out of that mentality. A lot of girls love attention amd will look for whatever reason, it doesn't necessarily means they are looking for something. By approaching her and asking if she wanted ro work out together you did the right thing, now she knows for sure and it may not even be true that she has a boyfriend. Now you carry on going …	/r/seduction	09/05/24 02:16 PM
2	How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone. You have to start in a sexual level straight away! Do not settle for being nice and making her feel comfortable, she's just a person like you, it will be difficult then to raise the bar to sexual interest. I find it works best if you make your intentions clear from the start, then is easier. Be flirty, look at her in a sexual way sometimes, smile ar her, give her genuine compliments, tell her it would be great to go out together, tell her you'd like to invite her round your place. This last one …	/r/seduction	24/04/24 08:38 AM
2	Should I tell her that I like her? Don't tell her, but you can say that her guy is lucky and that you'd go out with someone like her, that you'd have a girlfriend like her. That's it, that you can say. That should be enough and if she ever break up then she knows that you'd go out with her. Having said that, is normal to experience such feelings. Go out and get involved chatting to other women, free women. Anyone with a boyfriend is not worth it, move on.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 09:06 AM
3	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? She told you she has an appointment with her friend already, not that she doesn't want to meet with you. This is good, she feels comfortable with you to introduce you to her friend. Be playful with both and ask them questions about themselves and something like where would they be right now if money wasn't an issue, or what's their main passion, or something people do not much know about them. There's also always the chance you may like the other girl more, who knows. Have Fun!!	/r/seduction	02/04/24 12:12 PM
1	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? Thank you	/r/seduction	02/04/24 12:05 PM
8	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? PS: Whenever I go out with two or more female friends all other girls get interested and they start coming closer, is always a bonus :) Don't think about it as a date until you are alone with her, and you can always suggest it for another time, just you and her and see what she says.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 11:42 AM
18	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? Go for it! Go out with two women, niiice! Don't think too much of it, just go and have fun. Maybe she is not sure yet and she feels more comfortable this way, she could have said no for instance. If she likes you, most of the time the friend will go away with am excuse anr you'll remain with her. If that happens, that's your signal, set up the mood, get close, touch her hand, look at her in the eyes, slow down, lean closer, kiss her! Done! Good luck!! And on top of this all other women in the pl…	/r/seduction	02/04/24 11:38 AM