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Or you could be reading into this a bit much, Noodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:59 AM
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I always played as a dude in World of Warcraft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:58 AM
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That was one woman, Amy Schumer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:55 AM
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This one speaks the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 05:23 PM
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Dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 02:47 PM
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OK, the analogy is now falling apart. I will rein it back in: he needs to move to a new neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:02 PM
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But the fact that he never gets invited to parties and no one attends his parties is rather telling, isn't it? Obviously there are more people not getting invited and he needs to bond with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:55 PM
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The real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:37 PM
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Go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:34 PM
2

She is going to get a beta. No big.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:33 PM
1

God rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:01 PM
3

That guy sounds like a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:19 PM
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Old novels are usually written in some arcane flowery verbiage that ruins the flow. Since you cannot imagine anyone speaking like those old fashioned characters, it just seems dopey to modern ears. This is why I cannot read Dickens. Although...I have no problem with Russian novels since they are so blunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:16 PM
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Obviously this is true, since all women end up with "a guy who builds a solid career, busts his ass off in the gym every week, has a house, car and is a good well rounded person" despite her "vile personality" and whatever you consider "fat" to be. Every gal knows this and that is why makeup and diets were never invented and no one is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:12 PM
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"Down Girl" by Kate Manne I will look into it, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:07 PM
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"Beta uprising" is not and never has been one of my fears. Betas don't even need to rise up, most of them are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:41 PM
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Wait for a loud car to drive by, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:35 PM
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There is no fish tax on reddit so I don't need to post photos of my giant Oscar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:34 PM
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LOL I am a nobody!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:34 PM
1

The psychology behind clinical misogyny was explained to me ten years ago by an actual shrink. Most men are born and raised by mothers they worship at a young age, say the first two years. For these boys they see the mother as a goddess and she is all powerful. They realize they can never be like her so they adapt and develop as normal boys who like women and make male-only spaces to keep cooties out. Boys do this. It's normal. But there is a small minority of young boys who do not get over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:04 PM
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My religion cares a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:13 AM
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Yeah, I cannot get around this mentality either. If there is no actual marriage, no license, nothing but words? You are shacking up. My church would not be cool with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:15 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:38 PM
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It bums me out that we used to have intelligent debates and the only one screeching was Lewis Cross. Now it's all screeching, but without caps lock on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:33 PM
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Best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:02 PM
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My options did not shrink one bit. I was so overwhelmed with messages online from my dating profile I could not keep up...and my now-boyfriend had to be very persistent to get through that firehouse of attention and court me. If a woman keeps in shape she will never lack for options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:31 PM
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Women rather be single for longer than men if they can't get their ideal mate. This is absolutely true but not because of hypergamy. Women are fine being alone, and the only value a man brings is True Love. If she cannot acquire true love, why bother washing his socks? Cooking his steak? Listening to him snore every night?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:19 PM
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Most women fall in love and get with guys they actually love. Marry for love. Stay together for love. Are you going to shame these women and tell them they are hypergamous (they will have no idea what that means) or the they are always looking to trade their man in for an upgrade? They would think you are a monster. Kick you to the curb, and rightly so. People do not operate in real life like Red Pill describes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:16 PM
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Women can't tell men about AF/BB straight to their face and expect good outcomes. Most women do not know about AFBB and do not practice it, so what is there to tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:13 PM
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Maybe we should work to reduce all of those bad things so that less people end up being unlucky? Maybe you should lead the charge then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 03:14 PM
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I will have to check when I get off work tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:07 PM
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This, but gender flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:47 PM
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If you read his twitter feed, it's all about how the coronavirus is a hoax and Bill Gates is behind it.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/20 01:57 AM
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Source? Dr, Ramani https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9Qixc77KhCo88E5muxUjmA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:54 AM
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In this day and age i notice that women are allowed to exist in whatever damaged state they choose You must hang around messy misfits, this is a minority of women. All of us are expected to show up for work on time and act sane. You must know people on disability if they are allowed to be non-functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:53 AM
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Depressed women like casual sex. No they do not. Unless they have some other nympho condition, depression kills libido and depressed people have no sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:50 AM
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The remaining women opt for spinsterhood over pairing with the bottom fifth of men. Plenty of women opt for spinsterhood for any number of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:48 AM
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Read about narcissists and their behaviors. I have, quite extensively. Most narcs are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:46 AM
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I wish I had been more hypergamous and picky all my life, but I never knew about this Red Pill jargon and I never was hypergamous. I dated down, across, up.... never knew I was doing things wrong. Late in life I raised my standards and WHAM it worked. Now I have the love of my life, who is way above any guy I dated in my the past. Absolutely never settle, girls. Embrace your pickiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:43 AM
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You are never getting married, what do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:38 AM
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He claims he is no longer a PUA. He is now a conspiracy theorist.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/20 12:30 AM
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But I thought you had been diagnosed with a mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:27 PM
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He took mushrooms and had a revelation.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/20 03:13 PM
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And somehow it will still be her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:37 AM
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Picky eaters suck so much. Ok, and? You would rather deal with their massive gas after dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:54 PM
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Upvote for breaking the code.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:52 PM
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She will make you watch anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:40 PM
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It's funny I was just reading the Roosh forums to see what the older gents were looking for now that Roosh has banned fornication from his site. They all want the same girls to marry: young, pretty, and fertile but above all obedient. She must never be on birth control and she must not got to university or have a career. More than anything, she has to want kids. Which makes you wonder, doesn't it? Where will she be in a coupe decades when her kids are grown and her controlling husband decides to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:39 PM
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Yes it is and you have broken the code.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:37 PM
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Like, her dad forbids her from being with you? That is a youngster problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:36 PM
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But a woman who has devoted herself to one man from her prime years and takes good care of herself will be loved into old age by that man. Starter wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:13 PM
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but if you dig deeper you'll see their monogamous relationships were for sex and fatal attraction only. Last I checked, most women fall in love with guys before the monogamous relationship becomes official. Fatal attraction? Meaning...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:11 PM
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Why are you mad? I just informed you what domineering women like and I know plenty of them so this is real life. Bossy bitches want subservient men, and masculine features are not as important as her ruling over him. This is Queen Bee 101. My former best friend was like this and married a meek quiet man who seems to worship her, and yet she deludes herself into thinking she is submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:35 PM
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I am sorry you see the world thru shit colored glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:29 PM
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You you live in a cartoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:25 PM
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Yes. You said that women need to make similar economic decisions that men used to have to. Implying that this is a change that needs to happen, and not already the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:24 PM
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If they are single by 30, they still rode the CC, no? A lot of women reach 30 without the CC or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:16 PM
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Females are more economically empowered now and need to make similar long term financial decisions that men used to have to do. What makes you think they aren't already?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:15 PM
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sex is one of the only socially acceptable ways for men to express affection. Doubt. Do you pet your dog? Hug your grandma? Fist bump your friends? Or do you have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:55 PM
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What about the virgins? What about lesbians? Do you know any real people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:36 PM
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I have only met one woman who rode the CC and she was quite proud of it and did not stop in middle age. She was a self-professed "party girl" who loved men and dated as many as she could. Most other women I know had serious relationships from 18 onward and have single-digit body counts. Most of them are now married or divorced. A few exceptions are the crazy BPD girls who tried to have relationships and failed, so they rode the CC and posted about it all over the internet. They just look sad. ED…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:34 PM
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Sorry, I was looking at an outdated model of federal spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:29 PM
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My mistake, I was looking at a 1962 model
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:28 PM
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How does a rise in divorce prove that women marry for money? Maybe they just never spent this much time with their ADHD spouses and now they want to kill them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:24 PM
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You do pick crazy wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:17 PM
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What if the woman is the rich partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:16 PM
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I feel this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:15 PM
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Women would benefit, absolutely, if people told them the truth. But human psychology proves that you cannot change who you find attractive and if a girl grew up with an abusive or absent dad she will still seek out crappy men or just never know how to connect emotionally beyond infatuation. Most of the brokenness you see in humans cannot be solved by telling them the truth- looks how often we do that here on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:13 PM
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In the past religion held things together. Now that most Americans are agnostic, good luck keeping marriage around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:09 PM
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Asking the men on PPD about ideal women is like asking horse girls about the ideal horse. They want someone obedient.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:08 PM
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Everyone always knew women are less horny and lose desire for sex in marriage. Motive is the key here, as women are not looking to upgrade to another man they just stop caring about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:52 PM
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Trust me, they are not attracted to bossy men. Masculine men will always be more attractive, sure, but you do not understand how female attraction works and how much of it is based on personality, so if she knows Mark as the "asshole at work who is always telling me what to do" she will not be attracted to him. Whereas Billy Beta is "that pleasant gentleman who is so nice to me and remembered my birthday at the water cooler" so she will be into him instead. Domineering women HATE being told what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:50 PM
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OK, I see where my sentence could be misleading- there was no coupling up with those alpha men because they could not stand them from the start. Bossy bitches hate bossy men and chase them away BEFORE there could be any chance of a relationship, so nature has worked this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:56 PM
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A lot of short men are not wimps but have alpha type personalities. They take no crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:26 PM
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If you are married you might not be able to collect Medicaid or WIC benefits. So a lot of poor people live together instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:09 PM
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It does not say that women are looking to move, or hypergamy at all. The study says that they lose sexual desire over time and men do not. Nothing about branch swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:04 PM
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Huh? Why would I have causal sex??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:56 PM
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No, trust me, I did not. I have too many dominant women in my life to know how this plays out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:56 PM
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Religious upbringing, hormones, family life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:52 AM
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When we put up hers Whose?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:48 AM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:47 AM
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What studies??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:41 AM
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Since I never hook up with anyone, I am all about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:39 AM
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I have no idea what other women put inter dating profiles since I never looked, but surely there must be others taking the modest route?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:17 PM
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She will just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:58 PM
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Only on paper. In real life they fight with alpha men and chase them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:54 PM
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I got my partner of four years this way, we are still very much in love. He said he chose me because of my looks and the family-oriented photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:53 PM
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When I had a profile online, it showed a few modest photos of me and my family or my friends. I wrote almost nothing about myself in the typed section. Why say anything when men pick based on looks? So I let my meager photos do the talking. It worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:42 PM
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Good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:27 PM
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So what kind of woman do you imagine would work here? Describe her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:00 PM
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Excellent question. As a passive and feminine man, you would need to be with a dominant and masculine woman. It is the best fit for someone with your goals and I have seen this play out in RL with other couples, however rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:55 PM
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I saw that and I understood how he felt. The purity culture was toxic and made people think they had to marry someone they barely knew just to stay "pure" and untouched. It was dumb. I did not graduate from the Christian college and instead transferred to a state college with a much better art department. I graduated summa cum laude, like that ever did me any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:23 PM
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There was no much artificiality at the Christian college I attended, people were so fake and it really put me off. I had a crisis of faith in college because I was so disgusted by the Christian culture I saw there...I get it now, that's just American evangelical pablum and not true religion. But this happens to so many believers, and no one talks about it. "date to mate" and all the other crappy advice was just the tip of the pharisaical iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:26 AM
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I might be the odd one out here because I am religious, but coming from a churchy family and being surrounded by Christian friends I was constantly pressured to marry. "Date to mate!" they quipped at me. All dating was just to find a husband and no other reason. You better get on that, because no sex until the wedding...it was bizarre how many of them are divorced now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:06 AM
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The worst and shittiest people I have ever met were average looking. Good looking people are usually pleasant because why wouldn't they be? Everyone treats them well. The narcissists you describe are made that way from childhood and has little to do with their looks and has a lot to do with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:54 AM
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I am upvoting this comment so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:11 AM
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Gross, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:07 AM
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Strenuous intercourse???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:21 PM
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Agreed, we have cabin fever already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:29 PM
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They claim a woman's value sharply declines after age 25. That is not at all true, and unless you dove into meth and alcohol at age 25 you would not notice a decrease in your "value" one bit. Go live a happy life and forget this dork.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 02:57 AM
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How long were you with him?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/20 12:32 AM
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I think this is a bait thread for women to be told (for the millionth time) that we suck, by men who got rejected by women. nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:37 PM
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Because....?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:40 PM
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whereas most men working remotely are running our digital infrastructure. My partner certainly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:30 PM
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So you do realize that women with schizophrenia do not live easy lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:40 AM
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So let me get this straight. You know people with diagnosed schizophrenia who are on medication (or not) and manage to live normal lives without hearing voices telling them the demons inside their skulls are scraping their way out with a spoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:34 AM
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I’m readying some cash for when the foreclosures come! Great time to buy discount real estate. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:43 PM
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Schizophrenia is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:42 PM
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I don't think Moody has ever met a schizophrenic person in his entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:41 PM
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This. Female autists learn to mimic and copy normal behavior early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:38 PM
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Wrong on all counts. Human beings fall in love hard, and if their loved one dies they can be so devastated that they take their own lives. How does that fit with your premise that women love opportunistically or that men love only shallowly? People are designed to form fierce pair bonds with strong emotions that transcend age and sickness and sometimes even death. Op has never been in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:55 AM
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Agreed, there is no way that OP can be this dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:30 AM
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Thank you for pointing out the obvious mistake in OP's reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:23 AM
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Literally every point you made is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:21 AM
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The vast majority of humans have a lifetime N count of 5 to 7, depending on their culture. That is the average. Promiscuity is rare and most women find it gross to sleep with so many people. The reason you see so much advocacy on PPD is the men here project their own desires onto women, and since they would rack up a huge body count if they could...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:28 PM
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We were talking about "cultural death" which is a dog whistle for white weirdos to bash brown immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:36 AM
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PPD men either want women to b eunhappy or they want them to be happy only under specific circumstances. You have summed this up better than I ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:08 AM
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Exactly their fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:04 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:47 PM
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Why would we lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:45 PM
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Has anyone else been following Roosh and his conspiracy theories about the covid-19?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:12 PM
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I will tell that to all the kids under twenty, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:05 PM
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I have had age gap relationships both up and down. What stands out to me is the life stages more than the age gap itself, as two middle aged people are mostly the same life stage despite being ten years apart whereas a 20 year old should not be dating a 30 year old because they are on separate planets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:50 PM
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We can disagree, it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:47 PM
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Except not. I am stating that women's desire for marriage is a result of societal conditioning and that is why we see single women as failures. Here is a relevant links: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/07/case-against-marriage/591973/ https://www.businessinsider.com/society-should-stop-pretending-marriage-makes-women-so-happy-2017-1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:34 PM
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So we agree, it is societal conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:22 PM
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A single woman is a failure, a single man is a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:17 PM
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Telling us that marriage is the only way to be. That anything less is being in sin. That you are not as mature or grown up as a single. That you are to be pitied if unmarried. The pressure is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:13 PM
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Exactly, you are not religious. I am. Many people in modern societies are. The pressure is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:11 PM
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No one is brainwashing women to get married. Parents, the church, friends, teachers, co-workers...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:19 PM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:34 PM
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Getting remarried late in life can also screw up the kids' inheritance and such.We ran into this question with my great grandmother who got married again at age 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:41 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:40 PM
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It is known.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:12 AM
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I miss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:11 AM
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Could the mods please get men to stop answering this question for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:05 AM
2

Question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:02 AM
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are you female?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:02 AM
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Why was my answer downvoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:00 AM
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In the old days, a boyfriend or girlfriend was not taken seriously at all and you can see why. It was just dating. Now that marriage has fallen out of favor or people wait until their thirties before tying the knot, a long term relationship is the ersatz marriage. Serious as a heart attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:37 PM
1

Human psychology shows us that some people are dominant and others submissive in nature. Many of my friends are bossy and strident women, who would never be attracted to a dominant man. Whereas I am a submissive doormat who would never find my male equivalent to be hot. So as you can see, my bossy female friends are not attracted to my man. And I know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:33 PM
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Good to know that we are lying again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:25 PM
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In real life every woman has a different definition of Hot and I have never been attracted to my friends' partners, nor they mine. So what? That means we are never in competition for the same guy, and no one is trying to steal anyone's boyfriend. It works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:24 PM
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I was so disappointed in that movie. Look how frumpy they made her! That outfit, guh...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:22 AM
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How old are you now? You should have female friends and coworkers and if you are in college, women should be all around you. Get to know them as people and hear their stories.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/20 04:06 PM
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Best typo yet, I have to upvote you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:35 PM
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It is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:29 PM
5

We have all seen Silence of the Lambs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:28 PM
1

Liphook I had to Google this word.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:17 PM
1

uh, not that I have seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:16 PM
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There will always be aspiring SAHMs and housewives, so there will always be women looking for a man with a good job. I know plenty of these women at church.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:26 AM
3

Am I the only one here grossed out by this thread? PPD went from discussing sexual differences to advocating a white ethno-state? Puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:23 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:02 PM
8

Extensive solo backpacking, You are gonna have to explain this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:52 PM
1

Why was this downvoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:49 PM
1

Being raised super religious, I had some odd ideas about sex that made me paranoid about ever having it. Very effectively, I was scared away from fornication and my head was filled with worst-case scenarios which loomed large. It took so many years to undo this mental training, to see sex as a loving act between two people instead of a predatory violation of a woman's body- you guys have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:49 PM
5

This is their vapid, soulless idea of the female experience. Well, yeah. This is how they ended up in the manosphere in the first place- they don't like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:44 PM
1

So...Mary Poppins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:48 PM
1

If she is attractive and can't find someone at her church, the church members will suggest eligible young men from their extended families and nearby areas. This made me smile with weird nostalgia. Ha, the Christian men I knew in church were far from high value. But I was expected to pick one of THEM? Just because we shared a religion? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:26 PM
3

In actuality the marriage isn’t happier, both parties are just willing to put up with a way worse marriage than most people because they feel pressured not to divorce. Yup, I have seen that my whole life. Very religious family, you get the inside scoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:20 PM
2

I actually knew a couple woman-haters before I got on Reddit, guys who were pretty crazy in the head. They are rare as hen's teeth thank God, because the things they believe made my jaw drop. Online misogyny is mostly angry men venting and I don't think it's nearly as dangerous but...there are a few who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:16 PM
5

If someone’s not happy in a relationship for whatever reason, who does it benefit to stick around? I have to agree. It is always better to be alone than to be stuck in a bad duo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:14 AM
1

They are nocturnal and if you don't mind that...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:22 PM
-1

Exactly go learn the truth outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:30 PM
0

No dude, you make a lot of assumptions about people and I think you need to spend time outside Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:24 PM
-1

She hasn’t had the epiphany phase and is still a side piece for Chad while ignoring her looksmatch This is assuming a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:21 PM
2

My N count is very low and my partner knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:18 PM
6

Only the top few percent of women, if that, are able to net the guys they had their fun with Why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:18 PM
2

Yeah, we got tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:55 PM
2

No, you are going to lose that battle of changing what you find attractive. I tried for years to date guys that were the opposite of my overbearing father and look what that got me. I need a strong, masculine man who takes no shit from anyone- like dear old dad. But for most of my life I fought that and I was unable to change my lizard brain. I lost. Now I have the guy I want and I don't care who approves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:44 PM
11

My problem with the assumption is that the young woman "sleeps around" and the is the reason why she delayed marriage or just stayed single. I was so busy with my career and my education in my 20s I barely had time to breathe, let alone get married. My twenties were a whirlwind of stress and insomnia and perfectionism. Not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:20 PM
2

A shame, I was hoping for a good discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:19 AM
2

This is interesting, I would like to learn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 11:23 PM
3

How exactly would this look? The girlfriend is a bondservant who says Yes to his every whim?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 08:43 PM
39

When we are honest here on PPD you guys accuse us of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:24 PM
3

I am about to block him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 06:00 PM
6

I feel bad for all those kids without dads, but most of the time was their dad who left.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:44 PM
5

DANG IT, you saw me coming a mile off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:37 PM
4

What does this have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:33 PM
8

I know a lot of women, myself included, who have always talked to ourselves since childhood. This is me and all the women in my family too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:08 PM
7

Their father is supposed to teach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:05 PM
1

How does one act like a Bond girl? poison someone in their sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:45 AM
2

From what I have seen, people do not change. They show their true selves over time, and it might not be "dating mode" so it might not be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:41 AM
2

One month of marriage and she got half your money? That is not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:09 AM
2

Fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 12:52 AM
90

We are absolutely a pair bonding species, we just do it badly. If pair bonding were not a part of our psychology then we would never feel sexual jealousy or mate guarding. Every man here would be delighted at his woman banging the soccer team, why not? If we were a truly polygamous species there would be no sex shaming at all. The fact that we keep dragging concept of marriage into every culture on earth and bringing it up in every civilization throughout known history tells you something, doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:32 PM
1

You are the Joker. Not the hero. You are the guy who only has compassion for himself and views others as tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:26 PM
1

You sound like a cartoon villain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:22 PM
1

So this is your understanding of average lonely women? They are a cartoon stereotype and not people like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:18 PM
1

Heart break is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:06 PM
2

A lot of young women get burned the same way you guys do. They are in the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:27 PM
3

Picture Philip Seymour Hoffman. Any guy that looks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:26 PM
1

Not a whole lot, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 04:07 AM
2

It just sounds so alien to me. All this desperation and poor decisions, all this gambling your life on a stranger's whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:11 PM
2

Not to be rude, but do you live in an economically depressed area?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:04 PM
2

So you asked them this over a glass of wine one fine evening and they told you in confidence that they knew the guy was "out of their league" and their only reason for having the kid was the baby trap him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:52 PM
1

Imo anyone with a really high difficulty setting should be compensated And how would they determine who is suffering from this high difficulty setting? Sounds like welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:47 PM
1

Oh she will be basic all right...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:45 PM
2

Unfortunately, the majority of single mothers shot out of their league with a guy they knew didn't want to be with them and used the kid to try to trap them. Where the hell do you see this happening? A bad movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:44 PM
2

Fact is: How old are you? Plenty of poor people have kids. You never see them because your friend circle is not breeding, so they do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:29 PM
2

Sane women would just be quiet, and men would circle-jerk over how horrible women are. That was exactly how PPD went before the FDS chicks showed up en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:23 PM
0

No, I live in a midden.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:16 PM
0

Agreed. Bring em in, once this virus is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:04 PM
5

I think you already know the answer here: women are all whores and men are poor helpless victims and marriage should be eliminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:20 PM
5

Or he's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:24 PM
-1

Only a minority of women practice AFBB so it seems both are uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 08:38 PM
2

Are you new to this planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:35 PM
2

Heh heh!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:41 AM
2

Again, I couldn't fathom a happier and more fulfilling life that what I am living right now. Well good on you. But TRP is not about your life, it is about casual sex and never falling in love, never marrying, never kids. Hollow and empty. Since you got to have love and marriage and (I dunno if kids) you got a lot more than RP would offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:14 AM
2

Are you under the impression that RP guys aren't connected to people? Yes. We picture lonely bachelors who barely have any friends at all, and rarely talk to their own family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:14 AM
7

The ones here mostly have contempt for women Yup, they are not going to connect with anyone. Then as the years draw on and on, it will seem like they have no friends of any kind at all and they will realize that toxic mentality of seeing other people as the enemy was actually a bad choice of life philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:13 AM
2

I couldn't fathom a happier and more fulfilling life. What about being in love? Having a partner who would take a bullet for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:11 AM
1

It's a huge threat to any man to get involved with a woman who is settling for him. Except this is a woman who refuses to settle and would rather remain single. again, no need for semaphore flags to warn men off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:07 AM
1

Not a real threat to anyone now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:30 PM
1

Lol dude that cracked me up. Tell you what, most women do not pine after their exes and so it’s not likely a problem for most men anyway... but for the few Twiteenas out there who will never date again we can put out a memo. Make sure no one bothers with a woman who has closed up shop. But how is anyone hurt by this cessation? No man will be used or manipulated by a woman who is Done so we don’t need to make this a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:21 PM
1

By not having the concept as it is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:06 PM
1

But the metaphor fails, is my point. Widows do not choose to be widows, someone died and they have to accept it. In the "alpha widow" metaphor the woman should therefore have no choice either since she is never going to be able to fall in love again. Your use of the "widow" metaphor makes about as much sense as a pet owner losing their pet and being called a "widow" because they do not want to get a new puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:14 PM
0

But think about what you're saying. It is not a case of me being unable to get another high value man to love, it is me being done altogether. I could replace him but I will not. A lot of people feel this way after losing a loved one so how is this a TRP phenomenon or a trait of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:01 PM
2

I did this when I was 18. I was shamed by my best friend for only dating guys who looked cute, so I dated a dude that was the exact opposite of that. What good did that do anyone? I broke his heart because I was not into him. Complete waste of time and emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:04 PM
0

nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:28 PM
1

by choice? doesn't that defeat the whole argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:28 PM
1

Solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 04:33 AM
1

If youd never seen a man in your life and you saw an average one, assuming your straight, you would be attracted to him. Oh boy. That is now how this works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 03:54 AM
0

IF a woman reflects on a past guy she dated, she would be laughing to herself with “why the fuck did I date that guy so long? He was so obviously wrong for me” Yup. I am astonished at the men I dated in college- what was I thinking??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:57 AM
1

Because it's not needed to settle for someone we do not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:55 AM
4

that brief window in time when she was dating pro athletes and rock stars. Yeah that is pretty common for normal people. We date professional athletes and rock stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:53 AM
1

What you said is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:51 AM
1

So you think I should have gotten married in high school or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:51 AM
-1

I would give up on men altogether and be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:50 AM
12

How common is this problem really? I dated guys and then I dated different guys. I was never "alpha widowed" because I was the one who left. The man I am with now? He is my best ever and I am keeping him. That is the reality of women- we shop around until we find someone we cannot live without.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:25 PM
6

the vast, vast majority of women just see men as walking ATMs. Seriously? Who sees you as a walking ATM? You personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:33 PM
5

learning about what biologically motivates a gender. Dopamine, serotonin, epinephrin, and norepinephrine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:03 PM
7

Dude, back away from the internet. Your mind is filling with crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:48 PM
5

Can you really understand what it's like to be another race or culture? No. So what, you can still have compassion- right? You can sympathize even if you cannot grok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:47 PM
5

Is there a YouTube video still up?
/r/ExRedPill30/03/20 09:30 PM
0

How did you know???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:30 PM
1

Where did he go? Rehab?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:26 PM
0

I am just glad you are okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:21 PM
0

Why do they even post here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:20 PM
1

Especially when talking about the solipsist gender. Which gender is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:18 PM
2

Whatever happened to gimp girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:16 PM
0

There you are! And here I thought you left us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:07 PM
1

That's all due to your car.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 05:04 PM
2

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:46 PM
3

Uh huh. Enjoy your tiger zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:46 PM
2

Did DangZagnut delete his account?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:58 AM
2

You must be fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:47 AM
5

The guy trained 3 virgin barely legal girls to do what he wants. I gotta study this guy! UH....you saw this freak show and wanted to emulate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:37 AM
0

Everyone understands the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:54 AM
2

So you drive a Corvette?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:06 PM
11

Did you reach out and apologize to all the people you hurt?
/r/ExRedPill27/03/20 03:35 PM
1

That's a fact Jack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:36 AM
8

If you are an American, most of your taxes go to the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:17 AM
2

That would explain my severe cold in December.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:52 PM
1

I am listening to it right now, coincidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:50 PM
1

No, I never settled. I got the man I always wanted and I am keeping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:44 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:44 PM
25

This strikes me as the best answer. They want a comeuppance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:03 PM
8

This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:34 PM
6

I'm still a doctor and your friends are not. Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:12 PM
7

Agreed, I have seen severe cases of Mama's Boy where they cannot let go of the apron strings. It is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 05:10 PM
1

Niiiiiice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:56 PM
6

And when I show my male relatives these types of comments You show Reddit comments to your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:56 PM
15

You can have whatever standards you want, and refuse to lower them too. But if you are upset that you can't get a hot partner, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:54 PM
1

Please enlighten us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:02 AM
29

Older women feel you are safe and it's not going to lead to you stalking them. So they can chat you up and even act flirty since they are just being relaxed and casual as they would with an old man. They see no danger.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/20 04:25 PM
1

OK, how do you want to be perceived?
/r/ExRedPill18/03/20 03:13 PM
2

but fuck around in the 20s with Chad. Is. it possible that Chad is just young in his 20s too? So he is underemployed like most men his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:09 PM
3

So its not AFBB, its more like she fell in love with a schlub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:07 PM
2

People do not respect people who work hard and that is my point Yes people do respect hard work, but not from someone who complains and acts bitter. I have had countless coworkers over the years and the ones who hauled ass and gave it their all were definitely recognized for it, but the ones who rolled their eyes and made snide comments about being unappreciated (regardless of their contributions to the work load) were seen as complainers.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/20 03:04 PM
1

Why was this downvoted??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 04:02 AM
3

I mean, the poor woman going thru menopause at 42 is in for a rough ride whether she has a man or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:01 AM
4

I know a woman who is going through menopause at 42. Dang, that is young. I wonder what contributed to that? Weird ass genetics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:38 AM
2

I am on your side, Audrey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 05:12 PM
1

Think about it- you have to prioritize what you want in life and if someone wants to have children they need to find a partner in a given amount of time. So you overlook the non-essentials and settle to achieve a goal. But I never had a deadline to have kids so I never needed to rush into anything and could take my time being picky. And it paid off, I got the man I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:38 PM
1

nd having a meeting with some indian good was a truly great experience. Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:15 PM
0

I am so so thankful I did not settle. Maybe this is a good option for people who want kids, so I cannot entirely change your view, but for me it would have been a disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:14 PM
2

Zero. As I intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:10 PM
2

So how many kids do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:58 AM
3

Almost twice as many sexless women. So were the guys having sex with each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:45 AM
1

Soooo...no condom either?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:43 AM
1

I have no idea what it's like to be a single mom but I have a friend who recently got divorced and she is already in a loving relationship with a man. Despite having FOUR children. If a woman is pretty and sweet she will not be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:42 AM
1

She was pretty, even if she has an attitude problem. She will find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 04:00 AM
4

Yes, the standard keeps moving around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:26 AM
1

Won't be surprise if we go down to 10 people at this rate. That just happened now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:04 PM
5

I feel sorry for the 50 year old wine aunts. Do you feel sorry for the bachelors who never have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 08:56 PM
2

Absolutely I have seen it, but it's less common. Friend of mine did this but she was the one who left, so it does not entirely fit the description.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 06:34 PM
-1

but feel entitled to commitment from the very men you hated before? Who does this? Have you ever once seen this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:59 PM
7

Hey it's me, a fellow artist and human being here, and I am telling you that we all got kicked in the teeth by someone when young. Yes- even me. The anger takes a couple years to dissipate and when it does you will be able to see past it, but for now you need to forgive yourself for your mistake. I got taken too. We all have. Some people are evil, and some people are gullible, and no one always wins.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/20 03:27 PM
5

So you are saying that the same gal who was popular and pretty in her 20s was also a mess? She can plan ahead. She can land a man she actually wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:23 PM
5

Fun Stacy has a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:20 PM
10

Why would Fun Stacy need to settle with a man she finds unattractive? This part of the revenge fantasy never made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:04 AM
2

all of this stuff about "all women are bi" is just as misleading. Thank you. Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:06 AM
1

Huh? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 02:04 AM
1

Solid agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:38 PM
3

Boyo, I have never been married at all. But in my family it is considered Real and Binding and when my sister divorced we all lost respect for the husband who abandoned his family. No one would respect a Flim Flam marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:25 PM
1

Ah good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:23 PM
1

Can't complain, living the retail life. Are you taking a break from PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:23 PM
1

In this analogy the pile of sandwiches are all contaminated with salmonella.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:12 AM
4

being at a buffet where you’re allergic to everything. Very good comparison, spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:08 AM
2

Good to see you hear again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:01 AM
3

Why would he leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:24 AM
7

When I was 18 my boyfriend was a fat redhead who was not at all cute. My friends had told me not to be shallow and look for beauty on the inside so I dated this guy for a year and broke his heart when I left. What was the point in all that? So now I date only men I find Hot so that the relationship will actually last and I will not be pretending. My SO is gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:13 AM
1

What happened to Camo Woobie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:07 AM
9

My standards went UP with age, not down. I used to settle for unattractive men and I learned the hard way...now I have the one I want. Why settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:05 AM
2

He is pretty clever, I will accede that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:35 PM
1

Ah, Carry on then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:35 PM
4

Girls start wearing makeup in their early teens to feel pretty and cover zits. You see photos of models and want to look like them, you see the popular girls and wish to emulate them, plus acne needs to be hidden.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:47 PM
2

Was your previous account name Fuck Guilt or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:38 PM
6

Tells ya a lot, don't it? That a lot of guys who were never getting hitched anyway want to bitch online? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:37 PM
5

Lying to your entire family sounds like a party to you??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:49 PM
3

Most women are not looking for short term anything. The vast majority want boyfriends, not hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:48 PM
9

and the odds are stacked against men dating wealthier women. It depends how you select your girlfriends. Hot babe who works retail? That's me, but I aint gonna buy you a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:41 PM
4

Why have a party for a fake marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:39 PM
11

Seriously? She wants to be some live-in bangmaid to prove she loves a man? While her family and friends all pray for her eternal soul?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:39 PM
1

It is definitely learned behavior, as in the thousands of years of human history where women could not choose their own spouses and her parents picked the best guy they could find for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:36 PM
1

Not that I am disagreeing with you, but what are you doing here? Get back to PPD at once!
/r/ExRedPill12/03/20 04:37 PM
2

Definitely do Tae Kwon Do, it is a lot of fun and you make friends. Plus they give you nun chucks now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:57 PM
4

This is not how women think at all. You fall in love with some guy and he shoots up in attractiveness (love goggles) and you make excuses for his failings. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:39 PM
1

Everyone except me, I work retail.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:38 PM
2

You are twenty, the women you are describing are your age or younger. Immaturity is its own beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:35 PM
0

How many women are actually doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:17 PM
2

Thanks for the insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:27 PM
3

Yes I do, but no one here will believe me. I actually have reached out to some of the sad incels here and other places and tried to help. At one point I even asked in the chat if so-and-so was ok and what we could do for him and was told "nothing" and that was it. But yeah, I still wonder what happened to some of the guys here and I have a soft (and stupid) heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:44 AM
1

I’ve been disqualified from the SMP by my age alone Oh please, at 42? I am shaking my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:26 AM
3

indian men are considered attractive by lots of women Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:03 AM
2

As for the Indian part depending on we’re you live racist view are more prevalent than other area’s maybe were you live an Indian guy can get laid but not in others. Indian men can get laid in any state if they are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 04:02 AM
1

Sure. I am in love and that is all I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:44 AM
2

Is that your employer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:50 PM
1

Yes. At church this happens more often than not: pretty babe with cave troll. You have to figure love is blind or she really wanted to marry a Christian and there he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:51 AM
1

Oh when it comes to gender dynamics he is wrong all the time. Hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:49 AM
1

I am a woman and I normally disagree with Sado because he is some sort of nihilist, but he is correct in his comment that you can live your life doing everything correctly and still fail. You can work hard study hard, go to the right church, jump through ALL the hoops, and still fail. This is not about gender but about disappointment and how many people expect to be rewarded but instead get the boot and after all that striving for nothing? They decide to throw away their misplaced ideals and hop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:19 PM
1

Sorry but I don't think I can answer this for the SCP Foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:10 PM
9

Think about what you are asking. A loving partner who lies to your face and can never be trusted, and just may throw over the whole family for some tail? Does that sound like a marriage worth saving?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:35 PM
9

Betrayal is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:29 PM
8

Would you be happy with your dad if he cheated on your mom? Would you think that dad was just swell and great?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:26 PM
2

Because all you RP men are clamoring to become fathers? Give it a rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:12 PM
2

Outside of the internet this is false. Most people pair up just fine and women are not all vying for the same men. Look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:07 PM
1

Why are the betas alone and dateless? When you find the answer to that, problem solved. And no its not normal and never will be for culture to be built on bachelors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:04 PM
8

I am a Christian too and red pill is the wrong place for us. Continue your journey without tactics or tricks, and embrace the good in mankind.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 05:35 PM
1

Have you been here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:24 PM
1

You see a lot of movies. In reality the population is mostly short and brown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:04 PM
2

OK I hate to sound all science nerd but someone actually did a study on this and people PREFER women to wear makeup and therefore buy more products from their store. It's subconscious or something. Hell, it even worked on gorillas in a zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:04 PM
1

It's called California, you may have heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:02 PM
2

Nope, she is terrified of her life being turned upside down and him leaving her so she pul out all the stops. She is scared bu not turned on, and if he keeps this up she will reverse her course and lash out at him in a thermonuclear explosion of pent-up rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 05:00 PM
1

Every great while you make a comment worthy of top comment. I hesitate to tell you this, but you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:56 PM
2

This is the correct answer, also Ayn Rand's answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:55 PM
1

MONTHS away from tourist season I thought this was a cold weather virus that dies in springtime?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:50 PM
2

Same thing happened to my friend in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:49 PM
2

I worked at a retirement home and it's as yucky as you are (hopefully not) picturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:48 PM
2

heh heh this would only be possible if I started a new job. Trust me, they are gonna think cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:44 PM
1

As stated, I am surrounded by Asians here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:43 PM
3

Sounds rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:42 PM
1

People did not live in nuclear families they had extended family all around and they all defended each other. They were not progressive they were all about kin. Social bonds are what kept the human race from going extinct in the hell of prehistoric Africa where lions and leopards ate anyone caught alone. Have you even been to college? You would learned this in anthropology 101
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:14 AM
1

Families were the original social unit and fought to protect each other yes. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:45 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:43 PM
0

Oh so the primitive females did not have fathers or brothers to defend her? Every ape for himself? Gimme a break. We are social animals in family groups
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:37 PM
3

So I go to work everyday and get asked if I am sick or tired?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:21 PM
8

Not me, but my close friends and family members are like this. They are domineering women who enjoy the company of men who do not argue back. They marry passive men and love them for real, even going so far as to claim "submissive wife" status that no one believes. An alpha man is seen as a "dick" or "asshole" because he will not bend to her will and she will never go for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:03 PM
2

I would honestly not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:59 PM
7

from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:37 PM
1

YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:36 PM
3

Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:08 PM
2

Still not as good as "Wheels on the bus" Now and again, you are the wit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:38 PM
2

Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:23 PM
3

Hell, some days I would like to be completely invisible. It would be so freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:14 PM
1

I guess? Not tall enough to notice. I live in a part of America that is mostly Asian so your definition of "tall" is very generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:54 PM
1

What do men want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:50 PM
1

I am taller than most people in my life. It's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:50 PM
1

This whole thread is about what women want, not what they are lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:47 PM
1

5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:45 PM
1

The world is full of broken people, what can I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:43 PM
3

men are MORE misogynistic to unsexy women. Men are cruel to ugly women, yes. But they treat them as non-sexual beings and ignore them. Or they treat them as a joke. Pretty women have different problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:37 PM
9

I also considering comparing us to animals like dogs but then I realized that could go south too. The point still stands: men can love their pets and their elders and not want to bang them. Men can see strangers as non-sexual beings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:34 PM
3

LOL oh my dude...I have worked the shittiest and most demeaning job possible and more than once: I was a caregiver at a nursing home for years. Currently I work retail. Let's pretend that my employment has anything to do with being sexy and not because I pick the least stressful jobs I can find, which is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:33 PM
0

Nature designed this on purpose, you do realize? Women are not supposed to orgasm easily and men are, that's not a glitch its a feature. Last I read about WHY it exists: to weed out selfish men who do not care about her and make bad lovers. So nature put this in place for women to reject men who do not make her come. Anyone read differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:31 PM
3

Shittier than MY job? Hard to picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:26 PM
4

Do men see children or old women as sexual beings? oh, don't answer that...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:23 PM
9

They must be ugly women who only attract ugly men. No, many young women have low self esteem and believe terrible things about themselves even when they are pretty. Sometimes other people put the idea in her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:22 PM
6

Men would not give things as easily. Tha's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:17 PM
2

There is some theory about genes and wanting someone with vastly different genetics...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:49 AM
2

No. Dark hair and dark eyes and angular facial features could technically be found on some pale goth guy, but unlikely to look convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:37 AM
40

I want the attention and commitment of my boyfriend and from other men I want to be treated as a non-sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:23 AM
2

I find certain physical features sexy, and these align with different "dark and swarthy" ethnic groups. I like guys who look Middle Eastern of Indian or Mediterranean, that combination of features. I find the opposite to be gross: pale skin and pale eyebrows, blonde hair, button noses, no hard angles. Anyone who looks like they could be related to me, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:19 AM
5

What does it mean "to care" It mean exactly what it always means here on PPD. She touches his pee pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:15 AM
3

there's a lot of virtue signalling that goes on by women in the West. Or just generally avoiding telling the truth. So we are lying if we don't agree with you? Back to this again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:13 AM
9

The lack of self awareness it takes to state out loud that you believe women "just wait at the finish line for the best men" in a rant about how unfair it is that women don't appreciate men's experiences and struggles is borderline comical. Solid agree. The way a lot of guys here talk about women makes me wonder if they ever met one. I can think if SO many gals who tried to be the Ride or Die girlfriend or wife and saw their hopes and dreams dashed and then divorced. What are they supposed to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:11 AM
3

No, they have their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:34 AM
1

Speak for yourself, I am def real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:42 PM
1

I seek the truth.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/20 10:34 PM
3

The Red Pill is correct Why are you here?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/20 07:46 PM
2

People can be truthful and still be quiet to spare someone's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:23 PM
2

honest LOL here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:01 PM
5

Ackmed could be a hippie. Just sayin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:58 PM
1

Imprinting is a thing. Early childhood is where you are imprinted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:46 PM
2

but we need more research. Go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:36 PM
2

People have to be honest in this scenario but they can also shut up and not say anything, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:34 PM
5

More like this: Him: want some fuck? Her: no thanks. Him: I respect your values and will no longer pursue you. Be well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:32 PM
0

take a pill that removes all sexual and romantic for anyone that Is not your spouse. Why not go one further and take a pill at puberty that prevents puberty? Stay forever an asexual kid in a somewhat adult body? No drive for romance whatsoever, no pain of heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:31 PM
2

I am still trying to figure out what PPD dudes want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:27 PM
2

more and more white women getting with Ackmed at the grocery store And you can tell just by looking what his beliefs are?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:25 PM
3

she never said you could. she said be honest about your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:24 PM
4

I really wish we could post about race. I have a lot to say to the short-cels who post here because where I live there are mostly Asians and Hispanics so a lot of short, successful men. My suspicion is that where you live and what you grow up seeing has a big impact on which men you find attractive, so I never cared about height. Atlas has mentioned this about her neighborhood full of short Irish guys. Any thoughts (under the safety of this chat thread?)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:15 PM
1

Go to an anime convention and tell me about gender ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:11 PM
1

He was average. I still find him hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:10 PM
2

I fully admit that looks are the most important aspect, but my definition of hot will be different that Sally's and Becky's so who cares? To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:09 PM
3

Not directly, but OP is Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:48 AM
2

I met him online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:36 AM
2

Either way, checkmate, delete your thread currybro! Checkmate? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:34 AM
26

Dating in an expensive area of California means you live in a mostly Asian neighborhood. So much of the PPD discussion wants to trash Asian men and write them off when in fact they are doing quite well from where I sit. (And yes, I am a white girl dating an Asian guy.). In my area no one cares and no one thinks you have to be six feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:31 AM
2

it's a lot easier to be the type of interesting, confident, charming person that people want to be around when you've been shown deference, receptiveness and value by those around you from an early age. Prince was teased all throughout school and called names for his size. That is my point- he was not given deference and he was not worshipped until AFTER he became a celebrity. So how did this short black guy that people teased become a mega star? Character and drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 01:27 AM
2

you probably wouldn't be commenting here in the first place if you were in the vast majority of women who are with taller men. Everyone likes to pipe up when they're the exception So what if I am the exception? Does that disprove anything I said? Danny Devito is short by anyone's standards and not exactly hot, but he has plenty of charisma and no problem getting babes. This is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 12:06 AM
2

Life isn't fair, and women should certainly go with men they find attractive, Right again, and I find my boyfriend immensely attractive. So much so that it took me well over a year to figure out that I am taller than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 11:21 PM
2

Exactly. Millions of men are successful because of character and drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:51 PM
1

Prince was a success because of his character and his drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:18 PM
2

I am very into rock music how could you tell!? I started playing the bass guitar last year and I need to be better about practicing. I also got a turntable which is fun. Taking interest in other's people interests- that's a good suggestion. Yeah man, keep it up. Sounds like you are on the right path.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:54 PM
3

If you like nerdy girls you will do fine, but it also depends on the vibe you present to the world. Are you the guy who looks pissed off all the time and never talks, or the guy who constantly talks about anime and never shuts up? Are the the friendly sort of aspie who likes geeky things and makes buddies at nerd conventions or the sort who hangs out in your room all weekend? Of course you are still young and this is the key: be open to new experiences and do not come off as a snob and your worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:17 PM
1

Where did I even imply that? I said women have types they actually like, not women use use use use use use use use use use use....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:10 PM
8

I saw your post on r/relationships and it was a big parade of red flags before it was removed. Your GF is insane and you need to dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:06 PM
1

Trailer trash is alpha now? Never mind, this is getting dumb and dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:57 PM
1

I met my SO online and fell in love with him after talking on the phone. I do not think people need to meet at bars or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:51 PM
2

show their inner personality for women to be attracted to them, but how can we do this. On the phone. I met my SO online and I was not genuinely attracted to him until the first phone call.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:01 PM
1

Oh silly me. Please tell me what I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:59 PM
5

sigh. it's like reddit lives in a windowless cube and never interacts with actual criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:35 PM
2

OK, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:14 PM
4

A giant percentage of guys just don't meet the female requirements to qualify. A giant percentage, really? Or maybe you do not understand that women are not instantly attracted to a photo of a man. Very few men are going to elicit immediate visceral attraction because women are not designed that way. We need voice and personality to be aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:13 PM
2

I never said Napoleon was not an alpha. Of course alphas get women because they are leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:11 PM
6

Prince was 5'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:08 PM
2

I am talking honestly about men right now and you are calling me a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:51 PM
5

So you are denying my lived experience and the reality of women. Thanks for the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:47 PM
-1

Alpha is the leader, the dominant man who commands others. Beta is the follower.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:46 PM
2

No dude, I did not. I described the vast spectrum of human compatibility and nothing about Courage or Cowardice, which is the Alpha Beta dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:43 PM
1

Why would you assume that all criminals are alpha? Are child molesters a bunch of Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:41 PM
1

They also most likely have low level of education and low paid jobs or no job at all. Or they are easily manipulated. Not all criminals are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:39 PM
3

Except that none of this is how female attraction works. We fall in love with men who are our type. Some women like tall jocks, some women like Napoleon. Some women like big fat hairy bears and some women like skinny rock stars with makeup. There is no one type for gals. Personality plays a HUGE role in love so even if a guy looks like a Ken doll he can be dull as dishwater and she will pick someone more suited to her nerdy tastes. Compatibility is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:37 PM
1

Buddy, champ, sport, gov'na...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:35 PM
3

Yes. My best friend had very low self esteem and the guy was a cunning manipulator who tricked her into thinking he was a changed man because of Jesus. Huger mistake could not have been made. She divorced him and is now married to a normal guy. I want to make it clear that she honestly believed he was a changed man or she would not have been with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:32 PM
3

chief? chief chief chief chief chief get new lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:51 AM
2

Barbarians had an easy time sacking Rome mire than once so you might be right about army deserters
/r/ExRedPill02/03/20 10:30 PM
1

The Romans became officially Christian when Emperor Constantine declared it. That was not 1000 years before the downfall, only a couple hundred.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/20 07:44 PM
1

Aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 07:41 PM
1

So if I am reading this right, Male Imperative is to be completely uninvolved with family of any kind? Just pump and dump all life long?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:49 PM
1

The latter is more fun. I like to take what I dish out. Agreed. Hard upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:40 PM
2

I can raise my daughter into a well-adjusted person Will you encourage her to get a career?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:39 PM
1

Oh trust me, everyone complains on the internet. We get it. But in Real world place, people pair up with people they love and short guys get love too. Maybe you live in a predominantly tall demographic, I don't. Lots of Asians here in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:28 PM
-1

I see a lot of short guys with girlfriends. The internet is for bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:42 PM
-4

No it's not, this sub is so bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:06 PM
4

Long ago, Atlas made a comment about how men here want to "smash the female imperative" and that gave me a thought. What would that look like if men here had their way and the male imperative ruled? No more marriage, no more courtship, no more monogamy, what? All women are Gor slaves or all women are shackled to work camps? Children would all be born out of wedlock obviously, but would the fathers even care about their progeny? Would families even exist at all? What is the Male Imperative at its…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:00 PM
1

Within less than 24 hours, she asked me for a $200 loan You need to vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:52 PM
12

I also heard atheists claim that Christians caused the fall of Rome. Just pick anything, Rome was on its way out.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/20 03:49 PM
-2

It's a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:10 AM
1

Do lots of women wear thumb rings? I rarely see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:24 AM
2

ZFG. What is this acronym?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:49 PM
1

Been there. Try putting food in a blender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:33 AM
4

My thoughts exactly. If she read all the woman-bashing threads on PPD she would talk away feeling worse, not better, and then what would be accomplished?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 10:32 PM
8

I would never recommend purple pill debate to a young woman struggling with feeling inferior to men. She first needs to find self confidence and not be torn down by the bitter men on that subreddit who would delight in trashing her.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 07:49 PM
3

When those poor men abandon those women, it's women's fault for choosing badly. RP men in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:20 PM
4

Buckle up bb today we're buying the name brand ice cream and not using coupons Life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:14 PM
2

She gets to live in his 800K house Bay Area, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:02 PM
1

I think most people would agree with you but Reddit is full of young progressives who wish to sound hip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:59 PM
3

Nope. You shoulda seen the cowardice of the beta who hit me. He was never mistaken for an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 01:18 AM
1

Embrace your inner Keith Richards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:56 PM
2

Oh so you spoke with my grandmas and my friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:52 PM
3

Bossy women cannot get along with alpha men. They need betas or they will be in combat all damn week. So yes, it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:39 PM
1

Can any of us really know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:27 PM
1

Women have types that they find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:42 PM
6

Exactly. Both my grandmothers and my best friends did just that and picked passive husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:39 PM
2

Why do so many terps think that women seek out unattractive men to have relationships with Because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, the ex boyfriend sees the new guy who replaced him and "what a beta, she cannot possibly want his body" results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:12 PM
11

Most young women have low self esteem about their looks and believe themselves sad cases of deformity compared to the models in the magazines. So they wear whatever it takes to feel prettier while crying inside. They do not compare themselves with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:07 PM
6

Gravel Roads has been on both teams.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 06:00 PM
18

I think AFBB is men looking at women date other guys and making up some post hoc rationalization for why she did it. They do not know the insides of the relationships and they can only guess based on the appearance of the boyfriends as to who is AF or BB. When I was young I dated betas who treated me badly and then I wised up and now I have my alpha who is my world. But if you, the outside observer, saw these men you would never guess which ones treated me badly based on appearance and which one…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:02 PM
1

Sweet nature, who knows. Women can be lowest of the low too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:55 PM
1

I guess? I am not high N so I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:44 AM
2

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:23 AM
40

When you are in love with someone he is not average to you. He is gorgeous and dreamy and high tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:57 PM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:59 PM
1

No, I said you need to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:45 PM
0

He thinks women have it easy because they can get some man to pay for sex. So to show how it would feel to go that route, I suggest he try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:45 PM
2

Go outside and meet real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:23 PM
2

You sound like a man who needs o walk outside his self-imposed prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:10 PM
1

it would be trivial to get what I'm after in a relationship. You can still be a gay prostitute and achieve the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:37 PM
13

Yuppers, prisons are full of principled self-sacrifical men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 06:34 PM
0

Example: Roosh V. Is he hot or not? Women are divided on this. (ignore personality and pretend he has a non-evil twin)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:48 PM
0

Depends on what each girl likes. Some like Edward Norton.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:28 PM
1

explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:28 PM
1

LOL sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:27 PM
1

Never argue on YoutUbe, do it here where it is anonymous.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/20 06:27 PM
1

You want a quality woman, you cannot pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:56 AM
-2

Ugly with a square jaw is still ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:57 AM
2

Again, height is not important to a lot of us. I actually get tired of looking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:32 AM
1

Now you get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:27 AM
2

Who cares about short term mate selection? Women want boyfriends and husbands in the long term. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:24 AM
4

Because some women are chubby chasers and some like thin heroin fiends and some women like black dudes and some like redheads. We are talking about vastly different appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:23 AM
8

I will challenge your view. At one time Brad Pitt was voted sexiest man alive and we women were all supposed to be attracted to him. I was not. My friends were not. Now Jason Momoa is considered the Hot Thing and he is not my type either. Women are individuals and we like different features but by your logic we should all be slavering after Brad Pitt or Jason Momoa. Insulting, to say the least. I reject much taller men to end up with my SO and I would do it again. Tall is not important to me. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:18 AM
2

No this applies to both genders as abusers will target both. No need for silly conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:34 AM
3

You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:53 PM
7

Women are people with different temperaments. Imagine a real ball-breaking hoyden with a loud mouth. Can you see her pairing up with a military general or some other alpha male? Of course not. She would claim that man was too controlling and "he's a dick" and she would pick a more submissive male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:50 PM
5

They are telling their girlfriends: "Why do you let him boss you around like that? You need to stand up for yourself." and then they pick a boyfriend who will not boss them around. The bossy woman who will not tolerate opposition from anyone will never pick an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:47 PM
2

You did the right thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:30 PM
3

This is something the red pill denies but a lot of men are not naturally leaders and they like someone else to take the helm. It does not mean they are pussies, many men in military get a lot of satisfaction from being given orders every day. Humans are not all made to lead. But if you have known any aunts or sisters or female friends who are loud and pushy and cannot let anyone else win an argument, you have known women who cannot stand alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:14 PM
4

Bossy bitches cannot get along with anyone who stands up to them. ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:12 PM
1

My mother was a SAHM for decades before joining the workforce and then she was much happier and better as a person. Working with other people taught her many valuable lessons about what "normal" is and how our now family was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:49 PM
5

as a submissive woman I get along better with dominant partners, but I have a lot of domineering women friends and relatives who absolutely will NEVER get along with an alpha male. They marry betas and they boss them around but they do truly love them. It's about your natural temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:47 PM
1

How is a divorce good news? The whole reason I never married was so I could never divorce. Big sin, big sorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:45 PM
1

If a man is truly abusive, then don't date him. Abusers do not show their true colors for months, sometimes letting their flag fly only after the wedding. Many women are truly naive. Many men are too. Abusers pick naive submissive types for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:12 PM
1

being abused by his wife RIGHT NOW. I have been trying to get him away from her for almost five years. I have seen that exact dynamic and you just cannot make them leave. It's like Stockholm syndrome and you have to watch the city burn. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:06 PM
13

Yeah, outside of the pillosphere no one thinks about Beta Buxx or Alpha traits. Women look for men who meet a certain threshold and then see how well they get along. Everyone has a different type and there is no women telling her friends she met an "alpha" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 07:01 PM
1

Women obviously benefit. It seems like a lot of women complain that being married makes their lives harder. They end up taking care of the husband and it doubles their chore load- of course I am not speaking from experience here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:56 PM
1

Exceptions are actually quite common Exactly my problem with it- how many exception do we need before the ideology starts to look like astrology?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:19 PM
1

I can't think of a downside to not being married. I can think of several downsides, and I have never been married myself. Shared expenses sounds great. Waking up next to him everyday sounds fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:18 PM
1

I was talking about pagan Rome, not England in the 1600s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:22 PM
1

I am not downloading that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:19 PM
1

Women select men they are less aroused by for LTRs, Why would a Christian virgin gal who exclusively wants marriage pick the only sexual partner she will bang based on unsexy traits? She will clearly need someone attractive if that is the only lay she will even have. You are thinking like a secular man who has casual sex. Many women are conservative and don't AF or BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:22 AM
1

And in terms of physical traits that women pick, some of us like VASTLY different things and so when I see the rundown of husbands and boyfriends that my friends have chosen I wonder why. Women are not all going for the same "top" men, they are going after the ones that gel with their preferences. I do not like tall men. I do not like blondes. I do not like pug noses or rounded features. What I like makes my friends shake their heads because he is "dark and swarthy" or they find his height unimp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:13 AM
1

It seems to be anathema to Red Pill that women have different types and pick men that they find hot but other women find repulsive. I see this with my friends and cousins and all around me in the world. Women are genuinely attracted to different physical features and personality traits that other people pass over, so they are not all going for the same men. Some examples: passive men who are not good at standing up for themselves are snatched up by domineering bossy gals and all her friends wond…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 03:06 AM
2

you might have had an amazing and happy life and lived to 90. I am alive thanks to modern medicine so no. Not in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:46 AM
2

I am thankful for the era in which I was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:18 AM
3

In ancient civilizations the husband had the authority to murder his wife and kids. It was totes legal. Fun times, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:16 AM
4

Modern women have been brainwashed into having an irrational phobia of being controlled and manipulated by men. No, we have a fear of being controlled and manipulated by the WRONG men. Ones who will be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:13 AM
4

and whatever fantasy Americans have of KSA is bullshit. Do tell. I had a friend who lived in the UAE and Kuwait and such and he had VERY interesting stories of the hypocrisy in Muslim countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:12 AM
1

if that is meaningless, why do so many women pick men that no one else could find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:04 AM
9

. Stalking itself isn't physical harm. Creepy, yes, but ultimately not harmful. eh, it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:57 PM
1

Yesterday I paid for lunch and then he paid for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:53 PM
1

Not a lot of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:09 PM
8

No that is not what happens at a Christian college
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:39 AM
7

But you are missing the point. Those women find their men attractive. Women are not pairing up with guys who repulse them. The 80-20 rule only works for photos on dating apps, not real life couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:48 PM
68

When I was hanging out in a group of conservative christian women and they all giggled and talked about what they wanted in their future (near future it is assumed) husband, they listed things like faith and virtue and reads the Bible, all good and noble things. I admitted that I cared most about looks and smarts. They were appalled at me being so superficial and wrong in my priorities. OK, so noted: when around conservatives don't be honest with what you like. So women learn to spit platitudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:11 PM
1

So most women end up settling for a acceptable beta they're only marginally attracted to. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:04 PM
1

Please stop. No one here is buying your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:44 PM
3

Only if he admitted to being a pedophile. Or something just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:26 PM
1

If you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas. It's an old saying that means if you hang out with losers you get consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:24 PM
3

Yes, and then accuse the women on PPD of being outliers. Or just liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:36 PM
5

I actually get a laugh out of those posts. "My husband blows his nose on his shirt and walks around with snot on his clothes" was a post on Reddit. It was so funny before it was taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:34 PM
2

Yup, I look at who my female friends find attractive and I think "Yuck." We all have different types. I'd like dark ethnic types, they like blondes with pug noses. There is a type for each woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:32 PM
1

You get up with fleas.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:29 PM
5

I am denying hypergamy because I have seen way too many relationships where the woman is dating down or even marrying down. And the kicker is that she is really in love with him. Explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:25 PM
2

They often say that women lack intellectual depth and hobbies if that is so nobody will measure up anyway. I can tell you for a fact they are not talking about Nerd Girls who are more than smart enough to keep up with intellectual pursuits. They are talking about hot babes with Instagram accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:23 PM
2

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:21 PM
2

Agreed, I was raised in conservative Christian churches and sex was scary. Most of us stayed chaste for a VERY long time and the guys here on PPD make it sound like all of us rode some sort of carousel. No one called her boyfriend "daddy" I can promise you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:16 PM
2

This one speaks the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:27 AM
2

I am in a happy relationship with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:25 AM
0

the whole "type" thing which never gets really discussed like it should be Agreed, we need to make a post about this. Types are a HUGE part of attraction that red pill denies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:29 AM
3

That is a lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:23 AM
2

I would never want a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:52 AM
6

I never care what other people think of my friends or my boyfriends. I am in love and that is the only opinion that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:48 AM
9

The more older brothers a man has, the more likely he will be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:50 PM
-1

Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:49 PM
1

Real life me can deal with real things, I am real on and off the internet. No escapism here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:49 PM
14

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:44 PM
2

Becky is being cheated on, but go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:44 PM
2

That's a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:43 PM
1

Men get told that looks don't matter that much for women Who told you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:43 PM
0

Just pick someone you like and stop worrying about fake things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:41 PM
2

LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:40 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:40 PM
2

As a former CNA myself, we made shit money. What are you even on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:39 PM
8

, does it matter that he settled for a girl? Oh trust me, the daughter can tell she is a disappointment to him when her younger brother comes along and is the Golden Child that was promised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:37 PM
5

And he is showing his true colors by using shaming language. When is a guy ever "used up leftovers" of other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:35 PM
5

you're destined to get the used up leftovers of better looking guys. And if you reverse this, she gets the "used up leftovers" of Stacy. Everyone has history, you just pick someone you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:34 PM
2

he treats me as an equal, even though we hold to a more traditional marriage format. Could you go into more detail about what this means?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:29 PM
2

I have to agree. Outside of red pill and purple pill, no one talks about "high value" men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:22 PM
2

Finally a real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:20 PM
6

However, all women are different. Even my best friend wirth whom I share so much personality wise and in life priorities, has a TOTALLY different taste in men than I do. Hard fact. My friends have men whom I would NEVER find attractive, and vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/20 04:53 PM
1

if it is not exclusive then what good is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:49 PM
2

oh...ok. Who here fits that description?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:46 PM
1

Not physically, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:46 PM
1

Who downvoted this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:39 AM
3

No way. I need to be in love with someone to be that vulnerable and intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:38 AM
1

Oh I thought you wanted a source for "getting married at 18 is a bad idea" instead. I have no idea what young women are doing in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:13 AM
2

Real life consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:09 AM
1

But why? adultery. alcoholism. big issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:40 PM
2

I never said I did not need a man. I have a longterm boyfriend and we are very serious, but not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:27 PM
2

So then she went home and cried into a bowl of ice cream, right? Isn't that the end of these fake stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:57 PM
1

So ladies, we can’t win; why play the game? Clearly they want us all to be Vestal Virgins who remain chaste until age 30 and therefore pure. Then after that they spit on us for being over thirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:54 PM
0

Exactly. I never got married and that is how I planned it, so what? My upbringing was super conservative Christian and I was frankly scared of marriage as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:51 PM
3

It makes it harder for a man to abandon his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:32 PM
0

No security.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:31 PM
4

Childish and irresponsible would be to lock down a husband at 18 just so you never have to date anyone else. Waiting for the right partner is responsible even if it takes longer- and most women are not having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:51 PM
4

Agreed. I know a tiny few gals who slept around in their 20s and the rest were all married or in LTRs. Who cares? Everyone is a flawed dog and everyone masses up. RP is just mad they missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:49 PM
1

Aren't you a smooth talker!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:40 PM
13

A better mindset would be No Outcome Dependence and enjoy the ride. Who cares if the girl is into you? Have fun while you are young. Flirt and hold no grudges, party and hold no ill will. Live.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/20 07:08 PM
3

it's mainly middle aged married women who have mostly lost their sex drive and are married to men who they don't find physically attractive. Please tell me who you mean here, since this fits nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:06 PM
1

But what would that look like for society? Everyone living together and raising children out of wedlock?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:43 PM
2

At times you are the best commenter here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:28 PM
2

So basically, she compromised on attraction in order to secure a relationship. What a horrid outcome. I would rather bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:28 PM
2

LOL I know a couple of men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:26 PM
5

Marriage is a raw deal, for everyone, So you are admitting that it's a raw deal for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 06:24 PM
3

For merely wanting which partners? Instagram models or their own looks match?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:07 AM
3

I am picturing gnomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:06 AM
2

Barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:51 PM
3

We got flooded with weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:13 AM
2

You feel like all men on Reddit tell you to feel, like a grasping harpy who is never satisfied until she has eaten the hearts of all her lovers. Obvs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:36 PM
3

Womens imperative is serial monogamy via Hypergamy ,which is actively rewarded with gifts and money by society Still waiting for the gifts and money the government must owe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:35 PM
10

sit through a sales pitch every time someone out leafleting approaches you. Perfect parallel, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:30 PM
3

Women don't want some dangerous simp lusting after them, especially one that lives near them. We certainly agree on that. If my stalker lived nearby I would move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:29 PM
9

This is how polite society works: You "Hey! Good morning! How's it going?" Her "oh, hey." You "So whatcha doin' today?" Her "I have to go, sorry." You "So rude."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:59 PM
7

women do this entirely to protect themselves Yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:52 PM
1

Some of us are religious, and want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:22 AM
2

OK, that is pretty funny. Who did this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:32 PM
3

What actually happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:52 PM
1

Could you give me an example of this shit test?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:01 PM
1

right here, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:34 AM
3

I know how you feel and I had a friend like this. The conversations got more and more toxic as he listed all the horrible qualities of women and when I tried to argue I was nothing like that he gave me the same crap you are getting. When I got upset at the insults he played victim. He even drew a comic page about me and posted it online, showing what a AWALT I was supposed to be. We are no longer friends.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 10:00 PM
2

Once again, cologne or See's Candies. I am not selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:40 PM
8

a chain of horrendous experiences in 2018 that I can never admit publicly. Now you got us all curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:42 PM
1

Cologne probably. Or See's candies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:58 PM
1

This is true for both genders- break up for whatever reason you deam fit, it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:22 PM
2

Maybe your dad is just really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:20 PM
4

There is a huge disparity, the dude makes WAY more. What can I say, I am a starving artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:29 PM
1

"Stay on target. Stay on target."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:21 PM
1

War and railroads are off topic. We are discussing what each partner brings to the RELATIONSHIP not to human civilization. If a race of crafty dwarves built amazing technological feats and bridges and fortresses but made lousy dance partners, would you say that does not matter in the big dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:23 PM
1

the simple fact that it's men who are expected to approach, and not women, means that men pay more. So if a woman asks you for something is she paying for it? This is not logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:03 AM
1

OK, but it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:02 AM
2

moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:39 AM
2

You are all over the place. We are talking about "men paying to be with a woman in one way or another" and you are turning it into a crusade. I pointed out the women in history brought a LOT to the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:27 AM
5

we all know that it was men who were making the necessary sacrifices to keep women alive, fed, and sheltered. Dude. How far back are we going? Ancient world? Middle Ages? Women did PLENTY of work throughout history, and it was back-breaking farm work. Heavy lifting all day long. Also they cooked and cleaned the humble hut. And in many cases helped build said hut. I remember a documentary in Africa showing tribal women smearing cow manure on the roof on their dwelling and everything that entails.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:17 AM
5

I really don’t know how you imagine a relationship where literal 0 investment needs to be made? I can picture this right now and it aint pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:10 AM
2

Eh, maybe things are changing and women are earning more? Plenty of married women complain about working full time and being stressed out having to take care of hubby too. The old way of seeing things (SAHW or housewife) is vanishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:07 AM
2

She swoops in to save him? I have seen that, I have even DONE that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:51 AM
1

Because no woman is coming to save you. No woman is going to change your mind. It varies. Some gals like kicked puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:48 AM
3

Like op said, the 1% might be the super genetically gifted, and those guys may be able to get away not paying bills and not having a job If you saw the men I am discussing here you would never think they were genetically gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:46 AM
3

This sub likes to make it seem one-sided: women are all cash-hungry harpies, men are all sniffling betas with no idea what is happening. My best friend was taken for a chump by her ex-husband and he manipulated everything out of her. She hated men for a long time after being burned so bad, and I am glad she got over that and married a great guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:36 AM
5

Lots of women have low self esteem, but also many of us were raised to pay our bills and be responsible so we forget to turn that off when in a relationship. My best friend was married to a man who was a drain on her income and he constantly had to be bailed out. Even after they divorced she still sent him money because she felt sorry for him. I was appalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:24 AM
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No, I have seen the gender reverse of this situation just as often: woman married down, pays his bills for him, loses money when he goes to jail, loses money when he trades the car in for magic beans...all of it. Anyone who gets into an LTR takes a financial risk and this is just life so pick wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:17 AM
2

What are you even talking about "not because of lifestyle choices"... every choice you make affects your psyche. A lot of depression and psych issues are inherited, and some (like PTSD) are inflicted on you after a traumatic event. A woman with major anxiety issues or depression might be making safer or less risky choices, and a woman with BPD might be taking risks and driving off cliffs. But what came first, the disorder or the behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:47 PM
2

Maybe you live someplace where this happens but I never see it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:24 PM
1

Surprisingly accurate...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:16 PM
1

What is his current name?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:11 PM
2

marriage is for stupid people, and I just have one IQ point over the line to not jump into stupid things. Dude, I am not even married and you sound like a sour-grape-ist. Stupid people, really? Being so smart makes people eschew marriage? Come on. Just admit that you are a jagged pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:54 PM
1

If I did not have a man of my own why would I need to snare someone else's mate? Plenty of good looking single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:52 PM
2

Nor do we want diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:25 PM
2

Women only waste time with men in hopes of snagging some dough? You don't see the bitterness in such a thought process? Also incorrect- many women love men for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:22 PM
2

My SO is Indian and I can see both sides of this. Do you want to live with your parents? How bout your in-laws? Don't you looooove sharing a bathroom with four people?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:08 PM
2

Uh, I never see this. My gal pals have gross men because I like a different type and I would never want their dorky husbands or boyfriends anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:06 PM
1

I wish they’d all opt out, but it seems a vast majority of women want that money, which is the only reason women waste time with men anyway. Drop the bitterness, it is not helping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:59 PM
1

Yes it was, but many people imagined that meant equal-opportunity orgies with unpicky women who would bang them and that did not happen outside the hippie commune.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:57 PM
2

If you have two women, and one of them gets a boyfriend, her friend will try to steal him. Most people have different tastes and their bestie's boyfriend is NOT hot to them. There is little poaching because he is Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:55 PM
2

Depression and Anxiety are higher for women because of the way our brains are wired, not because of lifestyle choices. And narcissism is much higher in men, FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:52 PM
3

What...? Betas are not rising up, and women are not scared of them rising up. No one in the real world even talks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:51 PM
1

I am a level 44 rogue with awesome gear and my own raptor mount.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:08 AM
-1

No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:59 AM
0

Why not just pick one good one?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:41 AM
4

Women can get urinary tract infections from sex. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:41 AM
1

RPW is about snagging the alpha. Does their strategy even work? The gals who post on RPW sound like they married schlubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:16 AM
5

Pick someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:13 AM
3

UTI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:11 AM
1

Donuts are gross anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:05 AM
3

Oh, I guess I never did those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:14 PM
7

OK, I Thought shit tests were playful teasing. This sounds like threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:00 PM
5

Ah, that helps explain it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:30 PM
16

I am still confused by what people mean by shit tests. My SO and I tease and play and sass each other all the time, which leads to wrestling and nibbling and spanking... But from what I read on here, shit tests are bitchy women nagging their man with no intention of playfulness. And he is supposed to give it back to her with (again) no joie de vive or intent to run over and grab her and throw her over his shoulder?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:16 PM
7

Naw, that's not it. When a woman rescues a puppy she is not doing it out of arrogance in thinking her love saving the puppy dog makes her super powerful or special. She is nurturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:54 PM
23

Everyone expires one day. You die. Until then I am good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 06:54 PM
2

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:05 PM
0

The price is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:51 PM
7

OK, but they could have learned at an early age that many girls are bitchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:17 PM
2

I have definitely uttered the phrase "Suck it up, buttercup" and I have heard other men tell each other to "Nut up" but yeah, women are not telling men to "man up" as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:16 PM
2

Why shouldn’t anyone choose anything desireable in life if they can get it? You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:07 PM
3

Death grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:04 PM
8

A lot of guys did not talk to girls when they were younger and did not understand how mean girls can be to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:50 PM
14

Tommy Wiseau writing about his ex girlfriend in cartoonish ways is not evidence of anything but Tomy Wiseau. And believe you me, I loved the whole Disaster Artist story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:46 PM
6

I think most people have that experience at least once... something doesn't turn out the way you hoped it would and you're disappointed and mad and grieving the end of certain possibilities. I had to mourn my first career this way. It took awhile to get over it and not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:33 PM
2

And how would you even know if your memories are false? My best friend used to do this all the time with people who had "wronged" her and her version of events and how mean people were was not what I remembered as I was there too. It seems like her anger colored her recollections.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:30 PM
2

They can never be just bald people. Sadly, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:06 PM
52

You are citing The Room as evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:05 PM
6

None of what you wrote is true about me. I was a quiet nerdy virgin and there was no debauchery. I dated other nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:30 PM
2

That is a very astute observation. I do wish my dad had talked to me more and it would have made a HUGE difference in the men I picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:29 PM
2

Will never get into a long term relationship,but I'm definitely having children. How will this work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 04:53 AM
4

I was not ready to settle down until later in life because I valued my freedom and loved living in my own apartment and did not want a husband who would boss me around. It was the correct decision and I have no regrets about staying single for so long. There was no cock carousel and there was no debauchery. I just loved being alone. When I got older I felt a longing in my heart for love, and I found that love. If only I had met him sooner, I would have been more than happy to marry in my twentie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:59 AM
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It happens a lot. Young women are insecure and naive and don't understand what they are worth so they date unremarkable guys and then leave them. Later she figures out that this is stupid and raises her standards, gets a makeover, lands a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:51 AM
2

Oh HELL no. They were the least noticeable men you can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:43 AM
11

I wish to God I had met my SO when I was younger. Could have skipped all my mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:30 AM
3

Worked for me. The quality of men I met later in life is WAY better than the slackers I knew in my twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:28 AM
3

Who do you know personally who did this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:23 AM
3

I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:26 AM
0

why do you think the women here are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 04:18 AM
5

Yeah I am trying to picture this book club and I just can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:01 PM
2

are you female?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:52 PM
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"You better hurry up and get married, the clock is ticking" No I do not have to hurry up and I don't care about any clock. Marriage to a bad match would be miserable and no one would win. Having kids because you feel pressured is a lousy idea and no one wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:42 PM
4

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:16 AM
2

I am trying right now to picture anyone I know who fits this description...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:10 AM
1

OK, nvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:59 AM
1

I grew up with an alpha dad and there are only 10 percent like him? Not sure if true. Will need more research.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 12:42 AM
1

He lives in Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:29 PM
1

How do you know she is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:23 PM
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Women, all women, have a choice to make: is life with him better than life without him? Does he add anything to my life or am I happier alone? Then she chooses her path. Birth rates will continue to fall in the western world, but is that such a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:17 PM
3

Uh, do you know any young women who think the Cool Wine Aunt is a life goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:12 PM
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hold out for the mythical alpha they think they deserve who in reality has no interest in settling for a women in her 30’s. According to what? Because you don't know any 30 year old women who got the man of her dreams? Look, I realize most people here are young but 30 is not decrepit or crone. 30 is the time when a woman had her own money and can make good decisions. She can get her magic alpha man, hell, I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:08 PM
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RPW is a strategy to be submissive and let the man lead the relationship. If you are like me and already FAR too submissive, this is a horrible strategy and will lead to the World's Flattest Doormat. If I went on RPW to get advice they would encourage me to be a plate anyway and that is NOT in any gal's best interest. Barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:59 PM
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I (a woman) once went on a first date with a guy who opened up and told me about how he had been molested by a man when he was a kid. I was shocked and could not get past this revelation to enjoy the date, but he acted like it was no big thing. Sometimes timing is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:04 PM
3

but in person had no teeth. Meth?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:57 PM
1

Very smart nerds with no jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:53 PM
1

Yes. How I wish it were not so. I finally had to break out of my circle of art nerds to find my SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:42 PM
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if they are moral, they will limit themselves. Limit themselves from attractive partners? Exactly how would this play out- she refuses to date the guys she likes and is assigned a plain homebody by lottery system? She is forced to reproduce with an omega to make things fair for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:40 PM
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By dating an incel, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:37 PM
6

LOL this is a new twist on the Five Paragraph Essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:33 PM
1

If you ever had a clingy boyfriend or girlfriend, you know how unattractive that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:30 PM
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What I have observed is that (aside from a pretty face) men want women who balance their own personality like yin and yang. If he is naturally submissive and meek, he will seek a ball buster with a loud mouth. You think this is cartoonish but I have seen so many couples like this- and the opposite pairing too. Men who are repulsed by bossy women go for sweet submissive girls next door. It works. There is no "should" because people pair off with their complement and if not they break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:26 AM
3

Are you me? You sound exactly like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:09 AM
10

Gimme a break. Maybe that crappy attitude is why you are alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:49 PM
1

Racist much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:24 PM
5

ethnics. Excuse me? How is an ethnic partner inferior to a white one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:12 PM
3

Lots of women hit 30 and have to settle with a weirdo. Lots? Who do you know who did this? I am talking real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:04 PM
3

Beta bucks can mean something to women So now settling is fantastic to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:02 PM
3

True. Why would anyone choose to settle with someone they don't like? Just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:33 PM
0

You are on fire lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:47 AM
2

It got so bad I had to enlist my boyfriend to make this guy back off
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:18 PM
2

Precisely. I had this happen more than once and making him go away was VERy awkward, since bing nice and polite failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:01 PM
5

staying in on a Friday night to file taxes So hawt. Schedule C, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:53 PM
5

yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:49 PM
1

Everyone talks about "living your best life" but what would it look like to live your worst life? Professional organ donor? Sewer scrubber? Mystery diagnosis?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:36 AM
3

I bring a bucket of debt and a long list of felonies and a warrant out for my arrest and and extra boob. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:33 AM
11

This question has only come up once or twice in my entire life, and I answered honestly. Why would you want someone who loves a fake version of you? Be real, no strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:04 PM
6

When a woman is rejected she blames herself and rage turns inward. When a man is rejected...I dunno? But they lash out at other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:16 PM
2

This is my fourth account here on PPD. And yes, this sell-me-on-women question keeps popping up every other month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:48 PM
1

Then throw them. Throw those pillows out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:19 AM
2

we don't all love throw pillows. Our moms love throw pillows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:17 AM
3

THIS QUESTION AGAIN???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:12 AM
1

He has blocked me on every account I have. Dude cannot handle disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:10 AM
1

He also blocks people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:02 AM
1

Westsidemoonwalker
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:46 AM
3

You are disgusted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:22 PM
7

I just read a post on RPW from some chick bragging about how she cooks dinner and wears dresses. um...yay?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:24 PM
10

hypergamy is a phenomenon that does exist, though? When parents picked the person you were going to marry they tried to pick the best man or woman. That is hypergamy. That is not YOUR choice and it is not biology.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/20 05:20 PM
6

That said, one of the most chill, level headed and happiest male posters here self describes as autistic And he is my favorite poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:52 PM
2

It was a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:18 AM
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Avoid that. Get salmon that is not frozen and grill it with the skin side down for 15 minutes on a hot, hot grill. Maybe use a wire mesh so it won't stick. Lemon is the only seasoning you need after that since grilling gives it flavor.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 04:20 AM
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Grilling salmon is super easy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/20 04:06 AM
3

I tried to be nice during the break up speech but he flipped out. He turned from Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde and when I was leaving work that night he followed me in his SUV and tried to run me off the road several times. Literally he tried to crash my car. I was terrified and got a restraining order the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:04 AM
3

Only one guy I dated was a psychopath but it was a very brief relationship and we met at the office so it was very inconvenient when I got the restraining order and my boss had to keep us separated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:08 PM
0

But everything you said about women (minus the crying) could also be said for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:02 PM
4

Best advice on this thread. Everyone has damage, everyone has issues. You find the Yin to your Yang and it fits perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:59 PM
3

Yup, in the past I tried dating down due to social pressure and it was not only pointless but hurtful to the guy when I left him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:58 PM
1

I wanted to be none of those wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:29 AM
2

raise the red lantern I thought I was the only person who remembered this film. Harems are not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:46 AM
3

I can’t experience the first time with her, hence I miss out on the experience of uniqueness. But you can still fall deeply in love. So can future wife. If you find the amour fou in a new partner, who cares about the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:52 PM
1

Do you have any original thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:16 PM
20

Spot on. Red Pill advice is not good for LTRs because in a ten year relationship that woman will see you on the toilet, see you crying, see you lose your job, see you make an ass of yourself, see all your real and not-sexy parts and nothing is hidden. She will stand by you because she loves you and not because you "purposely started small tiffs" to keep the sexy going.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:12 PM
7

Also, i never said they don't want to fuck their BF's. So you know their words and you guessed that they are minimally attracted to these men because she wants a guy with a good job?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:47 PM
3

They will get divorced. Most women do not follow her script because it's a recipe for misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:45 PM
3

So those eight women all got married knowing they did not want to fuck him? How did you come by this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:37 PM
7

I asked who you KNOW who did this. Not some celebrity you never met.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:36 PM
21

It would be cute if they asked us and accepted our answers instead of making sweeping claims about women and telling us we are lying when we disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:00 PM
3

Why do they ask us questions at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:59 PM
4

I get downvoted for the most benign comments anyway, why hold back? Just give them the hard truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:56 PM
11

what you are basing your ultimate conclusion here on? Inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:53 PM
9

Who do you know who does this? Married a man she did not want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:51 PM
23

They also can't fathom what it is like to be 49, and they impute their 19-year-old sex drive to their future middle-aged selves. Bingo. These are young men with little life experience who think big thoughts about married women and women's experience of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:50 PM
1

I agree that subjective morality is baseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:51 PM
2

God.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:46 PM
2

READING COMPREHENSION= FAIL I cannot understand why you are being obtuse and "but not horrifying at all that women manipulate men all the time." Gimme a break man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:45 PM
2

How did they only manage to have 1-2kids? child mortality was high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:01 AM
1

Most of what I OBSERVE is successful but who knows what goes on in private. Looks like everyone who wanted a divorce got one already and they either got back on the horse or not. But sick toxic relationships? Those mostly ended. Of course I know a lot of church people so that skews the scenery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:55 AM
2

I don't care either way. Tall, short, so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:52 PM
5

Yes, and I know domineering women who married betas whom they love. Brag about the sex even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:34 PM
2

for some reason the miniblinds being askew cracks me up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:28 PM
2

Where did I claim that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:24 PM
1

He made it his identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:23 PM
8

Honestly I do not care. But if men think brothels on every corner will fix society, they are wrong because men in the 21st century do not think like men in the 19th century who were all perfectly fine with paying a whore. Guys nowadays want validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:22 PM
0

I am pro life. What do you expect me to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:20 PM
6

Weirdly, I agree with you that women are more neurotic and this leads them to be unhappy. But I disagree that they get their dopamine fix by cheating en masse. Most unhappy women overeat or drink wine or binge watch Netflix or shop or whatever. Men are more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:20 PM
6

Nevada already does this and there has been no major societal shift as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:16 PM
5

direct violation of the just world fallacy that normies can't stand it. Oh we can stand it just fine. But we prefer that no one pick up a gun and start shooting people to make the world "just" again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:11 PM
5

Things will sort themselves out with that. Women would boycott men en masse. Lyssistrata.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:08 PM
4

So...Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:08 PM
12

Or...men can stop impregnating women and making them into single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:07 PM
13

Its funny, I was doing my taxes and TurboTax asked me my gender and the next thing I knew the program shut down and my computer screen announced that I did not owe money to the IRS and got a fat refund. Weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:06 PM
2

But it happens all the time here, cxj. Angry people who got hurt want to hurt other people to get even. Except they are hurting someone who never did anything wrong and just liked them, rather than the villain who caused them pain. It's a cycle of cruelty that needs to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:56 PM
2

It was sarcasm. I find it horrifying that a man would endorse using and manipulating people as if they were things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:46 PM
4

But how often is that the same woman? I am asking because I have seen different things from my friends. There are low-N prudes who are mostly Christians and there are high-N low-inhibition libertines who are not. The first group makes men wait and the second group doe not. No overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:12 PM
3

The smarter women make every man wait so they learn their SMV while not increasing their N or risking becoming an alpha widow. Then why do we have so many men here angry about being made to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:57 PM
4

Are these gals on the spectrum? It happened to an old high school friend when she went to college. She honestly had no idea that these men were goin to use her and she was hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:56 PM
11

Exactly, otherwise it's just casual sex and no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:55 PM
1

I literally tried hugging him. He was not into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:37 PM
6

She frequently and regularly discusses strategy with her family and friends on how to get the man to behave in a certain way. WHO DOES THIS?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:35 PM
1

Eh, in his case it really was the sex. He had a huge chip on his shoulder about women being more desirable and he was not looking for a hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:31 PM
1

It has to be said that I tried to help him and he lashed out at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:29 PM
1

He had a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:57 PM
3

I have. Used to be friends with an angry incel in RL and he said pretty much the same things that you read on Reddit. He made an analogy of a woman holding a huge footlong sandwich and a starving man begging her for a bit of the sandwich and that is how women treat sex and the correct response would be for her to share her sandwich. So in other words- share the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:43 PM
3

How am I mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:32 PM
6

What Christian dogma was preventing you from correcting your relationship?
/r/askMRP25/01/20 05:45 AM
2

Her husband was an alcoholic and she could not take it anymore. She did not cheat or get a backup before divorcing him. She is dating now and men find her hot. Why is this amusing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:39 AM
2

As if that happened at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:38 AM
3

Lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:46 AM
1

Single as in unmarried or single as in alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:57 AM
1

What is that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:45 AM
1

Like I said, the subreddit is mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:42 PM
4

Narcissism intensifies....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:41 PM
6

https://www.reddit.com/r/Men_of_the_Wall/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:35 PM
1

Isn't this the plot of a Netflix show? I would dump him and make sure I was safely far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:30 PM
1

There is a male wall subreddit but I checked and it was too mean-spirited for me. They still have a point: some men age badly and before they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:11 PM
2

I feel called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:08 PM
2

I'm a failure to my nation, because I'm 23 and I'm not planning to have children. Oops, I am a failure to my nation as well. Gonna have to live with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:06 PM
2

This is a very solid point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:07 PM
1

What kind of art?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:04 PM
3

Obviously you are cheating on him with Chad. Haven't you heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:03 PM
1

Eh, not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:54 PM
2

It's still weird how some guys here think women do this for effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:55 AM
0

how?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:20 AM
1

But the generous big hearted women are too humble to brag about it online. Ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:08 PM
1

Exactly- current dying relationship that is so bad it gets posted online for help. Not normative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:43 PM
28

You might not be compatible with her but women in general do not stop loving their men because of commitment. Rather the opposite - if you string her along she will get mad and leave.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/20 07:02 PM
2

So rude, he can move to the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:59 PM
1

Oh that was you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:25 PM
0

Everyone bashes their exes and describes them as losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:05 PM
1

I do the same thing every six months, but for different reasons. (don't wanna get doxxed) Yet under every account name I am honest as the day is long, no themes. No desire to be known here, I just like seeing people I recognize and how they are doing in life. The regulars on PPD remind me of my old Livejournal days.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:00 PM
5

This is me everyday on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:47 PM
3

I think OP is rather young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:33 PM
10

women choose awful men as partners But did they really? Did they know he was "awful" when they chose him? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:33 PM
21

That for women it is better to be alone than with someone we don't like. If there are no men we really like, we are fine being single. So why settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:59 PM
3

They went with the brooding creative type with zero dollars in his pocket Yup, that was my twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:55 PM
1

My masculine writing style throw off the scent?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:34 PM
1

How is it bragging?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:34 PM
0

C'mon, don't leave me hanging...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:13 PM
3

Prince was short, maybe 5 foot two? Still slayed. He had been teased when in high school and it never held him back. Yeah I know I have used this example before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:12 PM
2

When are we gonna have another PPD survey? I want to know if the number of men has jumped up in the last year, as opposed to us gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:09 PM
2

Oddly enough, this is exactly what I was picturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:07 PM
1

As a childfree woman this is fantasy land. But to play along, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:05 PM
1

Again, where are the religious women at? You have to get married if you plan on living together and having sex and babies, or you are in sin. Weddings shmeddings, you can elope and God does not mind. It's all about God.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:04 PM
1

Ha, yeah right. A bullying coward has only a few tactics and I win. A true alpha commands respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:49 PM
1

Most relationships are not permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:48 PM
1

I would gladly give him all my stuff if I left. That actually happened when I left my ex, and I never cared about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:47 PM
1

whoosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:09 AM
3

A great deal of women are in relationships. Most of them. NSA sex is for outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:46 PM
1

No, that is a picture of ME. I am the most powerful force in the universe and I eat everything that comes near me. Come on over, once you go black you will never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:46 PM
2

I have no idea what average women do, but they seem busy with other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:44 PM
3

No, why would I care about the exes? They are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:43 PM
3

Normal average Beckies are all down for some strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:42 PM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_hole#/media/File:Black_hole_-_Messier_87_crop_max_res.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:40 PM
2

Agreed, what if the gal is low N count because she is a germaphobe or maybe she hates being touched? She could have NO partner history because she hates people? Is that gal a better wife? The obsession with her past is nothing compared to Does She Drive Off Cliffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:37 PM
1

Oh buddy, oh pal. If you met me you would see that I shine like a star.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:30 PM
2

Is this Beachredwine we are seeing under a million alts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:23 PM
3

Not wanting to murder each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:21 PM
1

You live in a dark sunless Eden.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:37 PM
3

If only I had gold to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:03 PM
1

So hire a prostitute. No one gets hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:00 PM
1

Deceit and manipulation are ok with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:29 PM
1

Just break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:22 PM
1

Ah, I did not know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:19 PM
3

It gets ridiculous on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:39 AM
5

I was not all that dominant either, but when a man who clearly was no alpha tried to put me under his thumb I would react with scorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:34 AM
6

No it is his character. Fearless warrior type.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:31 AM
4

Lying is immoral. Tricking people who have feelings for you is immoral. Using people is immoral. Next question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:46 AM
6

Previous boyfriends would try to boss me around or neg me and I would laugh at their attempts and flagrantly do the opposite of their commands. If he told me to dress up better, I would dress sloppier. If he told me to wear more makeup I went bare faced. If he tried to criticize me I would give it right back. Who were these twerps to tell me what to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:42 AM
16

I am pretty hard on myself without Reddit asking me to self-flagellate. But here it is: my very Alpha boyfriend is the only one who could ever earn my submission and I give it gladly despite having never done this with previous guys. Being the confident Chad totally worked on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:39 AM
3

How do you know that you aren't pushing people to suicide with your words?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:04 AM
5

This. He realized what we all eventually get to- all your loved ones are dying and you will be alone. He described his sister as his best friend, which is rather surprising considering his views on women- or was all that misogyny fake? Regardless, he is viewing the bleak future of a bachelor with no job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:56 AM
3

I think most of his sex stories were fiction. Even the rapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 12:53 AM
3

Hmm, I will have to ponder that one. He said some very inflammatory things I figured were done for website traffic and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:50 PM
2

There was no discernible difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:34 PM
1

Who can really say? RoK was very red pill but then Roosh made this big announcement a couple years ago that he was leaving the Red Pill and inventing "Neo-masculinity."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:31 PM
6

I always got the vibe from Roosh that he was deeply unhappy and not necessarily aware of it. Wouldn’t be a stretch for me to believe he just cracked one day, and that his change is genuine and not purely cynical. Agreed, he was edging into nihilism and the black pill for while there. Then his life became even more of a pit and he had to switch it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:30 PM
6

Roosh, Rollo, and Roissy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:29 PM
5

Been following Roosh for years, hoped he would convert, then he did after his sister died. What else was he going to do with his life? Mope? You will know a tree by its fruit. If he really is a Christian I would expect to see some love and forgiveness and less hate. So far, Roosh still hates jews and gays and a lot of other people so maybe he did not read Jesus too closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:28 PM
2

Some guys here talk like men have more risk from women because reasons. The worst thing they can envision is losing half in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:01 PM
1

All you would have to do is breathe deeply....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:19 AM
5

women have far more risk by choosing a bad mate. Thank you for saying this!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:59 AM
1

But usually not from frozen pipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:56 AM
1

LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 04:52 AM
1

....did you just downvote me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:21 AM
6

No one thinks that describes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:18 AM
4

Maybe if you weren’t so stingy with the pussy LOL my man, this is hilariously wrong and yet on a literary level it's le mot juste.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:18 AM
3

Yeah ok buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:59 AM
2

I like you more and more all the time, Jaquelope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:59 AM
4

Nope we won't and you should like it that way. The same as you will never understand the pain of menstrual cramps or childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:57 AM
1

It would free me up for the apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:56 AM
2

Saving up to move to the Alaskan wilderness We are talking what, minus 52 degrees F in the winter. You could die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:55 AM
13

Is no one on Reddit religious anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 08:28 PM
1

Ugh, I feel your pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:02 PM
2

The museums are great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 06:01 PM
5

Good news is more saudi thots to fuck. This is possibly the dumbest thing I have ever read on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:06 PM
3

what path a woman could take that would not be criticized by men. Amen. You could be Florence Nightengale and the men here would call you names.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 04:56 PM
1

I think should abolish the monarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:17 AM
1

Are you the guy that likes anorexic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 02:05 AM
11

Personally I have noticed the PPD blind spot is sexual libertines who speak for everyone. I grew up conservative Christian and I am not a rare breed in that, and although I do not judge most of the libertines who sleep around it is still an alien world to me. Everyone here has some sky-high N count and it's....weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:58 PM
1

Shouldn't this be a CMV post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 07:35 AM
1

Thank you for mentioning the idiot as it is even better than crime and punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 11:03 PM
8

Does she even know he is married? TRP encourages lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:45 PM
1

OK, that is awesome news! Where is the coven and how does one join?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:26 PM
1

Ultimately though if you feel unsafe around men, don't be around men. Ultimately, if you feel unsafe on planet Earth, live on Mars. What a dumb answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 05:17 PM
1

According to the Kama Sutra, oral sex is not sex and if a couple is doing that and nothing more, are they even a real couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:44 PM
1

I never got all the way through that one, yet I read War and Peace (unabridged) cover to cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:41 PM
1

You are in the Caribbean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:40 PM
5

I know zero trad women outside of church. Plenty of them within churches but a non-religious trad wife? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:33 PM
3

That thread was like an alternate universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:27 AM
6

They ironed everything. Linens like bedsheets, napkins, underwear, everything. And waxed the floors. A lot more work went into housekeeping back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:58 AM
2

It was swanky, not gonna lie. Very upscale and I loved every minute. makes me want more cruises and now I see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:54 AM
2

Mine was Holland America and the passengers looked good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 02:45 AM
1

A lot of this is foreign to me with my trad con upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:46 AM
2

My cruise ship was nothing like that. People were thin and in shape in the Alaskan cruise...all ages all races. Maybe the Mexico cruise draws a different-demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:16 PM
1

This is the opposite of my college.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:05 PM
3

Or maybe she is religious and wants to wait for commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:37 PM
0

Maybe the guys here who complain about women have no female friends and view us gals as 1940s movie vixens who cackle and plot? It seems so cartoonish here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:35 PM
4

I still find it weird that guys here on PPD don't understand how women struggle in life too. As if we have nothing to piss us off or cause resentment, as if we never have to overcome righteous indignation. There are people who did me wrong and I wanted to go Tony Soprano on them, but I had to forgive. My stories would curl their eyebrows but I do not hate "men" or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:27 PM
1

and later expects commitment from average/ugly dude. Who do you know, sister, friend, whatever, does this? Decided she just had to marry that ugly dude? Never happens. Women fall in love and they want to marry the guy because they love him, and when a woman is in love she thinks her man is gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:22 PM
3

They all pretend to be bastions of righteousness, Since when? The women here are breathtakingly honest, to a fault. Frankly I am stunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 07:16 PM
1

None really. I get along with most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:34 PM
1

This is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:29 PM
2

This needs to be top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:24 PM
1

Some of his advice was really sound. He seems like a guy who has lots of buddies and hot cars. I forget why he tried to kill himself. Was it the divorce or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:14 PM
1

I started following him on Youtube back when he got started in the red pill, before that he just talked about cars. I was interested in seeing how a successful man would advise someone who wanted to be an entrepreneur but also he gave relationship advice and I stuck around for the entertainment. That is where things went off the rails. He would make terrible sweeping statements about women and why they cry, and I would stupidly comment on his videos saying correcting him and he ...lost frame eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:04 PM
2

I see the opposite thing where women tend to be complete slaves to consumer reports. I feel called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:48 PM
1

Don't get me started on Rich Cooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:44 PM
1

How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:21 PM
2

Could you please explain what your last paragraph means?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:59 PM
4

How did you reach the conclusion in your last three sentences? People get married and then things got rough does not equate "women settled for men they didn't like" or any such nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:24 PM
4

No pal, that is just photos on a dating app. The is not real life interactions where people meet and fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:22 PM
10

The vast majority of people are average and they are attracted to and marry other average people. Why would you assume nefarious motives because they did not snag a rockstar?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:05 PM
0

Absolutely agree. No man wants to admit that he is the type but they are everywhere and they fill the niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:52 PM
6

Because I live in California and it's super expensive to buy a house unless you live in the desert. And I want a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:49 PM
2

This question seems leading to me, as it's assumed all women are bossy bitches and their men are resigned betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:40 PM
3

they select for beta and thats what they get Yup, I have seen women pick this exact dynamic and I have seen men who prefer this type of woman. It looks fucked up to me because she hen pecks and he takes it, but they seem to prefer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:39 PM
2

So everyone who disagrees is lying? Is that how debate works?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:32 PM
1

You need to stop reading this crap online. Plenty of short men have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:30 PM
2

I was raised with trad con gender roles and a very 1950s dynamic at home, plus my church was super conservative and we gals were informed of our inferiority. It was a given that the husband leads and bosses around the wife, and she submits. Women were also not supposed to take on leaderships positions over men, that was seen as unnatural and against God. We were brought up to see ourselves as complements to men, but "man is the glory of God and woman is the glory of man" so we are just there to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:46 AM
2

To a gay man, yes. The only man she could like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:33 AM
1

then to the top STEM school in the country. Which country is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 11:02 PM
1

I am actually looking forward to menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:24 PM
3

women are often sick because of children in their care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:22 PM
2

And she is probs cheating on him, right? Faking the whole thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:16 AM
1

The guy doesn’t have to be a Chad / Celebrity but a woman needs to see other women checking her man out to truly feel that sense of his options. Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:14 AM
4

If AI gets this good, we will have the plot of Ex Machina come to life and we will be killed by our robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:14 PM
5

Join the military and restart your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:07 PM
11

This is your own child you are discussing, not some obstacle to get over. Re-focus your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:58 PM
1

Do you ever talk sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:26 AM
2

Because the anger is extended to people who don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:23 AM
1

Please show me the human that has never gotten angry at injustice real or perceived. I have gotten very angry at the people who hurt me, but did I extend that fury to an entire gender? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:22 AM
1

where are you headed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:05 AM
1

Aggressive truck guy who drives like a marine getting back to the green zone in fallujah This is seen everywhere on the 10 freeway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:56 PM
2

Discouraging, isn't it? Debate is supposed to be logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:46 PM
1

I am INTP and I argue like a Lincoln Douglas debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:38 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:35 PM
2

I love it when I comment on Q4W posts and someone replies by calling me a liar. (not you personally)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:35 PM
2

Why do people ask women questions if they don't want answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:24 PM
17

Do you have a requirement to feel special and cherished? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:12 PM
2

Are you calling me a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:04 PM
4

On weekends you wear a giant foam costume of a dollar bill and stand outside a bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:10 AM
12

He's a greeter at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:51 AM
1

I have only seen a couple marriages like that. And they were epic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:44 AM
1

You are a wise one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:44 AM
4

Comic book guy on the Simpsons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:38 AM
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I argue using logic and reason. My opponent is usually not my SO, but when he is angry with me I get flustered and scared and it takes longer to collect my thoughts. Then I present a very convincing case and listen to what he has to say. If he is still angry I usually just give in to make peace. Oh, is this not the stereotype you were hoping to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:37 AM
1

Just switch to chai.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:29 PM
20

Tell your best friend to wear a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:15 AM
11

But you say such nice things about your buddies. You really like them. Women disgust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:07 AM
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Prostate cancer is usually not fatal, breast cancer is. Men get prostate cancer when they are older and the cancer is so slow, the men usually die of something else like old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:56 AM
17

Sounds like you would do well with a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:54 AM
2

Is there a story here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:04 AM
1

Men can also get breast cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:59 PM
1

Aw that is a shame but I do know the feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:25 PM
1

Is this about your teaching job?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:52 PM
3

Protestant work ethic, for example, is hard wired into American thinking. Regardless of religious individuals, everyone is raised to believe that hard work is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:54 AM
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Is this OP posting incel content? It feels like incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:06 PM
1

Why did she have a breast reduction?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:29 PM
1

Marriage Story was a complete waste of beautiful Scarlett Johannsen as they made her up to look like a frumpy soccer mom. Disgusting. Did you see her pants? Terrible. But excellent casting of the lawyers Laura Dern and Ray Liotta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:18 PM
1

Uh, none of that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:08 PM
1

If you go around boasting how unique and special you are, people will hate on you. When some chick declares that she is no like the other girls, what is she really saying? That she farts really loud like a guy? No. That she cannot be bothered to wash her face? No. She is bragging about traits TO SUCK UP TO GUYS and make herself look cool. Why would she bother proclaiming anything at all if she were confident in her uniqueness? Picture the perfect girlfriend material, basically every man's fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 10:06 PM
2

Don't pursue boys, let them call you, be a lady, no sex of any kind, no holding hands, super prudish strict Christian upbringing. I was told to find a good Christian boy who went to church a lot. There was no pressure to settle down, but a lot of pressure to be pure and virginal and not date weirdos. I dated a punk guy my senior year and that did not go over well. The advice was all geared to steer me toward a trad con Christian marriage with kids. I avoided that fate and dated weirdos and punks…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:43 PM
1

AWALT is simply too broad a brush. As I have stated over and over, people all like different things and my female friends pick the worst looking guys but they seem genuinely in love and think he is "alpha" when he clearly is not. The fact that beta males get married to women who sincerely believe "Yowza, he's all mine ladies!" is proof that NAWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:28 PM
2

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 02:58 AM
10

Somehow this reminds me of the Manchester rapist luring men into his apartment on the pretext of letting them charge their phones and then drugging and raping them. Did those men consent to sex? What has happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:53 AM
2

OK thank you for clarifying that since it sounded like some sort of incest advocacy when I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:19 PM
3

UH, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:18 PM
1

Same, height never mattered to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:36 PM
0

Great. Good talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:35 PM
4

I think I remember reading an evolution psych explanation for this. Men who are selfish in bed do not make a woman cum, so she leaves him to find someone who does...and the "selfish in bed" men are indicating that they would be selfish in other areas of life and that she cannot rely on him to care about her. So by being good in bed and giving women orgasms, a man is signaling that he will look after her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:29 PM
1

Sometimes even in the worst of our arguments I will look at Mr. Paisley and just think, "Dayum!" and it alleviates some of whatever issue we were having. Exactly. My love for my SO will trump any silly disagreement because he is so damn hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:22 PM
0

You do not know how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:21 PM
11

You are spot on, sexual attraction is hugely important for both men and women and any relationship without it (unless both parties are asexual) is doomed. If a woman is not attracted to her man then sure, she can love him like a brother, but who wants that? Puke. Consumate love always involves passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:20 PM
4

If this story were gender reversed, red pill would make fun of you for getting used and thrown away by people out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:59 PM
1

I agree that it is horrifying but I am willing to bet that most of those women were attracted to him at first. Over time things changed. Most married partners met in their hot sexy youth so AF is also BB, its the same guy. Except not so much beta bucks as beta comfort, as Atlas has put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:02 PM
1

Lots of red flags, signs of sociopathy or antisocial personality disorder. Extreme paranoia, carrying a gun everywhere without a license. Constantly talking about how everyone was out to get him. Other behaviors. I gently tried to end things with "let's just be friends" over lunch one day (we worked together) and he did not take it well. Flipped out and there was a police report about what happened next. It was very startling how he went form Jekyll to Hyde and dropped his pretend self in order …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:59 PM
1

Nice Livejournal post. Brag much? And yes, these tactics work on broken women like your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:20 AM
1

I remember you! You are Beachredwine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:07 AM
2

PM me if you want to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:08 PM
1

I do not know what percentage of men are submissive but its likely on a scale. My SO is very dominant but I have also dated men who were less so. Most guys end up with someone anyway, it's not hopeless. They marry women who are also on the dominance scale and I have seen this up close because a former best friend did this, and both my grandmothers. Some men like this dynamic because it reminds them of mom. I personally do not. Here is the problem with faking dominance: it comes across as him bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:07 PM
2

He was in prison and had no place to live when he was released. She knew him from high school and started dating him right after his five year sentence ended. Before I realized it he had moved into our apartment. NO WAY. I of course moved out because he is a sex offender and gross. She married him shortly after and continued to provide the money that kept them going for ten years. He cheated and broke the law, pure trash. Ended up in jail a few more times. She tried to forgive and be a good wife…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:55 PM
11

I am picturing Jersey Shore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:50 PM
10

No you don't. Normal people avoid this stupid crap like the plague. Thank you, I thought I took a train to Crazy Town.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:46 PM
2

Oh you most certainly can reverse the genders. I have seen this up close and personal, don't you even doubt it- my best friend got taken to the cleaners by her ex. If not for her he would have been homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:45 PM
1

Sign me up!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:40 PM
2

This cases are real, All cases are real. That does not make it the norm for people or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:37 PM
1

if men benefit so much from marriage and it hurts women so much, why are women the ones clamoring for it whereas men eschew it? Because of culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:32 PM
1

he feels that it is unfair that non-dominant males have to get the left overs later in life while dominant males get to sleep with women in their physical prime What is a non-dominant male if not a submissive male? You are describing a normal and often-seen trait. So what if it's feminine? Own it. Likewise there are bossy bitches that many men find attractive and seek out, and those people end up together. It's not uncommon to see these couple: headstrong female and passive male. If it works for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 10:21 PM
2

Oh dude, thank you for that laugh :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:06 PM
2

She's right, this is some reddit crap that has no bearing on RL. Look around you- poor men get hitched. Poor men get laid. Plenty of poor babies being born. Are all those men Beta Bucks now? Furthermore who the hell wants to be in a loveless relationship??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:01 PM
2

That stands to reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:47 PM
1

I have no idea why your comment was downvoted. Here, let me help you...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:46 PM
2

heh heh, you might be onto something there. Another commenter seemed to equate "bad boy" with dominant personality style, which would imply that submissive men are the good guys? What movies are these guys watching where the heroes are passive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:35 PM
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so there’s nothing anyone can do about it. Yes there is. Find a dominant woman who prefers submissive men, they are way more common than you think. I know a bunch right off the top, so this is not some unicorn hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:58 PM
1

They claim that TRP does/doesn't explain what they see in their lives. Neither does Scientology. Nor astrology. Should I just believe what someone tells me? Or use logic and personal reflection?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:02 PM
1

Again, what happened to bench seats? They were like sitting on a couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:56 PM
-1

Hardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:50 PM
5

I briefly dated a guy who turned out to be crazy. Ended things with him as nicely as I could and he flipped on me, tried to run me over with his SUV. I had to get a restraining order and take him to court. Got him to go away, but for years I was looking over my shoulder. He was the worst by a long shot, and I later learned that he had done this to other women like me. Avoid crazy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:04 AM
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Uh, this post describes a small percentage of women who sleep around with bad boys...which most of us don't. Women date and have boyfriends when they are young, so shocking. Some of them have sex. Did you know this? Again, what is your point? Did you think that the men they landed in their youth were alphas and chads? I have seen the guys and trust me, not bad boys. Nothing to envy. Also you are young so maybe life has not shown you that most married couples got together in their youth when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:52 AM
1

But...don’t they enjoy the company of a loving partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:04 AM
1

I just cannot wrap my mind around relationships being a bad thing that men wish to eschew.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:32 PM
9

I would rather be celibate my entire life than have casual sex. This question is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 07:30 PM
1

Brilliant comeback, pumpski.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:58 PM
0

Very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:57 PM
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