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ConversationTwoTinders/r/seduction08/03/21 05:06 PM
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If a girl is literally asking me to kiss her That's the situation in OP, so talking about building up to it when she hasn't asked is pretty much irrelevant.
/r/seduction24/01/25 04:06 PM
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How many of those girls were literally asking you to kiss them? And then you went with the forehead??
/r/seduction23/01/25 03:56 PM
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while asking him to kiss you for the first time When a girl says, "kiss me," she doesn't mean on the forehead. Especially the first time.
/r/seduction23/01/25 03:55 PM
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Folks here might call me blue pill, but build up your friendships with women, so you're comfortable interacting with them as just humans. And you can be a little flirtatious even with your friends, so you're comfortable with that energy. (Be careful not to cross any lines with friends who are in relationships, or you can lose the friend.) Then just get out there and meet new people--there's so much less pressure when you're OK with a girl just being friendly rather than trying to turn everything…
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:31 PM
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He's 17, none of them want him for the money. Why are you plugging a 22yo fitness blogger?
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:27 PM
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u/KingOnixTheThird might be right that most won't care to do anything about you individually, but there's plenty who will pay to manipulate all the people like you. Aggregating the data exponentially increases its value/utility. That's basically the market for Facebook ads, and the more detailed data/predictions they have, the higher they can price it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:55 PM
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You weirdoes know that women don’t view their friendship as a booby prize, right? I think you mean their boobs aren't a friendship prize. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:52 AM
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I'm correcting your phrasing---you shouldn't say you "know for a fact" when you are really just speculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:02 AM
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Would you go to dance with the mother of your children a couple times a month? Or are you just not into that scene at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:25 AM
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Where's the line? If she goes dancing a couple times a month and posts ~*provocative*~ pictures of herself, but doesn't cheat or have past relationships with most of her guy friends, what do you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:11 AM
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I know for a fact Speculation, unless you've given them the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:08 AM
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Classic Madonna-Whore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:40 AM
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ordering a f'n pizza was unnecessary o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:39 AM
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but eventually it will show how, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:34 AM
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Isn't that one of those "technically possible but no verified cases" situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:54 AM
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Kissing generally isn't considered sex, but romantic kissing is considered sexual, I think. So the kid's borderline; depends if you'd call 300 random makeouts "relationships."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:53 AM
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From the abstract... Women, on average, are found to have a systematically and persistently lower net fiscal liability than men, most pronounced at older ages when greater female longevity exercises a strong influence. Nevertheless, considerable heterogeneity of fiscal incidence for both men and women is observed with the distributions of various fiscal incidence measures showing substantial overlap. "Lower net fiscal liability" doesn't sound quite like "receive money from the government" to me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:34 PM
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Do you expect all of women's issues to be fixed within a few generations as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:24 PM
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If "good citizen points" were a thing and could be traded without stigma and brought some benefit... and everyone was a homo economicus, there would theoretically be some amount of points for which she might sell her companionship. Alternatively, if you don't agree with the premise that everyone has their price, "not for all the money in the world."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:07 AM
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Whomever thought that shaming men by challenging their self-concept of masculinity for having too few partners would work out positively for society I'll bet you 1:1 odds it was a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:01 AM
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Women receive money from the government more than men do so on net they are paying less. sauce?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:00 AM
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the gender bent equivalent of oppression is accepted Not universally... there are men's rights activists fighting for men to have a fair shake in family court, and there are women's rights activists fighting for women to get equal pay/etc. The fact is "society" has a lot of different moving parts, and a lot of continuing inequalities for both men and women. Or, if you're generalizing and imagining society as a super-organism, it is most certainly not "all about freedom"---any autonomy you have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:58 AM
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The isolation comes from a lack of friends too, not just romantic relationships. Yeah this is one premise (or more generally, context) that's missing from the forced-monogamy arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:46 AM
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Low key that could be a hilarious re-opener, if you have good follow-through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:19 AM
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I'm a dude and I started the poly conversation w/ my gf, AMA and tell me I'm in deep shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:09 AM
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Any you'd recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:58 AM
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What you can do, what you should do, and what you have to do are all different things. That's why we have different words for each.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 09:23 PM
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My point is that you should ignore some factors even though a naive analysis might suggest they increase risk. eg, don't outlaw blackness to try and bring down violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:15 PM
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Your "counter example" didn't support your original position, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:10 PM
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How about we ignore some of these factors? eye color hair color shoe size sexuality height gender color race And go take a reading comprehension test.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:07 AM
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Thanks for another unproductive comment. Nice snarky "counter"-example without actually adding anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:53 AM
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Quick question: How have "most men here ... seen both sides"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:12 AM
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^That's an anecdotal madlad right there. Great stories, questionable statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:05 AM
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the first result in a quick and simple Google search See, that's a source! At least, close enough for reference/repeatability. Thank you. Another Google search suggests 70% of men consume porn at least once per week. (fatherly.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:02 AM
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I didn't say you had to ignore anything; I said you shouldn't ignore the important part. Yes, outlawing polygamy probably makes monogamy more common, at least on the surface, but I didn't know that's what you were talking about. Maybe because earlier this thread was about polygamy and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:57 AM
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What makes you think they would be ineffective? You mean... why would "ignoring the important part" not be effective? Because that's the important part(?) I'm not sure if you're trying to go back to polyamory and violence or if you're seriously asking me why pushing dirt off the cliff won't stop me from pushing you off after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:35 AM
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I won't pretend that I'm neutral towards the beliefs of WBC, etc, but "just shaming" does sound like a step in the right direction compared to attempting legal control. So far as I can tell, most people aren't campaigning against age-gaps, they just bring it up as relevant in personal circles/when someone asks advice. They're still operating on a much lower level. Let's not forget that there are real cases of young people being groomed because they were young, and gay people being killed because…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 05:28 AM
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lol it was either that or pointing out that all of human experience is basically just a chemical reaction, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:58 AM
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I didn't say you couldn't try both efforts, I said they'd be ineffective if you ignored the important part. "Focusing" doesn't have to be absolute. If you're going to jerk yourself off with semantics, at least try to get your terms right. Risk factors are not necessarily causal. For example, being young cannot be said to cause measles, but young people have a higher rate of measles because they are less likely to have developed immunity during a previous epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:39 AM
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change the age of consent or shut up about it See, that's a false dichotomy. Dovetails well with OP's false parallel. The RNC officially wants to outlaw sexual practices they don't like; some feminists encourage/warn women not to date significantly older men, or shame men who date significantly younger women. Those are two very different levels of policing, and different levels of adoption. Meanwhile you say that if you're not trying to put people in jail you need to sit the fuck down. Because f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:32 AM
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Focus on science! ... cue flashback: If I can get a pretty young lady in her early 20s somehow when I’m 40 I’m gonna go for it. Oh good lord he's going to become a professor and "seduce" his students. Please don't. Break the cycle! Rise above!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:19 AM
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Ah, yes, thank you for that perfectly empirical source. /s In before "but I said nobody knows how many view it regularly": At least 95% have viewed it at least once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:12 AM
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Did I say that? Maturation is a process, not a binary. Even with your shitty example, it's already a fuzzy line: there are lots of kids who get tried as adults for shit before 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 04:10 AM
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Snarky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:05 AM
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generalize Talking about conservatives as a class is inherently generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:02 AM
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Yes, biology is still here. Human brain maturation continues to around 20 to 25 years of age. Sorry, what is the "age of adulthood" now? Renting a car on your own at 25? Drinking at 21? Voting at 18? Vehicular manslaughter at 16? Tractor driving at 14?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:38 AM
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Right… so if it’s a risk factor then it is causal… Standing near the edge of a cliff is a risk factor for falling off a cliff. If I push you off the cliff, it's a little silly to say standing close to the edge caused you to fall off. If you weren't near the edge, you wouldn't have fallen off when I pushed you, but I'm still what caused you to fall. The distinction makes a difference because you're never going to fix the problem trying to fill in canyons instead of stopping the people pushing. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:18 AM
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www.dictionary.com/browse/conservative disposed to preserve existing conditions, institutions, etc., or to restore traditional ones, and to limit change cautiously moderate or purposefully low traditional in style or manner; avoiding novelty or showiness ...7. Mathematics: (of a vector or vector function) having curl equal to zero; irrotational; lamellar. Even mathematics disagrees with you. Go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:40 PM
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So, for you, the highest good you can imagine coming from relationships is the validation that "women want me"? Other people settle down because they find (or hope for) something even better than generalized sexual validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:34 PM
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As you just described, it's a risk factor. Extremist groups might use listless men, but they weren't started by listless men. Doesn't seem like you read past the first two lines of my previous comment, so I'll just point back to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:32 PM
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Nah, "conservative" almost literally means they are worried about the things they haven't tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:09 PM
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Human brains are still developing in your 20's, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:07 PM
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If you never choose, what's the benefit of having choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:05 PM
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no issue on which literally every feminist agrees Let women vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:04 PM
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95% use porn source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 04:02 PM
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stable marriages result in a more peaceful populace I'm skeptical that there are any causal studies here... correlation makes decent sense, though. The Economist article glosses right over two more direct "causes" for unrest in South Sudan... In many traditional societies, a man is not considered an adult until he has found a wife and sired children. To get a wife, he must typically pay a “brideprice” to her father. Emphasis on the brideprice is supported by the Texas A&M/Yale study reference. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 03:59 PM
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don't assume the tweet was specifically about you. you probably shouldn't even be reading her tweets It's fine if you want to read her tweets (sounds like they're public), but most of the time they aren't about you. Even if it's related to what you're doing.
/r/seduction19/07/21 08:08 PM
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but the buy in is still prohibitively high You don't think legalization would bring down the buy-in cost? Granted, dudes are paying $$/mo for OF right now, so it's not like this society makes sense in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:17 PM
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these folks are not in a mental/physical position to fulfill this need Which folks, now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:29 PM
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I didn't say "destigmatization," I said "democratization," as in, more everyday people can do it. Legality doesn't boost demand exclusively. And again, sugar babies are not the same as an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:27 PM
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No, I'm asking where you get your stats, because apparently you are better informed than I am. You said "most," and that implies some >50% statistic which includes people who would otherwise be incels, if not for prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:23 PM
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legalization -> democratization -> price comes down. At which point, if not already, hiring an escort would probably be cheaper than supporting a sugar baby. Besides, hardly anyone has unconditional companionship—they have companionship as long as they are a good enough companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:10 AM
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Where do you get your statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 02:11 AM
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Legal prostitution in the United States would probably lead to literal "girlfriend experience" packages which last anywhere from a night to months on end, for those who are willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:57 PM
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looking at it tangibly as something I need to constructively work on You just did that. That's progress.
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:37 PM
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Naming what you're dealing with can help you understand it, and thereby help you get better. I just don't want you telling yourself this is something that can't be helped.
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:25 PM
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just figure whatever I say it'll be dismissed that's low confidence or anxiety, not introversion
/r/seduction14/07/21 10:02 PM
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get him in trouble Um, how?
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:53 PM
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helping her tired-from-workout muscles to relax Sometimes that is nice, too, though not necessarily seductive.
/r/seduction08/07/21 07:48 PM
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Sharing isn't the worst default, but even when you're being totally honest, you can't share everything (literally not enough time), so you have to choose what you share and how you share it.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:27 PM
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not too hard, not too softly lol "don't do anything wrong" ​ Also you you underestimate my massage skills.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:12 PM
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"Yea it's my first time, I just haven't done it yet for whatever reasons, I'm really insecure about it but I've made the decision to get out there and meet people" Yikes. Advice about having fun and getting to know the girl better is great, but there's very little reason to volunteer something like this. If she asks, then yeah don't feel like you need to apologize, but if OP has been with other people it's unlikely she asks.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:10 PM
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Another part is how far down the hug goes—like, is it just your shoulders that barely touch, or full chest, or full torso... even a hug can feel intimate, so it can still be an early signal.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:44 AM
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That's also above average (but achievable). Good for you.
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:40 AM
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I wonder if a Freeter society wouldn't form social groups around their hobbies, though, and allow men to gain social validation that way, thus mitigating the suicide increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:20 PM
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Nah that is an above average beard, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 04:54 AM
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Tell that to the boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:11 AM
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Exactly. To be fair, it seems like you're agreeing more with u/DevilishRogue's comparison than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:40 AM
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If someone had put it to me this way, I might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:17 AM
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New Relationship Energy. Not that I agree with u/CounterReformist's assessment that serial monogamy is the same as being addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:15 AM
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top 5-1% of men Bruh what's your secret?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:13 AM
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Multiple "dealbreakers" don't invalidate each other's existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:13 AM
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u/0ne0s1x isn't saying money/height/status aren't factors, [s]he's saying there are other factors. The comparison isn't a rich, tall, famous asshole vs poor short nice nobody; it's rich, tall, famous a-hole vs rich, tall, famous, Keanu Reeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:11 AM
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Sex as a Bargaining Chip Is saying you only want sex in a monogamous context using sex as a bargaining chip?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:07 AM
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nerdy cute men, others want sporty types to hike with, others want family oriented etc Why can't we have all of these?? 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:06 AM
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everyone knows it’s fake except, not really. And even for those who intellectually know it's fake but still consume it, it impacts their subconscious baseline. But yeah I think OP was suggesting women want/expect an instagrammable relationship, and that that's not achievable for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:01 AM
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Relevant: I'm a (purposely) single 24 year old woman, and I think "Disney" romances have led me to unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:56 AM
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Trade in general is supposed to be mutually beneficial, for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:37 AM
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I'll take "Good sex" for $1000, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 04:36 AM
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So, just the economics, not the sport itself. Because they are literally playing the same sport with different genders.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/21 07:23 PM
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What is an "economic sport"? Was that just supposed to be a pun?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/21 03:12 AM
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aren’t even playing the same sport. Wait, what?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/21 05:25 AM
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Their latest trick Tricks and fads aside, what do you think is the end goal of the progressive left social constructionists?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:34 AM
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Because it's an approach to dating. An investment strategy is defined by both were you do and were you don't invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:33 AM
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I was going to say something about being careful generalizing, but out of curiosity, what do you think is their end goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:23 AM
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Big part of FDS philosophy is that you don't need to be in a relationship to be successful in life. So, success could look like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lxgyj5/a_reminder_to_drop_the_lvm_and_focus_on_love_and/ Or the entire "if he wanted to, he would" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 05:18 AM
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the burden of proof would be on the FDS members How many successful FDS members would be sufficient proof? And what is the burden of proof on TRP members?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:49 AM
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Just a little ass-play for the rode 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:18 AM
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Worth asking them to confirm before you write them off, FWIW
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 02:57 AM
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I never said it was wrong, just that Plato didn't like it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:43 PM
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probably take a lot more than normal FWIW, tons of lube can be a great thing! (And no shame in using it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:50 PM
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platonic things like kissing and hugging/cuddling Kissing is not platonic, for the record.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:47 PM
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... dissolve a bond to pursue a nut Or, maybe, dissolve a bond to pursue one that wasn't so limited by his Reddit Overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 08:47 PM
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Choose your own adventure: I never said he was perfect. I'm not perfect, either, and this was an off-the-cuff summary. (I do see the irony in that.) A huge portion of modern adults are addicted to caffeine, nicotine, or alcohol. The fact that anyone using [non-addictive] weed or hallucinogens is deemed a "druggie" is cognitive dissonance on a societal level. Anyway, who better than an alcoholic to tell you there's no salvation in a bottle?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 03:42 AM
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Slide in to r/askseddit if you want to work on your dm game.
/r/seduction22/03/21 03:29 AM
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Even if they're doing it to be mean, I'd rather not hold a grudge. Most often it's a waste of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:17 PM
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Its they are forced to eat cockroaches and have surgery without anesthetics, so I don't see foresee an horror stories just because the need in question is sex. In all seriousness, I recommend you try using a translating service, because this English is not understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:09 PM
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If they eventually apologized or stopped, yeah. People already mess up my name all the time, and there's no point carrying that around with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:07 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Western_culture#History
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 08:01 PM
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You can satisfy sexual urges with your hand pretty much without limit. You can only eat your hand once. The premise that sex is a need on the order of food and water is a false one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:58 PM
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About as much forgiveness as I'd give... It's not clear how much that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:26 AM
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I mean, have you seen their equipment? Military grade stuff is expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:14 AM
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He's controversial because he takes a hard-line approach not accepting lazy reasoning, which means pushing back on [largely leftist] media/academia/general trends. His main thing, though, is just to get your shit together; it's all the side stuff that brings in controversy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:04 AM
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No forgiveness, ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:01 AM
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"Cheat on your wife is bad." I think there might be some "get married early" mixed in there, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:56 AM
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Western Civ is Greco-Roman, bruh, not White Christian. Jesus wasn't even a white dude. Open your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:53 AM
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just look at our cousins in the animal kingdom Yes I would just love for bae to bite off my head and use the corpse to feed our children when they're born 🤤 FR though, raw market forces would f*ck most of our civilization harder than you could do in your wildest fantasy. Like, that's getting into f*cking the bullet hole sh*t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 05:03 AM
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It is usually men that need sex more and women that need the other stuff more so... ...so the men should have sex with men and the women should form quilting circles or whatever? There was no premise about sex being 1:1 M/F. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:59 AM
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It shall be a cardboard tube, no more than 4 inches in circumference. If you're too big to fit, use what you got and go get something better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:57 AM
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literally healthcare Not everything that promotes good health is "healthcare." You invite nit-picking when you use the word "literally."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:56 AM
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Here's your reframe: Premise 1: People are entitled to that which is a need. Most societies aim to support the "needs" of their citizens, according to cultural norms. Premise 2: Healthcare Sex is a "need." Conclusion: Therefore, people are entitled to healthcare masturbate. What we do with this information: You can f*ck yourself if you need orgasms for personal fulfillment, but that does not entitle you to the affections of another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:54 AM
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due to the metoo thing companies will start to segregate men and women and make men and women come in at different shifts Proof, or I'm calling BS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:53 AM
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[record scratch] mom's spaghetti
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:42 AM
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I think fcking humans want to go back to fcking...
/r/seduction09/03/21 09:20 PM
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It's extrapolating a little bit, but those would obviously explain the research findings.
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:13 AM
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If you're both on iOS, sometimes you can save the photo to your camera roll and it will show when the picture was taken.
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:47 AM
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Teasing-type photos are still a lot of fun.
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:46 AM
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I’ve taken a total of 4 boot camps with various instructors through the years and have definitely noticed different styles but similar patterns amongst all them. TBH I'm a little surprised "don't buy into PUA camps" wasn't one of your top five lessons.
/r/seduction04/03/21 06:30 AM
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Remember that series of "Get off this sub" motivational posts a month or two ago?
/r/seduction16/02/21 05:15 PM
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Honestly it's surprising Tinder doesn't have this as part of the app. I think Bumble or Hinge has started to, already.
/r/seduction15/02/21 06:23 PM
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Hmmm, I'm guessing lucid dreams don't count? Also, how do you feel about tantra?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:12 PM
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Oye, I caught one! Quick, someone take a picture! jk, I won't claim to know your relationship with women. ​ When does non-penetrative lesbian sex become one N? The first time they have sex. 👍 Your implicit argument is that non-penetrative sex isn't really sex, which is a clear contradiction in terms, so I'll just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:10 PM
2

Certainly not without effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:53 AM
1

Or a dude. Just to be balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:01 AM
4

Six plus two is 8. Don't compromise math on behalf of some chauvinist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:00 AM
1

Purging yourself of lies, I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:05 PM
0

Aren't brown bananas the sweetest?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:55 AM
1

Holy fuck, what if we actually already live in that?? Maybe some subcultures, at the most; not the whole society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:47 AM
2

Tangential but I feel like guys basing their N-count on her coming would do wonders for bragging.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:01 AM
1

That still means 16 by 25, 32 by 30, 50 by 40. TIL I'm not as "loose" as I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:57 AM
1

TL;DR: There is a wealth of literature about what we talk about here which can be employed with little translation. Use it! Do you have a list of reading recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 06:39 PM
1

I've found activities that get me out of my head and into my body (or, in different terminology, into a physical flow state) like meditation, yoga, and sports training to help with the side of just being present.
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:25 PM
2

Middle story kinda unrelated to the rest of the post, but congrats on your breakthroughs!
/r/seduction22/05/20 01:27 PM
27

I asked my mom what made her want to hookup with him Damn, Daniel.
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:23 PM
2

Um... just a side note... please still take all reasonable steps to confirm she's down for that stuff.
/r/seduction12/05/20 10:21 PM
11

Can't score if you don't shoot
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:36 PM
42

a good two feet or so of distance My boy got BROAD shoulders.
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:35 PM
5

*The dream*
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:33 PM
1

The idea that relationships offer nothing to anyone is a new one for me—care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:49 PM
5

There is nothing to gain from having sex and forming relationships, regardless of gender. So, we walk hand in hand to end of our species, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:09 PM
1

Dumb-ness depends on the size of the risk and the size of the "reward," especially if you don't believe in any fundamental morality. "It's not a crime if you don't get caught," so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:39 PM
2

to the fullest extent of the law? You ever speed on the highway? slave morality pussy shit that the rich and powerful foist on the remainder while they get fat and benefit Why is the law any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:13 PM
1

Perhaps "narcissist" was overstating; I'm only an armchair psychologist. I can't tell you that you've failed to acknowledge the value/validity of anyone else's experience. Nor can I tell you what you thought that personal statement would add, but imo it reads like you think the situation isn't worth a second thought because you haven't experienced it yourself. Different from the maybe-intended "I've never used it, so I can tell you for sure that you can not use it and be fine." This chain is jus…
/r/seduction07/01/20 01:20 PM
0

The structure of "It's annoying that you worry about this thing I've never tried" seems pretty self-focused. You could have done away with the first sentence entirely; it doesn't add anything to your advice. Oh, also your comment is literally about being bothered by what is clearly another person's testimonial. Love the projection/gaslighting. Cheers.
/r/seduction06/01/20 09:57 PM
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on a platform that I've personally never even used narcissist, much?
/r/seduction06/01/20 02:37 PM
8

Acting as if you're surprised that the girl you asked out is attractive. "Actually" implies that there was some doubt about it.
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:14 PM
9

"You know, you're actually really cute." This is a neg. You don't need to say "actually."
/r/seduction17/12/19 02:51 PM
1

liberty and equality -- much of the time, these are directly in conflict with each other! (Gay wedding cake etc. etc.) Gay wedding cake etc. isn't a direct conflict of the pure principles, it's the question "Does an infraction against equality justify an impingement of liberty?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:57 PM
1

Exercise (and health more generally)
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:47 PM
1

k thx r/FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:02 PM
30

Normally I wouldn't but you made the same mistake three times, so it looked like you might not know. Not tryna roast you on that
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:27 PM
58

2 recommendations... "pursue" not "peruse" Break it out into paragraphs
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:18 PM
3

May try this if I get fired
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:14 PM
1

Different strokes for different folks
/r/seduction02/12/19 12:03 AM
4

Chastity belt design and lockpicking skills go into a low-key arms race until a biometric-scanning cock-block device takes over the global sex-toy market. Relationships are officially verified in a public blockchain (facilitated by the above) to resolve the manifold trust issues brought about by TRP. As a side effect this leads to several breakthroughs in the tracking, study, and eventual eradication of several sexually transmitted diseases. I run a side-hustle removing/deprogramming chastity be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:29 PM
1

How old is the playlist?
/r/seduction21/10/19 06:32 AM
11

If you’re a man person having casual sex without a condom, you’re a dumbass. End of story. FTFTFY It's cleaner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 07:32 PM
3

Having been a teenager once, and in a serious relationship during that time... yes, I think teenagers can do both of those things. Just raise your damn kids correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:21 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJS7Igvk6ZM
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:18 PM
8

Depends on the book.
/r/seduction14/09/19 03:00 AM
1

"No ring, no problem" Everyone is at different stages in life. How bad of an idea this is will depend on you, the girl, and the BF... and what everyone wants. And, for the trivial solution... check out r/polyamory
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:23 PM
3

lmao
/r/seduction28/08/19 01:09 AM
2

every real woman love to hear romantic things emphasis added. Do you see the parallel now?
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:12 PM
5

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_true_Scotsman
/r/seduction27/08/19 10:58 PM
2

Check out all the r/dataisbeautiful examples of Tinder data. It's generally not a great ROI, and for anyone with an addictive personality, it's a black hole.
/r/seduction26/08/19 02:11 PM
1

Definitely tell him it's your first time and/or you want to take it slow, and don't feel like you need to go all the way this time around! Life is long—better to enjoy it than just get it over with. There's a lot to experience along the way, and especially for the first time you shouldn't skip all that.
/r/seduction03/08/19 04:49 AM
1

Devil's Advocate here, but isn't the live elephant that you only get to see on the safari more like the rented version of one you hunted and get to keep? I see what you were going for with some sense of falsified machismo, but the existence of a simpler interpretation weakens the analogy.
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:01 PM
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Women aren't monolithic in their desires... Yes some women will hate it ("You're as dead to me as the animals in your pictures xoxo"); there will also be some who hunt and post these kinds of pictures themselves (definitely fewer, in my experience). Yes there will be regional variation. Conventional advice is always to post pictures of you doing things you like to do, so anyone acting like it's a "wtf would you share a picture of that?" idea is misreading their own sense of "wtf would you kill a…
/r/seduction30/07/19 01:57 PM
1

You may as well have put in Leonard
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:09 PM
1

Okay. Doesn't really change anything
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:33 AM
2

Not sure why you bothered with the "NoName" thing if you were just going to plug in Leonard and Penny anyway...
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:58 PM
1

Just remember that the best game includes both knowing the rules and knowing when to break them
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:40 PM
1

In the sense that it's not direct. It's because of what it tells her, not the action itself. Because if you change that last part ("and not her"), I think you could get past it. eg, to be reductive and stereotype: tons of men want their girl and other girls; it's only a problem when you want other girls more than you want the one you're with.
/r/seduction20/07/19 04:12 PM
1

Her objection to you sleeping with someone else isn't a rational one. It's purely emotional, coming from everything she projects and imagines why you weren't being "the boyfriend [you] once [were]." Which also means her decision down the line, if she decided to come back to you, and you had slept with someone else, can't be a rational follow-on. If she wants to get back together and so do you, you can both forget about the fact that you hooked up with someone else as long as it's not an ongoing …
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:19 PM
1

You know what else would suck? If she went and got with someone else, or multiple other people, while you were stuck waiting for a week, a month, six months, etc for someone who didn't care enough to really cut you loose. And that's way more likely. But fine. Don't go "too far" when pursuing someone else if you're not ready to accept the risk of a "nail in the coffin." But don't let that hold you back entirely. You can still flirt, go on dates, etc. without crossing that line. And if she's the k…
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:15 PM
1

If you buy into anything about the role of the subconscious in evaluating value and providing justifications, this woman is in no position to say what would have happened otherwise. Nothing personal, missus.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:49 PM
2

If you're "on a break" that means you're broken up. The terminology difference because she thinks she might change her mind doesn't mean sh*t. So don't wait on her. Move on. If you want to wait on yourself, ie do self-improvement, instead of pursue other women, that's fine. But if you have any interest in pursuing anyone else, don't hold off for her sake. And remember that you have just as much right to reevaluate if you really want to be with her.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:46 PM
3

I'm so into it and glad that I ignored whatever part of society says it was demeaning. As others mentioned cleanliness is definitely a prereq.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:34 PM
2

100% agreement on that.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:21 PM
1

Specifically to I don't see anything in your statements that contradicts what I've said. Because I think the claim that nothing has changed does contradict what you said. And then I went off on a tangent because I was sleep deprived.
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:13 PM
1

Tell more interesting stories. [INFO]
/r/seduction18/07/19 10:40 AM
1

Well, except for the obviously wrong claim that nothing has changed about men/women/romance/seduction in the last few hundred years. Holy shit is this how creationists think?
/r/seduction18/07/19 10:30 AM
4

Yeah that doesn't quote sound like an alpha opener. Maybe suggest you skip to procreation?
/r/seduction18/07/19 09:53 AM
5

Consider your situation Invert or exaggerate it Make a joke
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:54 AM
6

I vote "interested."
/r/seduction16/07/19 03:53 AM
3

On the other hand, eye contact, approaching, physical contact, suggestions, etc... in a word, flirting.
/r/seduction15/07/19 01:31 PM
8

I recently read The Charisma Myth, and one of the central premises in there is that it's a lot easier to focus on having the right mindset and presence of mind (ie, know what you want and be in the moment) than to try to force all the subtle ways that plays out in your behaviour. IMO this also makes it much easier to avoid being 'sleazy,' if that's your intention. I definitely agree with most of the responses here already, and you should take some time to work out what it means for you and inter…
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:40 PM
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