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Anyone telling you it’s a deal breaker has no idea what they’re talking about and obviously don’t get out much or have any game themselves. If you have a decent job, a car, and your reasonably good looking, you’re already set because those are honestly more important to most women. When I dated at your age, most often I’d go back to the girl’s place even though I had my own place. I honestly think women just feel more comfortable hooking up with someone they just met at their own place instead o…
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:19 AM
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Because it’s the confidence that gets the girl. The guy that has respect for himself and confidence in who he is. Don’t get this confused with arrogance
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:28 AM
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Holy shit. Yes, that is very racist.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:02 AM
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You flirt and make moves BEFORE you get into bed. Obviously you just have to go on a couple dates and just make the moves. The girl is never going to initiate them for you. STOP WAITING FOR THAT TO HAPPEN!
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:37 AM
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In my experience I thought it was a lot easier to get laid by different women in my 30s then it was in my 20s. I’m now 40 with a gf of 3 years, and I now have a dad bod. But even with this dad bod I bet I could still get laid every 1-2 weeks (at the least) if I was still single.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:58 AM
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This sub is full of people who swear dating apps don’t work. If you’re a 6 or better and live in a high populated area, you can get girls on dating apps. If you aren’t getting them it’s most likely you’re fault and you need to improve your dating app game (photos, profile, game). Don’t give up like a little bitch.
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:16 AM
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I’ve never heard those two things mentioned in the same sentence. It sounds like you’re doing the common cardinal sin of thinking way too much about your vanity, which screams insecurity, and that’s not attractive. Looks will open the door, but personality and confidence gets you the girl. I suggest you make friends with people that are comfortable in their own skin (who get girls) to help you find inspiration.
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:30 AM
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We all need a little support sometimes. But making a post without context asking if your gf has an obligation to make your problem hers most likely means you might be the problem. But if your concern is legit, then break up and move on. Don’t be a little bitch.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:01 PM
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There is some positive messaging in this as far as a good mindset, but I disagree with what you said about dating apps. Dating apps (when done right, put in the work) get you dates. Dates give you practice at how to be the best version of yourself to someone on a date. And this leads to second dates (and successful one night stands, if that’s what you want). One thing about this sub is people will always claim datings apps don’t work, but the answer isn’t black and white. It’s gray.
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:12 PM
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I’d feel sketchy about sending a dick pic to some girl unless I 100% knew she was real and I wasn’t getting catfished for blackmail. The internet can be a shady place.
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:36 PM
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You just gotta jump in. Do 20mins of research to get the how to make a dating profile/photo tips down, then get on the 3 most popular dating apps. Remember to be funny and relaxed. Try to go on at least one date per week. The first 1-2 dates might feel a little nerve racking but get over that, it won’t be that bad. Within 1-2 months you’ll just be enjoying it and it’ll just come natural. You’ll catch yourself just wondering what will be on the menu at whatever new-to-you restaurant and having ze…
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:12 AM
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Learn to relax and be funny.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:47 AM
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SELFIES ARE OKAY! You just don’t want to use ALL selfies. How the hell did all these commenters all agree that selfies (in general) are deal breakers, I swear this sub is really stupid sometimes. Nobody ever said selfies are “a no no.” Just go by these rules: have at least 5 photos. 1. You just don’t want all selfies. Maybe 1/3rd or a little more can be selfies 2. Make sure you have at least one pic showing teeth, so it doesn’t look like your trying to hide them. 3. Have at least one or two phot…
/r/seduction25/03/22 09:23 PM
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lol Well said man. Sorry if I went off there. But honestly, I just can’t see that actually working. The handful of times I had a girl on a dating app ask me to come straight over to her place, it was NEVER presented as “come over to fuck me.” It was presented as basically “come over and have a drink and let’s chat.” Because imo, most women are scared to tell some random dude that they’ll fuck them if they come over. That’s just stupid, from a women’s stand point because of the whole trying to no…
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:09 AM
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I don’t get why so many of you feel like you have to tell every girl you’re just trying to get laid! Do you guys think that actually works if you’re a normal guy? News flash, you’re probably not a famous rapper, rock star, athlete, or just some irresistible man women just want to sleep with. I dated many different women and had plenty of one night stands. Most of them were just 1-3 dates of going out and having sex. And 4 out of 5 first dates resulted in me getting laid. You have to learn how to…
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:50 AM
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I haven’t been single for a while now, but on the dating apps I remember when this would happen from time to time and I’m proud of myself for how I dealt with it. My approach to talking with my matches went by this approach : 1. Greeting/Compliment 2. Converse in some friendly banter long enough to feel she should be comfortable for the next step to 3. Make plans for a date. In my opinion and experience, I felt step #2 should be a mutual exchange and should never take too long (15-30 mins in mos…
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:37 PM
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There are 100s of websites that sell them. But if you seriously want to know where I got mine, I’ll DM you because if I share it publicly people may think I’m some marketer or some bs. Update: i sent you a dm. It says blocked my message? Hit me up if you want.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:08 AM
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You want an actual immediate solution: find generic viagra on the web. You can probably get like 120 pills for like $60 and you could probably get away with a half a pill if you break each one in two. Don’t use it for masturbation, only use it for any night you go out. Takes about 45mins to kick in, so some night you might just have to take it for the just-in-case. Nobody needs to know about it and when you’re giving the girl the rock hard performance who gives a fuck about anyone’s judgement if…
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:03 AM
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In other words: text to basically say “hey person, this is myname. I had fun meeting you last Saturday. (Insert third sentence relevant to last Saturday, such as a joke or something).” Wait for her to respond. If/when she responds: Play it cool, don’t try to get into a long text exchange, just be fun/funny/relaxed and get right to asking her if she’d like to go out for dinner/drinks with you at (location). 1. Make the plan. 2. Tell her you will look forward to it. 3. Shut up Don’t ask what #4 is…
/r/seduction22/09/21 08:20 AM
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Axe throwing! Join a league! Plenty of females in mine, and they are the ones most up for going out after.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:44 PM
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As someone that’s subscribed to this subreddit for over a year: The only discussions I see are the ones that come up on my HOME feed. And I can never remember a moment where I read a post and got “incel” vibes. I also think it’s very popular behavior to harp on or vastly exaggerate “incel issues” so I honestly don’t really know what to think of this post.
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:36 PM
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I definitely remember what your situation feels like and to be honest it’s freakishly similar to what my life was like in my entire 20s. From what you’ve said I suspect that you have no problem being able to carry on with having nice conversation with a girl, which is good but but you need to be able to confidently covey more attraction/sexual energy/flirting to your interaction to eventually close the deal, all while being 100% and yourself. Girls (overall) will gravitate to the guys that know …
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:35 PM
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But please don’t be that guy that always needs 8-24 hour notice to go out with his friends. I’m not hating on that guy, I’m just saying you’ll go further if you’re not that guy. But also, don’t screw over your other priorities and don’t blow all your cash away going to the bars all the time.
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:11 PM
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I know it’s not easy to get out of a dark place if you feel unloved and alone (I’ve been there), so this quote isn’t for everyone at every stage in life.
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:40 PM
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“You can never properly love someone until you can learn to love yourself.” It sounds like you really need to hear this quote. I wish you luck and I hope you make the changes you need to make.
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:48 AM
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First off, “hundreds” of matches? I don’t care how good looking you might be, no guy has “hundreds” and you don’t need hundreds to be good on apps. Also, it’s not too much work to meet up. 1. Text for 10-20mins, then you 2. Plan the date and time for the date. 3. You show up for the date. The process is daunting at first but once you get success the process of dating and fooling around with a new girl each week, you start to live for it and it becomes addicting.
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:38 AM
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Oh man, this sounds so much like my 20s, late 20s, and even early 30s as far as me making the poor choices in the women I would date. My standards on compatibility were not great, I’d date any girl who was good looking and no obvious red flags. It wasn’t like all of these girls were toxic people, many were just difficult because they were immature, incompatible with me but lonely and clingy and a couple were actually toxic. And being my young self, it took too many of these lessons before I fina…
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:05 PM
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I never understand why everyone thinks they need to text a lot with someone they’re dating or even haven’t yet had a date with because I’ve always seen it as a recipe for disaster. Why would you invest so much time in texting someone who you hardly know or haven’t yet met in person? The way I did it is basically 90-100% of texting should be for setting up the next date. To be honest, when I was dating texting was only for setting up next date. I did this for years, got many dates and I never got…
/r/seduction18/08/20 12:01 AM
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Some good points made here. In my experience with dating apps I can tell you that once a woman knows that you’re a 1. normal dude who 2. isn’t an asshole, it’s a huge relief and that’s all it takes for them to not regret showing up for a date. In real life women can pick up on that quick VS setting up a date on Tinder. I know the same goes for me VS tinder and real life. That’s why when they say “it’s important to never rate your looks on your success rate on dating apps” it’s because it’s fucki…
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:59 AM
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I was using dating apps and dating different girls for 6 years. Had a few girls that I dated for a few months at the most during that long period. Then last year I went on one date I found a girl I wanted a real relationship with and I’m now still with her. End of story.
/r/seduction03/05/20 02:31 AM
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I think it obviously depends on age, situation, girl, ect, but I believe there is some truth to that. As someone in my mid 30s, I prefer this for girls I’ve yet to or have only gone on 1-4 dates with. It’s not like it’s some “code” I live by, it’s just how I prefer to go with it, and I’ve had no complaints for it.
/r/seduction07/11/19 04:20 PM
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