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Story of my life bro, i miss the drama rollecoaster sometimes too.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:11 PM
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Yup, as people said it's normal for LTR's to be 6s or 7s. In my experience, I've dated 8s or 9s in my early/mid 20's, having great sex but with a lot of red flags for dating/long term investment. I can say my LTR is a strong 7, with no red flags at all, and maybe with the same green flags you mentioned. So, in that case, a girl like that fits my long term intentions. I'm in my early 30's, so i'm thinking about family and shit in a future, and I can build that with this girl. Again, it's not bat …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:06 PM
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Going to clubs every weekend at her 30's? next
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:00 PM
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Why virgin? Do you know how boring a virgin girl can be? Better get one with some of experience (Low N-count anyway), so you can share a better intimate moment.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 02:13 AM
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Dear OP, the things you're telling us is not the problem, it's the consequence of a previous problem: You. I'm not here to judge, but it sounds like you don't take care for yourself. With this, im telling you about Soft Dread: You should be already lifting, having a social circle, have some girls around you (even if you just talk to them). All those things combined, will give you a confidence boost, so you won't feel vulnerable when your LTR talks about this dude. With dread, you'll build a mind…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:08 AM
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Sounds like OP doesn't understand how to be in a LTR.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:02 AM
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Demote time!
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:41 PM
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We all had bad relationships, but that's not an excuse for lay back and do nothing. You don't wanna meet girls right now? that's ok Start building a good foundation for you: Lift, career, friends, financials, hobbys, etc. There is always a lot to do, besides chicks. Cheers bro!
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:38 PM
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Half a year is still honeymoon phase. I remember my LTR being like that: so in love kinda clingy at the beggining. It will pass, for sure. And then she can love you in a more honest and realistic way. If she is doing a lot of forward plans, make the boundaries clear, and comunicate your intentions on this case.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:33 PM
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IMO PUA will work but in a surface level. Don't get too attached to it. PUA seems fake to me, like too much invested into getting girls. I think the frame that PUA dudes got is wrong. I'd recomend you a complete course wich is "The natural" by Max from real social dynamics. It has a more honest and "natural" approach about getting girls. Also as people said here "Models" by mark manson (This is the best one IMO), and also "No more mr. nice guy". "The way of the superior man" is worthy to The mys…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 09:36 PM
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If you're happy with your LTR and your family, I see no point about going out and bang random chicks. It will fill nothing else than your ego. Been there, done that. Think about if it's worthy. Make the balance between cost/benefits. Moral apart, IMO it's not worthy. After you fuck a few ones, you'll bored/empty and you'll try to get back with your LTR. As I see, fucking random chicks it's nothing compared to a good family. If your LTR is cool, I'd not risk it. You can enjoy your peak with her, …
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:55 PM
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3some and run
/r/askTRP19/07/20 07:51 PM
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Craving for attention/validation. Anyway, it's not your problem and you don't have to worry or care about it. I'd not suggest taking a ex LTR as a plate, you will have to deal with a lot of drama. Spin some new plates.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:51 PM
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3 times a day it's more than ok. The highest sex drive girl wich i've been with (my actual LTR) It's on the mood for about 3 or 2 times a day. And it's more than ok to me. I'm tired after the 2nd. I mean yeah I can fuck 4 times a day with her but probably no fuck at the next day or maybe just 1. You're doing it cool by leaving for a while. Let her hamster work. Also move back to your place after quarentine.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:49 PM
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First, there's one think you have to know. Whe she say "You mean the world to me", it's because she feels that here and now, just now. She can hate you next day. So please, don't take that compliment literally. They're just like verbal hugs. It's not a fact that you're the world to her. Is just what she feels at some point. That being said, I'd not say things such at this. You have a lot of manly ways to comfort her and agree with her compliments, without sound like a disney character. When I wa…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:46 PM
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No, It's not being beta. It's being a human being, a person with empathy. I guess a lot of people here can't be 100% happy because they're falling into abstract ideals of being alpha/beta. They're chasing artificial concepts, wich they will never can get. There's no only one beta or alpha image. You have to be the best you, the best version you can be and wich you feel confortable with. Buying stuff once in a blue moon is ok, and even better if it comes as a reward for something good she did. Ch…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:49 PM
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Being RP aware is good, but it's necessary to apply RP traits and frames since the beginning of the relationship. You can't make it up again. It's imposible. She knows your weakness, she saw your weak side. And that's something you can't do in a LTR. She is not your friend, she's not by your side. It's hard to dig, but that's how it works. At this point, there's nothing you can do to revert that. It's a non-end road. No girl in the world worth the effort of trying to save a doomed relationship. …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:41 PM
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LTR are not good places for begginers. You didn't read the sidebar, best way to pass shit test are Agree & amplify If you're in a LTR for SURE she will ask you what's wrong with you, If you act like keeping silence and ignoring her. That's not a good dynamic for LTR and also it will make you appear weird and too reactive. Your frame is not ok in this LTR. I supose you're still in a angry phase/chocking with the red pill, because if your go full rage mode, STFU style and stuff, that's not a calib…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:30 PM
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Don't go ass to vag next time.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:09 AM
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No, I don't.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:36 PM
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Your freedom.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 09:35 PM
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Cold approach. No, she didn't see me at all. I just saw her and she was cute and I wanted to say hi. Good vibes during texting, enough for her to accept going for some drinks. She showed interest after that first date.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:41 AM
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I met my LTR in the park. She was sittin in the grass reading a book. I approached her, pointed her book and said "He dies at the end". She laughed with the spoiler joke, we changed numbers and went on a date a few days later. Spun her as a plate for 6 months and then promoted to LTR
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:56 PM
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As some user told you, you're not giving her tingles. Your life is on point, it's scheduled, good job yada yada yada. Unfortunatelly girls won't see just that side of your life. She'll judge in all aspects. Think about it, there are dudes who are balding, they're short, they don't have the best jobs, etc. And they still get girls! How's that? Attraction is a sum of traits, it's nos just having a good life. I see your life is cool, but as I see it's only cool for you. Anyway, You'll go far, with …
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:41 PM
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Yes, plus a lot of campaigns about being body positive and fat friendly. Girls will start to think that being fatty is normal, when actually it isn't healthy at all. Leftist toughts are doing shit in people.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:30 PM
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Trust you gut, but don't get overreactiong and over analizing everything, because you're gonna have a bad time then.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:28 PM
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"The first rule about Fight Club is: you do not talk about Fight Club. The second rule about Fight Club is: you do NOT TALK about Fight Club " Never talk with a women about this. They will think you're trying to manipulate them. Also it's weird to say "yes honey im watchin female psychology videos" It's too much information and she didn't ask for it. Also, you will never win a rational discussion with a women. They're emotional beings. We are the rational beings. Women are from venus, men are fr…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:33 AM
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Foreplay bro, build the tension. Escalate slow. Two steps forward and one backwards. Go like that until you both are horny. You'll last the time you last. Don't get anxious about that because you're going to have a terrible time otherwise. Focus on having a good time, not just on the orgasm. Yes, you can cum fast at first, but I bet you'll last longer the second nut. If you're young, you can have an erection during 2 or 3 continuos nuts. About her, focus on her body and her signlas. Don't go dir…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:46 PM
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She's only confortable having sex in a relationship Cool. Next her. There's not a single girl in the world so valuable that you have to be in a LTR to have sex with her.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:38 PM
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Mmm I see a little bit of powerplay in the background. I'd not let my LTR to give me money. But, as she already did with you I'd suggest you to spend it with something for both us. A spa day or whatever. So you don't make it a big deal about the money. My point is, don't let her provide.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:38 PM
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Haha I had a good time in my early-mid 20's but now I'm in another place. I've done what you're saying and it was fun at first. "There is no worse wish than the fulfilled wish " Oscar Wilde said. Eventually I get bored and wanted to settle with a high smv girl. I'd give it a try if I were you. Once again, moral aside, it's a matter of choice. You can choose how important is your LTR against be banging chicks. Maybe is what you need in this part of your life and it's completelly ok. Didn't want t…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:11 PM
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Yeah, you reached that point in wich you gotta make that move. Is she still gonna be just my girl/chick or is she gonna be the woman who stays with me on the long run? You see, I've dated a few girl. Had some LTR during the last 10 years. And my conclusion right now is that girls are a sum of qualities. I've met a few ones who were tigers at bed, but they were toxics as fuck. Met some with the best pretty face ever, but their bodies were a little overweighted. You see? If you try to compare girl…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:27 PM
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She's gonna find it sooner or later. I'd suggest you to break up. It's normal to feel like you wanna fuck all day with any sexy girl you see in the streets, but the deal about healthy LTR is that you decide not to do it. At first you will do it, you will fuck other girls. Then you'll start living with fear and worry that she'll notice it. It will make you actually don't enjoy fucking the other girls that much. Been there done that. That's my advice OP, anyway if you're gonna make it, some users …
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:17 PM
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That's a good move. I remember Todd Valentine has a similar routine. He called it "the breakup speech". Deep inside that girl LOVES YOU for being like that, so feel proud. maybe she can reconsider it in the future, maybe she'll want to be your plate. Anyway, it doesn't really matter because you have abundance, and if it's not her, it's gonna be another girl. That's the correct mindset.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:13 PM
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"Im waiting to get paid" it's a classic "im not interested" move. Plus, she confirms it when she said she don't want people to buy her drinks. Not everything is a shit test dude. A girl will shit test you only when she's attracted/interested. Otherwise she's just messing with you.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:08 PM
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Yeah, go for it bro. It's not a big deal. Enjoy the moment and wear a condom.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:06 PM
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This was your mistake: Loving a girl who doesn't love you back. But I don't blame you. Guys can be that naive when they're youngers. Still attached to the unicorn tale, and blue pill. Luckilly, she almost did all the math for you: She told you she doesn't love you yada yada yada. Mistery solved. What's next, it's up to you? Are you gonna try to "Fix" the relationship? NEIN. Don't be a pussy. Take your stuff and move from that place. Don't explain yourself. Don't talk, don't be a drama queen. Mov…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:42 AM
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Listen bro, sometimes shit happens. And as far as im concerned, this is one of those situations that are sad and shitty, but this happen to. I trust you, as you said the girl seems ok and im pretty sure she has a lot of positive qualities. But you know, sex is important. (In my case, sex is a LOT important). Think about it, you're suposed to be dating just a single women in a LTR. In that case, she should be pleasing all your needs. And she shouldn't let you wanting sex or whatever. Some guys wi…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:17 PM
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This one is actually pretty good.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:40 PM
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There are some common miss conceptions you're having here my friend. I'm gonna tell you a little story. "There's a friend of mine who is kinda weird, and I didn't explain to him ever that he shouldn't kill people. So he went to a shopping mall and started shooting everywhere, killing like 20 persons. I think it's my fault. I should have told him that killing people is not something you should do" Do you see how silly this sounds? There are rules that are implicit. No need to set a boundary. (may…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 05:31 PM
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You're spining your hamster and trying to convince yourself that you got another option, something else to do. The bad news for you is that there's not. There's not other option than hard next. You know you have to do it, but you're dealing with oneitis and you totally lost your frame. Man up, hard next and move on. I'm thinking about talking to her. This is a girls move, you will get into her frame and you will have to deal with tons of drama, and for sure not wining anything, not a single argu…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:46 AM
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Since she's not behaving like a LTR, She's not your LTR anymore. Next her and move on.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 04:30 AM
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Red flag and turn off. Even regular smokers are a big turn off to me.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:48 PM
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Next, simple. She knows this is not ok, and she does it anyway because she knows you're ok with that. teach her the lesson. Next
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:56 AM
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No. No and no. First of all, don't listen to women advice. Their advice doesn't work the same for us. Women are from venus, men are from mars. Read that book. Second, girls actually don't want to be treated like shit. Nobody wants to. This is obvious. They are just attracted to the traits that people who eventually can treat you like shit has. With this I'm talking about being non reactive, non apollogetic, etc. That's the things girls are attracted to. Literally treat them like shit is somethin…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:54 AM
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If you can't quit this group of people. Ignore her without being butthurted. Take her comments as shit test. A&A. But I suggest you to change friends group. I'd feel awkward in your position.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:50 AM
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As I see, being in a monogamous realtionship is not Natural. Homo sapiens wasn't having a LTR. They fucked all the chicks they can for the sake of the specie. I think those kinda stuffs are still in the man firmware. So, wa can say LTR is more of a cultural agreement and shit. That's why it's normal to feel what you feel. In my case, i'm in a happy LTR but I still wanna fuck every hot chick I see on the streets. The difference is that we all have choice. So, you can decide what to do. Being in a…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:49 AM
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Life ends, things ends. So LTR is not the exception. Enjoy your turn, enjoy your life. Everything will eventually ends. Anyway, I think this is a very negative frame to live by. Focus on what is happening here and now.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:45 AM
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Dude, you're so obsessed with blue pill red pill yada yada yada that you're forgetting you're a human being. Behave like one of them. Being RP is being Calibrates and assertive. Just have a good time with your LTR, otherwise don't get in a LTR.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:43 AM
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If you calibrate it, maybe you can. The only way you can achieve this is by having a strong frame during those 2 years of LTR, and is she consider you the price. Otherwise you will have constant moral fights and power plays.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 12:46 AM
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This
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:09 AM
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New is always better. Don't waste time bro
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:11 AM
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As you can see now, lifting is something good, but if it's the only thing you have, then you have nothing. If I were you, I'd prefer a good frame instead of a lifted body. Money and looks are just placebos, they will boost you, but if it's the only thing you can offer you're screwed. About your Ex, why the hell do you care about her life? you don't even have kids with her to be in touch. Move on bro! don't get into the oneitis vibe. She can be with the old guy because she's a gold digger, becaus…
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:06 AM
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Forget about her. She's yestarday's newspaper. Move one, she's not worthy. Don't try to keep her, once you demote a LTR things will gonna be messy if you wanna keep her as a plate or whatever. Don't get in there. Also, don't get anxious about the lack of options. Quarentine is not affecting only you my friend, is affecting ALL the worl. So, your current status of no options may change after things get better. Be patient. And drop the bitch. Focus on yourself meanwhile.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:53 PM
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Your problem is your frame. I smell a little bit of oneitis here. If you're plating a girl and she's messing around with dudes, that's ok. Because you MUST be messing around with other girls too. That's how the plating game is. If you got oneitis with a plate, you're screwed. If you both were under "exclusivity", well...I guess she still don't get it. Demote her to plate again, and start spinning new ones.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:21 PM
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Whenever it's necessary. You can be loving and caring all the time and it's ok, as long as you don't become a sweet-diabetes-clingy guy that fills her with cringe. In my perspective, never be more caring than her. That will keep the balance to your side. Keep it 70Alpha/30Beta. That being said, showing emotions is what you MUST do in a LTR. (Read "models" by Mark Manson). Trying to be alpha all the time and cold, could work for plating, but in a LTR, it will make you apparent an insecure asshole…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:18 PM
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Passing with success both shit test and comfort test. Anyway, it's just about calibration. Don't overthink too much. Being calibrated it's a human sense. You will know when to show yourself vulnerable and when to you your alpha side. In my case, I got them balanced like 60A/40B, or sometimes 70/30. With time, you will find that being alpha works better during the follicular days of your LTR period, and bein beta is better during the lutheal phase. Rollo Tomassi has a good arcticle about that.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 06:13 PM
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If you actually "tell" your LTR that you're demoting her or soft nexting her, you'll enter in a verbal discussion with her. She will cry, or bitching your, or blame you, whatever. You get the point? whatever you say, it will become into drama. You gotta avoid that situation always. You just demote when she has to be punished. If you demote her, and I supose is for a reason, she already knows she did wrong and she needs to be punished (demoted) So, there's no need to talk. That's why we always sa…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:26 PM
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With plates it's simple, you just don't call. With LTR, you can't actually talk about it. By talking, you enter in her drama frame. You just demote and speak with your actions.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 06:38 PM
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"Iced" by hugo boss or "one million" by paco rabanne
/r/askTRP27/06/20 06:36 PM
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you made me think of weird stuff bro, I didn't notice my mistake haha Cheers!
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:07 AM
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First you're a silly 19yo, you still have a lot of soup to drink kiddo. Grow up. Second, this is not a TRP-related question, So I hope an Admin remove this.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:00 AM
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Sorry haha, not native english speaker. It's a she as far as I know hah
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:51 AM
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It's a complicated topic OP, and mostly, all we here will have different points of view. As far as im concerned, attention seeking is a normal thing. You should not mateguard or be jealous because of that. It's part of human nature. Don't hate the player, hate the game. However, think for yourself: Do I wanna LTR a girl who is into this instagram-bitching trend? I'd not. IMO this is not cool. I recomend you to start some hardcore dread-game, if you haven't started it already
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:34 AM
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Usually me and my LTR are horny all the time when we are together. When we are not having sex, we're making sexual jokes, I slap her ass whenever she walks near me, she grabs my dick while cooking, etc etc. With that dynamic, sex is more easy to happen. So, mostly we have sex twice a day. Also, some days we don't have sex when we're tired from work for example, but we go back to the once/twice a day after that.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:28 AM
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First of all, I hope this is just a trolling post. If your LTR want to fuck other men, then she's not your LTR. It's your EX LTR. If it's a plate she's retarded. We don't talk about other women we fuck, so she's naive in the game. I'd ignore and fuck her anyway whenever I want.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:55 PM
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As I've commented you in previous post you made, you gotta cut this girl out and move on. Plating a LTR wich you recently end up after a disrespect issue, won't get you in a good position. Ever. Also, it's non-sense try to keep a girl who thinks that being in contact with exes is normal. but she is using all channels to reach me and begging me to 'talk to her The thing she's doing now, are just reflexes of you cutting her out. Those are not her actual intentions and desires. Now she will cry, bu…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:52 PM
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Lucky you, now run from that girl, and I hope you learned the lesson bro.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:12 AM
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Wear a condom. Always. If you don't, you can end up like all the loosers here that made post like "ohh I made my cheating LTR pregnant and now I gotta raise the kid with her, what can I do?" Don't be that guy. Now, In all my years of sexual activity I've NEVER broke a condom. So, statistically we can say it's safe. Anyway, I always check the condoms after finishig. Do the same, and that should be enough bro. If you break one, the girl can take the emergency pill. But again, it statistically "won…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:07 AM
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Do a paternity test as soon as you can. If it's not yours, run away from that bitch and you can celebrate because you dodged a bullet (A cheating bitch.) If it's yours, well, good luck bro.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:01 AM
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Cut it out, with not too much explanations. She knows what she did, so no need to talk. I know this is hard, letting a LTR go, specially after long time together can be hard, but honestly after that nuclear lost of frame, nothing good can come out of that LTR. Think about it, Do i wanna keep a LTR wich sees me as a weak man? No. You're dodging a bullet here. Cut it out and expect tons of drama. Expect her crying and begging. After that, expect her saying shit about you (read "the lightswitch eff…
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:57 AM
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Don't lose time. Anything you can do to her in your situation, will be just some band-aids on your broken ego. Guys in angry phase will tell you things like "Fuck that bitch and dump her" , "play with her", "make her chase you". Those things are plays that broken-ego guys do. Don't do that. Don't get into that game, you won't win anything. You will loose time. Ignore her and keep on moving.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:36 PM
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Sup my friend. With all respect, I've to say that you failed in EVERYTHING. The things you made were not RP at ALL! I'll make it brief. You should end this relationship. Quick. No big explanations. First of all, if she has the need to keep in touch with her exes, that's a big red flag and disrespectful trait. She knows that this is wrong, and she does it anyway so, make your conclusions. I understand that having exes is part of the past of a person, and i'm cool with that. But, bringing that pas…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:33 PM
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No, I don't. My LTR mets all my need (so far), so I don't feel like I need to cheat. Anyway, If she starts flaking or making things I don't like, I'd have the will to walk away, and eventually cheating if it's necessary.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:26 PM
1

Go for it, but don't get involved in drama.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:02 PM
1

This is the issue: Go for "no more mr. nice guy" or "models" if you wanna get a quick and practical perspective of TRP concepts. If you wanna go deeper, go for "the rational male". Anyway, all of them are great lectures.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:12 PM
1

Not a big deal to be honest. Get used to it, you should be doing this every 6 months. Classic urine and blood test bro, they will make some test on the samples to check for the STD. But nothing strange, they will not touch or look at your genitalia.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:08 PM
1

Is she 15 years old? come on dude. Those crazy stuff only happens to crazy white people who has a lot of free time and don't have to worry about real problems. Doesn't she work or stuff bro? this is childy as fuck.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:27 PM
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It's a mix between emotional intelligence and social calibration. At first, you gotta interact a lot with people, so you will learn to "read" people's intentions and emotions. You also have to be witty/funny. I'd suggest you to have an style. I used to see shows from artist, actors, or stand up performers. You can take some dynamics and routines from there. But is mostly reading people and have some emphaty with their emotions.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:25 PM
2

It's not like math. It's not 100% exact. I've been with girls who shit test you mostly during the ovulation phase a lot, and others who shit test you once in a blue moon. As some people here said, girls who are really attracted don't shit test a lot. In other side, girls who are not sure if they're attracted or girls who constantly need to test your frame (mostly because incongruency in you sayings-acts) will do it a lot.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:21 PM
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If she's going to take the "day after sex" pill, probably nothing is going to happen. I mean, no pregnancy, since that pill works even 20 hours after you had unprotected sex. But, since is the second time it happens to you in a year, and you only had sex twice, you shoul'd be a dad. Hope that girl is pregnant. Because it doesn't seems like you're trying to avoid pregnancy, having sex without condom and stuff. Sometimes people only learn the lessons in the hard way. Start wearing condoms or you w…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:17 PM
1

As we always say "don't date crazy girls , or girls with OPD, depression, stuff" Same applies to her. Being with someone with mental issues can be quite difficult. But hey, it's not the end of the world. You shoul instead try to fix it. Start therapy or psichiatrist. There's nothing wrong with it. Wrong is to have a problem and not try to fix it. About the girl, I'd strongly suggest you to move on. Your frame is weak now, and in the future, even if you're ok with your issue, she will try to mani…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:09 PM
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That's because you're taking it from the wrong side. Yes, getting more money is ok. But you should feel embarrased only if you ask the raise only for the money. You have to talk to your manager, giving an introduction of why do you deserve it. "I did what I have to and also I give extra efford in x,y,z. I developed new skills in x,y,z and I've been helping john doe with y,z,x. That's why I'm asking for a raise that equilibrates my development and growing". You get the point.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:04 PM
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You're not getting the game. Shit test doesn't happen because something is wrong with you. Women don't THINK you're not good enough. They just try to be sure that you ARE good enough. If you try to avoid something simple as shit test, you're not prepared to deal with women. Shit test actually can boost your frame when they're passed with A&A. There are girls who will bomb-blast you with shit test everytime, and there are anothers that will hit you with shit test once in a blue moon. It has nothi…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:29 PM
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You managed it cool and She's not LTR at all.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 02:35 AM
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keep yourself busy so you don't have to think about what to text. Talk when necessary, don't rush into answer her text. When talking, keep it playful and sexy. Lockdown can be a hard time for LTR since you can't met. It's like a forced LDR. We're all in the same situation now. It's going to change soon (I hope so)
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:29 AM
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Yes, it's a red flag. Don't hamster it. A Girl who have DATES alone with other guys into a LTR is not GF material.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:00 AM
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"Look what she does, not whay she say"
/r/askTRP11/06/20 12:00 AM
1

Dude, a 5 year LTR is not a place to play silly games like hide and seek on message. If I were you I'd have asked "What's up bitch?" at day 2 of no texting.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:38 AM
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Read the lightswitch effect. Her family and her friends doesn't matter. YOUR family and friends matter. Keep on developing yourself.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:50 PM
5

No, gay is to wear baggy-old-fashion jeans. They're not aestethic at all.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:39 PM
2

Hard next, not LTR material at all.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:27 PM
1

Next chapter: Broke up with my LTR because she cutted her hair...
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:26 PM
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As some other users said, girls with kids are the lowest scum you can ever date. Why the HELL do you get in a LTR with a low smv scum? You did everything wrong my dear OP. Haven't you read the sidebar? She's a black widow, and she's looking for a beta provider aka save-a-hoe. Be sure that guy is not you. I'm telling you this with good vibes and intentions. But deep inside im angry and screaming bro like just leave that girl now.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:40 AM
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Classic Shit test. A&A Now do you ever actually set a boundary like “you don’t say things like that to me, I’m not your girlfriend” or is that way to butt hurt ? Yes, it's butthurt but besides that, you're not getting the game. You will never end gaming your girl. You can NEVER find peace in a LTR, I mean, you will always have to deal with shit test and keep the attraction going, and make thing to get her attracted to you. You can't just lay down and be relaxed. Lazyness kills attraction Shit te…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:40 PM
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This OP.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:31 PM
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Is she 15 years old?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:13 PM
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You can't apply TRP concepts in a relationship that you started as a BP. It never works, never. This causes an incongruence in your person. Your GF will be confused and you're gonna be like a "liar" in her eyes. That's why those tricks won't work. Anyway you're still young, and luckily, you don't have a kid with this girl. In my vision yes, there's nothing wrong with talking to other guys. Even not being reactive can raise your SMV and confidence in her eyes. But, this is good for plates. Not fo…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:32 PM
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Those are her convictions. Leave her go. You can't change a person convictions, that's silly and you're being inmature.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:20 PM
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This OP. This is really a good old-school red pill advice. I'd do the same.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:27 AM
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I don't think this would ever work dear user. If you didn't use it already, try not to, please. A man never confronts. A man doesn't talk or explain. This is rational bullshit and women are not rationals (women are from venus, men are from mars) The boundaries should be settled not explicitly. The message should be said by actions, not words. We don't negotiate with terrorist. OP should not react, but at this point I hope he was putting some dread game in her relationship. The key it to make it …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:26 AM
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Look, I was in a similar situation a few years ago. Dated a drama queen, sex was awesome as fuck (I don't know why toxic girls knows how to fuck so well). When we broke up because of "respect" issues we both agreed to fuck but with no commitment, setting a lot of boundaries just to fuck, making logistic. it's ALL in VAIN. Not worthy at all bro. Trust me. Dont plate this girl. Remember Rollo's 7th Rule It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will…
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:17 AM
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This OP. This is actually a great positive advice.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:45 PM
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Im gonna start saying that yes, you failed a little bit. Getting fat, loosing the job and stuff are not good traits in a partner. Getting in a LTR is not a success point, it's a start of a more complicated land. In a LTR you gotta maintain frame, keep the things that made her love you and stuff. You can't just lay back and be relaxed because you got the girl, at that point shitty things start to happen, as you can experience now. Responsabilities aside, those stuff doesn't give her the permissio…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 05:27 PM
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How's the lubrication? enough foreplay?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:33 PM
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Dude, this is the third post you make in 2 days. You're fooling yourself trying to make things sound cool on this post. In the 2 previous you wrote, you ended up being a reactive/crying person and your LTR (hope it's ex at this moment) a disrespectful bitch. Don't spin your hamster. You know what to do. I've already told you: wich kinda LTR do you want? the one you should be worried all the time making tons of post on reddit? or the one you can have fun and sex all the time with no worries? This…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:19 PM
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I think you're over reacting my friend. As you said, she spends days at your place. If you both have a good time spending time together that's a good sign. It's completely normal not to text the whole day after you see each other. What are you going to talk about that you didn't talk when you were together? When im in your situation when I go back to my place i don't talk to my LTR cause I spent 3 or 4 days with her, I don't wanna talk for a while I wanna play some video games, or do things for …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:21 AM
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Not being reactive is key, but I understand you. getting in your shoes and hear her talking about this dude all the time, can be quite annoying. I see you're the same dude with the cop dude and your GF. Your GF is the having-many-male-friends type. I'll quite it simple and short then. Figure out if this is the kind of girl you like to be with. The one who makes you post multiple stuffs on reddit. If i were you, I'd look for a LTR to have fun and sex instead. Think about it.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:53 PM
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Kinda disrespectful for my taste. I feel like dread was need time before this cop incident. Anyway, too much talking from your side. She knows what is she doing, so she doesn't need you to explain that this is wrong/innapropiate. Don't fight verbally with her, we don't negotiate with terrorist. I'd start to think about demoting her a little bit, taking some commitment off. Maybe you need a female cop friend, so you can shoot her tits with your cum
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:48 PM
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What's up men? I'm gonna take some liberties to talk about you a little bit. At first, I'm sorry for this situation. But this was ALL announced. You just couldn't see it. If there is doubt, there is no doubt. So, if you have in your head the idea of your LTR doing that, mostly it happened or it's going to happen. Trust your guts. If you feel that something is bad, probably it is. Don't spin your hamster. You always have time to spin plates or fuck girls. I work 12 hours a day and I still have ti…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:42 PM
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This is a common issue you will have to deal with. Positive side, you already recognize you're attached to the investment and not to the person itself. That's good. Wall street people invest in tons of stuffs. They're not married to the same operation, because they know one day it gives you money, other day it makes you loose it. Same principle applies to women. Investment in them is ok, but don't get attached to that investmen. A RP guy has The will of walk away. Always. Step aside, I'm still w…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:33 PM
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Eat clean bro, at least 40% protein 40%carbs 20%fat. That's a good proportion to start with. Suplementation? only if you cant eat all the things you need. Remember: suplements don't replace real food. Only take protein shakes and vitamins if necessary
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:33 PM
2

Dude, run away before she have a new kid with you. Girls with kids are not GF material at all,
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:31 PM
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Kids, don't do drugs. It's silly and it's not red pill at all.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:29 PM
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You're right bro. Anyway I didn't mean the beating stuff. That's just high school moves. I'm still young and impulsive sometimes but i wouldn't risk my job. Usually im chill and I got a good tolerance for this. I got no problem about ignoring it. As you say, I feel he's becoming more desperate because he does it ALL the time, like every day. It's insane. That's why my patience is going down
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:55 PM
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Yes, the moment you contact her again, you loose. Crying and begging is the only way dumped girls will try to get you back. Do you think that's actually how they feel? that's just a perform. Don't get fooled for this. Keep on no contact.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:14 PM
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Dude, you're making this so complicated. Your LTR is fucked up. It's already doomed to fail. You can't negotiate attraction. Of course this horny mood is temporal, with time she will be as dry as before and even worse. You're making tons of logistics and evaluating scenarios for what? Why do you wanna keep a girl who doesn't feel real attraction for you? that's the kinda LTR do you want to have? You're cheating and it's the same as if she does it. Don't feel special. It's the same for both. Don'…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:10 AM
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As people said, if she reschedules and you can, you should go. Don't think that much about the powerplay of following the "orders". Sometimes I can't go and I reschedules stuff and it's ok. So, I'm not mad when my LTR does it. Now, if she say she can't and she doesn't propose another day or she sounds uninterested, there you should start to think what is happening there..
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:01 AM
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Here's my vision. There's nothing wrong with It. It can be even better if she follows your gym schedule, so she'll train more and be hotter, of course. Two points of view: If you go alone, you'll enjoy more your personal time. As you know, it's so key to have time outside your gf's company to make stuffs for your own. Plus side, you add some soft dread by being busy and away from your place with her. In the other side, hard dread can be played if you go with her. You can be social at her eyes, a…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:49 AM
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I teached my LTR some positive stuff, like moving your fucking ass from the chair to get things. So, now she lifts with me at the gym for example. But mostly I've teached her about self development, motivation and stuff. This is usefull because we motivate each other to do things etc. When you're dating you need both parts on the same frame about being successful and give your best. As you imagine, never talk about TRP with your LTR.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:32 PM
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New redpillers are failing this so much, and that's because they wanna apply TRP concepts on relationships, screwing things up. It doesn't work like that. TRP moves in the limits of control and machiavellism, and that's ok. This game is amoral. But you gotta have some limits. Otherwise you're not prepared for a LTR. People telling "ohh demote this bitch to plate, she's disrespectul!" clearly are not prepared for LTR. The foundation of a healthy LTR, as I said, Is to understand that the happiness…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:16 PM
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There's nothing wrong with going to a bar. If you're mad about it, it's because you're an insecure guy and you should go out with your friends to a bar too. Let her have fun, she can't be at your side every time. Part of having a healthy relationship, it's to understand that the people we are dating will have happiness moments that doesn't involve us. Think about it, You don't trust her 100% even before she is going so, why keep on dating a girl you don't trust?
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:25 PM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:30 PM
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Don't waste time bro, go for B and end this quick.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:25 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:14 AM
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Dude, why scared? You only live once, so you have like (with luck) 40 more years to fuck and have fun. Why lose time? What you are afraid of? You will be dead then, and you wont fuck anything there. It's ok. A new experience can be challengin, but have fun! nothing better than ass and tits. Just remember to wear condom.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:34 AM
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Nothing at all. It's time you could spend on self investment. Keep on your way, and always have the will of walk away.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:31 AM
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Read "models" (it was a book quite hard to find) and "No more Mr. nice guy"
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:29 AM
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I totally understand you, being the one who initiates sex it's annoying. Been there, done that. Usually, the lack of sex it's not the cause of a problem, it's the consequence of a problem. Like lack of attraction, lack of passion, dead bedroom, being cheated, yada yada yada. As you mention, you had a good relationship and the girls seems to be ok. So, dont worry, I won't start to bomb you like most of the new redpillers here like "dump that bitch she's fucking other dude", no way. Also you seems…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:13 AM
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This is a honest advice. I'll take it. I won't think about moving together until we both have financial independency. If we can't solve that, I'll think about breaking up. Thanks!
/r/askTRP29/05/20 12:55 AM
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I've seen tons of post like this one on asktrp, and they're allways the same. "Oh, my LTR is cold as fuck, she don't wanna fuck with me anymore". And in all those post, they blame the girl like "ohh this disrespectful bitch is not blowing me 24/7" Calm down, you're not a god. No one at TRP is. It's very simple to misunderstand TRP concepts and expect you LTR to be all the time for you. She's a human being too. We won't talk about her now. What about you? are you cool? are you fit? are you an int…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:31 PM
1

Split or make it by turns. Once you pay, next time she pays. You shouldn't pay all the time.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:24 PM
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Blue pill isn't a state you can quit just by reading the sidebar and lifting. You're still blue pill. However, you've done a good start in yout red pill path, congratulations. You have to see at the "red pill state" as an ending point, not a start point. So, you have a long ride to run my friend. Practice is all that matters. Theory is good, and theory by itself puts you ahead of a tons of blue pill people that doesn't even know about trp. But, you gotta start living by it. The fight with your "…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 04:18 AM
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You're in doubt, so, there's no doubt.Don't waste time figuring out what is she doing on her phone or stuff.Cut it off, you'll find something better. Why would she do this when she was the one wanting commitment? You forgot one of the most important principles at TRP: "look what she does, not what she say"
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:08 PM
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You can have a gf, treat her well , a fuck buddy, a plate but it doesn't matter they'll drop you when something better comes Wouldn't you do the same? Don't hate the players, hate the game. That's how life is my son. But hey, that's good news. You have to use those game rules in your benefit. You see, you said the word "women" tons of times in your message. But you don't talk about you. As I see, the problem is not "I think i'm not good enough for women" the problem is "I think i'm not good enou…
/r/askTRP23/05/20 03:46 AM
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Don't let your hamster spin, maybe she wants to chill. She's a person, not your sex slave. Sometimes im tired after work and I reject sex too. So, once in a moon it means nothing. If this continue, maybe she's not feeling you enough attractive. You're giving her no reasons to fuck you. She won't be down to fuck just because she's your GF. The attraction issue is the most important here. Attraction is not negotiable. You talked a lot about her but, what about you? Are you lifting? are you rocking…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:37 PM
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Block her from every social media and continue with your life. She doesn't worth shit.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:21 PM
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As people said, read sidebar kiddo. The quick answer is: being invested, trughful and loyal to yourself. Love yourself genuinely and people will be attracted to you. You can't fill other people's cup if your jar is empty. don't try to impress a LTR. LTR are just temporary. Try to impress yourself every day.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:18 PM
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You lost her my friend, you tried so hard to apply the alpha frame, that now you're not only a fake alpha to her, you're a controlling insecure dude in her eyes. The ultimatum is the weakest thing you can do as man. It puts you in a vulnerable situation. A real man don't need to put the ultimatum in words: A real man has stablished such a strong boundary frame that, the girl always knows the thing she can/should do. Girls night out once in a moon is not bad. It charges her with femenine energy, …
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:14 PM
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OP, Read to this advice. This is the most RP comment you can read in this post. Your situation is tricky, if she had this friend before she met you, you can't expect her to cut the relation. It's up to you. This issue don't mean she is cheating. But hanging out with male friends, wanting extra attention from orbiters, those can be red flags to you (hey, they are for me too), so you should demote, otherwise you will loose time overthinking and shit. Play it simple.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:00 PM
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Chill man, same kinda story happened to all of us. You're not the first (or last) guy being cheated. It's ok to think about it sometimes, and even everyday. People in my country say that it takes twice the time you were together to heal the breakup. I don't know. But whay I do know is that the things you're feeling are normal. First of all, i'd sugest to embrace it. It's over, it hurted like shit. But the good thing is that this is a good oportunity to start over. Block her, you don't want to re…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 09:50 PM
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This! English it's not my native language, so thanks for reminding me of the phrase.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 11:20 PM
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Action guys don't have healthy LTR. This is where new redpillers fail. They start reading sidebar and all the material, and they want to apply it whit all the girls, even when their LTR. First, its difficul to be RP in a previous relationship in wich you wasn't RP. This generates an invalance in your behaviour and a lack of congruence in your role. Second, LTR is a calibration between alpha/beta, dread and comfort. I use to keep the balance in 70dread/30comfort. You have to look for the balance …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:51 PM
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You seems like a dude who don't understand what a LTR is. You got TRP ideas wrong my friend. LTR's are TRP in hardcore mode. You can't be alpha 100% of the time. You can't expect her not to be with other people if you're doing the same. Anyway, as you say you "have" another 2 girls to bang. I wouldn't be worried about my (now) ex LTR fucking other dude. move on, and keep your way. Greetings
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:46 PM
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"If you have doubts, you have no doubt" people say here. If you're thinking about the idea of moving on, it's because you have to. When you're in a healthy relationship, you don't have those thoughts. Hey, cheer up! LTR's are not bad or good. They're just TRP in hardcore mode. As you say, it seems like your relationship is quite good. Drama and stuff is normal at tha age. My advice? if you feel this is not for you, you have to move on fast. You're in your early 20's. You journey in dating is jus…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:35 PM
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Exactly. There are a lot new red pillers who are stucked in the moral/ethics issue about "the real desire of being fit". But as you may know, we don't do that. Lead and if she's attracted she will follow.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:29 PM
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You're wrong here my friend. Imitation is a good sign of desire and frame. If she wasn't doing it before, it's not OP business. Not all people has the habit of being fit and it's ok. There are multiple reasons why she wasn't doing it, but since she is dating OP, if he's making a good dread with the fitness issue, she should be making things to be better.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:42 PM
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You've talked about your GF weight. But, what about you? Do you even lift? are you fit and ripped? One efficient way to make someone do something you want, is to give the example.Usually, when i was dating, i started to bring the fitness topic like "yes, im running 4 times a week and eating healthier" the girls are like "yeah! I wanna go running to, I'll join you" If you're in a higher frame than her respect to body fitness, she'll do everything to be, at least, same as you. If she does nothing …
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:04 PM
1

If you were ok before the quarentine, you don't have to worry about. Keep yourself busy with reading/work/exercise. Don't answer her messages inmediatelly.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:47 PM
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No one is 100% full confident about being the hottest one. So, yes. Dread always work.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:45 PM
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Ignore and quit social media. The people who loves you and care about you (who must be just a few friends and family) wont follow the things your ex says.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:42 PM
1

definitely this
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:40 PM
1

I don't really talk about my private life with people I don't care about. when they ask if I have a girlfriend I used to say thing like: "No, I have two girlfriends" "Just from monday to friday" "We don't have the relationship status in facebook, so I think it's not official" "We don't cuddle after sex, so I don't know how to call it" Keep it playful.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:38 PM
1

Only if she pays mine.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:31 PM
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Don't take TRP concepts literally. They're just tools you have to know about, in case you need them. LTR are cool as long as they work for you both, and you make yourselves better than being alone. As I can see, there are a lot of green flags. Congratulations! but that means you dont have to go lazy in the relationship. You still have to be a valuable man to keep those green flags.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:15 PM
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High school environment can be pretty fucked up. Don't take it too serious. You're still young. Get prepared for what comes next to the high school. My advice? Go into monk mode. Try to relax about old experiences and embrace them. A break up it's the perfect moment to start again. Get involved with TRP concepts and don't try to get in a LTR quick bro. Use TRP concepts just to have fun and meet girls. LTR is TRP in hard mode. Control the core principles spining plates first.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:11 PM
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I read all the comments for feedback. As far as im concerned, the thing you're lookign for only works if you're a muslim king and you have an harem. Otherwise, it doensn't work in the real world bro. If you wanna be with a girl and then fuck other womans is ok. You'll find lot of girls who are ok with that. Just asume they will do the same with you. I'd not try to look for a LTR and not even kids as you want with a girl you have a relationship like that. Also, as people say, Open relationships a…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:22 PM
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haha easy my friend, you're mixing all together. Lot of stuffs and topics on play. Let's go step by step. You're projecting too many goals in one person, that's stressfull for you and for her. It's ok to want to have kids (someday) but the thoughts about having kids with a girl you're not even in a relationship with is too straightforward. Go easy, get to know each other. Maybe in the future you realize this girl wasnt for you. Take it easy. About monogamous life, it's a complete topic. Moral as…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:17 PM
1

If you had kids with a girl wich you gotta post things here, congratulations! you learned a very important lesson in the hard way: Don't have kids with problematic girls. Anyway a little bit of context would be ok, you're telling me you got kids with a plate who is GF material? That's confusing.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:35 PM
1

It's hard to tell you what to do at 18 bro. You got a long road to walk. In the future, try to get in LTR with girls that dont even think about asking you to go camping with a dude. It's a trait that grown respectful girls have, and that's LTR material. Enjoy your turn as far as you can. At 18, your goal must be stuck your penis in how many vags you can. You will have time for LTR, so don't take this one so serious ​ Cheers!
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:00 AM
1

Yeah, im like you. Cold as Ice. Gilrs tends to need some confort. You should have listen to those confort tests. You cant be RP alpha all the time, you gotta calibrate it. Once in a moon you can be a litte bit tender/cheesy/romantic in a LTR. I'm sad for you bro, as you tell it seems to be a nice relationship, healthy one at best. cheers!
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:56 AM
1

"I am! indeed. You take it too much time in realizing it, good for you! congrats!" Don't get into that confrontation bro, not worthy. Act chill
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:53 AM
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C'mon men. Why overthinking that much? it's an emoji. If you're a cool guy, she wont stop at seeing how do you respond a heart emoji. You can answer whatever you feel and it will be ok. Meanwhile you're not a motherfucking cheesy dude, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:51 AM
1

Im glad for you that you started to raise your smv and stuff, but there is something you're lacking: Congruence. And Congruence is key. As i can read, you say you moved on, that you don't have this girl in your mind. But out of the blue, she texted you and now you're starting to worry, to overthink about what does she wants or not, If you can make her a plate or not or whatever. ​ Work on your congruence. Deep inside you got feelings for this girl. It's ok, but start working on this. Ignore the …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:47 AM
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Leave the ego bro, it will kill you. Ego is like you racing against you. But in this case, no one wins. Stop this shit. Ego is not about fucking exes, is about achieving goals: Work, Lifting, etc. About fucking exes, or plating them I got this opinion (some RP dudes may disagree): If things ended up "well" (a.k.a no cheating, no disrespect), You can fuck her, but with the minimun investment, with zero expecations. also, she gotta be on the same page (just sex, zero expectations). Anyway, i dont …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:42 AM
1

Well, your post isn't about getting back a cheater LTR, so we're on the right path. We don't have a background on this one. Cheating can be a consecuences of a lot of mistakes in the relationship, or can be an isolated event. The LTR balance is up to you, you will know the part of your fault in that fight or whatever. ​ Back to what happened, im sorry for this bro, I know is shit, been there. As i can see, she made you a favour. She demostrated that she's not worthy of a LTR. Like having a fight…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:34 AM
2

You gotta reach a point in wich you have mental abundance and trust, so you're not worried about a girl running out because you're seeing other woman
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:25 AM
3

Classic shit test dude, have fun on this one.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 04:19 AM
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Thanks m8
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:56 PM
6

I just got 2 currently. I have just ended a long term relationship, getting back in the game bro. chill
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:56 PM
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No condom sex
/r/askTRP30/01/18 03:17 AM
2

I expected another response from you bro.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:44 AM
2

I know I shouldn't focus on what she say, but she sent me a message telling me that she'd sad, she's crying, she miss me, but then she keep on uploading sluty status and stuff. It's kinda of a childy behaviour or I dunno, maybe she doesn't even know what she wants.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 02:46 AM
1

She also told me that she don't believe in being with just one person, claiming that things should be talked. I think it's an invite to plate her or stuff. I don't wanna be butthurted. Yes, she cheated on me and yes, she was disrespectful. Isn't OK to say something like: "yeah don't worry, at the end we wanted the same, so we should fuck each others like animals, like we used to do" I'd just use her for my benefit. I started plating 2 girls and I've dated them both so I'm not in scarcity. Should…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:41 PM
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Hahah you got me with that "Dear AskTRP, please give me 'permission' to do something I know I shouldn't do...." I'm a little bitch. I started plated 2 girls and I'm having a good time. I believe "new is always better" as Rollo said, but sometimes is hard to deal with this shit.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 01:21 AM
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You're right men, she just want to confuse me and get some validation from me. I won't contact.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:15 AM
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As I can see, she want me to care or stuff. Since i went no reaction on social media or whatever and she did (all the time since she dumped me). She must feel confused because I never called her or anything. The day she dumped me I just told her "Ok, if it's the best for you I'm ok with that. Wish you the best". She doesn't want or care about you, she cares that you're still available to manipulate and get validation from. I think she must feel less, because I didnt care about her leaving. I wil…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:14 AM
1

Thanks dude, this advice is so helpful. I will keep with my frame, I won't let her get the satisfaction of me reacting. I know that eventually, she will explode and she will talk to me, but I won't do that shit. Currently making some new plates and street approaches. I'm getting good results with that. Besides that I'm not making this all about girls,it's about me like it always was. I'm lifting every day (I did it even when I was dating), working and studying. I'll keep focused on myself.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:54 PM
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yeah, after she break up and i texted her that message saying "it's ok", she sent me a few angry audios saying why did I agree on breaking up and calling me coward for "not talking" about the incident. I will keep on this frame, I won't react because that's what she wants.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:29 AM
2

1 years and 2 months dating. We started going out 4 months before we give each other exclusivity. We had fights like any couple but this came out of nowhere. The girl was more invested than I was any time. She said she stopped doing things for me (clubbing and stuff). Thanks for the reply men, I will cut it out now, I won't wait any time. Also she had all her accounts in private but now she putted them public, she may think I will stalk her even if I delete her.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:19 PM
3

Thanks mate, it's a honest advice
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:37 PM
3

Yeah, I know that this time my mistake was LTRing the wrong girl. She showed up how much she is worthy whit all this attention seeking stuff. And yeah, for sure: there will always be a dude more alpha than you. I will keep my shit toghether as I did since today. Just dissapointed about all this shit after a year of LTR investment
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:27 PM
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yeah, it's all about frames and power play now. Also she's updating facebook status like "today i get hitted by to 2 guys haha". Like, so childy and stupid. Looking for my reaction. That's her true face and that's the bullet I dogded. I will delete her on social media, but not now. To not end up being reactive, in a few weeks. I don't wanna feed her need of my attention and concern.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:41 PM
1

My last message was that "OK, have a good time I wish you the best" and like in 3 hours she started calling me angry as fuck, telling me I'm a douche and shit. This girl is crazy, she broke up with me I don't know what she wants. What should I do?
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:15 AM
1

Thanks for the honest advice bro, Yeah I've learned that you shouldn't look at yourself for the explanation of a desire wich is not yours. It was her decission, so I'd never ask for an explanation. Besides that yeah, life goes on. Tomorrow morning I'm going to the gym to lift heavy weights as I do everyday, then work, then college, then repeat. There is life besides a woman. But I cannot avoid feeling sad now, I'm not a robot. I feel. But I guess it will go away. Just focusing on my life road.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:16 AM
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It's OK, it's about preferences and boundaries. If she's cool besides that I'll keep her. A trip once in a while it's not a big deal IMO
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:10 PM
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It's about frame and mindset. Personally I like to amuse about it. Sometimes I'm like "Yeah bro, go for it. Look at how sexy is she!" Take it fun, feel proud that your girl is sexy. She'll give all that energy she's receiving with an orbiter to you. Trust me. Anyway, if she's receptive and proactive about the approach, and she's flirting back, leave. Go talk to other girls, soft next. The importance is to set the difference between game and a disrespectfull situation.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 04:00 PM
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Don't listen to the silly ones who say "Girls travel to get dick". They don't have to schedule a complicated trip + spend time and money to get dick. They could do it at your back in your house while you're taking a shit. Listen to what she does when she returns from the trip. Don't say too much about it, not reactive at all. Soft next her a little bit.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 03:56 PM
1

You're thinking too much. I don't know why the N count affects you that much. Is not something about her here, it's about you and how do you take the fact that a girl had previous sex partners.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:12 PM
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Just in the early stages, ideally before you get into a monogamous commitment.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:10 PM
1

Men, any girl could be family oriented. If you want a girl who cooks and clean your clothes, call a maid. If she's not fucking you like crazy, next her. Don't let her weaponize you with sex. She is considering breaking up? lol. Tell her "don't consider it anymore, im breaking up with you"
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:56 AM
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She is not into smokers, I'm not into smokers either. I'd not date a smoker girl, (even tabaco) and your GF probably is feeling like that, not attracted. Call it a "boundarie". PS: don't do drugs. Never.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:45 AM
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Men, don't get paranoid. It seems like you're not having a good time with this but mostly because you're taking too much information from TRP and taking it directly to your case. It's not like this. AskTRP is like google for symptoms: you will always have cancer there. Use it but don't over react. The best response here is the one from /u/MattyAnon . At some point, every girl will cheat. I don't think your girl did yet, but it doesn't matter at this point. Once a cheater always a cheater? not ex…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:34 AM
1

Yeah, I have to admit that my LTR gave me some comodity respect gaming. Even when I plate some girls I see them as a work, and extra effort. That's why I'm lazy about other chicks and that's why I still keep my LTR, wondering how much further we can go. My bad.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:49 PM
1

thank you for the honest advice.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 05:32 PM
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That's disrespectful as fuck. My LTR wouldnt tell me those stuffs because she knows its wrong and i'll soft next her. At this point, (even when I think dudes should act instead of talk) you gotta settle a boundarie in wich is not ok to talk about exes. After that, if she breaks it you know what to do. Anyway it seems weird to me. Do you talk about your ex with her? Are you sure she is over him?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:24 PM
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There's a few things here. She worries about her appareance. When we go out she goes well groomed/dressed, + make up + hair done yada yada yada. But she's not worrying too much about her physyque and also she eats junk food. Yeah, she's making herself sure that I will not dump her with all those test. The deal is that i dont wanna date a lazy fat girl, even when i dont pretend her to be a model. But dumping for getting fat wouldnt make me be like an asshole?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:07 PM
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That's right. I'm ok with her being little bit chubby. I dont pretend her to be a six pack fitness instagram girl, she's more than a body. But she's getting noticeable fatter and I don't wanna date a lazy motherfucker
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:03 PM
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This is an interesting question. My LTR lives in the same city as I do, like 30min travel by car. We both go to college and work, But our schedules are easy. We usually spend time together from saturday evening to sunday afternoon. She spend the night in my place or vice versa. Besides that we usually see each other once or twice a week, just for a little. What i want to say is that we both could see each other very often, but (what I do and) what I suggest to you is to not see each other more t…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:57 PM
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It's simple as you mention. It's breaking up for the sake of distance. You can explain yourself about it, no need to go for the "ghost and never talk again". I think you can end it in good terms.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 10:35 PM
1

wanting to party in LTR is only wrong is she doest it constantly or if there was a boundarie about not partying and she breaks it. Otherwise is ok and you should not show jealousy or any reaction.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:51 PM
1

What do you think is wrong about partying?
/r/askTRP04/10/17 09:10 PM
1

You did everything wrong my friend. Dump her, take the iniciative. She doesn't feel attracted to you anymore and you can't reverse that. Also, you both are too young, don't even consider a LTR for so long at that age.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:49 PM
1

It's ok dude, don't overthink this stuff. If you don't live together but you have spend so many nights at her place giver her some space. Also , a good hamster spinnining would be to deny to sleep with her next time SHE invites you, not you inviting to her place.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:28 PM
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If you handle it right, orbiters can actually boost your value in your girl's eyes. Show her that you don't consider them to be a threat and she'll consider you to be higher value than them. Here's a problem though. These orbiters may be causing an abundance imbalance in your relationship. She has lots of options and maybe you don't, which is causing some anxiety for you? If this is the case, keep flirting, gaming and building your pipeline of potentials so you have options too. Don't show jealo…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:19 PM
1

what this guy said. I'd not suggest 5x5 as some people say. If you're looking for some nice cuts and aestethic, go for sets of 8-12 reps. Work on compound lifts as /u/SlashingSide said. They're the shit men, the change is almost amazing. Hit those deadlifts, pullups, overhead press, etc. Full body range of motion stuff Also you're tall dude, eat like 2800 calories per day. When you start to lift, your metabolism will get used to it and you wont develop fat. Try to do some clean bulk. 2800 calori…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:55 AM
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Dread or die
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:16 PM
2

I read until you said it's a LDR. Don't have a LDR bro, that's your solution. No need to read all your post.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:09 PM
1

Kids, don't do drugs.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:16 PM
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Yeah, don't make contact with her, tell her to send your stuff to your place, that a friend of you will receive it. (cause you're busy). Or pick them up at her place and never call her again. anyway if it's not a big deal (the stuffs she have) forget about them. They hate that haha, they're waiting for you to call
/r/askTRP29/09/17 12:21 AM
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This. she'll deny it anyway. Don't confront her like that next time, it screams insecuriity. Next time aware, and look up for concrete evidence.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:34 PM
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You fucked more than 100 women and you're asking about this bullshit? go fuck your mom dude.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:31 PM
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It's a lie. Look what she does, not what she say. All my girl friends told me they don't like ripped guys but in the end of the night, they want to fuck with me. She's worried about your raising smv. Lift or die.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:29 PM
1

next
/r/askTRP26/09/17 09:33 PM
1

Depends on your initial state, but I'd say like 6 months or so.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:07 PM
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It's just the habit. It will be a pain in the neck the first days but when you get used to it ,it's the best. I usually Lift from 8am to 9.30am, then I got college, work, my family time etc. Its counter untuitive but lifting in the morning will charge you up of energy during the rest of the day.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:06 PM
1

My response: -how many girls did you sleep with? -All of them
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:13 PM
1

how old are you? serious question.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:09 PM
1

Hey bro, as I can see, you still have a lot of material to read in the sidebar. I will point you some mistakes you did with her: 1) As you can read on Never show weakness. You should never talk about your emotions and problems with your LTR. Stressed about job? that's your shit, talk about it with your homies. You gotta be a unbreakable rock. Never show weakness, and have a confident/positive mood anytime. At this point, shit test will be raining. But that's a good sign. That means that she's in…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:07 PM
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Be more dominant with her next time + apply a little bit of dread. Don't visit her next saturaday, spend some time with the bros (not in a passive agressive way). It's not a big deal anyway men. Don't even think about talk about it with her.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:57 PM
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Bro, I made a post like that yesterday. You see, askTRP is like when you google that you got a headache. You will find responses as "it's just a headache" to "You got brain damage". Beware. Just take what fits you. IMO, I totally agree with /u/-HeartOfDark- Don't make it a big deal, don't hard next her or go fuck other women as some rambo TRP dudes will tell you. There's a difference between whithholding and just refusing sex. Does she do it often? Don't ever talk about it, dread game is what sh…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:48 PM
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Partial truth as fuck. Even if they both didn't fuck, the disrespect is enough to at least a soft next. Don't hamster yourself with the "What if" (like when you say what if they just sleep?) No, erase that hamster from your head. Disrespect is punished. Period.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:44 PM
2

3 years at your age makes any relationship tricky. Now, what I see is that maybe you did something wrong and that's why shes' withholding bj. Let's say she is not attracted to you as much as she used to, yada yada yada. But that's not the point. at all. Do you wanna be with a girl wich you got to initiate sex all the times, that she doesnt have high sex drive as you do? I know the answer. There are a lot of girls out there who will blow you until your balls get dry. Get a sexier partner bro, no …
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:39 PM
1

I went to her house yesterday because she stayed in the city to spend the night with me and not going to her parents house. So I went and tried to keep it Cool and in the night she tried to initiate sex with me and I said no. That I wasn't feeling it. And today in the morning she woke up and told me "can I ask you something? Don't want to upset you but are you OK? Because last night I tried to initiate sex and you didn't want to. Do you still like me?" And I said: if you want me to fuck you befo…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:45 PM
1

Nice articles, I've read them all but I'll check on them again. Yes, desire cannot be negotiated is something I repeat on my mind almost everyday, you can't force someone to desire you. She sees you as her bitch. "I can get this loser to do whatever I want", is what she's thinking, no matter if her prefrontal cortex is tells her you just care about her and are just being nice This. I won't enter on that frame. I wouldn't do tasks for her even when some of them could be caring/considerated. That'…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 05:11 PM
1

Sorry, english is not my native language. What happened is that my LTR gets my boundarie. Not literally, but I explained her that I wouldnt consider a relationship with a girl who in a commited monogamous relationship doesn't give me sex. So, what I think my LTR deep inside is telling me is "I didn't respect your boundarie. I didn't have sex with you last night and I know it. I know what I did. Are you still strong with your boundarie". I think she's testing me, because she said It like she was …
/r/askTRP17/09/17 05:01 PM
1

why that? i don't get it. That's how people in TRP tell you gotta set the boundarie. like saying -My LTR has sex with me all the time -Well, I don't. I'm not doing that. -You got it ;) (indirectly, you don't consider her LTR)
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:52 PM
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That's what I came from. I see she's not whitholding, but she's refusing/doesn't want to - and that's a problem to me. I see it as a powerplay on a deep aspect. Yes, she could be tired or whatever, but if she's not getting turned on because of me initiating sex with her, that's weird, maybe i became too available to her on the last 2 weeks and she lost attraction. The relationship has been always on my terms and on my frame. But last night she was like cocky, making herself the prize and making …
/r/askTRP17/09/17 04:50 PM
2

Thanks mate, you sound like you got your ideas straight.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:39 PM
1

Don't know men, it's the second LTR I ever had and I thought 1 year together was a celebrate-worthy occasion. We see each other like twice a week. But yeah, maybe too often in the last month. I think I will go for option one, as she doesn't weapons sex. Maybe she just didn't want to. Today she is down to sex but i won't go. I'll put some dread on it.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:07 PM
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I think it's the second time in a year. Even when we both got a high sexual drive, this is weird. Maybe I'm over thinking but my position is that if she is really atracted she would fuck you all the time
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:02 PM
1

Mostly all the times we see each other. Like twice or three times a week. Anyway we spend a lot of non sexual time together but considering it was a special occasion I thought it was going to happen.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:00 PM
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Good point. She isn't winning anything, but I'm Lossing having sex when I want to. If she is attracted to me, she should be fucking me all the time. That's why I'm concerned.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:50 PM
1

Same
/r/askTRP17/09/17 12:40 PM
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Validation is what women love, and they will get it in one way or another. It's not about you, it's about her ego. Don't get reactive on this one, neither confront or get butthurted. You should be using her orbiters as a boost to your game, with an attitude of IDGAF, your LTR will see you're smooth as fuck and that you're above that silly attention game. Anyway, if you think her looks it's "too much" provocative and you have a boundarie about it, well in that case, soft next her. PD: Start dread…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 04:43 PM
1

No one enjoy that lol
/r/askTRP15/09/17 04:39 PM
1

Men, don't get paranoid and quit that beta/obsessive thoughts from your mind, you will have a shit time with this girl, the next one and the next one if you continue like this, even if you look like Arnold when he won mr Olympia. It's just a dress. Be aware (always) from other flags. Not this one. Not a big deal
/r/askTRP15/09/17 04:36 PM
2

She regret after she went nuclear and i said ok. She just want to see me, to see what I got to say to her. I think she want me to maximize my commitment, say pretty thing to her, confort and stuff. That's not gonna happen. Drama is not the way I like to give her validation/confort, because she is gonna get used to it and start acting bitchy whenever she feels like she needs more confort. Anyway, I've just activated some old plates to get in touch. I don't like the threat of the break up. Whateve…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:52 PM
3

yeah, that what I got in mind. I will keep that frame that I explain in the EDIT section. Why do you think she steps back when I easily agree to break up? Should I confort her in some way?
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:08 PM
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First of all, you're young dear OP, this will happen to you thousand of times so get used to it. At your 19 years old your mind should be in fucking so many hot chicks as you can. Don't get stucked in a LTR yet. Second, shit happens men and it's ok to feel bad, but as i can see, you're taking this straight. First, you cutted all contact wich is ok, and most people can't do that so you gotta feel proud about it. My advice? relationships and cheating depends of the point of view. With the right mi…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 01:21 AM
3

The point is that I tried to make the things equal the most I could. In my country, pubs and clubs are not the same thing: Pubs = people sitted in tables drinking beer until 1am. clubs = standing people all together in a small-fully place drinking alcohol with loud music dancing and grinding. I just go to pubs with my bros, I'm not clubbing until late hours without my LTR. Anyway, I totally agree with you with the moron part. I didn't try to change her, since the beggining she said that she wasn…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 06:44 PM
2

Thank you men, that's the frame I used to have, with a little bit of IDGAF but now I can't find that frame. I also know insecurity kills attraction, but the idea of her doing that for another men it's not pleasant.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 05:30 PM
1

Yes, I know the end is near bro. Been there, done that. I just reactivated some plates wich still responded good. I have to admit a little oneitis by my side, I feel very confortable with this LTR and I stopped plating so far. So starting all these stuffs again it's kinda stressing to me.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:42 PM
2

Shoud't I dig into it? I think that if I ask about the when or why of the topic, she will have no excuse and she will break by her own. The bad thing is that I'll end up being a little insecure about the question, even if I ask them in a casual way.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:29 PM
1

Yes, it's something that would happen every once and awhile. Wouldn't be every weekend. I think she felt locked because I settled a boundarie in wich she can't do that. Still, the waxing stuff it's weird to me. I don't think she would do that to see me if the she was going to receive me with fights. I'm kinda on a cheat-o-phobia frame. Would you think I should do something about it? I asked her when did she do that and she told me yesterday, but Her schedule was full, I don't see the time to do …
/r/askTRP02/09/17 04:13 PM
1

Dear OP, those are not shit test. Those are red flags. This is disrespect. The boundarie could have been settled, But your reaction to the breach of the boundary is incorrect. We don't comunicate. We don't say "enough". Talking doesn't work because you give her the power. We act. So, when she talk about her ex, you don't get mad or reactive, you just stop paying her attention or leave. Don't let her say time to leave. You should be leading the things in a LTR. If she say she want to leave just s…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:59 AM
2

Sounds good. Doesn't work.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:50 AM
2

You're right my friend. Your mate is tryng to cover her lack of sexual skills with eating pussy. A friend of mine has like 7 inches fingers (lol) he plays the piano. When he fingers a girl, he can touch her throat haha. But he has premature ejaculation, so it's like nothing. The thing is that nothing arouses a girl like being fucked. Being shaked and so. PIV is what creates more emotional and physical influence in her state. So, about your question: Penetration is way more important than eating …
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:47 AM
2

Dude, you met her a month ago. I wouldn't make a big deal about this. Just keep on fucking her until one of you both get tired of that. Also, was you considering her for a LTR? otherwise, I don't see why do you care so much about her not getting over the ex. If you was considering her, I gotta bad news to you: She's not worthy. Enjoy your dick being polished by her blows until you find a new one.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:42 AM
6

This is classic, one of the most common shit test ever. She is just testing your frame. The guys in fact could not even exist. The right way to handle this, is being not reactive, agree & amplify. one of the answers I use to say are: "Nice" and then continue talking like nothing happened "Is he cute?" "She talks to you because he want to met me" "He sound amazing, you should go out with him" The important thing is that you gotta show a frame in wich you don't feel any threat. It doesn't natter w…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:37 AM
1

Again, thank you for your time and the honest advice. I just started to think that people should not apply TRP concepts in hardcore mode on a LTR. I think it's a calibration between value + romance. Just alpha traits wouldn't work. They will look for romance and support in someone else. I get the dynamic you're pointing and I totally agree. She wants me to increase my commitment to her but crying like a little kid. I told her the same thing I always say: as long as you continue doing X, we will …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:30 PM
1

No men, don't wanna get paranoid out of nothing. Those orbiters should pump up my game, showing myself as a IDGAF attitude. I talked to my LTR and was more wanting my commitment and giving me comfort test rather than cheating stuff.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:50 PM
2

We talked a moment ago and all I can see is confort test, but i wanna see your opinion because you're endorsed lol. She was sad because she said I dont pay enough attention to her, that im focused in my stuff. Deep inside she loves it, so I told her "since the begining of the relationship I was sincere: I come first and then you." Then she said if I only want her for sex. I played with it and said "no, also i like the way you cook for me". I told her that sex is important to me, and a girl who d…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:29 AM
2

Thanks bro, I will keep improving myself not to keep this girls, just for myself and for the development of qualities that any girl would find attractive. Not just my LTR
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:40 PM
1

Yes, also she wanna be up for summer Wich is in 4 months here and I you spect results in 4 months of gym you're crazy. Of course I won't spoil her
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:38 PM
2

Yes, she is now on dread game and I feel it. But I was always on dread game, and I don't know if it works. Lifting is not something new to me, is something I do in a regular basis. Appearance? I'm always getting haircuts, tan, new clothing. I'm starting to think that all of those stuffs are not enough.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:24 PM
1

Not really, I used to talk to her about the benefits of gym but she was like denied. she was even annoyed about me talking about it. That's why it's weird.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:18 PM
1

Thanks for the honest advice men.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 04:11 PM
3

Yes, I know. That's the famous "It's not yours, it's just your turn". I was just trying to figure out if this behaviour was something to be worried about. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:52 PM
3

Bro, relax. As I can notice, you're a dude who have his ideas straight. So, stop blaming yourself, because you're not responsable of a desire wich is not yours. It was her desire to end up things like that. Me and the other RP bros will cheer you up, no doubt of it. But first of all, let me remind you some things you already know and some things you mentioned too: Awalt, It's not yours, it's just your turn. That's by far the hardest reality to digest, it's like the RP is actually a pill made of …
/r/askTRP21/08/17 12:06 AM
11

The first one was reasonable, don't be a douche. She even gave you a blow. The second one is questionable, but she fucked you 2 times, didn't she? maybe it was enough for her.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 06:47 PM
0

I will use it next time hah
/r/askTRP18/08/17 05:53 PM
1

First of all, thank you for your reply. I'm in the insecurity area, but so does she. As i mentioned, I had some orbiters on my bday party and my LTR noticed that. I thought this was going to work for me as a social proof for her, but as she started to feel insecure of those orbiters, i started to feel paranoic about why is she behaving like that. That's why I started to think in the "jealousy projection" of her doing a cheating stuff or whatever. Yes, I'm invested. I quitted the rambo/hardcore p…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 02:47 AM
1

Yeah you right bro, but damn youre being cold blooded with me, have some mercy lol. Yeah, I will try to figure it out as soon as I can. Totally agree with the hiding thing, it doesn't matter what or why.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 12:18 AM
1

Ok, let's say she's cheating. What can you do? seems kinda silly break up without proofs. Also, calling on her shit is stupid because girls will always tell you that theyre not cheating, and then you'll end up as insecure. What would be your plan? besides keeping your shit together and continue focusing on yourself, lifting, plating, etc?
/r/askTRP18/08/17 12:09 AM
1

Call on her shit would end up as insecure as fuck. Any advice?
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:24 PM
1

Come on bro, I want to stop getting paranoid. Is there any key signal she may start doing so I can realize something wrong is happening? We talk about people we know, she talks about her boss, about her work colleagues. People in work in general. So is she cheating with all of them? Doesn't seems to fit
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:23 PM
0

Maybe shes kinda cheating emotionally. I feel confident (so far) that I'm her best option so she has no need to cheat, however hypergamy and Awalt are doing his job. Come on bro, I got college girl partners too, and I study with them and I talk about them to and nothing happens. However, I'll keep an eye on it.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:56 PM
1

Women are from Venus, men are from mars.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:34 PM
1

Thank you mate. It's been so helpful. She just keep them as college partners (so far.) They don't share time out of the college (so far, again). We both agree that going out with a single boy/girl is consider a date and it's not part of our relationship courtesy. I'll keep an eye on it.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:26 PM
1

Thanks mate, I totally agree with you. I don't know if there is an imbalance. You see, I'm not a natural, and I come from a blue pill mindset. Thanks to TRP I stared lifting and improving myself since 3 years ago or stuff. So my LTR knows I got a higher SMV than hers, mostly because of lifting. The imbalance is tricky. Quick example: in my bday party my LTR was jealous as fuck because a friend of mine bring a girl friend who was checking me out. The thing is that I gave my LTR to much comfort. I…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:22 PM
1

Thank you for the honest feedback. It's been so helpfull. Yeah, lastly she's beeing so cheat-o-phobic and she made me be phobic a little bit too. The difference is that she can show her weakness and inseciurity but I can't.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 02:57 PM
2

Thanks for the feedback. Yes, she often says I'm not possesive and I'm not jealous in a negative way, like expeting me to do that. But "Look what she does, not what she say". If I did it, i will end up as insecure and the attraction will fade away. Anyway, I'm a human too, and I feel insecure too sometimes. She shares her insecurities with me everytime. There is no an alpha way to share it to her too, without end up needy or insecure?
/r/askTRP17/08/17 02:50 PM
2

Men, are you being serious right now? You should not care about him. He is rejecting your gf? Your gf will be even more attracted. The problem is your LTR. And she's not worthy at all.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 12:04 AM
4

It's a classical move bro, and the easiest one to spot. They're fooling each other because of you, so you don't realize what they both are up to. Luckilly, you got TRP bros here and your guts, which are telling you to be alert. Honestly, 2 years is the end of the honeymoon phase IMO. If she hasn't already cheated on you with this guy, eventually she will. Besides that, hiding stuffs and constantly talking/texting to him is disrespectful as fuck, and at least soft next worthy. She isn't worried a…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:18 PM
9

"It's complicated" "We don't cuddle after sex so i guess it's not that serious" "I don't know, we're not facebook official" "Sometimes" "I got a lot of girlfriends, wich one of them are you talking about?"
/r/askTRP10/08/17 03:13 PM
1

I will go with that one. "For as long as you....X"
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:13 PM
2

I've been reading therational male article about GNO in LTR and now i feel really confused. In one side, Rollo says that the GNO is a shit test. You gotta let her do "whatever she wants". And let your silence inspire more dread than your words. Basically, he's talking about make her hamster spin. In the other hand, here in TRP people say that you gotta set the boundarie as "I don't date girls who do GNO" or "My girlfriend doesn't go on GNO" both points of view seems to be contradictory to me now…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:43 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 02:41 PM
1

Why terrible bro? I mean, lube is not negotiable.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:22 PM
2

There are 2 differences here: AWALT and Disrespect. Your GF will ALWAYS be interested in other guys, and she will think about them fucking her hard in the ass and stuff. That's normal. AWALT. Plus, you does it too with the hot girls in the streets, the models on tv, etc. You get the point. Disrespect it's what happens when your GF behaviour is fucked up. A friend of mine GF for example, flirts with guys in front of him, talks about her exes in front of him and me. Tha's wicked shit, I would dump…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 11:54 AM
4

*Ex gf
/r/askTRP02/08/17 04:06 PM
1

Yes, I know that betaization is coming in the form of "Our relationshiop is getting more serious, I want to feel 100% of your commitment" from her side. She wants me to commit to her completly. Like I don't even talk to other girl friends. That's not possible. Of course I'm not giving her my everything. I'll never do it. I play with this, I amuse myself with her. But in the other side, I don't want her to have unmet needs. Part of the calibration AF/BB is to have a little bit of confort when LTR…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 08:42 PM
5

Thanks for your honest feedback. It's really usefull. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:26 PM
3

Yeah bro haha I get the point. She said "I will have an appointment with DR. * name of famous surgeon * " And I said "If that's a new name for my dick, your tits can have all the appointments they want ;) " Yes, I think she crossed a boundarie, and the fact that she's insecure doesn't justifies snoop on my phone. Eventually she will confess and I'm gonna punish her for that.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 03:25 PM
-1

Kids, don't do drugs. Simple.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:41 PM
9

Don't get paranoid with TRP dear OP. The "it's not yours, it's just your turn" is a quote written mostly by cucked angry dudes, it's not so dramatic all the time. Technically, you could be in a LTR and she won't cheat on you if you're her best option all the time. But we all know this shit is hard. Women cheat because men cheat, and because people in general cheat. It's human nature. If you're chad and you're billy beta bucks at the same time, LTR is mostly not to cheat. (mostly, never is 100% s…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 09:11 PM
7

Texting just for logistic is plate- oriented IMO. In a LTR, you can have little chats, but only if you have something to say. I've never started a text conversation with my LTR saying "Hey, how are you?" and stuff. If I have nothing to say, I don't text.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 09:08 PM
3

Dude, wtf. We all know you don't wanna next her, probably you spent some time/money/feelings with her and you don't wanna next that bitch. That's fine. So, if you're not gonna next her, how could she know your boundaries? She knows she's being bitchy and that's not good. She fucking knows it. The problem is that you're a pussy who doesn't say anything to her. She's being disrespectful dear OP, don't make your hamster spin. Don't try to get rational. Disrespect is a soft next here in TRP.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 09:05 PM
2

Lift or die. Go to the gym men, eventually you'll get stucked at home.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:25 AM
2

It's called a Gym Bro. Look for someone with your same body condition or someone who has recently started lifting. Little chat and then you can lift + spot together. Not a big deal men.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:23 AM
1

Na, dread is something you gotta apply 24/7 in your relationship, not only as a punishment. What fuckboyAWALT said is that, you gotta give her another chance, but hard next her with no explanation at all if she fuck things up again.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 11:16 PM
1

Dear OP, the situation it's tricky. We all know how social media affects our relationships, specially snapchat. It's complicated but you handle it perfectly. The boundarie was settled, and she knows it, because you soft nexted her. Good. The thing is that, you will never know if she is getting into your frame, or if she is still doing it behind your back. If I were you, I'd go for the rule of 2 as /u/fuckboyAWALT said
/r/askTRP18/07/17 11:02 PM
1

In the cheating market, soon you will find that the question is not "How hot should be the girl i'm cheating my gf with?" but "Am I 100% sure this girl im cheating my gf with won't roast me in front of her?
/r/askTRP18/07/17 05:01 PM
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This is a hard next situation and you know it, dear OP. You seem like a dude who make things right and got his ideas straight. You won't have problem to find another good girl. This is ultra red flag bitchy behaviour. She lied to you in your face And she only showed you part of the truth. You will never know the rest, but your guts will gave you the proper spoiler. Dump that girl, she's not worthy. Trust me. Yes, every girl want some orbiters and they want their attention, but nude pics with an …
/r/askTRP18/07/17 04:55 PM
1

Haha Todd is a mechanical engineer. I did a bootcamp with him.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:59 PM
1

Cause we're fucking nerds bro
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:50 PM
-5

everything
/r/askTRP17/07/17 04:52 PM
1

quit social media first. Specially snapchat. Get some important/productive things to do. Snapchat is for silly bitches
/r/askTRP17/07/17 02:32 PM
1

the question shoul'd be "how many did you" instead of "would you"
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:30 PM
1

First rule of TRP (or third rule lol, dunno): "Don't LDR"
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:21 PM
3

I treat my legs as I treat my girlfriends. I ignore them until they dissapear.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:17 PM
1

What about the food you eat and the hours you sleep?
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:37 PM
1

Why do you care so much for your girlfriend, when you're the one who has a lot of work to do? If you got no friends as YOU say, you got no social proof of how cool you are. Your gf knows it, that's why she is not worried about you, screaming ultimatums to her about looking for new options. Before thinking about a (next) new girl, start developing a new yourself.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:33 PM
2

It's just a compliment, you shouldn't take this so serious. They don't say the L stuff in the same way we do.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 05:11 PM
1

I know she will get fucking mad, but i will consider it in a few weeks. I don't wanna look like i'm taking revenge.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 05:01 PM
1

What type of relationship will you ever be able to form with with any woman if you flee when your insecurities get provoked? It's a good point bro. I like to be in a relationship in wich (besides all the egos) I'm the leader and I'm the prize. All the dynamic of my LTR was in that way. Flying away when things become messy seems childy to me. It's like avoid confroting. The thing is that i'm flaking relative to boundaries. I mean, I don't thing it's healthy to complain about everything and being …
/r/askTRP10/07/17 04:58 PM
1

Besides all the bad vibes from your message, you're right, Of course. I never said I'm the neighborhood boss men, just doing my homework. Lifting, reading on TRP and stuff. I'm the proof that looks it's not everything. She isn't afraid, because when she start jealosing me, I comfort her and I stop her hamster. I thought that was what people do in a healthy LTR. I know that neediness kills attraction and stuff, totally agree with you, and my insecure frame would do that.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 04:16 PM
1

Yes, she has this kinda behaviour. She never want to be less than me, or feel less validated than me. She's 22 and I'm 24 by the way. She's happy with my success on gym, college, work. But deep inside I see she take it as a challenge, so she have to do something in order to be at same level. Anyway she works and study too. So, suppose I take this as a shit test (I'm cool with shit test, I've passed them amusing and with a&a and it was effective) but shit test got boundaries/limits too. Wich one …
/r/askTRP10/07/17 12:29 PM
1

This is a honest advice, I appreciate it. Suppose I did something considered red flag, I expect her to dump me. Some girls dumped me in the past and I feel respect from them, because they had the guts to leave me and they got self Steem. You know what's weird? My LTR was the jealous/insecure in the relationship. And I'm flaking with this single event. My LTR was jealous of me talking to my best girl friends. So, imagine how upsetted she would be if I upload a shirtless pictures or whatever. That…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 12:09 PM
1

Yeah, I think this may be happening. She's comfortable. Last week she was crying because she wanted to know about a hb8 who likes my pictures and comment on my social media. I explained her. I told her calmly that hb8 is a friend I know, yada yada yada. I comforted her, made her feel safe again. Also with a lifter girl from gym. I explained everything about this girl when my LTR was feeling jealous of her. Also she wanted to know my relation with a group of 2 girls I usually go out to Starbucks …
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:26 AM
1

But isn't it girls nature?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:19 AM
1

Don't you think it's beta?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:18 AM
1

I guess this is what will happen to me too bro. The girl knows I'm get best option (right now). She just wanna push the boundaries and test me up. I guess I will Demote her into plate at first. If she digs it ( maybe she wants it) I will keep on that. If she dont, nexting.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:17 AM
2

This is a good feedback. I setted a few boundaries in a way like "my girlfriend doesn't do x" or stuff, and she was into it. But I don't feel like I have to do a boundarie for everything! She must know things, she has to have an idea of what it's OK and what its shitty behaviour. What it's a example of what you say? What can I do now? I really felt like I was doing it great with this girl. She seems really attracted to me and my body and stuff.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:11 AM
1

Context: I've been shit tested as fuck for the last weeks. LTR jealous about me lifting, LTR jealous about my girl friends who comment stuffs on my Facebook. You get the point, I wasn't the jealous one.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:17 AM
2

You got me bro. You're right even when I think it is disrespectful in a LTR. Youre right: Im in a comfort frame now. I stopped spinning plates a few months ago, I had some hook-ups with plates and that made me feel so chilled dude, totally abundance. But now I know that if I walk away I have to make a little effort in order to get pussy, company, cleaning, cooking and stuff. I told you, I'm good with my SMV and I got social proof. She had to make up the shit out of her and dress slutty and add s…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:13 AM
0

Thanks for the reply. I know men, I think I'm attached to the investment that I made with her, more than herself. Definitelly I'm on her frame at this point. I felt like she was afraid of me leaving, because it's the first LTR I have since improving myself in TRP + lifting and she felts it. There is attraction between us. But I think I made a slip of the pen on this one. I don't know why I am feeling insecure.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 02:53 AM
1

It's a good mindset. Thanks m8
/r/askTRP10/07/17 02:33 AM
-2

I don't think it's mateguarding bro, I just feel disrespected. Wouldn't you feel like that?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 02:20 AM
5

It's been a few flags I've been noticing this days and that one triggered me. Anyway, that one by itself it's enough to feel disrespected IMO bro.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:30 AM
6

First of all, thank you for the feedback. I don't wanna date a prada model, The girl is ok. I feel attracted to her. About the demote stuff, I see what will happen: She will feel me cold (wich I am) and will start asking what is wrong with me. (even when I guess she knows what bothered me). At this point: I don't know what to reply (without falling in the beta frame) and whatever I say, she will make it my fault ("You can't get upset for this", "I will delete the picture if you want me to do" "i…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:08 AM
1

is this a troll question?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:57 PM
3

Men, you're 25. You should be fucking some 18 years old babes. not milfs.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:57 PM
1

I always read your coments with the morgan freeman voice. You sound wise mate, cheers!
/r/askTRP06/07/17 10:22 PM
1

I really appreciate your advice. A few weeks ago you sent me a similar reply with this kinda mindset. The thing is that I got this tatooed in my forehead "Girls love what they do not have, and when they have it, they do not want it anymore" That's how I feel comfort works. Silly example: My LTR told me once that she loved when I sent her a text in the early morning. Like she started the day with my cheering message. And i did it once or twice in a year. I'd love to do it often but I got this tat…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:58 PM
1

I know that not all the people are the same but let's resume it like this: 1st relationship: beta + oneitis. Way too much emotionally invested. she branchswang me for an alpha asshole (not even alpha now that I see it) 2nd relationship: getting into TRP concepts. Cold blood as fuck, confort test rain everyday. She left me because I didn't commit myself with her 3rd relationship (the actual): digesting the pild. Better balance between the alpha/beta thing. Conforting sometimes. But not too much a…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 02:10 AM
3

I'm gonna say some stuffs here. 1: Not a single girl will tell you "yeah, im fucking this dude" No. It never happens and it never will. So, next time don't even ask. Rational conversations doesn't work here my friend. You give your gf something she wants, but as I can see, it's not enough. Or you're not keeping her totally satisfied, that's why she looks something else in the other dude. But let's face it, the thing you give her, gives her confort. And she doesn't wanna lose it. So, she will nev…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 01:20 AM
5

Obviously
/r/askTRP04/07/17 10:02 AM
1

When my LTR says she is fat, I just reply "The only fat thing here is my cock when I see you" with a big smirk in my face. Bullet dodged.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:51 AM
2

Don't even think about smoking or drugs. Quit all of that shit. Quit drinking too, you will feel the god mode at this point. "healthy mind in a healthy body"
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:48 AM
1

Poeple shouldn't spend time making post of LDR, worrying about a girl they can't fuck in a daily basis.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:47 AM
1

In LTR? Not at all if you are fucking just each other and you both are clean. Anyway, there's a herpes called type 1 I guess, who lives naturally in the body. You can get that one at some point at worst, but is not dangerous.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:05 PM
1

condoms with strangers. condoms with your girl friends. condoms with the girls you know from entire life and you think they're for sure clean. (get an STD here) Nothing with LTR.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:53 AM
1

Shitposting. GTFO
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:13 AM
1

I don't believe in anything that doesn't involve bench press. Just lift dude.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:12 AM
1

At first place, I'd not date a smoker. Weed, cigarette, whatever. That's weakness. That's people who hide behind those stuff their own weaknesses. It's a red flag. Besides that, some RP dudes put this clear here: she's being disrespectfull at the best case scenario. At worst, down to fuck with that dude. No need to one-on-one interaction when LTR.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:08 AM
1

I'm pretty sure I'm making all the stuffs you say, and that I'm probably the best guy she has dated so far. (She had 2 previous LTR but she was way too young then). So far, I didn't go beta in this LTR. Shit test passed well and I never show weaknesses. I fuck her as an animal and she is really teased about my physical condition when we have sex. I agree with you, better to end up as an alpha. You will be harder to next if you're. In a general way I'd say stay as an improving men. A men who love…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:18 PM
0

Ohhh men, thank you for your time and sincere feedback, I'd upvote this thousands of times if I could. Yes, you're right. I think a lot about my game and moves, but like most of us, I'm not a natural dude, just improving myself. I went for the "fake it until you make it" and nowadays I fell comfortable with the way I am. But yes, I put brakes on my feelings. My question was just why the heck would she still talk about him? She's with me, got no doubts. So if she is still in love with her ex or w…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:14 PM
1

Bro, just wondering what this whole thing could mean.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:03 PM
1

It's cool man, you won't need to teach her how to suck it up!
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:24 AM
1

What makes you feel unconfortable?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:23 AM
1

Confidence Leadership proactivity Stoicism Charisma
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:21 AM
2

I'm not yours, it's just your turn. REVERSE AWALT PLOT TWIST
/r/askTRP21/06/17 02:21 AM
1

Facial hair + diet + haircut and you're done. not ugly, kinda average.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:56 PM
1

I did the skittles stuff once. But just give gifts for birthday and aniversary.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:23 AM
1

"Girl, Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question, the answer is yes"
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:07 PM
0

If there's "grass" on the field, you can play the "match"
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:04 PM
2

I lift at 7am men, because after 4pm the gym is full of bros who only want to train chest and the benchs are full/in use all the time. Also I have the rest of the day free to work + study. Try it at the morning, you won't feel tired the rest of the day trust me.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:01 PM
1

I'm an engineer and I have quite a lot of sex. Yes, they will see you as a BB, but if you got passion about what you do and you're kinda cool, girls will feel that passion and the'll be interested in what you do.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:54 PM
1

"Thank you"
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:50 PM
1

Yes, a like means nothing, and you shouldn't act like a pussy when your girls does it. That's why it's so important to have a strong-abundance frame, dear OP. But let's be honest, this kinda situations are red flags, obviously. She may be doing it from tons of reasons: she likes him, she wants her attention, she wants to swing, she wants to ride him. None of them are good reasons. So, if you're not confortable with her liking other guys pictures (guys you don't know and she never talked to you a…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:49 PM
1

a tinder match is nothing. Come back here and ask something after you settled a real date.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:43 PM
1

Insanity max 30. The most effective thing I've tried in my life. Don't waste time nad money in gyms
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:40 PM
1

Frusciante IMO is red pill as fuck too.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:36 PM
1

How do you do this without looking insecure? Example if I am not ok with her talking to a guy that is interested in her wont I be mate guarding if I bring it up? Mmm I'd say change your example on this one. Talking to other guys is ok. Talking to orbiters also is ok. Talking to guys who are trying to fuck her ass is ok too. Embrace that girls got it easy, So your frame on this example gotta be stoic, non reactive UNLESS she's being disrespectful with you. Respect is everything. She's being flirt…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:15 PM
2

This mostly isn't a confort test, it's a shit test to me, and I had it lot of times. Always say yes, agree and amplify on this one, don't be afraid to express your sexuality.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:58 PM
1

You're a pussy who doesn't even respect yourself. GTFO from TRP. and next that bitch.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:54 PM
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First of all I'd say comunication: you have to express your feelings anytime, never save things to yourself and bring them later. If something upsets you, you gotta talk at the moment. Not to talk ends up in passive agreesive situations or unnecesary discussions. Boundaries: Never negotiate with terrorist and kids. And girls are a mix of both of them. Your boundaries have to be respected, any fault to them ends in at least a soft next. You never talk about boundaries, just once (when you settle …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:52 PM
1

Punish by taking your attention away from her but be clear about why you're doing it. Don't let her wonder why are you doing this. Put the things that upsetted you clearly and then radio silent.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:23 PM
3

Wait, let's put things clear: is she your LTR or not? because, when dating (previous to the "are we exclusive" talk) I used to tell this to girls and girls used to tell this to me. It's a test. I see the "let me know if you wanna bang other girls" as a "I want you to bang me exclusively, tell me if I gotta search for another dude (if you're gonna be an asshole) or we can see if this realtionship we have will go a step further." Conclusion, it's a confort one to me.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:09 AM
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I wouldn't suggest to you to date a girl who has a kid. Put it in perspective and decide if it's a LTR worthy material to you or not. If the answer is yes, I'd suggest you to stay calm, eventually she will tell it to you (hope she does). If not, then that's probably one of a few things she must be hiding you. (aka she's not trusty)
/r/askTRP14/06/17 01:06 AM
4

Im gonna talk about this in my experience. As you know, LTR are TRP in hardcore mode,so you gotta embrace it and accept that things will be tricky in some aspects. Can someone summarize dreadgame /share examples that worked well for them from experience ? Dread is love, Dread is not punishment. On a daily basis, you gotta be implementing Dread game. You don't apply dread when your LTR is bitchy, you do it all the time. Why? because, dear reader, we still don't know what women are looking for in …
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:53 PM
2

Nice comeback
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:39 PM
1

Bro, if you're making those 5 days a week programs, I can tell you, you won't get bulky. At least cut ripped, (I've done this programas for a lot of years). Get in the gym and lift heavy height (dumbells, bars, etc). How long will it takes? depends on your current body and your genetics. I was always ripped and un 1 month of lifting I could see the changes. Anyway, it's all about nutrition. If you wanna get bigger, you gotta eat more so you can add height to your body (no, it's getting heavier i…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 01:21 PM
1

Lastly I've been experiencing that ignoring the girl is even more effective than agree and amplify, Try it.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 01:13 PM
1

well, confort test are not bad men, they give it to you when you show them so much masculine/alpha polarity. I mean, you can't be mad about girls nature. Shit/confort test will never stop, with this LTR and with the next ones
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:58 PM
1

men, if you already call her a validation seeker whore, you dont respect her that much either. Its simple, if she does something that bothers you (when she knows she does, becasue the boundarie was settled) you gotta soft/hard next her. PS: validation seekers/ snapchatters are not LTR IMO
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:56 PM
2

No, they don't. They turn the switch off after a breakup. In their minds, they change the whole story and they believe it. Its just a matter of a few days to girls to forget everything about you and reach a frame in wich they say "how could i date this beta boy, such a waste of time" even when you was the perfect bf and she had her needs filled during the relationship. It's some kinda magic they have
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:53 PM
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Totally bro, being nerd it's just a part of us. Im an engineer and computers are my life. I just consider it cool, maybe the coolest thing ever. In my frame, being smart is the most badass thing you can be. Are you a cars driver? lol what a waste of a brain. better engineering anyway hahah im not comparing myself to nothing, i just love what I do and i dont give a fuck. Girls will feel that passion and if you can make it sound genuine and cool, girls will be interested in your nerdy stuffs, trus…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:48 PM
1

You just wanna dump her for a hug in a girls night out? If that's the only red flag, i think you over reacted there. Anyway, as there is a ton of girls, its always good to make a fresh new start. Good for you men, you got some balls for not falling into oneitis even after 5 years. Tell us the fiel report of the breakup then
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:37 PM
1

lol wtf dude
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:33 PM
4

You're trolling? Go to the sidebar. Not the sidebar from TRP, the sidebar of LIFE
/r/askTRP09/06/17 10:30 PM
2

Bro, I'd not talk about cheating at this point, because she seems kinda clean to me, and you too. The thing is that if sex isn't going well, cheating/dumping you could be a consecuence. If you're wondering: "It's my fault?" I'd ask ¿how can you judge your performance in sex? we talk a lot here about DEVI, you can find it in sex god method. Would help you quite a lot. Anyway, if you read sex god method and you tell me "Hey Tony, this information is useless to me, I know how to fuck a girl and als…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 10:26 PM
1

You will be the next one when you give her the validation she wants. Next.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 10:15 PM
1

No, no no. You're framing everything wrong. As another dude said, you got a lot more to work on, rather than lifting. You care too much about things you can't change when you should just focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 10:11 PM
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You just have to compare yourself with the older versions of yourself. Not other dudes. I will never be as rich as bill gates, but as an engineer, i'm getting richier than my high school myself. Remember, it's called self development for a reason. Of course it's fucking worthy. Keep lifting, and when in doubt, lift harder.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 09:42 PM
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Bro, i don't know if it's the same to you, but to me, STD are serious shit. OP's LTR should be open with him on this one. Maybe it's not cheating, but if you carry stuff like those, better to be clear about it.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:09 AM
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Lol you're trying to shit test your girl, but you can't handle her shit test. Don't fight a war you can't win. It's almost silly. I'd try the shit test you did, leave it for the girls. The boundaries about other dudes should be stablished clearly, with a hard next if she doesn't apply to them. It's almost simple but you made it complicated. Girls will always qualify themselves and talk about how other dudes/orbiters gives her attention from the cold, but FOR SURE they will do it if you talk abou…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:02 PM
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I can tell you by my experience, that if she isnt already doing it by her own, she won't. In fact, she will bombard you with jealousy + confort/shit test with more frequency. She will try to move you to a bigger commitment instance and also, she will try to betaizate you in all the ways she can. LTR never want their bf to be more attractive (higher SMV) because of the preselection. Example: Im lifting as fuck and my LTR talks about (when will we get married? why do you lift? I bet you got some g…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:58 PM
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"She is pushing me to commit but I don't feel like it" I BET YOUR ASS YOU DONT WANT TO. If you even thought about it just for a second i'm gonna kick your blue pill ass. Never take a cheater as a LTR because she will do the same to you men. Tell her to go away. She won't. but it's the proper way to keep her. Just keep on fucking her, don't invest nothing.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:52 PM
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Dude, why do you fall into her game/frame so easy? Look what she does, not what she say That's almost the core of TRP talking about AWALT. She says "he's not her type" but she met her in the subway from the cold, adds him on Fb, dates him and fucks him. You see how that principle works?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:47 PM
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First: I really don't know why people still care and consider a green flag a virgin/christian girl. That's so boring dude. Second: You already broke up when you move to a LDR. LDR are no relationships at all and they never work. Core of TRP comunity. (go sidebar for more info) Third: Read this https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6556hg/diomedes_triple_strength_rp_guide_to_ltr_breakups/ Your ex girl just want your time and validation and support. She will eventually cheat on you again if…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:44 PM
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Men, when girls are afraid of really loosing you, they will say whatever they know in the entire language to keep you under them. Don't listen. The fact that she hyde it and she never told you that she had previous encounters with no protection is a major red flag. STD are serious shit and HPV is serious shit too since there is not a cure for it. It could live in your body with no harm, but it could get really problematic, don't wanna put you in concern anyway. For example, when I started my LTR…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:34 PM
1

Men you're so deep in the dopamine adiction that will never find lifting fun, it will be a pain to you, always. I feel sad because most people around me got so much confort doing stuff who gives you instant satisfaction (dopamine) that they don't even move their asses for nothing but easy stuffs. Lifting will change the paradigm: in order to get results and satisfaction you need discipline, constancy and determination. Those competencens are chore in life and TRP in general. Keep lifting, quit t…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:26 PM
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I will use this one next time
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:03 AM
1

how bro?
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:44 AM
1

In my case I can say my LTR kinda stopped having interest in guy friends since I started hanging out with a few female friends (one of them was a plate a few years ago and now we're in touch). But you gotta be chilled if you already know the guy. I believe there's no such a thing as friendship between women and men. Will not work. Yes, there's a chance of one of them getting attached/hokked to the another and then fuck or stuff. In LTR, i'd agree on male friends/partners in the laboral/education…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:41 AM
1

that simple? haha
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:34 AM
1

well, im glad you find TRP and you got some good benefits from it. IMO, you're doing wich almost any guy in TRP journey must do, glad for you. The thing here is that something is not working, even when you do those stuffs. Maybe it's like you said "fake it until you make it" so you still are not making it, but at its time im pretty sure you will. About your LTR, does she has something in common with the first one? red flags or stuff? maybe it's the girl dude, they both make you feel weak or inse…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:36 AM
1

i got the natural by MAX RSD and it rocks dude, he cover mostly the topic of frames
/r/askTRP01/06/17 01:02 AM
1

Perfect, i see your point. and I totally agree with you, I just couldn't see it clearly, but now I do. Thanks mate. I laughed so hard when you talked about commitment, prize, future. This girl usually tells me that she wants to marry me, or talks about we both being old and together. Of course i take it just as a compliment/flirt and nothing real (AWALT + look what she does, not what she say.) I usually respond with "I don't know, im hard to get", "I probably be dead tomorrow" or "how can i be s…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:48 PM
2

Pretty good feedback bro, but I got a question to your response. I thought that telling her as long as you keep doing X, we will be ok. Telling in a subtle way that she has to move her ass to me in order to continue in the LTR. But I see your point. Do you think that her, unconsciously knows she can do it better? To me, it's the best LTR i've had so far. But for sure she may get better in some stuffs. Anyway, all my needs are pretty good covered with this girl. She actually DOES move her ass for…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 06:17 PM
1

You still have to ride a looong road my friend. Lot of red flags here, and a few things you're not solving well. 1) she broke up with me but wanted me back 2 weeks later That was kinda enough to me to realize your issue. So she takes 2 weeks as a single girl to do whatever she want without you knowing (trust me, you can never know what she did. Girls are smart) and then when SHE decides that SHE wants you back, she has you. No, no, no. When a girl break ups with you its: Ok, have a great time an…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 05:15 PM
1

Thanks for the feedback bro. Well, I made a complete year of a program called insanity max 30, you can purchase it online. With that hiit routine, I reached a 8% body fat and well defined muscles and abs. Now I started hypertrophy 3 months ago, currently taking creatine + whey protein. I train 5 times a week, and got a routine chest/biceps - back/triceps - shoulders/legs. The other 2 days just cardio. But being with almost no body fat makes the whole difference. The changes appear so quick and t…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 03:33 AM
2

You dont need nothing from no one.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 12:25 AM
1

Give her my number.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 11:19 PM
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Because you don't love yourself enough. Remember: No one can give you what you can't achive by your own.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 11:17 PM
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There is two ways to proceed now: The right way and the wrong one. Im gonna take some time to explain you the right one, and i would really apreciate if you follow those simple steps: 1) Embrace it: It happened, the happy ever after fantasy ended up, hitting you in the nose. Well, AWALT of course. It was your fault? well, maybe. In that case you gotta rethink about your mistakes and try to fix in your next relationship. As i can see, your mistakes were avoid red flags, and you didn't take your c…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 11:16 PM
1

If you're having issues about her having other options, i don't think "you have a plate" i think "she has you"
/r/askTRP29/05/17 08:05 PM
2

If you only want a LTR for sex, you should consider it again. Not healthy at all men.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:59 PM
1

removing the hand is being reactive. You should say something witty and just remove at worst after her responde.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 07:11 PM
1

The simple fact that you're not scared as shit from orbiters, sometimes it's enought to deal with this. That's the frame people should reach even if they don't have abundance. The context will say if it's a shit test or not. Sometimes it's obvious, sometimes more subtle, anyway, she telling you about other guys ALWAYS has the purpose of see your reaction. Don't make a big deal from this, because I see it's not a problem to you, neither to your GF. She knows how to deal with orbiters and how to r…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 07:03 PM
1

Bro, im really impressed. I was waiting for some lame beta oneitis argument, but as i read "I told her that it's over" I get really happy and relaxed. Took my breath again hah. Fine, you're so RP and with a high amount of self steem that you cut out that girl. Congratulations. You did what almost anyone here can't do. Of course it's her fault. She went on girls night out, she danced with the boy, she moved with him to another club. At this point, it's a hard next for sure. Anything that comes la…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:39 PM
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If you laught in a "im too cool for this shit, look how dumb those guys are" you're making it wrong. The right mindset to orbiters (even if they're not beta but usually they're. Also if they text like they would kill themselves, that's the same thing as scream "im desperate") it's to not give too much important. I used to say something like "of course you got orbiters, have you looked yourself in the mirror? your booty is bomb" or "Im cool with the orbiters, i dont blame them. You're a hotty" or…
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:31 PM
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No, just one time should be enough. If you embrace the reality you can internalize it so easy. Yeah, girls fucks other dudes and your ex too. Aren't you doing the same? I don't think your ex would matter bro. Not a big deal, there is a lot of fishes in the sea. As long as you aren't emotionally attached to your ex, that shouldn't be a concern to you.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:41 PM
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If you have to make an effort to get something from a plate, then just don't do the effort. Plates doesn't worth our effort, time, or commitment. Also the abundance mentality will help you to not get focused just with one.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:38 PM
1

When you have to pursue.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:26 PM
1

No. By now, just assume it. Don't bring that conversarion. At the time, she will do it. And if she don't, it's because you suck. (no offense haha). A girl will look forward for the commitment of a guy she sees as worthy.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:25 PM
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Really men? You're about to get roasted because of this. Are you upset about some pretty random girl in the street having sex with another guy wich isn't you? because an ex gf is a random stranger girl too, and if you don't see it this way, you got oneitis my friend. A serious one. I can see a picture of my ex LTR from 3 years getting double anal penetrated by 2 goats and i'll be like "meh, not my kinda porn"
/r/askTRP27/05/17 09:23 PM
1

Of course bro, always lifting. I do and everyone should do It just for the sale of It. But i know a lot of fatty guys getting pussy so easy.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:34 PM
1

kinda average
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:15 PM
1

Of course, anyway get away from the looks stuff, i know bulky good looking people from my gym who are sooo beta you can't even imagine. Yeah, looks will improve your game and value, but as long as you got a strong frame and a solid inner game, you'll be cool.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:13 PM
1

They don't care at all bro, at least they will look at you 1 second and then continue to their boring lifes.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:09 PM
1

What this guy said OP. Don't try to figure out why she's being bitchy. New boy? assume your LTR will always be chased by new boys. (here comes your frame and your self esteem. Do you get paranoid knowing she's being chased? No, here in TRP we are the prize) Shit test? maybe, but you already know how to pass them. Remember that being needy kills attraction, is the main cause of break ups, cheating, etc. So, figure out if you're being needy and fix it. Nothing wrong with no texting or stuff, keep …
/r/askTRP25/05/17 10:37 PM
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Im starting to think that most people who have the issue like OP they don't know how to calibrate a woman. If she's making out with you, touching your dick and stuff, she has already made the choice to fuck you. I remember when i was 20, this girl came to my house, far from 20min travel by taxi, she brought beer and chips. And i was so awkward that she has to tell me "can we go to your room?". There, we made out and when i made the move she said "no" and i was ok :'( crying like a faggot. Yes, s…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:41 PM
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It's ok bro, there are people out there (including myself) who need advice from some other bros. Most of us don't have any RP friends IRL. Being faggot is ok if they have the will to change it. Also, there is a lot of good field report in those post. Don't be so harsh. (Yes, im a faggot.)
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:36 PM
1

You're like me, 170cm and 58kgs. Skinny but with a little bit of belly. I was fat too, and i burnt 20kg just with cardio programs. Now do like me, forget about the cardio. there is a big different between getting fat and gain weight. It's not the same. You gotta gain weight bro, like 6 or 7 kg of muscle mass. Get bulked, add some good calories to your diet, implement proteins shakes.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:13 PM
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Take her as a dog. Train her as a dog. Reward good behaviour and punish bad ones. She say "fuck you"? give that dog a slap in the nose. (im not telling you to hit your gf lol) but you get the point right?. Sometimes just telling her to not do it is enough. In my case, LTR called me dumbass during the 1st month we dated, and i was just like "dont call me like that" and the continue with what i was saying, without being reactive. I suggest tell her "dont say it" instead of dread. also, Dread shoul…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:40 PM
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You making emphasis in "Self confidence is not an issue, I believe in myself and in my values as a Man" makes me feel like that's what you're lacking here. But it's not a problem bro, don't want to be rude with you. People cheat if they have the situation setted to do it. It's inevitable, even the most alpha confident dudes get cheated. So, embrace that is something that could happen, but don't get paranoid with the AWALT stuff. People in general cheat (men and women). I don't know the answer to…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:34 PM
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2 solutions, combine both of them in order to get better results: Inner development: What we always talk about here, improve your skills in your career, business, gym, hobbys, etc. Will make you feel better with yourself and put yourself in a place in wich you consider yourself a value person. Outer development: Talk to new girls, simple. Got some abundance. Even if you don't fuck them, talk to them, play, flirt. And the most important, have fun.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:27 PM
1

que onda bro
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:46 PM
1

If that's true, that's sad bro, makes me feel like i don't have to trust any girl anymore in my life. haha just kidding. Look, the world is a crazy place bro, in that bachelorette party in mexico the bride is fucking a stripper. Meanwhile, in a bacherlorette in russia, the bride is getting fucked by a goat. Nevermind, do you think that bride was like exclusive and loyal and then in her bachelorette party she sucked a few dicks, just because is the last time she will be single? nah. Not at all. I…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:43 PM
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Dread isn't always about having plates. It's about having the mindset of having plates. You can still be exclusive to one girl but got perceived from her as a guy with options. And how do you do that? focusing on you of course, just don't show her that your life spins around her. That's sooo key. Sounds stupid but this is the main cause why people is perceived as non attractive in a relationship. My golden rule is to apply Dread ALWAYS, not just when you feel like you have to because she's behav…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:39 PM
1

No LDR, please. That's so blue pill.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 05:00 PM
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That's why your dread is failing. Dread and leadership are not contradictory. From now, you hang out when YOU say to hang out. Don't be passive on that, lead the dynamics of the relationship, then the dread will make effect.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 02:47 AM
1

Can you explain this to me bro? Im following my ltr period cause we dont use condoms , and i noticed during ovulation she gives me shit test streaks. I fuck her like an animal un those days. What sbout the pill and no ovulation? She Will be chilled?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:52 PM
1

I dont see that last something to feel proud of it. Would you let your bros to priorize your gf? anyway, going back to the main issue, what do you think its your concern with she going out with the bad influencer girl? what do you think it could do?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 08:58 PM
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You failed when you did nothing about her talking to her ex bf. I know, I know. There could be a 1% chance that they have a mature ex relationship, in wich they don't wanna fuck each other, there is no sexual desire at all, and they both are happy because their life continues in sepparated ways, but both are happy. Lol, that's its just 1% IMO, not real at all. When both exes talk each other, at least one of them is still hooked with the other. So, you failed there bro, no boundarie about that. E…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 08:20 PM
1

Yes, AWALT. But don't get paranoid with that anyway. Let's face it, our group of friends defines us. We hang with people we have common interest. You CAN tell how a person is looking at hxs group of friends, no doubt. You can tell it to her, but not in a reactive way. Just saying that you think that the things that carrot is doing it's not good at all. It's not beta, is just telling her you don't think that carrot bitch is right. After that yes, listen what she say (also how does she react). If …
/r/askTRP17/05/17 08:10 PM
2

Lol could be haha.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 02:01 AM
1

When im using equipment, people ask me "are you using it?" or "do you have many set lefts" an the reply is honest, "yes im using it" or "i got X sets left" but with the add of "but you can use it, no problem" I do the same, I ask people to use the equipment they're using when they stop for another excercise. I usually adjust the equipment as they were using it after i finish it.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:30 AM
1

LDR it's not a relationship at all. If you gotta invest youself emotionally in someone who lives far from 10km from your place, it means that you got no one on your city who will bang you. I know it's hard but it's like that bro. Distance kills everything, it just don't work so, next time don't put effort or investment.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:24 AM
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I don't think is a big deal bro, I got a foreign friend for like 9 years, and i talk to her too like with sexual innuendo etc. Its something at long distance, we all now here that it leads to nothing! people who are in a LDR got no relationship at all! But as someone said, if she doesn't make you feel confortable or secure, its enough to dump. Also, girls with this kinda behaviours are attention seekers. It's not something good bro. The next time, try to not react at all about a random guy on he…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 01:17 AM
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Kinda gold digger? Gifts for special occasion it's ok. And pay for every meal you take it's not that ok bro, why not to go 50/50? how do you think she'd react if you say it? Maybe you should consider demoting her. This is not something you can fix with lifting hah, it has nothing to do with you. Talking about fancy and expensive stuffs? mmm sounds like a superficial person to me. beware
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:47 AM
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She won't be all the time available to you, and you shouldn't be 100% available to her too. Dread game is the key now, is something you should apply in your LTR and it has nothing to do with revenge or being butt hurted. You can easily aplly it even when you're in the best happy moment of your LTR Make sure you just don't get reactive with the Dread or when she sais no to you, Punish it with dread. Plus you got time and investment for yourself.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:38 AM
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what the_shape said OP, this guy got it clear.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:34 AM
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If you're keeping alpha as you say, I don't see why do you care about her and the average sex she's giving to you. Before I continue, I'd recomend sex god method, it's a good read. Now, if you got your sex life in a downstairs spiral at the 2- 3 months, somethings it's not working. Im not saying its your fault, sometimes it isn't. Maybe you just don't have sex chemistry with this girl. Did you have another experience like that? Sex is an important part of the relationship. Would you consider kee…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:32 AM
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Do you really need it? why do you want her to CRAVE for you? I had the same feeling like you, just after it took the pill. But, god damn it im not justin bieber, just a regular guy who is making his best to improve. So, don't try to make her crave just like this, it's not going to happen. Never. Mostly if you started it with beta behaviours/weekness/not leading mindset/poor sex. After taking the the pill, the girl shouldnt be a goal to you, she is just a consequence of your own improval and self…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:25 AM
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I don't think you need a advice on this one, things are going great for you IMO. Leading is key, and you're doing it. You're saving her the pressure to decide what to do, so deep inside she says "thank you" every time you propose a trip, adventure. As long as you keep on the lead stuff, just focus on have a good time for your own, amusing yourlsef. And she will be having fun with your own fun. If you feel like a militar soldier, making all the plans just by you, you just give her a little confor…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:21 AM
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I'd add to the # number that she's on her period, or in a bad mood, or with heacache, sick, etc. It's reasonable. Anyway im talking about this issue as a theory, didn't happen to me (yet). Just wondering what to do in the bullshit case, wich is the one i see more possible.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:15 AM
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Give her a bone sometimes dude, it's sounds like a confort test to me. You know, in LTR you gotta keep the Alpha/Beta Dichotomy in order to keep that girl attracted but also confortable. Anyway, as long as you're in the RSD stuff, you already know that she's trying to betafy you with those stuff, so just keep the balance. Amuse a little when she comes out with stuff like that.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:35 PM
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Beware with TRP in LTR. Most of the threads you will read here could make you get paranoid from being cucked. Try to look it from another perspective: If you were a girl, would you date yourself? And from this im talking about your game, how natural you're, how fit you're etc. External and internal facts that makes you valuable, SMV. So, if you have some tight game, you don't have to worry that much. And you don't have to worry from 2 perspectives: one, If you're valuable you can easily find ano…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:31 PM
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It's a plate bro, I don't know if it's your case but some people here think they own their plates. They dont. Plates are there spining for you and for another dudes. If she's not your LTR I don't see the deal here.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:26 PM
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If it's 100% confirmed, full ghost and hard next. Never deal with a cheater, she won't get the logic of the issue. Also, she will make you feel guilty for whatever crazy thing she can invent.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:25 PM
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As some other RP guys told you here, say it's ok and keep her as an option. Plural, not a single option. If you don't have another options, keep on your personal development, but don't be like waiting for a response from her, it's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP16/05/17 11:23 PM
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Soft next her dude, don't even try to explain it that much to her. When you're in a LTR respect is the key, and she lost the respect to you talking to her ex. So, I guess you don't have to be sherlock holmes to realize that she is spining her plates with her ex or stuff. Don't get confused with shit test, this is not a shit test. Some people would say "yeah hold the frame and tell her to go out on a date with her ex, got some abundance" but that's not the key for LTR, it's more for plates or not…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:30 PM
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Dude, you should not have seen her after the breakup. You lose all the frame. Here is the deal, people think that after they lose the girl, they have nothing to lose, like "ok, I will see this girl again and let her see how crappy is my frame, I got nothing to lose!" Wrong, you lose your image, your self respect, you manhood, a LOT of things. Anyway, no intention to roast you, just about to giving you some advice and good vibes: There is a lot of sidebar material you should read, but im gonna re…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 10:02 PM
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"For happiness".
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:59 AM
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If she's talking about you being more dominant, is something good IMO, girls like that shit, to be followers n stuff. Slap her ass out.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:38 PM
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Men, n count and ONS are not red flags at all to me, but it seems to be important to you. I'd suggest you not to get involved with a girl who doesn't make you feel confortable, even less consider her for a LTR.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/60rbhy/chad_is_not_the_enemy_chad_is_my_goal/
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:29 PM
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If she got red flags, she isn't that good. next her.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:27 PM
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If you're such an ass in yout LTR, she will jump to the beta listener dick at some point. You have to get her needs satisfied. Specially when it comes to confort test. Apply the 1/3 rule and you wont have to worry about this issue. As you said, that kinda game you're playing is for plates. If you really care about your LTR give her some bread. I treated my LTR as a plate (with the game, the mindset, etc) and the confort test started to rain. I suggest to please her just with the 1/3, and then co…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 11:21 PM
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Yeah, that's what im afraid of. Sooner or later it will happen. And in the case we want an abortion, it's a deal too. Also, our parents involved and shit. Also her parents are religious and they will take it like shit.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 07:18 PM
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Never ask about the n count. Even with LTR material girls. It's not a relevant thing dude, (unless she was in the porn industry fucking like 3 BBC at the same time) and also sometimes it could hurt your ego. Why if you had +20 you're upset because she's +20? Also she's a plate, why would you even care about it?
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:35 PM
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If she has a non-regular cycle things are tricky, but if you had sex while menstruating, it's almost impossible. Ghost her until things get serious. If she finds you, get a dna test. Hope isn't yours bro. Next time use condom for strangers.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:23 PM
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She may be an asshole, but don't take it too serious. I have a few plates wich ones we talk like that, insulting each others. Not a big deal, push the gas a little more, add some positive vibes and some seduction to your game. She will cut that shit, Im pretty sure about that.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:56 PM
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I don't know men, I've fucked some hot fattys who left my balls so empty that i couldnt believe it. Fatty girls are more generous IMO haha. But yeah, like other people here said, do it in a neutral place, not yours. So you could leave it when you want to. The guys who tell you not to fuck her beacuse she's fatty and probably with eating disorder/self steem problems are pussys. As my grampa sais: Guys who only nut pretty girls are faggots.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:54 PM
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You're mixing a lot of concepts here. No need to talk about shit test, hamster, or dread here. A girl should not have a reason to deny sex (except a real one: feeling sick, the period, or stuff). The best think you can do here is directly assume and tell her that you have other options. Last night my LTR said: "what makes you think I can't say "no" to have sex with you? I can say no If I want!" and I reply "Ok, you can say no, no problem. I'll find someone else who says yes". She went like OMG a…
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:48 PM
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Kinda shit test. Anyway bro, look on what she does, not what she says. I got the same situation, and my LTR tells me that she does a lot of logistics when it comes to say that. She tells me "I love you" and i do it 1/3 the times she does. Usually i just say "I love you too" just responding to her first "i love you" Yes, there is alpha-beta balance as you say, but don't get stucked in words, it doesn't mean anything. She's playing games but is not something to worry about. Keep improving yourself…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 11:55 PM
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C'mon guys, don't make people paranoid with that shit. Do I have to worry about my (gay declared) LTR's college partner? and even if he wasn't gay, should I worry? No. Stay in the frame and you won't have problems with no one.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 07:18 PM
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You're trying to protect your ego bro. There's nothing wrong with it. But that's why you're trying to get his validation. Just don't. You don't need it. You have your own validation, you earned it when you started loving yourself. He's the one who must be reactive here, he must feel like he's the one who did the things wrong. Anyway, thanks him, because he took the shitty girl you was dating far from you. At least he helped you. He made you see what kind of woman you had at your side. Peace out …
/r/askTRP21/04/17 12:09 AM
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Men, don't listen to this people talking like crazy butthurted persons about beta/alpha behaviours, because they are skipping lot of details and giving a lot of wrong information. TRP has burnt their brains, repeating "that's beta! that's alpha! I'm Hihg SMV!". TRP is not about being chad and fucking tons of woman. Oscar Wilde has a quote wich says something like "The worst wish is the accomplished one". You won't like being a chad all the time. LTR is part of TRP. It's not something that goes a…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 12:04 AM
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She should be asking this. Not you.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:50 PM
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I'm in the same situation man. My LTR wants to explore...well. Everything. I feel confortable stimulating her there but in my case I never did and i kinda feel afraid of it. Give me some feedback if you do it.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:48 PM
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a little
/r/askTRP18/04/17 02:29 AM
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Talking to her ex. Clubbing. too much on social media. gay friends. yada yada yada I think it's red enough to dump someone
/r/askTRP18/04/17 12:05 AM
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Never get emotionally invested with a girls who keep her exes as friends. Trust me bro.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:39 PM
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I did, but a second girl was giving me blowjobs.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:38 PM
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You being invited makes the difference bro. Also remember that cheating has nothing to do with trips, clubs, etc. So don't be worry about it. At this point I thinkg you know wich kinda girl do you have by your side.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:37 PM
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Models it's like the bible here bro. I'd totally recomend you that one.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:34 PM
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Yes, and I also told them i love them, and I hug them, and I sleep with them too. But just as a REWARD! I don't really love a plate of course. But no need to be a chad with them neither. Give them some invest.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:34 PM
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No, you don't lose the frame. You make yourself a respectful dude. People here get confused a lot with being needy/butthurted or stablishing boundaries. Don't get involved in this one, give her the space to move out. Stay stoic and non reactive. It's just 2 days. Keep the frame. PS: I'm glad you dumped her. I'm on the same situation as you but not strong enough to dump her, even when I know I should.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:30 AM
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Insanity Max 30. Its a beachbody routine hosted by Shaun T. 30 minutes per day 5 times a week. You Will Lost body fat percentage extremelly quick.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 10:58 PM
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Only if you're concerned about premature ejaculation.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 08:05 PM
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If you really care and you wanna end the things in a pollite way, yes. Maybe you can talk to her. The things is that she'll be like "ok, you're right. It was my faul. Im sorry" and then she will want you to stay. You can talk but ghost her inmediatlly, don't even listen to her reply. Just explain yourself, but with the will to quit. PS: Don't talk angry, or butthuerted. Don't even raise your voice.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:19 PM
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I did insanity max 30 two times and now im ripped as fuck. Not bulky at all, but ripped with the 6 pack and shit. Cardio gave so much endurance in the sex life, my legs and arms never get tired and i can be banging like a crazy rabbit without even get sweaty.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 05:30 PM
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Bro, you're trying to rationalize this too much. Pay attention to this, You have two possible scenarios: 1) You confront the girl: You give yourself the satisfaction of telling her how shitty she is. You give her drama. You give her emotional spikes. That's what women want! Do you Want to give her stuff to talk to her slutty friends? She'll be like: "OMG Slutty friend, do you know what PranksterLad told me? Lol he's so pissed!" That's sad, Sooo soo sad. But even the most cute girl you can date w…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:24 PM
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Im telling you bro, the best way here is ghost. When you confront the girl making feel bad and shit, that's what she likes, that's what she spects. She loves Drama. Don't giver her what she loves anymore. Ghosting is actually the worst thing you can do to a girl.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 03:49 PM
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Sometimes the best way to react is no react. Forget about it, you mind should be full of productive things to do rather than be caring about it. 1 - Yes 2 - That's what silly girls do. Dont be a silly girl. 3 - Don't waste your time, please. 4 - No way, that's not what a gentleman does.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:27 AM
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Don't feel bad about it, but I had the same issue as you. You can't solve it, neither fix it. You care about her perception of you because your ego is damaged. You want her to perceive you as an alpha, so you can show her that she should stayed with you, and show her that you're worthy, so she was wrong when she fucked the things up with you. It doesn't matter now. Fuck the ego. Think about show yourself alpha and worthy to the next worthy girl you will be dating soon. Keep on learning. Keep on …
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:22 AM
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Inner game development. At this point i hope your head is clean from oneitis and stuff. For the moment, don't try to get lot of pussy like there is no tomorrow. Don't try to hard to show yourself as a person who is now getting some skanks to fill the place she left. Leave it for her, girls do those silly games, hooking up with chads. The oneitis is cured by 2 stuff, Inner game and outer game. With the inner (as I recomend to start after a break up) you gotta develop yourself only your yourself. …
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:24 PM
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You did it so wrong men. Read this: 1) She told you she wants a open relationship? well, I guess she's the one who have a open relationship. Not you. If you'd have it, you'd be banging other girls and not making this post here. the rule here is: don't get emotionally attached with a girl you have a open relationship with 2) As you see, women want everything. She knows she got you by the balls, she fucks other dudes with you knowing it and you are still by her side. She'd be like "omg what is wro…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:16 PM
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Bro, I will read everything even when you said "kept talking for 3 more months and trying to make it work" It's enough to me. Ok, i finished. What do I think? I think is amazing that you wanna build yourself again, everything you do to yourself is good by itself. But, why do you include her in your plans? Your relationship has ended my friend. You're the one who is obsessed with the girl, not her. She's not obsessed, she is just responding to your dread game. She wants what she doesn't have. Tha…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:07 PM
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A few point here: As you know, we don't keep a girl who breaks up with us. NEVER. Where is your self respect? At least if you keep her, you better do it as a plate you don't GAF about and you just bang her asshole everytime you can. If it was a healthy LTR, I don't see why you should be a jackass and say "I know" or stuff when your LTR says I love you. You just show that you care, and if you feel it, you can say I love you too. Not a big deal. Anyway yes, it may be a confort test, considering th…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:49 PM
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I'd suggest not talking to her. Exes only want to know if you are still available for them. They wanna see you suffering from them. Why that? when a women breaks up, she has to make herself sure that you're beta. That you're not LTR material. She has to confirm that she breaks up because you're beta, so her choice was wise. If you talk to her, you give her validation, and that's what she want. Don't get into her game. Don't talk. If you do, you better don't invest a shit on the talk, just keep s…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:40 PM
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Take the easiest and most rational way: quit christianism.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:33 PM
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I amuse myself so much on this one, I got a few ones wich I use. Hope it's usefull to you too: PS: Don't forget to calibrate those responses! When she tells you "I have a boyfriend" You could say something like this: -If he is reasobable, he will understand our relationship. -Well, I supose we was going to have a little misfortune in our relationship - Ok, it wont be an inconvenient. - It's irrelevant. - Gross, do you like those things? - What is his name? can he do (X silly thing). Well, I supo…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:56 PM
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Excellent! So useful material. Thanks for it bro!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 09:30 PM
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Yes. And all the men outside TRP too.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:45 PM
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If you are young and healthy that should NOT happen to you my friend. You had this problem for your entire LTR or is just something recent? I'd say your issue is normal if it's your first encounter, but as you are not a virgin, it's weird. I don't think is your case but sometimes the girl is the problem, I used to have dysfunction too with a few girls I had sex with. If I were you, I'll try to start with the basics: About your body: Do lot of workout, cardio like 3 times a week. Drink at least 2…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 05:43 PM
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Clubs has nothing to do with cheating in LTR, neither a red flag (wich i think is the main concern about this issue). We guys go to club like sweaty beasts trying to get pussy, but girls in LTR wants validation want to feel and see themselves pretty and desirable. Let's be clear: If a girl is going to cheat, is going to cheat in a club, in the school toilet, in your birthday party, or wherever. There's really nothing you can do about it. if you are dating someone and have tight game she won’t ch…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:48 PM
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Dread game and inner game development!
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:35 PM
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Hey, listen to me on this one. I've read all your stuff. It took some time but I did. I can talk to you because I've been in the SAME situation. (3 years LTR, first everything, broked me up for no reason, maybe because of her friends too) What I Think: I won't make it too long so you can think about this by yourself. Oneitis: you got it with this one, and it's OK. It's your first everything and if you don't oneitis at this point, It's because you didn't love her or because you're a robort. So it…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 03:55 PM
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Hahaha maybe im dating your gf's twin haha. The thing seems complicated to both of us bro, but deep inside we know it's tricky. It's at least a demote into plate situation. Keep me on touch and feedback me on your situation.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:52 AM
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Yeah, she wont agree with fwb, im 100%sure of It. That's why im making this request, to know what Is the proper move. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:43 AM
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That's what i thougt. If she doesnt convince you, that's enough for dumping her. Independentlly oficina the red flags
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:38 AM
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That's actually what we all here want you to do my friend haha. As she isn't your LTR, you can still be chilled with her, but don't invest nothing. Don't invest time, money, and mostly your heart to her. Please. Just Ghost, no need to be mean but ghost. She isn't worthy even to explain her why you don't want to hang out with her anymore. Deep inside she knows she broke your rule, and deep inside she wants you to dump her. Make yourself the favour and hang with other girls or just spend more time…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:05 PM
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The "other boy/ex/plates" shit test comes from a place in wich she actually doesn't hangs out with him. Its a test, not a fact. She'll be like "Yeah this guy is cute he makes me laugh" (shit-test). In the other hand, actually hanging out with him is not a test at all.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:41 PM
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Well, I think you answered yourself. She must be a plate, nothing more than that. Keep her spinning and do not even think about doing it your LTR That she was still texting her ex boyfriend Red Flag if LTR, and red flag to a girl you will consider LTR in the future. Not a problem at all if you keep her as a plate and if you have abundance. She said she tried to kiss her but she "dodged it" lol Probably, but at least you know something else is physically escalating on your "possible LTR" Make you…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:34 PM
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Hey bro, I read your comment and it made me think a few things. I'm really struggling between these two postures. On the one hand, I totally agree with you: I think women want to go out to raise their feminine energy, to look and feel beautiful, to feel their freedom a little. In addition, I support the GNO because I also like to go out with my homies. But in the other side, and as my relationship progresses, I do not see the GNO as something attractive, something to look for in a relationship (…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:42 PM
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A few more things bro, like talking to her ex bf too. I tryed to see the half full glass of water and not the empty but there are so many red flags at this point. I Will plate her. I didnt react to these flags because i tried to keep my frame but i shouldnt Accept bullshit
/r/askTRP07/04/17 12:19 PM
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Yes, that's what i tought. The issue here is independent of him being gay or not. It's about my LTR physically touching other dude. Maybe she won't see this, but it's my boundarie. I'm not insecure about her cheating or whatever, is just that i see this disrespectful and, from what i can see here in TRP, most of you guys too.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:56 AM
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Hahahah ok bro, don't wanna get in trouble with you.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:53 AM
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I don't know if this info is relevant but here I go. 1- Not attractive at all. (Even when i think a girl could easily dump you for a guy who is way uglier than yourself. Anyway im pretty confidence about myself, even against not gay good looking guys so that's not the point I guess) 2- Like the femenine kinda gay. Recently came out of the closet. So he made it official. 3- No, just when they all spend the night together, with all the female group and stuff.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:47 AM
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Yeah i see it's totally disrespect bro, I don't know what I was thinking and why I didn't react when she told me. What do you suggest?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:42 AM
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I'm in the same situation bro. About to break up even when she didn't do anything wrong. When you're in the RP way, you will understand that your commitment is the MOST valuable thing you have to give, so. If you have doubts with your LTR, better break up here. If you project your relationship with her at the future and it doesn't makes you happy, it's time to end. Tell her and make her understand that is nothing wrong with her. She may cry, but at the end, it's the best thing to both of you. Yo…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 11:27 PM
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Bro, you don't have a relationship anymore there. You plate her when you from free choice decide to plate her and she agrees. If she cheated on you, it isn't even plate material. Better to end things up there. Next her and start again as alpha with a new one. Remember: new is always better.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:39 AM
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You can't do nothing bro, but when the oportunity comes, take it for sure that their friends will try to make her cheat on you. I'm in the same situation of you and I kinda embraced it. Her friends didn't like so much and she told me "I'm an adult, i know what to do, I don't need my friends advice" But deep inside we both know her friend's advice is important. You will have to work harder in order to make your gf ignore her friend's talking.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:37 AM
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Average or even more. I'd not bang a virgin. Totally a turn off.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 04:34 AM
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Hey bro, I'm sorry about what happened to you. At least, it seems like you've taken it well, so we saved a lot of trouble with that. You got a good job, a purpose in life so you'll be fine. Regarding to break, I suggest you two options: A) Talking Pros: Tell her that you both can not be more together, because cheating a couple is an offense to the love and confidence they had. And you will not be in pair with a person who cheats. You're being honest and considered with this option. Cons: In this…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:19 PM
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But you won't see yourself at the same. Make it about yourself, not the girls.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 06:43 PM
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You have to accept that your girlfriend is a fucking slut. A dirty nasty slut who has been in threesomes, did anal, drank too much semen, etc. Sounds too harsh, does not it? Haha I did not want to make you feel uncomfortable bro, but this is the fact: When you're dating a woman and you know that she has had a lot of sex and enjoyed the sex she had with other partners, you feel angry, sad, disappointed. Well, this can be traumatic, but I'm going to propose some ideas: Does it bother you that she …
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:59 AM
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Thank you again bro, it's a good vibe you're giving here. Yes, i was going to do what you suggest, when the topic appears i will settle this up, clearly, as a boundary of myself. Making it clear that i don't wanna change her, just telling her what i want for the girl im dating. I think she will understand. Anyway i will consider a break up or plate her (even when she won't agree) in the future. We are in a LTR but i don't see her as a good LTR material when i project in the future. I know you wi…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:18 AM
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Hey bro, thanks for your response. It seems wise and mature to me, and it's kinda the feedback I was waiting for. I've been dealing with this dilema for a few weeks, and I remember the book "models" talking about the same: how to show interest in your partner but without being needy or insecure. And the response was, showing your feelings in a honest way. I guess that's what I have to do if I'm gonna think of her as a girl I'm gonna be with in the future. I really don't know how to bring this is…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:45 PM
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Totally normal. You don't have to worry about her not responding meanwhile she agree on chill with you. Think about it on this perspective: if you don't have to invest that time in her but she keeps on fucking you, it's like the perfect scenario! you got lot of time for you and for other plates. No need to get focused only on this one. I agree with you anyway, sometimes would be nice her saying "hey let's do this" but girls are like this. You gotta take the initiative, you gotta say when you bot…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:49 PM
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It's absurd men, when you get into a LTR, you got to like her in every sphere of her life. And sex is one of them. Supose that you wait until marriage, then you have sex with her and you found out she's terrible. Oh, big surprise, you make that effort just for crappy sex. That's not the point. Sex is an important part of the LTR, not the most, but is important.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 03:37 PM
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If you got a LDR, actually you got nothing. LDR are not relationship. They don't work, and at the moment you moved into that, you should consider it a long term and inevitable break up. It's difficult to move on from a break up, specially when the girl was your first everything. But this road is like that my friend, it's like learning how to ride a bike: you will fall and get some cuts on your knees. Remember: totally OK to have oneitis with your first sexual partner, but don't put that pussy on…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:32 AM
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Well, you know girls will try beta-izations on you all the time. Also, in a formal relationship, it's usual to get layed back, confortable, and tend to get back to the beta frame. If you started alpha, don't get in her game! You gotta keep and extra effort to remain on frame, even when LTR. I really don't think that exclusivity ruined the things for you. Sometimes in LTR you gotta be honest too, it's not about a constant game. If you wanted to gave her your commitment, you was giving her the mos…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:23 AM
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Tell her to have fun bro! a travel is an extraordinary experience! what's wrong with people out here? If you got the oportunity to travel with a friend of you,wouldnt you do it? would you like to go knowing that your girl is happy for you and wishing you to have a good time there, or say goodbye to her knowing that she's mad as fuck and butthurted? You can't even enjoy it if you know you leave her like that. Nothing wrong with that. If you think there is a problem with her going there, is becaus…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:14 AM
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/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:05 AM
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Are you giving that woman the attention she needs? Women in a LTR like to feel validation, but especially validation of their partners. Feel that their emotional needs are covered. It's a shit test to me. No doubt about that. She wants you to feel that she may have an interest in other men, even when she may not. With this move, she wants your attention, give her a little extra of your time when she puts her like this. Do not get reactive or angry. It's not something negative to me. Apart from t…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:36 AM
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Same situation here. First: Projection is a crucial deal here bro. Besides moral judgement, I cheated with a few plates in the past, and I become paranoid about the same thing I did but with my GF doing it to me. Like talking to other dudes and fucking them. So at first, try to see your problem as a projection. Second: Beware about TRP. There are some people who get obsessed with it, and take EVERYTHING as a shit test, a red flag, a cheat signal, etc. Their post got some negative charge on it. S…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:25 AM
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Agree with you bro. Make-up works miracles. Also the good lighting they use helps a lot to hyde cellulitis, stretch marks and imperfections in the girls body. I got a lot of friends of mine who found this disgunsting in a women body (stretch marks for example), and that's one of the negative effects of too much porn. Because most of the girls i've been with got imperfections. About 95%, And if you find that a reason to not bang a girl, you're in problems.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:37 PM
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Leaving aside the complicated and elaborate plots of porn movies. I can say that most of the things you see are representative. Most of the women you see on the street are like victoria's secret models? Well, sex is mostly not like porn movies. I think you get the point. Physical perfection does not represent the majority of people. (Come on, I do not think we all have a 7-inch penis here.) Yes, totally if a porn actress can ride a cock for 1 hour for sure she can do it in real life. But do not …
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:02 PM
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IMO, people who are annoyed by women going out to clubs, are people who do not go out to clubs either. Or that does not have much social nightlife. If it bothers you that she goes out to a club, it's probably because you do not do the same thing, that for me is wrong and you should do it. The things is that, men have a different perception of the club: for us, a successful night is to go to bed with a woman. Wich is a terrible mindset, because if you do not sleep with some women, you will classi…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 07:20 PM
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Men, you sound so upset. Why don't you let it go? sounds like you're making to much to impress her. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 02:21 PM
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I think that if I start to take investment off, she wont understand why am i doing that, (because she told me about the ex in a chill way, she wont imagine im taking effort off because of that) and she will be worried about, and she will ask what is wrong. The deal seems to be "talk or not to talk". If i want to keep the frame i shouldn't say anything and keep on going. If I want to be honest with her and myself, i gotta talk. (ending up as needy). Hard choice to make.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 11:25 AM
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Yes, I'm. I mean, she invest a lot in our relationship. I feel loved, so i guess it's real bro. No, nothing happened actually. We're OK as usual. Maybe she told me that because i said that i love my ex GF. And my actual LTR never wants to be less than me, she got those things. She battles me sometimes. Not in a negative way, but she is a girl you gotta battle with sometimes. A battle for the leadership of the relationship.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 11:22 AM
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It's a test bro. If you've already had sex with her, you did the most difficult part.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:46 PM
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I do the same bro, i don't want her to get scared with the naked pictures of hot babes we send with my homies. Anyway i got some conversations with some girl friends wich can be taken in a wrong way if a person who doesn't know my inner jokes read it, mostly my gf. I don't think it's wrong bro, it's just her own privacy. Would you left her your phone? i guess everyone got something to hyde, but not necessarily something to worry about.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:44 PM
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Hahah to talk or not to talk, that's the deal. I'll do what i feel at the moment i see her. Honesty vs game. My mind tells game my heart honesty. Let's see what happens. Thank you bro.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:06 PM
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Yeah, i can't change her or control her. I will not win anything with that. If she wanna talk, she will. If she wanna cheat, she will.Even if im not happy with that. Also she will talk to the ex knowing that im a sorry ass bitch and that will make things worse, cause she will be less attracted to me for being insecure. Anyway inspite of that, she did NOTHING to worry about, she has been my best LTR so far, so i guess i will try to keep the frame.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:56 PM
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That's what i think bro, telling this to her lead to being insecure and needy. It's a big dilema.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:42 PM
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Because one of her girl friends is still attached to her ex bf. She's a perfect HB8 but with some serious self steem issues. So i told my LTR but you can always love a ex partner and it's ok. I said that in a corner of my heart i still love my ex. (but i forget to tell her that i wouldn't event think about get in touch with them). So she told me that she talks to her ex sometimes. That's it.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 07:27 PM
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We've been dating for 8 months and she mentioned that one ex like 3 months ago and yesterday she told that she talks to him sometimes. She was so chill anyway, like it's not a big deal. And probably it's not. But im hamstering with this one now. Maybe it's just me making it bigger than it is.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:21 PM
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Yeah, i've been kinda an asshole. I guess im taking TRP in a wrong way. I used to invest a lot in my previous LTR and ended up having bad results. I think im controlling my behaviour a lot on this LTR wich is unfair to her too. Im so worried about making things work out that maybe I left appart the honesty. My head is spining as fuck men. Probably i should break up, for the sake of both us.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:36 PM
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That's what i tought bro, there is no way to talk about it with her without being needy and butthurted. I will just take it as a test and let it go. I totally agree with you: you can't control people. Anyway, i dont want to. I will swallow this one and keep the frame, considering moving her as a plate it the issue continue.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:29 PM
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But hanging vs talking, what difference does it make? is she being attached to someone, her ex. One way or another, its she keeping in touch with him. Of course hanging will not be the most pleasing thing, but i don't think she would anyway.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:12 PM
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Yes, I kinda see it in this way. If it was a test, I guess i failed it. I went physically reactive, i mean we was holding hands and I left it, but i didn't say nothing. It was just a "reward/punish" move. But seem reactive to me now. Yeah i didn't dig that family and marriage thing she said. It was like crazy. I know she really feel it, but girl can change from night to morning. I like your response, at least you didn't say "dump that bitch" lol. I guess i will keep on it, trying to keep my fram…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:10 PM
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No, she's not busy at phone or so. Not a big deal. We were just talking about exes and our toughts on that deal and she mentioned it, like nothing too important. I don't think she'd be pissed. at most she must be in the same situation like me, wondering why.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:01 PM
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Totally agree with you bro.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:45 PM
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Oh men, i don't know why people here want to next every girl who is not made like they'd want to. They're people, and they're not made to fit you. You can call some random china factory and ask for a robot girl with the Emma stone face, a porn star body and the personality all we here would love to have. (loyal, trusthworthy,monster in bed,etc). But that's not a person, isn't it? So let's go straight to the fact that people got things/issues that we like, and some things that we don't. Here is t…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:44 PM
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Placing a "new one" in your breaking up talk, can make the things go even worse. I don't think people should lie on this one. If you say you got a new one, she may think you're with this new girl since you both were together in the relationship. Break up in a manly way, no need to lie. Tell her you're breaking up just because YOU want it and YOU feel it that way. Avoid all the butthurting talk about a new girl on your life. You're breaking up because your LTR is bitchy. Period.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:30 PM
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If she's a hotty try some physical escalation, anyway she started it.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:05 AM
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Trolls again? GTFO. If not trolling, read the sidebar first. Spoiler: It's a clear IOI.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:58 AM
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Yes he is, but Robert Zemeckis can make a beta guy look cute.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:56 AM
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I did Insanity MAX 30, 2 rounds of it. It's incredible how fast you get ripped. You won't be bulky with this, but you will gain definition strenght and endurance way so fast. I've loss 12kg in those 2 rounds.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:55 AM
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Totally agree with CopperFox3c, the feeling of neediness makes the things go in a downstairs spiral. It totally kills the attraction. Never forget that you're in charge. You're the captain of the ship. If it sinks, it sinks with you on it. The LTR should be only a passenger in the ship. At most, the co captain. You are the big star from the movie of your life, keep than in mind. Bad habits can be many, but it is the sum of those bad habits that kill your relationship. For me, the most dangerous …
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:51 AM
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Why do you find it unattractive bro?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 10:05 PM
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There is never comfort in LTR!, girls will test you during ALL your life. That sucks for lazy people like me but it goes like that. In advanced LTR the test will be more subtle, but they still are there. Im not telling you to dissapear, because is irrational, non sense! every guy here seems to tell "ghost that bitch" even when it's your 10 years couple and she just had a bad day. Dont be like that but a little drop of asshole is good sometimes.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:32 PM
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Exactly what this guy said
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:53 PM
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a) You prize low partner count? that's weird. b) Let her be, you left her in first place. It was your choice, move on and find a new one. There will be another one like her or even better, who knows.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 07:54 PM
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When a girl gives you an ultimatum like that, they would think they're in a power place, but actually, they're SO vulnerable and weak when they say something like that. Keep the frame and don't be reactive at all. And about your questions, at least the first steps into the dread game must be applied always in a LTR.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:40 PM
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Short answer: yes Long answer: Probably, if you're still thinking about a girl from your past, is because you're not talking to enough new women. Some guys would say "The quickest way to get over one women is to get under another" but that's not actually true. An ex GF is a person, unique one. And it's ok to love her, because if you break up and you don't give a fuck is because: a) you didn't love her b)You're a robot So it's ok to have feelings for ex GF. I got a few ones who will be probably l…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:36 PM
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We got a big issue over here. IMO she's still to young, her personality is still getting defined. But if she likes partying and drinking by now, probably she will be liking it for a few more years. I can tell you a few things: a) You cant tell a plate what to do, she doesn't owe you nothing and she's not your property. Let her party as she wants and spin her as a plate. b) If you REALLY want a LTR (wich I don't recomend to you because the party + alcohol issue makes you feel unconfortable and a …
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:30 PM
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You should assume she's interested, never ask it. I think your opener is ok, and it work most of the times. But after you got the feedback you have to start leading the conversation, making her reactive to you and providing emotion to the interaction. When she said "really?" i'd hit her with something like "Well ,depends if you're a (X girly thing) fan. Arent you?" Give her space to quialify herself to you. That's the basic idea.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:32 PM
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Luckily, there is not "a woman" for you. There is no "Woman" for a man. In time, you will realize that this is a blessing. There is not just one good woman, there are many good women. (And many bad ones too). The experience will make you see that this is so. Thanks to this, if you have a good aim, you can always be with good women. And I say women in the plural. Do not have oneitis with them. Is she a Hb8-9? there is a lot of girls like this out there. Does she fuck like there is no tomorrow? th…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:54 PM
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My GF told me about one of her friends, the queen bee of the group, a total HB8-9 and she doesn't ever made out on this year. It's like absurd, a girl who is well seen as a hottie, and she goes out dressing slutty doesn't even make out. There you have a perfect example of low self steem girl looking for validation.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:43 PM
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Didn't want to sound mean lol, but if you ask something like that your journey in TRP could be at least starting, so the good news is that you have a LOT of material to read (here and the recomended books also). As you read the material, you can put it into practice and plates will start to appear. Before even thinking about plates, i recomend you to read "12 rules about dread game", and start to build a solid foundation thinking about your own improvement and not the plates.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 04:02 AM
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I don't know bro, i dont think people here in TRP are afraid of leaving girls. Oneitis is an issue we talk a lot about. You will rarely see a thread about getting your ex back for example. It's ok to me and for most of us to cut that bitch out and not give a fuck. I don't know where you see that "obsessive" behaviour.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:59 AM
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Reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:53 AM
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I was not going to waste my time answering a comment like this, but here I go. No one is obsessed with women and no one puts them on a pedestal. If you think women are easy to handle and that you should only get one to be your LTR and stop gaming them, then you do not know many women or know very beta women. There is a continuous battle against women, some of them are more difficult to overcome than others, and that is where the concept of TRP comes in, to be powerful against the difficult ones.…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:50 AM
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My LTR got some strong alpha males in her career. I'm talking about well known sport players who also got good grades there. There's nothing you can do pal, there will be allways guys trying to hit on your girl. The only thing I'll say to you is: Abundance mindset. Don't make her the center of your life. And im not telling you to spin her as a plate, It's your LTR! But i don't see this as a boundarie-worthy situation. If a girl is going to cheat, is going to cheat. But I can assure you that if y…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:27 AM
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Beware of this one, I know a bunch of girls with low self steem who manipulate through this kinda profiles. I dated a few ones, I'm talking about HB9 or stuff, and they were like a rollecoaster between high sex drive and then low sex drive. They love validation that's why they show themselves so sexually available.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:16 AM
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You don't go out with your boys or your girls to a pub?
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:04 PM
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It's fucked up if the roles are established by now. Some people are saying "once a beta, allways a beta" but that's not true bro. Because we all changed and improved ourselves at some point, right? But you can allways try a extreme makeover of your relationship getting into TRP. Time will tell you if it's working or not. But the signals will be so clear that you will notice it. If she respects you and doesn't make fun of your behavioural change (diggin' that pill bro), you should keep on it
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:57 PM
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Hey Bro, I've reading all the comments on this post and all the advices are ok. Keep in mind that having boundaries has nothing to do with being insecure if you keep the frame of no reaction (as you mentioned you did). If you told her that you dont feel confortable with her making x thing and she still does, it's a red flag. The boundaries must be established so that, if she does what makes you feel uncomfortable, she must know that there will be consequences in that act. So don't be afraid to e…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:47 PM
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