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| 1 | [deleted by user]Don't beat yourself up over it. Don't overthink it. You'll feel better having approached than not. Could try something direct like: "I don't want you to get to class late, but I see you around here sometimes and think you're cute. What's your name?" "I'd like to get to know you better. Are you free to grab coffee later?" Next time, don't even think about words. Just make eye contact and walk up like you're about to say something. Then, wing it. You can even ramble stream of consciousness, and yo… | /r/seduction | 24/10/18 05:13 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah, I say go for it. Minimize potential regret. Just try to be a bit more direct, and show that you are socially aware by aknowledging her time time constraint. Don't run any fancy routines. Open direct. Tell her that you see her sometimes and you wanted to go talk to her. Aknowledge that there's a time constraint and that you'd like to get to know her better. Close. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Need to get rid of my "don't interrupt people" mindset - how?I think the most logical frame is "I know cold approach can be unnatural or unconvenient, but the interaction is likely a net positive for everyone involved, so I should do it anyways." Most people don't do much cold approach especially with online dating becoming more prevalent. Most people don't expect to get cold approached, especially during daygame. Some people argue that humans weren't designed to cold approach evolutionary. But the truth is, it can be effective. It shows someone who's not… | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 10:38 AM |
| 7 | I walked out of a date todayWait, so you walked out on a date because a girl didn't say "let's fuck right now" immediately upon meeting you? You probably shouldn't even look into game until you get your internal shit sorted out. Get therapy. Seriously. If the lack of basic human empathy isn't obvious to you, then you need to talk to someone about your issues. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 06:59 AM |
| 34 | How do you avoid being a creep?Being creepy is a lack of social calibration. Because there's something "off", it scares people. Approaching when it's dark. Smiling at a funeral. Stalking a girl and not approaching. Inability to take a clear rejection. Saying morbid jokes to people you just met. You fix this by socializing more and calibrating towards building comfort. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 06:21 PM |
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