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| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)This. People do realize there are third spaces other than bars, right? I do community theater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:57 AM |
| 2 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerLmao the dweeb you replied to actually thinks horny books about vampires or hockey players are the reason women are choosing to stay single. The saucy words are corrupting our brains! Burn the books! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 10:32 AM |
| 1 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerOr, say that these fantasies are not reflections of what people want in real life, and guys start defending CP or simulated CP. I think it's reasonable to draw the line at something it is a crime to possess, and/or work that uses said criminal material as "references" for derivative content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killer100% agree with you on that. It is just factually true that masturbating with your imagination is healthier, and prose by definition requires more imagination because you have to process the words and imagine what's happening in your head. With video porn, there's less of that. At best, you imagine yourself in one person's place, and at worst, it's purely voyeuristic with no imagination at all. It effectively atrophies the sexually creative and curious part of your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerGiven how often the phrase "genetic lottery" is used to describe attractiveness in this space, yes, I think we can all agree there's luck involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:25 PM |
| 0 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerJust ignore the whole second half of my post, why don't you? What the hell about the second paragraph gave you the impression I thought a cage full of bears is safe? I almost mentioned in my post that bear attacks are less common than domestic violence for the obvious reason that fewer people live near bears, but we do not have an issue of bear maulings being underreported relative to the incidence of it. My main point was the threat assessment thing. Bears don't need to be given the benefit of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:19 PM |
| 0 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerI think you need to look into what supernormal stimulus is and how it works, because that seems to be the point of misunderstanding here. You have the flow of causality backwards. Supernormal stimulus causes people to have muted responses to normal stimulus, or rather it conditions them to over time. In the context of porn specifically, I'm referring mainly to sexual functionality, not who is attracted to whom. That's why I specified "excessive" use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 10:25 AM |
| 4 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerWe've already established that OP's serial-killer-shy-guy dichotomy doesn't work, so why are we leaning into to by implying that women aren't into normal men, and normal men are simply guys who don't commit crimes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 10:18 AM |
| 5 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerSomething tells me we don't have the same definition of "respects other people." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 10:04 AM |
| 7 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerAggression elevates status within social groups. It's something that can observed not just between the sexes, but among them, within single-sex cliques. It's a problem with our ape psychology overall, not just with women specifically. I mentioned this to someone else: it benefits no one to pretend that people are more fair and principled than they actually are. People should not put women on a pedestal; we are affected by the same biases other human beings are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 10:02 AM |
| -1 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerIt's incredible how eager people are to demonstrate that they're too stupid to understand the core observation of that thought experiment, which was that statistically, a woman is more likely to be killed by a male intimate partner than by a bear. THAT WAS THE POINT. The fact that so many men thought it meant women want to fuck bears really speaks to how poor the average internet user's reading comprehension is. The other purpose of the thought experiment was to demonstrate that it is difficult … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:55 AM |
| 2 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerDefine "normal." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:43 AM |
| 2 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerI would not characterize people with hibristophilia as "normal," given that it's a pretty uncommon fetish in the greater scheme of things. women dont like that when men say that what they observe isnt the goody two shoes, womens rights caring, woman respecting man isnt the one getting all the sex and relationships. I think that maybe people should just be empathetic to others and oppose injustice regardless of whether it gets them laid? I don't understand the logic of "Being jerks doesn't preclu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:42 AM |
| 3 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerWeird way to respond to the commonsensical observation that splitting) is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:21 AM |
| 1 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerWholeheartedly agree. There's a lot of halo effect and just world fallacy that goes on in our lizard brains when it comes to looks, and I think the people who pretend that isn't the case are being either willfully obtuse or overly optimistic. Not every guy who's had bad luck with women should be assumed to be a jerk or a creep. I do think the ideological spaces these guys are lured into because they were wounded by rejection make things worse, though. It worsens their already faltering mental he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:13 AM |
| 3 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerSaying that our fictional turn-ons say nothing about us is the other end of the extreme though. It's a good thing I didn't say that then, isn't it? To revisit the shark metaphor, yes, I am generally going to assume that someone who visits the shark tank at the aquarium likes them. Maybe that person would think it would be fun to own a piranha or something. So the equivalent to that would be a woman who enjoys dark romance or whatever might want to try BDSM. It doesn't mean they want to run to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:02 AM |
| 7 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerExcessive porn use is, yes. Also, smutty words on a page just are not the same level of supernormal stimulus that videos are, though it's good to moderate your use of whichever one you choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:45 AM |
| 8 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerI don't want to invalidate your observations, but the skid marks thing is an example of selection bias and/or negativity bias. Women are a lot less likely to go on the internet to rave about how clean their boyfriends' butts are, even if it's something we all prefer, because it's common sense to have good hygiene. Another factor to consider is that those guys sometimes started out clean, but "let themselves go" with regard to hygiene after marriage and kids because separating is more difficult a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:41 AM |
| 5 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerI think most of the conflict that happens between the sexes occurs because one gender thinks the other is a hive mind. Some people have shit taste and fucked up priorities, and that's a behavior you see among both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:28 AM |
| 2 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerI dissected the "shy" thing more in another comment, but people seem to forget that there are different types of "shy," and that some types are likely to have more success in relationships than others. I think some types of shy people are appealing to those who want to be the more extroverted or talkative one in the relationship. But other types of shyness, often the types that arise from trauma or mental illness, can make pursuing a relationship more difficult. These things all get rolled toget… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:24 AM |
| 22 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerI think people have a hard time separating fiction from reality, and I think that's why redpill type guys have been getting upset about the whole "dark" romance novel thing lately (even though it's been around for over a century at this point). Reading romance novels about bad boys and vampires and such are enjoyable for the same reason it's fun to look at sharks in an aquarium. The sharks are cool and fascinating, but I wouldn't want to swim with them, if that makes sense. In a broader sense, f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:14 AM |
| – | HypocrisyNot OP, but a lot of people are mainly concerned with compatibility and shared beliefs. Dating apps cause us to think that everyone prioritizes looks above all else because they've been designed that way. Older dating sites were very text-heavy, now people just scroll through pictures like they're looking at a Sears catalog. The people who want genuine connections don't use the apps, creating selection bias where the platforms are increasingly dominated by shallow people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 09:26 PM |
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