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Regular kino. Not sure how many different answer you’re gonna get from this.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 12:25 PM
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Just 1 text an hr before saying you’ll be 15min late. This way if she was gonna flake you don’t waste time
/r/seduction21/10/20 07:21 PM
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The uglier you are the more game matters, it’s a bitter pill some guys won’t swallow.
/r/seduction21/10/20 03:59 PM
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No but it doesn’t matter cause the guy talking about the girl taking it in the ass from the lacrosse team is right
/r/seduction21/10/20 11:37 AM
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Edit: wrong thread I replied to originally. Anyways, still won’t work online unless you’re incredibly handsome. In person, you can try but if you’re even asking this question, it’s going to sound awkward when you say it.
/r/seduction21/10/20 10:44 AM
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So you want to use a sexual comment to score on an online platform that won’t convey the sarcasm/joking manner well, and in a foreign country where you aren’t proficient in the language. Yup 2 great practice options there alright... If you have to ask this question you don’t even have close to the amount of charisma needed to pull this off and not look rapey. I’d highly advise you scratch this idea and just stick to kino on dates if you want to be sexual
/r/seduction21/10/20 09:27 AM
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If I still listened to women for dating advice I’d still be a virgin
/r/seduction20/10/20 11:57 AM
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Whatever routine you pick will answer that
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:56 AM
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The best thing you can do when skinny fat is lift weights while eating 250-500 calories above your TDEE. You will want to try and lose weight to lose your belly and “get abs”, don’t do this. Not yet. It’s a dog chasing it’s tail. You’ll cut down until you look malnourished since you have no muscle to cut to. Build the frame of the house, then decorate it, not the other way around.
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:51 AM
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OP don’t direct approach no matter what anybody else tells you. That’ll just make a name for yourself in class. Best thing you can do is play social butterfly and talk to everyone, guys included. Eventually you’ll easily tell what girls have interest, only then do you ask them out and only in a casual manner.
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:49 AM
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Choose a beginner routine, all pros, fierce 5 and gzclp to name a few. Follow it. Google what “macros” are and what a “TDEE” is. Buy a food scale, weigh your food, track it with the app myfitnesspal and eat 500 below your “TDEE” if you are chubby, 250-500 above if you’re skinny. Do this for 6 months and you will see major results. Throw cardio in there if you want for good health.
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:46 AM
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How can a fwb be an online thing....? Anyways..just talk dirty. Instruct her to masturbate or something. Honestly this shit is best saved for in person
/r/seduction20/10/20 02:40 AM
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Your thinking is totally backwards. You really think a girl goes to a guys house at night, has a few drinks and is not at least somewhat open to having sex? Women love sex just as much if not more than men, if they come over I’d say there’s a very high chance they want to (won’t say all because some don’t but it’s a small margin). Besides that it sounds like when you go for the shirt is the fuck up, slow your roll. Women are like dimmer bulbs, take your time. Use a 2 steps forward 1 step back ap…
/r/seduction20/10/20 12:51 AM
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If it’s happening with multiple women then the constant is you. At that point I’d say you’re probably coming on too hard since they’re fine up u til that point then don’t go out for another date. When you escalate are you going from making out right to groping or? How is your escalation?
/r/seduction20/10/20 12:38 AM
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1: yes it’s a bullshit excuse. Pretty general rule is if she’s says “I’m not fucking you tonight” or any variation, there’s a good chance she will indeed fuck you. 2: she sees you as a player, wants to fuck you but doesn’t want to be seen as a slut by you, friends or herself. If you want to fuck her I’d advise you run softer more comfort based game. When she says youre a player and she’s just another notch, respond with something innocent but that has plausible deniability to the other side. Exa…
/r/seduction20/10/20 12:31 AM
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In this exact scenario then it sounds like she just really doesn’t want to have sex which is ok. You can either pursue or move on. If you want to date her seriously, continue, if you just want a lay, move on. As far as the first date stuff you said, that’s bullocks. Never have I had a woman not want to get serious because we had sex on the first night. A woman wants to date you seriously regarding what you bring to the table, that’s all. If you’re a handsome, high earning charismatic male with g…
/r/seduction20/10/20 12:23 AM
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Not really unless you’re autistic and continue after more than one deny
/r/seduction19/10/20 11:54 PM
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Wow you got some really bad advice in this thread. What’s happening OP is called LMR (last minute resistance). Not gonna get into too much but when this happens, take the rejection on the chin and continue chatting her up. 5-10min later start making out again and try to escalate. I 100% guarantee you will go farther than last. It’s always a 2 steps forward 1 step back game
/r/seduction19/10/20 11:06 PM
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If they are going to fuck you in the first place, a lack of social media won’t stop them. Delete the thirst trap apps and let it be done.
/r/seduction19/10/20 07:42 PM
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Are you asking how someone becomes charismatic and a good conversationalist? The same way you’d learn anything else; this isn’t a new form of mathematics. Read up on things like social cues and body language so you can learn how to effectively read a room. Once you can do that, start watching stand up comedy and banter back and forth with friends. If you have no friends in real life, banter back and forth in a chat room. The point is to practice like any other sport. Lastly, to tie it all togeth…
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:58 PM
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Just you
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:54 PM
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Probably best if you do some reading on that to get a clear answer but to give an example: I’m out with a girl, I’m running game and kino, making her laugh overall just vibing. I’m “pushing”. I go in for the kiss but she denies me. So now I’ll “pull” back a little bit with my affection. Maybe I stop being as touchy feely as I was before. I’m still flirting but took a few steps back. Then in 10-20min I’ll “push” again and go for that same kiss. It’s important to read up on this though because if …
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:28 PM
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You mentioned a lot of great things, car, job, apartment. Congrats, you’re doing much better than I was at 19 and most people your age. You know what you didn’t list though? Hobbies. Skills. Enjoyments. A car and house and shit provide you basic needs but they don’t make you happy or increase your perceived self worth, so stop factoring those things in anyways. Wanna know what helps you build self worth? Goal setting and completing. This can be anything you’re interested in, the point is to cons…
/r/seduction19/10/20 01:25 PM
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Alright 1: VERY rarely will girls flirt without you doing it first. It does happen but usually with average looking guys. If you’re as attractive as you say, they’re defenses are up because honestly, girls can’t handle rejection. Rejection from a hot guy is nuclear so they’d rather not try and let you make the move. It turns into a catch 22 2: You “think” they don’t like you. This isn’t a thinking mans game, it’s an acting mans. Stop thinking about what they might think and go and find out. Got …
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:52 PM
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Didn’t watch this but this is true. All of my successful lays have been attributed to my charisma, push/pull and using those things to create strong emotional responses. It’s not what you say but how you say it
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:49 PM
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What exactly do you struggle with? Girls don’t reply to you? Explicitly tell you they want to be friends? None of this and you’re just assuming? Tell me
/r/seduction19/10/20 12:47 PM
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People are gonna chime in here with shit like “that’s good she’s calling you guys assholes” or whatever, but this chick walked up to you, a new guy of the group, and told you that unsolicited. It honestly sounds like she’s being honest and that they do have a name for themselves. I can tell you right now 99% of bars I’ve been to, if you run heavy game often, people will notice. And if your game is trash/your ugly, they’ll think it’s creepy (sorry it’s true). Even if your games good/your Adonis, …
/r/seduction18/10/20 11:55 PM
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Stop rebranding sidebar material as some new age quasi shit you just realized. Yes be social with everyone. A lengthy post with a catchy name isn’t needed.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 02:28 PM
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While these are valid points and I give you props for internalizing them, this is like an apprentice trying to tell an electrician how to run wire. This is basic stuff. Keep doing what you have been, you’re on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 02:28 PM
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Spinning plates was coined by Rollo, he described it as the way I did in my post. Guys have misconstrued it to mean solely having sex.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 03:13 PM
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Ehh, in my opinion you’re confusing pain with courage. Any dumbass can take some pain and keep it moving, what’s hard, is having courage to do something hard deliberately that will cause pain. I realized this when I went to Airborne School for the U.S Army. There was no pain involved, PT was a joke, but for literally months after that I walked around confident as fuck because I knew that I was a courageous person to be willing to jump from a plane multiple times on my own. You had the courage to…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 03:57 AM
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Once you fuck enough girls with boyfriends, you start to realize that this is the reality. However nobody is blaming women, I don’t blame my dog for chasing squirrels, it’s just her nature.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 05:34 PM
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The sad part is, the worst case you described is actually the best case most of the time. Too many men I see have that happen + kids taken away/charges filed over false claims and are ostracized from friends and family.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 05:28 PM
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By beating her at her own game. How do women successfully cheat and spin plates of their own? With plausible deniability. Let me preface with, if your low quality male as in shit job, no charisma, no looks, this won’t work, you gotta have at least something going for you, which most guys do, still a disclaimer. So you continue to improve. You continue to run light dread. You covertly let her know, that you have options. You spin plates by being flirty and friendly with women in your life, don’t …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 03:06 PM
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While this is true, it’s only delaying the inevitable besides in outlier cases, there’s always someone better in her eyes. If she has the perfect man, she’ll want the perfect man that doesn’t shit or piss. Hypergamy doesn’t care.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:53 PM
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If we go with your way of thinking, that implies we’re all born with abundance mentality with our choosing of women. Nobody is born with options, you have to cultivate them. Even after you have them, you still continue to cultivate because plates eventually fall and break.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:51 PM
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Link is in my profile under “example” for those interested.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:32 PM
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Every time I link it it’s deleted, I can pm you if you want
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:23 PM
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Nothing in particular to say here, I definitely wasn’t ripped when this took place, I just acted the way I always do with a little added game when I was ready to fuck. If you want a more canned improvement journey type of response, I found TRP in 2015 and pretty much would read my ass off, google shit I didn’t know then put those things into practice. I fucked up a lot but eventually it just became my personality.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 06:34 PM
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If I WAS lying, wouldn’t I just post a fake pic..? You want for this to not be true so bad for some reason. This sub has gone downhill since I first found it in 2015. Crabs in a bucket. Instead of sleuthing and hating, read and learn and just enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 03:17 PM
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I didn’t get a license, therefore car, till I was 23, hence why she drove me home in the story. Funny when betas with no game act like crabs in a bucket. Also you searched literally all my posts I see, lol. That’s cute, like a paranoid girlfriend
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:07 PM
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Unless she straight up said “you’re cute” unsolicited, then it’s platonic. She’s your dentist and makes money off of you, if the conversation comes up somehow, she’s going to of course flatter you. If she called you ugly or so so, you’d probably be mad and get a new dentist. I know I would. Also, in my experience, when a girl calls me cute/hot/handsome/sexy and means it in a sexual/flirting way, there’s never a laugh. It’s usually said kind of stern and frank. That laugh was because she was most…
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:00 AM
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Probably not considering most would not jeopardize their career. If anyone bangs their therapist, it’s because she just wanted to (stupid of her), not because your game is tight
/r/seduction02/07/20 02:50 AM
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What’s the context of her calling you cute. I think you’re reading too much into it. No professional such as a dentist would jeopardize their career over something this like and being so forward. It was most likely meant in a motherly “you’re handsome” way, not a “you’re cute let’s date” way
/r/seduction02/07/20 02:48 AM
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You’re a girl I assume? If so you’ll be fine. 90% of guys will jump at it. If you’re a guy..well I’d make sure he’s gay first
/r/seduction02/07/20 02:47 AM
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Restaurants are like high school. Takes months for most to open up to you cause the turnover right. If you’re leaving in a month, just be friendly, make cash and leave.
/r/seduction02/07/20 02:11 AM
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Don’t do it. Remain platonic, unless you plan on leaving that job soon
/r/seduction02/07/20 02:04 AM
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Not sure if that’s a serious question or not, but to my understanding, prison.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 01:38 AM
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OP this, please don’t ever try to go under the table and give oral. Please. Whisper dirty shit in her ear and get her hot and bothered, maybe even go as far as kiss her neck a bit. No need to get down and dirty at the bar though.
/r/seduction01/07/20 11:50 PM
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How’d the date go?
/r/seduction01/07/20 11:46 PM
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I have not
/r/seduction01/07/20 11:39 PM
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Lol. Go game real women, not your phone screen
/r/seduction01/07/20 11:34 PM
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I send a ghost emoji, make small talk then ask on a date. Why would I want to catch up over text?
/r/seduction01/07/20 10:52 AM
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Lol no. Maybe the women in your life have low attraction levels, the same doesn’t ring true for myself and others I know. It’s not about ego. It’s about time and resources. Imagine not giving a fuck to the point you become a simp, such irony. But I digress.
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:46 PM
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She most likely saw it but didn’t open it cause she doesn’t want to be mean and not respond. You’ve never even talked in person. Let this one go
/r/seduction30/06/20 11:45 PM
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All I can say is my best sexual experiences were in Mexico
/r/seduction30/06/20 03:04 PM
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Well I can tell you that line of thinking is wrong, and even if she never wants to see you again, who cares. Millions just like her. But think of it logically..why would she go on a date if she didn’t want to get intimate? And yes, most want to get intimate on the first date. Good luck
/r/seduction30/06/20 03:02 PM
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Anywhere that’s not where 100% of the people have penises
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:22 PM
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I’ll have to respectfully disagree. Do you think she’s making chad with the chiseled jaw and 6 pack that makes her wet, wait? Or contact her multiple times? Fuck no. If she’s genuinely busy yeah there may be some lag but she gets back to him ASAP. If a girl isn’t getting back to you ASAP/making you keep reaching out to her or whatever, her attraction level is low. Can you fix this by continuing to be patient and try? Yeah I guess. But do you really want to be a free clown? She’s not interested, …
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:18 PM
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Girls will tell you. Find yourself a nice hoe and she will teach you how to kiss correctly
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:14 PM
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I was in your shoes before and it took some time to realize this, learn from me now and save yourself the trouble: She’s on a date with you. She wants you to kiss her. Forget “signs”. But the thing is, they won’t give you signs if you don’t touch them. Going right to kissing without touching is weird. I usually escalate slowly in this order -Greet with hug -Touch on arm 2-3 time when sitting down while telling joke of story -If she seems receptive to arm touching, gently allow your knee/leg to t…
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:10 PM
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Ok OP there’s some good answers here but they are all neglecting the one part you’re probably having the most trouble with, actually getting her from the front door to your room. Agree on having the place clean. When she comes in greet and hug her. I always offer a tour of my house, this builds familiarity a bit if they’re nervous, if she seems ready to rock and roll then skip this part. When she comes inside offer her a drink (be sure to have alcohol and non alcoholic, moscato and shiraz are go…
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:41 PM
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Not attractive enough for the girls you want. Even when they DO have a BF, if you’re hot enough, it doesn’t matter. Lift weights, clean up your diet and keep working on your game
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:34 PM
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Bad response. If you were gonna respond at all, you should’ve kept it playful. That was an accusatory tone which will put a sour taste in her mouth. Is her having a sour taste about being easy for you what you want? No. You want her to throw her pussy at you. If you were gonna respond, should’ve just said “neither am I”. Nevertheless, see if she comes over and escalate. Don’t be too forward with this one. When she denies your first advance, go 2 steps back - 1 step forward
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:31 PM
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Not coming out for the first date = you aren’t attractive/interesting enough Not coming out for a second date = you didn’t do a good job creating the “experience” for her. Usually. Sometimes she just doesn’t like you. Are you kissing these women on the first date? If so, in the middle and the not the end? How touchy are you? Read up on kino; always be escalating. How many venues do you go to? One and done? Try having 3 diff (cheap) venues within walking distances you can hit, spending 15-30min a…
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:29 PM
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“Neither am I” If she’s saying she’s not that easy...she’s that easy. Wear a condom. Edit: NVM I saw she said that after you said for her to come over. She’s not attracted enough to you. IME if she really wants you, she will jump at the chance to come over then pull the “we’re not having sex” card 5 min before sucking tour dick. If it was me, I’d not respond and go no contact for 48 hours or so, then text like nothing ever even happened, at that point escalate back to asking her out but somewher…
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:21 PM
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Be very lean and have good facial bone structure. Anything else is snake oil. If this is you, you will always look better than bearded guys. It’s just the truth.
/r/seduction30/06/20 01:55 AM
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The one advantage you have is your ability to not give a fuck about social faux paus. It may seem like a disadvantage when you feel awkward, but trust me, leverage it right, it will be an advantage.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:50 PM
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Since you mentioned the possibly autistic thing, I’m going to be a lot more gentle in this reply than I usually am. She just doesn’t seem interested in you and she’s just being friendly. However, that doesn’t mean much of anything. Buy a gym membership and start lifting weights, read on how to have a good diet and take care of anything like acne you may have. In 3 months buy a new outfit or 2 then revisit this scenario. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:48 PM
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You’re thinking too deep into it. This isn’t about goals or anything like that. It’s about women seeking validation and the lengths some women will go to vs others for said validation.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:44 PM
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The thing is, it’s less of a being pussy whipped issue (although that is still correct), and more of a not properly vetting women issue. Let’s get real, if you wife up a girl that wants to post nudes/do porn whatever, she’s gonna do that shit. It doesn’t matter how masculine or alpha you are, that’s the type of woman she is. Being a pussy whipped schlub leads more so to branch swinging, yeah you could prevent that. Her posting nudes however, especially for money? Hoes gonna hoe bro. Vet better.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:55 PM
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Being jacked with fitted clothing
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:13 AM
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Fuck your mom
/r/seduction25/06/20 02:11 AM
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Been there done that, got the t-shirt and all. Make a decision now to either fuck all of them and leave the establishment fairly quickly having had your fun, or don’t fuck any of them at all. There is no in between. If you fuck 1, everyone will know and it is always DRAMA, so might as well get your money worth and fuck them all before you quit or are fired (again, from experience). Other than that, be a normal person and if you’re invited for after work drinks/food, join them. Get in tight with …
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:57 PM
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Do you not enjoy amusement park rides or similar things just because you know they will end? No. You have your fun and when your time is up, you leave the ride gracefully.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 07:17 PM
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There was a time in my life where I’d agree with you on the 90/10.. then I fucked a “good girl” fresh off a break up despite her knowing I fucked her mom who’s 20 years my senior, only a week earlier. Part of me wishes I was making this up. Right time. Right place. Right alpha. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 05:28 AM
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Stop giving a fuck
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:00 PM
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Tension and awkwardness aren’t the same
/r/seduction22/06/20 09:40 PM
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I’ll be honest all I read was the title, if you are writing multiple paragraphs about the acceptance of some slut moving onto another cock, you need to re-read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 09:26 PM
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You got downvoted to hell by the neck beards but this is all facts. Your ratings are off a bit but mostly are right. These guys will parrot of how average guys rated a 5 or a 6 on this sub get laid, but that’s because they play a numbers game, a broken clock is still right twice a day though. Until I was 18 I was no more than a 2-3, obese with horrible hygiene and teeth. 18-20 a solid 8, currently a 6 or so as I make a bit less money and gained some weight. I can confirm everything you said, whe…
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:23 PM
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This is what we call a catfish
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:18 PM
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Definitively and with conviction
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:14 PM
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Even at 100+ upvotes, this is an underrated comment
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:07 AM
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The easiest way to explain frame to someone that doesn’t have an idea is, it’s the literal embodiment of “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.” Be masculine and unapologetically you.
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:59 AM
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If the people in your life started telling you that the sky is actually green, how would you feel? Probably uncomfortable. Blue is all you’ve known your entire life. You’d deny it at first, but then maybe one day, you see just a tinge of green amidst the blue. You brush it off. But you can’t help but continue seeing these smudges of green here and there now that you’re aware, then one day it hits you, you’ve been colorblind your whole life.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 04:56 AM
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Do you have a good body? If so, send somewhat revealing pics of yourself with generic sexual captions. Never go full dick pic. This should get her decently horny, once she’s sending you legit nudes, say something like “let’s take the phones out of the equation, wya” Good luck
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:52 AM
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100% true and whoever doesn’t accept this for what it is, and internalize it, will be an AFC and get hurt over and over again. This is one of the more bitter pills to swallow.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 04:48 AM
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Completely unrelated question, but how did you get into the trade? Just applied for apprenticeships? Union?
/r/seduction19/06/20 07:54 PM
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