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| 3 | Kissing a friend or asking her out ?I don’t think a kiss on the cheek is enough to express your interest, that’s how many friends greet each other. Also springing a kiss on a friend in public has the chance to turn out poorly unless you read the situation correctly. There are a couple options, but the most reliable is probably asking her on a date. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | TextingAgreed. Sounds like a good plan | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | TextingHahaha. I usually go with a happy medium. Hit her up at the midway point with something (probably funny— to chat a little). Then the day of to confirm. Basically everyone’s preferences will be different so play it by ear, but texting a ton is generally frowned upon but not texting at all ever can be too much also | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Hit up a coworker yesterday and got ghosted. I see her at my part time job in a week. Anyone know what I should do?Wait is this the convo you think you got ghosted on? I honestly don’t think her not responding here means anything, it’s random chit chat, she probs got bored and didn’t feel like discussing her sleeping habits haha. Text less, small talk is fine every now and then but you’ll def get ignored occasionally if it’s going nowhere. It’s impossible to tell from these texts whether she’s interested— she’s likely not head over heels or she would respond to every word you say immediately, but it doesn’t … | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How to build comfort without being friendzoned?I find a lot of my girlfriends have come from within my social circle/colleagues (not necessarily close friends). Really IMO the only difference between building comfort first then attraction is that you slowly progress things. For instance start by chatting with them out, getting their number, inviting them out, and then inviting them to hang out 1 on 1 and dates. You basically just act how you would making any friends just with some progression. Don’t over-invest in that relationship, and keep… | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill music and songsPOWER | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are always chatting girls, who is it and what are you saying?Any advice? | /r/seduction | 27/11/16 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Is it actually worth it to hesitate from texting on a constant basis?Yes. It doesn't show disinterest. | /r/seduction | 26/11/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Taking GayLubeOil's Advice: My Authentic MGTOW ExperienceJust wanted to say this is awesome. I've been recently looking at healthcare needs where I am and have been thinking about trying to do something for mental health/violence/substance abuse prevention (obviously that's vague because I'm not very far along lol). This is stuff that I've kind of been interested in, and I've been working in biomed for a while now so it seems like an applicable use of my skills. Would you mind if I sent you a pm about how you got your program up and running? Obviously… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/16 10:37 PM |
| 5 | "Love"Gotcha, that makes sense and I feel that. Definitely an interesting question. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 12:58 AM |
| 7 | "Love"If you stopped loving them doesn't that not make it unconditional love? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | For those who have read "Daring Greatly" by Brene BrownYou'll love it! It's honestly tough to practice it all the time, but it gets easier and definitely helps. It's like the theory and science behind models (great book also). And it's great combined with "how to win friends and influence people" because that book kinds teaches you good communication to go along with vulnerability. Best of luck! | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 07:28 PM |
| 1 | For those who have read "Daring Greatly" by Brene BrownJust finished it a while ago and I strongly suggest it. It has helped me a lot with building meaningful relationships with people who I care about. | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | A girl I met with starts flaking out of nowhere and now tells me why lol:O sorry mate that sounds... no chill | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 11:15 PM |
| 1 | A girl I met with starts flaking out of nowhere and now tells me why lolDamn this sounds super chill. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Girls act uninterested after good first date?This actually strikes a chord with me. I've had very similar problems where I hit a wall with second dates. If you have any ideas let me know man, I honestly don't know. It's frustrating though. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 02:21 AM |
| 3 | I didn't get any responses at r/suicidewatch I'm 19 and need helpI rather like living | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Going to DC this weekend for my 26th BDayThere's usually some good July fourth bar crawls. DuPont circle and U street bars are popular for going out. | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Liberal vs Conservative: How Women have benefited and Men have lost under this clash of valuesThis is pretty interesting. Did you read the paper a while back about the neuro anatomy of conservatives VS liberals. I believe it talked about different regions of the brain emphasized in both groups. The amygdala in conservatives was emphasized and thus they were more resistant to change and had a greater fight or flight response. I didn't get a chance to read the whole thing, it's on my work computer haha. Seems like with neuroplasticity anyone could change though. (Not that ppl need to chang… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 12:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some romantic French lines that I can say to French girls?I want to do this just so I can see it for myself | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Need help clearly stating my intentions / starting on the right foot.I've done similar stuff and I've done it both hot and cold. I would suggest going warm, refer to an Inside joke or something, get her talking, and then bust the question. Don't go for an entire convo, but I e found its good to get conversation flowing and break the ice before going for the gold so to speak. This is my Facebook model, if using cell numbers I might just skip strait to the "hey let's grab drinks business" (go in cold) Example: You: "Hey __! How's the _ going?" Her: "it's great! I l… | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Practical ways to deal with insecurities?Should I wear a diaper | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, if you could move anywhere, where would it be?Wow that sounds great | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Practical ways to deal with insecurities?Skydiving sounds so scary... Maybe I should do it. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Stop asking this subreddit what you should do. Do something and make a mistake. Learn from it. Your fear to make mistakes is why you are failing.I give a two strikes policy for flakes. If she's receptive the first time and responds well and I enjoy our time, then if she flakes or says she can't make something I'll act like nothing happened and plan for another meet up. If it happens again I'll next her and stop texting her. Usually this results in her contacting me and I'll give it another shot where it's doomed to fail. Just some thoughts for you. Don't need to cut all ties with someone cause they flaked one time. But definitely play it… | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Stop asking this subreddit what you should do. Do something and make a mistake. Learn from it. Your fear to make mistakes is why you are failing.That shit cray | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Stop asking this subreddit what you should do. Do something and make a mistake. Learn from it. Your fear to make mistakes is why you are failing.Did drake ghost write that for you? | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 10:44 PM |
| 3 | is roasting people insecure?I think the best way to dichotomize it is to look at what your intentions are. 1) joking around with a friend just having a good time. Shitting on them a little bit, they all laugh but no ones feelings are really hurt. I shit on myself sometimes too. This is fun and enjoyable to an extent, but if you go overboard it can be the insecure kind. 2) Intending to put someone in their place because they have challenged you or have threatened your status. It comes off as petty and insecure because you'r… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Alphas: What's your opinion on Trump?Most of his Foreign policy, abortion, same sex marriage, gun control, the environment, vaccines, and how he's willing to say anything regardless of truth to get support | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 04:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond when a male is belittling you?Think about how rocky handled when Apollo creed was taunting him in rocky 2. Apollo was ripping into him for being a phony and rocky is just like "he seems upset". A few clever or witty comments here and there but keep your frame and stay under control. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 01:31 AM |
| 1 | When the girl knows you like herShe might give those subtle signs still actually, cause that's mostly sub conscious I think. They may even be exaggerated cause she'll be more nervous. I would just talk to her like any other girl, try to isolate her in conversation away from her friends. Just don't be discouraged if she acts strange around you at first, if she's attracted she should warm up to you. | /r/seduction | 29/11/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | When the girl knows you like herOhhhhh, yea. I was just going off that he said she's kind of a shy girl. I was just trying to tell him not to be disheartened if she's shy towards him at first. | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | When the girl knows you like herIn my opinion it better to assume there's attraction and you can make a move and pursue until you get rejected or know otherwise. What's the alternative? Giving up without trying? | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 3 | When the girl knows you like herIf she likes u back she's gonna be super shy then btw. Doesn't mean she's not interested necessarily. Always that chance but always assume attraction ya know. | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Long Distance?Wow I feel this so much. Going through this exact same thing, in fact with two girls... One I dated before she left for a year, and I didn't want to try long distance because (listening to trp advice) it never works. I kind of regret that, but I'm kind of waiting for her to figure out if she's moving back or if she will live abroad. I talk to her a few times a month, but I definitely think about her more than I should... Other girl I dated the summer after this chick left, and she moved away as … | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Sleeping schedule and how do you keep up with it?No food after 4??? How! | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Effective way to dehumanize someone in your mind?Great advice, also thank you for addressing the dehumanizing thing lol... Given the state of the world currently we don't need ppl to be talking about how to dehumanize others in this sub | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Raising a generation of pussies and betas [Yale University speech SJW protestors]Can't believe you're getting downvotes for not wanting trump as president lol. Just because someone is offensive and doesn't apologize doesn't mean they're a good presidential candidate haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 12:35 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle these tests?1) Oh me? I'm 13, just old enough for you guys right. 2) (once you realize they're lying) I'm Chris... Chris Pratt, you're probably familiar with some of my work OR I'm nba superstar lebron James, pleasure to meet you 3) introduce yourself to the dude then say you gotta roll and try to grab the numbers. If those seen weird to you... They kinda are. But when chicks start saying stupid shit to me I like to say shit that throws them off, and it works if they have any sense of humor, so it's a good … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you treat your male friends? The same as you treat women?Love doing the escalation ladder with my bro Dave | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The Maryland/DC area has given us Roosh and Good Looking Loser, what is it with women in that area?I live here. Seems to be fine? I guess if anything DC chicks seem entitled and pretentious. But that's a broad generalization, and I think those type of girls are everywhere and we know how to deal with that... Sometimes it's difficult to date because ppl can be from all over and just visiting for the weekend, but they'll still hook up. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 04:36 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys make of this Churchill quote?I'm gonna get belligerently drunk just so I can say this | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Got the "Hey! /u/Hackey 23!" "Heey what's up?" "Surprised you remember me, wow" shit test.Agree and amplify is my go to for everything. "Wow I'm surprised you remember me" "Yea usually my long term amnesia makes me forget people immediately" Or "It must be all those suduko puzzles finally paying off" Or "I could never forget you. It's ____, right? (Or make up something completely false about them)" Those are just some things I thought up, idk if you'd ever want to use them haha. But I guess I'd just suggest being ridiculous and creative in response to shit tests. It shocks them and w… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/15 05:07 PM |
| 2 | AWALT...what about AMALT?This is actually pretty interesting. I can usually predict most men's actions in a situation where they are trying to impress a woman, which doesn't really help me much. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Good with girls if they get put in my social circle, can't approach.I have the same problem dude... 90% of the time someone is introduced to me or they introduce themselves, or something happens that makes conversation easy. I hardly ever walk up to a girl and open just on the spot... But I've found if im prompted by someone else to do it, im just fine at it. Maybe it's a motivation issue? Like you don't feel motivated to do it cause you know there are other women/you'll see that chick the next day. So maybe you can trick yourself into action if it's a procrasti… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Beyond Netflix and chill: Long-term plate maintenancelol I wouldn't give her a gift, id just be sure to see her before you leave to say bye and then contact her once you get back. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How much does texting make a difference?Dude I love Bobby's taint sauce | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Going to France today girlfriend broke up with me last night how should I open/approach french girls at bars/clubs as a foreignerJust ask people there where they go! | /r/askTRP | 23/07/15 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis rant and need help.Sorry bud, that sounds awful. I'm not going to offer relationship advice because I just don't know. How long has she been this sick for? It sounds like it may be post-treatment Lyme disease syndrome, which is really a mystery to doctors and scientists. It usually clears up with time though, but it can take years, and she may never have the same energy as she had. It's not known whether this condition is caused by a persistent B. burgdorferi infection or whether it's the result of damage to organ… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | TRP definition of muscular ?But also be watchful-- adding muscle can slow you down and sometimes even effect punching form | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | TRP definition of muscular ?Nice that's a pretty good gym schedule. If you do decide to weight up some more, I would switch your lifting accordingly by taking out the cardio after your lifting workouts and maybe doing it on another day. And yea, the key is just to keep that calorie surplus even with all the cardio. If you don't already try eating more meals per day (although smaller). There's some dieting tips for fighters on expert boxing.com Also strength routines aren't as good as muscle building routines, but since you… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | TRP definition of muscular ?Hey man, I also box. Am about 190 and gonna try to get like 9 more pounds of muscle and stick around 198 so I'm not in the 200 class haha. If you're at 160 you can still add like 10-15 pounds before you have to worry about the next weight right? Sorry I'm not familiar with those weight classes. What sort of workouts do you do each week? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Enough. I accept that I'll have to reinvent myself, and this is how it's going to go down.If you're very serious about mma I would suggest lifting for strength (I like 5x5 sets) and not muscle mass/volume. Definitely do some research. Cardio is super important also. But if mma is just going to be a side hobby you do a few times a week you're prolly fine sticking to your usual schedule (but take it easy if you feel tired or hurt) Best of luck! | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Should you hangout in friend groups where you are the alpha or beta?So true. I have a group of guy friends who always have to one up each other to try to be the top dog. It's exhausting when you are trying to relax | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 12:35 AM |
| 2 | A quality potential plate has an extremely handsome orbiterI would consider him not a threat and carry on with your mission. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/15 02:08 AM |
| 2 | I want to try again with a girl who's previously rejected me.He got U good with the cock falling off thing THO | /r/askTRP | 22/04/15 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Does women/sex deter you away from your goals?I can't say for everyone, but I feel like it can lead to complacency. Luckily as red pill initiates, we know that we must constantly be bettering ourselves and apathy/complacency to get better is failure. Keep that edge. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Why am I such a pussy?Those lifts are pretty solid my man. Take that confidence from the gym and use it. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I okay?Agree with everything you said except the disease part. Cop out webmd link but it cites CDC clinical studies. I agree though, I don't think, in America, uncircumcised penises necessarily pose a significant health risk. http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/news/20141202/cdc-endorses-circumcision-for-health-reasons | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement and Mark Manson's 'Models'It's really great man. I bought the kindle version and highlighted important parts so I can pretty much refer to it whenever I want when I need reminders and motivation. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 05:29 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Took a girl from Tinder hiking, went back to my place, F-CloseHe was trying to turn us on as well | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 02:02 PM |
| 2 | What does "I don't think I can" mean?This isn't saying anything. Everyone has some underlying insecurities. This doesn't mean EVERYTHING they do is a test. For some women, maybe. It's absurd to say otherwise. | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 12:21 AM |
| 1 | What does "I don't think I can" mean?Damn, I disagree with a lot posted in that link. I'm sure the dude gets laid a lot... But damn. "Women are constantly testing us." Seems like a tough way to go about interaction with women, always trying to pass some test, no? Didn't get to go through all of it but interesting read. | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 05:54 AM |
| 0 | What's the best venue for picking up if you're ugly but have a good personality?Bars are fine, clubs na. Anywhere you can talk without getting drowned out by music, and girls at clubs pretty much only judge based on looks so if you aren't confident in your looks I wouldn't go there. In fact I don't go to clubs to pick up girls cause it's always too damn loud. Try a bar that's not quiet, but not super popping, so you can let your personality really take control... Maybe like a popular sports bar? And honestly wherever you feel the most comfortable... If you'd want something … | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 03:15 AM |
| 2 | The Right Time To Ask Her OutI think when you get the desire to ask a girl out and if its a good time for you, you should just do it. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 12:29 AM |
| 8 | The Real Reason You Didn't Get Laid This WeekendWhat is this, the skyrim subreddit | /r/seduction | 02/01/15 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Going out by my self.Don't bother responding to that guy, he's a prick. You're trying to do something new and challenging so props to you. If I might make a suggestion, just try having fun. Don't worry so much about coming off as stoic and masterful-- as long as you're doing something you find fun ppl will be attracted to you. ie dancing (funny dancing or actual good dancing if you can do it haha), talk up some ppl at a bar about a game that's on, ask about where they're from, just have a good time and success will … | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 06:10 PM |
| 5 | GLL - How to Avoid Getting Emotionally Attached to Girls Too Quickly (Fantastic Insight)I ain't made of time either! | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Low EnergyIdk what your take is on this, but before I go out with friends during the work week I will usually take about a 45-60 minute nap then have a cup of coffee. I work pretty long hours so being out and about during the week is tough. | /r/seduction | 08/07/14 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever sit there, after a night of going out, and wonder what the fuck did I do wrong?Yea I feel you. It's one of those things you grow into. Some girls just suck and you learn to get over it. Sometimes girls just do stuff like that cause they feel weird also. It's just something you gotta brush off ya know. Just remember you're the prize and say so long to the ppl who say no and forget about them. | /r/seduction | 26/02/14 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys ever sit there, after a night of going out, and wonder what the fuck did I do wrong?Well 1) it could have been a guy friend she was out with (I go out with girls who have boyfriends and they wingman me). But that's besides the point. If a girl sucks enough to not even give you a chance who cares, their loss, they suck, on to the next. I wouldn't say you have one-itis because I feel like that's for longer term girls than just ones you see at a bar. I think you are just kinda offended she may have lied to you to get away from you, which while understandable, is just something you… | /r/seduction | 26/02/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I confront a girl I hooked up with that may be avoiding me?Ha I'm in a similar boat now my friend. I say go cold, sometimes girls do this to try to get you to chase them/while they figure stuff out. A confrontation, in my opinion, would freak the girl out and push her away instead of fix things. Just go on with your life and try re engaging in a couple weeks or so. | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 12:12 AM |
| 43 | When a girl clearly ignores my calls, and text messages...Am I allowed to stop her and call her out when she sees me and is acting all fake and excited to see me?I always just act like I don't give a shit, but when you see her act more reserved than usual. Like if a chick has been clearly ignoring me I'm not gonna be super amped when I see her, I'll still be friendly, but I'm not gonna go out of my way. | /r/seduction | 16/02/14 05:42 PM |
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