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Are you prolife or prochoice? Pro-choice. Don't push your religious doctrine on me. Would you personally get an abortion if you found yourself pregnant today? I would check and make sure some immaculate conception thing wasn't going on (probably to spite me for the above statement). Then, absolutely. Would you have an abortion if you wanted to keep it, but your husband/boyfriend/other told you to have an abortion? Yes. I'm not raising a kid without support from both parents. If you found yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:17 AM
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Although women want to wed, they only want to marry a successful man with a secure job — and they will put off marriage until they find such a man, or until the man they are with is at that stage. The problem, particularly for women on lower incomes, is a lack of marriageable men. So a lot of this is just hypergamy. I'm sure that for at least some of these women, it's not that you don't want to find a partner and get married, but that it hasn't happened yet and after a certain point it's better …
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 03:05 AM
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At night is the best time to apply antiperspirant. Aluminum-based antiperspirants are thought to work by the particles entering and blocking the sweat gland, which is most effective at night because there is no sweating to sort of wash the particles away. If you impede that process unfortunately the antiperspirant will be less effective. Heat and moisture (such as what you get when showering) do work to open pores, but the sweat glands largely stay the same size all the time. I haven't really lo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 11:10 PM
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The list in the FAQ is in reference to if you're still looking for a partner (notice the point at the bottom that is specific to those who are in a relationship). Having long hair will allow you to appeal to the majority of men, but because you have a specific man in mind you want to appeal to, it's better to focus on what he likes - you're not trying to attract anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 10:56 PM
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Your digs are excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:27 AM
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Number 2: cholesterol in sweat is due to contamination from the skin where the sweat is collected - cholesterol is present in the membranes of cells, which are very easily scraped off of the skin when sweat is collected. I thought number 4 would be really cool with the way the author phrased it, but the study was only about exercise, not about how much sweat was produced. Number 5 isn't a benefit of sweating. Number 6 references the conclusions from your other post. 7 and 8 are just general bene…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 02:25 AM
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It's odd to me that only two of the subjects had any BPA detected in their blood. Since blood is filtered to form urine, there should not be any compound present in the urine which is not present in blood except in case of contamination. This might come from cellular debris, since they did not spin down or otherwise filter out cell debris from their sweat or urine samples like they did with the blood. This study gives results that conflict with your study's - when subjects were deliberately expo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 02:22 AM
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Antiperspirant is more effective when applied at night just before bed (and reapplied in the morning if necessary). Sunglasses are so important - they prevent eye damage and keep you from squinting all day and getting wrinkles. Make sure they are labeled "UV protection" though, as dark sunglasses with no UV protection will cause your pupils to enlarge, allowing even more UV light in. Sunscreen on the backs of your hands - an area which really shows age.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/16 09:27 PM
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This is a myth. You cannot sweat out toxins - they pass through the liver and kidneys and are eliminated by the urinary and excretory systems, which is why drinking enough water is important.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/16 09:20 PM
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If his dick is thinner than a tampon then maybe that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:54 PM
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This year's was great, they ended it early because we crashed the site from too many throwaways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:47 PM
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That's not really red pill advice. Social proof does not typically raise a woman's value in her partner's eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 07:55 PM
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It's moreso because TRP espouses never getting married which is incompatible with RPW.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 03:21 AM
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A lot of us go for greater betas, not alphas. We don't really recommend dating the type of guys who post on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 01:09 AM
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She's saying she wasn't nexted by her husband because she made him wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 01:29 PM
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As a woman, marriage is still your best option in terms of security. Why would this hypothetical woman forgo that in favor of a single parent household, or of providing all the benefits of a wife without the commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/16 04:44 AM
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they get to interact with TONS of people every day interact with a good number of people daily What's the benefit to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 07:07 PM
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Actually the opposite - cool tones will make yellow undertones pop more. A warm-toned blue would be best. The blue you linked (in the split blue/pink hair picture) is warm-toned - a cool-toned blue would be more purpley.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/16 02:43 AM
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No to all of the above. I did date a somewhat muscular guy, but I would classify him as more of a hipster than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 02:46 AM
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What is your pill? Like, magenta Do you have casual sex on a semi-frequent basis? Never Have you ever had a one night stand? No Have you ever been to a night club? Yes, a couple times Have you ever been drunk before? No, just buzzed Have you ever smoked weed or a different illegal drug? No What is the shortest amount of time between when you have met someone and when you first slept with them? Around two weeks, I think Do you lift weights at the gym? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/16 02:20 PM
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It's not like there's zero stress or pressure. Though yeah when I have too much free time I tend to dick around on the internet a lot. As long as I stick to a regular workout schedule, I can keep my energy up and work on side projects to avoid getting in a rut.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 03:04 AM
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Errands are much easier to run when you're available during normal business hours. Cooking from scratch takes quite a bit of time, including the time it takes to plan meals for the week, look for sales and cut coupons, and grocery shop. Gardening, especially when you're growing some of the family's food, takes time. And it's easier to have one person doing the majority of the housework and childcare, rather than trying to split it evenly and bickering about whose turn it is and how someone is do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/16 01:27 AM
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Normally, in order for a guy to get laid OP implies that every woman (even those with low SMV) require so much money to be spent on them, and that none insist on cheaper dates or splitting the bill. Some of us like our man to know that we're with him because we like him, not because he spends money on us. A healthy woman doesn't really need to workout to stay skinny. Most men do not understand the effects of working out on women's bodies. Sure, being skinnyfat like you describe is always an opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 11:40 PM
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In my family/community, you get married. It's just what you do. Once you get married, you stay married. You need it to pass on wealth and be taken seriously in your career and society. So I would wonder wtf happened to my particular segment of society. If I knew for certain that the social climate was such that I could not marry, I would be having kids via sperm bank right about now, taking a year or so to raise them, then handing over the majority of their care to my family (they've previously …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 07:15 PM
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Obviously. Men's apprehension of marriage is all this sub ever talks about when we talk about marriage, but the type of woman red pill men want would never agree to an arrangement where she is permanently a girlfriend and never a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 05:31 PM
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That's not the possibility a marriage-minded woman is concerned with. She knows she won't walk away and wants to ensure her man doesn't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/16 02:45 AM
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Who spends that much on dates? I'm pretty sure I haven't gone on $1000 worth of dates in my life. fake makeup and fake boobs You act like these are not expensive, and like women don't work out, diet, dress well, and cultivate social skills. Anyway I do agree that it's far easier for women to get laid, but it's not like there is zero work being put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/16 07:31 PM
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I was kind of a late bloomer and waited for a while before I lost it to my second boyfriend (he was also a virgin). My friends were all late bloomers as well, so I was one of the first to actually lose my virginity. It wasn't really a conscious decision to wait until some set endpoint, but I did sort of get a sense (from my mom) that my virginity was important and so I didn't throw it away in a meaningless relationship. He was a good guy and I'm glad I lost it to him, but I realized I really lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 11:49 PM
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It's cool that this guy is displaying confidence and all, but that still doesn't make him attractive to the women who find him unattractive, so he will still be rated a 1 by most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 05:03 PM
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I can't have sex without developing an emotional connection. So I'd abstain out of respect for my SO's rules. Why am I with this guy anyway, if he doesn't care whether I'm faithful to him? A cuckold fetish I can understand, but how does he benefit from this kind of arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 01:59 AM
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You must be making baseless assumptions. Do the guys in the video have "lanky, swimmer's body builds" to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 11:09 PM
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Noooo thank you, not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:22 AM
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I sort of get what you're saying in that women are more likely to have a steep bell-curve with more women falling close to the mean, while men have a shallower bell curve with more men being exceptions, both at the lower and higher ends. Like this But there is definitely a middle ground between "dredges" and "playboys". It's not like there is a peak at each extreme, with nothing in the center. Most people are going to be somewhere around average. I know there are average guys out there, but they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:55 PM
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Okay... From my understanding, you're saying that average girls and attractive girls are fighting over the same guys (which I would disagree with). For guys, there is a steeper bell curve(??), meaning that there are not many average guys..?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:24 PM
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So you do acknowledge that there is a portion of women who do not ride the CC nor practice AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:15 PM
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I don't understand this comment. Are you trying to address class as another issue, or is that just an analogy for the dating market? What learning curve are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 08:14 PM
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Nobody in my life "empowers playboys", nor seeks to "snag the cream of the crop". Is it such an unreasonable standard to want to form a romantic relationship with someone of your own caliber?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:57 PM
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Women cannot be endlessly hypergamous because they can't secure resources from the most attractive men, so they go for a dependable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/16 06:17 PM
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I watch porn pretty frequently, even when in a relationship. It helps compensate for any libido mismatch, and helps me resist falling into bed with guys I date before the time is right. Though I try not to become dependent on it by not using it every time. I don't use toys but if I did I'd also be wary of becoming dependent on sensations that can't be replicated with a partner.
/r/RedPillWives19/05/16 05:44 AM
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I'm 21 and about 10 years older is my limit. Most well-adjusted men in my area pursue women close to their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 02:01 PM
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You may want to consider the fact that sperm quality declines with age more than eggs do. Finding a younger woman is not the solution to all age-related issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 01:41 PM
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For the record agree with you, and OP mostly does as well, I think this is just a poorly-made chart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 01:03 AM
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Butterflies, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 09:32 PM
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The perfect woman doesn't exist and she is beyond the human imagination. An entirely non-useful metric then. It is a spectrum. You can be a little of both or most of one. So if it's a spectrum and you can be a little of each or lean to one side or the other, why are they two separate variables? You can favor one side, or reach a happy medium by giving up some of one trait to become more of the other. They are indeed opposed. What about my suggestion of a cute-sexy spectrum on the X-axis and beau…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 09:21 PM
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Legolas-Aragorn continuum on the X-axis with attractiveness on the Y-axis. Same as this chart should've had a cute-sexy continuum on the X-axis with beauty on the Y-axis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 08:22 PM
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Depends on what a woman wants. If she is in it for LTRs then she may want to dress less like a club slut and more like a girlfriend. So you're saying that the "perfect woman" indeed does not approach a 10 in all three qualities, instead her look is tailored toward what she is trying to achieve? Beauty is at the top of the triangle because it is most important. Mm yeah, that's not really the right way to indicate that on this type of chart. If beauty is the most important, why are you calculating…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 08:14 PM
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Okay so the author gave Emma Stone as an example who is perfectly cute and almost perfectly beautiful. How is it possible for her to score so high on two traits that are equally as far apart from each other as sexy and cute are from each other? Would it be possible for a woman to score extremely high in both cuteness and sexiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 06:48 PM
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You seem to be implying cute and sexy are diametrically opposed. Is the goal here achieving a balance between cute and sexy? Dressing more sexy will lessen the cute factor, is it beneficial to give up some of that cuteness in order to increase sexiness? How does beauty factor in, if at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 06:44 PM
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Yes but the chart implies none of that, it suggests that beauty is as far away from either cute or sexy as cute and sexy are from each other. You can't accuse someone of not understanding the chart when you're talking about something the chart does not address at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 06:02 PM
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There's no reason those two in particular are opposites of each other, any more than cute and beautiful or beautiful and sexy are opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:28 PM
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So when a RPW "nudges certain attributes", what is the goal? Reach a balance between your levels of the three traits? Play to your strengths? Behaviorally, you can learn to behave appropriately in different situations, but clearly most of the physical attributes are ones you're born with or ones that are mutually exclusive between the categories. You'd think this kind of audience would know how radar attribute charts work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:22 PM
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You just left out all the "beautiful" traits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:03 PM
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I don't really feel the need to maintain close friendships with men, and the only way I see it holding me back is not being able to meet men to date through social groups. So if a guy's interested and I do want to date him, I go ahead, and if not, I don't really develop anything further than an acquaintanceship. Does everyone need close friends of both genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:01 PM
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Don't "nice girls" also qualify themselves by being nice/"chill"/"a good girl" or "having a good personality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/16 04:26 AM
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I grew up in a home that was not openly red pill, but my parents did have a lot of the traits - dad was the breadwinner and mom stayed home, there was always a lot of emphasis on doing nice things for dad and having a hot dinner on the table when he got home from work, or hot chocolate or a cold drink ready when he came back from shoveling snow or doing yardwork. Dad and bro are religious, mom and I aren't but we do go to church when dad asks us to. We're all pretty liberal. My mom gave me quite…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/16 03:23 AM
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No, fat actually lowers testosterone levels and thus sex drive. But a girl with abnormally high levels of testosterone is unlikely to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 07:04 PM
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You really think boys in high school are that prolific in asking girls out? The boys I knew had only asked girls out once or twice in their lives. Compared to them I was being much more proactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 01:12 PM
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The pain doesn't stop when they pull out. This is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 11:21 PM
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The term "fuckboy" in this context refers to a guy who is dishonest about his intentions with women. It does not mean a guy who likes to have sex. The term for that is "man".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 12:47 AM
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I think you'd better go back and reread the thread, none of that is relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 11:46 PM
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Red pill men are a minority. I am disinclined to believe that men as a whole are completely open about seeing multiple girls, else there wouldn't be all this talk of "fuckboys".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 11:22 PM
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I'm not sure consent is really involved. As far as I know, the man will rarely be upfront about the fact that he is seeing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/16 04:14 PM
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With that statement, I was referring to posts in this thread such as If you were at least a 5/10, aka average, you were, at some point, approached for by a man You can see in my post that I got rejected a few times meaning there was indeed an effort made.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 03:19 AM
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I had a similar experience as you. I never dated in high school and got rejected a few times. I had friends but we weren't cool enough to get invited to parties. All the girls was friends with graduated as virgins, most had never had boyfriends. These days we're all doing a lot better in the romance department, so it wasn't a problem with our looks. I think people here are overestimating how bold high school boys actually are in making moves on a girl they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 08:26 PM
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The idea is to be such a high-value mate that a man would be a fool not to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 07:21 PM
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Why is this a question for blue pill instead of women? As far as I know, red pill and purple pill women agree that men can be too muscular. On this chart, starting at 3A and going up and right diagonally is what I would consider too much muscle, and anything above D-ish is too much fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:10 PM
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That woman's figure is exaggeratedly feminine. She has an hourglass figure, very little stomach fat, and no visible cellulite. You have to be very lucky (or go through surgery) to store fat the way she does. The idea of you calling her fat is laughable. I think I would compare that body type most closely to that of a very muscular man: perhaps not to everyone's taste, but it definitely embodies each sex's secondary sexual characteristics. A smaller waist is attractive for all genders. Men are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:31 PM
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"pretty much any fit girl can be an 8 if she puts her mind to it" I don't think OP's post warranted additional attention to the weight-loss aspect. She's working on losing more weight, she already knows it's important. Exactly. Even when a girl is a healthy weight, we still encourage her to improve around here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/16 01:46 AM
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This girl says she's working on losing weight. Top comment confirms that fitness is important, first link about being attractive she recommends is this, a favorite on this subreddit, which again confirms that fitness is the most important physical factor for women to focus on. This girl has a BMI on the low end of healthy, yet people still recommend lifting weights to help tone and firm up. I'm not sure we're reading the same forum?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/16 12:55 AM
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Everyone here already knows that. You probably got downvoted for stating the obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 12:59 PM
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Plainly stating that you either 1) want a solution; or, 2) just want an ear, will also set the tone for the interaction straight off the bat in (IMO) a more constructive light. I like this, thank you.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 10:50 PM
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Bring him your problem, not your solution Ever heard that quote "Complaining about a problem without posing a solution is called whining"? What kind of situation would you use this for, and how can you avoid coming off as whining when taking this approach?
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 12:23 AM
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The advice "Be attractive, don't be unattractive" comes from, well, everywhere. I think basically every woman has an innate understanding of the fact that putting effort into their looks is a must, not just to attract partners, but to make good impressions and get along well in the world. We also get "put yourself out there" quite a bit, which relates to your advice to talk to more people, join clubs, get a hobby. As far as lowering standards, I've never known a girl to look for or attempt to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 11:54 PM
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Bald I'm fine with, but the type of balding where your forehead just keeps going is a no-go. Reminds me of my dad. Also, unibrows. Or any hair between your brows that gives the illusion of a unibrow. It's flattering on no one and so easy to fix. And mustaches, absent any other facial hair. I like beards so I figure mustaches are good too, but it just doesn't work for me. I just stare at them and think about how much better the guy would look clean-shaven. HAIRS. And what you do with them. Are ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 08:43 PM
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Never, I dated a 6'3 guy and that was too tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 07:55 PM
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5'9 or 5'10 is probably my ideal. I'm 5'6. Beyond that 5'6-6'2 are my cutoffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 05:23 PM
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It is not the natural state of women, and the moment he attempts to explain his ideal love, that’s the point at which his idealization becomes her obligation. "I want this, but I can't tell her what I want, because then she'll do it but it's not real." I think our "inability to love" stems from a lack of mind-reading aptitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/16 12:25 PM
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That's what I do! Cook the flour in the trimmed fat until it forms a paste, then add the juice from the meat. It prevents clumping and that raw flour taste.
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 05:04 PM
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A thickener made from flour and fat, used in sauces https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roux
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 04:10 PM
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I do a super simple overnight oatmeal which is great as a snack or part of a lunch. 1/3 cup oats, 1 tsbp each chia seeds and hemp seeds, any flavorings or add-ins (try cinnamon or fruit). Cover all with milk (about 1/2 cup), I prefer unsweetened almond milk. Let sit in the fridge for at least 3-4 hours, or overnight. You can microwave it before eating, or just eat it cold (perfect for warm weather). Pie crust from scratch: 1 1/4 cups flour, 1 stick butter (frozen), 1/2 tsp salt, 1/2 tsp sugar, 3…
/r/RedPillWives16/04/16 03:18 PM
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INFJ here. I personally think the tests are not much more than glorified horoscopes, but they're fun.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/16 03:05 PM
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Porn isn't a good indicator seeing as it rarely or never caters to what straight women want to see. However the "big handsome men" genre does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 08:37 PM
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Is an n-count of 100 ever admirable in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 06:50 AM
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Changing one's self is extremely hard (I believe firmly in self improvement, and have learned this lesson myself) at that level and hence it's laughable to think a woman could make significant personal changes. They do not possess the honorable personal motivation. Dumb. This is why I don't read that subreddit.
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 02:29 PM
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It also made me wonder how much someone's past really is taken into consideration in a man's assessment of their character. Sometimes I feel as though it's mostly Redpill-esque or otherwise conservative/religious men who are actually picky about history or partner count. However, being too experienced is much more likely to be unattractive than not being very experienced.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/16 02:43 AM
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I think by "bitch" the book just means a woman who isn't needy. Let's have some quotes. "Decide how you want to be treated Choose what you will or will not tolerate Leave if you don’t get what you want." RPW go through a pretty significant vetting process. We don't start submitting to a man right away when we start dating him. You set your boundaries, and if any red flags pop up, you have other options. "When you nag, you become the problem, an he deals with it by turning you out, but when you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 05:47 AM
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So with "excessive shyness", are you talking about IOIs or flirting? You seem to be implying it's intentional, that we choose to display a certain IOI to "maximize the 'oh look at me and how shy and cute I am' factor", when it's really just a natural reaction to being attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 10:15 PM
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This is pretty obvious. You have desires to engage in sexual activity, but your higher functioning decides whether or not to actually act on those desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 08:56 PM
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Unless she is outright avoiding or hiding from a guy This is common, to the point where the poster here has to specifically tell girls not to avoid eye contact and several people in the thread mention struggling with it. Growing up I was always too shy to actually interact with guys I had crushes on, instead preferring to come off like I was ignoring them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 07:36 PM
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I don't study at coffee shops much (trying to save money) but yeah, even in the student union or group work areas of the libraries, there's no interaction with strangers. My college is very Greek-life, bar scene focused, so it may be different on other campuses.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/16 07:21 PM
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Do you have headphones in while you are walking around campus? Do you study in the open like at cafes? When I stopped wearing headphones to the gym, I made a lot more friends. Maybe you could try that one. Where you live must be very different from my campus, typically people only approach strangers at bars and parties here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/16 02:44 PM
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Or ask a friend to help take some pictures of you (in return you can take some nice ones for her too). I'd feel too silly setting up tripods, haha.
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 10:49 PM
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Yeah but not for inane situations like this. Immediately resorting to violence is not how a well-adjusted man would act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 10:37 PM
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It's been a day, and as far as I can tell getting these shoes isn't really a hugely urgent matter (compared to getting new regular shoes and jeans). Money is a touchy subject and you can easily come off as greedy here. I would personally err on the side of not bringing it up, but being very grateful if/when he does remember and send the money. Also, are you sure you need the weightlifting shoes in the first place? It sounds to me like you're somewhat of a beginner (correct me if I'm wrong). You …
/r/RedPillWives11/04/16 02:39 AM
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I wonder if what makes a man handsome to women goes well beyond just height and how he is built. Of course it does. Face is hugely important. Men are typically pretty bad at judging facial attractiveness of other men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 04:58 PM
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Don't mind, wouldn't mind dating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 08:37 PM
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Red flag for me, indicative that we do not run in the same circles. May also show lack of foresight and future orientation depending on the circumstances in which he got the tattoo(s). Other than judging whether someone would be a good partner, I don't care what people do with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 07:06 PM
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I pity the poor tall women who will never get the pleasure of meeting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 06:42 PM
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Men are in a figurative arms race with each other now. ...or plausibly a literal one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 11:36 PM
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RPW sure does
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 11:33 PM
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Going on birth control would be an easy fix to that, no?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 02:29 PM
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I'm not OP, just being facetious
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 04:53 AM
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I came here to correct you on your misunderstanding of the term "social construct". You are now making assumptions that I hold certain views consistent with "SJWs" when in reality, you're just trying to hold me accountable for arguments I never made. The child learns where it fits within this construct based on socialization, its interaction with society. "Where it fits" depends on some ratio of nature and nurture, on which I do not have an opinion that is well-informed enough to argue. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 04:52 AM
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That's why you make a joke about what you do - "I get bacteria to grow drugs" - and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:30 AM
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If the concepts of gender were built entirely anew for each person each time a new baby was born, people would not be at all surprised by parents not revealing the baby's sex and allowing the child to decide what colors to wear and toys to play with. The concept of gender is a social construct. The child learns where it fits within this construct based on socialization, its interaction with society. The child itself does not change the overarching concepts associated with gender. Please learn th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 01:23 AM
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Only whores who have ridden the cock carousel and realized how empty they were at the end of it truly seek out RPW. You don't have to have ridden the CC to know that hookup culture exists and is making it harder for you to find a good boyfriend/husband. The irony is that most of these fucked up women still attempt to be alpha in their relationships with other people as shown by the ridiculous actions of the RPW mods. Being feminine doesn't mean you submit to everybody. It means you exercise your…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 12:43 AM
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Are you sure you aren't just letting the conversation drop after mentioning your career? I personally would have little to say in response to the simple fact of your career aside from "Oh, that's cool". I just don't have enough knowledge of the field to ask about particular types or specializations, the way I would if I were talking with someone in my field. "Oh wow! I had no idea you surfed! That is dreamy :)" Activity photos are good conversation starters, especially when you have just put the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 12:26 AM
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My stomach grumbled a little. Am I doing this right?
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 12:05 AM
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I think those are just traits you need to have to be an adult. Nobody can make it in the world trying to be the most passive, vulnerable, dependent, impulsive they possibly can. That's what children do. We also want men with some feminine qualities, right? At least I do. I don't want a man who is closed up about anything related to emotions, who can't enjoy some sappy romance here and there. We need to each adopt some traits of the other, in order to be able to relate well to each other.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 06:36 PM
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the gender you are is constructed after you are born. I see where your misunderstanding comes from. Gender has been socially constructed and exists as a construct. When you are born you're placed into one of two boxes based on your biological sex. You don't construct your own gender roles, society has already done it for you. That's why it's called a social construct - you have learned gender based on your interaction with others, starting from birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 12:08 PM
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She trades up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 05:26 PM
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The more they try to stop her the sluttier she will become. Can confirm, when I was in high school my mom actually tried to get me to be flirtier and show more skin and I was just having none of it, and have never gone for the "bad boy" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 01:53 PM
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I feel sympathy in the same way you feel sympathy to anyone who commits suicide. "Oh my god, that's terrible, I didn't know them but I'm sure they were a great person and will be missed". I don't cultivate friendships with any men. I don't know any "Chads" personally (who have huge friend circles and sleep around), nor any "Omegas" who apparently get treated like shit. I know of some guys like this, but I don't "care" about either group more than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 01:50 PM
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Do women REALLY toss away their hymens so casually? Many of us lost them to bike seats, tampons, or other physical activity, often gradually and without our knowledge. So yeah, casual is a great word for it. I was 19, so was my boyfriend at the time. I was too tight so we had to try progressively over a few days. Thankfully I didn't have a hymen anymore so we didn't have to worry about bleeding. It felt weird but I eventually got into it in later sessions. He was a nice enough guy and a virgin a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 01:10 PM
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Wow, people are different, who knew right? And these differences correspond to our evolutionary history and the groups our ancestors lived in? Incredible! The only reason this diversity matters is because people say it does. You can take dark skin, or hooded eyes, or predisposition for melanoma or sickle-cell anemia or Tay-Sach's disease for what they are - physical traits and heritable predispositions for medical conditions. Or you can group people together in various ways and then maybe apply …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 04:27 AM
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how do transgender people feels they are the wrong gender? I answered this question. The way you are being treated based on the gender you appear to be (among people who assume your gender aligns with your sex) doesn't match the way you wish to be treated based on the gender you feel you are. It's easier to go through life with an appearance that's consistent with your self.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 04:14 AM
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We also know that women require some insecurity in order to be attracted to a man. This is the reasoning behind dread game. No need, I already have built-in insecurity. /s
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 02:40 AM
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A man can lose attraction Sure, so I'm initially attracted because he's attractive, but lose interest and decide not to get involved because he seems like a player. Most women aren't concern with this, unless they're in their Epiphany phase Being "used for sex" is an extremely common concern among young women. There's a reason "fuckboys" are such a common, relatable archetype. So he had too much experience ? Smh... Smh indeed. I'm not interested in guys who get with (or try to get with) a ton of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 02:17 AM
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Lol, I knew I would get hate for the race thing. People have genetic differences. So why do we choose certain genetic (or geographical) differences and not others to base our definitions of race upon? And how many categories do we make? We can't make up categories for every possible gradation of skin tone. If it's based on skin color/appearance, why are Slavs considered white in the USA but not in some places in Europe? Irish people weren't considered white in the US for a long time despite havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 01:58 AM
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You realize the money and time that is poured into making makeup as invisible and natural-looking as possible? "Maybe she's born with it, maybe it's Maybelline". You're self-conscious because you think everyone can tell, and you spend much more time thinking about you than anyone else spends thinking about you. It's the same self-consciousness girls get when they try a bold makeup look for the first time. News flash, nobody expects a guy to be wearing makeup. Even if they think you are, they'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 12:44 AM
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No such thing , you weren't attracted to him So if game fails, you defend by claiming I wasn't attracted to him in the first place. But if a girl already wants to have sex with a guy (like OP's FWB), then he can use game techniques and she doesn't mind. It seems awfully like game only works when the girl already wants to bang the guy, and if she does, she won't be put off even if he reveals he has used game on her. In that case what's the point? I'm aware every man who's interested in me will wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:52 PM
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I was asked via note to my first prom. I was more put off by the fact that he'd slipped it in a test for the class we had together, and I was pretty stressed out by that already, but I did say yes, so. Nowadays, who does that anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 10:07 PM
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women like when a guy teases her, acts mighty despite facts That's what being flirty and funny are. Taken too far or done either too smoothly or too heavy-handedly, though, and I start to suspect the guy's a player and move on. This extends to any dread game or plate-spinning technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 09:42 PM
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gender is a social construct Just because it's a social construct doesn't mean it doesn't have real effects on people. Race, borders, laws, and money are all social constructs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:51 PM
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You remind me of myself in high school. Seriously, I haven't actually experienced cattiness as an issue in years. In my experience people are generally pretty nice to each other. OP's studies claim women manipulate other women the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:48 PM
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And some religions encourage followers to only lose their virginity after marriage, and discourage divorce, making it more likely people will lose their virginity and then stay with that partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:16 PM
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Astounding ignorance of what makeup does, here. If you slap on a little concealer and bronzer, no one will be the wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 01:08 PM
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I thought I was already very clear I don't find men who sleep around attractive. If worrying about unwanted kids is ever an issue for you, we're clearly not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 12:56 PM
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Most girls I know are horrified at the thought of accidentally getting knocked up and would abort if it came down to it. So if you're careless enough to sleep around not knowing their stance on abortions and trusting them to follow through, and paranoid enough to think some girl is actually going to saddle herself with a kid for 18 years just to get the occasional check in the mail that doesn't even begin to cover the expenses, that's not someone I want to get to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 02:24 AM
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I don't really tend to keep close male friends, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 12:34 AM
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I personally think it's kind of silly to pay money to make your body stop doing something, then continually pay more money to preserve the same function your body was already doing for free. But if money is no object then go for it I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 12:12 AM
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If a guy's just sterile and didn't have any procedure done, it means we are necessarily on the same page about kids. No effect on attractiveness. there are some guys who get vasectomy done, either intentionally having no plans to have kids in the future I don't think it's smart to undergo a (usually) permanent procedure when circumstances may change and you may change your mind. This is why I would not want to get sterilized, just in case. in order not to accidentally knock up a woman and get as…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 02:46 PM
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This question is mostly for women, but if your a man that seeks dating advice from women then you can answer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 09:47 PM
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That's a big leap. By "vulnerable" I mean I don't always have my poker face on, not that I completely throw myself into the relationship and do whatever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 09:17 PM
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I think I would probably prefer the short-term relationship gal for dating advice, but preferably if she actually did eventually find a good long-term relationship. She knows more about screening for the right one. The LTR gal knows about how to hang on to a man, which is not helpful when you haven't found a man yet, and it's going to be fairly individual to every relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 08:08 PM
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I'm always thinking about what I can do for others (friends, family) and making food/gifts they will appreciate. I make a few new recipes each week, work out often, care for my garden, and do some sewing here and there, and not pressuring myself anymore to be enthusiastic about more masculine hobbies. I've started seeing someone so I'm working on letting myself be vulnerable and forgiving, not feeling pressured to hold back and maintain the "upper hand".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 07:22 PM
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Didn't watch the whole video. You may want to add a summary. This video is working off the assumption that the Okcupid and Tinder data is a good reflection of unbiased opinions on the opposite gender's attractiveness. It's not. The Okcupid data was taken when rating someone 4 or 5 would let them know you were into them. It was also a rating based on pictures and part of their profile, and never stated to be looks only. If you want to rate people purely for your own reference, you use 1, 2, and 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:26 PM
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Not all women like g spot stimulation as much as others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:06 AM
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Just to clarify, you're not suggesting entering the cervix, right? Because... you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:05 AM
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Does that factor into anyone's partner choice? I'm pretty sure people like hot people because they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 05:11 PM
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There is a wealth of info here specifically concerning complexion/coloring and style. These are the things Andrew means when he mentions dressing in colors and styles that suit you. Color season is fairly easy to determine. As far as styles I think I used the quiz here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/16 10:04 PM
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This should be CMV, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/16 09:27 PM
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And how does it affect female behaviour nowadays, when women have no pregnancy, meaning ther body constantly in a state of 'thinking', it needs/wants to be impregnated ? ALL THE FUKKING TIME ! Could it be, that women are running ammok todays, BECAUSE they basically are looking to get impregnated constantly ? Because they are constantly horny in a sense ? You are describing ovulation. The pill does the exact opposite of this.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 07:07 PM
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And? If you ask a guy for a picture of someone he's attracted to, he'll show you a celebrity or model.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:25 PM
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If a guy says he likes blondes and you ask for an example, he's going to give you pictures of relatively famous people because those are easy to find and acceptable to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 01:17 PM
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I don't have sex outside of relationships and look for a guy who is the same, who has options to have sex outside of a relationship but chooses not to partake.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 02:40 PM
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I am knitting sweaters out of their fur as we speak
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 10:13 PM
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When have schools ever taught seduction? That's the parents', peers', and media's responsibility. You can't teach principles that have tons of exceptions to them as objective fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 10:07 PM
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I looooove Charlize Theron's dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 10:02 PM
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I guess we wouldn't know. I haven't yet met a man worth years of uncertainty. Unless he's very affectionate and I have zero doubt of his interest in me and only me, his making me wait for a ring would make me think he wasn't that into me. So I do expect I would cut it off instead of waiting for a proposal I am unlikely to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:52 PM
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one looks like a pussy magnet, the other looks like a pussy repellant they are both good looking ...Which is it? I would guess that the one guy is good-looking and the other one isn't.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 09:47 PM
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I'm not sure exactly what you mean by "bargaining chip" in this instance, but nobody wants their time wasted. If I want to get married but a guy I'm with seems to want nothing to do with it, it's best to move on because we're not compatible in that regard. I don't expect to change a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:41 PM
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I don't downvote people in this subreddit. Also, keep in mind Reddit does vote fuzzing so you may gain or lose a vote or two randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:31 PM
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If a guy was that hesitant about being married, I would be concerned he was keeping me around while hoping for a better option to come along, and then later settle for me if no such option appears. That is what stringing along is. I would feel like I had to hold back some part of myself if we were living together for so long, because if I treat a guy exactly the same way I would treat him if I were his wife, why would he decide, after so many years, to get married? He is already "getting the mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 09:31 PM
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Replace "pr" with "t" and the argument still works.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 08:03 PM
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Women usually pursue relationships, not just sex. Someone 10+ years younger than you is usually not going to be the best choice for a relationship. If she's just looking for sex, sure. This is where cougars come from. There is quite a significant market for sex with older women, despite what some in this thread may claim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:40 PM
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I could not consider marrying someone until we have co-habitated for at least 5 years So you date for at least a year or two before deciding to move in together. And then after that 6 or 7 years together, you're only starting to consider marriage? If it took that long to see any kind of advancement in the relationship, I would probably move on. No matter how great the guy was, I'm not going to waste my prime on someone apparently seeking to string me along.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:12 PM
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I don't claim to speak for anyone but myself. Maybe some other RPW users can chime in with whether they approve or not. YW, it was a good thought experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 07:05 PM
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Some of these come up naturally in the early stages of dating, some only start to come up when you start talking about marriage. Kids - Would you want to have kids? If so how do you feel about one of us staying home to raise them? How many would you want? When would you want to start having them? Pets - Do you have any pets currently? (If it's a cat can I pet it??) Do you want any in the future (what kind and how many)? Is there anybody close to us who has allergies to pet fur/dander? If we have…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:46 PM
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Except for those who do. There was a deleted post earlier today from a guy who was frustrated that his dating options (women) all seemed to be immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 05:56 PM
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I feel like some of these are questions that should come up while you're dating to determine compatibility. So that does include determining how our lifestyle will look when we're married - kids, pets, religion, finances, sex life, chores, buying a home, how to keep the "spark" alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 04:49 PM
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Most people figure themselves out by a certain age Maybe that's where the problem comes from? If red pill guys emphasize youth and beauty as much as they say, then they are exclusively going for immature women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 04:34 PM
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Growing up I think my parents were pleased with how my academics and personality were turning out, so my problem area was my social life. I was always the wallflower type, so starting in middle school and high school my mom did encourage me to meet more people and be more open and flirty (after I started expressing interest in boys). I was never really in an environment to interact with older guys (college age or older, when I was in high school) but she did warn me not to accept any advances fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 04:24 PM
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Maybe for some women. But even if you don't necessarily actively think of having sex with a man, the idea of it is not repulsive or unpleasant to you like it would be with a man you find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 01:36 PM
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objectively Debatable, at least with their own kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 12:45 AM
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Pole dancing sounds so much fun. Would love to try it at least once. I don't think it would give off the wrong image; I personally think it depends on the context. If it was just a private show for your man, why the hell not? If it is for being a stripper, well I dunno. Didn't seem to me like OP is doing it "for" anything other than fitness. It sounds like it's in a group fitness class with other women.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/16 11:51 PM
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28 comments here vs. 30 on the men's thread. Considering the women:men ratio here is .75, ladies had a pretty good turnout. EDIT: There are 32 here now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 11:44 PM
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the Fireman's Carry is just so much more comfortable For the carrier, maybe. Not the carried.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 08:56 PM
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Are you single? Yes What do you look for in a man? Future-oriented, attractive to me, compatible (personality/humor-wise) with me, intelligent, caring/considerate, doesn't drink excessively, do drugs, or try to sleep around. Do you think men should pay for the Check when out on a date with you? For first dates definitely, though I prefer something cheap like coffee for first dates, and I'll always offer to pay. In a relationship, I like to let the man pay when we're in public (unless it's his bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 08:51 PM
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I study at a school that is well known for both its engineering program and party scene/Greek life. The problem with engineering is not that engineers are seen as losers, it's that they don't get many opportunities to meet women in their classes, so their social circles tend to be entirely men. This is not conducive to getting into parties. If you're socially adept, you won't have a problem. Don't lie about your major. You're more likely to encounter girls who are also studying business (or what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 04:15 PM
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I think you answered #6 twice and skipped one of the other ones
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 11:30 PM
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There are simultaneously so many posts from dudes being like "OMG my wife/gf never wants to have sex, I always initiate, her sex drive is so low" vs. "Wahhhhh she has a more extensive past/ sexual history than I do" Motherfuckers you can't have it both ways!!!! Did you just expect her to sit in a room quietly until you came along to fulfill her every need? NO! Vibrators can only go so far! If you want a girlfriend that wants to have sex with you all the time and has a high sex drive, chances are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 09:10 PM
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Then it must be spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 08:25 PM
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What is with your thing about sex ratios?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 08:20 PM
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A lot of the advice implies that if you embrace your femininity, you will "naturally" attract a leader. If you're not getting approached or by the wrong type of men, improve yourself...which largely means "become more attractive" (especially when you already assume readers have lives and interests and know how to flirt).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 07:32 PM
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Gender ratio? Like, the physical number of people present on the earth? How does the presence of lots of men in China affect me, here in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:21 PM
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TRP guys can be dicks so I don't really defend some of their more abrasive ideas. They're just not useful or relevant to my life. Also siiiighh I wish girl game was more developed than "be attractive and wait for a Captain to appear". Not that the advice given isn't valid, it just seems that most of the literature is on what to do when you're already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 03:40 AM
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If you're defining "attractive" as "hot" then of course it's not. Money is one trait you can use to get people to be into you though. If you find "wife material" so to speak she's looking for a man with a mix of alpha and beta qualities, never a pure alpha. Money is just one of many non-physical traits (plus maturity, charisma, confidence, prestige, etc.) that tend to improve as one gets older, while looks and physical abilities tend to decline. You find a trade-off between the two that you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 08:58 PM
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And many red pillers believe men get MORE attractive as they get older If you take into account their income, experience, etc. Looks-wise, I think they follow approximately the same timeline women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:58 PM
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One that models what a good relationship looks like, and teaches daughters what they should do in order to find a similar relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:25 PM
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I would say it isn't as a case of the woman not offering to drive or not willing to drive it usually a case of the man insisting he drive or insisting he's not tired and can keep driving. Or it's his car and he won't let anyone else drive it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 02:05 PM
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Yes, if we had been dating for a while. You're describing a scenario which usually goes along with casual dating. The family does not need that much say in "protecting you" from the people you choose to go out on first dates with. If you wanted her to make good decisions, teach her why certain decisions are good while she's growing up. Don't micromanage every aspect of her life. That kind of authoritarian parenting style is what leads children to rebel and make intentionally bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:58 PM
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For some reason I can't see replies to my comments on this thread (for context). Yeah that's been happening to me too, apparently it's a site-wide issue. I'm specifically talking about dating sites here (I don't generally interact with older guys otherwise) so yes, a message usually means you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:32 PM
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Hence women who are interested in keeping their N-count low don't engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:51 AM
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MGTOW. "We're leaving, you'll regret it when we're gone!" It does end up improving men's RMP value, but that's not exactly their primary intention because it doesn't work for the MGTOW so much as the men who didn't go their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:42 AM
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Yeah, if you're outside my stated age preferences then that means I'm not interested in guys your age. Guys your age can be the pushiest because they think they have a chance. I prefer mature guys in their 20s, older guys' looks decline and there's usually something wrong with them if they're pursuing younger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:36 AM
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Source? That Okcupid study doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:29 AM
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This family you're describing? That's weirdly close, even by my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 02:43 AM
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Did I claim I didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 02:26 AM
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both the male and female sex drives can reach the same intensities, as in a woman can be as horny as a man We really have no clue here. How would you even study that? actually get wet I know you're probably using this figuratively but 1. vaginas (and all other mucous membranes) are baseline wet at all times and 2. arousal wetness doesn't happen instantly, sometimes it takes quite a while to catch up with mental arousal and other physical signs of arousal. That's why foreplay is important When we…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:56 AM
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Thirst != desire to commit RP men shouldn't count on this happening (hence AWALT), but it does exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:28 AM
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I didn't know that raising children full time was "depending on charity", thats pretty obnoxious, no? There's some truth to it, though. If a woman couldn't find a husband back then, she would have to depend mostly on her family to survive. Even if she is performing a service (raising kids, maintaining the household), she depends on someone else for money. TRP is about making the best of the current sexual/relationship marketplace. For the record, I prefer to live a fairly frugal life. Whether I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:01 AM
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Reminds me of when people talk about a women's issue, someone responds with a comment about men also facing an equivalent/related issue, and people get mad. Just because your particular group isn't mentioned doesn't mean your group is being attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 12:08 AM
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Isn't that everyone's dream though? A partner who magically wants to have sex at all the same times they do, and not any time outside of that. Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:58 PM
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So for a low-libido woman (such as the one you describe), it'll be mostly her partner who wants to have sex when she's not in the mood, and not the other way around as much. They're still not evenly matched.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:51 PM
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No? Sometimes your partner will want to have sex when you're not in the mood, and sometimes it'll be the other way around. This dream doesn't actually exist for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:43 PM
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Even RPW agree this can exist. It may not come naturally but you can choose to love and be loyal to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:26 PM
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I'll make an exception for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 08:00 PM
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The orchid in the sidebar isn't vibrant enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:55 PM
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I...don't really care? If he's like most of TRP subreddit he probably won't have the same relationship goals I do so I won't be bothering with him anyway. But I'm not really interested in being able to out people for following particular internet ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:52 PM
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it's just the internet Excuse me, just the internet?? This is srs bzns
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:46 PM
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Your career shouldn't discourage men from dating you Sure but her point in this post is that mentioning the specific company she works for seemingly encourages men to pursue her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:13 PM
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I think the argument is that men have a spidey sense that tells them when a woman is a slut, where they can then decide what they want to do with that information (avoid or plate). Just as women have a spidey sense telling them a person or situation is creepy, and can either leave or ignore it. It's not necessarily an involuntary disgust reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 05:47 PM
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She's correcting your spelling (complement --> compliment) I'm pretty sure it was a dig, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 05:41 PM
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But the way TRPers talk it seems to would want a woman who wants to have sex even when they don't. I assume it's because they want to hold more power in the relationship. having sex when you don't want to. Somehow I get the feeling they aren't doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 04:07 PM
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Isn't that everyone's dream though? A partner who magically wants to have sex at all the same times they do, and not any time outside of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:44 PM
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Mostly confusion...what do you see in him? Beyond that I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:04 PM
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I'm more concerned about the commitment, honestly. I would be making some pretty poor decisions without the relationship experience I have. I can't imagine marrying someone without having been in relationships prior to that, unless I got extremely lucky and happened to find a great fit on my first try. Sex with one man would probably be okay as long as he's also somewhat adventurous. I've never had much inclination to hook up, and always leaned toward partners who are more on the beta side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:01 PM
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I can see your age on your profile. You can see my age preferences listed on my profile. If I respond to you, I am not disqualifying you based on age. It doesn't need any more attention called to it. I have no reason to believe that older men regularly seek anything more than a physical relationship with much younger women, so yes, I'm going to be wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 02:19 PM
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marry her whenever If she's smart, she's also wary of guys who seek to waste her time and youth and will leave if he is not continually proving he is husband material and if there is no hint of a proposal coming soon. Though you're smart to realize that men's looks and genetic material also decline over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 02:08 PM
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I can speak to your second point. I've never once talked to an older guy (on a dating site, for example) who didn't either mention my age and how attractive it is, apologize for his age, or claim that "age is just a number". As soon as you draw attention to it, I start to think you have a kink and are just looking to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 01:36 PM
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friends with benefits Incompatible with the red pill. On the women's side we avoid all casual sex. It diminishes the meaning of sex that you're saving for your future husband, whenever he decides to show up. Sex being easy to get means nothing when you know you have to turn it down anyway. lube helps a lot for chafing. The chafing happens with generous lube usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 01:16 PM
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1:02 - She and that guy behind her in the glasses are definitely into each other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 08:59 PM
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I see you've put a lot of thought into this. You're not entitled to sex with fertile women - this is not a problem you bring to a doctor. You don't like the consequences that may come from having sex? Don't have sex. I'm sorry, but what exactly do "N" and "RPW" stand for? Completely serious question, for the record. RPW stands for red pill women, N-count is your number of sexual partners. The RP strategy on the women's side is to avoid having sex until commitment from a worthy partner is imminen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 08:53 PM
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Ah it'd be different in the case of trans people. But you'd be hard-pressed to find any doctor who would perform a castration on a cis person only to then prescribe hormones consistent with their biological sex, and insurance would definitely not cover that. You appear to be forgetting the option of one-night stands, though. Definitely not an option if you're trying to keep your N-count low, as RPW are wont to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 07:31 PM
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I'm honestly sliiiightly skeptical of the women in this thread saying they've literally never discussed dicks with close female friends. I don't really have any friends I talk about sex-related topics with, so yeah, dicks are out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 07:11 PM
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This is most definitely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 04:57 PM
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Frankly, you might be forgetting about the existence of hormone replacement therapy. Not forgetting, just not seeing it as a practical option when you make perfectly good testosterone for free. I'm pretty sure the out-of-pocket cost of an elective castration and HRT would end up being more than child support. Plus, celibacy is no more acceptable to me than it is to pro-choice cis-women when pro-lifers give them this very same advice. Don't come crying to me at the prospect of having to abstain f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 04:21 PM
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fa incel I'm pretty sure there have been plenty of men throughout history who never got a chance to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 03:50 PM
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Maybe I'm weird for this, but I can't really tell dick sizes apart? All the men I've been with (admittedly not a large sample size) have been about average. I couldn't tell you who was bigger if I tried. I don't really talk about sex (except on the internet apparently) but if anything the conversation would be about how attentive he was, what the mood was like, whether he went down on me, things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 03:46 PM
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Any organism has a limited amount of energy it can get via food Seems like a pretty good way to solve the obesity crisis, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:33 PM
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Castration seems sort of extreme when you could just, I dunno, be celibate and not receive all the other negative effects of a sudden drop in testosterone production?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 04:28 AM
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...you're worried women will extract sperm directly from your balls even if you get a vasectomy done?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 03:18 AM
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the option of being able to stay at home raising their kids Assuming you're able to find a man who actually wants to get married (when dating outside of your age group is frowned upon) and has a suitable income to support a stay-at-home wife and family, who you trust not to leave you for someone younger and prettier. It's safer to have a means of supporting yourself than depend on charity (either that of a husband or of your family).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:10 AM
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As far as increasing someone's sexual prowess, no it doesn't count. But a paid partner is still a partner, so they count as part of your N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 10:53 PM
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