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Seems common now but there was a time when this shit a revelation. One of "D'oh!" moments that changed my game and the way I interact.
/r/seduction03/01/13 12:45 AM
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If you really think the other guy's not good enough for her and she's making a mistake, then you have to let her realize that on her own (if she ever does). Don't pine after her but find happiness elsewhere. You seem like you aren't content to be just her friend, so don't. Your sick of her indecisiveness? Dude, you can't make decisions for other people (unfortunate, I know). If it really isn't meant to be, she'll come back to you. Now go and pursue other chicks, and don't make the same mistakes …
/r/seduction25/08/12 07:04 AM
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Move on. If she doesn't like you, so what? Someone else will. Or try to become the man that someone else will like (not her, other women). She missed her shot.
/r/seduction25/08/12 06:30 AM
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She doesn't like jazz? Next her. But seriously, either she's really stuck up or very boring. Or maybe she doesn't like you enough. Clearly, you're not awesome enough for her to be worth an evening of banality. Most chicks that are into you would put up stuff they don't like if they think you're cool enough. Or maybe her family was killed by jazz musicians with super-sharp minigolf discs. You never know. You really wanna hang out with someone who doesn't share your interests? Pretty sure you'll f…
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:55 AM
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gall. The Gauls were 'barbarians', homies of Asterix and Obelix.
/r/seduction05/08/12 01:35 PM
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Look, very few people and natural conversationalists, if there are any at all. Most of our social skills comes from learning other people's behavior; these 'naturals' only learned and perfected it some time before you. I stutter sometimes too. It's fine. It's only embarrassing if you think it is and most people (who aren't assholes) won't pay lick of attention to that detail. Trust me when I tell you that your ability to speak and converse gets better as you do it more. This is key. The first 10…
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:12 PM
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Practice, practice, practice. For starters, try the following: 1. Try to discern the eye color of everyone you meet. Talk to everyone. Your neighborhood granny to that really handsome guy in front of you at the movie ticket line. Conversation is like a muscle, bettered by constant use and exercise. Don't get discouraged by bad interactions, now or after years of practice. Know that their reaction is not a personal reflection on you as they don't know what kind of person you are. Sometimes, peopl…
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:33 PM
1

Coupling is also a great show. I find myself akin to Jeff a lot of times.
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:36 AM
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Some British shows I enjoy, off the top of my head, are: Peep Show, Top Gear, IT Crowd, Luther, DW, Sherlock, Gavin and Stacey etc. I also watch Would I Lie to You and Mock the Week from time to time on youtube (these 'live' shows showcase funny banter and really quick wit).
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:02 AM
1

You're going about this the wrong way. I'm certain the AFC-to-Baller ratio is the same in the UK as in any other place. The guys you see are of the more successful, well-educated ilk who've had time to hone their skills (social and otherwise) in a variety of situations, especially since they're smart and capable enough to be traveling to different countries. It's like how a lot of Asian/Indian kids in the US are smart; obviously, the case isn't that people of a particular race are smarter but th…
/r/seduction24/07/12 07:42 AM
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at her Cash4Gold or whatever Brilliant.
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:03 PM
2

There is always that one dude who's way too old at a frat party. Don't be that guy.
/r/seduction18/05/12 09:18 PM
4

A lot of people who dress well don't do it to get laid or to please other people; your friends probably don't give a shit what some sloppy dresser thinks about their wardrobe choices. Sure, looking attractive is one part of it but it also probably makes them feel good and offers them a sense of validation. For some, fashion sense is a part of their upbringing. Also, style and swag are pretty much the same thing. You don't need fancy clothes or a chiseled visage to have style/swag.
/r/seduction17/05/12 07:39 PM
1

What is the SI unit of sex charge?
/r/seduction17/05/12 06:30 PM
6

Equal rights, equal lefts?
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:54 AM
3

You need to find a new circle of friends. Trust me, hanging out with the same people and at the same locations will cause you to revert back into a beta. Experience new people and new things for a while. Do that till being awesome becomes a part of who you are, regardless of company or setting.
/r/seduction10/05/12 05:37 PM
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My opinion of question #3: I used to think that way too but then I asked myself what these "dumb" girls talk about anyways (because they talk a lot)? I found that, even though they may not conform to my line of thinking, they have opinions on everything from TV to relationships and everything in between. You just gotta connect on an emotional level. True game is when you can say something that references something droll like the Young's modulus and still make her feel something genuine.
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:36 PM
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Good stuff, man. I definitely agree with your basketball analogy but it's astounding how many people forget/don't know this. For most folk, fighting is a way of showing dominance whereas it should be about defusing the situation as efficiently as possible. Feels good putting them in their place, though.
/r/seduction27/04/12 11:45 PM
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You were a bouncer, MMA practitioner and a future-lawyer? I think it's a safe bet that they're intimidated by you and are doing that sole for the sole purpose of being emasculating and making themselves feel better. If initial warnings of "Cut that shit out, dude, haha" doesn't work, try being curt or giving him "I'm gonna fucking break your neck" look. Or just grasp his hand in your hand (gently but firm) and calmly tell him that he'll regret invading your personal space in case he does that sh…
/r/seduction27/04/12 11:05 PM
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Naturals is a misnomer as, like most behaviors, their ability to socialize is learned. But some people have that awesome mix of looks, gift of gab and sexuality; we've termed these people naturals. They may not be born with it. But they act like they did.
/r/seduction25/04/12 11:04 PM
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Haha, will keep that one in mind. The problem is that crazy is a whole bunch of fun to have hanging around when it's not, you know, crazy.
/r/seduction23/04/12 09:43 PM
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I shudder at the very thought itself. The last crazy girl I was involved with started 'playing' with all the sharp things in my house. I took me 3 hours to get her to leave and she still won't stop texting (although she's like 200 mi away). Things can go from fun to scary in a matter of seconds (but isn't that unpredictability part of their charm?).
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:29 PM
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I've stuck my dick in crazy a fair bunch of times. I also find cocky women extremely attractive and challenge myself to bed them. I hadn't noticed the connection till you pointed it out. I know how to handle girls like these (usually tough on the outside but actually are fragile and riddled with insecurities on the inside): teasing, not falling for their shit and calling them out, positive reinforcement when she's nice to me and being genuine to the point of being blunt. I always think 'this one…
/r/seduction23/04/12 05:41 PM
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Yeah, he was good too (although I might be biased since he was Bond when I was growing up). Roger Daltry is slightly better, though.
/r/seduction22/04/12 06:05 AM
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That query is near-blasphemous. Everyone knows that Sean Connery is the quintessential bond.
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:05 AM
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Everyone here is talking about looks but I agree with you on the experiences I missed out in HS and college (despite being considered 'cute'). Romantic relationships were not a priority to me and this has caused me some regrets. I hear stories of people talking about all the shenanigans they got up to when they were younger and can't help but feel sad. I'll never have those experiences. I merely console myself by thinking that they might've missed out on some stuff too and everyone has regrets. …
/r/seduction15/04/12 07:02 PM
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For that suit, sure. Dude's got some nice threads that are way out of my price range.
/r/seduction12/04/12 11:00 PM
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people suck I don't think that's a good attitude to be carrying around. I mean, there are tons of shitty people (especially in HS, where most people are immature) but there are a few good eggs out there. I totally agree about the 'not giving a fuck' part.
/r/seduction06/04/12 08:44 AM
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21st century version of dueling.
/r/seduction06/04/12 03:57 AM
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Yeaaah, something tells me she's not gonna do that.
/r/seduction02/04/12 06:54 AM
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"P"?
/r/seduction31/03/12 02:56 AM
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It's supposed to be strait, as in narrow.
/r/seduction17/03/12 01:56 PM
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Me too. I feel like a million bucks when I'm walking around my college campus with my head held high, chatting with passerbys and getting checked out by chicks while everybody else in my engineering class is moping around, AFC-like. It's amazing how the little things make a tremendous difference. Even to yourself.
/r/seduction30/01/12 12:35 AM
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Oh god, that can be a horrific experience.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:28 AM
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Terrible advice, especially if OP is like me. I'm easygoing and talkative when sober but ganj makes me paranoid, over-analytical and wary of anything outside my comfort-zone. Don't get me wrong, I've no problem with it and partake from time to time but only among friends with whom I can act a fool.
/r/seduction24/01/12 04:05 PM
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God damn it, how the fuck is it that all of you guys make sense?
/r/seduction16/01/12 12:43 AM
2

To Jatacid's suggestions, I'd like to add "Read novels". I've found that reading literature helps me know how to properly evoke imagery, tap into emotions, keep the flow of the story going and find out what words/phrases get what reaction. I've been told I'm a good writer (it doesn't show here but insomnia seldom helps penmanship) and I've learned to translate that skill into conversation. I know that an important part of telling a story is 'thinking on your feet' but it helps to have a few anec…
/r/seduction09/01/12 11:10 AM
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Chile, Peru and Brazil have significant Japanese populations (Peru even had a President of Japanese origin). People are friendly and the food is great. Brazil is obviously much, much more diverse than most South American countries though (just stay out of the favelas). I dunno much about Argentina.
/r/seduction06/01/12 07:45 AM
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I was you 5 months ago, brother. We all gotta start somewhere, right? You're in good hands here, Seddit is an intelligent, understanding and relatively diverse community. But you gotta start talking to everybody, regardless of gender, personality or age; that's the only real way of being socially savvy. You're gonna meet pricks, bitches and you're def gonna get burnt. Gotta keep on trucking. Don't stop approaching.
/r/seduction31/12/11 06:01 AM
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People, not just women, don't like and respect guys who don't respect themselves. You're not a nice guy, you just called an entire community "stereotypical douchebags" without understanding what-for. Nice guys don't do that half-assed, pre-judging malarkey. And it isn't about being the best person on Earth, it's about being the best you can be.
/r/seduction30/12/11 09:04 AM
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Grin. Move on to the next unrelated topic.
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:29 AM
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"Subscribe to 2XX to understand women better" is very popular advice here, from both female and male sedditors. Of course, it's gonna be discussed in this sub. Safe to say, much has been gleaned from that thread. And those weren't negs. They were insults veiled as negs. Posting that article in this sub would probably get it down-voted. Canned routines are for shitty stand-up comedians, they don't reflect the person you are. I'm sure many a "PUA" cringed or guffawed upon reading that tripe.
/r/seduction29/12/11 10:33 AM
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So the problem with PUAs is that they don't fawn over a single girl all night? Is it against the rules to be genuinely attracted to more than a few women? And please don't vilify one-night stands just because it's morally offensive to you, there are plenty of women who also enjoy one night stands. It should be a problem if a guy is being deceitful, manipulative and putting on a masquerade of some sort just to get into a girl's pants. This is huge no-no in this community. The real goal is to be a…
/r/seduction29/12/11 10:21 AM
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Guys, this is a brilliant example of how the way you come across and project yourself affects what you say. The way you say is just as important as the what you say, if not more. Plus some of those 'negs' are fuckin' retarded. The prevailing belief in XX is that people who use pick-up techniques are sleazy scumbags (decidedly unattractive). No matter what you say or how charming you try to be, no matter how genuine, these women already hate you. Now, if Ryan Gosling or some other attractive dude…
/r/seduction28/12/11 06:59 PM
2

Challenge...Accepted!
/r/seduction24/12/11 04:11 AM
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True Story.
/r/seduction24/12/11 04:11 AM
1

I don't know, saying that would come off as being massively presumptuous unless you know the person well or are really good at reading her. I wouldn't peg this as general advice although it's great that this works for you.
/r/seduction18/12/11 10:14 AM
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I used to think that it's a bad idea to buy drinks for girls 'cause there are tons of chicks just fishing for a drink or too. Some will mad at you for not getting them an appletini and a lot of them will get mad when you order one and finish it yourself. But now, I buy drinks after we've conversed for a while and I feel she's not the kind to dip out after I do. It's more of a "You're cool, here's a drink on me." Don't be the guy girls mooch of off, that's not cool.
/r/seduction18/12/11 10:10 AM
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Yeah, it's an IOI for her drunk state but I wouldn't expect the same level of interest (or her display of it) when she's sober.
/r/seduction18/12/11 08:12 AM
1

Consider it added to my to-read list for this winter. Other than the length, what makes the stories so life-changing (especially in the context of this subreddit)?
/r/seduction18/12/11 06:32 AM
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I feel like initiating conversation is a skill (a prized one) that is just as important as holding one. It is definitely possible to relate to a stranger on cue and talk to them (no matter how brief) without making you seem suspicious - isn't half of seduction based on words?. I have it written down in my little black book as "Act like old friends without seeming overtly familiar".
/r/seduction18/12/11 05:22 AM
1

Is that one of his essays?
/r/seduction18/12/11 02:08 AM
1

Come on, Emerson >> Mystery. Saying anything otherwise is blasphemy. Not to take anything away from Mystery (his stuff has sorta helped me) but Ralph Waldo Emerson is one of the greatest Americans to ever have lived. There is no if to the superiority of his intellect when compared to Mystery's.
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:45 PM
2

Been on a Hemingway kick lately, the guy was a man's man. Did you really find his short stories important or were you kidding?
/r/seduction17/12/11 10:42 PM
1

Yeah, I'm down, I'll send my deets. Won't be back till next semester but I'm game for a few nights of frigid debauchery during the first week.
/r/seduction17/12/11 05:26 AM
2

Literally said exactly that to a cute girl sitting in the SU. Although I'm pumped that this semester is over and I get to go to a warmer climate. Gotta remember Niagara Climbing, thanks. I sometimes go to Pure, Bayou and clubs like that but with the bone-chilling cold that''s already set in, an indoor athletic activity is a good time. Ona sidenote, I better fatten up if I wanna run game next semester without shivering like Scooby Doo.
/r/seduction16/12/11 05:36 PM
1

Also relevant are Long Island girls. Fun but oh-so skanky and usually loaded (in more ways than one).
/r/seduction16/12/11 02:52 AM
2

I live in Buffalo, too. It's getting to be that time of the year where every girl (and a few guys) wears Uggs and NorthFace jackets. I go to UB so there are plenty of chicks to hit on but can you suggest other fun places around town.
/r/seduction15/12/11 10:05 PM
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I don't know if it is.
/r/seduction14/12/11 11:20 PM
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admits that she is a scientist but doesn't really believe in evolution Uh-oh. I'd have had to try so hard to keep talking to her after that. Good job.
/r/seduction14/12/11 04:22 PM
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As an engineering student, I hate how much I have to go out of my way to hang out with female classmates. I have maybe one girl for every 15 guys and the pickings are very very slim. But go any other non-engineering class, it's a whole 'nother story.
/r/seduction14/12/11 02:43 AM
1

I cringed. Yeesh.
/r/seduction13/12/11 02:48 AM
1

What did work against you?
/r/seduction11/12/11 04:38 PM
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Do-do-do-do you have it? GUTS!
/r/seduction11/12/11 04:34 PM
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I own it. Every family is nuts but my crazy family is mine and I love 'em. Fuck other folks if they don't like 'em. But my family is super rational and polite so they usually serve as a DHV, showing people I'm a family man as well as a (wannabe) baller.
/r/seduction11/12/11 02:51 PM
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Dude, if I had just ten percent of Oprah's ability to hold sway over women, I'd never be able to get my pants back on.
/r/seduction09/12/11 05:48 PM
4

Well said. Seduction is as much about being the best you can be as it is about hooking up.
/r/seduction09/12/11 12:33 PM
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I'm not entirely sure about this one. Sure, a call means less flaking but it also might come off as a bit too aggressive. Which is good if you're going for that but for me, an off-hand text works fine.
/r/seduction30/11/11 09:31 PM
3

Sure. No-one said an FR has to be successful.
/r/seduction29/11/11 03:05 AM
4

Thanks for taking the time to reply so extensively! I've been on here for a few months and know that Seddit promotes game that is natural and doesn't seem, as you've said, contrived. Good to know that it still works even though your expectations of being seduced have been changed by it's knowledge. And, come on, anything Ryan Gosling does would probably work.
/r/seduction26/11/11 09:18 AM
1

Nice, this is like practice math problems with Steven and Joe and their candies. Good idea, frogma.
/r/seduction26/11/11 08:52 AM
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Ah, the prolonged 'so...yeah'. Conversation kryptonite, that is. At least it didn't happen during the date. That would've blown.
/r/seduction26/11/11 08:48 AM
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When you're out with a guy, do you measure him using a Sedditor as a benchmark? I mean, you seemed to judge him by some stuff that an average Sedditor would know but isn't common knowledge to the average guy. What do you think of this?
/r/seduction26/11/11 08:39 AM
3

Haha, is the groupon guy the same as in last night's date? And your tl;dr is something I've been wondering about but hearing that from a girl confirms it - I'm def not waiting till the end of the date to try to kiss her. And yes, we'd like to hear more.
/r/seduction26/11/11 08:31 AM
4

Just ask for his number (since you've intimated that you already know him a bit). Or give him yours, he'll give you his in return. NBD.
/r/seduction26/11/11 08:18 AM
11

That's cool but take a shower, bro.
/r/seduction26/11/11 02:58 AM
3

A potus, if you will.
/r/seduction26/11/11 02:56 AM
1

Wow, that's double my dosage. I would breakdown if I took 75mg.
/r/seduction08/11/11 06:44 PM
3

Fuck ADHD and fuck the drugs (too bad they work). Taking adderall makes me exactly like you described, which usually leads to me smoking pot to take off the edge. Vicious cycle. It's extremely apparent to friends when I'm on the meds and when I'm not; when I'm on them, I usually ramble on about stuff (like now) that aren't so amusing that very introspective and sometimes absurd.
/r/seduction08/11/11 11:18 AM
3

Rock out like guy.
/r/seduction07/11/11 05:23 PM
3

Did you know the one of the guys who made that song is dead now?
/r/seduction07/11/11 05:22 PM
1

Good improv comes from having a wide background of information This is definitely true, you should at least be able to have an opinion on a variety of subjects. I also agree about the level of detail and 'relatability' of said topics. It's getting easier now but one of the niggling issues I have when interacting with women is the way I express my thoughts. I usually read about stuff (and a lot of this info is dry) so I tend to relate stuff matter-of-factly. Things I try to remind myself day-to-d…
/r/seduction07/11/11 04:47 AM
1

The comments are golden: dee, your name sucks mal
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:27 AM
2

Sounds like a great night out, testmypatience.
/r/seduction05/11/11 07:44 PM
3

Fuck those guys.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:51 PM
1

I hadn't thought about it in that way. I mean, I understood that one must remain on his toes and all but I wasn't thinking of game in the grander sense. The image in my head was that of a guy ten years into marriage, approaching every single girl he crosses paths with. But yes, I do know what you mean when you say 'game never stops being relevant'. I've been in a PUA(-wannabe) state of mind for the past few days but it's obvious that game is long-term; the realization that stuff here also applie…
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:46 PM
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Thanks for quenching my curiosity, sir. And I wholeheartedly agree with your tl;dr.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:29 PM
2

Money doesn't necessarily mean he'll be a good partner, right? I was trying to say how these things are subconscious triggers. Of course, there are superficial people who consciously search for such qualities.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:20 PM
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How come you're here then? (asking out of pure curiosity, that's all)
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:39 PM
2

Why? Because women dig rich dudes? If you're rich, it not only means that you have money but also the skills/abilities to be successful (unless you're a heir to some fortune). It's the same as being in shape, being good at math or driving or painting - an acquired trait that was brought about through hardwork and skill. From a biological perspective, money probably triggers the same emotions in guys as it does when we see large breasts. Plus, not all guys are blessed with good looks, height, fra…
/r/seduction01/11/11 08:21 PM
1

Awesome.
/r/seduction31/10/11 02:20 PM
1

Yes, I have been lead on by women who were doing it just for kicks and some who were conflicted about their level of interest. Usually, if I'm on my A-game, I try to increase the level of intimacy which usually weeds out the flaky ones. But women who take advantage of my attention before they freeze me out are few and far between, though that kind of shit is scummy. However, I'm still a noob at this, so I consider prolonged intimate interactions with women a minor success. It would also be hypoc…
/r/seduction27/10/11 03:26 PM
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The texting and IMing is a secondary issue here as we guys assume attraction if you give us your number (facebook friend request screams ambivalence and an AIM s/n will prompt me to make fun of you, ya Luddite). It is usually assumed/cited that a girl decides if she's attracted to you or wants to sleep with you in the first 5 minutes of meeting you. If I can't convince you or change the way you think about me (depending on the case) in another 10-15 minutes (or even more), isn't everything else …
/r/seduction27/10/11 11:39 AM
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Lawyered.
/r/seduction27/10/11 11:26 AM
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While I don't approach girls with what I want to do with her already in my mind (hookup/relationship/whatever), I do subscribe to the theory that I need to move on if she's not vibing me or vice-versa. I don't mean when she's playing hard to get, because most of us understand that's part of the game and can be fun if you know how to handle it. But if she's not into me or if I feel like she's not engaging enough (usually a sign of disinterest), I can have a better time with someone else. It shoul…
/r/seduction27/10/11 11:23 AM
1

Cool poem and the words are true, too. But going through his wiki page, I found that he asked for a woman's hand in the least alpha way possible. It's the antithesis of everything PUA (or is it?).
/r/seduction27/10/11 10:06 AM
2

The best part is the support and the advice, not to mention the straight talk. Cheers, guys.
/r/seduction25/10/11 03:30 AM
1

I feel like some girls are mean because they feel like the guy is supposed to be doing all the impressing and they have to prove themselves by surviving a 'test of fire' (I don't mean like teasing but rude, arrogant bitchiness), like the guy has to earn the privilege of her social acceptance. Fuck 'em, don't need the hassle and that kind of behavior is major turn-off anyway. They're as sociable than the neckbeard sipping a beer by himself in the corner; it's not that we don't hold similar intere…
/r/seduction19/10/11 04:00 AM
1

Ha, thanks, it was one of those times where everything seemed to work. Gonna make sure that becomes a regular occurrence.
/r/seduction18/10/11 09:25 PM
1

Great explanation, makes perfect sense. It seems like common sense now but I would've never figured this out by myself. Thanks.
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:33 PM
2

Gold.
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:30 PM
1

Although I preach to ask for a girl's # before the end of the interaction Can you explain to a noob why you think this is important?
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:24 PM
1

No, it's a college in New York state.
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:02 PM
1

Thanks, it's gonna be hard to stop me from refraining from this.
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:50 AM
2

Also, do you guys think I should stick to acquiring numbers till I get comfortable or attempt to proceed to the next level with one of these girls? What about the hair touching?
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:46 AM
2

Hey, practice makes perfect. Keep on trucking, buddy. And I'm not an expert but I feel like #2 wasn't your fault. If those girls didn't wanna hang out with you, their loss.
/r/seduction17/10/11 02:23 AM
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