Tzarzarina Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
647	Beware “the husband stitch”. Women who get an episiotomy are sometimes sewn up “tighter” for the benefit of their male partner. This happens without consent, at a rate of at least 10%, and can cause lifelong pain with intercourse.	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	Tzarzarina	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/22 05:25 AM
1	Beware “the husband stitch”. Women who get an episiotomy are sometimes sewn up “tighter” for the benefit of their male partner. This happens without consent, at a rate of at least 10%, and can cause lifelong pain with intercourse.	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	Tzarzarina	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/22 05:19 AM
1	Imagine being so pleased with the barest possible minimum 🙄 I expect cute outings from my family, friends, coworkers literally everyone		Tzarzarina	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/22 01:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	The tinder swindler 2.0 I haven’t heard of this one. Would you please elaborate?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 11:49 AM
30	Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks? Gained 20 pounds or so and ex acted disgusted by my body. I’m still traumatized by the way he was so obviously grossed out by my body when we’d be intimate. Told me if I ever gained weight, he’d dump me in front of his friends and screamed at me for being a fat bitch when I was leaving him. Fucked me up psychologically for life. Especially because I was in a mindset of thinking men wouldn’t care about small flaws before I was with him. Struggling with disordered eating now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 09:52 PM
75	Women leaving the dating apps Dating apps are unsafe for women. Period. Giving random men access to your photos and location is a situation that women would never participate in real life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 05:26 AM
314	Valentine’s Day cringe If only men knew how much more attractive they could be to us if they showered, shaved, put effort into clothing (no more basketball shorts, sweatpants, or saggy jeans 3 sizes too big PLEASE), and wore cologne maybe they’d realize it takes less effort than their Machiavellian manipulative tactics	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/22 02:05 AM
3	The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts? Pick me is not exclusively a FDS term. It’s been on social media for forever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 01:47 PM
46	Male depravity makes it to the front page. The worse part is that all the comments on his post are congratulating him for being a genius and “cracking the code”. As if any of those women would speak to him when he eventually reveals he was lying and single. Why do men assume they are inherently attractive to us and they only need to get us to talk and open up somehow?? Here’s a new thought for men- how about approaching women who are in your social circle or acquaintances based on shared interests and compatibility instead of scoping out…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 01:43 PM
148	A lot of men don’t marry for love. They marry for timing. Don’t be the woman he settles with out of convenience I’m 27 and this genuinely terrifies me. The men in my age group are right around that time when they’ll be pulling this shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 03:31 AM
3	I walked away when my needs weren't met The fact that he seemed so promising and you still stuck to your boundaries and dumped him is so admirable. It takes a lot of courage and self awareness. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 05:21 AM
10	I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪 Do NOT let anybody make you feel self conscious about this. I am the same exact way due to a health issue. Soooooooo bored and tired of people being shocked and horrified when you don’t want the office Dominoes pizza or box of donuts. Like how is this behavior normal? Excuse me if I don’t want to die early and weigh 800 pounds. There are so many dudes out there who eat basic, fresh food because they are into fitness lifestyles or are hippies or whatever, like don’t even feel weird. It’s the SAD-…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 05:04 AM
6	What are the red flags that it’s emotional abuse? Speaking as an American born Pakistani raised as a Muslim and who is no longer practicing. I’m sorry, but you really need some harsh truth here. You are using your own internalized racism to excuse this man’s terrible behavior. I’ve been with a white, American man who was just as good of an angry screamer as my Pakistani dad. STOP using his race as a safeguard against your own acceptance of abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 03:20 PM
1	I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response: I don’t see why this is a problem. Generally speaking, women with a higher IQ, education, and a career don’t need to stay in toxic relationships due to financial and social constraints. Why don’t they publish some useful statistics like how women’s IQ affects relationship and overall life satisfaction. This is the same asinine trope as the divorce rate panic when really all it means is women are getting free!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 02:14 AM
23	Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩 I think this boils down to never tolerating anyone in your life putting you down. It’s taken me a long time to make my brain give me an alarm signal when someone is subtlety invalidating due to my emotionally abusive father. But I like this approach because it doesn’t involve me wasting time trying to figure out somebody’s motives. Don’t have something nice/respectful to say to me? Goodbye! Also this is why criticism in work and school contexts is handled so carefully and with paperwork and offi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 12:47 PM