| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | How do I not be boring? | UC18 | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 06:49 PM | |
| 3 | Need some help with mental game | Inner Game | UC18 | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Going on my first date in about 8 years. Need some help | Inner Game | UC18 | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 05:13 PM |
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| 1 | Do splurgy Instagram stories make you less confident about inviting a woman to a coffee date?I live in a place where having money is the only way of dating someone. People are very judgemental, especially women. I have a good career and am doing okay for myself, but drive a Honda civic. I love it, and don't really have any complaints. I live down the street from my parents, and my dad owns an Audi A6, which obviously I'm free to drive anytime I please. What I've done is on my social media and dating profiles, I subtly pose with the Audi to get some attention, and then when I meet girls … | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Does a man prefer thongs, boy shorts, bikinis or no bottoms on his gf/wife, or can she choose whatever she wants & you're fine with that?If she's in good shape, just about anything will look good. Goes for men as well, of course. Beyond that, it's finding out what your partner may be into and trying it on for them. Communication is always boring but it makes things sexier. I workout just about everyday of the week so I only date women and men who do the same so we have similar standards for each other. | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Kinda fancying the idea of cougar hookupsMake them feel younger and feminine. Never mention the age difference directly, always be playful and fun, their life is stressful enough as is, and they're insecure about not feeling beautiful despite being gorgeous because younger girls get all the attention. I'm 26, I'm currently seeing a 44 year old and a 38 year old from my gym. It all started with me having playful banter with them and escalating over a couple months to let them be able to trust me to not be immature. | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Is dating sustainable for below average men?I'm shorter than OP (170 cm), and have never struggled dating. Just saying that for context so I don't come off as bitter. BUT, it has become very acceptable and normalised to openly make fun of short and average height men. Especially in women in my age range (26) and younger. If you don't see it mentioned online, then congrats, you're a decent person and your algorithm is catered to your needs. But both in real life and online dating, many women (including my friends, some mutuals in my social… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 04:01 AM |
| 6 | I think that mysterious attitude guy persona is stupidWomen don't think logically, stop trying to be logical | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Great second date, lots of chemistry - then ghosted when I asked for another date. How common is this?I'm mixed from two different prominent Asian countries and have lived across Asia and most of the world over my life. You saying culture plays a role is a simplistic and disgustingly shallow view of the world. Culture very rarely overrides biology. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 04:58 PM |
| 9 | Great second date, lots of chemistry - then ghosted when I asked for another date. How common is this?Not just the western world, my friend. Don't do this "grass greener on the other side" bullshit. People who say this usually just look for an excuse to fly out to some third world dump in south east Asia and perv over underaged girls | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 10:21 AM |
| 62 | I like girls with meaty labiasWho the fuck starts a conversation like that, I just sat down! | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have herpes?Who the fuck starts a conversation like that, I just sat down | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 10:16 AM |
| 17 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeIt helps that I speak to a lot of people in the gym. I started out by being friendly with the trainers that generally train all the women which allows me an excuse to come say hi, but just being friendly and approachable in general helps. With this one, it was a bit different. She caught my eye a couple times (literally looks like sofia Vergara) but I didn't do anything because I was relatively new to that gym. She happened to coincidentally be training on a machine right next to me one day, and… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeyou are no rookie I'm very good at charming and flirting in general, but my closing is terrible. I've only had sex with two women, and one of them I wasn't even sober. Gotta learn closing better, I end up second guessing myself often because of that. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeWe see each other in the gym often, but rn I'm working out at a different time due to a lot of work. Go na try going around her time this week. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeObviously not lmao, too much risk. I've teased her a couple times before on text since I don't get THAT much one on one time in the gym as she works out with two of her girl friends, and I've been chatting up one of them too to get closer. (Devious, I'm aware). But yeah, I'll bring up badminton or chess sometime soon just for more proximity. Not sure when though, considering next weekend is valentine's and she has a cold today. I'm also going to see my ex on Sunday and potentially smash. I'm exc… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeMmhm, and I'm going to be exceptional 👀 | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeAny tips? I've never done this before so I thought having restraint is my best move. I'm texting her tonight anyways. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudeRiveting stuff, I'm aware 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 11:02 AM |
| 42 | Tell me your wildest story as a side dudebeen talking to this absolute milf in the gym who literally has "no flirting" written in her instagram bio- she's fairly lowkey and private anyways and has less than a 100 followers but an absolute smoke show. Her husband's out of shape too. Just texted me at 1 am last night "how was your day? haven't seen you in the gym in a while" because I go at different times now. She also mentioned she loves playing chess, badminton, and running without me even asking. All of which I enjoy too. And went ou… | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 10:16 AM |
| 0 | Not interested in a woman anymorerape themselves It's fucking disgusting how many women just use this word carelessly just for an adjective these days that has nothing to do with the actual meaning of the word. Shut up and go read a coloring book. | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Yo Y'all how to turn a cute girl on the street into your girlfriendCurious to know why you split up, this sounds mad cute. Similar thing happened to me from Jan 2024 until November last year, but the girl ghosted me out of nowhere. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 09:25 AM |
| 5 | My success rate for nightclub game is higher when there’s an artist performing thereAs a small electronic artist who is also a DJ, you're welcome. | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Even though she is a smoking hot baddie that turn every head when she walks. Should I just approach?Your username sounds like your entire bloodline has been in Slytherin | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 11:04 PM |
| 9 | Even though she is a smoking hot baddie that turn every head when she walks. Should I just approach?Always let a girl reject you. Never reject yourself | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How i met my first, second and third girlfriend. Becoming somebody i hated later.No it does not lmao, only women think like this to justify going from relationship to relationship without taking the time to reflect and do inner work | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Need some help with mental gameThat makes sense. Both of us take the gym pretty seriously and spend 1.5-2 hours daily in there, so spending time there won't be too difficult since we workout at the same time. I've also never been on a "traditional" date before having sex with a girl. Usually just walks at different places in close vicinity to where one of us lives (usually the girl since I don't want my parents to walk in to me clapping cheeks) where I scout the location beforehand to find things to do to keep things flowing.… | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Need some help with mental gameYep, I realized that as well. Could you explain what you mean by "not gym, drinks or coffee?" As for my low point, I do have a trajectory but it's doing a number on my self image because I won't be able to see any results until at least March. But I am still working and that's enough for me. Since I am seeing her in the gym tomorrow (she literally told me she's waiting for us to workout together when I said she's a great distraction) what would you suggest I do? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?Yeah. Unless you got the girl's ig directly from her, sliding into DMs randomly doesn't make sense imo. My play usually after getting their ig is I just text them "fancy seeing you here 😏" Also, no clue why I got downvoted for sharing my anecdotes lmao | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 10:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you start a conversation with a stranger on Instagram and get a reply?I literally just did this twice in the past week and have been going back and forth pretty consistently and developing a flirty rapport. The most recent one was last night. Absolutely gorgeous woman who's also a very skilled painter. Both of us follow each other but have never interacted (she's one of the types to follow everyone that follows her back. Has about 3k followers and 3k following). I'm an artist myself, and make music for a living. She posted a story about the current state of the wo… | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?I wouldn't mind this if it were easy. But the older you get the more emotional baggage you have to deal with women. I never dated much because I was focusing on career and going through therapy for trauma. I'm 25, and figured I'd finally start dating again. Met a great girl, we had excellent chemistry, but she kept comparing me to her ex boyfriends, the bad and the good ones. I didn't mind and was emotionally supportive, and she ended up ghosting me due to getting scared of catching feelings too… | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 05:20 AM |
| 0 | Ladies, how do you like to be flirted with?😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 08:38 AM |
| 7 | Tall girls are an untapped resourceI'm a dom. I'm also 5'7, and a lot of the time my subs are either my height or taller. If you think you feel submissive just due to a woman being taller than you, you have a lot of issues you need to work on. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 11:48 AM |
| -2 | I feel my age is a -ve factorAww, poor baby got his feelings hurt. Sowwy :( I'm surprised you even know what critical thinking is, considering how emotionally you've been reacting to everything. Waste of oxygen and resources. I hope you get crushed by the recession that's coming. The world won't miss you | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 07:41 AM |
| -5 | I feel my age is a -ve factorI hope you marry a ran through whore who cheats on you behind your back repeatedly because she's lost the ability to pair bond so you can truly recognise how stupid you're sounding by calling people insecure. Just because you can't comprehend something, or people having standards doesn't make them insecure. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 06:20 AM |
| 215 | Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy?About 8 years ago when I was in high school, I was "hanging out" with a girl I had a massive crush on. We had a moment where we just looked at each other and smiled, so I said fuck it and went in to kiss her. She leaned back and said "wtf do you think you're doing" and looked at me with disgust. 8 years and losing 40 lbs later, at 25, I finally decided to put myself out there. Met a very cute girl last week, took her for a walk and trying out this new ice cream place I wanted to go to. I looked … | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Going on my first date in about 8 years. Need some helpThanks for taking the time to respond. Date actually went really well, we skipped our plans and just went to a park and talked and I made her laugh. Then picked her up and kissed her. She wants to meet again this weekend. | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Going on my first date in about 8 years. Need some helpActually went great, we didn't even go anywhere, just sat at a park talking and had some ice cream and were touching constantly. I was very sweaty (weather was warmer than I anticipated) and I had a handkerchief so she jokingly called me a gentleman. We made out for a bit too despite me being sweaty, so I'll take that as a win. She wants to meet again next weekend. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How do I get laid?Hey, it could be worse. This could've been AI | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Going on my first date in about 8 years. Need some helpYeah, I tend to get in my head a lot. I'm very analytical, which probably isn't gonna translate very well in speaking to her. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Going on my first date in about 8 years. Need some helpAlso, logistics for smashing are going to be challenging since we both live with family (normal where I live). She's a year older than me, and I also just got let go from my job. I'll be fine in about 3 months' time, because I'm helping my dad with his business and also have some things in the works for me, but I genuinely have no money until then so I'm either going to have to get creative or let her go, which scares the shit out of me. We have pretty good chemistry over text, and if it transla… | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to jerk off. I’m not at a point of my life where I can get hot girls. What do I do?Not unlikely. I did as well. Several universities offer 3 year courses, so if you enter at 18 you can graduate before hitting 22 | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 09:29 AM |
| 23 | Most Guys Have the Product. What They Lack Is the Pitch.Because some self absorbed pencil necks think that if you're building communication skills to attract a better suited partner or setting your life up to increase the number of women you interact with, you're vain and shallow. Had that happen to myself | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 08:49 AM |
| 21 | Called soft by girls i hook upWomen typically don't fuck men they don't trust. anecdotal and empirical evidence says that's not entirely true | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Got cockblocked hard last night and now I don’t know if I should reach outAmateur conspiracy theorist and professional shit-stirrer here. Maybe the girl was in a relationship, and that's why her friend pulled you away so she wouldn't do something she really regretted afterwards? OR the friend was jealous that her friend was getting action while she wasnt. Either way, don't think about it and text her saying you had fun before being interrupted, and then gauge her response to continue. If she really wanted you, me thinks she would've prevented her friend from dragging … | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How long does it take to learn game?What did each year look like? How were you in your first year? What would you have done differently? Sounds like an interview, but I'm curious lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Congratulations, You've Been AMOGed...This reads like a draft for an episode of suits | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 06:07 AM |
| 14 | I tried Tinder in Istanbul and...Istanbul was Constantinople. Now it's Istanbul, not Constantinople. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Main reason very unattractive dudes that don’t have money get gorgeous women?The enchiridion of epictetus is also a good intro for stoicism | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 06:06 AM |
| 18 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?put your tongue in there like you desire her forbidden nuggets Aight that's it I'm heading to work | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce cats and make them like mePipe down, shane dawson | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Reputation is everything"reputation legitimises" - Adam Neely | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | I’m a dumbass and somehow fell for this girl on the first dateA man of culture | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 02:01 PM |
| 3 | I’m a dumbass and somehow fell for this girl on the first dateClassic Schmosby | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is she changing her hairstyle so often?She's actually three identical triplets and one of them's trying to see if they're interested in you like Christian Bale in the prestige. Or, you could just fucking ask her instead of wasting everyone's time on here. Could be a good conversation starter to get her to speak about herself and her knowing you've been paying attention to how she carries herself, which might make her reconsider her interest in you. | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Where would you fly to for 4 days: Morocco, Romania, Albania, Turkey, Georgia?Greeks get very teritorial about foreigners speaking to their women from what I hear | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 06:44 AM |
| 7 | How to make women lust after you?Rule numbers 1&2 | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | its so easy to just not engage or strike up a convo with a girl who you make eye contact withI'm mildly autistic, could you outline some non verbal mannerisms please? | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 09:51 AM |
| 5 | How to seduce someone out of your league without showing needyFirst, "leagues" aren't a real fucking thing. They're made and reinforced by people who try to justify why they can't do better for themselves. I'm not conventionally attractive (5'7, assymetrical face etc), but have a decent physique that I use to build confidence in myself. Find things you're confident about, and approach women from a mindset of feeling that you have so much love for yourself that you'd like to give her some as well (obviously don't be a cunt about it) Secondly, if you always … | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 09:15 AM |
| 4 | This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it)We doing clickbait on reddit posts now? | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Approaching woman at the gymI'd say talk to girls (or people in general at the gym) casually over a couple days first, then exchange numbers and go from there. Being direct is too risky imo if you push it or mess up cuz it'll just be awkward for both people sometimes | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 06:23 AM |
| 12 | I’m 31m, is it unethical to go after a 23yr old girl that I know?Nope. Ignore people that shame you for age gaps. I've found its usually either bitter women or jealous men. If your heart's in the right place and she likes you, go for it. She's a consenting adult | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 07:00 AM |
| 18 | What is it about good fashion that makes you more attractive?I've been dressing "well" since I was obese in high school, and while people were noticably nicer to me in a jeans and well fitted button up shirt compared to my usual death metal band tee, they go out of their way to be nice to me since I've lost the weight and put on muscle. My job requires me to wear suits anyways so I'm almost always in either a tailored suit or well fitted business casual clothes. Let's just say I don't miss being fat. Long story short, the halo effect is very real and well… | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 06:02 PM |
| – | How do I not be boring?So this is an interaction I had literally about an hour ago. For a bit of context- this girl was interested in me in college but I had some insecurity issues and was dating her roommate for a bit so always cockblocked myself*. Last year I changed my number because I'd lost my phone. I'm planning on moving to a different city soon and I know she lives there (I said "I'm moving to __ in September, we should get together and catch up if you're still there" to which she responded by liking the text … | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:26 PM |
| 5 | I got a hot girlfriend, and you can too!Also a note on the fashion side for looking good (given you're in reasonable shape, but also works if you're not): spend a bulk of your budget on shoes, if you're broke then buy used if you have to. I'm somewhat of a minimalist so I only have 3 pairs of shoes, including the ones I wear to the gym, but they're very good and very versatile. Women pay attention to your shoes quite a bit (I've had a girl told me she looks at guys' shoes before even talking to them sometimes). The cost of your clothe… | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 12 | Gym gameThis is how you do it. I'm friendly with everyone at the gym, to the point that most regulars say hi or fist bump me if I've got headphones in. Just say hi w a smile and go about your workout, gym game's like a marathon. Also a tip- be on good terms with the trainers. The hottest girls at my gym always workout with trainers so if I see the trainers by themselves or a different client first I approach them. Then when they're training with clients you go say hi or they say hi to you, you can use t… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayHey! DM me approximately how much you're willing to spend for working out, whether at a gym or home. I'll help make a program for you, even if it's without any weights at home. No charge, just wanna help a homie look better | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She took out one of her eyeballs and wanted to play golf with him | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | How to not be a nice guy online?Piggybacking on this. listening to the song by Alice Cooper and the Megadeth cover is also recommended at any time while you read the book | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 02:34 AM |
| 11 | Why doesn’t anyone take her seriously? Being a dancer should not be a stereotype for just a bang. Or maybe the single mom has something to do with it?Exactly. What it is though is a very good demonstration of character and shows me who I should stay away from | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/02/21 12:39 AM |
| 28 | Why doesn’t anyone take her seriously? Being a dancer should not be a stereotype for just a bang. Or maybe the single mom has something to do with it?Calling whores "dancers" is an insult to actual dancers. A friend of mine is a ballerina who has been training since she was 8 and has given her literal blood, sweat, and tears to be good at this. She's a dancer. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation.So I don't have terrible game, I'm just wicked smaht? | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | From pitiable “incel” to success with high quality women. My story + 5 suggestions for others. [Long post]Great post! Gonna piggy back a bit on your watch comment for those who think Hamilton watches are a little bit out of their price range... I'm really in love with Orient watches, they're fairly affordable (I think their cheapest one is like $150 or something) Timex also just launched a beautiful new automatic collection if that's your thing. I really like watches lol | /r/seduction | 13/07/20 07:43 AM |
| – | Conversations with an average man with an above average sex lifeHey! I'm also into the same stuff you are (hell, I'm studying music composition and screenwriting in college), my only problem is that I'm 5'6 and slightly chubby (my height's never a drawback, rarely comes up and my ex girlfriend of two years was taller than me. Gained weight from a depressive slump and I'm working my ass off to get back into shape and it's going well). I have major anxiety talking to people and sometimes I literally RUN out of stuff to talk about. Ik it's not nerves or anythin… | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Music as a confidence boostThis. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 01:29 PM |
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