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Gosh this makes me so jealous. The courts have been giving my ex what ever she wants for 6 years. I’ve taken her back multiple times for more custody and set in stone schedule because she would just keep the kids from me when she was mad.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 04:25 PM
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I use to volunteer in the children’s ministry at my old church. One day the lady in charge walked in and said, “Where’s the female volunteer?” I said, “She went to the bathroom.” Lady says, “You can’t be in here alone with the children with a female present.” I said, ok and walked out of the room and never went back.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 04:23 PM
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Lol
/r/MensRights12/07/21 11:17 PM
2

Way to manipulate my comment to a completely unrelated subject. Typical lol
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:15 PM
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I’m def interested. I want reform!
/r/MensRights12/07/21 06:14 PM
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Remember, a divorced women is a “single mother”. When men divorce, they’re dead beats. I’ve taken her to court twice now trying to get shared custody and the judge said, “The current schedule seems to be working so it will stay that way”. Umm…I’m here because the schedule doesn’t work and she’s the one who chose it. The court system is so effed up right now
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:09 PM
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Ya. I shouldn’t have went with a particular disorder. There is def a slew of mental disorders out there. A lot of them seem really close in relation
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:08 PM
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I feel the worst for the kids dealing with it. It’s the same with my ex as well. Always saying she needs help yet has way more of everything than me. The courts just turned me into a dairy cow.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:05 PM
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All the expectations for men are still very alive whilst female expectations have been reduced to almost zero. Having a kid is by far the only hard thing a women will do in today’s world.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 03:55 PM
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I don’t even know what that means
/r/MensRights12/07/21 03:49 PM
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And for real I still believe in men fighting, protecting and providing but it needs to be appreciated. It’s taken advantage of now and exploited.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:59 AM
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A lot of us are jaded. Don’t lose hope. Your soulmate is out there. Just don’t ignore red flags or make excuses for a persons behaviors. Happiness and trust is always just around the corner. Stop looking and just concentrate on building a better you and they’ll arrive when you least expect it
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:42 AM
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You’re obviously young
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:44 AM
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You have BPD
/r/MensRights12/07/21 04:44 AM
15

Exactly. It’s really sad what family court is doing to men
/r/MensRights12/07/21 02:48 AM
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That’s not always true. A person can still choose to work against it or allow it. Addiction is a disease, does this mean the person has no hand in the evolution of their sickness? BPD refuse to acknowledge their sickness and continue to ruin lives.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 01:35 AM
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Say what you will but I lived it for almost 5 years and if his friend is that ducked up then some shits worse than his girl was a bitch. I’d take a “bitch” over a person with a mental disorder any day. Once you’ve experienced it, it’s easy to see the signs. You become hyper aware. It’s not an excuse either because someone has a personality disorder. Still makes them an asshole
/r/MensRights12/07/21 01:27 AM
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Uugh. You few are so tiring. I’ve been with my wife for 6 years and we have a family. I don’t have a “negative” outlook in women in general. It is a damn observation when SO MANY men I know are being beaten to shit by their exes. It’s a constant issue for MANY men and it’s fucked up.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 01:09 AM
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No. It’s a simple observation of true stories and men I know well. This isn’t just words, they are lives that have been destroyed and demoralized. Women clucking in a circle about what pigs men are and how they were assaulted is not the same thing. These are men who love their kids and are forced to not only be without them but give all that they earn to their ex’s. Our stories matter and it’s so prevalent today that it’s unavoidable now.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 12:41 AM
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I’m sure his ex had BPD and he was mentally and emotionally abused. It’s embarrassing for men to admit and you feel idiotic even trying to explain it.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 12:29 AM
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I’m not overly emotional. It’s been years since I had to deal with these things. I was just posting a thought. It’s just weird to me that you are so adamant to give me shit and harass me. If you ask me if I have resentments towards the system and women exploiting that system, ya I do. We don’t need statistics when we see it in our everyday lives.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 12:04 AM
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There’s a reason this sub is for men. We don’t think alike. We may be on the same side but you’re still way overboard with all this. Just chill.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:52 PM
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To you maybe, but for men we talk and know what’s going on.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:24 PM
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Oh I see. Honestly at this point it’s common knowledge. Only reason I didn’t bother posting stats.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:23 PM
10

Sadly judges don’t care if you can’t afford to live after child support.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:13 PM
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I get your point but it’s just apart if life now as a man. You have multiple friends and coworkers being crushed and belittled.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:12 PM
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Is 18% suppose to be good? I’m confused…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:11 PM
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Lol right
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:15 PM
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For sure, I have too. My sister was with an emotional abuser and just plain weirdo. This was a long time ago before women had so much power and he didn’t help at all. I know it goes both ways but when 5 of my coworkers and 3 of my friends are all getting screwed over by women it’s hard to ignore at this point. I was completely screwed as well years ago. Men are looked at as secondary parents and it’s really sad how easily a judge does it and doesn’t even care
/r/MensRights11/07/21 08:55 PM
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I know, I agree but it doesn’t change that a lot of guys right now want families but have anxiety over what will happen to them if the girl decides to flip
/r/MensRights11/07/21 07:17 PM
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Yes it has. Women have abused the privileges given them. Just because the courts will allow you to bankrupt your ex and take the kids doesn’t mean you should.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 07:13 PM
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I disagree. Every guy I talk to fears marriage and having kids because of what feminism has done. Most say they don’t think any good ones are left
/r/MensRights11/07/21 07:04 PM
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Ya I agree that women today are put for number 1 and don’t care who they drag down. I finally did find a good women who I’ve been with now for 6 years. I say what I said because their are good ones out there and they need to care more about what’s happening to their gender. Men will eventually stop having kids and getting married. Women act like they don’t want these things but it’s only because they’ve found themselves with the upper hand.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 06:57 PM
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I don’t understand
/r/MensRights11/07/21 06:52 PM
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People are scumbags and they’ll do what ever they can to screw someone over BUT the courts shouldn’t be helping!!! The system is setup in a way that is bias to women and helping mothers. Imagine going in as a man and telling the judge that you essentially can’t afford to take care of your own kids. This is what women tell a judge and their reaction is, “Ok well you pay her what she needs to be an adult and take Care of your kids.” Like what???
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:45 PM
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YES!!!!! I’ve been saying this forever!!! Why on earth do we just give cash to the moms to do as they please with?! It’s so bizarre that the courts don’t care at all where or what the money is spent on! Every damn cent should go to the kids and be verified! Uuuuughjjh The family courts are so unbelievable unfair it’s infuriating
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:41 PM
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Right haha
/r/MensRights26/06/21 09:18 PM
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It’s probably only an issue with ppl who either don’t have kids or don’t have a son. Boys are def dif than girls and so crazy stuff. Feminists will demonize anything male related.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 09:18 PM
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Lol this women is just plain dumb. She basically wants to find a guy that cheats on her behind her back.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 01:25 PM
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Not true as someone pointed out. A women can turn her child over to authorities no questions and she’s not responsible financially for that child anymore. Men do not at all have that luxury.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:44 AM
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I never even thought of that! Wow. A women dumps her kid off because she can’t take care of her own kid and the state is just like ok thanks the fax payers will support your kid. Geez, men have it horrible in this country. A guy can’t just decide not to support his kid.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:42 AM
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Nope. Worry about your own poos.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 05:07 AM
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Because being circumcised has religious meaning and majority of the guys I know are glad their circumcised. Muslim female mutilation’s only intent is to take away their sensual feeling which is not the case with circumcision. In most cases sex is painful for women who have had it done to them
/r/MensRights23/06/21 11:32 PM
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Uh because men molest children and women don’t, duh /s
/r/MensRights18/06/21 07:16 AM
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Signed
/r/MensRights03/06/21 07:06 AM
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Funny how a fair split is a big win for a man
/r/MensRights26/05/21 07:37 PM
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That’s because society is cool with women sexually harassing and molesting men.
/r/MensRights26/05/21 09:40 AM
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Yup. You found yourself a good old fashioned BPD like it did. My ex broke me down into a shadow of the man I once was. She always said I was verbally abusive. That’s funny cause same with me, I’ve been with my wife now for 6 years and we never fight
/r/MensRights25/05/21 05:05 PM
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That’s really cool actually, I’m glad it worked out for you. My ex didn’t have any triggers or anything odd tho. If it’s going to be obvious then you kind of have to say something.
/r/MensRights25/05/21 03:12 AM
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I actually have first hand experience with this. My ex told me super early on she was molested as a child and I did think it was weird she was telling me so soon into our relationship but I didn’t have any experience with it. She ended up being a completely insane person and I ended up divorcing her. Beware, especially if they barely know you and they’re sharing that with you.
/r/MensRights25/05/21 01:39 AM
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You can use things that do compare. Look up the conviction rate of DUI’s between men and women. That doesn’t even cover the amount of women who are let go or driven home.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 04:44 PM
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It’s the unequal application of the law per gender. This women poisoned her baby with friggin meth and walks because, “she didn’t know and she’s sorry”. Our justice system would NEVER be this understanding and lenient of a man.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 04:42 PM
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This can’t be possible! Mothers are by far superior and do no wrong! /s
/r/MensRights24/04/21 04:17 AM
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Haha Love it bro. The “I’m a poor single mom” but is getting old as fuck. Ya, “single mom” when the father takes the kids every week. So pathetic. “They have it so much worse than anyone else” /s
/r/MensRights24/04/21 04:16 AM
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Uneffing believable
/r/MensRights21/04/21 04:28 PM
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When a man and women go to court for the first time, a 50/50 custody schedule should be automatic. The parent who believes they deserve more should have the burden of explaining why they deserve more. The last time I took my ex to court for 50/50 because she was keeping my kids from me when we’d fight, the judge said, “the current schedule seems to be working so it should remain the same.” (The “schedule” we had was whatever worked for my ex best)
/r/MensRights21/04/21 09:11 AM
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Because women view men as the superior gender.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 01:13 AM
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How does a man being circumcised keep you from masturbating?
/r/MensRights09/04/21 08:26 AM
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Uh. Well one literally removes a women’s sensual sensation and the other does nothing but make your peen look chill.
/r/MensRights09/04/21 08:24 AM
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