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UGLVARPG/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 08:30 PM
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UGLVARPG/r/Divorce_Men02/09/21 10:09 PM
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What financial information can they get?
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 10:23 PM
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Did the person I loved ever really exist or was it just a distortion in my head?
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 11:43 PM
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Anything you got during the marriage is half hers. She may decide to not take it but but if she wants it the law is in her favor.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/23 02:11 PM
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Probably has something to do with physical protection and high earning women not needing a smart guy as much.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 07:18 PM
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They will pay something for a strong fearless guy with a big bulge who makes less money (usually with his hands). That has value whereas a the opposite just typically doesn’t too them no matter how smart the guy might be.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 07:16 PM
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I’ve seen it work but it usually doesn’t. In almost every case I’ve seen it work the guy was in the top few percent of masculinity and the women isn’t the equivalent in beauty. I’ve never seen it work when the guy was less than average masculinity. I have seen the highly masculine guy get dumped in these situations and it’s usually by beautiful women. Don’t try it
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 07:12 PM
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I would think the court in your jurisdiction would take her lower cost of living into consideration. You could also try to get an order that she seek work. I wouldn’t quit your job. You might both get an adverse judgment and not have as an easy of a time getting a new position as expected
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 04:56 PM
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Try not to focus on these types of statements she made and just keep going over the numbers with her. Good chance her standard of living simply cannot be what she is imagining currently- basically it stays the same and you are just out of the picture
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 04:45 PM
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Never give up on your kids
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/23 03:51 AM
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You don’t have to win necessarily, it just has to be that she thinks twice before trying to dictate your life with your kids etc. There is a very real risk it will be arbitrary bs like she doesn’t want the kids around your new girlfriend just to fuk you up when it comes to anything good.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 09:47 PM
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I hear you. I understand how you think. Still, I think you should put up some fight or this doesn’t end until your youngest is 18. She will fuk with here and there every year like it’s some kind of sport or on her every mood or mind change
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 09:23 PM
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This sounds like bs but a buddy of mine had old fashioned values, gave his wife everything, didn’t financially recover even though he took responsibility (the universe didn’t care), ended up in poverty and then dead. No, this isn’t your likely outcome but you could lose the ability to spend any time with your kids and have to take an early exit from life if she gets all of the retirement catch my drift.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 09:10 PM
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It doesn’t get better. It gets worse.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/23 03:39 AM
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OP, I think this is also true but I’m kind of new to some aspects of the concept.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 02:22 AM
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You need confirmation. You someone you can trust who has a demonstrated highly accurate read. Basically like an accurate scale
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 02:00 AM
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Do you have anyone brutally honest that you you have known for ever. I have a person like that who is very successful. I’d try things I was terrible at and I wouldn’t have to ask them. They would just let me know. Also things I’m good at. Now they didn’t warn me about my X but I got to the point where I asked them to give it to me straight and they just laid it all out like a map and once I saw it I couldn’t un see it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 01:59 AM
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This sounds like my story. I have one trusted friend who told me she was always passive aggressive but I just wasn’t catching it. I really started to change because I knew logically there had to be some truth to it. One person didn’t turn into a completely different person. Slowly I began seeing it in my family members. Some we’re using me quite regularly for money and other things. As I keep going down this rabbit hole I’m seeing life in general very differently. It’s worth repeating, people do…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 01:36 AM
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Sorry but she is a child and it’s hopeless even with the the best therapist. She will keep doing this for as long as you know her. If she stops doing this it will only be replaced with something worse. How did you end up here? You warped who she is in your head. I know it’s a mind fck but you created a person in your head who never really existed. You were probably trained to do so during childhood. Maybe an abusive parent who’s behavior you warped in your head to deal.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 01:19 AM
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Never ever put your career on hold for a woman because the courts will screw you and men can’t reenter the workforce like women and I haven’t even gotten to women tending to not be very reasonable when it comes to the survival of their children’s father.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 07:21 PM
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She may not get alimony directly but she may get so much child support you are indirectly providing alimony although she couldn’t “technically” use it for that. California will do what is best for the child and not be very concerned if her standard of living is better than it otherwise would be. I have experience with this in California.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 06:40 PM
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You can’t be friends because you need to trust friends and you can never trust her again. Having to interact with her is like cleaning the toilet. Just something you have to do.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 06:00 PM
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Hard to say but I wouldn’t conclude it based on the information provided here
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 01:41 AM
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I was thinking maybe I want to live there but now not so much
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 12:51 AM
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What state is this in? Sounds similar to what I’m dealing with in California (Bay Area). It’s an absolute fkn nightmare at every turn
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 12:38 AM
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Yeah, it’s usually one of the poles. Man hating woman or very conservative guy. You need a new judge
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 09:56 PM
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Can you give us any insights on this judge? Man, woman? Man hating woman? Conservative man?
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 09:38 PM
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He hasn’t filed yet. It’s like the worst fkn idea in the world for him to do this at this point. He wants to stay even keeled as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 05:03 PM
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I don’t even know where to begin. Firstly, you don’t want it to influence filing. After that, almost everyone is a bit of a mess and not really thinking straight. Not a good time to start a relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 02:56 AM
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Yeah, DEFINITELY not around filing
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 01:01 AM
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Stay away. She should know better. She probably does.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 12:30 AM
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If she is divorced she knows not to get involved with someone at your stage. You shouldn’t do this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 12:07 AM
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She still wants to get back together with you and she is being honest. For me it wouldn’t factor much.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 08:01 PM
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I don’t mean to distract with the left leaning part. It’s not what I meant to communicate. I apologize for the stereotype
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 01:28 PM
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She ruined her relationship with them. It’s not your fault she torpedoed the family
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 12:41 PM
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Tell the kids. Their long term outcome will probably be better getting an earlier understanding of the forces shaping their lives. The professionals are so left leaning they will tell you not to but that’s really because of your gender. Life is short. Before you know it, they will be grown and growing up hating you they will spend holidays with your x and you will just be alone and sad unless you set the record straight
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 12:40 PM
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This is all of our worst nightmare. Take this to family court asap
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 01:40 AM
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I’m not trying to be discouraging but have an exit plan where the court sides with your wife and ignores all laws. Even if you have them on tape threatening to make false violence claims against you and you get a restraining order, the court will likely ignore it (I know your lawyer told you otherwise, they do that). Keep the evidence you have as it may keep you out of jail but have a plan in place for it to be ignored in divorce court. Men have no friends in divorce court. Not their lawyer, not…
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 08:51 PM
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Pretty much just talk to people online if I’m not working
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 12:34 AM
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It sounds like you have the financial means to get a good attorney. I’d consult with a few. Times is critical. Determine your options
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 10:45 AM
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How do you best deal with the narcissist during a situation like this? How do you best deal with the court? Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 09:48 AM
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This is an all too common story. Man does what is best for the family and wife tries to throw him away when she has money. Women get the deserved sympathy and support when the roles are switched but men get attacked for all sides. After your faith, love for your child snd drive to do right as a father, what are the key strategies to get through this scenario with as much of a future for yourself as possible? How do you shine a light on the narcissist and get the best outcome from the court? Also…
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 09:47 AM
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I haven’t read the whole thing but I get the gist. Men take care of kids for lots of reasons. Sometimes it’s financial, sometimes it’s because the wife ignores the kids. Sometimes it’s both. Sometimes there are other reasons. You have my respect. What state are you in?
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 11:44 PM
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Not going to lie. There is no hope with people that selfish.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/23 02:23 AM
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What has your lawyer suggested?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 10:51 PM
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