UGoEffyourself Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Pro Tip: Stop thinking about seduction Cool post.	/r/seduction	26/11/21 12:09 AM
1	Escalation with honesty This is a fantastic comment.	/r/seduction	25/11/21 09:54 PM
0	Struggling with girls in college Learn to read, I typed skinny fat which is consistent with his admission of being not fit and having a belly to lose. I never said height doesn't matter, because it does. Less so if you're ridiculously good looking, which the poster is not.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 11:08 PM
2	Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low? Mic drop, probably the best perspective here. also that last line, ouf.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 09:39 PM
95	Escalation with honesty Congrats on your self-growth. I agree with you, obviously maintaining boundaries -- if a girl isn't interested, cool, plenty more out there. I used to say a comment like yours but now I usually just go for it if the feeling is right. Typically I'm pretty good at reading the energy and if a kiss will be well received. Had this backfire on me once, she pulled back. I just laughed and said something like "I'm not that bad of kisser am I? thought I fixed that...fuck! (clearly joking) I get it, no pr…	/r/seduction	24/11/21 09:20 PM
6	Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low? Been there. Needed to learn the grass isn't greener on the other side. The grass may be prettier but relationships are built on more than physicality. The experience, for better or worse, made me a better man. I got more in touch with my feelings and what I want/need in a partner versus what I thought I wanted/needed. Many prettier girls later and I still have buyer's remorse. Would I go back? In a heartbeat. Sadly, hindsight is 20/20.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 07:35 PM
0	Struggling with girls in college You feel like you're entitled to girl attention which is one of your problems. Furthermore, you're defensive and want to put in zero effort, or consider the good advice you're receiving. Seems you expect girls to throw themselves at you, because you're you -- get off your pedestal, you're 5'9, skinny fat, and uninteresting. Gee, tell me why girls are not breaking down the door for you.... You seem to have all the answers, cool, keep doing what you're doing and see how nothing has changed in 5 ye…	/r/seduction	24/11/21 07:23 PM
13	Would pretending to be a male feminist work? That isn't seduction, that is pathetic and creepy. I hope you are unsuccessful with future women, for their sake.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:01 AM
7	Would pretending to be a male feminist work? Fucking pathetic idea. I just died a little inside. Women's issues should be taken seriously, because they're serious, not used as some tool for dating inept males to get laid.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 01:55 AM
22	Struggling with girls in college your interests suck. coming from someone that likes those things too. You have to be more interesting. I only recently got into sports, but you don't have to like sports to be active -- join a team, take up running or cycling, rock climbing, gym etc... Debating and thinking skills don't typically scream fuck me! Being active and fit does scream fuck me. Being passionate about something cool does scream fuck me. How's your fashion, do you plan and coordinate your outfits, have the appropriate sho…	/r/seduction	24/11/21 01:43 AM
1	Was I being shit tested? Reading some responses stating "she responding with alternative plans, she's interested!" I didn't get from her text -- she echoed "the fun" that seemingly involve the plans she just cancelled. Like sure the place sounds fun, just like a cafe can be fun and so can a restaurant, etc... "too bad I can't make brunch. Let's to again, that place sounds so fun/good/cool etc.." This is a hairline better than "can we reschedule for another weekend" or if "fun" bit was left out of her response. I don't i…	/r/seduction	23/11/21 09:30 PM
2	Was I being shit tested? As someone that lies a lot, specific details just emphasize the illusion. This screams bs. Furthermore, pushing off 2 weeks, to me, suggests that she is hoping the plans will fizzle or be forgotten. I don't wait 2 weeks to meet someone I want to meet now, barring specific and understandable circumstances. This hardly qualifies as said circumstances IMO. My dating life is hardly stellar so disclaimer about my advice: tread cautiously.	/r/seduction	23/11/21 05:36 PM