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I agree with the title
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 05:09 PM
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I disagree honestly. It really is a red flag in dating. It is not a red flag to you as a person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/26 12:59 AM
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Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:54 PM
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Its about women and how the loneliness epidemic is not women's responsibility to fix for men. Which is just a rehash of everything else anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 08:00 PM
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Because its always men this men that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:41 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:40 PM
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Would the reason for them finding bi men repulsive not be due to a homophobic view on male sexuality? It seems less like you even understand what the conversation is about but you just dont like the homophobia tag
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:49 PM
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Its objectively homophobic. I dont understand why you are so worked up to be defensive about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:40 PM
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That hasn't earned you anything. You were expected to do that anyway. Relationships aren't transactional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:38 PM
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Its because they are homophobic. There's no agenda to push. It really doesn't matter to me or anyone regardless. Its not like they are forcing women to date anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:28 PM
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Yes. This "loneliness epidemic" is weaponizing the growing trend of isolation to present some one side struggle that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:22 PM
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Spider-man pointing at each other meme
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:17 PM
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Does that include you by chance or are you also an exception
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:12 PM
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Now we are bending over backwards to present women as not being homophobic. We've dont it guys. We've found the women equivalent to the dick length posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:09 PM
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Loneliness epidemic but if you ask them to point out what an epidemic about it you get crickets. This shit is not real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 06:06 PM
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If its something I like it needs nuance. If its something I dont like its very cut and dry. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:30 AM
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The more and more I check this sub the more and more convinced I become that Lilith is just an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 01:26 AM
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The replies proving OP correct is actually crazy to me. Like I always figured this was true. Me and my friends came to this conclusion in college but damn. Genuine verification from women here who somehow believe they are disproving the a OP. This might be the most eye opening post for men in the whole subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:17 PM
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This has no actual bases outside of cherry picked societies. Young people have been fucking since basically forever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 10:55 AM
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If you had to absolutely pick it would assume that being at a similar range is better for most people. If they view something as "cool" then that would be the only instance in which i would see the partner being significantly better at it that you being the only time it is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:13 PM
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Would it not be both. This is like a universal human thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:16 PM
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This woman have to be suffering with some loneliness issues to be making stupid ass posts like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 10:33 AM
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I dont think a single person genuinely cares about birth rates. No one is interested in if strangers are having children when we have our own shit going on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:57 AM
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I hope the supposed fall of society happens so I can sleep in when its happening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:38 AM
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The no one owes anyone anything crowd suddenly feels owed things. What a world we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:50 PM
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Women are homophobic so this wouldn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:31 AM
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I didn't say the definition was different I'm saying it is largely irrelevant alot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 06:43 PM
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Men are typically labeled as fuckboys after they've had sex with those men. Women don't deem a man a fuckboy preemptively alot of the time. Often a woman will pursue a known fuckboy and for whatever reason think the guy will make an exception for her, get burned, then say he's a fuckboy with confidence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:50 PM
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If it wasn't racism the migration wouldn't matter. Their children would be born and raised as citizens and keep things going. In actuality the issue for those people is that the "right" people are reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:11 AM
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This tactic wouldn't work because it's pointless lying for no apparent benefit. Most men don't care about boob side and sticking to a collective justified lie that will likely not change anything will prevent men from committing to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:56 AM
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What do women uphold? What do women uphold if men don't have to uphold anything? What does the upholding mean exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:24 AM
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It's actually impressive how you can be clear about your stance and women will find a way to just pretend your stance was a collective hallucination and you somehow shouldn't notice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:27 AM
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Something I don't understand is when women put the pressure of sex on men and then when that pressure is released it's now placed on the woman somehow. Do women even do the reverse of this to men? Honestly if I didn't have a conversation with my girl about her initiation it would just be either a direct question "wanna have sex?" Which isnt hot at all or just suddenly grabbing me. Sex in relationships is so lopsided because the man has to constantly woo his woman for a potential no and then the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:34 AM
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Yeah but creating a dead bedroom just leads to resentment which isn't good for anyone considering that if the sex is a mismatch one party can't get their needs met from somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:18 PM
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I don't see a point in being miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:14 PM
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In the event that the guy you are attracted to becomes unattractive you simply leave the relationship. Why women pretend this is a big enough deal that both sides ( really it's just the guy) suffer is beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:04 PM
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You guys exaggerate everything to such an absurd degree. Men just like having sex when they are in the mood. It doesn't have to be every single time but like 80% of the time is idea. It's like if men started complaining that making sure every date and outing is perfect is such a burden and a pressure on the guy. It's ridiculous. The thing that genuinely throws men off is the fact that because men want sex more often women's solution is to just not have it at all. As if men are children that need…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:56 PM
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Men seem to be better at handling loneliness than women are. He might find a relationship in his 40s. I don't really know but I do know for sure that neither of us care wether he is happy single or not. It doesn't do anything for our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:53 PM
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Yeah periods as in short term. Like you would feel a type of way if your partner was like "no sex for the next 5 years"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:08 PM
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How did you get 40% when the rate is at like 67%? Are you talking about CDC or the lifetime stat. If it's CDC it's accurate already because they controlled for that. 44% If it's the lifetime stat then removing heterosexual couples drops it by 12% making it 55% from 67%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:54 PM
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Alright so now I'm arguing with someone who can't even maintain proper terms. This discussion is pointless you just want to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:42 PM
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What is fundamentally different about a lesbian woman to a straight woman besides their sexual attraction exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:21 PM
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It's actually insane that so many women would be repulsed by a man who was in every way identical to them in their current life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:19 PM
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This is actually untrue. Removing heterosexual violence only drops it by 12%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:15 PM
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Beyond sexual attraction everything about lesbian women is 1:1 with straight women. Why are you actively pretending to be stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:14 PM
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Ok, then they cheat for polygamous reasons. That's still just as bad. No not really. Most men cheat with a woman they want nothing relationship wise from. It's like calling it polygamous to sleep with a hooker. And sometimes men also outright leave because she is younger and hotter. And that's also bad, that's just like a woman leaving for a guy that's richer, it's just as "hypergamous". This is true but this a very very specific case that this occurs. Normal regular guys cannot do this. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:07 PM
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Men are the one’s miserable without relationships. As far as everyone is concerned no one is worse or better off being single in a vacuum. We all started off single and most people did just fine. Everyone who went through high school with no relationship didn't kill themselves. Same thing with college. Being in a relationship happens and most people don't really care why or how it happens. Just that it is genuine and good. It's only really better than a bad relationship which no one actively sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:01 PM
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Approach the women you find hot and ignore any woman you don't. You can be friends with them if you want or not be if that's what you want to do. My life is my own and I would prefer to not be police by random on the internet. If I didn't decide to just ignore half the bs I wouldn't be in the relationship I have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:53 PM
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Men cheating has nothing to do with hypergamy most of them time. For majority of cases men's cheating is a simple in the moment decision. It's not good but there is often no she is better than my gf/wife evaluation. Often women complain that they cheat with women worse than she is. Women tend to not cheat on their men outside of the AFBB scenario. If the guy they are cheating with is not in a guranteed better financial position than the bf/husband she will simply cheat in secret. When women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:47 PM
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You don't really get to choose what isn't and should be a core component of an emotional experience. I could argue that feeling safe shouldnt be a core component to a relationship but I'm not gonna say that because it's ridiculous. Sex is important to people because it's literally in our biology to care about it. You yourself aren't asexual so sex is still important. So I'm not sure why you act as if men caring about sex is ridiculous or unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:40 PM
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It's because no one has any real reason to believe you. Being single is just alright. It's not good nor bad but it can very easily be better but you actively choose not to as if it makes a meaningful impact. It's like having flavorless icecream. Not vanilla icecream, flavorless. It's not good but it's also not disgusting. But if you told people that you were perfectly fine eating it over any flavor at all everyone will think your lying. While in general most people do not actually carr wether wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:32 PM
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This is more reliant on wether the men take advantage or not. The truth is that alot of attractive men suffer from "still the same old me" syndrome and it tends to not let them just fuck anyone who approaches them because sometimes they aren't attracted to those women. The truth is that women will move out of band for attractive men they encounter in the wild. The difference is that not every single approach will be accepted by said guy. 7 women can surround 1 guy at a party but he can still onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:57 PM
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Don't be obtuse dude. OP is talking about how women talk about it. OP himself doesn't care about the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:58 AM
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It's not men doing all the talking about male loneliness it's women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:56 AM
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There is no solution. That's why no one cares because any way you suggest a solution will just get extrapolated as either men should get over it or men just want sex slaves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:53 AM
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Men need to live their lives and let women have the agency they possess. Stop going out of your way for random women if you aren't doing anything wrong. Example: if you are walking behind a woman at night and are worried about if she will be scared. The solution isn't to cross the street for no fucking reason and give yourself the need to cross the street a second time but to simply walk past her. She'll be scared sure but she'll be less scared with you infront of her. Men need to stop infantali…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:03 AM
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Im not gay so whatever the female version of me would be attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:59 AM
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I know. Everyone acts obtuse about simple concepts just because it's uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:54 AM
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You can't say men being lonely is dangerous but then say men aren't deserving of not being lonely. You can't complain about a problem and want nothing done to solve it at the same time. Women complain about how dangerous men are so they shouldn't be in a relationship with men. Those same women then complain that men are not trying to get into relationships with women. Then they say men that are lonely deserve it and the lonely men is a problem because those lonely men will act out and be dangero…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:52 AM
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Too many people are idiots for this to make a meaningful difference
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:48 AM
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Honestly I kinda agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:26 AM
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He's saying that you can't tell everyone that a tiger is dangerous and will kill you and then try to convince people that you should keep tigers as pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:24 AM
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Men have always done choirs. They didn't start to do anything. Do you think a 13th century peasant didn't know how to cook, clean or wash his own clothes? Raise men to be coddled enough to not need to is very recent. Women have always worked along side their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:07 PM
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It's not about if they exist. They have no reason to assume genuine virginity given no information. It's why they use it as a baseless insult. It's just so they can label you and "properly" dismiss you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:05 PM
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I guess you suffer from the whole misery loves company thing. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:15 PM
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Who cares. Do you spend your time arguing with flat earthers?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:13 PM
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What wild theories? That they aren't lonely? Tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:09 PM
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Stand up for them? I thought you didn't care about them being lonely? You want to solve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:05 PM
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It takes no effort to ignore something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:00 PM
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Who cares? Teen pregnancy was normal too but we talk about it as an issue. You seem way more concerned with kicking people instead of just regular apathy which is very odd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:56 PM
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What are you arguing about exactly. Just the terminology? You just want to replace pandemic with what? Issue? What difference would it make to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:51 PM
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Are red pillers and incels even 20% of the population? Who cares. Certainly not you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:46 PM
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It really isn't. It's more of a surprise if anything. It's not like they are going to provide state mandated girlfriends or something. Regular people don't care beyond themselves, family and friends. It's treated as a talking point for conversation. No one deep down cares
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:39 PM
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What's being treated as a disease? No one actually cares about the supposed loneliness epidemic it's akin to discussing about if people are recycling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:27 PM
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Is something natural not a reflection of society? Red pill and black pill both think most men end without proper relationships. Red pill focuses more on maximizing your fun and ensuring you can at the very least "win" to the best of your ability
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:21 PM
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If it's natural then how is red or black pill bsing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:11 PM
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It's also so bizarre because men have no reason to admit to being a virgin. We assume that any man 19+ is not a virgin by default
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:56 PM
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This has never been a thing. It was exclusively to wealthy individuals and they had hired help. Women have literally always worked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:53 PM
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Gen z is fucking regularly and if they are not they are at least presenting the illusion that they are. Im sure there are more virgins in my circles for both men and women than I know but there is no benefit to admitting to it so everyone lies. Regardless no one really cares. Most Gen z folk are focused on what they want. It's spoken as if it's for everyone but it really isn't. When my female friends ask me about men approaching women what they actually mean is men approaching her. When my male …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:00 AM
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Women seem like the only ones talking about this supposed loneliness epidemic. To my understanding loneliness is up across the board and still most people are not lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:10 AM
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It's terminally online if I don't like it and loot at the real world when I do. The internet has gotten to the point that it has become an extension of reality. Everything on the internet is not a reflection of the real world but aspects of it are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:09 AM
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Most people don't care tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:08 AM
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Be single then what's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:57 AM
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Of course they cared about paternity. You gonna suggest they didn't care about cheating/commitment too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:50 AM
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So don't be then. You have free will you know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:42 AM
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Some women really are just bigger children apparently. What are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 10:45 AM
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Why the comments assume NEETs don't have jobs is so interesting. The lifestyle requires money they are just anti-social.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:39 AM
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I would prefer if they were actually just so i can more efficiently avoid them both
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:32 AM
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Men aren't the good problem solvers? Men? The ones who mean what they say and say what they mean? Those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:16 PM
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This framing is so interesting. It irritates you? Cool. Leave if you want but like what do you want other people to react like? You do you. Why would it even matter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:14 PM
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Women can be friends with gay men no? What's the hassle trying to convince people. Like if you want male friends then befriend them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:07 PM
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Unless a guy wants to be aroused they won't be. A naked woman isn't causing men to instantly pop a boner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:38 AM
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No one has a gun to your head to force you to have female friends if you don't want any. Just dont waste your time trying to convince other people about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:37 AM
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Alot of women are already talking to character Ai or whatever the thing is so what difference would it make
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:36 AM
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People say shit like this but alot of their likes and dislikes where made when they were children and largely shaped by their family members
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:34 AM
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I would rather take a pill to be asexual tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:32 AM
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It's not in your commet history. Not sure what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 05:00 AM
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You didn't post any links
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:59 AM
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Nah I just stopped giving aa shit. The whole world isn't looking at me. What's my significance anyway? I am in a state of absolute "it is what it is". What happens is happens. I live my life the way I want to. I no longer worry about making women uncomfortable or being passive in my wants for the benefits of others. I don't need to fit in and be another cardboard cut out. I will be me. Weird, odd, bit eccentric but still me. If I sit near women I don't worry about how I am perceived. If I haven'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:17 PM
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Conservative men have higher success rate with Conservative and liberal women. Liberal men have more success with Conservative women (to a degree) but overall do poorly with both. Liberal men just don't get women dispite everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:31 PM
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This is it. This is truly what growing up for me was like until I made the decision to be apathetic and get over it at 19. My experience isn't exactly the same but I imagine it's similar enough to what other young men went through.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:26 PM
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Women don't want to be rejected. It's simple really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:59 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:44 PM
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No one knows if we are being honest. It's something you do while it's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:43 PM
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Doesn't matter either way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:42 PM
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Which is why if that is your approach to dating you don't do it aat a club. With your style I'd argue you probably have more success performing a cold or warm approach in a community setting instead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:21 AM
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Women take turning them down in such situations poorly so she is going to interpret you as being not into her or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:54 AM
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I am personally convinced that every pill from both men and women are arguing the exact same points back and forth to eachother. They just don't like the words used or how it's framed. They also don't want the "other side" to be right since they think these as correct. Reading conversations here it's like you all agree on a subject but don't want to acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:21 AM
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I think your issue is that you are too passive. You're planning respectful which paradoxically kills your chances. Be a bit more aggressive with the women who are obviously showing signs of attraction towards you. When it comes to sex women tend to want more from it when they like you. If she's grinding on you and wants to fuck do so and make it go on from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:12 AM
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And it works
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:01 AM
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If that's how it is then that's how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:19 PM
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I hope they do. At least then they'd shut up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:01 PM
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Women view sex as something done to them. So if 2 men have sex they do sex to eachother and thus are both emasculated in her eyes. The top has less disgust. The bottom is seen as the woman and is thus absolutely repulsive and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:43 PM
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This is just not true. Good things happen to bad people all the time. Bad things happen to good people all the time. There is no value system to life and karma largely isn't real. It is made. Many people will receive things they don't deserve and be refused the things they earned. That's just how life is on this floating ball of rock
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:33 PM
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More common than you realize doesn't mean more common in general. For that reason alone. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:30 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:28 PM
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So why should she risk having his children? If you are that afraid of this don't have kids :) Very simple solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:23 PM
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Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egos Simps will undo it so no point. Create some elusive, unreasonable standard for women that parallels women's 6'+ height standard for men. And no, it can't be women's weight since weight is modifiable. Men are too horny in general for this so no. Stop validating average women. Only compliment/show interest in the top 10-20% of women. Most men already do this so it's clearly not making a difference. Stop analyzi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:18 PM
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Most are just men leaning bi women. Hell bi women start liking men closer to ovulating and in general start exclusively dating men because dating women sucks for then too. Life finds a way or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:16 PM
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Yes. The same way a man who gets divorced does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:12 PM
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Not all. But most women are bi for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:10 PM
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Blue pillers are in the clouds as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:09 PM
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What is bro waffling about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:06 PM
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She gets over it. If I was fat and I couldn't lose the weight then I gotta get over it. My life doesn't stop because women think I'm ugly. I still got bills to pay, work to do, people to look after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:04 PM
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They would fuck the right but want to marry the left. It's just the attractive version of husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:55 PM
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One thing I like to do is: In the event a woman in my life does something ridiculous and I'm a participant. When I tell the story to other women I just say the woman is me and vice versa when she is present. It's fun watching the backpedal attempt once they find out who's really who and just allows me to maintain piece of mind that I am in fact not crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:46 PM
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Good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:43 PM
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Lose the weight if you can. If you can't, live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:43 PM
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Conservative party stiffed me of volunteer hours i needed to graduate high-school. I will never vote for them for this reason. All the bs they do simply adds to this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:40 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:04 PM
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Undefined post my guy. Please try again after thinking it through
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:00 PM
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If you don't respect them why would you hang around them. Women do this with their "friends" and then their husbands and its nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:35 PM
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It's cute that you willingly date pigs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:22 PM
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Women put up with it because they want to. If it was an issue they would break up. Choirs is a conversation i do not take seriously for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:15 PM
1

Wanting and getting are 2 different things my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:13 PM
1

What do you think men who live on their own do? Exists as an amoeba?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:11 PM
2

Me when I'm delusional on a subject. I'm the exception however.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:08 PM
3

So real
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:05 PM
3

It's because they are too focused on themselves and their wants
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:03 PM
2

Check women's profiles and its a 50/50 shot you see them post in a dating sub or im a lonely woman sub. Check mens profiles and they are the same. You guys are made for eachother. That's why I don't particularly care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:59 PM
2

Absolute cinema
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:58 PM
3

The fact that you are unsure if they care at all shows what you should already know. They don't care and have no reason to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:56 PM
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Women also do not really initiate sex directly. They prefer to put themselves in positions for you to ask. The most forward a woman really gets is pushing her ass into you if you are cuddling. Few actually just walk up to you trying to take your pants off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:52 PM
0

Women do not like being turned down for sex. They take it so personally for no reason. I really am just too tired for it. Stop pouting and crying. I don't hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:50 PM
5

Feminists arent calling themselves egalitarian. They are very quite to call people who call themselves that anti-women. So I'm not even sure what you are talking about. People who already were not Feminists are the ones calling themselves egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:44 PM
4

Lonely people should just try being less lonely. Depressed people should just try being less depressed. If you are sad just be happier. It's quite simple really. What's the big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:41 PM
4

Feminism nowadays is just wanting the position roles to change. They just want women to treat men the way they feel women have been treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:39 PM
5

Who's getting coddled? I've never heard of such a thing. Feminism is making an attempt to coddle men? Tf? Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:38 PM
3

vulnerable 22 year old she is an OF models Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:34 PM
1

What does being a teacher have to do with red pill? What next your gonna ask if a man who can cook isn't a man? Tf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:42 PM
3

You either give up on a relationship in your life. Or lie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:51 PM
2

Who cares what your standards are. It's yours. No one is forced to date you and you aren't forced to date anyone. The bigger question women should be asking themselves is will the type of guy they want, want them and if he did will you be able to keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:42 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:00 PM
1

Dating is cheaper than onlyfans/sugaring etc because most women split the bill, and put out. Which onlyfans woman will sleep with you after you refuse to pay for her drink? Huh??? Cheaper?? For who? Men??? Don't make me laugh. Most long term girlfriends don’t even expect their boyfriends to cover the bill. They know deep down that they are not worth that much to him. So who were all the women I've ever been in a relationship with then? Imaginary? You probably just go for hypergamous women, inste…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:16 PM
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Whereas the average woman will never get a dime from the men she actually fucks, dates, etc. Proof enough that you do not date. Lmao dating costs money my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:06 PM
1

This is just objectively not true. Most men are not spending anything on onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:28 PM
1

You are making a bunch of assumptions. I simply said women don't find most men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:45 PM
1

Huh? What kind of argument is that. What else, if you asked parents if they loved their children them saying yes also means the love other people's children the same? Are you incapable of making a proper counter argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:30 PM
10

You just created a just world fallacy in your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:54 PM
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Majority of women don't have game. So this question is doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:29 PM
1

You say all this but if you asked women how many men they find attractive in real life and they all give the same answer. Barely any.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:25 PM
1

But then there’s the sad reality that lots of these women are exploited by their “agents” who are effectively human traffickers like Andrew Tate. Dude 90% of OF models are western white women. The “jealous” argument is hilarious because the average incel uber driver makes more money than the average OF model. This is not true. On a earnings to time invest scale OF is infinitely more profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:14 PM
1

Blue pill is so annoying. You sure guys just say anything. If men preferred it they wouldn't be against OF
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:08 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:07 PM
2

The dumb narrative presupposes that average middle class men are told to do this. Middle class people don't even encounter it as an option. So is your issue that there is a "lie" that single men are told to date single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:50 PM
2

And I'm telling you that the narrative doesn't matter. So what if podcast guys are saying single mothers are that way because xyz. What does it really change? Assuming you get what you want and this stops. What outcome do you think will occur?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:43 PM
1

Don't care how single moms feel about being seen as poor relationship investments. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:36 PM
5

Pretty much. No one cares why anyone does anything. Just what they did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:50 PM
1

I has friends and a girlfriend towards the end. I was one of the few who did. It's hard to have a romantic relationship while having no time to do anything but schoolwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:44 PM
2

I graduated 3 years ago dipshit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:37 PM
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Majority of high school students are not given the time to focus on relationships. Some don't many don't. I don't know if you actually understand the workload high school students are burdened with. You are an out of touch moron
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:31 PM
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Clearly whatever fantasy you have about high school relationships is disconnected from real life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:27 PM
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It's high school idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:25 PM
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To the degree that you think incel is applicable? You're a moron
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:22 PM
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The kid is a 9th grader. They aren't having sex moron
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:45 PM
1

No one knows what red pill is. Certainly not a blue piller
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:39 PM
1

Chad looks bad because he's the one women are complaining about. Are women getting pumped and dumped by an incel regularly enough to cause women to hold this sentiment at men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:37 PM
1

Fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:36 PM
1

I really disagree. When you have access to women, you learn that they aren't really all that. It's actually very drastic disillusionment. At least I'm my and a few friends I know experience. In my case it's more apathy than hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:35 PM
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It's cool white women propaganda. I just fear it will be used to further target minority children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:32 PM
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I feel like that would be worse if they actually did that for something like this. It would just further reinforce the belief that ugly people are also bad people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:31 PM
10

He cant be an incel. He was 14
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:30 PM
2

Cool read. Still don't care. Single dad's also struggling with dating. Not my problem. Grow a spine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:22 PM
4

Because they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:17 PM
1

One of the posts of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:15 PM
3

Now do single dad's. I want to see how you spin it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:20 PM
1

I agree. Waiter! Waiter! More incels and femcels please!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:13 PM
2

Almost every animal cleans itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:11 PM
1

It wouldn't change anything. Some men just have more sex i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:09 PM
1

This makes it more unappealing imo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:56 PM
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Chatgpt did wonders on this essay. However due to our academic integrity policy a mark of 0 will be given
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:55 PM
1

You just ain't sexy enough gang
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:05 AM
1

I kinda sorta agree. Not really sure why though. It makes sense. Not worried about it though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:05 AM
2

If they are with a man they actually like then no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:03 AM
1

Even if it was cope. Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:01 AM
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Body positivity as it evolved during the last decade or two is just a coping mechanism and a distortion of reality. It’s not like I want people being called fat pigs in public but watching videos of 300 lbs women claiming men prefer slimmer females because they have been brainwashed by the media is just out of this world nonsense. It’s also stupid to avoid discussing the impact of obesity on health and the healthcare system. No shit Sherlock As for physical features that – unlike body fat percen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:41 PM
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Yeah I'm not seeing them. Usually for guys that are fat they gained the weight in the relationship. They didn't meet that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:11 PM
1

I'm not American so I don't tip. I will tip if the server was good though but this is typically only for stuff like restaurants. I'm not tipping my Uber driver or the barista at Tim Hortons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:44 PM
1

William was dating down with Kate. What are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:36 PM
5

Have you? Women don't date ugly guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:35 PM
19

Insecurity in women always manifesting in bashing others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:30 PM
1

I hope it goes well for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:54 AM
2

Why is he still... Man women can be so mean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:53 AM
1

It's financially responsible to purchase grindr stocks before every major us election. I profited a whole 3 dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:52 AM
1

I'm not a child so I unfortunately have to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:50 AM
1

Personally I wish women were taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:48 AM
1

I would like absolute power to do dumb funny shit and make people lives better. Absolute power is actually boring when you think about it. It's like gambling but always winning. Ruins the fun
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:47 AM
2

Unless you are bum ugly it's really not a big deal. You will probably look like a guy I'd pass on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:46 AM
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Family of no backbone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:45 AM
1

It's objectively correct
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:44 AM
1

Hope offline a bit yeah. I have not seem this anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:43 AM
4

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:42 AM
3

Unattractive people tend to not date each other. It is what it is. Life isn't fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:42 AM
2

Real
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:41 AM
8

I agree OP. Good work
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:41 AM
2

This is just saying men and women can't be friend so with different words. At least you guys are getting on the same page I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:39 AM
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This guy is truly lost. Ain't got a flashlight or nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:37 AM
1

I don't know what ideals you are seeing but gen z received that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:33 PM
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We improve the classroom imo. The masculine ideals of today are not inherently bad for young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:15 PM
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Which is exactly what I'm saying. Class room structure didn't change with the ideals. It's not a fault of the ideals in themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:47 PM
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You're continuing to put words in my mouth and meaning where there isn't any. I literally have not even once claimed you said anything. I spoke specifically about how men take it. I never said that my boyfriend's dick was not an "acceptable preference." Obviously it's "acceptable" otherwise I wouldn't be with him. And are you gonna address what I said about this specifically??? Like we are on the same page and you are arguing because you don't agree because?? What? You don't want to? I never ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:12 PM
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If you are at such a point that your time is valued then paying for sex makes sense if you want something done and then for everything else to continue. This philosophy is lost to most people because we don't understand what such time valuing is or looks like. I don't really worry about what rich people are doing outside of politics because it doesn't affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:00 PM
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I know that's not what your saying directly. It's how it's taken indirectly. If I said there are plenty of things about my girlfriend I like and looks is something she could improve she would be offended. I already like her looks but implying it's not at an "acceptable" preference is going to hurt people's feelings. Dick size is just one of those things for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:55 PM
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They are harder to get because you have to make yourself look at them. Not that they are hard to find. Good men do not stand out. That's what women do not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:33 PM
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Refreshing to see a man admit that at the end of the day, men WANT to objectified. Has this not been obvious from the jump? I just think it’s silly to want to be objectified because it means that if you don’t have certain features, you are left to believing that you have less value as a human being. You can only have this mindset if it's something that is constant. Men barely get reassurance on how desirable they are outside of family members. It's why you can ask a guy what's a complement that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:28 PM
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Body positivity is a shame to me. We have seen body shaming a woman as terrible but It isn't when directed at a guy though. One of the things I've learned is that sometimes good things just aren't for you. Even if people say it's for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:23 PM
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This is a miss honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:21 PM
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I learned about dick size mattering from women. You trying to say "but it's wrong" is crazy work. Felllas if your dick is small tough shit. Your woman won't like it so you have to make up for it. If your dick is large learn how to use it. Size matters and don't let no woman convince you otherwise because you will learn it does at some point in the future anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:16 PM
2

Purity culture is largely maintained by women. If women collective fight for something it generally happens. I generally don't care about purity. I do as i please. You should to. Your life
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:12 PM
2

No it's because education structure has not evolved alongside us as a society for the last 60 years. Everything is almost exactly the same way it was back on 1948
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:08 PM
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This bs idea that every man a woman will consider for a relationship being a terrible only makes sense if you are picking from a subset of such people. Majority of men are boring average people. The idea that they are far and few is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:06 PM
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This is just weird cope to me man. Like you do you but you don't gotta convince us just because you convinced yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:01 PM
2

No. I can't speak for every man but I'd like to think they also wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:59 PM
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Pendulum is swinging. Next few decades we are gonna be a sex negative society again
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:37 AM
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It was based on total earned. Which was just comparing averages across women as a whole. You dig even a single layer deeper and the "wage gap" disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:34 AM
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No. No bridge building. The fighting is what makes it fun
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:32 AM
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Insecurity. In this specific circumstance it's completely justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:33 AM
1

Do they hang out outside of the sports though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:53 PM
1

My dad has never invited a female friend over to our house. My mom has never invited a male friend to our house either. It's not an assumption. Do your parents hang out with friends of the opposite gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:47 PM
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Comparing things teenagers are temporarily worried about to grown ass men obsessing over their dick size isn’t the same. There are plenty of women who worry about their breast's being small. Plenty who aware flat as a board and wish they had tit's similar to xyz person. Acting like only men have such an insecurity in adulthood is hilarious. Women get to the point they don’t care what men think about how big their boobs are, they care how they feel about them. This is not true for everyone. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:20 PM
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It's similar to women's concerns about breast size when they were going through puberty. It's really not hard to understand imo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:02 PM
1

Balding men don't look good to women. That's not a manosphere take. That's common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:01 PM
1

Is it not? Look at your parents what do you see from them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:00 PM
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This just shows it does matter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:52 PM
1

Because there's a bald bias in society and women don't really bald with age
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:37 PM
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Bigger is better. I have this perception because of the women I've been with. Nothing will convince me otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:37 PM
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If you can't mask well enough you probably won't be successful in any situation. Women don't really like autistic men for romantic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:30 PM
1

Most blue pillers don't know what red pill is. Alot of "red pillers" are role playing because someone else told then something was red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:28 PM
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Vet for sexual approval. Do they like being you sexual with you. Does your touching them cause them to pull away. How often are they initiating sex (women are weird and their form of initiating is them putting themselves in a position for you to initiate. So is she doing that) If you don't see any of this or if they exist they are unenthusiastic or infrequently then you should leave before you get your heart broken
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:27 PM
1

This is my safe space. No one can take it from me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:22 PM
1

Because they are women. Nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:21 PM
1

Yeah it's balding men in their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:19 PM
1

I agree with the premise. Maybe not the way to maneuver around it however
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:18 PM
1

I like konosuba.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:11 PM
1

He's so real for that. I'd rather be happy than miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:09 PM
1

It can happen but not often. Typically in a man's life you make friends with women and the only path afterwards is that the number of friends decreases. Thinking about it i don't think my mom has an male friends nor my dad having any female friends outside of their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:08 PM
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People don't adopt disfigured pets majority of the time. Hell, looks matter because many people adopt breeds they think look nice without even looking into what such a breed was bred for. Looks matter for almost every aspect of our lives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:04 PM
3

I am of the same opinion. If you really wanted to kill yourself it doesn't take more than 2 attempts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:51 PM
1

Sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:19 PM
0

Statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:16 PM
1

Again. Why would child mortality be brought up. No one dies of chicken pox anymore. Men not fucking doesn't mean I want people dying from it again
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:44 AM
1

Statistically unlikely but B
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:43 AM
1

Wow women find the most insignificant shit to hate on other women about. I don't think i have consciously ever noticed some women doing this even though I know for a fact I have see women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:36 AM
1

If incels put in the effort to be at least a little attractive when those women start settling then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:24 AM
1

This is only not true of they don't like the taste. If the taste is something they can tolerate then it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:22 AM
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This is more of a "this is why this happens" posts instead of a "who is correct in their world view"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:15 AM
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There has been 4 posts on the last week. I promise you will live
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:11 AM
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Blue pill people are clearly insane lmao. 20 year old is pedo. Crazy work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:57 AM
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Women don't like it because it devalue one of the primary benefits that women offer: sex. Anything that destabilizes this is a threat and thus should be handled. If sex as a commodity was a genuine issue there would be a push by women to end things like OF. But there isn't because sex doesn't actually take place so it still holds its value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:01 PM
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The traffic thing is just to get moral support. They largely do not actually care about anyone's well being
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:52 PM
2

What a weird ass response dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:49 PM
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No in terms of personal experience. Yes in terms of using others experiences to victimize yourself. For some women they live their lives from the odd perspective that it's not that you are unlucky for being raped or SA but that if you haven't it's only a matter of time. Most women have had nothing happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:48 PM
1

What does child mortality have to do with women fucking or not fucking men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:39 PM
3

You think a foot fetish is worse than fantasizing about being raped? What??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:00 PM
2

My gf explained it to me as "experiencing the thrill of danger in a controlled environment". I reasoned it as like skydiving since our bodies don't like the sensation of falling but we can find thrill in it due to the context of the situation. I think women like it because they are in a situation that would be dangerous but with someone who isn't. So they get to basically let go in the moment and not really think too much about it. I still don't like doing it though but you guys tend to really g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:59 PM
4

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:53 PM
1

I'd argue it's blue pillers but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:53 PM
4

That's not hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:49 PM
2

This is any man who works out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:46 PM
1

Multiple definitions of friendzone quite evident here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:46 PM
2

Women should NOT do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:40 PM
2

What's the point of making things up to then get mad at it. Most of what you said doesn't reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:39 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:38 PM
2

She either sees you as a friend. Or... She wanted you as an orbiter for ego and resource benefits. You don't owe her anything anyway so move on or don't. Your life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:53 PM
3

Outside of not suffering from periods or child birth nothing really. I guess i like being tall
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:58 PM
1

Men are socialized to be funny. Women aren't so alot of their jokes revolve more around what's in each friend group over what's going on overall. There are some funny women and some men with literally not an ounce of funny in them. It's just how things ended up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:56 PM
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Who honest cares. I read somewhere that 60% of men in human history never reproduced. Shit are just moving as it is. I don't really care. Neither do most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:54 PM
4

Can you just check yourself in a mental hospital before you become a pedophile. Why are you so obsessed with fucking 18 year olds man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:52 PM
0

This post is exactly what I'm saying when I tell people they don't understand red pill. They are already doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:48 PM
2

Online stopped being separated from real life since like 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:47 PM
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Consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:47 PM
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Penis insecurity is basically just breast and ass size insecurity. At this point I'm tired of the conversation on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:46 PM
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If men supported men as you claimed would "patriarchy" not have been even worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:43 PM
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You are using the military as an example? You make women look collectively stupid wtf are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:42 PM
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If they are as beautiful as I think you're saying. They would have no reason to. Instagram or other social media should be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:27 PM
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Men rate their ex more positively than women do. So it functionally doesn't matter tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:24 PM
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I'm only aware this behavior exists because my mother told me to help her friend who was damseling at the time. Doesn't happen super often in public here in Canada though since we are becoming very individualistic. It's probably just an ego thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:18 PM
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Bigger is always better. Just don't stick the whole thing in if it hurts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:05 PM
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You can be big enough to be pleasurable even if they still have few partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:05 PM
1

Why the dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:18 PM
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Right? Like it's intoxicating the way women treat you when you have a large one. Makes perfect sense other men wanna be treated the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:56 PM
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I don't think I've had what people typically think of with sa. Mostly it was just older women touching me inappropriately from 16 onward. It's stopped now though but still happens from time to time and less overt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:51 PM
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Blue pill is just not red pill That's true. That's why to me it's arguably worse to listen to than red pill because it's not about what red pill is actually saying. It's about disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:49 PM
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Most women are bi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:43 PM
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She looks like a woman on any given day. Nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:41 PM
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No? Would you? What's that about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:38 PM
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Sure whatever I guess. I've never know what was on my classmates or coworkers devices
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:35 PM
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I'm already 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:27 PM
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So you look? What's up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:23 PM
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Enough as in its too much or enough as in women don't like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:22 PM
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There's no automod. I've never measured myself mostly because I don't care enough and I don't know some measurements are taken. At least based of some of the numbers people just say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:20 PM
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Yeah now look at how the comments don't agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:13 PM
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Why are you looking at their phones to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:10 PM
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And majority don't. Crazy how that works huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:51 PM
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For women. If they can't relate it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:47 PM
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Women will insinuate that you are inadequate as a partner because you have a small dick then be confused that some men develop self image issue because of their size lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:39 PM
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This guy's going through body dysphoria. It's rough buddy but you'll get through it hopefully. Need to help build your confidence in someway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:38 PM
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It's mostly a class thing. They really just mean "I don't want a man who is below me on the caste system"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:34 PM
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What's that gotta do with your white supremacy example. Some women fuck their dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:10 PM
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I could fuck one but I wouldn't marry one if that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:08 PM
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I'm gonna be frank with you man. This is one if those relationship situations i do not give a fuck about. If the guy sucks leave him. He didn't trick you and if he did that doesn't mean you fall for it again with the next guy. Women in dating do not seem to learn from their mistakes. They just instead rationalize everyone else as the problem and can't see how they factor in. Women aren't children. They gotta grow up at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:06 PM
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Personal responsibility is not men saying every woman i date is crazy. "You arent who i thought you were" is mostly what it is. The assumptions is disconnected from reality and then complaining when reality doesn't match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:00 PM
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We cannot accept that most men are assholes and that it's just women's job to either be single or accept that men are shit. We also cannot accept that every job is 100% safe but people will still speak about you not wearing your appropriate PPE. That would be conceding to the main grievance of this sub that 'women are too picky'. I really don't care about women's pickings or standards. They just can't also feel blameless. They picked them afterall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:43 PM
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we have people blaming women for not seeing that these guys were actually lying misogynistic mooches when they deliberately hid who they were until they started living together. This is just failed vetting. People will not create a fake version of themselves for multiple years with the intent of revealing their true selves later. They just weird vetted properly. At some point we have to blame the mooches for being mooches instead of blaming women for falling in love with dudes who hid that they …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:15 PM
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Only those raised by parents who stunted their kids have this issue. My mother is the most misogynistic person I know. My Dad is the most misandristic person I know. The dating advice they gave me after having the talk has produced decent results.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:58 PM
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It's always a switch-a-roo because they didn't vet properly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:54 PM
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Obviously. You ever hear of a not kind person get taken advance of?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:51 PM
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I mean yeah. But you can get over it with enough will power
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:49 PM
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I've never understood this viewpoint. Rape victims would be killing themselves regularly if this made sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:47 PM
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That's not how media works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:45 PM
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It's 18+ the article is just saying that on technicalities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:44 PM
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I disagree. Women love the consentual non-consent genres more than men. It's just a weird fantasy women have. It's like being in a gang bag. Most men actually don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:42 PM
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I don't really care about shit like this. I'd rather some weirdo pervert get his frustrations out on a video game than take it to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:40 PM
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Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:39 PM
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I can fuck her probably but will not introduce her to my mother that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:38 PM
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Schooling should be structured around learning rather than scores. School as it is doesn't really give children a way to develop skills we really need. People forget the current school structure was designed as a pipeline towards getting boys into factory work. Now that it isn't the case it's holding men back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:36 PM
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Seriously. This gotta be a white people thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:33 PM
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Keyword is some to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:32 PM
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I'm in a relationship so 0. Overall? 7
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:28 PM
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genuine Q surely you don’t endorse the original quote we’re talking under, what is your full take on the gracious heroic men letting women in the workforce bit? I don't particularly care because it's something I have no reference for. It's like saying I should be grateful im not a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:35 PM
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If everyone is bad and some do good. The good is nothing because everyone else is bad? Interesting viewpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:27 PM
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Fair enough. Although the men that let women have free access are not the ones who restricted women in the first place. Should those men not therfore be seen as good?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:07 PM
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Women aren't hypergamous then will suggest men function with the understanding that women are hypergamous anyway. Same thing told with different words. Live your life guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:34 PM
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Women's porn has similar effects on women. Why smut content isn't seen as porn is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:31 PM
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You are a lost cause
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:27 PM
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They've been predominantly been white but I don't see us being okay talking about white people this way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:23 PM
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The powerful and wealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:22 PM
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Do you feel the same way about white people graciously ending segregation? But they did. Technically white people could have simply not done it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:11 PM
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Because these women are in high-school. They are like 16-19 years old. You literally won't see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:04 PM
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Me when I lie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:01 PM
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It's AI probably They exist you are just older so you don't see them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:58 PM
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You're arguing with mostly white women. No point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:46 PM
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The graphics on the shirts is weird looking. Why is a towel coming out of a cooler?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:44 PM
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As long as its not kids/minors they can do whatever they want. I really don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:27 AM
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You are focusing way to much in the sex part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:31 AM
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I never said i would. I just didn't understand the "not alot of money" part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:08 AM
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Love is inherently conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:46 AM
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I don't think men who are out of the dating market really avoid women. They just simply don't put any attention towards them. It's literally just like how women can walk,talk, and be around a bunch of men they have no interest in without issue. Same premise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:45 AM
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You have to ignore them brother. The market right now is ripe for the pickings. As long as you are attractive of course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:43 AM
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A PPD post with a normal functioning person. Truly a novelty. You get an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:42 AM
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Oh so you just don't have reading comprehension that's cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:39 PM
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I don't need to. Why do you assume i do? Your woman not impressed with your size?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:35 PM
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If you wanna go take supplements to increase your size go for it. Take the steroids for your penis. I'm sure it's definitely a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:31 PM
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We can't alter our size. That doesn't change the fact that women have an idle size that is at least larger than 4 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:29 PM
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The clitoris is only one organ. The tiny portion visible externally? That’s also the clitoris. The comparatively huge portion inside? Also clitoris. Yeah. I know. That's what makes penetrative stimulation different Lots of ways for men and women to reach orgasm. Giant hog isn’t the only way. I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:25 PM
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you assume people don't do wrong What exactly do you mean by this. You act like they are getting tied up suddenly. you assume "women" is a unique mind What does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:04 PM
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Clitoral stimulation can result in orgasm. That doesn't not mean that the orgasm is exactly the same as an orgasm coupled with penetration. You know this already.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:03 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:37 PM
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It's not misogyny to use my eyes lady
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:34 PM
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Oh this is simple actually. It's every man that isn't her husband should be equal to her. Her husband should earn more anyway because he should be better than the other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:28 PM
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No she takes home less. Here earning rate per hour is just simply higher
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:26 PM
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But if that's true then whatever they are doing isn't wrong. So why would it be an issue for you seeing women in those positions if they are okay with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:24 PM
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What type of ask is this. Whatever result you are hoping to get from women here you probably won't with the way this is being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:47 PM
1

Finally someone says it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:43 PM
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They can just say no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:39 PM
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One of the best feelings. No contest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:35 PM
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7+ is once in a while sex. Relationship sex is in the range I gave. I completely agree with men that size absolutely does matter and bigger is usually better. The main issue is that women do not really understand that guys see the 7+ novelty sex that women show is super hot for them and can't really let go. I can't either. The issue is just how women feel about the novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 06:22 PM
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I mean. They do i guess? But regardless it's not like they become "ugly" they are just less attractive. I would say women stay attractive until like 50-60. Men just don't marry "post wall" women for having families. Also why is the "wall" getting so low? 25-30 is not bad at all. Move it to 30-37.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:34 PM
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If you are between 4-7 inches your dick is good enough. Any smaller or larger and the woman would prefer a different dick over that one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:27 PM
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You say this like bi or lesbian women do not use dildos. In straight relationships it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:19 PM
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I'm still not seeing how 1mil is not alot of money Mortgage, utilities, cable/internet, groceries, taxes, gas, ice time, sports equipment, tools, art supplies, entertainment budget, capital projects at the house, general maintenance, travel to see relatives, vacations, and more. 1 mil has this covered for at least 3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:30 AM
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Business is boring. That's why it's Business
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:24 PM
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Men and women can have whatever standards they want. For any reason. For any standards. Regardless of who is offended by it. Stop caring about standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:23 PM
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Tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:21 PM
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Don't bother trying to convince them man. Some people are too stuck on not coming across as immoral which we already know is largely irrelevant to attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:18 PM
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You'd be surprised. Just the guy isn't ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:15 PM
1

Imo the best age to have kids is 25-32
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:00 PM
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Free thinking???? We are still allowed to do that????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:30 PM
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Never been to a networking event. The way people talk about them you would assume they're everywhere. That's every social event in a business setting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:28 PM
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If they leave you and have a kid with someone else yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:26 PM
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It's the guy that makes fun of you infront of the huzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:24 PM
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2 different people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:17 PM
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What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:01 PM
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By not talking a year to finish meals 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:46 PM
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This guy needs to get over himself and no entertain the woman and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:43 PM
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What are you people spending on that 1 mil is not alot of money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:41 PM
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So what. Everytime a woman makes a SA tale, do you look up police reports for if it actually occurred? Like who functions this way about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:24 PM
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What's with this constant deserve shit? What are we talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:51 PM
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Old ass man talking about young people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:49 PM
2

This is the funniest post hands down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:46 PM
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Blue pillers are the best. It just reminds me that sometimes people will just be stupid for no other reason than because they are allowed to be. Good for them I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:53 PM
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"Men without options cheat so I go to men with options" That doesn't make anysense if anything that makes them more likely to cheat "Why are you talking about cheating. I never said anything about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:51 PM
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The behaviour doesn't start until they're already heavily invested for instance, and they don't want to "waste" the time they've already spent I do not believe this is the case. It's the rose tinted glasses falling off. That man always dropped his cloths on the floor next to the hamper. You're ass is only now noticing it because you're ass is tired of him doing it. He didn't change. He was always like that. Love makes people blind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:49 PM
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I like replying in attention because I don't like reading flair. I just want to say what I want to say. I di this enough times and my biggest fans will no where to look when they want to shit on me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:46 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:23 PM
2

Medium ugly just means normal average guy. Why do women gotta frame it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:23 PM
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The difference is enormous if the other person doesn't pull their weight, which seems frequently to be the case. Then you stop being with this person. I don't understand people who stay with non functioning adults then complain that they are non functioning adults
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:22 PM
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"I'd rather date men with options" And if other women do this what do you think that means "Whatever I want because men with options aren't mean"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:16 PM
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That difference is barely anything. You clean and little more often and chores take a little bit longer. It's really not anything that's overbearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:07 PM
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We are picky. Women say things they don't mean or with an additional silent meaning all the time. In this case it's "other men should be like this but my man should be a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:36 PM
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Men will always pay because regardless of circumstance women will not pay unless to signal to you that they don't want to have sex with you so nothing is "owed". They will expect you to pay for every date going forward unless they explicitly say they got it. Men should go in to every date expecting to be the one paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:33 PM
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What difference does it make when you live alone compared to with a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:25 PM
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I've been saying it for years that a stay at home wife if literally nothing. Being a stay at home mom is only difficult because children are difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:24 PM
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Are you talking about butch behavior or things like, I don't know, accepting responsibility, being forthright, being direct, and having a high interest in sex (within the confines of committed relationships)? If these are the only masculine traits a woman has she isn't acting masculine. She's acting like a functional adult
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:21 PM
3

Blind leading the blind yet again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:19 PM
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Because they largely don't exist in majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:17 PM
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They just didn't like the guy. The "ick" is still true regardless of its reasonability
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:14 PM
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Blue pillers are built different in swear lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:09 PM
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I also think covid played a major role in this. Alot of us lost formative social years due to the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:05 PM
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Nothing about this sub says it's about US and Europe exclusively
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:57 PM
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All the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:54 PM
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Woo! New scapegoat for dating discourse! Can't wait for the next update. Dating update 3.0.1.4 is really gonna shake up the meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:48 PM
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Some people find companionship enough. For many just having another person they can comfortably rely on is all they need. "Love" looks different for some and it seems many are comfortable with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:43 PM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:53 PM
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So in summary. Average men can only get with below average women and in order to get average women you have to be above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:36 PM
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Men need to still approach if they want relationships. Nothing is changing that. Definitely not in my lifetime anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:26 AM
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I 100% agree. No notes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:23 AM
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Well yeah. Obviously. People tend to be biased towards viewing themselves favorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:19 AM
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Windmill do you just find random clips online and then make a post from the position of what they are saying? Because i don't really understand how this makes anysense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:55 AM
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Bizarre cope and slander but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:18 AM
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Dude what. Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:39 AM
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If sexual history doesn't matter The biggest question is that if it doesn't matter why lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:38 AM
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Women don't like men with high body counts either since it's a sign of commitment issues. Why it's suddenly a bad thing that men have the same thing is so weird. It's like when women want to talk about men not dating single mothers. Women don't like dating single father's either. Just odd push back dispite being exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:35 AM
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Over their own sons This is only true in specific circumstances (which is still crazy). Mothers will largely default to their sons. Unless they actually like your gf/wife. Then fuck me they will start talking about her like she was the next coming of christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:15 AM
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Doesn't change anything. No one has to try to give you a pleasurable experience. You don't owe them anything. They don't owe you anything. That's the nature of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:07 AM
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Just wanted to get a better understanding of your experience compared to your husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:54 PM
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Standard BJ then PIV sounds like the woman is putting in a lot of effort, and certainly more than the man. Bj doesn't even happen which is why i said depending on how much you like him. And even if you do give a bj it can still be bad because you don't care about the guys pleasure Shes getting oral in return, right? If not, she's already going above and beyond. If she asks she might but there's no guarantee. Why would she have to do "everything" some random guy wants to do? How silly. Why does a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:51 PM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:26 PM
1

Have you been married prior?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:15 PM
1

Oh so he wasn't bad initially right? Crazy how that works huh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:18 PM
1

Is your boyfriend or husband fucking you well because you taught him everything or did he just a few points for your specific tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:21 PM
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Why is it not possible? It takes both willingness to learn and practice to become good at sex; if average and below average men don't get sex that often, nor with many different partners, and lots of women aren't willing to teach them, it's reasonable to assume that most men aren't going to be good at it. (I'd reason most women aren't very good at it either, from men's perspective, but they seem to have much lower standards for good sex.) This would have to mean that every time a man is good at …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:43 PM
1

Well good for you. Most women claim casual sex experiences are bad. At least you're having fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:25 PM
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So all your casual sex encounters have been wonderful right? With every man getting you off and you having a wonderful time? Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:18 PM
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Okay let me break it down: Most women don't like casual sex because most men suck at sex, Unless the guy is inexperienced this is literally not possible for majority of men for women to be fucking. It's much more likely the guy just doesn't care about fucking you and is doing so to get off. Do men like this expect you to stick around afterwards or do you go your separate ways in the morning with no resistance from the guy? You get any "i had a good time" texts? Probably not. and they tend to cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:15 PM
1

In a casual sex environment where people are hooking up that is not always true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:08 PM
1

Yeah. And i explained why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:05 PM
1

What you're describing sounds nightmarish and not at all consistent with my experiences. Which is why most women don't like doing casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:57 PM
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Sometimes I enjoyed their enjoyment, What about all the times you didn't care about their enjoyment? You ask for tips on how you could improve for mens pleasure then also? And I've had a lot of casual partners enjoy pleasing me as well. Good for you. What kind of sex are you people having?? The same sex as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:38 PM
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Because people who GAF are hoping for more than a one and done encounter. If a woman is just fucking you to stratch the itch she doesn't care about anything but her own pleasure. Same thing with men. If you are in a fwb situation, there is typically already a level of familiarity with an incentive to care. In a relationship, you care about your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:30 PM
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I don't see what orgasming has to do with level of caring. If my gf starfished i can still orgasm but she clearly isn't caring about my enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:22 PM
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When you hook up with someone are you doing anything and everything the guy likes or wants to do? Or is it standard bj (depending on how much you like him) and PIV after foreplay. The title only becomes inaccurate in a fwb situation or relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:20 PM
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Title is correct. Everything else is nonsense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:15 PM
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It just means the guys she wants don't give her relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:14 PM
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Most people are normal. That one just stands out from when I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:41 PM
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If you want a active look at femcels just go on r/foreveralonewomen they pretty much balance out your perspective and show that truly everyone is miserable and its theyre the same coin or however the saying goes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:35 PM
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I went on a date with a woman once who asked me 7 questions back to back before I could ask her anything about her. After answering the 7th she got up ready to leave because "clearly i was too interested in myself than her"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:18 PM
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If you don’t care, why are you still gatekeeping? Have you even read the side bar? The red pill isn’t “ooh, just lift and that’s it! Women are simply people too”, don’t be so dishonest. Lol Today I learned the red pill sidebar doesn’t count. Ok bro. Read your cosmo girl power articles and call them red pill. No one who has read any real red pill material buys that what whatever egalitarian empowerment lit you’re reading is “red pill”. Lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:36 PM
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Not at all. Many misogynist men are not red pill (and sure, some self-proclaimed red pill men reject the misogynist parts of red pill and still call themselves red pill for whatever reason). "Every misogynist is not a red piller but Every red piller is a misogynist." LOL. LMAO even. But I’m referring to the actual red pill teachings of men who say they are red pill themselves, and of red pill thought leaders. Of things posted literally to the red pill side bar. Pick whoever you want. They will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:15 PM
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Or is the usual that you confused those who hate women and assume that they MUST be red pill Case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:59 PM
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Or is the usual that you confused those who hate women and assume that they MUST be red pill Case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:58 PM
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But it's true. As varied as "types" are they still fundamentally have the same baseline model
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:37 PM
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What are you talking about. I see this first hand because I see it happen to my friends. Unsuccessful people have successful friends, you know? That's me in this case. Time and time again they will get past over by women for the same reason. They are boring because they are normal and decent people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:27 PM
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What exactly does "you should maximize yourself aas a man in order to get women" equal that you hate women. Or is the usual that you confused those who hate women and assume that they MUST be red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:13 PM
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I'm just convinced that people here don't actually know what red pill even is. I'm not a red piller but surely using my eyes and using my ears isn't hard. To me it's like "blue pillers" tell each other what red pill is. Then watch some podcast and go, "that's them! That's the red pill". Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:10 PM
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most women just want a decent guy who can take care of himself and treats them like a human being. That's the guy they ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:08 PM
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You guys don't even know what red pill is. I'm not a red pill guy but I can already tell you're ass is just regurgitating what other people tell you is red pill or you just assume someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:06 PM
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It's a thirst trap hastag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:02 PM
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"Poor" relative to the west
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:28 PM
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Let's stop acting like foreigners live in dirt villages please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:22 PM
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First off. Even if that's true for some who cares. Second, are "blue pillers" actually giving useful advice? At least "red pill" looks at human behavior to suggest something tangible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:50 PM
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This divorce discussions are getting boring. Can we just make prenups common place instead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:49 PM
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It depends on which part of me and why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:38 PM
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What the hell is this guy waffling about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:36 PM
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Joy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:25 PM
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People do this just indirectly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:21 PM
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I don't think women actually understand dick size so im just gonna ignore that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:59 AM
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We do. It just mostly happens while in school
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:54 AM
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I personally believe most women are bi with a lean towards men. With purely straight coming next, then gay then etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:47 AM
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It's impossible to destigmatize it because you also have to somehow destigmatize the customers also.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:45 AM
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Seriously. The only men who would fall for it are men who don't interact with women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:43 AM
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The only people who give ultimatums are the desparate ones with no power in the relationship. I see no reason why you would willingly stay in such a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:39 AM
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Doesn't this just mean that women actually think you are unattractive and a holding their noses to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:30 AM
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Sure but having friends and sisters has made me not really care as much. Women are not really all that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:00 AM
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This has the same impact as 4b has on men. Which is none at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:10 PM
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Lilith you can be a single moms if you really want to. No one has a gun to your head
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:18 AM
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It's not internal thought. It's a reflection of ensuring that their own doesn't get mistreated. It's the same reason why military members tell their kids never to join the military. They've seen the shit and don't want their kids to go through it. In this case, it seems that mothers understand how themselves and their friends were and absolutely do not want their sons to be given less than their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:31 PM
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It's for themselves to feel better because they look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:22 PM
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This place is insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:18 PM
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You're the one who is claiming women put more effort into getting men than men do getting women and used the cosmetics industry as a justified for why it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:13 PM
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So women's appearance is judged harsher than men and therefore trumps all other facets that men have to work on in order to attract women? That makes sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:06 PM
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And you think men don't do any of that when courting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:03 PM
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What does the cosmetic industry have to do with this. Women do that to improve their looks. It's not actually work to put make up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:01 PM
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What work would women be doing that would out do a man in both scenarios?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:55 PM
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Rarely but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:44 PM
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It's always "but what if the guy is ugly!" As if anyone has gun to their head
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:35 PM
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But it is over diagnosed because autisms diagnosis criteria is not solid. It's very generic and i believe many people who are simply suffering from adhd or minor forms of other issues are instead just being diagnosed with autism. Autism is behavioral thing and its basically up to whoever you see to determine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:33 PM
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The only person I know who doesn't want to pay for the kids and actively dodges it only does so because the kid isn't his.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:25 PM
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I personally don't have an issue with child support. The only issue i can think of for it is that if their mother is a shithead and I wouldn't want her grubby hands on me money. I don't have a problem with my kids getting my money. I really hate the idea of child support if I'm not the biological dad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:23 PM
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Women shouldn't get married then problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:20 PM
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That's like saying gay people tripled recently. They were always around. Autism seems higher due to over diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:16 PM
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At least the flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:13 PM
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Shitty people do shitty things. I don't really have any lived experiences about sickness so I can't really say. To be honest it doesn't really matter. Don't get married if your terrified of this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:12 PM
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Do some men not have women friends. 2 is like the only thing on this list that all women really like doing. Social proof and pre approval is a major contributor to romantic interest. It's typically why it's also important for your girls friends to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:08 PM
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I 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:04 PM
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Women don't approach because they are afraid of rejection. Nothing more. Nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:54 PM
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While i agree, that is typically not what happens. Most people, when it comes to dating (women), do not believe they themselves are average until much later in life. This disconnect is why dating is so difficult nowadays. Too many women believe they're above the bunch, and too many men in turn believe they are not good enough and thus check out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:06 AM
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Most people are average? We aren't celebrities. And we aren't Quasimodo. So we fall along being average. Average men are dating average women. People are dating each other and they are likely average. Since we aren't celebrities. And we aren't Quasimodo. So therefore it's safe to assume average. Average is boring to women. I didn't say anything about average not getting relationships. I said they are just unappealing. Which is true. Mostly due to mismatched expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:23 AM
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No. Lol. More like I hate myself. I don't actually deserve what I want, this person's appraisal of me is more important is to whether or not I actually like them. Because I don't value myself or my own opinions enough to care. They are showing a crumb of human decency is this "love". Same thing just using different words. Most of the time the guys women complain about are average dudes who end up being jerks. They are always suddenly average dispite the average guy being unappealing to most wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:14 AM
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I think more or less the simple answer is usually if you are dating someone you had to give a chance to. Your self esteem is already low. Only for you to realize that they too can be just as bad if not worse because they feel a chip on their shoulder. It's not about seeing them lower it's seeing yourself low and maybe this is a way for you to find "love" which is usually never the case. It's just you got a bully who you aren't even into, who makes you feel even smaller. "I feel less than so im g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:58 PM
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He?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:06 PM
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He?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:05 PM
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Another commentor gave me the reason why my view of justifications was unnecessarily combative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:36 PM
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Another commentor gave me the reason why my view of justifications was unnecessarily combative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:36 PM
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No one said anything about justified. It's the same viewpoint as saying a high value man wouldn't be cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:05 PM
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we gave guys chances that we weren't that into and got mistreated. Every single one of my female friends who have ever uttered these words at me about a man they dated never actually liked the guy to any degree prior to the "chance". To me it comes across as an excuse to be able to tell yourselves "I tried dating men I saw as lesser and it didn't work out. I can now only look at men I actually like and not feel bad". But the main question is "What is attractive". No one is going to give a straig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:51 PM
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You have the same pfp and flair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:34 PM
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If she were high value in the way men understand it she wouldn't have been abused in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:28 PM
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Because it's you from yesterday and we are just gonna talk in circles for the next hour. I got things to do i don't need to get into an argument with you over semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:27 PM
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I don't really care anymore. Do whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:23 PM
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It's a satisfying answer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:20 PM
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Okay. It's PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:18 PM
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How is it curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:16 PM
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Why are you justifying it. It's not a by-law being pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:15 PM
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The only part that makes sense to me is the attractive man = bad. It's just a manner of information and communication. Women only date attractive men right? Attractive men are the ones who inflict on women in the dating world right? People going "attractive people are assholes" makes sense to me. Do I agree? No. But people are entering dating so they use what they are told and learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:14 PM
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It's your opinion that my opinion about other people's opinions are dishonest. If we are going off the circle of opinions then who really cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:11 PM
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Everything is someone's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:10 PM
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Women do not care. They are adults let em live their lives how they want. If they wanna keep falling down the same hole let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:09 PM
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That's how men talk. If women talk that way that's whatever but it's a big tell their being dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:07 PM
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You can say yes without justifying why
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:03 PM
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If it were true they wouldn't need to do it is my point. They would answer and not need to pre-justify themselves. We do it to other men who speak this way also.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:03 PM
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Depending on what the context and nuance is being communicated. It's lies when it's largely irrelevant but is justified because it's technically applicable. If women here were saying yes and then adding bs about how there's no tangible difference between a transman and an MAAB then it would be clocked as lies quickly. The fact many are saying no because they simply like dick or don't see them as "man enough" with little justification is why we believe it's honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:59 PM
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There's no extra bs being added to justify the decision. They answered simple as. It's when you guys answer and start including bs and tidbits to justify the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:55 PM
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There's no need. You're all honest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:52 PM
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Lilith has officially gone off the rails
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:45 PM
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"basic adulthood" for women is much happier and easier without a man in the picture. If you're life is better without men don't date them then. What's the point of complaining about men in a post like this. Men do less than women. All men have to do is maintain a job. That's it. Women are expected to maintain the job and do all the labour at home. Men are useless and you obviously don't need them. So what's the issue? You want a pet? Men are more likely to harm you than protect you 2. Men are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:59 PM
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This is literally not true. The company may be owned by men but the actual writers were all women. Women's beauty standards are regulated by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:54 PM
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Is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:44 AM
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Just because they can is so crazy to me, that means girls can also scam men for money right? Because we just can? Yes. They can and do. Regularly. And its mens responsibility to not fall for it. There's morality involved, if a person decides they can harass and abuse anyone simply because the other person is letting them then what does that say about the person? This has nothing to do with what ima saying and even if you should leave because if you stay they CAN continue to abuse you. I didn't l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:50 AM
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Guys play with multiple girls because they can. It's up to you to not continue seeing guys who are with multiple women if it's not something you want him doing. People like attention. You joining the attention he is getting doesn't mean much. Afterall. What makes you so special he should trade the attention he's getting from all these woken for just you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:28 AM
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Not sure whats with all the assumptions about me all of a sudden but sure whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:27 AM
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Two X is literally nothing like this. Here guys say way worse stuff, TwoX man hating gets just as unhinged as here regular. Most posts on the subreddit are just "man bad" posts. you are constantly exposed to such stuff and yet have a girlfriend. Do you think that because I see crazy people talking that I also want to be crazy? Or am crazy myself? LOL. This is exactly why dating sucks, you have guys that will see incel videos, incel subreddits, porn, gaming addiction and what not and ignore their…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:37 AM
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I don't understand. You dated a guy you were unattracted to. Then gave him a "chance" and then left after he went to other women? What upsets you exactly? That he wasn't grateful for being with you or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:33 AM
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Because I'm bored. And so many people are unhinged. Here i get to see the male side of TwoX so it's just a good equalizer in understanding a simple concept: "Everyone's an idiot"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:31 AM
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If it's a old tale to such a degree that every woman knows that men will lie for sex. Why did you fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:24 AM
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So wrong, they are lying about everything and everyone. We all know men like s x but they also know girls won't give that easily so they need to lie to get a relationship and then cheat and leave after what they got. Delulu will make women come up with whatever imaginary scenario makes them feel better. He more than likely didn't lie. He just didn't say anything to put you off. Also many women don't like him, he lied to others too and others took pity on him lol. Whatever you liked about him. Ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:21 AM
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The guy probably had multiple women interested in him and you weren’t interesting enough to keep his attention. Next time be the one he wants to be with. Alot of them aren't lying about anything. You like the guy. Plenty of other women like him. There was unfortunately nothing about you that differentiates you from the rest. Try working on yourself to achieve your desired result. It's the only thing you have afterall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:12 AM
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Sounds like a you problem. Have you tried working on yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:06 AM
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So if the guy isn't the type of guy who you would not have wanted to spend your life with due to a demonstrative behavior (cheating because you are still dating) then is it really a loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:01 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:00 AM
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It's not really lying. We all want sex. It should already be assumed. What women need to do is not give it up so early and vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:58 PM
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The beard is his face. It's not beard fishing. That's like saying you got hair fished if she lost her hair and became bald
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:48 PM
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Lol? I have a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:38 PM
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actually, you kind of are. What if the reason you shave is because your facial hair grows in weird? but you keep shaving so your gf/wife doesnt know that. What if she wants her sons to have natural and full beards? So what? You take care of your hair because if you don't it looks messy. So what's the take away here? That no one would groom themselves if we didn't have make up? Also, beards can be like makeup for men, where when they shave it off theyre jaw and chin are actually really small or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:26 PM
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It isn't lying though it's implicit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:14 PM
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You are the one who started talking about men crying about not getting sex. I talked about how women who do give out sex still complain about the men their fucking anyway. What's slow about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:59 PM
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You're saying it like it ruins your life or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:46 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:31 PM
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People complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:31 PM
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I don't have any issue with trans people. I just don't see transwomen romantically at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:37 PM
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Bleak? Isn't that just how it is. I learned this when I was like 8 years old. That's just the world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:32 PM
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That's like saying men who shave are liars because they could grow beards. Make up is very different from body hair removal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:29 PM
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It's height > face > race > NT You gotta get the superficial things out of the way first before going for personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:29 PM
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I succeeded all on my own. I just had a small loan of a million dollars from my father. That's how you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:27 PM
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" are you okay being in a relationship that will make you miserable?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:24 PM
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I don't think anyone cares. No one has to date anyone for any reason. The men who are upset you didn't pick them you wouldn't date them anyway no matter how you changed your standards. Who cares. Whining about bs like this is so annoying because it's all in your hands. Don't stay in relationships with shitty people. If the only relationships you have are shitty then the problem might partly be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:22 PM
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Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:20 PM
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Women's self esteem doesn't really play much if a role here. If he's the type of guy to not respect you enough to have to lower your self worth then he isn't really a guy worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:18 PM
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I don't understand the Madonna part if the whole Madonna/whore thing. She's still an attractive woman. Maybe I'm just young and missed some cultural context.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:10 PM
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Women should just be single. They are happiest demographic or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:07 PM
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They hear and understand it perfectly. They just also don't actually care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:05 PM
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So women should do that and use that woman's intuition to not get into these scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:04 PM
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I don't really hear men crying about missing obvious red flags and feeling used for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:01 PM
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The only people who say stupid shit like this are ones who didn't grow up with their father. If a man said the same shit about women his ass didn't have a mother. There's nothing personal about it. It's basically common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:06 PM
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You say this as though women shouldn't already be testing all their partners. Straight or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:41 PM
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Women are main ones who accuse men of being gay. Women being homophobic towards men should surprise no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:38 PM
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Just say your dad left. No need for this pseudoscience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:31 PM
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Sure. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:22 PM
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To me. This is just an explanation dug up to justify a feeling. Bi men are icky to women. Majority of women are not looking at studies for who is the "riskiest" to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:09 PM
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Women definitely do not care about any of that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:06 PM
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I still don't understand how a dude being bi would make him riskier. A straight guy is just as risky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:51 PM
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"Kinds of sex" What's different exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:45 PM
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Why would it change the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:59 PM
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But it's clear from your responses that negging is your shtick. How is this "negging" do you even know what that means. You don't actually make a substantive point; you just find an irrelevant nit to pick. But... but you did that. Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:17 AM
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Or maybe I read the thread that I'm actively posting in and saw your insult about women's reading comprehension? That's unlikely since i commented like 3 minutes before commenting to you but continue with the excuses it's very normal. But sure call me a weirdo if makes you feel better. That's just PPD. You're a weirdo by default until proven otherwise. Ad hominum is the tactic of people lacking a real argument. Says the one who can't stay on topic when responding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:01 AM
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OP explicitly claimed that men don't see women as "sub-human" Which is true. You don't appear to be reading the actual comment from OP that i was responding to I did which is somewhat ironic given your accusation about women's reading comprehension. Lmao. One of the weirdos that looks at peoples post histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:53 AM
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Where did he say men never did it? He said those specific topics are used for firing back
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:45 AM
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Womens reading comprehension suddenly disappeared with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:44 AM
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Women dehumanize women they dont find attractive too all the time. Hello?? Have you not had eyes in school?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:42 AM
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But that's exactly correct
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:37 AM
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Fish don't know anything about fishing, just what they like eating. Doesn't really matter anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:35 AM
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Can people stop trying to the the make everyone happy approach to handling things. We are entering 14 competing standards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:28 AM
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Times are changing and everyone is too busy looking behind them to see where we are going
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:18 AM
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Just be attractive. That's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:16 AM
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Woman -> man is infinitely better than man -> woman in public perception. I see no risk she would endure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:13 AM
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This doesn't even make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:03 AM
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Women that are not capable of attracting the men they want should do something and work on themselves to be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:57 PM
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Interesting. Hope life continues to treat you well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:45 PM
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Hang on. How long were you in relationships with those men. It's very easy for me to say i dated a model when in reality I only with her for 2 days
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah. That's true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:46 PM
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So you think that it's okay???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:24 PM
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Women don't date people with disabilities beyond minor ones. Autism is seen as a major disability and this is given the ablism treatment. Deep down they really just mean "you're autistic. What do you expect"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:22 PM
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With the way shit is going when it comes to "neurotypicals" and "neurodivergents" I don't actually know what camp i fall into anymore. But based of what I've learned (if applying the terms to the correct people is correct) then the terms really got to be the opposite. The "typicals" are honestly socially weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:18 PM
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It's because she doesn't actually have a definition of it. Creepy is just a feeling she gets when she meets a guy she doesn't like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:09 PM
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Slavery is an insane incentive what are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:56 PM
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You care way too much about what the men you don't respect are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:55 PM
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How does that make any sense? You've dated men that were unattractive and worse of overall that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:49 PM
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This is pretty much it. You can't expect every woman to be with top 10% overall. It's impossible. It's top % of those around her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:48 PM
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Incel is just a stronger word women can use for dehumanizing you. The usual word was creep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:45 PM
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Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:38 PM
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I don't have a problem with my friends fucking my exs. They're exs. Let em get their rocks off. But dating them I have issues with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:01 AM
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You are the only women on this sub who is honest and says it as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:57 PM
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This is just men who get sex from women and nothing else. I don't have a problem with it. If guys wanna do this they are free to. Live your life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:55 PM
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Why are they even asking exs are off limits for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:52 PM
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The only people that lie on dating apps about their age are those looking for hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:45 PM
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He's not a virgin so he's just some guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:44 PM
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I personally think the issue is just that women over exaggerate this. If women lived their lives they way they claim online they would literally not leave their homes. It's true that it does happen but to the degree claimed? He'll no. Just as an exercise. How often do you hear other people getting catcalled when you are on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:38 PM
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Dogs aren't people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:35 PM
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Men who want to be in their kids lives will be there. Women should not be having children with those types of men. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:37 PM
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So a politician?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:33 PM
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"If i find him hot, yes"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:32 PM
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Women like this exist online in a bubble. It's actually really fascinating. If I was like this towards women I wouldn't even go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:30 PM
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"Men campaign" 10 people you saw on twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:25 PM
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Taller? Sure Physically stronger? I don't really think this is the case. Children with siblings tend to learn that their little brother does eventually become stronger than their older sisters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:47 AM
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I don't care anymore. If women want to be afraid let em. I'm not sacrificing my comfort if it makes them uncomfortable (by doing literally nothing) If they see men are rapists and murders let em see men as rapists and murders. Stop hanging out with "rapists and murders" then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:44 AM
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the problem is that women nowadays have a "male brain" which make them think that we're interested in money/ success / status which might work for women but not for us. Reading is only hard for women when it's about women not being angels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:02 AM
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And you notice how the parent comment is in relation to dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:50 AM
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Just ignore everything else i said and focus on something disconnected from dating to get your odd ball point across
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:39 AM
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No. It's still male brain because you're looking at what women find attractive. You are looking at it from "these are all the qualities I look for in men so men should also be looking for those same qualities in me" which is not correct. Men and women find different things attractive in eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:27 AM
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You're looking at what women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:11 AM
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Unless they are like hyper successful women i never believe them. It always just used as an excuse for why it didn't work out. I work in software and if a woman is a specialist surgeon or like a ceo i don't really care because the money isn't what I'm attracted to her for. It's just a bonus. The reason these women fail in dating is majority of the time just because they are annoying. Weather it's because of ego due to their success. Maybe it's because they are financially better than you. Whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:03 AM
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Peoples personalities are created through genetics and their environment. It won't change unless it has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:13 PM
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Women's sexual satisfaction in a relationship is one of the biggest contributors to a woman's relationship satisfaction. If you fuck your woman well she is much more likely to not go anywhere else regardless of other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:08 PM
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Both disadvantaged doesn't mean the same level of disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:06 PM
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Should they not already be doing it what are you talking about? Do women not iron their own clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:54 AM
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If a man who wears suits to work can’t pay for professional cleaning and can’t iron it himself, he’s in no position to expect a woman to look after him. ??? Why would i pay someone to do something that takes 15 minutes tops to do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:51 AM
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You iron clothes that should be ironed after they've been washed. Really the only things men really iron are dress shirts because the wrinkles are noticeable in the workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:46 AM
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I've gotten weird looks for looking after my siblings while they are at the park. There's just a bias towards men around children. Even if they are related because everyone (women) assume they arent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:45 AM
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Do women see eachother as children or something. How is a grown ass adult gonna make a discussion like this fully aware of what's going on and somehow come to the conclusion that it's someone else's fault they made a stupid decision
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:40 AM
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Hope she sees this bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:46 PM
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Actually baffles me too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:40 PM
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If you think this will improve your relationship with the women in your life you are free to do so. Strangers don't have to police strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:30 PM
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Windmill and Lilith are just a dynamic duo with these types of posts. I'm gonna draw fan art of them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:13 PM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:38 PM
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Because that is clearly not what the issue here is. To me it's like your interest in him is conditioned on how he sees you. Which is fair. What I don't understand is how you are entering a cycle for the second time. With a guy you are purely platonic with and yet are acting like your husband just decided to divorce you out of the blue. This post is either not the full story (since you keep adding details all of a sudden) or the truth is being twisted by you. How anyone in your situation would ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:59 PM
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Sure. Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:43 PM
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I didn't fail to answer anything. Attachments is not the issue here because you don't care about the guy anymore. So stop fussing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:37 PM
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Personally I just think your hung up on a situation you don't want anything to do with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:36 PM
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Are you getting upset at me for not understanding a situation and behaviors you are exhibiting from a post you aren't clarifying? No where in your post do you make it clear you completely stopped talking to him. If you completely stopped talking to him what's the issue? Get over him and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:33 PM
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You literally say in your post you message him once a week if you bother to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:29 PM
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Considering that you still message him i do not understand what you're issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:27 PM
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And if you have that resentment they aren't your friend anymore. So why does it matter to you now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:23 PM
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Again. I don't really understand how you "lose interest" in a friend. But then are upset that they are no longer your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:21 PM
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When you moved to his city. Why did he have to re-establish contact? Wouldn't you already be communicating since you guys were best friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:20 PM
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Best friend for years and yet has to go out of his way to reach out to you. Shit was already over way before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:11 PM
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You talked about a wedding you were having with someone now makes them a very close friend? You guys are not friends and more like acquaintances by the time he leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:09 PM
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I genuinely do not understand OPs issue. She lost a friend she wasn't that close with. Why does it matter. Just move on. What's the fuss
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:34 AM
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why are modern men using things like hypergamy and body counts as weapons against woman? Everyone does this who cares. Just don’t date woman you don’t like Men already do this. They'll fuck those women and then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:16 AM
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Women use sex has a bait to get what they want. Understanding this the guy needs to be nice enough with her standards to not make actually having the sex worthwhile. It really doesn't matter how shallow women are or aren't. I recommend everyone gets over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:13 AM
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Why are modern men expected to carry the sins of the bad men of the past. Majority of men don't do anything bad to anyone let alone women specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:49 AM
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I 100% understand what OP is saying. The issue is that dating is inherently selfish so all people will talk about as a counter argument is situations that don't even apply. You do/are owe/owed certain things in a relationship. "I'm not obligated to date ugly people" Completely irrelevant because your obligations only begins when in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:26 PM
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At the first instance that something like this is occurring you leave. There is no point in which you get "trapped in love" with someone that they get free reign to abuse you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:31 AM
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I've heard enough complaints about this that I honestly don't care anymore. To me it seems that in "toxic relationships" (excluding physical and financial abuse) the person is just tolerating it for some reason and majority of the time it's because they don't want to be lonely. Men and women should just stay single for all I care. I'll keep doing what I'm doing. Not everyone has kids/gets married/has a relationship. So what if you end up part of that club. You can tell someone to leave a situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:27 AM
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Patriarchy is just a feminist boogeyman at this point. Patriarchy has been mostly dismantled in Western society. The real problems people face i are due to the rich and powerful vs. everyone else. But women want to fight men over something that no longer exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:20 AM
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I never implied in anyway that their appearance stayed the same. Actually read before commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:40 AM
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Is reading comprehension none existent to you or something. I'm saying when our parents met and we're dating. Not right now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:22 AM
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Our mom's are probably average looking. I wouldn't say our mom's were below average in looks in their youth. It was less about specifically our parents and more of the judging relationship looks at the wrong point in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:02 AM
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It's pretty much if you make life easier. That's it. Do you help with my peace of mind. Are you a partner in my life. Nothing else really to it. And if i find you attractive of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:10 PM
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My definition: Hookup: attractive and getting sex LTR: above and i like being around you Marriage: above and you like being around me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:07 PM
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Yeah. Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:04 PM
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People are free to do whatever they want in dating. I just do not care about standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:02 PM
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Arguing this with women is pointless. They wouldn't understand until it's about them. If men created lists for shit like women who are 5'10 only all the women will suddenly understand how standards translate to availability and will accurately be able to tell you how it would be unreasonable for all men to want something like this because there isn't enough to go around. But only if it affects women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:33 PM
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It doesn't even make sense. Alot of the time those "outliers" didn't meet eachother at that stage. They met when they were younger. Our parents are all not "good looking" and old but we all know that they looked much better in their younger years. They're looking at people who have let themselves go because the games over for them. They've won. How they look is purely up to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:20 PM
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Women see men as defective women. It's why a man can do anything and women have to see the worst in it. It's simply because if a woman did the same thing what they fear would have happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:08 PM
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I've never thought of it that way. Dating experience might be a conditioning for this behavior. It would explain some things at least if true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:55 PM
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If my gf was the type to just randomly shave her head for no reason I would break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:51 PM
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If she likes you more or at least about the same it's most likely going to work out. If you like her more it's a countdown
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:49 PM
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Because their the ones women complaining about. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:32 PM
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I've had more succes irl so I never saw the need. My friends who are on apps are miserable so I'd never go on it and be miserable as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:31 PM
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They would just dead bedroom the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:18 PM
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Me when I lie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:11 PM
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Women mean it as a compliment but say it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:10 PM
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A perpetually single person yapping about scenarios no one cares about. At least Lilith is consistent enough to be a household name
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:25 PM
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I meant publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:54 AM
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If the trades weren't necessary jobs anymore then the pay drops. If you actually look at why some jobs are paid more than others you will see that it's not just gender. Teaching is a primarily female job but the reason why it's "underpaid" is because it's elementary, middle and highscore teachers that are. Specialists who teach make good money and most women aren't said Specialists. Elementary, middle and high school isn't seen as important by governments after a bit so funding always drops. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:08 AM
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Trades pay well but suck physically. Don't see many women in those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:00 AM
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No you are. You just don't want to see them as who they are because they don't fit the caricature you've been fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:52 AM
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Men can't act like women because they aren't women and society will let them know to not act that way. It's really not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:37 AM
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This isn't really true every time though. Majority of the time when it comes to pay shifts by gender it is usually because the nature of the job. People playing up examples like programming being women dominated before it switched. But programming then wqs very different to programming now which is why women were doing it primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:34 AM
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This isn't about who is more shallow. Quite frankly I don't care if it's men or women. It doesn't change anything. What it's about is being actively dishonest about what you are attracted to. Women do it because they don't want to seem shallow even if they are. Mens issue is the dishonesty. I genuinely don't care if I'm not apart of women's "high standards" as long as said standards she has is what she's saying. Telling men to focus on personality or whatever when majority of the time they looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:58 AM
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And unlike women. Men will outright say that men are like that and those things contribute to attraction. I'm more of an assman but completely flat is a turn off. If I were a woman I would be talking about how personality is my main qualifier even if really it's looks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:53 AM
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Therapy is talking instead of solving problems. So most guys tend to not like it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:12 AM
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Women aren't physically abusive to anyone but children majority of the time so it works out that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:07 AM
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This is mostly a post WWI byproduct. It is actually not like this in "third world" countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:03 AM
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What? Men here claik that men are honest about their standards. While women are not. Men are very open about the fact that looks are what matter to them in a relationship. Women act as if it isn't even though it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:02 AM
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Nah. This isn't true. When a man cheats it's because his partner got fat, is a nag, refuses sex And no one ever takes the guy seriously who claims that. You even bring this example up because you wouldn't take it as an excuse. When women do it it's a character flaw. Well yeah. You cheated. When men end up with a verbal abusive woman, she did the bait and switch. Thus showed no signs in the beginning. In all honesty it's never a bait and switch. The rose tinted glasses just came off. Women do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:51 AM
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You can do both or neither. No one's got a gun to your head. Just don't complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:22 AM
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You could literally say the same thing about women and nothing would change. This outlook is dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:34 AM
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Men do care, which is why they make fun of women’s natural makeup-less skin. “Pizza face” is an insult I’ve heard men use for women with “bad” skin. This is universal. Women don't date men with bad acne either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:30 AM
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Girls and women are under constant pressure to look prettier, be sweeter This is the same as men who are nice and considerate. It doesn't mean anything on its own. A cute girl is just a cute girl. Unless she is openly inviting, nothing will happen. I do believe that you are genuinely having an experience and describing how it looks from your perspective, Pretty much how I've seen things until I got my current gf. as someone older who talks to coupled and single young women and men - good lordy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:53 AM
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I agree with everything you said except this So since the online apps have taught most women that the guys they match with there want sex without relationship, they have largely left the apps. Understandable. This isn't them "not putting effort into it" and "passively wanting it to fall into their lap" this is them migrating to a better pasture. Real life. Many women irl are actually also not doing anything to attract anyone. While irl is better many are still quite passive in dating. Many women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:30 AM
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Neither. Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:20 AM
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Most women don't do that so I'm not sure what bringing that example from the 50s is for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:25 PM
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Has OP been living under a rock or something. Women have been very adamant about denying this for many years. It's super disingenuous to act as if men are just saying it for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:09 AM
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They basically conclude that both male and female users are delusional but it manifests in different stats. Oh so the obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:36 PM
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Isn't the population distribution by rating (the dotted line) exactly the same as above. This doesn't disprove anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:22 PM
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It's not even okcupid. Just ask them. Women say the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:20 PM
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I think a better way to understand this is quite simple. Does the participating party find them attractive? If yes: rule applies. If no: it doesn't. Very simple. No idea what the constant "but attractive is subjective!" Is brought up for. It only matters to the participants not bystanders
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:19 PM
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Emotional intelligence and support is not something that women are better than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:02 PM
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Okay but most people don't use hypergamy exclusively about marriage anymore. Assume from the point of marriage we technically can't be hypergamous because women are the ones who marry up economically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:04 AM
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It's not really a conclusion. It's just how women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:08 PM
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This is one of those things I personally don't care about. Everyone is doing something like this, both men and women, to some degree while they are dating. Having me focus on 1 specific demographic doing it is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:57 PM
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As expected. Average doesn't mean anything when women say it because women have to actually like a guy to a degree before they are able to properly rate them. It's why you are able to rate friends better than strangers. Alot of you confuse your neutrality on a man as "average" when really to you He's just a blank slate that hasn't been filled in yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:53 PM
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If you stand and your friends don’t, then that explains why you’re asked about lol. However, your friends probably act differently with women than you realize. Possible but I don't really think this is true. I am also a university student and I see average men with girlfriends constantly. I hear this from women alot so I have to ask. Do you think the woman is also average in said relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:45 PM
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When people talk about hypergamy it's not just about being better than you but also the people around you. Men are also hypergamous. We compare women with other women and then go for the ones we like the most. If we didn't we would just be asking out any and every woman we came across
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:43 PM
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I see myself as a 7 on a good day. But I also recognize i developed alot of self esteem issues when I was in elementary. I am "socially" a 9 but I never really feel like it. Like for instance. Many people in my university know me. I don't really know why but any party or social gathering alot of people recognize me dispite me not know who tf they are. It basically forced me to learn how to play an extrovert because I didn't want to come off a weird despite being oddly popular. I do offer then ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:22 PM
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Actually I've been very successful with women. I was mostly talking about the POV of my friends. Alot of them tend to sometimes complain that when ever they are talking to other girls alot of the other girls would be talking about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:17 PM
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Men are. We are just hypergamous about looks mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:09 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:05 PM
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I'm 21. I don't really believe you guys are common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:05 PM
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So you just lie for no reason. Very cool. You're one of those ones that has to make men look bad even when they weren't involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:02 PM
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That doesn't mean that if a woman proposed that we will make fun of her or him for it. Women will. That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:00 PM
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Men chimed in but they were showing her support because basing her for sharing her proposal just because it was a woman who proposed was stupid to us. It wasn't men and women. It was women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:57 PM
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If you're telling the truth outside of the 80k a year you are a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:54 PM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:51 PM
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No don't rewrite history here. The comments in the post bashing her was exclusively women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:37 PM
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You being asexual doesn't take away from anything. Many people can go years without sex in a vacuum too. But probably not in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:30 AM
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I'm truly convinced the most posters on this sub are not actually normal people anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:06 PM
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Oof. That last part sounds like insecurity waiting to happen. Interesting thing to learn though. Thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:03 AM
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Average height in men is 5'8" Edit: read your comment wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:34 AM
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I agree but it's still context specific
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:33 AM
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To be fair most people aren't even aware of their height difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:32 AM
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Wow really i didn't know this. Does that result in them shrinking with time or do they stay relatively the same? In hindsight it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:27 AM
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If the career is based on your life choices go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:20 AM
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Men like you are my favorite to laugh at.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:14 AM
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I'm saying the FaceTime request on its own isn't the issue. It's just how it's requested that is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:01 AM
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The latter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:29 AM
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I love that you posted it and then ignored all the very reasonable comments. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:27 AM
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How is any of that a reflection of the man as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:20 PM
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What do men provide then? And please make sure your list isn't what he would do for you instead of who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:07 PM
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Every woman would be greatly upset if the boyfriend or husband told them that from that moment forward there would be no more sex. The idea that only men care about aex in relationships is so stupid to me. I've had relationships fail because I didn't want to fuck them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:04 PM
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People will say whatever they want to not seem shallow. Have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:00 PM
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Nah, I don't think I would like to be catfished This conversation is based off the fact that you thought the guy earlier in the thread would be offended if they asked to face time him first. Which is nonsense because no one would be put off by it. It's not about you being catfished
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:34 PM
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So it's something men and women are both doing and therefore not a big deal if done to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:23 PM
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Who is "they" in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:20 PM
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This contradicts the idea of women taking longer to be sexual with someone as a way to mitigate risks such as pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:18 PM
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Are people dating people they have no clue what they look like. How does that make anysense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:47 PM
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The weirder part is that typically in such a dynamic the woman is fucking the guy multiple times. The sex being bad is most of the time just retroactive reevaluation to create an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:46 AM
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No one is getting offended over a woman not have sex with you after a date. No one has any expectations that just because a date happened sex is happening
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:58 PM
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You say this like the girl was obligated to go home with him after said date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:45 PM
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I disagree. While it is true that it is mostly a class divide it still doesn't remove the societal perception of specific things. Using this example many women would be upset at Luigi for choosing to kill one of the few female ceos when he could have instead killed another man who is "doing the same thing anyway". Men will probably go either way. Some focusing on killing wrong. Others because she is a "fragile"woman. I'm not sure why you want to ignore how society perceives things. It's very rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:25 PM
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It wouldn't be just "alt-right" groups calling him that. You more than likely would call him that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:10 PM
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That is not even the same thing on any metric
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:19 PM
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So name the ones that were murdered then. There are plenty of men and women people hate because of what they did. I never argued people didn't care about that, I argued that the manner in which they are killed changes social perception. Killing a ceo for bad Healthcare provisions is seen as a good thing. The killing itself is viewed differently is the ceo is a man or a woman. Now if you refute this. Please provide me a man who killed a woman for doing something collectively agreed as wrong in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:48 AM
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Yeah people would not talk highly of him irl either. So I'm not sure what the news would change. Can you think of any man who's murdered a woman in a similar manner and was celebrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:43 AM
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So your telling me that if some guy killed Marjorie Taylor Greene. Both men and women would celebrated her killer unanimously? I do not believe this in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:37 AM
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People would've celebrated lmao. There is a reason why people celebrated when she died of natural causes. I am sorry but ur just wrong lmao. Ffs. Natural causes is different from murder by vigilante. Are you dense. And it clearly shows that people will celebrate when women die who people hate. This doesn't suddenly change when it is done manually or naturally. I wasn't arguing that bad people dying isn't celebrated. I was saying bad people being killed has different social reactions depending on…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:48 AM
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I think incels are stigmatized, rightly so, for being associated with violence and misogyny. We stigmatize hate groups. There's a reason there's a page for them on the Anti-defamation league. Incels were stigmatized well before women started misusing the word. "Hate group" is kinda crazy to call people who just haven't had sex. Childless women face discrimination. pressure from family, judgement from strangers, it might even lead to workplace discrimination, This is already true for men. because…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:44 AM
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Ah yes. Because someone obviously killed her right? Because her being a bad person and not dead still doesn't actually matter to how people see her no? If some guy killed her in her office 5 years ago do you think the people of the UK, both men and women would have his support? You're just being obtuse on purpose for no reason. if the ceo he killed was a woman no one would support him "Well look at the lady who is alive and well that people dislike because of what she did!!" How is this supposed…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:40 AM
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Incels i would argue are actively stigmatized. Just because someone insults you doesn't mean anything. There are plenty of single childless men and women that simply exist and no one really cares besides family and friends and weirdo fanatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:31 AM
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As much as you want to hold onto the fact that he killed a bad person it is quite reflected in other cases that it would infact have mattered. How you specifically feel about it doesn't matter. Look it up yourself. Everything I've said tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:29 AM
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Yeah i don't believe this at all. He would have been labeled a misogynist regardless of what his reasoning was because he targeted a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:15 AM
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If the ceo was a woman Luigi would have no support so it semantics doesn't matter in his case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:04 AM
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Is that stigmatization or is that just general insults
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:39 AM
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This is true. However men need to ignore it. If I didn't cold approach i wouldn't have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:28 PM
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Nah 4b is about attention seeking. They are doing what they always had the right to do. No one was forcing them to date or marry anyone. What's next. We are gonna call healthy eating a movement too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:01 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it. The issue men have in typically the lack of discussion on the matter. Planning something I'm not aware or inclined to want to set up and yet getting mad that I'm not already a participant is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:20 PM
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You're the only one who claimed finding a loving partner was too much to ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:25 PM
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So if women as for a loving partner they are asking for to much?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:45 PM
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As for repeating, a counselor, even one without a diploma, is under an obligation to not gossip about the person who trusted you with their pain. I'm not speaking to a professional. I'm speaking ti my gf/wife. Women have these romanticized view on vulnerability because they want to be able to tell the tale to other women. I put romance on the shelf long ago. I have chosen a single celibate life. Plus I’m close to y’all’s mom’s ages. I ain’t going after young men like that. That's fine. I'm 21. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:57 PM
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So, in essence male independence is considered attractive by women. Yes. It's a bonus for women if you can also rely on her despite that (this should not be frequent or else they will question your competency) So you gotta be dependent on everyone but your SO. But I'm skeptical that this would even be liked in practice as well because that doesn't project an image of strength and independence either. It's not that you shouldn't rely on them. It's that if there is someone to rely on, it should no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:54 PM
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They are purposefully obtuse because women don't actually care themselves. They like performance when it makes them feel good. If it's not something that makes them feel rosy afterwards then it's a miserable chore for them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:47 PM
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The fact that that I do not judge a man when he is open and sharing a tragic moment Men learn very quickly that women only see vulnerability as a romantic performance to make the woman feel good about themselves. You can only connect with them if it's something that can be turned into a tale to repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:39 PM
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Sometimes the truth isn't sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:37 PM
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Yes. That's exactly what the argument is. They are getting annoyed at a situation that hasn't occurred yet and already acting out the frustration as though it was actively happening. It's why women will get upset at the idea of being a man's main source of emotional support. They don't like being the sole support. Not that it matters, men learn not to rely too heavily on that support unless they hit rock bottom anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:28 PM
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Women create problems then complain that their men aren't solving it. The man doesn't want mothers day to be an event. The woman wants it to be an event and started planning for it (she is also more than likely using his own money to pay for the event). The man is somehow now at fault for not being enthusiastically involved in a process he never wanted to be a part of. Then women want to talk about emotional intelligence. My ass. My girlfriend does this shit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:23 PM
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That just isn't reflected in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:16 PM
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Clearly you've never met girls girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:04 PM
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What is the situation that's being created though? The people who turn something as simple as liking another man's posts into them being gay for example. I am very social and I'm not in that position. I never worry about what people think about the things that I do that are objectively neutral/positive. I never worry about being seen as "gay" because I like my friends post. I'm not talking about you. I already know you act like this. Other people aren't you or me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:14 AM
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My friend, you drove the bus here. You were the one who was being obtuse. But either way, I'm glad we got here, I guess. I was talking in general not about you. Not sure what that's about. Caring so much as to prevent you from doing objectively neutral/positive things for people you like because you're afraid they might think you're gay is a position wholly unsuitable for anyone. True but this is mostly due to their environment. So it would be better to not create situations that cause people to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:43 AM
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Not caring about how doing things you like is what makes sense. That's not supposed to extend to doing things that make you a bad person. I feel like that should be reasonably assumed, but since it's not, I'll be more clear: You should be able to do what you want and not give a shit about what other people think about it. Also, murder is wrong. I agree. Man, I hate how online discussions cause people to have to preface obvious things (murder is wrong) in discussions because people want to be obt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:33 AM
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It’s not that I’m using postpartum as an excuse. I don’t think the majority of infanticide is linked to that. I’m just saying it’s a factor that’s relevant for women that isn’t for men. I disagree. It ultimately is just saying women killed their children due to stress. It's an excuse because if argued that the man was very stress and killed his kids out of frustration everyone would call you insane. I don’t think every man is a rapist. I just think women should be more discerning. I don't think …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:10 AM
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Okay I agree but what he is saying is that there is a distinction that people are NOT making when they argue these things. It's purely emotional and done specifically to hurt the "other" side. It's why feminism now is just about viewing me as enemies and placing women in a juxtaposition of infantilizing or empowering women. It's not about being correct it's about making sure the "other" gets hurt. If you hurt people enough they respond. As much as I kind of agree that misandry is kind of a respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:02 AM
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In domestic violence cases it's about the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:53 AM
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Okay. Clearly, we are having two different conversations because I might have misunderstood your initial assessment to the other guys' reply. This is entirely anti reality. Men are more aggressive and violent than women. Misogyny exists. These are facts. I don't think anyone argues against that. What I have pointed out to you at least five times now, is the fact his behavior IS a reflection of a broader societal issue. The larger societal point you made with your father doesn't only apply to men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:53 AM
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Okay clearly the evolutionary strong vs weak thing isn't properly understood. The ones that was able to "slip" under the apes are already the strong in the evolutionary sense. They already out competed the weak in whatever way mattered. The bonobo can still reproduce outside of needing to sneak around stronger apes. The weaker ones do not exist because they are dead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:40 AM
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He said it in relation to fucking domestic violence. Are you being purposefully obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:20 AM
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Because the socially inept idiots don't like being seen as less than and will tend to act out. It's one thing to look down at a dog and its another to kick it until it bites you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:19 AM
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Are you gonna read the whole message or just cherry pick. He said that about the statistic not in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:15 AM
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That isn't saying that it isn't true. That's just saying that harping about it like every single man is dangerous for existing is literally a poor choice to make
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:14 AM
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Yes and in a comment after that you brought up how women in your life treated you. Quit being dishonest. The comment thread exists and can be referenced back. Right and I specifically said this after you claimed that because of how your father treated you it was justified in how you generalize men. I brought it up specifically as a counter example of how you would perceive such a generalization as malicious because it was towards women even if it was identical to yours. I never made it about mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:13 AM
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Right because no one is saying that. I've looked through the whole thread and not one single person has said such a thing. I don't think anyone has ever actually argued that men aren't generally more violent or aggressive. Really nice strawman to suddenly backpeddle on huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:57 AM
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Quote them saying that men are not generally more violent or aggressive than women. No one is saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:37 AM
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You brought in the “bad person” category. I’m talking about liking your bros photos on Instagram if that’s how you show support. If you’re bringing it up I’m assuming you’re making an equivalence. I brought it up to showcase how just not caring about it doesn't make sense for public perception if it impacts you in a way you care about. Sorry if it came across as me trying to make an equivalence. I don’t care either, and I think people in general would be happier if they cared less. I think the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:26 AM
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The primary reason this irks me is honestly just that these same men will insist that males aren’t more aggressive or violent than women. This is a pattern observable in other apes, but the human male must be the mythical exception because ✨scrote feelings✨ Please show me who is saying that men are not generally more violent and aggressive than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:17 AM
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Use your eyes please
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:15 AM
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Liking your bros photos doesn’t make people think you’re a bad person lol. Terrible equivalence. I very clearly did not say this. If the reason you don’t do it is because people think you might be gay, you’re really highly inflating your own worth. People don’t think that deeply about what you do. I don't really care. That doesn't mean I can't understand why other people don't do it. Everyone isn't me. Women are also very quick with the is a man gay accusation so i don't blame other men from try…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:15 AM
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I don’t have patience for you playing stupid. The motherhood subject came up because you brought up women in your life. It didn’t derail anything. I talked about fathers, brothers and friends to talk about how just because you are aware people have the capability to do things that doesn't mean they will. You're the one who randomly brought up how mothers are viewed by society at large and how children can't criticized their own mothers. It makes sense, you’re just choosing not to read because yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:12 AM
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They'll say "objective" but then if you say anything negative about women they can suddenly understand that something can apply to specific people without it being directed to the whole group
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:56 PM
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Misandrists argue the same way racists do. If you applied any ethnicity to men for whatever they say suddenly it doesn't look good to say for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:55 PM
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I'm not sure what this even means. If everyone thought I was a bad person and that perception could negatively impact my life then I should just get over it and deal with the consequences as it happens? Men support men. We just don't do it through likes on each other's posts on social media. This is such a nonsensical perspective to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:51 PM
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Man. women have to be experts at derailing conversations. Like what the hell. How does any of that relate to what you initially said: The primary reason this irks me is honestly just that these same men will insist that males aren’t more aggressive or violent than women. This is a pattern observable in other apes, but the human male must be the mythical exception because ✨scrote feelings✨ Like you are now suddenly having 2 different conversations. I don’t think you get my point. My point was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:48 PM
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You are literally just in an imaginary world clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:19 PM
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same thing could be said about fathers Elaborate? Literally just swap mothers with father's and its exactly the same. The way men use the experiences of women like me as a talking point to screech woman bad is very much disrespectful to us and is weaponized. What? Do you think that when men talk about the women who were abusive in their lives that they are making it up? How is that disrespectful and weaponized? The main reason this is the case is that none of these men are genuinely concerned ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:18 PM
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I never said it was in high school. I'm saying your conflating the wrong things with virginity. You being did not play a factor after you lost it. The women you are fucking now do not care about the fact you were a virgin. Men cannot use their virginity as aa plus because women do not see virginity in men as a plus. It's a negative in their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:08 PM
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Impressive that your still this delusioned
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:05 PM
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There is no epidemic of narcissistic women. That isn’t a broader societal issue. Right. When some men do something it's a reflection of all men. But if some women do something it isn't a reflection of all women. Very convenient how that always works out. There is an issue with the perception of mothers in society that does a disservice to children abused or neglected by their mothers. But this isn’t unique to males, nor is it caused by anti male bias. Same thing could be said about fathers. Hasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:04 PM
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So why does it make sense for personal experience of women be okay for blanket generalizations of men bad but if men have personal experiences of women it's not okay for the blanket generalizations of woman bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:56 PM
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Right sure. Alot of women in my family were abusive. Would it be fair for me to say men should watch out for women because they are narcissistic and will abuse you for their own personal gain and satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:49 PM
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I was a bit younger yes. Obviously or else you wouldn't have maintained such a level of naivety on this. But I also had a girl who FRIENDZONED me offer me a threesome for all the same reasons. This doesn't even make sense. How would you even be in the friendzone. I don't think you know what it means. I never bothered her for sex or affection and I was good to her without expectation. It’s how I’ve lived my whole life. And it’s how I’ve gotten damn near all of my sessions. This is just called bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:48 PM
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If you survived you were stronger than the ones who died before you could reproduce. Evolution creates a baseline where the good enough is a make or break level. If you can't hit that good enough you die. If you exceed then you are granted the opportunity to not only survive but also potentially move the baseline upward
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:42 PM
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You're brother, father and friends don't rape and kill you even though they are capable of doing so. So we are saying the same thing. Women online just want to be obtuse because you guys like frustrating men. You find it fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:39 PM
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No one says men aren't. What they say is that acting as if everyone single man will aact on that fact is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:37 PM
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And that good enough resulted in you being stronger than the weaker individual who died and didn't reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:36 PM
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It's no lying to get the box it's lying to keep it secure. Telling the truth would be you loosening your grip on the ball which makes it more likely you drop it and fumble. It only worked for you because I assume you were in high school if first year in college. It also won't work on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:33 PM
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It hurts your dating market if women talk amongst themselves on the assumption that your gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:22 PM
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Women are all girls girls. The girls girling will end once social status adjustment can be made
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:19 PM
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Maybe I would struggle, maybe I wouldn’t idk. But at least if I gymaxxed and hobbymaxxed I can at least look in the mirror and accept I am the best version of myself. Can you say the same? Yes. Many people are or have done these things. Stop assuming these people are all losers in their moms basements. There is a huge degree of not trying, because no matter what you think, there are average people always getting into relationships This is true if you consider making it to the end the whole exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:58 PM
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Now picture this. You see a girl. You spit game, you’re doing great. One date. Two dates. 4 dates. Now she wants to get some. And when the time comes, boom you tell her. She’s gonna NEED that card now. This is NOT true. I will not tolerate anyone giving this kind of advice to men. This shit is not how this plays out in real life. Women do not like men who are virgins. If you are in a position to get some and are a virgin the best play is to LIE. After that you never have to lie again and can jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:42 PM
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You’re not a weirdo cus you haven’t had sex. Sorry if it came across that way. But if you’re behaving as if you’re desparate for it and it’s the only reason you interact with women in the first place…that’s weirdo behavior. Being a virgin isn’t weird since we all start out that way. Okay people gotta chill with the assumptions. I'm not a virgin and never even insinuated that I was. My issue is the way everyone else is acting about other people. I'm allowed to be sympathetic about people I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:28 PM
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I don't know why you'd assume other men or me are losers. Alot of people are just normal everyday individuals who haven't had sex. There are plenty of women that are in the same position. I don't really understand why it's men that are seen as weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:11 PM
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Dude got married his high school sweetheart and is giving advice on how he thinks OLD works. It's important people remember were the things people are saying come from. You would probably struggle with finding another woman if your relationship didn't work out because the dating space is very different now from whatever you think it is. He’s too lazy to workout properly, he’s too lazy to work on his personality. He’s too lazy to get decent professional OLD photos. He’s too lazy to socialize. Lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:05 PM
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You're in for a shock
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:57 PM
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girl I was friends with at the time set the whole thing up. And when we were done she said “now you can brag to your friends about this 😘” Thus just comes across as her liking you. Was it just her that behaved this way or were other women also like this towards you? On top of that, the year prior, after I moved out of state, many girls that I didn’t get around to telling I was moving started hitting me up out the woodwork telling me they wanted me the whole time. A lot of the time, being a virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:56 PM
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Did that work for you? Because i don't believe this like at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:44 PM
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It's literally because women say so. Men aren't making up this assumption. Women tell you this directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:40 PM
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I mean. Technically black people have the rights because white people gave it to them. If they wanted to take it away it's too late because it's already been established that it's absolute which will result in fighting. You really can't fight to be given rights. You fight to make the rights or get the oppressors to give it to let you have it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:35 PM
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I'm still young and not really a big fan of unnecessary surgery. Maybe when I'm 40
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:53 AM
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I'm so tired of pills. No one knows why any of em are or what they stand for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:51 AM
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Whos whining? Me? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:47 AM
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I 100% believe that it isn't. Hypergamy is something everyone does if given the opportunity to do so. People are just not slaves to their instincts and some have better control over it than others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:43 AM
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Who said they wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:39 AM
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I did my mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:22 AM
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Blue pill is just everything that's not red pill. I don't think you know what red pill even is to believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:40 AM
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If women could create the perfect man to date. Those women would be definition always be marrying up. Because women prefer their men to be better than them in life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:21 AM
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There are plenty of fetish subreddit populated primarily by women towards men. You just aren't looking hard enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:53 AM
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Blue pill produces the dumbest rhetoric possible from no where man. What the hell are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:10 PM
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The only women who care are women with men in their lives. The level of caring comes with closeness in this order: Son Boyfriend/husband (husband has a higher level of concern) Brother/father (relationship to brother has higher level of concern than father) Male friends [To be honest depending on her relationship with her brother or her father you can move that position to below friends] If the woman has no men in any of these categories, then she simply will not care and care is at a relative p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:43 AM
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I don't anyone has ever argued you must justify to another person before they can grant you the ability to leave. Like ever. So ive got no idea what that mentality has to do with this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:14 AM
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If that's the case then why are you leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:16 AM
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Who was arguing otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:09 AM
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If every woman said this and also did this then mem wouldn't think their lying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:54 AM
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Well obviously. I'm just talking about the practical aspect too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:12 AM
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Okay because I've asked that question before and I would get a no because it might "affect how he views women and sex" which always just told me that the whole women being exploited argument was more for a moral position rather than what they argued about. Personality i think they are both the same and don't really matter. We've had porn since humans knew how to draw. The reason most women gravitate to smut is mostly because it's easier to hide. They can read it in public and most people will ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:56 AM
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Porn exploits real people, whereas no one is harmed or even potentially harmed in the creation of erotica and smut. So if your guy is watching porn but with fictional women in 2D or 3D animation it's fine right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:49 AM
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Amen brother
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:08 AM
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I didn't say you specifically were lying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:48 PM
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And I'm saying it's largely true depending on who is saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:47 PM
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I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I'm just saying where the women don't date short guys thing comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:44 PM
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So you are just arguing the women are wonderful effect?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:40 PM
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And that's what I mean. 5'10"+ women want men around their height too which probably also means 6 feet. My point is that people don't stop to consider who is the one speaking. Wanting a 6 feet partner is very different for a 5'6 woman than to a 5'10 woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:31 PM
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How would it be dumb? If anything it's reinforcing why they should continue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:19 PM
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Majority of women's dating woes is from them being too passive. They want the good men to come to them. This just means that someone else will be more proactive and get to the good men before them. If women grew some balls and just took the risk of rejection same as men. They would not be single for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:19 PM
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No it's because they aren't hanging around them. This is just as dumb as when feminism say "everyone woman has a SA experience but no man knows a rapist" Men aren't hanging around rapists. Why would you expect women to be hanging around toxic women if they aren't themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:17 PM
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You say that like it's a bad thing. If they do it until it works then they got the desired result they were searching for. Who is losing exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:15 PM
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I think it's mostly to do with relation. The people who are generally okay with "shorter" guys are very short women. If a woman is like 4'9" then it would basically be her equivalent of 6 feet because the high disparity might just be too much. Alot of the time though the complaint is that the people who say they would prefer a shorter man are not only not those shorter women but also never actually conveniently attracted to said guys with the attribute. It would be like saying you actually like …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:11 PM
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Amen. White women are the biggest benefactors of every single inclusion program that exists. But minorities always get the blame because it's not about the facts it's about self victimhood
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:06 PM
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Everyone is hypergamous. Women online need to get over this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:59 PM
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They are only really a hive mind when women are operating as a group. When on their own they will function as individuals. This is why it's important to not just court the lady but her friends too. Because even if they don't like you if the group think is that you are good then it is very difficult for them to attempt to sabotage your relationship. Same in the opposite direction sadly too. There are some women who don't follow this rule (neourodivergent / autistic women) and they are more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:58 PM
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Women's issue is that the keepers either don't exist to their standards or if they do don't choose you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:43 PM
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Women being okay with dating promiscuous men isn't mens fault lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:34 PM
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Good looking people are more likely to be extraverted and social (drink alcohol with people) It's them just trying to cling to it not being about attractiveness yet again for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:19 PM
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You just don't have game. Tall and ugly will lose to short and good looking 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:15 PM
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Women will buy the sex bots too so I don't see why people keep arguing the men side of sex robots. Lonely women will buy them and society will largely not care. Look at how society reacts to women with dildos and men with fleshlights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:10 PM
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They aren't. That's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:56 PM
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I never insinuate that black women weren't slaves. No one did. But to act like women have never been above men right wise is ludicrous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:55 PM
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And women were slave owners?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:53 PM
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But they aren't facts though. You're just speaking and its very clear you don't know what your talking about. Why else would you act this way after I clocked you as a white woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:52 PM
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Again, woman were also slaves, so it wasn’t t biased against the men Yeah and white women were granted one of the few rights to be able to own their own slaves. Is this really something you want to double down on. My god
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:50 PM
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You gonna address your stupidity? Or you think a white person really understands slavery more than a black person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:48 PM
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You know I can just look at your post history right. I don't need to assume. I know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:48 PM
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Yes. During slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:47 PM
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Personal agenda?? You're the one talking about how you would have been just as oppressed as me in the 1700s. Is your skull empty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:46 PM
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White women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:45 PM
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No shit depending on where you live. And do we call Afghanistan with their taliban shit as good? Like are you insane? What rights would I have in your country that you wouldn't also have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:44 PM
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So are you guys gonna address the question about what rights do men have that women also have. Or are you guys gonna start bringing in historical contexts that don't matter to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:43 PM
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No it's not an assumption. White people (like you moron) literally do not understand what slavery and rights are. Like to actually insinuate that white women were on the same level as black people were during slavery to ANY degree is actually fucking laughable. I have no clue were white women get the audacity from. This is comical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:42 PM
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Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:37 PM
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And women now do in fact have the rights as men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:32 PM
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White people will say the dumbest things unironically lmao. You can't actually be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:32 PM
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Yes it is, the commenter very clearly asked when were men's right ever taken away or when they didnt have them. This implies that you have to name a time when men didnt have rights specifically for being male. Do you know how to read? Has their any place/time when men didn’t have rights? This is what he said. What you attempted to do was act as though a group that was oppressed that included men is the same as the men of that group being oppressed for being male. Not how it works And? Does that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:29 PM
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Okay but the discussion was not about why they didn't have rights. It was that men always had their rights. No one is saying women didn't have less rights in the past. That would by historically inaccurate. But let's not pretend that the same thing is happening right now when it isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:22 PM
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Anyway. Black people didn't have rights like most slaves in world didn't. White women had more rights than black men. There's more if you want. Now. What rights do men have in the west than women do not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:16 PM
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He asked his first. Answer his question then he can answer yours
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:05 PM
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Why not answer his question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:20 PM
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You sure spent a lot of time typing up a reply for someone who is “doing just fine” and “doesn’t care”. I have a girlfriend. I am, by definition, doing just fine and do not care about how women feel about how men think about relationship success. I actually walk the walk as I talk the talk. You have reinforced my point that women aren’t trying to suddenly date the guy who was (or still is) shy, introverted, and awkward if they didn’t consider him an option in the past. I never said they are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:17 AM
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It's living in reality instead of manufacturing a fantasyland where nothing is ever your fault. Hilarious of you guys to honestly believe this after the bs I keep hearing from you folks. Red pill is bogus about a bunch of shit. Black pill is to cynical and depressing unnecessarily to be genuinely serious. And blue pill is people pretending life is much greener than it actually is. Its why you guys argue for the best in people even when it's not there. Like dating is selfish. Most people are dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:01 AM
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Says the guy who can't use words correctly to properly convey their message so someone else can't be confused about it. You present a point and argue for it but want to backpedal because you know its dumb. I don't even know what blue pill is but everytime I see it you guys are just as aggravating to talk with as the fake red pill idiots who just listen to podcats bros
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:55 AM
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A wall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:51 AM
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The idea that women are coming back around do pursue men they previously rejected is straight up revenge fantasy for men who watch too many movies aimed at children. No one is saying they are the same people. We are saying that if those women were in our social circle they would have rejected us too and therefore it doesn't even make sense to be with someone who would have looked at us and gone "ew". Women who didn’t want you in high school or your young adulthood aren’t suddenly going to desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:50 AM
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It is functionally saying it. If you can ignore the looks but not the personality then the looks don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:41 AM
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Well that's what you did. So if it's not your intention use your words better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:40 AM
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If someone complains about their looks are the source of their problem and your rebuttal is that their personality is the real source of the problem then you are saying personality matters more than the looks. Do you know how language works?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:38 AM
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Yeah, they will jump through endless hoops to insist the problem is anything but their personality. When they can blame their face or their height, then it's not their fault. This was literally what you said in your oarent comment before it got automoded. What the hell do you think blaming anything but their personality means? Saying their looks are an excuse to ignore a bad personality is the reason they were chased away? Are you just pretending to not be able to understand the words you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:20 AM
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You went on and on about how personality can matter more than looks. I use an example of you already having a personality that your wife likes and suddenly you become aware that your wife wouldn't have married you. So again, if you are ugly how is fixing your personality supposed to help you. The truth is that it doesn't even matter because the personality isn't what is holding you back it's the looks. People should care about their personality for attracting women only after they are actually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:13 AM
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No, I don't think if I looked like the hunchback, my wife would be with me because, again, looks matter, despite your desperation to pretend that blue pillers say differently. Round and around just to be on the same page at every step of the way and everyone just lies about it. All of you are too addicted to your pill bs to just look at life as it is. I'm not even red pill I just used my eyes after I finished puberty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:09 AM
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So if you looks were instead ugly (for example that you looked like the hunchback of Notre dame) do you think you would have been able to pull her if you did everything the exact same way? Because i know we would both heavily doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:37 AM
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Uh huh. And I'm sure your wife thinks your ugly right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:27 AM
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What ugly women are you dating dear sir
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:25 AM
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Some do. Some don't. It is what it is. No one is saying you shouldnt get prettier. Why else would I say looks matter to an ugly person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:23 AM
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Odds are slim that you are the sole unphotogenic person in the family you refer to. Who said that? And they are all paired up? I have a girlfriend Figure this out on your own. Life makes you figure this out when you're in high school or something. How the fuck else did you learn that guys were shallow and only cared about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:22 AM
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To me. This is like you telling someone they should get a car with good mileage and low maintenance to a person than can not only not afford a car but doesn't even have a license
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:20 AM
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Wrong, women aren't men. Perhaps a Hollywood example would help you, but women express attraction from some truly weird, awkward, nerdy, short, scrawny, men. And every single one of those guys isn't not an average guy but an attractive guy. Hello?? Scrawny with a pretty face. Awkward with a pretty face. Nerdy, short, and weird with. a. pretty. face. Hollywood is like the worst example you could have used because it literally proves my point. If those same men looked like they had down syndrome a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:17 AM
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Their personality is irrelevant if they are ugly. If you have to climb over 2 walls to get somewhere it doesn't make sense to be worrying about wall 2 and how you can strategies for it when you haven't even don't any preparation to clear the first wall. Looks is the first wall. When they climb over it then they can start working on personality because now it actually matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:05 AM
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Not "regularly", but I don't find short men to be any more or less attractive than fat men. Why does that even matter. You don't find fat men attractive either. The only men who deviate from the norm I find attractive are the men whose personalities are outstanding. For those men, I don't care if they are short, fat, tall, skinny, disabled, hearing impaired, or little people. If they are awesome, they are automatically more attractive than any non-awesome average man. But you probably still aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:03 AM
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Most? I find very few men attractive enough to have sex with. This is just called being a woman. Don't confuse your neutrality on attraction as unattractive. those reasons could, if I were interested, develop into attraction. And yet they never do for the ugly ones. Men only care about physical stats, so they assume that's how women feel, too, but men are wrong, hence the OP, which is a very clear clue for clueless men. People care about physical stats. It's not a men and women thing. Everyone d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:01 AM
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No one is saying it is negotiable. We are saying that if there were to be negotiable then one would significantly have a harder chance of convincing the someone than the other. Do you regularly find men who are shorter than you attractive? Or do you do like most women and push him aside because "it's a shame. If only he was taller"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:53 AM
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Women aren't all that interested in unattractive strangers. But if she knows a man a little, is acquainted and finds him charming, if she shares common values, interests, experiences, and goals, there is always a chance attraction will grow. Women say this but do not do this. All the men you think this towards are attractive guys you don't find SUPER attractive. Come on. If they asked you out and we're ugly you wouldn't even talk to them. How many of your friends are ugly? Average PUA following …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:51 AM
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So you acknowledge the attraction disparity but somehow still want to assume the effect is identical. Crazy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:46 AM
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No one is arguing otherwise. Men tell men to get sexy all the time. Why else do you think we encourage then to not be the nice guy. We don't mean don't be nice anymore. We mean don't be the guy the woman pushes into that slot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:45 AM
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You guys will claim looks don't matter then immediately say it matters. "No I wouldn't date someone I find ugly and neither would other women but we might find something we will never know about the guy we aren't even going to entertain the idea of being with due to his looks as interesting so you're invalid!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:43 AM
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If they aren't attractive then they don't have anything. Why is this so hard to understand. Would you date, marry and have kids with someone you aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:40 AM
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Getting the girl while she likes you not after she's done failing with those she did and getting with you as back pocket option. This is why if you reject a guy romantically there will be no stage in life afterwards he will marry you because to men we didn't change much from when the rejection took place so your sudden advancement has to be an insult. It's why men hate hearing you are good husband material but not dating material
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:30 AM
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It fundamentally isn't. Women do not look at men that are shorter than them as relationship prospects. It's an active hindrance due to women's eternal fear of settling. Women do not look at shorter guys and go "that might be the guy for me" Fat women can just lose weight and if they don't the guy still likes her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:26 AM
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There's nothing to address in this post. Your complaining about people talking about nice guys finishing last and being undervalued and how you don't consider people who refer themselves as nice or good are actually not nice and good because if they were they would be nicer(?) to women/you. It's a rant/vent of you disagreeing with a perspective no one is arguing but just stating matter afactly because it's objectively true. No matter how women spin it because men have a different measure of rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:06 AM
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What exactly am I addressing? That nice guys finish last and women don't like nice guys until much later in life? What do you want me to address in your mess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:57 AM
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Okay but people only bring up personality when someone is talking about grievances about their looks. That's literally exactly what you did Yeah, they will jump through endless hoops to insist the problem is anything but their personality. When they can blame their face or their height, then it's not their fault. Like literally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:55 AM
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Personality can only be viewed as why people walk away only if someone is there to even walk. The people who say their looks are their biggest hang ups don't even have people talking to them to begin with to walk away from. Looks matter. Let's stop pretending it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:46 AM
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Nice guys and good men aren't owed relationships so they will never be "appreciated" for who they are. Nice guys do finish last by mens definition of success. Women have to just get over it. This is just more rambling nonsense from you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:41 AM
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Okay but a fat woman is not the same as a short guy simply due to the imbalance of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:49 AM
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So are you gonna address what I said or are you going to just say a general statement mo one was arguing against
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:43 AM
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I disagree. They may seem similar at face value but there is a great deal of nuance to this. It's like dating with a disability. It's a disadvantage. But being deaf is easier than if you are blind or mute
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:37 AM
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Right. Now no one's got social expectations. Very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:00 AM
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Modern warfare doesn't require infantry enough to justify throwing untrained and unwilling men into the military. Did you just conveniently forget about the war in Ukraine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:31 AM
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This is not true. Even if the woman also wants the same thing as you they want to feel like they didn't have any choice but to be with you because of you. Women love to be courted and in doing so like it when the man decides
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:20 AM
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What do you think the marketing is for? And from who? Just because? The beauty industry and the apparently "beauty standards" for the "male gaze" is run almost completely by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:21 PM
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It's just classic white women rhetoric. Took a bit for other white folk to catch on i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:18 PM
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Cab we genuinely stop pretending like society as a whole doesn't have some impact on people. Like no one forces women to wear make up or be insecure about insignificant shit but societal expectations still cause them to. This place plays dumb when it feels like it sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:16 PM
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My circumstances don't need improvement. I can still sympathize with other men who do. It's not hard. We are taught this in school when we are children. No one is ever there to save men outside of their families and even then it will most likely be other men in the family. Men learn this at some point and adjust accordingly. Some break, most don't. That doesn't mean those that broke are bad. Women are not there for anyone either. It's all pretend. You're all girls girls until one of you is diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:07 PM
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No one believes this moron
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:03 PM
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None of that means you gotta come to the front lines and do something about it. Literally just be open to actually listening to mens frustrations. But women don't give a shit. So when men complain they turn it into "and how will he become my problem?" Eveb when the guys got nothing to do with you. It's why me being mad is something I don't express around my girlfriend and its because she wants to deescalate it because somehow it also means I'm mad at her. You make things about yourselves for no …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:31 PM
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Women think anything about men is about women. You guys crave attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:06 PM
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They never were but women and being the center of attention i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:23 PM
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Who claimed you had an obligation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:52 PM
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Right? Women want to put up a facade of being these kind souls or whatever even when they've already shattered it in the conversation prior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:15 PM
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I'm those scenarios 9/10 times the guy got fat during the relationship not before
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:08 PM
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Women do not care at all. The only time they care is when it involves the men they know and care about. This whole male loneliness epidemic talk is doomed to fail because women argue and assume that the men in their lives don't suffer the same things. Women who don't have men in their lives have zero reason to care. Can we stop pretending like people still care about this. As annoyed as I am about the whole pull yourself up by your bootstraps talk ive gotten all my life this is the one area it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:15 AM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself to not feel bad. No clue why we are talking about children all of a sudden
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:28 AM
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So men are allowed to date younger women all of a sudden so long as the woman is getting something out of it. Another day another confirmation that most people just pretend and majority do not give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:23 AM
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I've always believed your girlfriend/boyfriend is just your best friend your fucking. Why suddenly everyone wants to pretend it's not is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:04 AM
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It's the same reason single women who claim they don't need no man but their friends speak about creating villages of only women or raising children together with other women. They don't want to and are just virtue signaling to fit in with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:40 PM
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This depends on how you view being a "wage slave". I dont think it really matters because to me everyone who ever lives is a wage slave because everything costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:42 AM
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I never implied you couldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:46 PM
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People "put up" with things for their own reasons. If they think it's something worth breaking up then they break up. If its not then they deal with it until they can't anymore. We are all adults here. There are things we like and don't like. Its up to you to decide how much if it you want in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 10:51 PM
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Dating multiple people at once is too time consuming. I ask out women i like. If they say no cool. They say yes we see how it goes for a bit and if it doesnt work out cool. Dating is currently lopsided, and people gonna learn to adjust. That also now doesn't mean that those that haven't adjusted are bad. Women are privileged in that they have all their options come to them and then get to be picky about it. Men have to go and get said options which makes being picky less likely because you would…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:03 PM
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Yeah. The "but I gave him a chance" thing has been said to me so many times by my female friends and its so odd to me. Like, they don't gotta do the nice round about talk that women do. Just say you didn't think he was attractive enough because you already implied it earlier in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:57 PM
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I disagree. Selling yourself on social media is not a must and if anything is another unnecessary stressor you are adding to your life for no guaranteed benefit. You are speaking to men who are struggling with dating as if they aren't ALREADY doing all those things. I don't understand why the general consensus is that if a man can't get women it has to be because he's a spiteful loser. What's with this nonsense. I post vary rarely and it didn't contribute to me getting my girl but I know it did …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:46 PM
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Usually not right away. But there has always been something they did or said that put up warning signs for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:37 PM
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I'm not gonna lie. As time has moved forward and based on my life experiences. That is not completely true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:24 PM
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And the bar is in hell for them. Its one of those things you gotta just live with and accept that some women are just insane
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:23 PM
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People are in denial about all of this. In truth men do it too. I've just found it doesn't really matter. And that attitude evidently led to success
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:12 PM
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The bars locations is dependent on how much she likes the guy. The bar is in hell for guys they like that's why they feel like men walk all over them. The bar is in heaven for men they don't like. So those guys are never added to the list. It's purely arbitrary and shouldn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:09 PM
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I disagree. older women just go for younger men because they too also care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:07 PM
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Welcome to the real world. We learned about this after we left high school
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:02 PM
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This happens all the time if you just pay attention to how people speak and its genuinely very annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:15 PM
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They might not be the same for every woman but there will be enough overlap that the same men will be so many women's percentages anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:28 AM
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It wasn’t rape. I consented to sex. But if you’ve never slept with a man, you don’t realize how it feels to be the person being penetrated. It can feel rapey but it isn’t rape. I guess it is true. Women see sex as something a man does to a woman. Makes perfect sense with the bs spouted on the topic by women. And like I said - I love ONS. But a good 30% of the men I’ve slept with, it was all about him, didn’t feel good or more often than not - just hurt. There was no enjoying it, or pleasurable m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:25 AM
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That it wasn’t mutually enjoyable. It was really bad, felt violating, he was aggressive, didn’t take no very seriously, didn’t take my pleasure or pain into consideration, used me like a cock sleeve and then left. I have many ONS. I’m a big fan. But there is a huge difference between a ONS and being pumped and dumped or used. And usually the difference is the amount of pain he causes me during the experience. Why has this suddenly become rapey for no reason man. Like what. Women aren't fucking m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:01 AM
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It doesn't sound like your an ugly unicorn, hell not even a unicorn. Maybe you really are just ugly. If you really are a catch and are actively looking for a catch yourself i see no reason to basically begin your own undoing because men who werent catches were leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:52 PM
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Nope not commitment. A mutually enjoyable experience for the evening. So what's the problem? And it can feel violating even if it wasn’t like assault. So it's feelings over facts on this one? And that isn’t even close. What a weird comparison. It's as close to what your describing. And if men don’t ever feel used on dates, why do they get so mad at women who don’t sleep with them afterwords? Do you live under a rock or something? Are people telling those men they SHOULD feel bad because they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:49 PM
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But you weren't violated. You participated it in willingly the whole way through. You just didn't like that commitment didn't follow. You don't become violated because you regret it. It's like watching season 1 of a show and you get attached. The show runners didn't manipulate you into liking the show just because they didn't green light season 2
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:42 PM
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That's stealing. Not sure how that would even be equivalent to consensual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:09 PM
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How is that using me if everything ive spent was on myself. It's just wasted time and energy not being used since i didn't give anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:07 PM
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No? Who feels used over a catfish? The date just ends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:48 PM
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If he knew he wouldn't be asking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:58 PM
2

Good luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:43 PM
0

I think that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:33 PM
2

Is that supposed to be a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:01 PM
0

Alright man. I don't subscribe to red pill that specifically just made sense to me because I've seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:00 PM
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It's not a rule it's just human behavior. People tend to go through what they feel is best. Most women don't have access to celebrities it's the top 10 of men in their communities. They are more than likely going to overlap with other women as well. It's honestly not a big deal. It's also not bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:30 PM
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Look Lilith you just gotta choose better words. Ultimately my mom put it in a way that made sense to me and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:28 PM
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I disagree. The misunderstanding comes from people interpreting the top 10-20% overall. It's of the top 10-20% of those you have access too. If you have access to 100 people. Men and women will both go through the top 10-20 of those people. Red pill just says women have a resistance to looking at the other 80-90 if they don't work out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:27 PM
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Spoke with my mom. She explained your point much better than you did. I agree with you quantity does matter more for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:10 PM
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I would. Why wouldn't i? The premise you provided would basically be that the quality date didn't happen again because the other party wasn't interested for whatever reason. I see no reason why you wouldn't want to continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:55 PM
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It doesn't suck if it's a quality date though. 1 great date is better than 5 okay ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:48 PM
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Nah I disagree. The top 10% and hypergamy has always made sense because everyone does it. It's a human thing not a women thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:47 PM
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Lilith you were making sense before what happened. Is it just a constant fluctuations of your reasoning or something Quality will always matter more than quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:38 PM
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Crazy work
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:46 PM
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Ngl man. Seeing you in the comments and talking about everything that's happened to you. It's actually a miracle you are still a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:40 PM
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In my experience it's women who get really pissy when I turn them down
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:35 PM
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Just say you find the thing icky instead of looking for some bs to explain away how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:16 AM
1

So you would date, marry and have kids with a guy you don't find attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:19 PM
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You literally just said you wouldn't date men you aren't attracted to earlier. Make up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:16 PM
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And your own personal experience is what? That you wouldn't date ugly people? We all know that so why are you presenting personality as if that really matters half the time. Most women are put off by how they see you rather than who you are majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:02 PM
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At the very least don't also give bs advice we all know isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:56 PM
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Your words ma'am. I'm just saying as you say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:50 PM
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Uh huh. Date the rich ugly guys then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:43 PM
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Personality only comes after looks. If your looks prevent the personality from mattering the changes to your personality to be more likeable are irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:28 PM
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I’m not going to date someone I’m repulsed by. That would be bad for both of us; I certainly wouldn’t want a man who was repulsed by me to date me. I have dated men I was “meh” about. It was ok It's always looks don't matter until the looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:22 PM
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Date the sweet, kind and ugly men then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:12 PM
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But if you wanted to be pegged then it's not really an argument. They would just argue that they should also be pegged
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:28 AM
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What do you get out of debating the people you have no attraction to not finding you attractive either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:07 PM
1

Yeah i agree. I guess appeasing just sounds weird
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:29 PM
1

I really don't understand the issue here. Have you never done anything for your boyfriend that you yourself weren't particularly interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:24 PM
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Is anyone forcing you to date them? Why does it matter if they are hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:04 PM
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Looks and status are a reflection of your morality to women. It's why women always assume that all young single men struggling to get dates must also be misogynistic or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:18 AM
4

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:10 AM
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It's 1/8. Which is still crazy high i feel like. I always thought it was like 1/15
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:09 AM
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Woman's intuition is never wrong but said intuition just disappears for no reason at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:03 AM
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Abuse victims are in an interesting position because the only advice that can be given is to simply lessen the role they played in the scenario. It's really not possible to give any level of advice for them that can't be take as "so my abuser isn't fully at fault?" Even if that's literally not what anyone was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:52 AM
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