| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1235 | "nOT aLl mEn ArE bAD.." | THINGS SCROTES SAY | U_nhoely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What has been your experience as a women with religion? | DISCUSSION | U_nhoely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | No matter what religion you follow (if you follow any religion at all) what has your experience been with religion as a women | DISCUSSION | U_nhoely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:50 AM |
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| 208 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.True, but they use this "his body his choice" phrase when they talk about him wearing a condom. If they used the phrase when referring to his choice to sleep with her or not, that would be completely fine but that isn't what they are doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 75 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.And the mind games they play to try and rationalise this weird insecurity!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 651 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Some of the comments were a fever dream. Many people INCLUDING OP were saying that him wearing a condom is "his body his choice" as if women aren't the one that have to deal with life long repercussions from having unprotected sex. Ladies please tell me, what do men lose by wearing a condom? From OP's comments on the post I honestly think he was looking for a circle jerk to give him the advice he wanted to hear because almost anyone that called him selfish and insecure he was arguing with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:46 PM |
| 14 | The lowest of the low, that I've never thought possibleWow, I tend to read a lot of morbid things but this story and the original story have made me visibly upset. I can't even understand what brings men to do such violent acts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 09:14 AM |
| 49 | It’s quiet ain’t no talk backDid you see that comedians rant, Godfrey on IG? That rant was honestly a joke. For the people that don't know he was ranting about an insurance ad that involved a black women and a white man interracial couple and how it's wrong that they are portraying such an interracial couple in a predominantly black neighbourhood because black women will start realizing the shit black men put them through and date outside of their race, thus not being an option for these black men to come back to when they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Pulled up behind this sassy plate todayI hope you have a great day 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Just got attacked by a man on the street for not talking to him.Wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I would literally be terrified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 11 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩Have you downloaded the app webtoon? If you haven't or if you have I REALLY recommend you read: "Your Throne" -at first I thought this was about two ladies fighting for the attention of the crown prince in order to be the crown princess but wow is it so much more. A very strong female lead and the art style is TO DIE FOR (Very FDS as you progress) "Unholy Blood" -honestly I have no idea how to describe this one, all I know is that I'm obsessed with it lol. It's about Vampires but not necessarily… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:34 AM |
| 59 | Would love to see your additions 😂I'm not looking for anything serious (ft. I wanna play with you for six months without any consequences) All you do is nag My predatory friends and I (the "not all men are trash" edition) The gas lighting chronicles (produced by "so you don't trust me") Respect attractive women ONLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 24 | I like good abs and I can not lie...He probably made those underhanded comments in order to keep you with him by lowering your self esteem. So that you would never feel as though you are enough/deserving of anyone better than him. That is a form of manipulation PERIOD and I'm glad he is your ex now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 10 | I like good abs and I can not lie...On a side not OP, your reddit history is FDS GOLD. So many quality posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 23 | The best way for men to be held accountable is being called out by other men.Reminds me of the whole Derrick Jaxn situation. He had a whole YouTube channel dedicated to calling out men who cheat and urging women to leave men who cheat on them and basically speaking on values that strongly align with what FDS teaches but then turns around and cheats on his wife and now all of a sudden he's "MaDE a MisTaKE". And the worst part is that his wife was present, holding his hand while he was confessing and blaming his promiscuous ways on Satan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 69 | if you have to call yourself “nice”, you probably aren’t!What the- I have no words. The audacity of some of these "males" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 51 | #NotAllMen to #TooManyMen or else the manbabies will throw tantrumsI remember reading a post on another subreddit about performative activism when it comes to issues of Sexual Assualt. Males often have this image of being this 'saviour' or brave knight who saves this damsel in distress by beating up a rapist who has pushed her into the bushes and is rewarded with affection and sexual favours when in reality being an advocate against sexual assault and abuse isn't like that. It's calling out your friends when they make rape jokes, not hitting on a woman in the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 45 | #NotAllMen to #TooManyMen or else the manbabies will throw tantrumsI LOVE THIS and I'm definitely going to put this into practice because I feel like SCREAMING whenever males try and devalue our experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What has been your experience as a women with religion?Found on r/nextfuckinglevel. This discussion is open to all people of all religions. Even if you don't follow a specific religion be free to comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 11:55 AM |
| 8 | "nOT aLl mEn ArE bAD.."It's like men's day. Men ONLY like to acknowledge the presence of international men day ON international women's day EVERY. SINGLE. YEAR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:08 AM |
| 21 | "nOT aLl mEn ArE bAD.."Girl you don't even have to come back to it. Sometimes we need to take care of our mental health and avoid things that could be triggering. I'm definitely just as mad as you are about everything happening in the world right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 24 | "nOT aLl mEn ArE bAD.."Yes especially rape and domestic abuse. Statistics show that In South Africa someone is raped or sexually abused every 25 seconds and It is estimated that a woman born in South Africa has a greater chance of being raped than learning to read. This is all coming from a report/article released by Interpool. Here is the reference I was quoting . Also if you search it up you will find a lot more alarming and saddening articles regarding this issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 58 | "nOT aLl mEn ArE bAD.."Connect me with those men because black men are at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to issues of women and GBV. Especially here in South Africa which is the capital for GBV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 71 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSAs soon as something doesn't cater towards men and their needs, like everything else in society, it's a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:38 PM |
| 77 | Men get off on treating women like shitAnd the only time men are ever praised, it's by pick-me women and usually for the bare minimum. Oh you aren't a rapist? What a decent human being 🥴 EDIT: zmkshhsxydj I have a user flair!! I'm so excited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.Isn't that what subreddits are for in general? To bring like minded people together and discuss issues that like minded people go through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:28 AM |
| 22 | Reminder: Never waste your time on someone, who didn‘t appreciate you the first time aroundI did this once and NEVER again. He ended up cheating on me again after a couple of months but at least I learnt a valuable lesson: LVM will never change. If he doesn't put effort into your relationship from the get go and you have to remind him to do simple things, like not ignoring you, then he never planned to do that thing in the first place. Save your time and energy and just block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | 💕This right here🙌🏾 I remember seeing a comment on a post here a couple of hours ago from one of our fellow FDS sister who said that every Male problem (rape, misogyny, etc.) Is blamed on society and toxic masculinity but when it comes to any sort of violence and harassment targeted towards women it is ALWAYS the woman's fault. Everything in society is targeted towards men's needs and what makes them comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Learning how to not gaf about pleasing menGoodness does this post hit home I personally think my need for Male validation came from the insecurities that I had as a child. From a young age everyone kept on commenting on my weight and appearance and a day never went by where I didn't feel ugly. So once I lost some of that weight, transitioned more into an adult and became "desirable" I lived for all the attention I got from men. I would go out of my way to make sure I would be noticed. Insecurities mixed with a touch of daddy issues fuel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I’ve had my guy friends tell me that I need to be rude to catcallers or guys harassing me, but they literally don’t understand how dangerous that is.I am haunted at that video of a black women who had gone to the gas station to get some groceries. Was cat called by a group of black men and upon ignoring them, they beat her and tried to bite her eye off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | It's Not Rocket Science.It's still all men for me because instead of using their time, energy and anger to change our perspective about men as a whole they would rather fight us over a phrase. As long as men are free to call us ugly and wish for us to be raped after getting their Male ego's bruised by a tiny rejection then this phrase will remain in my mouth. Sidenote: Most men who fight over this phrase are most definitely the same men we are talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:44 AM |
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