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| 96 | Aging woman decides she's in love with her best friend after he announces his engagement to another woman. | Friendzone Fiona | Ubermensch-1 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/04/18 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Fantastic Bill Burr piece on gold digging whores | Ubermensch-1 | /r/MGTOW | 08/04/18 03:06 AM |
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| 1 | CMV: Playing hard to get is actually a good strategy in order to get with a high value maleThe surest way to score high value partners is to be high value yourself, regardless of your other behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Hookers finding out their newly adjusted value.porn is a saturated market with little to no protection against piracy It's shocking how many wannabe porn stars have popped up in the last five years. Major sites are filled with young women posting low quality vids, trying to drive traffic to their personal websites, when most aren't attractive enough to get people to watch for free. How can they all be so deluded as to think they can make a living off this? Especially when someone's career in the industry is usually a year or two max. | /r/MGTOW | 02/05/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Retiring soonCongrats, that's a career we can all aspire towards. | /r/MGTOW | 01/03/20 04:19 PM |
| 2 | The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiatedwhat women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are different They aren't though. Most women think they can have both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas?Are reddit's moderators [sic admins] biased Obviously. They are also owned by China. Little do they know that every bit of censorship done to the site to make it palatable for advertisers slowly kills it. It may take a while but reddit will stagnate just as facebook has begun to stagnate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | "Porn featuring violence against women is far more popular among women than men. The rate at which women watch violent porn is roughly the same in every part of the world. It isn’t correlated with how women are treated."There are more men into overweight women than people think From the article: Porn featuring overweight women is surprisingly common among men. I think this is misleading. If guys were actively searching for "BBW", that's one thing, but the reality is that a lot of "thicc" women are simply overweight. The overton window on what a healthy body weight looks like has shifted, and being slightly overweight is the norm in a lot of areas. Men may be more accepting of overweight women but it doesn't mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | If I have to "work" for a relationship, why shouldn't I PnD?Except lots of women consider PnD without outright declaring that intention to be "predatory," even though it obviously isn't. This is 2020, hooking up isn't rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 01:16 AM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Think of the least conventionally attractive girl that youve dated and were serious with, describe her, and what qualities did she have that made up for her looks that made you want to date?I don't believe in "leagues" but if anything, I was the one dating "down." To say this girl was conventionally unattractive would be an understatement. If you troll doll-looking women are consistently having sex with guys who smash and dash, the problem is with you, not the guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Think of the least conventionally attractive girl that youve dated and were serious with, describe her, and what qualities did she have that made up for her looks that made you want to date?She played for the university women's basketball team, not attractive but was big and strong. Had never had any serious relationship before me (EDIT: was a virgin too, probably important). There was some death by snu-snu shit, it was pretty hot. I'm tall and tend to attract strange 4'10" types, so it was a nice change of pace. It only lasted six months, but she also thought I was great and went to the world's end for me. I left because I thought I could do better lol, one of the more regrettable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What do feminists, BluePill, and PinkPill girls expect from average and unattractive men w/r/t sexual urges?Fap to porn, date around, approach women, get rejected a lot, eventually land a gf. Thats not a horrible fate my dude. Lots of guys never reach last step. Figures for the percentage of men who reach middle age as virgins range from 1-2%, depending on the study. Example. That's not a insignificant number. If we aren't going to have a monogamous society, we need to give so serious thought about how to channel the sexual urges of men who aren't getting laid through traditional dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed?The issue isn't really how involved the real father is, the issue is that once a woman has a child, that child becomes a priority in her life. That's not wrong or a bad thing, but no matter how responsible the biological father is, or how much or little she is involved with the child's life, the kid is still needs to be accounted for in everything you do. It's a PITA and an unnecessary constraint, especially if you're a young guy who's trying to build a career. What if you want/need to move? Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | [Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed?Still don't see you going out of your way to hop on their dicks though. If you aren't going to be having sex with these "reformed nerds," you can take your platitudes and shove em, they're useless to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed?True, but age can change whether or not you fall into the top 20% of available men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 04:50 PM |
| 10 | [Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed?This, OP. Reddit likes to delude itself that people get better with age/experience and become more mature, but the reality is that dating is a zero sum game, where unsuccessful daters are throw back into the pond only to be caught again, becoming more jaded and bitter every time they're thrown back. OP, you're 23, you're not even old. Make a point of getting out there and socializing now, don't count on age making the process easier. Older women may open up their options a bit, but the end resul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Do Red Pill Liberals Exist?Depends on your definition of liberal. If you mean politically progressive, the existence of "Yang gang" types surely disproves that. If you mean liberal as in free, /r/liberalgunowners could be used to disprove that. Lots of groups break the mould on these stereotypes. As others pointed out, it's a bit odd that people associate these ideas with political ideologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 01:05 PM |
| -6 | Q4W: Is “sexy-ugly” a thing?Post Malone who I find attractive and charming for reasons I can't quite put my finger on. It's his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentage of men do you actually find attractive?This is such a blatant lie though; women feel objective lust all the time. Why do women need to obfuscate the truth through the lens of "oh, I need to get to know him teehee" when thousands of attractive women hook up with strangers on a daily basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Will the average person become increasingly red pilled in the coming years?I understand where you're coming from, but personally, I don't think that's going to happen. Women who are young and pretty think they'll stay young and pretty forever until they're suddenly not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 30 | Will the average person become increasingly red pilled in the coming years?Kinda yes, kinda no. Young men are going to be more aware of the less desirable aspects of a more sexually liberal society. Despite big reddit's belief that people were always promiscuous and cheated on their partners, this has become way more pronounced in recent years, thanks to a popular culture that is very forgiving of it. The average man is slowly realizing that a sexually liberal society doesn't mean he gets laid more, only that Chad gets laid more, and that free love doesn't mean that ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 17 | How successful are highly logical women in dating?It's not a matter of "easier" or "harder". Regardless of gender, the easiest thing is to give in to your animalistic tendencies and do whatever feels good. Unfortunately, that leads us to become fat and promiscuous. They may, however, be objectively more successful at landing the sort of guy they want. Being in control of one's emotions is "harder", but generally results in better outcomes in life long term. Women who actually exercise some discretion with men waste a lot less time with "fuckboy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Men do not need or want to control women.Does the average dude want to control women? Not at all. Does society, as a collective, subconsciously consider sex and women to be resources that need to be managed? Absolutely. Muslims don't put their women in hijabs for nothing. Feel free to respond, but women and children go first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 18 | Men have a hard time accepting that women's preferences evolve with age because they themselves are permanently 12 years old in their desire.Also, men tend to be very straightforward about the kind of women they're attracted to, instead of obfuscating what they're really attracted to and changing their preferences every three years. Men aren't born into a privileged position of being able to nit-pick the things they do or don't like in the opposite sex, so their choices are very pragmatic from the start. If anything, male sexual preferences are very mature to begin with, since men can't spend their entire teens and early twenties act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Part of this is unrealistic expectations of male bodies. While the article does address this point: The research, published in Proceedings of the Royal Society B counters the idea that strength only makes you attractive to the opposite sex up to a point, where you are perceived perhaps as "too muscly" and become less attractive again. Typical skinny-fat men barely register on most women's attractiveness scales, and most women consider ottermode/swimmer body to be the default male body. While the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexuallyAccept we have an entire generation of females who put on this charade about how they love sex and think it's great, so naturally men are misled into thinking women think about sex like they do. Women have put themselves into these situations, due to their fake sexual aggression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 04:52 AM |
| 2 | It's okay for guys to not want their gf go to a club.Clubbing is human peacocking, but people claim they do it for fun, despite there being nothing objectively fun about it besides attracting sexual attention. Women who advocate for freedom to go clubbing are the same ones that workout at the gym in bras and booty shorts and claim they're "just wearing what's comfortable" and that male attention is unwanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Are guys more attracted to above average but still ‘normal’ looking girls over mega hotties?Yeah, but "insanely hot" men are hard to come by, by most women's standards. Men have to nail a weird mix of muscularity, good looks and intangible factors like a "manly" demeanor and aloofness. Women are paranoid about "fuckboys" while simultaneously being picky af (which is why they end up getting boned by the exact guys they try to avoid). A man doesn't have to worry about being "insanely hot" because women will never fail to find fault with him. While the thing about men avoiding hot women i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How Common Is the Narrative that "Men Only Improve For Pussy"?Little A, little B. A lot of stereotypical male behaviour starts off to impress women (or show off to other men), but men only stick with the activities that further the positive feedback loop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP Men: What type of men would women attract if they...?Scenario 1 doesn't change anything. Real life dating is just a smaller pool to fish from. A given woman is going to attract similar men, the "vetting" isn't going to drastically improve outcomes. Scenario 2 is mostly going to result in dating sycophantic losers in current year. Men with any confidence are not going to wait around long enough for labels to be established, unless they're getting laid on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 12 | EXPECTING a woman to have sex with you by the 3rd date is ridiculous.This. It's not so much the expectation as it is the current standard. Women put out by the third date all the time nowadays. The OP attempts to put the spotlight on men for this phenomenon, but really, the expectation of sex by the third date is a result of more women agreeing to it and it becoming the new standard, rather than a forceful attempt by men to push sex more quickly. Women have been the ones who devalued sex, not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 09:14 PM |
| 8 | What is tinder like for the average guy?Same, I get a similar number of matches but they all flatline pretty quickly. You need to get to the point and invite yourself over in <5 messages or she'll lose interest and go for easier dick elsewhere. Don't talk about anything nerdy or genuinely interesting either. Even the english lit major got bored when I told her King Lear was my favourite Shakespeare play lol. You should be the caricature of the basic frat bro. Western dating is in a very rapid race to the bottom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Has men's standards of desired attractiveness in women always been so basic?Those are an improvement, but there's still the issue that none of them are really that insulting. When "roastie" first debutted, there were women who were genuinely offended by the term. Olympic Cockrobat. could almost be interpreted as positive. I should try out for Puppetry of the Penis. "Scrote" is more effective, but things like "pencils" or terms alluding to male pattern baldness would be best. "Chode" is a classic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Questions to women who are/were isolated from society.Do you ever feel that the normal people are crazy to you? Not crazy, not necessarily stupid, but dumb and self-absorbed enough that they could be damaging to themselves, others or society at large if left unchecked. Reddit witch-hunting is the best example. Causes like anti-antivaxxers, climate change and political debates of all types seem to bring out this rabid sort of thinking. It amazes me that people, both online and in real life, can hold jobs, normal relationships, and not kill themselve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Has men's standards of desired attractiveness in women always been so basic?Women are hilariously bad at trying to appropriate/adapt loner male terminology for their own purposes. "Moids" lol. All you ugly spinsters should band together and come up with original terms instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Has men's standards of desired attractiveness in women always been so basic?'boys only like skinny girls who still have curves and you need to look like this and this to impress them' What you were taught is wrong. Then growing up into my early 20s, it seems like women are the pickier sex. I'm surprised you ever thought humans were any different. Intersexual selection has always been done primarily by women and men have always done things to impress them. Has most men's taste in women always been this simple and bare minimal? Yes. Or is it the increased competition amon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | What makes a girl physically attractive to you?Not fat, preferably caucasian. what if she has no tits or ass and an unattractive face? If they're physically identifiable as female, it'll probably work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 02:34 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?She's quite minimalist, introverted, socially awkward, blunt, plays violent video games, likes horror movies, and likes to discuss complex topics over mediocre stuff. But is she hot (or at least not unattractive)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out.Women feel shit about there body and like they could never be attractive to anyone unless they get plastic surgery. Not sure where you see these young women, but most 18-21 yo women think they are hot shit. Sure, some of the uggos on reddit feel they are subject to oppressive beauty standards, but most women think the standards are fine, and that they live in a society where beauty can be leveraged for social or financial gain, both directly and indirectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 04:17 PM |
| -1 | For those who value female virginity, when SHOULD a woman start having sex?I value it, and I'm not a religious nut like some here claim. I definitely don't say "virgins only," but view virginity favourably and tend to view female promiscuity in a negative light. most men are wrong and “stealing” from the man that she was “supposed” to have had sex with first? That's completely off-base, and even if it was true, it wouldn't matter; men have no issues getting off with some random chick before they commit to a woman they actually want to be with. Men have fucked the town … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 03:00 AM |
| 2 | I have zero sympathy for men who go after wrong girls, then act surprised when they get hurtIt is usually women who end up in these situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 02:12 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menOf course it's a coping mechanism. Men who, for whatever reason, already have the good looks and charisma to be successful with women, don't need TRP. However, attempts to present your problems with women as not your fault is exactly the opposite of what they preach. Most of the onus is still on the guy to do everything, including to self-improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 12:33 AM |
| 7 | The sexual revolution was a failed experimentSex is a resource and, unsurprisingly, laissez-faire capitalism is a poor way of managing any resource. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 09:00 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on r/theredpill closing?effectively a refuge for "undesirable" young men to vent their feelings and create socially valuable content All of reddit could've been argued to be that ten years ago. Again, male spaces are shut down as soon as any real or substantive opinions are voiced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/19 11:03 AM |
| 2 | What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub?Perhaps "barriers" isn't the right term. The eroding of the place of traditional masculinity in western society and the decreased pressure on men to be breadwinners is what I'm referencing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 09:37 AM |
| 6 | What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub?Some of it is quality criticism of the modern dating scene from the female perspective; men today aren't working as hard, are socially withdrawn, make less, and are less educated. Many modern men have wrongly taken the breaking down of gender barriers to mean it's okay to be effeminate and lazy. At the same time, the hypocrisy is staggering in some threads; one of the stickied posts advocates for casual sex, but a central theme to the sub is screening for men who want to bone and bounce. They se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How come the more successful men don't seem to care about women's n count that much?Those men are marrying arguably successful women with redeeming qualities beyond their sexuality, like money, fame, status, or even platonic beauty. Kinda fat, dumpy, hometown girls all over the western world see slutty famous women marrying famous men and wrongly perceive this as societal permission to sleep around. A young Angelina Jolie could've probably murdered people and still have men pining for her; unfortunately, that doesn't apply to most women because most women aren't attractive enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | IME, men are more likely to stick with women who are down on their luck than vice versa. Why is that?Because the moment women improve themselves, they upgrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/19 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: If You Were A Straight Woman, Would You Date Yourself?I would, but neither male nor female me would approach myself or ask myself out, which is a huge obstacle. Great question btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 05:54 PM |
| 0 | According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships?You've been reading too much reddit man. White collar jobs almost always outearn blue collar jobs, at almost every point in one's career. If you're not an IBEW electrician, blue collar jobs are often a waste of time. Literally no one I know who choose a "blue collar" profession has come out ahead. That includes several carpenters, military officers/enlisted personnel, a police officer and a firefighter. While not every university grad has been successful, the successful ones definitely earn more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships?Not at all, I make much more than the median income of females my age (and the median for both sexes). It doesn't change the overall societal trend though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 02:54 PM |
| 4 | According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships?Honestly, probably nothing different than the current status quo. Feminist lies about women earning less than men will continue in order to propagate the female victim complex. High income women will use their perceived increase in social status to continue listening to callherdaddy podcasts on their commutes to their boring jobs and hook up with strangers at clubs on weekends. They will proceed to hit the wall in their late 20s/early 30s, when men will reassert their position as top earners. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with?Internet culture is often a good proxy about issues that aren’t yet mainstream Very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Did porn raise men's standards?No. If anything, it's made men more aware and accepting of imperfections in women's bodies. Some of the more popular pornstars are actually pretty imperfect as far as bodies go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/19 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: How important is weight to a man's attractiveness, to you?"Thicc" is okay. Patrick Star is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:04 AM |
| 19 | MGTOWThis entire sub is boomers and boomer memes. | /r/MGTOW | 06/07/19 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Why are women generally not honest about the characteristics they are looking for in a man?More like most men take what they can get, and the cute, submissive housewife that they actually want seems unattainable, while washed-up stacy seems easy, so they settle for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/19 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Why are women generally not honest about the characteristics they are looking for in a man?they dont think you mean "what do you find physically attractive" they respond as if you asked "ok, among all the men who are physically attractive enough, who are the only men you even consider in the first place, THEN what do you like in a man" This, but it's worse than that too. Men below the 50th percentile of attractiveness don't even register with women in their age group; they are non-sexual beings. Women don't even notice the bottom half of the male population unless they are physically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | She's not really helping her case by messaging chad... (0 self awareness roastie)Red pill/black pill stuff went mainstream a while ago, which means roasties unironically have started using black pill terminology within their own social circles to seem "woke." They still won't change their behaviour though, just rationalize it. | /r/Chadfish | 17/06/19 05:10 AM |
| 5 | How does one optimally spend on wealth or status cues?Physical fitness tbh. Getting a gym membership to a high end gym (climbing gyms are a big subgenre here) is a huge, subconscious method of signalling wealth. The best example of this is marathon running and ironmans. The average ironman triathlete earns $128,000 a year. It is literally a rich people sport and high end gyms (or "fitness centres") are a big part of how they network. Your workouts don't have to be super effective, just make a point of being a regular. Veblen goods good are hard to … | /r/BlackPillScience | 19/05/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV Sometimes it really does seem like men have more honor and integrity then women.Women, due to generally being smaller and physically weaker, subconsciously perceive themselves to be in a perpetual position of weakness in social interactions, especially in large groups or when dealing with men. This victim mentality helps them rationalize spiteful or dishonest behaviour. You can see this on female-dominated subs; 2XC or /r/relationships regularly forgive women for abhorrent behaviour or physical violence because the OP will weave a complex tale about how they were put in a d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman automatically become undesirable in her thirties?I got around 3,000 likes on my first day on the app. You almost had me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/19 03:43 AM |
| 5 | What are some uncomfortable "truths" about dating that people dont like to admit?Even in this thread, people deny it too. The idea that age and more relationships makes you "better at sex" or "experienced" is a lie told to themselves by crazy cat ladies and men who have passed their primes to justify the fact that they're still single. There is nothing redeeming about being single past the age of 25. Yes, the average "best before date" is that young and the dating market is downhill from there, especially for women. Read this askwomen thread about what age they met their SO;… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Men, why aren't you up in arms over prostitution being illegal?Prostitution allows women to leverage their sexuality for financial gain. Social taboos and illegality are the only things preventing the average woman becoming a prostitute. It's in the best interest of men, and the entire human race, to not allow reproductive success to fall to whoever has the most money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Have you ever experienced sexual harassment from your female coworkers?Same. Nothing super aggressive, but I've had female bosses and coworkers who treated males employees as sort of "toys," but they were always careful to never make their advances too overt. They know male employees usually keep it professional and will be sexually passive, so horny women take advantage of this, but want to keep plausible deniability so they won't do anything too forward. Example: one female coworker made repeated remarks about how big my feet and hands were, and would try on my w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm 22, always wanted to import a car from Japan. So i worked hard, both in school and at work. Worked a shit ton of overtime and never gave up hope. I finally was able to achieve this goal last March. It might seem minor but to me it so far the biggest accomplishment I've made. Here's to many moreAlways thought this was cool since I saw the Doug demuro vid on it. Congrats on the purchase! | /r/MGTOW | 17/04/19 05:21 PM |
| 11 | Who exactly is the top 20%?Risk taking only works if the risks pay off. Women like the results of that sort of behaviour, but they don't want to be around when it goes down. | /r/BlackPillScience | 16/04/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | "fat ugly girls still get to fuck chad"5 and a 6. The six is a little less attractive than I'd like, but I'm in public so I can't be scrolling through thousands of photos of women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | "fat ugly girls still get to fuck chad"That guy is top 1% so probably not Lol, top 1% of over 40s maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 3 | "fat ugly girls still get to fuck chad"Yes. 5-6 i.e. average women will attract guys like that. You don't even need tinder to see that, you can go to any club or bar on a saturday and see wannabe chads like you pictured trying to pick up average women. It's probably the most common sexual dynamic nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | "fat ugly girls still get to fuck chad"Not a "chad" per se, but if you put that picture up on tinder right now, I guarantee she'd get some matches. Not a ton, but a bunch of desperate guys will bite. The guy you pictured is still well above her equivalent in looks, and her actual equivalent wouldn't get a match ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/19 08:24 PM |
| -3 | Q4W Have you ever had a filler relationship?I was 15. I'm pretty non-judgmental about most dating histories, but this excuse for poor dating decisions always falls flat. 15 is old enough to know that dating a popular guy is a short-sighted way of climbing the social ladder. Young women aren't that dumb, this isn't some version of innocent teen love. It's not a high horse to realize that the RP is correct when it comes to dual mating strategy, and it's not shallow to realize that women who have "filler relationships" are using men. It's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/19 06:30 PM |
| 10 | One of these two will become a cat ladyYeah, this pisses me off so much whenever I see the "do a trade, they're great and pay a ton!" trope on reddit. I applied for a plasma cutting and arc welding program at a community college before choosing to go to university instead. It turns out that welders actually don't make shit unless they have 10+ years experience, become a master craftsman and can do structural welding, or you're willing to spend months at a time on a boat/oil rig and do marine welding, which requires its own training a… | /r/MGTOW | 23/03/19 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Did men kick off the gender war?Implying that androcentrism is not the human default, and that early societies could have done anything to change it, even if they wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Playing hard to getQ4All: What is the difference between withholding sex and playing hard to get? Anyone, of any gender, can withhold sex, at any stage of a relationship (although it's not a good strategy, but that's another topic). "Playing hard to get" comes from a place of complacency and, frankly, is playing with fire by risking losing the person you're interested in rather than compelling them to pursue you harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/19 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you think a woman is better or worse off for not engaging in "hookup culture?"It depends. There are female nymphomaniacs out there that get off on promiscuity, and hooking up represents an easy way to fill that urge. That being said, I think the average person, male or female but especially female, proclaims to like sex far more than they actually do. For instance, lots of women who "like sex" aren't willing to ask out or approach men, which is how they'd go about getting sex, so they evidently don't like it that much. Lots of young, millennial women use "liking sex" as a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How Women Experience Sex: What Do You Wish Men (As A Whole) Knew?Society's attempts to desensitize us to sex Society isn't doing that, feminists are. Promiscuous women, as a collective, want society to see their promiscuity as no big deal, when it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/19 09:49 PM |
| 13 | Gillette's concept pitch - DilbertScott Adams is a smart guy and red-pilled. | /r/MGTOW | 02/03/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Would you disqualify a girl for dating if she was a sex worker?I don't watch porn for personal reasons, but that would be terrible logic, even if I did. I support the right to have an abortion, I doesn't mean I'd personally want one. I could be a smoker, and still recognize that smoking is bad for you. In the same way, I could watch porn and not want to be in it, or have sex with someone in the porn industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 07:28 PM |
| 25 | Would you disqualify a girl for dating if she was a sex worker?Lol, sex work is about the most degrading, disgusting job a woman can have. Men aren't "fragile" because they have literally any standards whatsoever and don't want to be with those women. I'm an "any hole's a goal" sort of guy, and even I wouldn't date a sex worker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 02:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Asking girls out in real life makes looks matter very little if at least averageIt's not that it "doesn't matter", it just levels the playing field a bit. Women are sexually passive and basically wait for the most attractive guy they are able to attract. If they aren't on tinder, being that guy is comparatively easy. But it won't help if you're horrendously ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Do women really hate the idea of men improving themselves?Female sexual selection is, first and foremost, and looking for men with the "best" genes for the evolutionary circumstances in which they find themselves. Most forms of male self-improvement obfuscate and interfere with women's ability to select the fittest males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Women 'victims in 63% of romance scams'Men assume women who message them first online could be bots or scam artists. Middle aged women who get messaged first probably don't think anything of it and are accustomed to being messaged first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Why are men against girls riding the cock carousel?Yeah, but obviously you are conscious that there are also some poor people in a capitalist society, or at least some people that aren't making out as well as others. Those are the guys that are going to complain. It isn't right or wrong, but it is understandable, since self-empowerment to get laid more isn't that simple for many people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Why are men against girls riding the cock carousel?Women's urge to ride the cc is a godsend to me Sex is not equal opportunity. It's akin to saying that capitalism is the best economic system because it gives people the freedom to accrue wealth; obviously it doesn't work that way for everyone. Guys who aren't getting laid in a sexually conservative society are only marginally more likely to get laid in sexually liberal society (if they are at all). Either way, I think you've missed the point. Men who preach the logic you're criticizing believe p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What makes young Western women's ego so inflated?Tongue-in-cheek humor is also 90% of content on "manosphere" forums, but mainstream society acts as if MGTOW and incels are the worst people ever. It's genuinely hilarious how many youtubers and other social commentators take the term "roastie" seriously when it's only a joke to make promiscuous women insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do childless people constantly feel the need to both attack parents and children and defend their own choices from who?They view themselves as abnormal or "going against the grain" and feel the need to justify their life choices, even though being childless is actually pretty common among young professionals nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Ma girlIf you think that's funny, watch your local national guard regiment sometime. Perhaps men are simply exposed to firearms in media more, but it's genuinely embarrassing watching women handle weapons. My unit was doing training on M203s (old underslung grenade launchers). One female corporal was told to "point the weapon in a safe direction while clearing it". She points it at the ground. The instructor reiterates to her that it is a grenade launcher. He asks her again what a safe direction to poi… | /r/MGTOW | 05/02/19 09:10 PM |
| -13 | Learn to codeThat woman is based af though. | /r/MGTOW | 28/01/19 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Do women realize men don't naturally get a "moderate" amount of muscle?True, but men also say things like "some men like small boobs" when their definition of "small boobs" is around a B cup, which is not that small (I've known some women with literally no breasts, who were so flat-chested they could pass for prepubescent boys). These sorts of apex fallacies, in regards to appearance, affect both genders. We tend to notice unattractive people less, so we set our baseline perceptions of the opposite gender inordinately high. That being said, I definitely think women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Invisible to girlsOP, as usual, the comments here largely place the blame on you, even though you didn't do anything wrong. Welcome to intersex relations for young people (18-25) in 2019; women have inflated egos. Men less than an eight are an inconvenience to them, and men less than six may as well not even exist unless they inconvenience women. The average woman in 2019 sees herself as a protagonist in the her own life adventure, and undesirable men are nameless secondary characters. Women will deny this becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Why not blanket qualify "hitting on women" as sexual harassment?The complaints about "constantly being hit on" come from socially reclusive women or ardent feminists on reddit who couldn't even deal with advances from men with tact, even if they did get hit on. Most women: a) are approached regularly, but not enough that it's actually disturbing or inconvenient b) are capable of turning down advances politely and don't automatically feel "unsafe" or "objectified" when it happens c) if anything, enjoy the attention and don't want to risk missing out on a desi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?Would you date a girl with mental illnes and a personality disorder, as long as she had a good heart and loved you and stayed faithful to you? Those two things are almost always mutually exclusive, and I wouldn't stick around long enough to find out if she's an exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 06:35 PM |
| 7 | Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating adviceIncoming blast of common knowledge: Most women think they're young and pretty forever. Therefore, they think their options will stay open. Women think they will age like Malory Archer when, in reality, they'll age like Dolly Parton. INB4 some ugly, young, female redditors come in to say otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Men dropping out of societyYou missed the "big scheme of things" part of the argument. Men have gone off to war, emigrated, and otherwise disappeared from societies for centuries, under various circumstances. Societies can easily deal with a shortage of men by having less men breed with more women. Also, you've been watching too much western media. Within Japan itself, there is very little evidence of panic about this supposed "demographic crisis". Shinzo Abe, the prime minister, has repeatedly advocated for alternative a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 07:54 PM |
| 9 | Men dropping out of societyWhat do you think is the cause for men dropping out of society? This is not actually happening, at least to any degree of consequence. News stories about hikikomori and "lost boys" are picked up and run with by lost men on reddit and other social media platforms to justify their belief that they are not alone in being losers, and that a reversion back to traditional androcentric society is right around the corner. Thing is: Plenty of men still buy into the traditional rat race and gender roles. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | In all honesty, what was MrDeadMoth actually supposed to do?Daily reminder that women choose to breed with these people, and thinking that parenthood will change them is naive. Both people in this situation are idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4M . What makes a woman intimidating?What makes you think 'errh no i better not go there and talk to her even if i want to' https://media1.tenor.com/images/2122916ca9a54eed2ffb3e45c4b89105/tenor.gif?itemid=10627296 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Askmen thread: what's something you found attractive when you were younger that you now find unattractiveWas really into fake tits as a teen. Not sure what I was thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/18 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Don't alienate your target audienceVideo game devs were duped by the fake "stats" and liberal rhetoric that's rampant in the tech sector atm. Women only make up a significant portion of gamers if you count shitty mobile games, the hardcore gaming audience is easily 80-90% male for most AAA titles. Women simply aren't a demographic worth catering to. | /r/MGTOW | 30/11/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Thakn you MGTOW! Woman I haven't seen or talked to in 6 years reaches out, I would have responded in my old days, now I know better."Validate me and tell me I'm a nice person." | /r/MGTOW | 30/11/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb?Most men don't care about height though, so a woman being 5'6" or shorter doesn't make a woman any less attractive to the vast majority of men. lol, doubtful. Men will have sex with short women, but there is definitely a point where being too short would turn them off from a permanent relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 06:37 PM |
| 6 | What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb?You say that, but my brother's gf is an ardent progressive, but still thinks he's the greatest thing ever, despite him being a pro-gun libertarian. He thinks she's great too. People say what you say, but then they change their minds when they actually meet people with opposing political values and realize they aren't the terrible creatures their side vilifies them to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 06:07 PM |
| 10 | What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb?I find a lot of women specify which political positions are okay to hold or not, ex. "if you voted for Trump, swipe left!" etc. I'm fairly apolitical, and don't have any issue virtue signalling for progressive political causes if it means having sex, but it's very shortsighted to think you can't love someone and still have differences in political values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 05:56 PM |
| 16 | What dating preferences do you consider 'shallow' or just plain dumb?I'm 6'2" and I still think height requirements are dumb lol. I understand finding it physically attractive, but a lot of women who care about it are 5'6" or shorter, which is the least qualified demographic to be setting that sort of qualifier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Q4RP / Tradcons / Anybody : How would you redesign the sexual economy to counteract female autonomy?No, but it encourages female acceptance of being fat as the new norm, restricting dating options for men who aren't attracted to that demographic. It's depressing, going on tinder in a major city and every other profile is a fat chick, when you're a fit guy and not the kind of person who is into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 10:33 PM |
| 109 | anon learns AWALTNot really dark, only a different perspective. "Girl next door" types almost universally turn into sluts once they go away to college and are out from the parental thumb. The only exception I've ever met was a hardcore Baptist girl who got married at 20 so she could hurry up and get some dick already. The key to coming to terms with this is to do the same as the last poster; learn how to fuck these women. Yes, it ruins your childhood fantasies, of a cute wife and kids, but you only have one life… | /r/MGTOW | 20/11/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Don't be this guyShe's not lol. | /r/MGTOW | 20/11/18 06:45 PM |
| 20 | Don't be this guyThe real loser is "person" that left the mother of own child. She made the decision to have a kid with him, she needs to live with it, and doesn't deserve an easy out because she fooled some loser into taking care of the kid. The principle of the situation is what matters, not necessarily the outcome for the child (and I honestly hope that the child gets to live a good life, regardless of their parental situation). Despite there being plenty of research that suggests children of single mothers a… | /r/MGTOW | 20/11/18 05:38 PM |
| 25 | Q4BOTH - What is some genuinely advice from the other sideTRP = For men, being effeminate or passive does not make you appear "secure" or "confident", it makes you a pushover. Also, self-improvement. TBP = Again, for men, getting to know women platonically is personally and professionally valuable. Women can smell sexual aggression from a mile away; learning to treat women as friends and equals drastically increases your standing among your peers and raises your SMV in the eyes of women who are potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/18 01:53 AM |
| 8 | and to this day I am resented over the fact that they suddenly forgot how they treated us gamers like shitLuckily, games have become uncool again post 2015, so women no longer want representation in them. | /r/MGTOW | 04/11/18 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Who does a hot/rich/successful "high-SMV" man want to marry, and how does he meet her?Maybe if he's rich, well respected, and hot. That's exactly who this OP is about though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 09:05 PM |
| 17 | Who does a hot/rich/successful "high-SMV" man want to marry, and how does he meet her?They'll find him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Do you think it is easier or harder for a man dating in 2018?That last paragraph though. Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/18 11:25 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Black Pillers accept some RP facts but have BP frameRP also have BP frame, they just try to cover it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 05:14 PM |
| 15 | Gym-thots are evolving in their never ending quest to be the center of attention. So now most of their leggings have see through patches.No, because then the abs would wash off. | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to help the creepy guy?While you are correct, instead talk to girls like they're normal human beings. This strategy doesn't work for most men. Most guys have been playing the "being yourself" card for years, and it simply doesn't work, it just lets women select for Chad better. So an alternative strategy is to impersonate what you think Chad looks like; it just looks really fake, often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to help the creepy guy?Emasculating probably isn't the best word. Humbling. Just seeing other men pickup desirable women without douchey tactics, or more generally, seeing other ways to be "manly" other than typical hyper-masculine bs. Guys like OP described need to be shoved into some uncomfortable social situations to get a feel for how to respond to different types of social situations and learn appropriate behaviour. There was an askreddit thread about incels a year ago where the top response was an ex-incel who s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 06:15 PM |
| 24 | Is there any way to help the creepy guy?I am this guy, to some extent. I used to be the epitome of this person. The issues that cause this sort of person to develop are beyond the "pills" or gender norms or any other sort of internet, armchair sociologist bullshit. It is a manifestation of years of poor socialization, growing up in a family with poor role models for each gender, and a generally outdated mindset of gender norms and social engagement. The only fix is to mature out of it. I first developed into the person described in la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 06:16 AM |
| 1 | This is so effin true, gentlemen...Fake. The son could also be Brayden, Hayden, Jayden or Conner. These are "No More Mr. Nice Guy" type mothers. God help their sons. | /r/MGTOW | 15/10/18 01:03 PM |
| 23 | CMV: Most men see themselves as being in the top 20%No, but many men think they can score women who are out-of-their-league lookswise, in spite of their drastically different SMV. To boot, women (like OP) are probably exposed to these men more, since they're more likely to hit on them. Every high school had a hot chick with a creepy, older, stoner boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/18 03:29 AM |
| 4 | [Q4W] How common is it actually to be a gold digger?Realistically, women, as the weaker sex, always consider the resources that men offer when dating. Women have historically had less personal agency and ability to procure resources for themselves, and therefore seek men capable of providing for them. The issue that comes up is philosophical; TRP (and most of society) see dating someone for money, whether either party is male or female, as taking advantage of the richer party, when in reality, it's a pragmatic consideration when partnering up. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Of 27 Deadliest Mass Shooters, 26 of Them Were FatherlessWomen initiate the majority of separations; female choice is definitely a major factor as to why children grow up fatherless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 11:36 PM |
| -1 | CMV: All you BP SJW women would throw up Nazi salutes if you were born in 1920s GermanyCMV: most people, but especially women, gravitate towards the nearest male authority figure, and coopt their views as their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 03:41 PM |
| 20 | TruthThing is, the unemployability factor is a self-fulfilling prophecy for women. The cycle goes: Men hold jobs in high-paying or niche fields, spurred on to get these jobs by desires and societal expectations of men to be successful and make money. Women see this, throw a fit about gender inequity in the field. Women are influenced to enter the field by educational programs and propaganda. The job market becomes saturated, wages drop. Men leave to find better paying jobs in other niche fields. Rins… | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/18 06:44 PM |
| 18 | Basically the #MeToo movement summed up in 1 sentenceTo be fair, that's more money and effort than 90% of modern women will put into relationships. Still couldn't bring me to bang a 58 yo though. | /r/MGTOW | 23/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 5 | 50 cent redpilled afThis. White women who identify with dating black men are so far into the crazy realm that I wouldn't touch them, even if I were black. I suspect that it's similar to white men who fetishize Asian women; white women who like black men see blacks as lower SMV, and hence black men will put up with more bullshit or be easier to control, since they were "lucky to get a white girl." | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 10 | Why do so many men still follow the red pill philosophy when there are so many women against that kind of thinking?You don't take fishing advice from fish, you take it from fishermen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | More Blue Pill Advice?Dunno if randomly hitting on women at the museum is appropriate... Dude, fuck that attitude. If the puritans and hardline feminists got their way, every place would be an inappropriate place to approach women, and humans would mate by having women choose male partners off a menu for maximum "female security." Do what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 09:54 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?*corsage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 02:03 AM |
| 4 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?Getting girls flowers or gifts. A got my first semi-serious girlfriend a corsage for a formal dance and her face lit up the room. I like getting a thoughtful gift for anyone though, seeing a smile on someone's face is nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/18 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Why do older men try to hit on young women?I'll give a more substantial answer than the typical tropes here; as a guy in my mid-20s, age has generally been to my benefit when attracting college age women. 22-25 is the age range when I've received the most interest from women in the 18-21 age range. Obviously men do hit a point when age starts becoming a negative rather than a positive, however experiences like this may give many older men the impression that their age is an asset, or at least not a mitigating factor in attracting younger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/18 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: What's a "Real Man"?In the eyes of women? Men who are physically well-built, make a decent amount of money, tough, can fulfill a perceived "provider" role. In the eyes of men, any man who they respect. Although most men don't distinguish between "real" or "fake" men. It's a made-up female dichotomy to express the characteristics they desire in men without explicitly stating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4TRP: What parts of TRP do you disagree with?"Spinning plates" is not an effective strategy and is more useful for draining the "spinner's" wallet and time than it is for attracting more women. Having a couple women who hang around you to prove you're not a rapist is useful. Maintaining any degree of a serious relationship with them is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/18 02:53 AM |
| 0 | CMV: attractiveness is not the ultimate indicator of how good a man is in bed.The fact that women even bother to group men into "good" and "bad" sexual experiences is evidence that are large part of the female sexual experience is psychological. If a woman tells herself that ONS was the best sex ever, it probably will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Marriage/LTR Material Womencan being considered marriage/LTR material as a woman also be a not so great thing for the woman in question- for instance, if she is minimally attractive, but not hot? Men don't work that way. Men want the hottest woman they can get and will chance marry them. Men don't worry too much about their ability to "keep" her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 12:26 AM |
| 16 | Chad is actually incredibly unattractiveOP's delusion is incredible lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Do women also have a problem with TRP because it's training them to be womanizers, players and fucbois?Womanizers and "fuckbois" don't introduce themselves as those things. Women like the type of men TRP tries to produce, whether they like the methods or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | why do approx 2/3rds of divorced men remarry?As a society, we are sold the idea, from a young age, that love and commitment are requirements to live a happy and fulfilling life. Getting divorced once doesn't kill those ideas. To stay happily single requires a change of mindset that comes from introspection, self-reflection and putting a critical lens on the value of marriage, which most people (particularly those who get married in the first place) never do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Since when is a man having multiple baby mama's low statusI highly disagree. Lots of people don't think twice about men who have fathered children with multiple women. People dismiss it as "he had children too young" or that the first partner "wasn't meant to be". "Don't stay together for the kids" is one of the most popular tropes on reddit, and is entirely based around the idea that it is acceptable to bail on relationships after you've had children. Yes, lots of men who do this happen to be poor or low status, but if you happen to be high status, ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 11:24 PM |
| 7 | The Boy CrisisWithout free money from state or husband they will easily see the benefits of a single father and a husband. The way things are going, society is likely going to see social assistance programs for single mothers long before they see the benefits of LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/18 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Fewer teens having sex and using drugs, CDC survey finds (2007 vs 2017)Most people (especially women) who are adamantly pro-sex are often covering for the fact that a lot of random hook-ups are boring and awkward and not worth the worries of STDs or pregnancy, but they lack the character to admit that casual sex isn't nearly as great as its hyped up to be, so they put up a facade of acting like it's a ton of fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/18 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Q4women: About changes in desirable traits.Are we including the ones you can stuff in the trunk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/18 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Overcoming high standardsThis. Dan Ariely is great. I'm objectively good looking, but had lots of confidence issues as a teenager and socially relegated to the "nerd" group in high school and the first year of university, which put me out of consideration of the "hot" girls. I adapted by going out with some of the hotter girls from that social group, mostly IT and engineering majors, as well as a couple girls from the school rugby team. Most of them were more fun than the prettier girls I've gone out with anyways, plus … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the saying: "Nice guys finish last" when it comes to dating?Fantastic comment, you hit the nail on the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 02:44 AM |
| 7 | If MGTOW aren't low value men why don't they take TRP approach?Same, I could've written your post. I browse MGTOW and have never had issues getting casual hookups if I feel the urge. I've pulled some high SMV women as well. Relationships feel like you're a marionette dancing on strings sometimes, as a man. There is constant pressure to please your partner and keep her attracted to you (it's worth noting that these feelings are a good sign she doesn't actually love you BTW). We all have our off-times however, and it sucks that women look negatively at you if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/18 12:59 AM |
| 12 | Questions for All Pills on Swallowing the Red PillThis. I'm generally a pretty together, ambitious, well-to-do guy, but I always felt like women would be understanding if I had an occasional off day or screwed something up. We all have our off days, right? Apparently not so. I finally realized what TRP meant by "keeping frame" in university when I had a serious injury and had to miss the gym for five weeks (not a lot in the big scheme of things, but I love the gym so being out of it metaphorically killed me). I lost a bit of size and strength a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/18 01:17 AM |
| 2 | QForRedPill: what is “hypergamy” in the context of The Red Pill?Five. Five is my hard limit for women. No, this does not apply to men. No, that is not unreasonable. Yes, that is a double-standard, men and women are judged by very different criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/18 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Stoicism can be part of toxic masculinityTwo things: A) Some people come by this naturally, stoicism is not always a contrived emotion. I had negative experiences with harassment and teasing when I was young and learned to be very "numb" to emotional hardship. I don't exactly need to try to be stoic. B) I disagree that it's toxic. Being stoic in the face of hardship is one of the few personality traits I have that has served me well in adult life. "Resting bitch face" won't reel in the opposite sex, but it's invaluable at work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Gap between biological fathers and biological mothers is increasing with time.Either way, both situations are sad and less than ideal, for both the children and society (and "ideal" is not some unrealistic dream world, our society is choosing this). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 07:01 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] What age did you get redpilled? How did you get redpilled?I'll take it you didn't go to college post-2010. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What age did you get redpilled? How did you get redpilled?I thought “rape culture” was more about the idea that “rape” is trivialized or normalized or not taken serious by “society.” No. The modern connotation of the term has nothing to do with the original feminist definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 04:29 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] What age did you get redpilled? How did you get redpilled?I don’t believe understanding men want pretty girls and want lots of sex with lots of women to be “redpilled” You'd be surprised. A lot of feminist theory, particularly second wave, Andrea Dworkin-type literature, is firmly based around the idea that male sexuality is about holding power over women, not simply intrinsic desire. For instance, the term "rape culture" is literally a belief that men rape as a way of terrorizing and dominating women, and not done solely out of sexual desire (I don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 03:44 PM |
| 0 | [Q4W] What age did you get redpilled? How did you get redpilled?Damn, you're a cool chick. I don't know if you consider your relationship with your father "good", but more young men (and women) these days could use that type of role model. Whether they're being taught progressive or conservative values, if young people are being taught those values by weak-willed fathers with no conviction (or worse yet, no fathers at all), then they just perpetuate the cycle of weak people raising weaker children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Do girls constantly have cognitive dissonance from being viewed as sex objects?Agreed. I'm a pretty good-looking guy and it's still about 50/50 for women in my age range (early-mid twenties). She can be attracted to you and she'll consider it weird if it's not convenient or "at the right time" for her. E.g. some women consider checking them out at the gym to be "okay", when others think this is weird because "I'm just here to work out". Some women also seem to like the attention but nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 03:49 AM |
| 7 | Proposition: Theories about "sluts" "losing their ability to pair-bond" and notions of "used up vaginas" and "women would be happier under traditionalism" are nothing more than "cope"Virgins who get married may be more loyal but that doesn't mean they are having great, fulfilling, enthusiastic married sex. But they wouldn't know, would they? Ignorance is bliss. This can apply for both males and females too btw, I wouldn't hold only women to this standard. Modern women in particular though, have almost universally fooled themselves into thinking they can all pull really hot guys because they matched with some polished studs' profile on tinder (and then likely never proceeded … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 03:27 AM |
| 15 | Proposition: Theories about "sluts" "losing their ability to pair-bond" and notions of "used up vaginas" and "women would be happier under traditionalism" are nothing more than "cope"It's a cope in the sense that a return to traditionalism will never happen under the current state of society. However, as /u/blackedoutfast said: you clearly don't have much experience with sluts if you don't think there's a correlation between women with a high n-count and inability to pair bond. Preach. There are women in this day & age who consider relationships to be transient, like breakups are natural and you should go into relationships expecting to leave at some point. To think that sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/18 03:18 AM |
| 2 | 15% of women have consensually slept with their bossesSociety needs to face it; sexual liberalism is not the free love, everyone-is-happier utopia that it was made out the be in the 70s and is more of a laissez-faire capitalist system for sexually in-demand individuals, usually young women, to leverage their sexuality for personal and professional gain. This behaviour will become progressively more commonplace as people (both women and their bosses) are not held to the societal expectation to keep sex out of the workplace. Is the cultural narrative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Toronto Man pledges allegiance to Incel rebellion and kills 10 people in terrorist attackLol, sounds like me dude. If I knew the answer, I'd tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 04:09 PM |
| 12 | Toronto Man pledges allegiance to Incel rebellion and kills 10 people in terrorist attackIf he went to the gym and did stuff right he would have turned out ok. This platitude is pretty gross tbh. I've been involved in the amateur fitness scene in my area for a long time. I know guys with Greek god-tier bodies who don't pull any female attention; if you're awkward, shy or short, working out is not going to help you. did stuff right. Nothing this guy could've done would've put him in most women's definition of "right". Check out subs like /r/ForeverAlone to see how hard some of of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 05:52 AM |
| 18 | Toronto Man pledges allegiance to Incel rebellion and kills 10 people in terrorist attackHe was reportedly... mentally retarded Sorry, but this is plain wrong. He was reportedly a highly skilled software developer and was reportedly very polite and intelligent: "The recruiter, who asked not to be identified, said Minassian seemed to be an "intelligent" and "articulate guy" with "no issues with written communication." Lots of women seem to sniff out "weirdness" and are much more preoccupied with avoid men who are "strange" or give off "bad vibes" rather than men who are outright dist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/18 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Is there any personality quality that men are generally better at than women?Sure: ambition, perseverance, courage. I can agree with your first two, but: less selfish, more humble, have more diverse interests, and are arguably more hard working sounds like some concocted dream girl from film. Women conduct themselves better in public, but in private, many women reveal themselves to be nasty, spiteful bitches. Men have a sense of mutual respect and "honour" that a lot of women seem to completely lack. Subversion is the name of the game for women and many will badmouth fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: “I don’t need a man” versus Vulnerability. Would you rather a woman “need” you for something and risk feeling used, or that a woman not need you for anything at all?I value self-sufficiency greatly. However, the "strong, independent woman" trope is frequently a crutch used by weak-willed, overly-dramatic, promiscuous (I don't mean that disparagingly, but it's a common theme), anxiety-prone women to justify why they can't hold their lives together. As others have said though, I think FWB relationships are much more conducive to modern men anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like jerks.I think they are, but only from experiences with women IRL, which are hard to come by once someone gets to that point. A lot of men with those viewpoints are also blackpilled in high school or college and around that age range, which is pretty much a showcase for the antithesis of healthy relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | The reality that most women will never be sexually satisfiedGlad to see you're into pegging. he's no traditional alpha You should tell him this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 01:25 AM |
| 2 | The Wall -- It's Real -- But Women Hit It Later Than TRP AssertsThis is obvious selection bias. You only notice the pretty 30 year olds, when lots of women in their 30s and 40s are looking their age or older. Yeah, lots of hip, young, working women keep up appearances well into their 30s, but they stand out because you don't notice the ones that don't keep up their appearances, and the latter is the majority. Lots of women hit the wall as young as 25. Fuck, some of the girls I know are looking pretty rough not long after university ended. Subsisting on junk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/18 05:18 PM |
| 40 | [35F] Why wont all the rich tall and handsome men want to settle down with me and have kids?Them comparing themselves, as older women, to Meghan Markle is completely delusional. Can people on that sub not see how that sort of thinking got them into their unfortunate situations? Over thirty, people (particularly women) are no longer at peak desirability and need to forget childish dreams of literally marrying a prince. Meghan Markle was a B-list celebrity, relatively youthful looking and still got incredibly lucky (she's punching far above her weight and I fully expect him to leave in a… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/04/18 05:06 PM |
| 18 | Found in r/funny. Sums up marriages pretty good.Mandela was head of MK, a paramilitary group. I actually have a ton of respect for Mandela for fighting for his rights and being a man of action, but the popular narrative that he was put in prison for "resisting the apartheid government" is lying by omission. They killed at least 100 civilians. | /r/MGTOW | 14/04/18 09:08 PM |
| 8 | 99% of the guys are so fucking cluelessAs you already know: women don't want you to reinvest in your business. It furthers your own independence and lessens liquid cash reserves that they want you to spend on them. Most women don't like wealth, since they don't earn it. They like the material goods associated with wealth and status. When you actually earn the money, you recognize the inherent value in banking money, investments in the future and equity. To women, money not being spent is effectively money wasted. | /r/MGTOW | 13/04/18 06:23 PM |
| 46 | CMV: TRP immensely exaggerates the attractiveness and quantity of women they are getting casual sex withYeah, no kidding. Most men do, TRP is not alone in this. Blue pills also talk about how many women who are interested in them due to them "being themselves" and being respectful. Pretty much all men do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman being "awkward" lower her SMV? RMV?Depends. Awkward can be endearing for women if it's being shy. However, being obnoxious or unpredictable is very off-putting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has given the women freedom to make stupid choices.......and some men really don't like thatThe idea that women in the past were like this but hid it better is probably not the case. Levitt and Dubner (the sociology PhDs that wrote Freakonomics) claim that, at the turn of the twentieth century, 30% of American men lost their virginities to prostitutes. Today, you'd struggle to find any significant population of men who frequent prostitutes. There has been an undeniable turn in the west towards liberal sexual values, evidenced by the fact that men no longer need to pay for sex to satisf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | A Female Marine challenged to a Male Marine for a round of Pugil-Sticks due to watching feminist Hollywood movies. See what happened.Even if they did put her up against a guy who was physically weak, winning pugil sticks is all about aggression. That's kind of the point, to teach aggression; if anything, it's good they set up the occasional uneven match-up so people know what to do in a fight against a bigger or stronger opponent. The padding frees up soldiers to be a bit more reckless than usual training. She was too cowardly right off the bat, there's no way she could've won. Smaller/weaker people can win at pugil sticks, b… | /r/MGTOW | 01/04/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Female Soldier shouted she can beat up any Marine on the base in a Boxing Match. Among SIMPS, there was one REAL MAN! She Bleed!This one is shorter and sweeter. Woman claims she can tackle a university football linebacker because she plays for the rugby team. I don't normally think it's worth engaging women when they get boastful about how "they could take a guy" or erroneously talk about female athletes like they're on par with male athletes, but the "strong woman" narrative has gone so far at this point that many women legitimately believe that they are stronger than unfit men because they play a sport or go to the gym… | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/18 05:18 PM |
| 8 | Good men vs "good" womenTbh even that isn't a requirement anymore if you are willing to put on a dress. | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/18 07:39 PM |
| 59 | [30F] Frumpy wall licker doesn't understand why all the guys that approach her just want sex. Pretty soon, they won't be even wanting that.Watch out lads, this is what all those "thicc" women at colleges and universities turn into after graduation. See where it says "Longest relationship: over 5 years"? That's when the college boyfriend who used the pussy in its prime realized what was happening and bailed. Don't get on a sinking ship. That associates degree was to get an MRS degree and the plan failed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/03/18 06:57 PM |
| 4 | [28f] Smashing into the wall... "I take selfie can has man now ??"Truth is, that's pretty average nowadays. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | [31F] "My husband found out I engaged in threesomes and casual flings at college, and I'm scared it could lead to divorce." (r/relationships)Most posts on this sub are sorta justice porn for me, but those comments make me sick to my stomach. Hope that dude left; the comment about "making him look like a chump" is true. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/18 12:18 AM |
| 5 | [35f] Done riding the carousel, is now literately equating the measure of your humanity to giving her a hand out. Post has been up for some time.I'm pretty certain this is a thinly-veiled attempt to prostitute herself. "Tight spot right now" reads "give me money and I'll have sex with you". Unfortunately 35 is a bit late to be getting into that business. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/03/18 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Are people catching on?Cause if they can't trap a guy, they got fucked for nothing. Despite what a lot of modern women claim, that "they just like sex" and have no problem with NSA, fuck-buddy arrangements, most of them still act offended and hurt if a guy has sex with them but doesn't provide emotional validation and fulfillment, but that's what happens a lot of the time. For women, riding the carousel is like throwing spaghetti at the wall and seeing what sticks. For many women, nothing ever does stick; decent quali… | /r/MGTOW | 07/03/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW, 17, need help.Some of the advice here is shit. The world needs skilled workers, and the vast majority of skilled professionals did not go to top schools. Soon you'll see how much things like "university rankings" are total shit and schools offer the exact same curriculums if their programs are accredited. Working manual labour sucks long-term, I did it for a couple years. Go to university, you won't regret it. | /r/MGTOW | 06/03/18 03:09 PM |
| 13 | Are people catching on?Its like women who sing along to rap songs about "hoes". They assume they're the exception to the rule, ignoring that fundamentally AWALT. | /r/MGTOW | 06/03/18 02:35 PM |
| 19 | Are people catching on?Pretty much this. Modern relationships are pretty shit for both sexes atm (as much as this subs thinks they're great for women, beta cuck supplies aren't infinite and a lot of millenial women are now realizing that their ability to get some dick means nothing about their ability to keep a male partner) and millenial men are realizing that respecting women isn't enough to get laid, so people are turning elsewhere for answers. Movements like TRP have been widely vilified, so many supporters aren't… | /r/MGTOW | 06/03/18 01:56 PM |
| 9 | Have you ever seen an angry unicorn?If this was posted in a feminist sub, they'd be crying about how this is an "abusive relationship" and how he "doesn't respect her boundaries". | /r/MGTOW | 04/03/18 08:52 PM |
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