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| 0 | Why 60 years of feminism has not made women any happier"They are sexually liberated, but that often means they are going from one relationship to another without any sense of financial security or emotional stability." Deep down, they still believe financial security requires having a stable relationship with a man. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women only get likes, followers, etc... because they’re women?Don't blame her without also blaming the men who follow her because of this | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 12:21 PM |
| 11 | Advice on how to defend myself against this monsterJust hop in your car, drive away and don't look back. You're young and have time to rebuild. Shouldn't be hard considering she is such a monster. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 01:35 PM |
| -3 | Woman cleared of Rape - If you still had doubts about equalityThat's not her defence, that's what her accuser said: She was also accused of giving the man a love bite that ‘looked like he had been strangled’, telling him during the alleged attack: ‘You may be saying no but your dick is saying yes.’ Her defence was that there was no assault and that her accuser simply fell asleep while she was checking on her onion rings. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Incels are objectively right and I can't understand why so many anti-feminist people still fail for their propaganda.The hard truth is that people calling themselves "incels" have said a lot of misogynistic stuff on the internet over a very long time. That is why they are hated. Whether they are right or wrong is not a factor. I could say a lot of things that are objectively right, and get hated because I have offended people. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Jury clears 24-stone student of forcing a man to have sex with herAs they should have. This is essentially a he-said / she-said case, with no supporting evidence whatsoever. No where near enough evidence to convict. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 02:31 PM |
| -10 | Woman cleared of Rape - If you still had doubts about equalityMaybe she didn't do it? Amazed at how certain some people in this sub are of her guilt, in what is essentially a he-said / she-said case. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Man losing 50% of his assets from a divorce?Lol - my ex took 80%, got lifetime maintenance too 50% would be amazing! They justify it by saying the kids need the money more than you | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 01:38 PM |
| 8 | Period dignity officer role scrapped after abuse over man's appointmentMen can menstruate too these days... | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Women "shit testing" - equivalent to negging?Not exactly a mens rights issue. However to answer your post, shit testing <> negging. Shit testing means testing how strong someone is - i.e. "is this person strong or will they put up with my shit". It's not necessarily trying to reduce the other person's self esteem. Shit testing can also be quite obvious. For example, a guy approaches a girl at a bar and she tells him he has 30 seconds to impress her or she walks away. Everyone shit tests other people from time to time. I shit test my boss t… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | why does society ignore the fact that marriage laws are why many men refuse to marry?Because there are many other men that are happy to get married. A friend of mine has refused to get married because of his MGTOW philosophy. But for every friend like that I have about 10 who are married and 3 or 4 who are divorced. Also for every man I know that is refusing to marry, I know several women who feel the same way. All these "refusing to marry" people just cancel each other out. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/22 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Hypocrisy, one is strategic and the other is lonely. I really can’t believe the double standards!!You need to remember that the author of articles and books like this wants to be read, and is playing to their audience. If someone writes about how good it is for black women to be single, their target audience is probably single black women who are unhappy and looking for a morale boost. The same could be said for all sorts of other articles. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Why can’t there just be a safe place for men to vent ?There are safe spaces - this sub for example where I'm sure you'll get a lot of upvotes for your post. It's true that women rally around in support of each other more than men do, but that's our fault really, don't you think? | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 09:57 AM |
| 2 | So, post divorce. What now?What exactly are you asking here? My advice post divorce is to forget about your ex and just get on with your life. I don't care if my ex is richer or poorer than me - I don't even think about her at all. There's a great world and life out there to be had, so go and live it. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 9 | Child Support Idea"As a mother, I can tell you that no mother using child support as legally intended would throw a fit about having to upload a receipt or bill to draw against the fund." Rubbish. I'd say about 99% of mothers would throw a fit about this! What an administrative overhead to their life! The vast majority of expenses are shared - rent / mortgage, utilities bills, food, transport (if they have a car). How do you propose to split those out? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 12:45 PM |
| 5 | A horrible but common story. It’s a hard read for parents in the same position.I don't know your ex, but if she's anything like mine, sending her something like this could trigger another round of me not seeing my children for a few months. Personally I wouldn't take the risk. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 12:04 PM |
| 48 | UK: Boris says Putin wouldn't have invaded Ukraine if he was a WOMAN: PM slams Russian dictator's 'toxic masculinity'I mean it's not as if Queen Elizabeth I ever went to war either... oh wait a bit, she did. Well Margaret Thatcher then ... hang on so did she. Well at least the foreign minister Liz Truss didn't try to escalate matters by proposing we introduce a no-fly zone .... actually scratch that too LMAO | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 02:12 PM |
| 6 | For every single mom, there is a single dad.Sometimes more than one, in fact. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 11:49 AM |
| 39 | UK: Boris says Putin wouldn't have invaded Ukraine if he was a WOMAN: PM slams Russian dictator's 'toxic masculinity'Just like how if Mynanmar had a female leader there wouldn't be a genocide against the Rohingya - oh wait a minute there was | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 11:48 AM |
| -6 | "Help, I'm going to be a parent, but I don't want to be!": The worst case scenario for each genderThis is a stupid argument. There's also a child involved here and their needs need to be considered too. "Imagine that you are someone who wants to avoid being a parent at all cost." First up I'd suggest using contraception at all times to minimise the risk of that happening. Secondly I'd advise not sleeping with women that show red flags (the crazies are usually pretty easy to spot). Also there are other options open to men apart from the one you mentioned. Be an engaged father (you never know,… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Mandatory Vasectomies Are a HORRIBLE IdeaI don't think many women really think this. They may joke about it to wind you up but I'd be suprised if any woman who was not a nutter genuinely believed this was a good idea. And before anyone mentions people like Clementine Ford and Jessica Valenti - remember they're nutters :-) | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Sex strikeDid this really happen? It sounds like a made up story to me. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/22 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Me Too, JohnnyStop viewing the situation as a battle between you and your ex wife. 4 nights a fortnight is enough to build a great relationship with your son. It's all I get and I have a great relationship with my kids. If you focus on the past you will ruin the rest of your life. Let it go and move on. Yes it sucks what happened and the system isn't fair, but you can win by becoming happy and successful despite what happened. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 11:36 PM |
| -2 | Why are most women so cruel to men?Sounds like hypocrisy me. You say "most" women are cruel yet take offence at someone saying the same about men... lol | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 11:31 PM |
| 8 | Ex-Wife making false allegationsSounds to me like she's trying to pick a fight with you. She knows you follow her on instagram (why?) and is trying to provoke a response. Engaging with her will probably encourage her to keep going. Don't sue, this will push her into a corner and she'll double down on her position. Best advice is to stay calm and ignore as much as possible. Due to our biased society, any display of anger or indignation will be interpreted by most people as a sign of guilt. If required to defend yourself to e.g.… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Addressing all the claims made in a video by a feminist tiktokerThis is not men's rights. I get that the feminist is blaming men for a bunch of stuff and you are critiquing that, but it has nothing to do with the systemic discrimination men face on a daily basis. Why have you pinned it to the top of the forum? | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 02:38 PM |
| 10 | I find it very hard to respect women and I hate it.Not all women are like that though. Fair enough to not respect SJW's and as you said they come in both genders. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 10:27 AM |
| 3 | “most men are lazy, selfish, thoughtless, lying…”: Blatant man-hating post on feminist subreddit highly-upvoted. Conveniently ignored by subs that monitor hate subreddits because hatred of men is culturally celebrated"Blatant man-hating post on feminist subreddit highly-upvoted" Well, duh | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 10:20 AM |
| 1 | I just found this channel, it's a gold mine highlighting the double standards with women and their issues picking and choosing patriarchal principles that benefit themBecause at the end of the day we're just like the animals. Evolution demands that men prove their worth before being allowed to reproduce. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 10:09 AM |
| 6 | Men, have you experienced sexual harassment/assault from women that was downplayed because of the gender roles involved?Yes. I was in my 20's and the woman was a senior manager in her 40's. The other (mostly male) managers thought it was funny and both encouraged and helped her to keep harassing me. Though it was a different world then, there was a lot of harassment from both men and women that went unchallenged. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.Wow, that's the most impressive insult I've ever heard. Did you find that on the internet? | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 09:55 AM |
| 0 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.Firstly I'll make comments wherever I want thanks very much. Secondly, that article doesn't say anything other than the woman is worried about something. Just because a woman is worried about something doesn't make it fact! | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 09:54 AM |
| -6 | Once again India win one of the worst place live as married men.Sorry, but I simply don't believe this. There's a reason why Indian expats race back to India and file for divorce there, rather than in the UK, and that's because the laws are much more favourable to them over there. Stop moaning about how your life is ruined and start standing up for yourself. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Men just can't win - I see this post every once in a while. See what you think of my response.There are birth control methods available for men, just not in pill form | /r/MensRights | 28/04/22 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Unilateral Female Reproductive Powerwhy the double standard that dictates that men who consent to sex automatically consent to fatherhood? Because if a child is born it's in the child's best interest to have a father. This is another of the "big ticket items in the MRM". I realise this sucks for the guy who doesn't want to be a father but the child's need is greater. | /r/MensRights | 08/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 3 | rewriting the rules ; what would actually happen if parental tests at birth was enforcedYou'd probably get a spike in abortion rates but that's about it | /r/MensRights | 08/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Feminists don’t want men to enjoy their hobbiesThey don't give a toss either way. You're being overly dramatic | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm a girl and watching my boyfriend fighting for child custody is heart breakingI've been through this with my ex, and 7 years on it still continues to some extent. It was tough but gets easier with time. He's just got to get through it as best he can, try not to get angry and realise it will end when the kids grow up. Put the kids needs first and ignore the ex as best he can. My kids are 9 now and already starting to figure out what's going on. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | “women are usually the primary caretakers of children so of course they would get custody. also 91% of fathers don’t even file for custody of their kids and when they do they win shared custody 60% of the time”"Shared custody" is not custody. Shared custody includes situations when the children spend the majority of time with one parent and occasionally stay over at the other. So 40% of the time men don't even get that. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 11:47 AM |
| -16 | Someone please explain to me why feminists get triggered when men discuss their issues?You seriously expect people on the MRA sub to explain why feminists get triggered about something? Why not ask actual feminists these questions? | /r/MensRights | 17/02/22 09:56 AM |
| 8 | How do gay divorces compare to straight ones?From the stories of some of my friends their divorces are just as bad as mine was | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 11:21 AM |
| 3 | Is No-Fault divorce detrimental to men?The UK does not have no fault divorce. And London is typically regarded as the "divorce capital of the world", because it is very one-sided in favour of women. So no, there is no correlation between no-fault divorce and men getting screwed over. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 11:20 AM |
| -4 | Is No-Fault divorce detrimental to men?I call bullshit on this anecdote. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/22 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Could you please provide links to reliable sources for:www.google.com | /r/MensRights | 18/01/22 11:03 AM |
| 7 | What was normal for men in the 2000s but would be strange to men today?Going to a strip club with the guys from work | /r/MensRights | 11/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t there some evidence against what these articles say?I'm happy to refute it. 1. One showing that 91 percent of custody decisions are made without even using the family court. Considering we are debating the fairness of the family court, this is irrelevant. If anything it shows that a majority of people don't trust the family court. Another showing judges usually side with the father when women claim that the father is abusive. Actually no. What it says is that when women who have been found to be alienating the father from their children then clai… | /r/MensRights | 06/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 0 | I think the way women treat me is the way they actually feel about all men but just won't admit.A study of 108 college students at a speed dating event is hardly representative of anything, except college aged students that go to speed dating. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 09:46 AM |
| 0 | My honest opinion on nice guy syndrome (PLEASE READ BEFORE COMMENTING)You want me to read ALL that? Can we at least have a TLDR? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 08:54 AM |
| 5 | Old man asks to sit next to a woman with kids, "surely a pedophile"I often select the seat that someone has put their bags on as a passive aggressive way of telling them to stop bag spreading. That's how we resolve things in Britain :-) Just because someone has kids doesn't mean they can be selfish! | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 12:40 PM |
| 6 | USA: Beacuse Nominees for a Science Award Were All White Men they decided nobody should win on the basis that no women were shortlisted."The number of female cryosphere nominees has steadily dwindled over the past five years..." I know plenty of women that live in the cry-o-sphere lol | /r/MensRights | 29/10/21 12:35 PM |
| 7 | UK: 'Misogyny against a MAN is absolutely wrong': Dominic Raab claims men are also victims of hate speech in bungled backing of Boris Johnson's refusal to make hatred against women a crimeHe actually said, "insults and misogyny is absolutely wrong, whether it's a man against a woman or a woman against a man" (quote from BBC) So arguably the woman vs man thing was referring to insults and not misogyny. But hey, it's convenient to chop the first two words off his sentence to make a good news story. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 16 | Many feminists seem to want to punish men, it's time we supported themShe's saying that men should be supported, not feminists | /r/MensRights | 01/10/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Can men ever do “enough?”Decide for yourself what's enough and make sure to do that. Who cares what everyone else thinks? | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 01:40 PM |
| -1 | "An NYU professor says fewer men going to college will lead to a 'mating crisis'"Are we? Here are some quotes: From the post and top voted comments: "women with college degrees don't want to partner with men who don't hold a degree." "I guess some Women are just too good to marry a Man who doesn't have the same amount of education as them." "Traditionally it was a pretty good trade. All she had to do was be young and attractive and kind of nice..." "Lol, they admit that hypergamy is real." "Maybe if women actually believed in equality, and still didn't act like they had a go… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 12:36 PM |
| -12 | "An NYU professor says fewer men going to college will lead to a 'mating crisis'"Enough of this redpill & incel bulls**t. Find another sub. As a man you don't have the "right" to a partner - there's no Men's Rights issue here, unless you're talking about discrimination in the schooling system that prevents men from getting to college in the first place. Everyone has the right to not partner with someone if they don't think they're good enough. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Result of DivorceThere's no such thing as "custody" in the UK. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Judge Dismisses Case after Alleged Victim Admits She Falsely Accused Ex-Boyfriend of RapeThis guy is clearly an idiot, having sex with a woman who destroyed his property and who he is trying to get a restraining order against | /r/MensRights | 16/07/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Judge Dismisses Case after Alleged Victim Admits She Falsely Accused Ex-Boyfriend of RapeShe didn't lie under oath. She made a false accusation to the police (not under oath) and then recanted it | /r/MensRights | 16/07/21 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Isn't it weird to compare a woman with high education qualitifications with a male with low educational qualitifications? I mean, in a comparison some factors got it be the same right? Share your thoughts.Funny how these articles never ask the men why they're not marrying these women | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Do you guys think women are spoiled for choice when it comes to dating?Only when they're young. Since I turned about 35 the scales definitely shifted in my favour, and I expect will stay that way for the rest of my life. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Worried about Child Custody and a Revenge Restraining OrderYou're over reacting and as such even I am doubting your story. You say your pregnant girlfriend's ex boyfriend is somehow involved. Are you sure the child is even yours? | /r/MensRights | 28/06/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | thinner skin than i thoughtOf course you got banned, your question has nothing to do with feminism Maybe try askwomen if you want a female opinion | /r/MensRights | 28/06/21 10:36 PM |
| -6 | Men of Reddit, do you agree with the saying “only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are only loved under the condition they provide something.”?Disagree for several reasons. For starters family bonds can extend much further than childhood and also further than parents loving their own children. Secondly you're assuming heterosexual relationships only, this premise breaks down completely when you consider same sex relationships. Thirdly I know many women who love men who provide nothing. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Reddit is deforming my opinion of women in general and it's bothering mePro life tip - reddit is not the real world, I'd guess may be 80% of posts are massively exaggerated or completely made up | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Pro-choice just means “pro-woman’s choice.”So you'd prefer the innocent child pays the price? Statistics show that children without fathers in their life have significantly worse outcomes across a variety of indicators. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/21 10:30 AM |
| 6 | Pro-choice just means “pro-woman’s choice.”It's in the best interest of the child for neither of these things to happen | /r/MensRights | 22/06/21 11:36 AM |
| 17 | I been falsely accused of sexual harrassmentStop trying to be friends with this girl and either ignore her or fight back. Personally I would just ignore her but if you want to fight back start telling everyone she's a crazy and delusional woman who's just trying to seek attention. Either way don't ever speak to or message her again. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | What is so bad with circumcision?I heard it stops you turning into a troll | /r/MensRights | 18/06/21 11:50 AM |
| 0 | UK: Drunk mother, 29, makes false allegation of sexual assault then flashes her breasts and bottom at a police officer before sexually assaulting him. But she is spared jail.These crimes don't deserve jail, especially considering the guilty plea | /r/MensRights | 17/06/21 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Dear exhausted men of Reddit, no, she is not a “great gal”I'm bored of this gender reverse crap. Leave them be | /r/MensRights | 15/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 636 | My ex girlfriend cheated on me, then called the police. I'm not allowed in my own house.Stop paying rent, go and get your stuff, block her on everything | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 11:56 AM |
| 8 | Is marriage worth it at all? What are the alternatives?Within your religion the only alternative to marriage is abstinence. To protect yourself financially either make sure you never have any money or only marry someone who is richer than you. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 09:31 AM |
| -2 | My old boss was just served a 30 day eviction notice by his partner...after living in the home they bought together 11 years ago.It's not and never was his house. If the genders were reversed and it was my house i certainly wouldn't be giving her half. Don't see how getting a lawyer will help here. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/21 08:33 AM |
| 5 | Several generations of feminism has convinced too many women that a crime isn’t a crime when committed by a woman, that emotions are labor and that men don’t need similar rights.This article is 7 years old, not exactly new | /r/MensRights | 31/05/21 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Double-standard² on human worth (and right to talk about it)That sub is rubbish, anything genuinely unpopular gets removed. My post was removed from there for saying that young people today are too well behaved and don't rebel enough! I just checked the current "most unpopular" opinions: "I hate when the radio host talks over a song" -- like who doesn't hate that lol "Cheese is not a pizza topping" -- who cares? "Reaction videos are stupid" -- pretty sure most people agree with you here "I hate camping" -- so do most people etc, etc | /r/MensRights | 28/05/21 11:45 AM |
| 8 | Man fined $5000 for being the victim of voyeurism and an illegal sex tape.I would argue the NRL shouldn't have the power to do that | /r/MensRights | 20/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 27 | There is now an attempt to introduce American style campus kangaroo courts for sexual assault allegations in the UKIf I went to the police and asked for a degree, they'd tell me to go to university. So why expect a university to investigate a crime? | /r/MensRights | 20/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 0 | The expanding definition of "being creepy"I agree with everything you're saying, apart from your statistics. Many men on this sub are bitter about various things and lash out by downvoting posts like yours. That is wrong, and doesn't help our cause. I respect you for coming here and engaging to make the sub a better place. However to look at your statistics... You say 1 in 5 women are victims but only 30% of rapes are reported which equals 3 in 5 women victims once the under-reporting is accounted for. I simply cannot believe it is anyw… | /r/MensRights | 18/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | The expanding definition of "being creepy"I find those statistics very hard to believe, as does the majority of the population | /r/MensRights | 18/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | New Zealand economy would make a $1.5 billion jump, if men did more at homeMen don't do less housework. They just do it more efficiently and finish quicker :-) | /r/MensRights | 17/05/21 07:50 AM |
| 3 | My Ex is lying about domestic violence and WINNINGAnother survivor here. Your case is suprisingly similar to mine, although fortunately for me my children haven't suffered any physical harm in her care. Sounds like you're approaching this the right way so keep it up. Just remain focussed on the end goal - a good relationship with your son over the longer term. Losing time with them is hard but can be overcome provided you don't blow up and do something stupid. My children were 11 months old and then I didn't see them for about a year. When I fi… | /r/MensRights | 12/05/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | 51% women employees and they need more? I thought the goal was equality... right?Yeah but who really gets C++? I studied it, wrote working programs even but never really figured out how pointers work. Fortunately I'm a manager now :-) | /r/MensRights | 05/05/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The only reason paternity tests aren't mandatory at birth is because this would benefit men more than women.If it was mandatory, women who were worried about the test would probably abort. Assuming the child was wanted, I don't think this benefits anyone. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/21 07:34 AM |
| 13 | 51% women employees and they need more? I thought the goal was equality... right?I looked these guys up. The board and senior managers are almost all men so not exactly a feminist company. Just pretending to be woke. https://www.wsj.com/market-data/quotes/GOCO/company-people | /r/MensRights | 05/05/21 07:29 AM |
| 0 | Why exactly do people view parents refusing to pay child support for a child whom they never actually wanted as being morally questionable if this child already has all of their needs met & is thus in a better position than they were pre-conception?Cathy Newman? Is that you? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/21 09:19 AM |
| -1 | Why exactly do people view parents refusing to pay child support for a child whom they never actually wanted as being morally questionable if this child already has all of their needs met & is thus in a better position than they were pre-conception?"So how is saying "you can't have that right because it will cost us tax money" Are you responding to the right post? Because I never said anything even remotely close to that. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 01:17 PM |
| 6 | UK family court is ruining my life.I went through a similar situation as you in the UK family court. All told I missed almost 2 years of my children's lives between the ages of 2 and 5. My children are 8 now and I have been seeing them regularly for the last 3 years. We have a great relationship. Like you I had to endure supervised access, and my ex used all sorts of tactics to delay things for as long as possible. I have some advice for you from what I've learnt. Don't. get. angry. Just don't, there is no situation in which that… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Why exactly do people view parents refusing to pay child support for a child whom they never actually wanted as being morally questionable if this child already has all of their needs met & is thus in a better position than they were pre-conception?Because if the man doesn't pay the burden falls on the taxpayer and nobody wants to pay for other people's kids | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 08:17 AM |
| 3 | I really think its getting better today then it has been, but that doesn't compensate for the thousands of men that have been unjustly represented.If the financial aspects of divorce was just a formula that was calculated similar to a tax return it would make a lot of things better. Once you get lawyers and judges involved, and people arguing about who deserves more money the whole process gets corrupted. I bet a lot of false accusations and bad behaviour would go away if there was no financial incentive to make them. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 6 | How do you all handle an uncooperative mother when it comes to custody.My ex is a very difficult woman. A few things I learned. Play the long game, your daughter has a lot of childhood left. I lost almost 2 years of my children's lives but have a great relationship with them now. The courts can help, but remember they are generally biased in favour of mothers and should really be used if you are cut off completely from your children and have no other option. I would be reluctant to try a strategy based on your ex's priors as it's high risk move that may backfire. I… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/21 11:22 PM |
| -7 | The reddit admins clarify that that they're fine with harassment as long as it's directed to the right groups.If it bothers you that much why are you still on reddit? | /r/MensRights | 06/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists think, they know how it feels to be a men and can therefore claim that they have it worse?Lol, what a bitch | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 4 | As a male, I'm tired of feeling like an expendable or utility.Men are seen as expendable in so many ways and dating is all you care about? | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Responsibilities for injuries inflicted accidentallyI used to play mixed netball when I was younger. In netball be any contact between opposing players is a penalty, and in mixed netball the penalty was always called against the man. You could be standing there and a female player runs into the back of you and the penalty will get called against you. In one match one of my team mates had his shirt literally ripped off by a girl who ran into him and then tried to break her fall by clinging to his shirt. He still got the penalty called against him!… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/21 10:26 AM |
| 3 | I just googled the question "does anyone still support Male Circumcision?" I was shocked by the results.I have a lot of expat friends from various countries. In my experience it's very much an American thing (both genders), compared to other nationalities which don't support it much | /r/MensRights | 22/03/21 10:50 PM |
| 7 | [Question] Does anyone know where the ‘97% of women have been sexually harassed’ statistic has come from?I suspect 97% of PEOPLE have been harassed at some point in their lives. A girl pinched my butt in a nightclub once (actually it's happened more than once) so presumably that puts me in the 97% | /r/MensRights | 16/03/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | The Welsh Government have said that a 6pm curfew for Men is on the 'top of their list'.Err - no, it actually says the opposite: "Today Welsh First Minister Mark Drakeford has said a curfew on men "wouldn't be on the top of the list" | /r/MensRights | 15/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 4 | "6PM Curfew for Men". A genuine suggestion made by a representative of the House of Lords being discussed on TV at the momentThe greens have always been a laughing stock party in this country. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Female professor tells the truth: Men are far more likely to be victims of violence and murder. But oh dear — all hell breaks loose of course.I counter it by saying that 99.999% of men don't commit murder. Last year there were 683 homicides in England and Wales (not all committed by men), with a population of about 30 million men. It's not about men vs women. It's about murderers vs non murderers. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Canada gender equality: Trudeau unveils women-only task forceEven more funny is this: "Minister of Middle Class Prosperity Mona Fortier" ?? | /r/MensRights | 09/03/21 10:08 AM |
| -2 | Another blatant favoritism for an actual murdererWhere does it say she's a murderer? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Following rape accusation, Australian politician’s career is finished, regardless of the truthYou've just undermined your own argument by illustrating that you don't like Christian porter for political reasons. Clearly even you realise that this accusation is baseless and are using it as an opportunity to push a political agenda | /r/MensRights | 06/03/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Do women ever make you feel like second hand citizens? Whats the worst thing you’ve had to experience.When it comes to any disagreement with my ex wife about what is best for our children, my opinion is always considered second best. This could be with teachers, doctors, social workers - anybody really. She gets to decide what happens and I get told about it after the fact. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Following rape accusation, Australian politician’s career is finished, regardless of the truthI notice that responses to this accusation tend to run along political lines rather than gender - i.e. liberal party politicians of both genders supporting him and other party politicians of both genders wanting to drag the situation out. People believe what they want to believe, nobody cares about the truth or due process. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/21 11:29 AM |
| 4 | Following rape accusation, Australian politician’s career is finished, regardless of the truthYet another anonymous unsubstantiated allegation, this time from Anijealou | /r/MensRights | 05/03/21 11:07 AM |
| 9 | Muppets now has disclaimers - but domestic violence OK apparentlyMuppets now has disclaimers for various social offences, such as: "Each episode bears the 12-second disclaimer for a different reason, from Cash’s appearance singing in front of a Confederate flag to negative depictions of Native Americans, Middle Easterners and people from other cultures." While I have no problem with this, I am suprised that the many "humorous" incidences of domestic violence between Miss Piggy and Kermit don't warrant a disclaimer. As a kid I remember being hating Miss Piggy … | /r/MensRights | 22/02/21 08:54 AM |
| 3 | My problems with this subredditThis sub has changed a lot in recent time, I suspect due to the shutting down of other male focused subs (e.g. TRP, MGTOW, Incel) and migration of members from there to here. There used to be more focus on actual men's rights, now we get posts about issues with dating, or posts highlighting something one crazy person said and trying to apply it to all women. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/21 03:17 PM |
| 4 | WOMEN "HITTING THE WALL" IS NOT BASED IN REALITYAgree, I'm pretty sure if an 80 year old woman was up for no strings attached sex there would be a bunch of 80 year old men chasing her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Learn from my mistakesThe mistake was probably to bring your politics into the office - this is always a risky move unless you're certain your politics 100% aligns to that of the office. It seldom matters who is right or wrong in these matters. A friend of mine was giving a speech at a charity that was aiming to improve diversity of employment across the country. His opening line was: "Put your hand up if you voted for the Tories at the last election. (no hands went up) Not very diverse, are we?" Despite the fact he … | /r/MensRights | 09/02/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | #killallmen is meant as a joke, still offensive AF.The United States is 5% of the world, hardly representative. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/21 08:28 AM |
| 4 | #killallmen is meant as a joke, still offensive AF.Lol you just made those numbers up. Most murderers are also non-white, non Christian, non-upper class and non a whole bunch of other things which nobody dares say in case of offending the diversity police | /r/MensRights | 06/02/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | need answersThe only item on your list that matters is #4. Forget about the rest, worrying about them is a waste of time. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What parts of the red pill do you disagree with? Open discussionLike all cults there are elements of truth in red pill - this is how people get sucked into them. However red pill exaggerates and misinterprets these facts to draw false conclusions. For example studies have shown that women are more likely to be promiscuous / cheat when they are ovulating compared to other times in their cycle. This is a fact. Redpill exaggerates this to imply that ALL women will cheat if they are given the opportunity to, which is clearly false. This is just one example but r… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/21 12:18 PM |
| 293 | Woman who poured boiling water on her sleeping boyfriend and recorded it on Snapchat finally arrested and chargedPresumably her defence will include some sort of allegation she's the victim of abuse and this is what drove her to do this | /r/MensRights | 03/02/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Companionship and Intimacy is a part of our biology. Here are some steps to navigate in our absurd society today and be responsible when choosing a partner.This is not men's rights. This is dating advice | /r/MensRights | 02/02/21 10:11 AM |
| 3 | As a 23 yo man I put immense pressure on myself to be as physically attractive as possible. This leads to very toxic thinking and feeling of competition with other men. Does anyone have some enlightenment on how to change this mindset.Agree with hrdp453. This is not even remotely a men's rights issue | /r/MensRights | 02/02/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Refuse to accept feminist terms and assumed axioms when debating them.Agree. There's no point debating an idiot, if you do then you end up looking as stupid as they are. I would probably even respond along those lines rather than getting sucked into a stupid debate. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of forced child support? And the fact that in many jurisdictions it is uncapped or with a very high cap?True this is an issue and I have experienced that myself. However it's hard to see a viable alternative. We could for example make the government pay, and increase taxes to cover the cost of this. However I can see that causing all sorts of other problems such as couples pretending to separate just to access this money, or women getting pregnant just to get money from the government. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/21 11:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of forced child support? And the fact that in many jurisdictions it is uncapped or with a very high cap?Do you have any evidence to support this claim? It's a popular trope on the internet but I'm yet to see any actual evidence to back it up. I'm a divorced dad who pays regular child support. I know a lot of other divorced dads who do the same. In the vast majority of cases I know of, the mothers - for all their other flaws do in fact look after their children well. Yes they benefit from child support because they don't have to work as much, or maybe they get to live in a nicer house. But the chil… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/21 11:05 AM |
| -7 | What do you think of forced child support? And the fact that in many jurisdictions it is uncapped or with a very high cap?I think it's good for the child | /r/MensRights | 30/01/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | A TV star has been told he has to pay twice as much child support after his ex denied him contact with his daughter. The court decided to reward her for breaching their shared care arrangement by doubling her money.Only works if you live in a country that where UK laws are not enforceable as otherwise your partner can flee to UK, claim residence there and apply for maintenance via UK courts | /r/MensRights | 28/01/21 02:55 PM |
| 7 | What's your counter argument for the feminist argument that men's issues are because of the patriarchy and feminism is trying to smash the patriarchy?Stalin was fighting to topple the Nazis but that didn't necessarily make him a good guy | /r/MensRights | 24/01/21 12:35 PM |
| 4 | I'm tired of being the target of revenge for things I didn't do.Since the dawn of time groups of people have banded together to bully others. It just happens to be our turn now. Its not "fair" but life rarely is. Once you see it for what it is, it becomes easier to fight back. To OP, in most cases you can simply ignore the bullies and get on with your life. Don't even engage in debate with these people because its a waste of time. Bullies don't care about what is fair, their interest is in exercising power over people weaker than themselves and you'll never … | /r/MensRights | 21/01/21 10:03 AM |
| 15 | On the dangers of hooking up with women.Not sure this is a men's rights issue, but agree everyone, regardless of gender should follow basic common sense in regards to personal safety | /r/MensRights | 16/01/21 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Munsnet (UK) - avoid like the plague!! Biased Moderators.Maybe the moderators deleted the thread to get rid of all the "screaming banshees". | /r/MensRights | 12/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Why Don't Women Ask Men Out on First Dates?I like being the one to make the first move. That way I only have to interact with women I'm actually interested in. I'd hate to have to passively wait to be asked out by the person I want, all the while being pursued by a bunch of other people I don't want to go on a date with. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Child support rules in Denmark, if father moves country.Regardless of the rules the father should keep.paying child support because if he doesn't the child will suffer | /r/MensRights | 10/01/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hate my wife because she chose to be a SAHM even though she’s brilliant?They don't have her because of feminism. A lot of people of both genders are just haters of anyone who is different to themselves | /r/MensRights | 10/01/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Apparently only pretty white women's careers are newsworthyhttps://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/uk-55597665 Another article from the same news site, about the impact of covid on two young women, who just happen to do typically male things like technology and sport. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-55588236 For this one they managed to find a man to report about (non white obviously) to go alongside the 4 or so women in the story. Considering white men probably make up about 40% of the UK population it's shameful how they are no longer allowed to be included… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/21 08:51 AM |
| 6 | Apparently only pretty white women's careers are newsworthyArticle about the impact of lockdown on the careers of young people in Scotland... Well the careers of young people who are also white women as presumably other people matter less. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/21 08:52 AM |
| -2 | I feel like people hate me for being born male"I feel like people hate me for being born male" Some people do. But most don't. Just ignore the haters and you'll be fine. Yes the government does things that are unfair and we need to stand against them. However it's worth remembering that it's been like that since the dawn of civilisation. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/20 03:40 PM |
| -1 | "I can whatever I want and men shouldn't harass me" feminist had been pushing this narrative for decades and it never worked How will it take them to admit they are wrong ?I can't agree with this post. Nobody should harass anybody. Period | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 01:17 PM |
| 5 | Divorce strategies to keep my shit or as much as possibleBe nice to his ex and try to settle out of court. Less money spent on lawyers means more money for both of them. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/20 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Women's main mechanism of acquiring wealth is through divorce, even if that woman did nothing thing to build that wealth.If she was responsible for Amazon's growth then surely she would have been rich via salary & share options and wouldn't need a big divorce settlement? | /r/MensRights | 22/12/20 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Other Men’s thoughts on abortion?The debate hinges upon whether you think life begins at conception or not. In your post you have used terms like "murder" and "baby" so clearly you think it does. In which case many forms of contraception are also "murder" as they work by preventing the zygote (fertilised egg) from implanting in the uterus. Heck, according to this view, every couple that is trying but failing to have a baby is potentially "killing" all the fertilised eggs that don't result in a successful pregnancy! However I … | /r/MensRights | 18/12/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Talked with a girl who believes USSR states did better in STEM programs than the US because they had more women in STEM programsI guess that's why all the leading tech companies in the world are from the former USSR... oh wait, they're not | /r/MensRights | 13/12/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | If a girl ask how tall I am and then I ask how much does she weigh why am I suddenly in the wrong because both questions are essentially the same thingApart from overweight women, and men pretending to be woke, who sees you as being in the wrong? Most thin women I know fat shame far more than men do. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 17 | My daughter’s birthday..I'd be very cautious about taking her to court. Worst case is not "She gets a fine". Worst case is she vindictively stops all contact, delays the court process as much as possible, makes false allegations of violence and after several months of you not seeing your daughter, your ex wins at court. I'm not saying don't go to court if that's what you want but think carefully about the potential consequences before you do. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/20 03:34 PM |
| 36 | UN women once again shout misandry rather than address real causes of domestic violenceAnd in other news over 10,000,000 australian men didn't kill anyone but let's blame them anyway | /r/MensRights | 26/11/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on this piece? Judge's letter to 14 year old embroiled in custody case.If "Sam" had said he wanted to stay with his mother, the court would have said he's 14 which makes him old enough to decide for himself. However because he didn't choose the option the biased UK courts wanted him to, the judge wrote this letter and overruled it. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 19 | How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/the-devastating-price-of-a-teenage-boy-s-unwanted-advance https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2018/01/the-humiliation-of-aziz-ansari/550541/ | /r/MensRights | 25/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 5 | How feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.Weak men (apologies for this term, I can't think of a better one) have been picked on by others since the dawn of time. As others have said you have to stop seeking their approval and be secure in who you are. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Normal non feminist womenYou're over generalizing here. While it's true that some members worry a lot (too much IMO) about what random crazy feminists say online, there are also many more serious issues discussed. Issues such as circumcision without the consent of the person being circumcised, negative stereotypes of men, false accusations, family court issues, lack of a male say in reproductive issues, different sentencing for the same crime, lack of concern about female statutory rape, and too many other issues to men… | /r/MensRights | 15/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 8 | Woman rapes her heavily-intoxicated (almost blacked out) coworker, but HE'S the cheater?If HE doesn't think he was raped (he clearly doesnt) then I don't see how this is rape. Presumably the co-worker was equally drunk | /r/MensRights | 01/11/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Today I Went to Jail -- And Nobody Gives a ShitYeah but he was probably on an income of maybe, $51k per month so he still has $1k left | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 01:09 PM |
| 3 | What are the benefits of being male?We can pee standing up | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 01:06 PM |
| 8 | Coercive or controlling behaviour in an intimate or family relationship has been a crime in the UK for five year now. Almost all (97%) who have been prosecuted are men. Being a feminist law, that's not surprising but sounds totally wrong. Don't women coercively control men at all?When you ask a male friend to meet you for a drink/dinner/whatever and they say "I need to check with the boss". And we all pretend this statement is just a joke | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Here's how to fix the gender pay gap... Really?!Hahahahahahahahahahahaha No. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 34 | For men, it is not "his body his choice." It is sad that this still applies exclusively to women.I suspect most people not on AITA would agree with you. That sub is just a troll fest | /r/MensRights | 27/10/20 11:24 AM |
| 19 | There's no excuse for people to believe it takes penetration to rape someone. If a woman drugs or blackmails an unwilling man to have sex with him, then she has intent to rape that man. If she succeeds, he was raped.Agree with the post, you'll get a better response if you just stick to one issue (rape of women by men should be a crime) rather than confusing the post by also bringing in issues such as paternity fraud. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | This was the U.K. governments response to the petition to make it so women could be charged with rape against males and they lied through all of it! (This is a right there not letting us have, there not letting us in the U.K. be able to get our women rapists CHARGED WITH RApe)To get a law change we need many more than 24k signatures on a petition, the real problem is that most people in the community simply don't care about this | /r/MensRights | 25/10/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when a girl cheats on her man everyone blames the man and make fun of him but when a man cheats on his girl then he's an asshole and everyone consoles the girl.Women do it because they're standing up for other women. Men do it because they think it will get them laid. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | At a time when Covid is killing more men than women the IMF wants to use this crisis to close gender gap. Never waste a good crisisIf gender equality really did result in a 35% increase in GDP I would expect it to naturally happen for all market driven economies | /r/MensRights | 22/10/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | What are the arguments against "because only a small percentage of sexual assault allegations are false, it should be guilty until proven innocent"?The statistic that only 2 - 10% of allegations are false is a made up number. It's simply not true. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Response for when someone tries to argue that men start all the wars...While we're at it, queen Elizabeth I was also involved in major wars: https://www.elizabethi.org/contents/armada/ | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Mistakes on CustodyI've been through a similar situation to you. Here's my advice. Remember it's a long term game. Think about how you want the situation to be 10 years from now and keep that as your long term goal. You may need to make compromises in the short term to get there. Look after yourself first. You're no good to your daughter if your mental state is a mess. You also need to get accommodation and other logistics sorted so focus on making that happen. Don't be afraid to submit / let yourself get kicked u… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/20 12:32 PM |
| -1 | Child Support is so unfair, if abortion was illegal then yes, it would be fair game, but being that abortion is very legal, child support is very unfair.Actually child support effects the child the most, and they're the one that is least to blame for the situation. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/20 12:14 PM |
| 2 | How to escape an abusive wife while living month-to-month?Sounds to me like you can afford to live separately, but you just don't want to because of the likely drop in your standard of living. Which I completely understand however maybe your best bet is to leave anyway as at least it gets you out of a bad situation. Lawyers are rarely worth it when there is no money to fight over. Try and make your ex realise that and perhaps you can negotiate a split more cheaply. Oh and i wouldn't fight for custody as in today's misansric society you probably won't w… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/20 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Willow Smith says she's 'proud' of mom Jada, 49, for talking about her 'entanglement' with August Alsina, 28: 'That's the real deal'Apparently they were separated at the time so it's not really cheating, is it? | /r/MensRights | 01/10/20 12:53 PM |
| 0 | A woman I was FWB with is slandering me and sabotaging my business after I kicked her out of a group. Everyone is telling me that I shouldn’t respond because she’s a woman, and as a man, I can’t win—even though I have text proof of all her lies. What now?Forget about her and move on You have everything to lose and nothing to gain from this | /r/MensRights | 30/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 34 | UK: Breast-baring drunken mother-of-two, 33, avoids jail after £4,000 kebab shop rampage when she falsely claimed she had been rapedFor some reason UK society has a real problem when it comes to putting women in prison. No matter how badly they behave they are simply unwilling to do it. Compared to this guy who got 8 weeks for racist language during a football game: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-7954421/Brighton-supporter-jailed-eight-weeks-racist-abuse-game-against-Tottenham-October.html | /r/MensRights | 30/09/20 03:59 PM |
| -2 | 3.5 year custody battle won.Congratulations on your win at court. However please try to view this as being about ensuring the best outcome for your daughter rather than a personal victory over your ex. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Neil Lyndon on Zdenek Hanzlik and the fight for Fathers’ RightsI've noticed I can never get to this site any more. Is it blocked? | /r/MensRights | 23/09/20 07:33 AM |
| 6 | He has every right to do so after what she didNo he didn't. She still has parental rights. If she wants to be near her kids she can always move closer. Or she can go and visit. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Fiamengo File: Man Forced to Pay Alimony to Ex-GirlfriendSo if she gets a new boyfriend, does the alimony stop? | /r/MensRights | 17/09/20 11:21 AM |
| 6 | Surprisingly light sentence considering she was a police officerThe maximum sentence in Australia for this is 10 years and a $150k fine, she got less than half of that | /r/MensRights | 16/09/20 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Court rules that women were NOT discriminated against by pension age being increased to 65... to match the mens pension age.I like the Tories | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | A friend is going through a divorce and he told me about a new tax law in the US in regards to alimony payments. How is this fair?Tax in general isn't fair, in the uk the top 1% pay something like 33% of income taxe while the bottom 42% pay nothing | /r/MensRights | 09/09/20 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Why is it that you can’t talk about red pill issues or men’s issues on Reddit?Because the majority if people on the specific reddits you are using don't agree with you | /r/MensRights | 09/09/20 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Suicide rate for men reaches its highest level in two decadesNor anything about the complete lack of support organisations for men dealing with these issues. There is a very strong correlation between divorce and suicide for men but this is almost never talked about | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 06:52 AM |
| 14 | If you ever do anything wrong, just blame a manJK makes a couple of tweets that offended trans people and generated a lot of blowback. Her defence? " her interest in trans issues stemmed from being a survivor of abuse and having concerns around single-sex spaces " Translation: Her ex boyfriend from almost 20 years ago was allegedly abusive to her, and that is what has made her transphobic. It's nothing to do with her own prejudices, it's all the fault of her ex partner from loooong ago. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "Kill all men"?Reaponse: probably sensible to kill all the spiders first | /r/MensRights | 14/08/20 10:50 AM |
| 11 | Older men charged more for using Tinder's premium service, Choice mystery shoppers findIt makes perfect business sense but is probably illegal. These men are generally richer than young queer females and likely willing to pay more. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/20 10:47 AM |
| 6 | Taylor Swift prefers her men circumcised (2013)Because it was posted on a gossip site which is known for rubbish stories, and is quoting a single unnamed source to back it up. Also not even taylor swift would be dumb enough to say something like that, though I realise there are many people dumb enough to believe it | /r/MensRights | 09/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | “You’re not being a gentleman”Heh, why not teach him to pretend to be a gentleman when he wants to get laid, and then act however he wants the rest of the time. That's a joke by the way :-) | /r/MensRights | 08/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift prefers her men circumcised (2013)I call bullshit on this story | /r/MensRights | 07/08/20 10:47 AM |
| 6 | Man convicted of rape after drug party and he said she pulled him on top of herLooks like a he said / she said case with no other evidence. Scary that's all it takes to convict these days. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Why can’t I be a single empowered man? 😑Agree here - a group which is supposedly about living apart from women, yet women is pretty much all they talk about :-) | /r/MensRights | 02/08/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Double Standard when it comes to MarriageThe woman doesn't get the final say. If you don't want to marry someone then just don't. If they leave find someone else. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | UK: Mother, 39, who asked three different men to murder her ex-husband after he won child custody as she is jailed for nearly 10 yearsEven more concerning is how none of the left leaning newspapers even covered the story | /r/MensRights | 01/08/20 12:41 PM |
| -1 | Where does this idea come that male sexuality is inherently disgusting rooted in?Which insult is worse - a dk or a ct? | /r/MensRights | 01/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 6 | This post about behaviors that drove me to prefer single fatherhood was flagged as troll/satire. And I was permabanned from 'unpopularopinion' for "inceling". Did I say something that promotes hate speech against women or incel behavior? I'd appreciate honest comments, whether or not you agree.I've seen much worse in that sub go unmodded particularly towards disabled people. But NEWSFLASH! Some reddit mods use their power to push their own opinions onto their subs | /r/MensRights | 01/08/20 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Recent study recommends less focus on children seeing both parents, and more on "protecting" children - I wonder why?Supposedly representative survey is almost 3/4 mothers and their families, maybe 1/5 fathers and VIRTUALLY NO CHILDREN AT ALL. Suprise suprise it recommends changing the balance away from enabling children to see both parents and in favour of restricting access in the name of "safety". Link to source: https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/895173/assessing-risk-harm-children-parents-pl-childrens-cases-report_.pdf And to story: https://… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 11 | Men and women's working hours 'nearly equal' - published today but referencing a survey from 6 years ago...Yet more rubbish from our state funded news service. Describing a survey from 6 YEARS AGO as "New". Also interesting that there is no comparison of the wage gap (men earn 18% more) to the hours worked gap (men work 50% more) - I wonder why? :-) | /r/MensRights | 28/07/20 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Amateur boxer, 55, who lied about having a vasectomy has his resultant rape conviction quashedFinally some common sense, though I suspect there was worry it would set a precedent that women lying about contraception could also be "rape" | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Success: gender bias against menI wonder if you plotted a graph of male home ownership versus divorce rates, where there would be an inverse correlation | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 4 | BBC News publishes a news story about Johnny Depp's defamation suit against Amber Heard. It basically reads like a recounting of a domestic violence case against Depp and ignores Heard's admissions of violence against him.They're just reporting on what Amber Heard said in court today. Obviously her testimony is biased in favour of herself. Johnny had his turn last week, and to be fair to BBC and even the Guardian, they gave his testimony a lot of coverage also. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/20 12:21 PM |
| 7 | London, divorce capital of the worldLook past the headline at the specifics of the case: He's jailed because he has no assets to pay any fine (apart from his former family home they are fighting over) She's left him for a Spanish footballer, so presumably is very wealthy and has no need of this home In London "need" is how assets are determined. This is how they usually justify giving the entirety of the family home to the wife rather than the husband - because she has the kids and "needs" it more. Clearly this rule doesn't appl… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | So, I went on r/AskFeminists, and asked what rights exactly women were fighting for. This is the best they could give. They even blooocked me from the suub, so I couldn't rebuttal back.I laughed when I read the point that women are expected to be agreeable - seriously? In my experience the world is full of disagreeable women :-) | /r/MensRights | 11/07/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Getting falsely accused of rape, pedophilia, abuse, and molestation from an ex, 6 years later and it has completely degraded my mental health and I feel so damn lost.Don't get a lawyer and don't sue. This is bad advice. You'll waste all your money, waste years of your life, probably won't win anything significant and the stress will make your mental health worse. "Friends" that believed rubbish like this weren't real friends anyway and you're better off without them. Just block your ex on everything, block everyone that believed her, find some new friends, forget about it and move on. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/20 07:39 AM |
| 5 | Family court is possibly the most unjust system in the first worldLol - you sound dumb because you don't even use capital letters. You probably even think it's "cool" to write this way. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | My Ex and Mother of my children is ruining my life...I've been through a similar situation to you. It's hard to distill all I've learnt into a single post, but here are a few things I've learned. Play the long game. Parenthood is for life, and while you can't get lost time back, sometimes you need to let things go in the short term. For example, if it's a choice between letting your kids play on the iPad, or not seeing them for 6 months I'd probably let them play on the iPad. Courts are, for the most part, useless when it comes to ensuring fathers… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Gaslighting red flags -- common experience?The term "gaslighting" has changed from meaning someone who psychologically makes you doubt your sanity to someone who just doesn't agree with you. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/20 03:37 PM |
| 7 | How do you all try to talk to people about the excesses of Me Too / Believe All Women?I'm not a religious man, but there's a quote from the bible that applies here : "Don't throw pearls to pigs because they will trample them and turn to attack you". Meaning don't waste time debating people who aren't receptive to your message. For those that are receptive, I find the most effective approach is to open topics of conversation but let people draw their own conclusions. For example: "What confuses me about the Brett kavanaugh accuser is that she is so certain he was the person who ra… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/20 09:25 AM |
| 15 | Children's right to have a relationship with their father to be reduced in UKBuried in the middle of the article: " A review of the presumption of "parental involvement" and the balance between risk of harm to children and victims, and the right of the child to have a relationship with both parents " Translation: If a woman claims she is a victim of domestic violence and doesn't want her children to see their father she is more likely to get her way. Ok - this is just a review and maybe nothing will happen, but considering the panel is made up of 13 women, plus a mal… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | I abandoned my childrenTime heals and your children have a lot of life left. I wouldn't give up yet. Let go of the past wrongs done to you as you can't change them. Get your life in order, in particular your mental health. If you're happy and have your life in order then your children are much more likely to want to know you. Oh, and 17 year olds don't have much time for their parents anyway, even when things are good! I can still remember myself at that age. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | The ad was against masculine toxicity and was meant to make them more money but then surprisingly men fight backWhile I agree with the sentiment, the analysis of this chart doesn't stack up. The add was made in January 2019, not September as OP is suggesting. In fact it appears the share price of gillette spiked upwards immediately after the add , before returning to it's January level by the end of the year. And after that is covid impact as others have mentioned. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/20 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Danish women organizing baiting of boyfriends to check their fidelityAgree. If I was in this guys situation I'd be expecting a scam or prostitute | /r/MensRights | 15/06/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Biologically, men have a significantly higher risk of cardiovascular disease. Yet most attention/programs are focused on women.In every country in the world women have a higher life expectancy than men. Yet we still spend more money on women's health than mens health | /r/MensRights | 13/06/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Divorce and Child Support Voice Discussion- Next Friday 12th at 5PM GMT!It's an akward time for me unfortunately. I think it should be easier to divorce but less financially lucrative. So if someone is unhappy they are free to leave but the other person is not required to support them financially if they do. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/20 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Divorce and Child Support Voice Discussion- Next Friday 12th at 5PM GMT!" with a penalty for the person filing for divorce" I fundamentally disagree with this - say your partner is abusing or cheating on you, you're effectively trapped in the marriage. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/20 10:05 AM |
| 3 | As a 19 year old, I need help.For a 19 year old you are over thinking this too much - assuming this post is genuine and not a theoretical exercise! My advice - just don't get married. There's no practical point (unless you live in a country where sex is forbidden outside marriage) and if you want to end the relationship then lawyers are required. Anything involving lawyers is expensive and not good. I'd also recommend not making jokes or commenting publicly on gender issues as even well meaning comments can be misconstrued… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 24 | Seth Rogen explains to his son why he will always come secondLet's just reverse that one and see how dumb it sounds. A girl in Saudi Arabia asks her father why women aren't allowed have a career. He replies, "well, in the West, they positively discriminate to ensure women get good jobs. So just to be fair, in saudi arabia we're going to stop women from getting good education and having a career." | /r/MensRights | 04/06/20 11:15 AM |
| 8 | Because men are too privileged to have issues in any situation, right? (love the flair btw <3)What always amuses me about people like this (and MGTOW, their male equivalents) is that despite claiming to despise / not need the other gender they never stop analysing and discussing them. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/20 11:33 AM |
| -1 | Influencer fears women that aren't given "Luxury Items" for free will resort to high-end prostitution. So, Men not giving women free stuff causes prostitution?" I see this as a good example of how men as a whole are associated with negative aspects of society that are actually the personal choices of individuals, in this case, the individual women themselves. " .... and presumably the men who are offering them money for sex? Or have you just brushed over that part in your mind? Plus you're working off the assumption that prostitution is even a bad thing - not everyone sees it that way. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/20 10:28 AM |
| -17 | Influencer fears women that aren't given "Luxury Items" for free will resort to high-end prostitution. So, Men not giving women free stuff causes prostitution?Struggling to see what this has to do with mens rights | /r/MensRights | 31/05/20 11:29 PM |
| 5 | So, I can't tattoo my child until they are 16 or 18 (depending on state), but I can chop off their foreskin just so it "looks better". Please explain.Fair point, my social circle (many American expats and their partners) is not necessarily representative. However the point remains parents are able to have this mostly cosmetic procedure performed on babies while others quite rightly require the subject be old enough to consent to the procedure that is being done to them. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 25 | So, I can't tattoo my child until they are 16 or 18 (depending on state), but I can chop off their foreskin just so it "looks better". Please explain.It's mostly a US thing as well. My European girlfriend can't understand it | /r/MensRights | 30/05/20 10:51 AM |
| 0 | Some blatant sexism in the rules of r/blatantfuckingsexism1,917 members, 5 online Why worry about them? There will always be a few crazies out there | /r/MensRights | 28/05/20 02:46 PM |
| 12 | I am a woman and part of my job is interviewing fathers on how to better include them in federally subsidized parenting programs, what I have heard breaks my heart.I live in the UK, and my children were deemed "at risk" presumably as a result of accusations made against me by my ex wife, although I was never told that specifically. One of my children has severe disabilities. I was summoned to a meeting to discuss whether any safeguards were required in order for me to see my children. My ex wife got to go in first and she told her side of the story. Then it was my turn. I'd been told that the health and social workers for my child would be at the meeti… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/20 10:00 AM |
| 12 | Do you guys think this is true?I agree - I don't think old, childless women are loved unconditionally for example. Nor are unattractive women. There's another saying along the lines of - nobody cares about you unless you're a powerful man or an attractive woman. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Divorced dads, was it worth it?I went through the worst divorce imaginable, but yes, it was worth it. I lost 85% of my money, was ordered to pay 30% of my net income for life and didnt see my kids for the best part of 2 years. If you're really not happy you should leave. There's more to life than money - I feel free again and have met someone new who makes me much happier than my ex wife ever did. The relationship with my children has been rebuilt and life, in general, is great. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/20 08:29 AM |
| 28 | Patriarchy doesn't existYeah, doubt a feminist would let you say all that, they'd be too busy spouting their own bullshit to even listen to ours | /r/MensRights | 25/05/20 08:17 AM |
| 2 | AlL ReAl MeN kNOw HoW tO ChANgE a TiRE. YoU MusT Be A wOmAN!I tire of changing tyres | /r/MensRights | 25/05/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Men in r/mensrights love women and many of us are in a happy relationship with a woman.I'm in a happy relationship of 5 years. My GF, while not an MRA, agrees with pretty much everything we are fighting for - "Diversity" in the workplace is mostly bullshit, women dont need special rules to succed, circumcision is barbaric, men get screwed over by the family court... Most of her friends share these views also. The fact is, there are lots of women out there who agree with us but are afraid to speak out in case they get lynched. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | What is wrong with the court systemFair enough the headline is misleading and the father's actions were wrong. But jail? C'mon, why are these judges so precious? The guy has lost is son, is obviously upset. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/20 11:51 PM |
| -1 | 16-year-old boy shares his story about being forced to be trans by motherI agree it sounds made up to me. | /r/MensRights | 23/05/20 08:42 PM |
| -2 | Psychologist Offers Advice For How To Date As A Millennial Man And What To Look For In A PartnerI watched 40 seconds and already bullshit, sorry. He claims that traits such as being a leader, having a sense if humour and social network are labelled toxic masculinity. No one has ever said that. Also if women want to date a particular type of man then fair enough. I make similar decisions when deciding which type of women to date. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 9 | Daubney: Working class men are treated as COVID-19’s expendable victimsA report by ‘Women in global health’ concluded; “Epidemics are a gendered vulnerability, with their socioeconomic impact disproportionately high among women, even when, as it seems the case with COVID-19, mortality is higher among men” Lol, do they even realise how stupid they sound | /r/MensRights | 20/05/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | This! This is what being a dad meansSo being a dad is all about home maintenance now? If I can't do that am I a bad dad? | /r/MensRights | 20/05/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | I was accused of and investigated for allegedly trying to bomb a hospital in the name of men's rights activism. It's affected me ever since.I'd say the youtube channel is more the reason than the Boynton article. I looked at the article. I can't see any pictures of you on there - at least not immediately available, and the whole webpage looks so rubbish I can't imagine many people take it seriously | /r/MensRights | 20/05/20 09:20 AM |
| 4 | Lobbying MPs re the Domestic Abuse BillMe as well. According to ONS 2 women per week were killed by a current or former partner in England and Wales during the year to March 2019. Which means that over 99.99% of men DIDN'T kill anyone. Perhaps that 99.99% of men could be useful allies in the fight against domestic violence but instead they'd rather alienate us by framing it as a man vs woman issue. Because of our gender, we're being excluded from the conversation. It shouldn't be a man vs woman issue, rather it's an abuser vs non… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/20 08:32 AM |
| 6 | Where have we gone wrongThis is Reddit - essentially a wild west of people from age 10 - 100 hiding behind avatars and writing whatever crap they want, safe in their anonymity. What do you realistically expect? I'd say that compared to other subs we're doing pretty well actually! As for groups making actual change - I'm a member of Families Need Fathers (in the UK), they're making an actual change. I'm sure there are other groups also if you care to look for them. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/20 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Lobbying MPs re the Domestic Abuse BillYour heart is in the right place here, but what you're saying is far too controversial to be taken seriously by an MP in the current climate. The stock response I received from my MP ("statistically, women experience the majority of the more serious forms of physical violence") shuts down your entire argument. I'm not saying I disagree with you, but I can't see an MP who is concerned about their public perception buying into this. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | why do men always have to pay the brutal price and females get a pass on everything simce dawn of time? i question these to men who still think females are opressed. https://youtu.be/xd-MGY2Fyt8Because evolution. Every animal species is the same. The main victim of male opression is other men. Women are the prize. You can see this repeated across almost every species on the planet. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/20 12:11 PM |
| 5 | About feminist moviesPoint break is one of my all time favourite movies - directed by a woman. Not sure if this counts as "feminist" but it's full of gratuitous shots of Keanu and Patrick with their shirts off, and a woman teaching a man how to surf as a key plot point. Gone with the wind is another - while it's true that Rhett gets the best line in the movie, Scarlett's character is much better developed and she's clearly a "strong independent woman" Both of these movies were massive hits and pre-date the current f… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/20 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Dad gives up eight-year battle for kids he 'clearly loved' after being alienated by mum "The judge said the children would suffer..“the cause of that harm lies squarely with this mother”" Tweet with me to seek justiceThis statement from the judge is all the "punishment" the mother will get, despite being the cause of all this harm. Ignore court orders for 8 years and you will get told off anonymously by the judge. Not really much of a deterrent! The courts in the UK are useless as far as these types of matters are concerned. After so long the children are probably mostly grown up by now anyway. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/20 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Australian feminist Clementine “Kill All Men” Ford doxes 14 year old boy who told her online to “put a shotgun in your [own] mouth”.Can somebody take her face off the image in this post as I don't like seeing it every time I come to this sub | /r/MensRights | 13/05/20 07:16 AM |
| -6 | UK: Years of listening to friends complain about their husbands left female Journalist convinced she was right to stay single - But now at 64 she admits: I really do need a man. OP: A bit late now!This post belongs in MGTOW, not here. She's entitled to her opinion. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Could a man do the same thing for men only?TBH I thought it was a pretty good joke. I.e. not meant to be taken seriously | /r/MensRights | 10/05/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Feminist PROFESSOR (how???) goes on national TV and releases a book on how eating meat is toxic masculinity and part of the patriarchy.... Heres why she does what she doesIf she's such a nutter, why do we want more people to listen to her? | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Facebook banned me for sarcastically pointing out sexual objectification of men.How did Facebook know your post was supposed to be read sarcastically? If someone said that who wasn't being sarcastic I would be glad to see the post removed. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 11:35 AM |
| 23 | Lobbying MPs re the Domestic Abuse BillI wrote to my MP about this one last time (chuka umunna) suggesting that a more representative consultation group would be better than the current female dominated group. I didn't say anything about men vs women, whether I was gay, straight or whatever, I simply said a more diverse consultation group would be better than the current all women + one family court judge panel. His response didnt address any of my points and just contained the usual lines of more women than men being victims of dome… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/20 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Children most often killed by mothers(2012)In New Zealand, back in 2012 | /r/MensRights | 06/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Clear link between accusations of domestic violence and changes to legal aid rules in UKLink to source: https://fnf.org.uk/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=582:non-molestation-orders-and-covid-19&catid=42 NMO = Non-molestation order, similar to a restraining order in the US. It's a standard way of dealing with a domestic violence allegation. The graph clearly shows a dramatic increase in these orders from the time legal aid rules where changed. Occupation order is when the judge kicks you out of your house. It's worth noting that these have remained flat - most likely b… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | The case for penalizing infidelity in marriage or other committed relations that are legally recognized.In theory there is some argument for punishing infidelity, as it can cause real and lasting harm to the cheated on person. However practically I don't see how it could work. Relationships are such grey areas in general it just simply wouldn't be possible to do this in a fair manner. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Judge rules mother was 'wrong' to take son to Greek island of Paros to flee coronavirus outbreak as she faces legal battle with estranged husband to force boy to return to UKMy prediction is that she will delay the case as long as possible but will eventually lose. She'll be let off with a warning so no real penalty. Society will say the fact she lost proves the system is "fair", completely ignoring the fact that those those lost months / years of contact between the father and his son can never be replaced. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 10:32 AM |
| 1 | The idea that some women get to make millions just be showing some skin online disgusts meIt's mostly men that are buying it though | /r/MensRights | 03/05/20 10:25 AM |
| 3 | What's with all the "moderate" concern trolls asking us to please be more supportive of feminism?Perhaps it's just one person with a lot of time on their hands :-) | /r/MensRights | 02/05/20 08:10 AM |
| 53 | Isn't weird how when a girl is unhappy with what a guy is doing in a relationship he is blamed and told to change, but when a guy is unhappy he is told to stop controlling her and it is her choice.Like when a man is angry at his girlfriend he's at fault for being angry, but if she's angry at him the man is at fault for making her angry. I even had a judge ask me this when I was in court fighting for access to my children. My ex wife didn't even show up to the hearing, and the judge asked me, "Well what did you do to make her not want to let you see your children?" | /r/MensRights | 30/04/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Woman takes her son and moves to her parents during lockdown. Presumably the husband is now living alone and going to work while she has her family around. Yet the burden is all on her.My beef isn't with the mother, it's with the newspaper coverage of the story. Here's an article from the same newspaper, in this case it's the woman who is forced to live apart from her children because she's a key worker.: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/11383295/coronavirus-nhs-nurse-leave-children/ Notice that regardless of who is the key worker forced to live apart from their children, the story is told from the woman's perspective, she's the hero and the man is just an accessory to the woman … | /r/MensRights | 25/04/20 06:14 PM |
| 18 | Woman takes her son and moves to her parents during lockdown. Presumably the husband is now living alone and going to work while she has her family around. Yet the burden is all on her.A very long article describing how hard it is for this woman to be apart from her husband, despite her having her child and parents around. Not once does it consider how it is for the husband who is now living alone while still going to work. Apparently she's the hero in this story. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Media collusion in suppression and spin of the story of two meth head girls home invasion kidnapping and torture of an Austrailian man.This is not a "fluff piece" and I'm not sure what you're getting at by suggesting "collusion" | /r/MensRights | 20/04/20 12:45 PM |
| 4 | Locker room talkI've heard it - not often though. Like most things women complain about "men" in general doing, only 1% of men actually do these things. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/20 12:53 PM |
| 14 | A very common feminist attitude: raising men's issues (such as suicide) is "disqualifying women's issues", men who do that should instead shut up and "join the feminist movement".Seriously what do you expect from "Ask Feminists" subreddit. If you're not a feminist you're going to get downvoted or banned just for posting | /r/MensRights | 11/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | what would you doI'd focus on improving your life and staying in contact with your son, even if FaceTime is all you can get. Make sure every interaction he has with you is friendly and positive. Don't be hard on yourself for not seeing him more - it's not your fault this is happening and you're doing your best. Doing this maximises the likelihood your son wants to know you as he gets older and reaches out to you. If you're successful, happy and nice to be around he'll be proud of you and want to know you | /r/MensRights | 08/04/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | These are the legal aid requirements for family courts in the UK. Many are influenced by feminist organisations.Did you actually manage to get legal aid via this approach? I'd be very surprised if it actually worked | /r/MensRights | 31/03/20 06:40 PM |
| 268 | "When women hold off from marrying men, we call it independence. When men hold off from marrying women, we call it fear of commitment."Women call it that, but men don't. I don't think I've ever heard a man say another man is "afraid of commitment " | /r/MensRights | 29/03/20 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Female presenter on Penn & Teller shows feels that she needs to justify her clothes because of the letters she kept getting from women.Compared to: https://www.smh.com.au/entertainment/tv-and-radio/karl-stefanovics-sexism-experiment-today-presenter-wears-same-suit-for-a-year-20141115-11ncdz.html | /r/MensRights | 16/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Look at the disparity of male/female death rate in Italy COVID-19 breakout. Some highlight that man smoke more than women. But someone points out that are medical personal that, with lack of resources, choose who can be treated or not.In Italy women smoke as much as men | /r/MensRights | 14/03/20 10:52 AM |
| -17 | Men get sick more by the coronavirus, wamen most affectedLearn how to spell women | /r/MensRights | 14/03/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | It just drives me nuts how ridiculously easy women have itPeople don't stop looking for love when they turn 30! Life is not even half way over by then. Women really only have a short window to find someone before they start becoming invisible to men. Over the entire course of a person's life I'd say men have it easier on this one. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Study in Europe shows a MASSIVE disparity in job callbacks- in some cases, women are 8x more likely to be called backHow else are companies going to hit their diversity targets? | /r/MensRights | 12/03/20 11:54 AM |
| 0 | It just drives me nuts how ridiculously easy women have it"They want love, relatively easy to find" Not really. As a 44 year old man, it's definitely easier for me than for women my age. "They get a stronger friend circle" I don't agree here either - perhaps at a superficial level they do but many of their "friends" aren't really people they can count on. More like frienemies. I agree with the rest of your post though | /r/MensRights | 11/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | No causal link between police action and Caroline Flack’s death, watchdog findshttps://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8007859/Love-Island-rocked-death-tragedy-spell-end-ITV2-reality-show.html | /r/MensRights | 05/03/20 07:34 AM |
| 1 | No causal link between police action and Caroline Flack’s death, watchdog findsNot to mention the two contestants on her show that killed themselves that nobody seems to care about because they weren't a famous white woman | /r/MensRights | 04/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Banned from r/relationship advice for my response.You could have given the same advice without using the word "slut" | /r/MensRights | 04/03/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Getting increasingly sad about how nobody cares about the depression and lonelines of menOther men care. More than you think | /r/MensRights | 04/03/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Guys says hearing both sides of the story is important and commenters rush to call him a neck beard and cringey. How is this normalized? I was always taught that both sides of any story are importantShouldn't this post have the people's identities hidden? | /r/MensRights | 04/03/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Survey further proves that most women don't actually want equality, and just want a free ride through life.It's not exactly a representative survey - 2000 of mostly her Twitter followers who presumably all think the same | /r/MensRights | 04/03/20 11:45 AM |
| 6 | Australian senate voted to strip Men's Rights activist Bettina Arndt of her Order of AustraliaNobody is saying that violence is ok. The point both the police and Bettina were making, is that we should not preempt the investigation by jumping to conclusions. If we don't understand the reasons why some people commit acts of violence, then these acts will continue to happen. Perhaps if Rowan had been provided with appropriate counselling and support this tragedy would never have happened. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Remember: In the UK if you hire women, you are literally considered Guilty until proven Innocent if you pay women less for any reason and cannot prove it is not because of gender.There's no way Newswatch is worth £700k. It's a 10 minute show that runs once per week ffs. Perhaps Jeremy Vine is overpaid but Samira is never worth that much. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | BBC Article states women are more likely to be killed by a partner or an ex - Completely glosses over their own statistic showing that there were twice as many male victims over all (208 female - 395 male)"149 women were killed by 147 men in the UK in 2018" In 2018 the UK population was 66.44 million, approximately 33.22 million men. So that means that 99.94% of men didn't kill their partners in 2018, but somehow were all guilty. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/20 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Man kills wife and children. Sad story. Look at headline. “How to stop **men** from killing their wives and children”We'll do anything we can to stop this... except actually trying to find out why he did it | /r/MensRights | 21/02/20 12:23 PM |
| 5 | 'Outdated family-court rape views need tackling'I looked into this case. For those who are interested, the legal judgement can be found here (warning, it's a long read): https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/jh-v-mf-judgment.pdf This situation is wrong on so many levels. First of all, if this woman was raped, why didn't she go to the police and get the matter prosecuted via a criminal court? All she has done is raise it as as part of a dispute over child access. As a criminal matter it would have had a proper investigation, and … | /r/MensRights | 21/02/20 11:10 AM |
| 30 | Three suicides associated with Love Island, including its violent host who bludgeoned her boyfriend while he slept. But men’s rights groups are the problem.Where does the article lay the blame on mens rights groups? | /r/MensRights | 18/02/20 03:40 PM |
| 10 | Anger in relation to this subTwo wrongs don't make a right in my opinion | /r/MensRights | 11/02/20 11:51 AM |
| 9 | Mainstream media all but ignored the recent evidence, no sponsor has dropped her, and now the Metoo movement doubled down in support of Amber Heard.I know many men who are in happy relationships with women. It's not always bad. Though I would recommend being aware of the potential risks, and stay away from psychos. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/20 11:49 AM |
| 13 | Mainstream media all but ignored the recent evidence, no sponsor has dropped her, and now the Metoo movement doubled down in support of Amber Heard.A Google search for "Amber Heard news" reveals that many mainstream media outlets are, in fact, covering this story. Including the Daily Mail and Daily Mirror in Britain, two of the largest UK papers. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 35 | The student organization of Helsinki Uni declared itself feminist. Membership is mandatory for all students. If you have strong anti-feminist views, though luck, you still have to pay the membership fee or change university.I presume there's nothing to stop all the non-feminist members from voting in a new leadership. The problem is that most students can't be bothered. At my uni you only needed several hundred votes to win the election despite there being about 20 thousand students. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/20 11:25 AM |
| 18 | Bartender mum, 33, is accused of killing her husband by setting him ON FIRE as he sat in an armchair inside their family home after a 'petty argument' - leaving their five children without a fatherMy prediction is that she will claim he was an abusive and controlling partner and setting him on fire was an act of self defence. Also that it's not fair to deprive the children of their only remaining parent by sending her to prison. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/20 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Are a lot of men really giving up on dating and marriage?You're probably better off asking this question in an ask men sub - in here you are more likely to find men who are anti marriage than in the world in general. I'd say that many men know the risks but think it won't happen to them. And others are simply weak and go along with what the woman says. Heck, many of us drink, smoke, take drugs, drive our cars fast... etc despite the risks, why be any more cautious about marriage. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 23 | The Dangerous Rise Of Men Who Won’t Date “Woke” Women. OP: Feminist man hating women rarely have children."I could go over all the things he’s said; I could use data to prove how wrong he is" Except she didn't, because she couldn't. All she did was post picture of new bad guy, then mention a lot of completely unrelated bad things like Donald trump and bad tinder experiences to somehow imply they are all related. Except they're not. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/20 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Wonder if the paper could get away with saying "Sandra Evens distracts fans with her tits at the gym."....To be fair the sun writes things like that all the time about women. They only recently got rid of topless page 3 girls | /r/MensRights | 16/01/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Food for thought. Violation human rights. I have had my right to travel overseas withdrawn because of child support. I refuse to comply with CS because my child’s mother illegally denies me access to my child. They do nothing to help me gain my rightful access but deny my OS travel/work/income.Sometimes you have to submit even if it's unfair. Make the best of a bad situation | /r/MensRights | 16/01/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | At this point why even be in a relationship with a woman? The laws are so bad it's not worth the riskThe laws may be bad but not all women are | /r/MensRights | 16/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Even if a woman is at fault, is she still more likely to have child custody?Yes | /r/MensRights | 16/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | He was 18, but at least they finally called it rapeIt's rape because she was his teacher and had authority over him | /r/MensRights | 16/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | B.C. psychologist apologizes for one-sided opinion in family court | An apparently man-hating psychologist has been forced out of consulting on child custody court cases. A small win for Canadian fathers.In my experience the old traditional male judges are the worst for men. Female judges are generally much fairer | /r/MensRights | 16/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Dear Men: So you think you want a ‘strong, independent woman’The intended audience of this post is not men, despite what the author says. The intended audience is women who think they are strong and independent. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/20 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Had Epiphany about FeminismSimilar to how mgtows spend more time complaining about women than actually going their own way... | /r/MensRights | 13/01/20 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Best response to "No wonder you're single"?I just thought it was because I was ugly | /r/MensRights | 09/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Why is the default reaction to Men's issues always "Incel, you can't get laid!"?Because if deep down you know other person is right but don't want to admit it, the only way to respond without backing down is to insult them. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 7 | Bringing attention to r/LeftWingMaleAdvocatesWhat does "left wing" even mean anyway. Is a working class person who wants the rich taxed more to subsidise the poor, but is against immigration left or right wing? How about rich banker who wants less tax but is pro immigration and pro gay marriage. Are they left or right wing? | /r/MensRights | 09/01/20 12:40 PM |
| 6 | How would you argue against "females are "superior" to males because all embryos start as females, the female sex came before the male sex in evolution, and males evolved later from females" that misandrists bring up?Why bother arguing about this? Their argument is ridiculous and i suspect very few people agree with it. I'd just let it go and focus on more important issues. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/20 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Let's be for something again, not just against something.I think what he's trying to say is there is too much hating on feminists rather than being in favour of improving the rights of men. I'm inclined to agree. Personally I think all the posts which are just a screenshot of something nasty a feminist said on social media, or how somebody got banned from a feminist reddit sub are not worthwhile. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/20 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Andrew Pain: How I won custody of my daughters and what NOT to do if you’re battling in court!Point #8 is where so many men fall down. They get falsely accused, react with anger and their reaction becomes "evidence" that adds credibility to the false accusation. It's not fair bit life rarely is unfortunately. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/20 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Women are getting desperate, they are now marrying themselves because Men Right Movement is effective.She's just a media grad trying to get famous | /r/MensRights | 06/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Single dads, what are some struggles you face that society doesnt seem to notice?Trying to get a double buggy on to a bus. Everyone gets cross at the delay but nobody helps | /r/MensRights | 05/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Fury as one of 12 Israeli men accused of taking part in the 'gang rape' of a British teenager vows to sue the 19-year-old for compensationHe's 18 and described as a "youth" and a man. She's 19 but still just a "teenager" | /r/MensRights | 05/01/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | "These aren't real feminists. They're not representative of the majority of feminists. They don't count." How does one address this argument?I'm not sure you needed to "win" these arguments. A feminist who acknowledges men are also victims of discrimination is on our side as far as I'm concerned. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | "Beta Males" and incels are treated like there's something wrong with them. What's up with that? They are only human."Alpha male" just means the dominant male in a particular group. All the others are betas. It's even possible to be both - i could be alpha male in my team at work but a beta male amongst my friends outside the office. All these other definitions of alpha and beta are just redpill/pua crap that people have made up without any justification. Personally I ignore them. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Woman ordered to pay ex $200K after trashing his reputation onlineThere is nothing valid about your argument, you just made it up. It's not even possible for a nation to "commit suicide" lol | /r/MensRights | 04/01/20 03:34 PM |
| -1 | I’m 16 and I’m forced to hold the door and let my sister sit down on the subway and I have to stand up? It’s stupid that I have to do all this extra shit because it’s gentlemen like I don’t care at all about itYou're 16, which means you're allowed to rebel. If you want that seat on the train just take it. If your parents ask you to move just say, "no thanks boomer" and then stare sullenly into space. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/20 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Another feminist re-writing of the Cyprus rape case in The Guardian.Can I get some links for points 2 and 3 please? Also about her criminal history. I'm not aware of any of these being true. Tbh I'm currently of the opinion that this woman is telling the truth. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/20 10:51 AM |
| 6 | Feminists ruin everythingWhile I understand the sentiment a lot of the stuff in your post hasn't really happened yet. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 3 | My problem with the quote "men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them". Quote (in-depth analysis)Good point the last one, an ex of mine was slapping me repeatedly during an argument and i had no idea how to make her stop - painfully aware that attempts to defend myself could easily be misconstrued | /r/MensRights | 28/12/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | My problem with the quote "men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them". Quote (in-depth analysis)I don't really care if women laugh at me or not. What I'm afraid of is that my vindictive ex wife stops me seeing my kids, or takes me back to court to try and get more money. Or some crazy at work destroys my career with false allegations. Also I don't really care if women are afraid a man might kill them. 99.9% of men are not going to do this and their fear is irrational. Statistically as a man I'm more likely to be a victim of homicide than a woman is. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/19 11:13 AM |
| 35 | Australian court prohibits man accused of rape of introducing evidence that his accuser has made 12 previous false accusationsRulings like this help nobody but false accusers. Genuine victims are also hurt becasue the end result is that they are less likely to be believed. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | The rules of r/pinkpillfeminism ... So we can't say that men have issues too but if there is a post that says that only women have issues, we can't disagree? Nice rules.Don't worry about them, they're too dumb to even think of an original name for themselves lol | /r/MensRights | 21/12/19 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Mother wants to kidnap child by leaving the country, since father had an affair. All for Reddit cheers in support.I don't see this as a men's rights issue. If the woman in the thread wants to go home she's within her rights to do so. Although I would advocate a more co-operative approach with the child's father. Like it or not, if she has this baby then she's going to have to work with the father for a long time in the future. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | UK: Birmingham doctor, 65, says police ruined his life when he was wrongly jailed for groping accusationHe looks kind of creepy in that particular picture they're using for the article so he must be guilty | /r/MensRights | 20/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Fairfield woman guilty of shooting husband on head to death won't go to jail, because judge (female) can't bear to do it !I read a few stories about this and i believe it was an accident. Perhaps the judges words were insensitive but I'm not convinced a jail term is appropriate for this | /r/MensRights | 20/12/19 03:23 PM |
| 13 | Apparently raping a young 14 year old boy is just "providing sex", and an afterthought to having provided him alcoholIf it was a man they would have said she plied him with alcohol and raped him | /r/MensRights | 20/12/19 03:17 PM |
| 0 | That's right Fellas, fossil fuel consumption has always been a tool for patriarchy.It's just click bait, stop falling for it | /r/MensRights | 19/12/19 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Harvey Weinstein's Attorney Says 'His Whole Life Has Been Ruined'I don't know if Weinstein is guilty or not. However after all this hysteria, the chance of either him or his accusers getting a fair trial is zero. Everyone is a loser in this case | /r/MensRights | 14/12/19 12:05 PM |
| 6 | Two "professors" pretend that all criticism of Greta Thunberg is actually about how much men hate womenI wonder why my girlfriend hates greta then | /r/MensRights | 12/12/19 07:49 AM |
| 47 | Yet another boyfriend killer trying to overturn her murder convictionHer case is that she witnessed domestic violence as a child, and this left her with mental health issues. It's clear whose side the guardian is on. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Female to male sexism is alive and well in academiaAre you sure this is a sexism issue? Maybe she's just a bitch and management is too weak to deal with it. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/19 02:07 PM |
| 7 | Redditor makes a detailed insightful comment discussing gender inequality, unfair work place training practices, disparity in discussion of suicide gap and other issues, with numerous examples of personal experiences.I read through that thread. It's alarming that the majority of the comments were about whether some car accidents are also suicides, and virtually none were actually about suicide and how to prevent it | /r/MensRights | 01/12/19 12:53 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on why society is in arms against men: it's power/controlYou're implying that the alpha males are working together to suppress the betas - this is simply not the case. Alpha males compete against EVERYBODY, each other most of all | /r/MensRights | 22/11/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | What was r/TheRedPill like before quarantine?It was different to both. As EvilLothar said it was mainly about getting sex from women, also a lot about self improvement. While they tolerated misogyny, there were many balanced people on there too. No more than I see on MGTOW or here in my opinion. One of the key messages of the red pill is that this is how the world is, whether you like it or not. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 13 | All It Takes Is What Is Obviously A Basic Joke And An Offended Woman.metoo has now expanded beyond sexually harassing a woman to include anything that pisses them off | /r/MensRights | 20/11/19 05:40 PM |
| 2 | I've had tears in my eyes for 12 hours straight I've nowhere else to turn sorryMy son is severely disabled, he is dependent on his parents & carers for everything. Despite this he's one of the happiest guys I know and i love having him around. He's not a burden and I'm sure you're not one either. I wish I knew where my son's happiness comes from, unfortunately can't talk so the secret stays with him. If I was to guess, he loves being around people, being part of the group, and just being alive. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Your take on Hateful MRA's, and what can we do differently?Unfortunately there is a lot of anger and misogyny in the men's rights space. Which is a pity because it detracts from the more important messages that we are trying to promote. That said there will always be haters and I don't think our sub is worse than any of the others. I think it's great that rather than simply banning posters we try to engage with them to change their opinions. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/19 10:22 AM |
| 2 | The Wedding Is The Goal-Red Pill Men's HealthRe the alimony point - marrying / living in a country or US state with no alimony does not necessarily protect you from that. Your wife could move somewhere that has alimony (e.g. London), file for divorce there and you risk falling under the jurisdiction of their court rather than where you live or got married. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/19 11:40 AM |
| 2 | How abuse of violence orders corrupts our family law system | Former Australian Law Reform Commissioner endorses the current inquiry into false DV allegations in family court as very much needed.This happened to me. Both ex and I agreed relationship was over, both wanted to stay in the family home with our kids while the other to moved out. A fight happens, we shout at each other. There was no violence, and never has been. Ex requests occupation order (excluding me from the house) on the basis that she fears for her safety because of the shouting (even though I haven't actually done anything). Judge grants the order "just in case". 18 months later when we are in court to determine finan… | /r/MensRights | 12/11/19 02:38 PM |
| 3 | A long story about my wifeDon't get a body cam that is stupid advice. Don't get angry and fight in front of your kids Do start standing up for yourself - don't be a dick about it just politely say no I'm not doing push ups, coming home when I want ...etc If you don't want to give massages stop doing it, just politely say you don't feel like it today If your wife becomes irrational and picks fights just stay calm and say you'll discuss it later when she's calmed down You seem like a good guy - listen to your conscience ab… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/19 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Michigan Father: "[birth mom] doesn't respond to anything, no call no shows for visits .......nothing.......except tactics to alienate me from my son.....lies,false police reports, perjury, even had a friend and I thrown out of a new business under false pretenses"I'm not downplaying it, however turning up angry to court claiming lies & perjury is not going to get this guy access to his son. The system protects itself and you need to pick your battles otherwise you risk getting labelled an angry male. Angry = dangerous as far as the court is concerned. I'm not saying it's right, but that's the way the world is right now and it's not going to change in time for OP's son. Sometimes the best thing for your children is work around the situation rather than tr… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/19 05:34 PM |
| -5 | Michigan Father: "[birth mom] doesn't respond to anything, no call no shows for visits .......nothing.......except tactics to alienate me from my son.....lies,false police reports, perjury, even had a friend and I thrown out of a new business under false pretenses"You need to calm down and view the situation over the long term. Your son is very young and has a long life ahead of him. Courts are useless IMO but you need to dig in and keep going anyway. Don't try to "win" just try to get some access and make it count. I lost 2 years of my kids life and she even forgot who I was. It was tough but I'm seeing her again now and we have a great relationship. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/19 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Emma Watson describes herself as ‘self-partnered,’; I wonder if it is because she, like many women, refuses to marry down while men are still expected to do soI read the article, I didn't see any mention of her being single because she refuses to "marry down". Perhaps she just hasn't met the right person yet. In any case, to me this is more of a red pill post than a men's rights issue. Everyone should be free to marry who they want, or to remain single without there being a stigma attached. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/19 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Mother shoots her three children and then herself after losing custody. Was shocked how underreported this was on reddit but it doesn't fit the narrative.Just tried to find this story on BBC or Guardian, The two main left leaning papers in UK. To my knowledge they didn't report the story. Interesting how this type of story only ever gets reported on by the daily mail. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/19 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Reasons to Stop Commenting About Hating Feminism (read ALL of it first)Arguing about feminism is not going to bring about the changes that we want. At best it distracts from our argument and at worst it puts a lot of people off side for no reason. For example to argue against circumcision all we have to do is point out how barbaric it is to cut the penis of a baby for no good reason, and that the baby clearly is in no position to consent to this procedure. Comparisons to FGM and describing circumcision as a feminist plot distract from this argument and are more lik… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/19 04:25 PM |
| 4 | I cannot believe charging men twice as much as women to get into a nightclub is legalWhy is this legal? Has it ever been challenged in court? In Europe they outlawed cheaper car insurance for women, does the USA not have similar laws? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/19 07:32 AM |
| 6 | Father with no rights: Mother stops him seeing daughter for 12 YEARS - despite 82 court orders demanding she back downI've been through the UK family court system. FYI in this country you can't "sue the mother" there's no such thing. After a couple of hearings it becomes blindingly obvious that no matter what the mother does she will never get punished for anything in regards to child access. While the court order states she may go to prison in practice this is never going to happen. Also the police are never going to go and forcibly enter the mothers home and take the children and give them to the father so he… | /r/MensRights | 29/10/19 11:22 AM |
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