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ADVICEUkuleleSugar/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 10:25 PM
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Maybe I wasn't very clear but it's not necessarily about unfairness between genders. It's more about things that are outside your control. I want to be soft, calm and overall a feminine, good woman but it's really hard not to shout, get angry, or lose your temper when you are in a situation that feels unfair and hopeless.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/26 11:08 PM
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If there were "tons of good men" crime stats wouldn’t look like a men’s exclusive leaderboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:30 PM
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This isn’t symmetrical. Men commit the vast majority of violent crime, sexual assault and homicide worldwide, that’s straight from crime statistics. That reflects a real difference in behavior and impact, not just "mediocre people whining". Ignoring that and calling it equal is denying measurable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:28 PM
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most humans are nice people That’s an opinion only men who have never had to deal with other men as a woman can have lol You guys are so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:25 PM
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Or share
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:21 PM
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Why are you making this about me? I refuse to even get close to men I’m not attracted to in a romantic sense lol I don’t care about being treated well by ugly men. AGAIN, I can be treated well by my father or brother, whom I’m not attracted to either. I want to date someone I actually want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:54 PM
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I doubt anyone in this subreddit is mentally stable, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:28 PM
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But ugly men do have worse personalities, just like ugly women. Being mistreated by society can make you mean and resentful while the halo effect can make you ignorant of the flaws of the world and more positive and nice. If you or I were Chad or Stacy, we would be out there living our lives, not arguing on a subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:27 PM
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Im against the draft simply because it takes the good cute guys from us and leaves the crippled ones. Its a good reason to be against it as a woman, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:48 PM
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Id rather pay 50/50 on dates, treat the guy better than average and carry the conversation with an attractive guy than have all the attention of an ugly guy. Why would I need attention from a man I’m not attracted to? I have a father. He already gives me male attention without weird connotations. I don’t need male attention; I need to date a guy im attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:42 PM
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Id rather date a young cute guy than a rich old guy lol but I understand your point. Women should stop dating poor and ugly men and expecting them to compensate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:28 PM
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women should be attracted to their boyfriends "What?? This must be bait! I cant believe someone said that…"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:16 PM
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If I had an attractive boyfriend, I would never beat him. Why would I ever do that? He wouldn’t disappoint me, since I wouldn’t be expecting him to compensate for his lack of beauty like most women do with their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:14 PM
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Nah. And if I were, it would only be with a cute guy, so I wouldn’t feel used afterward and would actually enjoy the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah pretty much this. I dont understand why this sounds like a bait lol As a woman i would not mind initiating things or paying dates if i were attracted to the guy. The problem is women choosing men they are not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:10 PM
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As a girlfailure who’s not in the dating market, I have all the vision without the emotion to observe the situation and analyze it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:16 PM
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I genuinely believe that all the problems women have in the dating world (he used me, he didn’t want to pay for the date, he was emotionally unavailable) would stop if they stopped dating ugly men in the hope that they would return the favor emotionally. We need to stop dating unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:08 PM
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Nah, I would never date someone as ugly as him. If I ever dated someone, I’m sure he would be beautiful and I would never treat him badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:05 PM
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Dumbest theory ever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:19 AM
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Nah, I see a lot of attractive guys at uni. Id say about 70% of young white men are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:46 PM
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Who cares about any of those things? If you are attractive, you are going to attract people anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:16 PM
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Young American men will see guys from countries with heavily male skewed populations saying that there are no women in third places, at parties or at universities and be like "I think they are right! I must enter desperation mode for women just like them!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:29 AM
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Its useless to talk about anything specific to gender here if you are from the west because there are so many indians/pakistanis/people from related countries here that the dating scene is completely different from yours, making any real conversation impossible. Those guys will try to convince Westerners that there are no women on the streets, which isn’t a lie (for their countries), but obviously it doesnt translate outside of their own countries. I wish reddit had a nationality feature like tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:21 AM
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Its not like I do much in my life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 11:01 PM
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Just saw a young cute rich couple on the subway and it ruined my day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 10:18 PM
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Lol you gonna so get in trouble for that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:24 PM
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Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:23 AM
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Obviously the first one lol what even is this question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:20 AM
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Looks cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:24 PM
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The woman willing to go on a date with a old fat indian must be really desesperate. I fear for her poor soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:17 PM
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Being 6'3 doesnt mean much if you have ugly features and live in a mostly white city. Sure, you are tall but so is everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:33 PM
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Imagine unironically believing BMI is a good metric for health or looks. A solid 22-23 BMI with good body fat percentage clears a skinny fat 19–21 BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:16 PM
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Let me see if chico lachowski would respond to a dm from a below average girl on instagram asking to play tennis with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:01 PM
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If by “try” you mean working until my thirties to afford all the surgeries Id need, which wouldnt matter anyway because the cute guy would find me old and unnatural then thanks for the great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:48 PM
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Nah, I doubt actually attractive men would take the time to make a profile and write a bio when they could just DM some girl and it would work just as well for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:41 PM
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Why would an attractive guy be on a dating app? He can already get girls in real life, so hes not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:32 PM
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Too unbelievable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:03 PM
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In reality, most people date within their own attractiveness range. Average or unattractive women usually end up with average or unattractive men, just like attractive men tend to date attractive women. So of course theres a market, average/ugly women are attracted to attractive (above average) men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:02 PM
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Of course there is. Why is it shocking that women like attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:38 PM
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Im not hot lol why do men here imagine every mentally unwell girl as a hot d cup curvy blonde bitch with slight autism/bpd. i really hate you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:31 PM
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I wish I had a lot of money to pay a cute guy to go on a date with me and play tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:56 PM
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6/10 but he probably would have made fun of me in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:42 AM
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4/10 because he is old and kinda bald
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:38 AM
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You probably look attractive. Most girls will not mind going 50/50 with a cute and friendly guy. I think the problem comes when the girl finds the guy unattractive (so below her) and thinks he has to pay her in some form on the date which, to me, does not make sense anyway. If the guy is ugly enough that you would only date him for free food just do not go on a date with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:36 AM
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Why theres so many indians in this sub nowadays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:10 PM
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I dont get any of the privileges you guys insist all women have. I dont have random men giving me money, no followers showering me with attention, no one has ever confessed to me and people dont treat me nicely, if anything its passive aggressive. If I were an average man, my life would probably improve just by people being neutral instead of weird. And honestly, the way you are framing these questions makes it sound like you’re trying to convince me to transition or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:25 PM
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Im neither obese nor severely disabled and yet somehow I missed out on all this ‘grace’ you say average women get. Weird how universal claims fall apart when you actually compare them to real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 08:19 PM
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There is not a single thing here that you are not wrong about. There are a lot of western countries where abortion is not legal, sadly. Women are more prone to the risk of STDs in sex because of how PIV sex works and they also deal with harsh consequences like HPV (obviously you do not know this because men usually do not care about that). SA is not rare lol, almost every woman has an episode of it, even in western countries because of immigration. The whole ‘women have the most pleasurable and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah, apparently doing engineering surrounded by male professors with 30/40 years in the industry is ‘daycare’ now. Watching men in their mid 20s with full time jobs, kids, responsibilities and still making friends with other men instantly is also ‘daycare,’ I guess. But sure, I should ignore my actual lived experience and instead listen to some sex positive, european, married redpill guy on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:13 PM
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Even if men started to see me as a threat (which I know they dont do with every man lol I literally see guys making friends instantly in my lectures every day) I would still prefer that over being an unattractive woman. Being perceived as a threat at least means you are seen as equal, you are assumed to be as strong as him. Being a woman means you are automatically perceived as weaker in most spaces, including the workplace, and if you are an unattractive woman you get treated even worse. So yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:55 PM
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I mean, I get what you are saying but as a woman if Im not going to cum anyway and Im the one taking the risk of pregnancy, I might as well try with a guy whos at least handsome and doesnt seem angry at the world because society treated him poorly for being unattractive. I really dont agree with this idea that beautiful = bad. Honestly, Id argue the opposite: people who grow up being treated well (for being beautiful) usually end up more optimistic and kinder than people who were treated badly (…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:05 PM
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Men here hear the word women and instantly picture Instagram models or porn actresses rejecting guys left and right while getting showered with money. Its wild how they cant grasp that below attractive (and even sometimes average) women dont get treated like that at all. Ive never been socially accommodated a single day in my life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:37 AM
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Yeah but before you even decide which box you are going to put another guy in, you start by treating him neutral and then watch his behavior. Women dont even get that baseline. Its either being treated like a hole if he is attracted or getting random hostility if he is not. Theres no neutral stage for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:31 AM
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You dont want to listen or have empathy, you just want to argue. Im honestly glad you dont have any woman lining up for you, imagine you getting a girl pregnant and then not helping or having any empathy for her just because, as a man, you dont suffer with pregnancy. Men like you should stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:17 AM
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Did you not read what I wrote? The average woman has a lot more to lose from having sex and statistically, sex isnt even that good for her in casual contexts. The average man doesnt face the same physical, social or safety risks. Thats exactly why women arent lining up for casual sex with just any guy. If we are the ones taking on the greater risks, it makes sense that we are selective. If Im going to deal with all the downsides, I might as well choose the best option available, not just whoever…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 10:03 AM
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I mean, it is easier when you are an unattractive woman, because you do not get any of that so called benevolent sexism or chivalry anyway. It is not like I am losing flowers, free drinks or OnlyFans money by imagining myself as an average man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:34 AM
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To me, being treated equally means being treated the way men treat other men, like a neutral person. I feel like being a man is the default in society. In a game, for example, you are just another player judged by your plays. As a woman, you are never neutral. You are either met with unexpected aggression or with this niceness that is not genuine at all, it is usually just men being nice because they want something sexual from you. I study in a very male dominated area and I see clearly how men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:17 AM
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In a heartbeat. I dont care about dating nowadays, so losing ‘chivalry’ (which is basically just being nice in exchange for sex) doesnt matter to me. Being treated like an equal actually sounds great. When I was younger I’d even pretend to be a guy when playing games lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:02 AM
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Yeah, I dont know why its so hard for people here to understand this. Womens libido is lower largely because of testosterone differences and on top of that we deal with way more risks like pregnancy, STDs, the possibility of violence, SA, orgasm gap and mens hygiene standards arent held to the same level as womens. Its not exactly an environment that increases attraction. No wonder women arent lining up for casual sex with the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:30 AM
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Oh no, the extroverted pretty girl with a hundred options was friendly to me and didn’t want to date me. Truly tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:07 AM
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She looks fine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 01:05 AM
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Yeah, Im sure a bit of concealer and blush will fix my crooked nose and the rest of my bone structure tragedies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:53 AM
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Yeah, thats why I said in real life. You can fake it in photos with heavy makeup and filters but you cant do that face to face. Makeup doesnt work the same way in real life, it gets cakey, it melts, you sweat. I tried when I was a teenager and no amount of makeup is going to fix a crooked nose, bad eye shape, a huge forehead or a weird face structure. You just end up looking like a pig with lipstick. Makeup isnt the miracle men think it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:48 AM
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They would probably not be honest because people overrate womens appearance online. I feel like if you asked an incredibly honest gay guy in real life, he would give me a 4 like below average. But since I live in a place where the average girls are really beautiful, Id give myself a 3 in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:12 AM
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Yeah, you got more matches. Like I said, in real life (which is what actually matters) it doesnt work that much. I could hide all my ugly features with tons of makeup and filters to get matches but that doesn’t translate into being more beautiful in real life or never getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:24 PM
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Makeup isnt some magic fix either. If a girl has unattractive features, no amount of makeup is going to save that in real life. Just like being bulky doesnt erase a guys height, makeup doesnt erase someones base features. People exaggerate way too much about both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:33 PM
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A superpower of shitting at festivals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:23 PM
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Its really hard not to infantilize yourself as a young gen Z person today. It often feels like society or even your parents are pushing you to act like a child while you are still unsure if you fully feel like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:15 AM
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She is dealing with trauma and serious medical issues and your focus on what you are not getting sexually is a big red flag. It would be kinder to break up rather than put her through a situation thats only going to hurt her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:11 AM
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It is kinda insulting and id never do that in a group where not everyone understands the language. But from my experience its also surprisingly common, especially with german people lol. Not sure if thats your situation but sometimes its just two people who dont realize it can come off as culturally rude. It doesnt necessarily mean they’re bad mouthing the rest of the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:06 AM
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He is undoubtedly handsome but one thing I never understand is why he and that other guy (Syrian Psycho) had so many surgeries before getting a nose job. I feel like that would be the first thing Id do if I had the money for surgery, it makes such a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:15 AM
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I think about that every day as a woman but its insanely expensive now that everyone is getting procedures. It’s not some easy, accessible solution like people pretend it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:45 AM
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I get what you mean but having a job or career isnt really the same as ambition. I guess they probably just dont want to write ‘no bums allowed’ on their profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:33 AM
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Exactly. That whole ‘lonely men will rise up and attack women’ fantasy is just weird wishful thinking. What is really happening is a spike in suicide and mental health issues for that group of men. Attractive men and women are going to keep living normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:17 AM
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Casual sex isn’t the same for women as it is for men. Theres a well known orgasm gap especially with new partners and women face higher risks like pregnancy and safety concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:33 PM
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I also don’t get why “nice guys” care so much about getting attention from women who date men with awful morals. If someone chooses an asshole, why would their approval matter to someone who’s truly a good man? Real kindness shouldn’t depend on validation from people with bad judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:51 PM
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