UltraAirWolf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	If you ever don’t know how to act about a situation, here’s how to act:	Inner Game	UltraAirWolf	/r/seduction	29/03/25 09:38 AM

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2	Responding to "not sure if you're my type" “Oh I’m definitely not your type. I’m your friend. I’m here to try to help you find your type though” (point to someone clearly unattractive and dorky) “i think that guy would be perfect for you. I could introduce you, put in a good word (take her hand like you’re leading her to talk to the guy) “c’mon I’ll be your wingman.”	/r/seduction	26/10/25 03:30 PM
1	I don't think race that matters when it comes to seduction It only matters to the extent it matters to the girl you’re talking to. Most people are pretty open but some have strong preferences. More often than not though for everyone who doesn’t like you because of your race another will like you even more because of your race.	/r/seduction	22/10/25 12:51 AM
4	How to hide from "polite society" as a fuckboy (need help) Don’t trust anyone.	/r/seduction	27/08/25 10:04 PM
6	How to hide from "polite society" as a fuckboy (need help) Be discreet.	/r/seduction	27/08/25 06:17 PM
10	Sexual vs Romantic Attraction is a Game Changer in Seduction It’s sexual attraction + friendship	/r/seduction	12/08/25 05:04 PM
0	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? Hey instead of going to dental school can I just buy a sledgehammer?	/r/seduction	10/08/25 12:17 AM
-1	Seduction is Useless Unless a Woman is Already Attracted to You I hear what you’re saying but I don’t like this post. The thing is, if you learn enough seduction and social skills, you will eventually have a life filled with beautiful women. End of story. So in a sense, learning seduction is a magic pill. It’s just not a pill. But it is magic. If you don’t see it that way, then you haven’t fucking learned enough.	/r/seduction	05/08/25 05:48 PM
1	Run out of the things to say Just have the confidence to talk enthusiastically about the topics you currently overlook as not worth talking about. “Holy shit a chandelier!” and then quickly change again, and again, and again, as needed.	/r/seduction	04/08/25 02:59 PM
8	Getting a girl back The only way this will ever work is to get her chasing you. Be nice, but don’t reach out. Make her jealous, but be very very subtle. If she knows what you’re doing the jig is up. Do not pursue her. Make what you want want you.	/r/seduction	02/08/25 08:53 PM
1	Pickup with depression. Is it possible? Obviously don’t yell at the bartender or cry, but my advice to you is that if you are sad, have a face that shows sadness. Act sad. Dont cry, but be authentically you. That is more attractive than being positive. Some women only like sad guys.	/r/seduction	02/08/25 01:26 PM
2	Constantly reflecting if I’m unlucky with the women I meet, or if I’m just that boring. But a subscription to scribd.com and read every ebook you can. Lots of them come with homework. Do the homework. Go out all the time. Take the advice from the books. Keep the faith. Grind. Don’t take it personally. Persevere over the course of a decade through sheer force of will	/r/seduction	31/07/25 07:50 PM
2	Constantly reflecting if I’m unlucky with the women I meet, or if I’m just that boring. It is not luck. If you were Tom Holland they would have said yes. It’s not luck. Learn. Grow. Improve.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 07:43 PM
12	Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult? Tease her more, respond illogically more, don’t respond sometimes, take a stronger frame, build more attraction Easier said than done, but absolutely doable EDIT: Why the fuck am I giving advice to a dude packing 7 inches. Text her all the time. Tell her you’re desperate. Pedestal!	/r/seduction	31/07/25 02:36 AM
1	I have set a new goal for myself Bro, pick a more difficult goal.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 12:47 AM
2	Drop the act guys. Yeah I get what you’re saying. And tbh there was a time when I was like… hesitant to compliment let’s call it, because I was bogged down by rules, so point taken	/r/seduction	31/07/25 12:44 AM
2	Pickup with depression. Is it possible? I see your point but could not disagree more. It may be counterintuitive but you shouldn’t try to fake your emotion it’ll be incongruent. He should own his sadness and find a girl who is attracted to it.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 12:42 AM
13	Drop the act guys. I agree with a lot of this, but bits like “put women on a pedestal if you like” are just awful advice for 95% of these people.	/r/seduction	29/07/25 01:09 PM
2	Does having a reputation as a fuckboy/horny man with a high bodycount work for or against you For	/r/seduction	29/07/25 04:20 AM
1	How do I stop hyper-fixating on female approval? It’s fine to be obsessed with girls. You just have to desensitize yourself to rejection. You just got to get really good by reading a lot and approaching a lot. The only way out is through. The more you improve yourself and treat yourself well and with love the less their approval will matter.	/r/seduction	27/07/25 11:17 PM
14	In your opinion, where is all the focus in pickup? What do people focus too much on studying/improving and what doesn't get attention that should? The only misguided focus I’ve noticed is that there seem to be a lot of people in this subreddit who have the worst possible beliefs that I never used to see. “Women only care about money so get rich” “Women only like you if you’re tall” This that and the other. And it’s just all so false. Yes those things can help. But that is a red herring. It’s like we’re in a “see through the matrix” subreddit and a lot of people are like “yeah I think our best bet is to admit the matrix is real.” And I just…	/r/seduction	27/07/25 11:14 PM
1	I think im afraid of women and I feel that Im going to die alone if I dont change nothing. You need to overcome your barrier through exposure. Just approach after approach after approach. Within the thing you fear most is the key to your liberation. You don’t have to be u prepared there are a billion books and they all have a game plan. The only way out is through. It’s not a bad thing you’re just scared. It’s a hell of a climb but you can do it. But yeah, you’re right, if you do nothing then you probably will die alone.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 10:38 PM
0	Is daygame different for ethnic minorities? Bro, no it isn’t because of your race. It’s because you don’t have enough game yet. You gotta work for this shit if you want it. You have to have confidence.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 08:43 PM
7	Does simply doing "reps" of socializing, going out and talking to women, really get you more comfortable in these sorts of interactions? Yes fucking do it. Read models and go! DO IT! You get one life. Be great or be a shell of who you KNOW you can be. Only a certain type of person would even tread in a subreddit like this so be the man you know you are or lie to yourself that it won’t work. Just start out not trying to pick girls up. Just have conversations with girls and be friendly. You don’t need her number just make your goal to brighten her day and lightly tease her about something g stupid. You would be astonished how far t…	/r/seduction	19/07/25 09:07 AM
2	Most men are confused even “successful” ones who post here I agree with the general vibe of what you are saying. But, and this is a big booty, if you have a lot of game or value, beautiful women will chase you and you won’t damage their self esteem at all. I am just scratching the surface of being able to do it consistently, like juuust turned a corner and a 20% I’m overinflating my breakthrough but I really don’t think I am. And I am pretty stoked to see what’s ahead. And it is a dance you are absolutely right, but when you can get her chasing you, tha…	/r/seduction	19/07/25 08:48 AM
1	How do I get over my fear of creep shaming? You have to know for a fact that you are not a creep on a physiological level. It takes core confidence which must be desensitized out of you through repetition. There is no easy way around it but the closest thing to a cheat code is get in really good shape and dress well.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 12:56 AM
1	What should you say to a girl after the first hang out It sounds like she wants a relationship and to know you are not a fuck boy who is only interested in sex. She is an investor, not a tester, and wants to know that you are serious about her before giving it up to you.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 12:50 AM
2	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men Teasing her, not giving her a straight answer, not saying anything when she asks you a question and just staring into her eyes instead and smiling, touching her, doing anything she doesn’t expect, making her jealous, taking control of her in any way, etc…	/r/seduction	10/07/25 12:46 AM
2	Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene? Yes. It is timeless. There will never be a time when that book will not be relevant.	/r/seduction	10/07/25 12:40 AM
3	Why is showing interest such a turn of to some people? I could say a million different things, but I am certain that this is the most helpful thing I can say. You already know the answer to the question you asked. If you sit, in stillness, for a second, you already innately understand the principle of what you chase runs and what you run from chases you. But most of us don’t want to swallow that bitter pill because if we do, we may have to admit that we don’t know enough currently to know how to get what we want, to chase us. And then not only is do…	/r/seduction	09/07/25 04:00 AM
4	Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy” Game recognize game 😎	/r/seduction	06/07/25 11:37 PM
54	Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy” Ugh, ok, so while you are correct that physical appearance is vitally important, I think your outlook is very flawed. Yes, grooming yourself and looking badass in how you dress and how you move and how you speak and smell and take up space is absolutely pivotal. Sure. But bruh, here is where your logic shorts. Why are you assuming that this girl is daydreaming about this dude fucking her because he is good looking? Did she say that? One of the hottest girls I know wants to be fucked by Jason Voo…	/r/seduction	06/07/25 08:39 PM
1	Comprehensive begginers guide to understand flirting and how to start doing the basics properly. The problem with the examples you provided for negging is that those are just mean things to say, and anyone in their right mind would think you are a dickhead for saying those things to a woman at a bar. That is not a neg. That is just an insult. To be a neg, you can’t seem like you are trying to be mean. It has to be something that is “accidentally” lowering of their self worth. “Nice nails, are they real?” (When they obviously are not)	/r/seduction	06/07/25 08:52 AM
2	The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys are Keep in mind also this is reddit so it’s gonna be exaggerated.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 03:34 AM
1	Do any other men feel like it's impossible to make the first move? You’re going to lose her if you don’t touch her. Just start small and build. Before holding her hand touch her shoulder to emphasize a point you’re making or grab her hand and hold it for a second before releasing it. You gotta shift your mindset though. If you fumble this girl that is ok but your only shot of keeping her is by having fun and acting through your own intentions.	/r/seduction	29/06/25 05:36 PM
4	How do I know if she rejected me for my looks? It shouldn’t matter why she is into you if she is into you, and it’s too late anyway. Just look as good as you can, and stop giving a fuck if it’s because of your looks. Women don’t work like us. To an extent they do but to an extent they don’t. Maybe the hottest girl I know wants to be fucked by Jason Voorhees. Not DeRulo, Voorhees.	/r/seduction	29/06/25 01:45 PM
0	How do I stop interviewing and start flirting? It’s a mindset shift. Be Robbie Williams. You are trying to keep the conversation alive. He is trying to entertain himself by holding eye contact as long as he pleases and saying outrageous things without flinching. You don’t have to be that extreme but step 1 is to start seeing a conversation as a way of entertaining yourself. If you are interviewing, you are not having fun and flirting. If you are having fun and flirting, questions will only arise once in a while when it’s natural. Tell her ab…	/r/seduction	22/06/25 08:08 PM
2	If you had to pick between being flirty and being funny, which one would you pick? Flirty just means that you flirt a lot. Funny implies talent. So assuming you meant good at flirting, that.	/r/seduction	22/06/25 03:12 PM
15	I’m 28M, going for movie with friend how to initiate a kiss ? Build the amount you touch and tease, escalating slowly but consistently. Only kiss her if there is a moment where your instinct tells you she wants you to do it. If that moment comes, do not doubt it just trust it. If that moment doesn’t come, hold off.	/r/seduction	22/06/25 03:09 PM
1	Here is how to respond to tests such us: "Shound't you have a bigger apartment at your age?" Shouldn’t you have learned manners? And btw don’t say that if you’re still trying to fuck, although it might work I suppose.	/r/seduction	22/06/25 02:22 PM
3	Should I [F22] keep cold approaching guys if I’m looking for something serious? The key is to keep studying and keep improving your skill set without worrying about rejection. You will need to experience rejection countless times to get good. Focus less on getting a yes out of them and more on being attractive during the interaction. There is no such thing as anyone rejecting you, they only rejected what was presented to them. Adjust your pitch and the results will come, but not magically just because you put yourself out there a couple times. You gotta fucking work to get …	/r/seduction	21/06/25 03:45 PM
1	How do I go from logical conversations to emotional ones You just stop talking about the topic and say OOGA BOOGA or something similar. You’re only logical because you feel some misplaced obligation to do so, but that’s just been drilled into you. You need to get in touch with your inner absurdist. Watch. Ask me any question that you would normally feel compelled to answer logically.	/r/seduction	30/04/25 03:00 AM
14	What are my chances of me catching herpes from this girl Don’t do it bro unless you’re deeply in love. I dated a girl with herpes because I was in love. I escaped without because she cheated on me. 15 years later I am so glad that I got lucky, but not a risk to undertake lightly. EDIT: I should mention that I didn’t escape without because she cheated I escaped without because I always used a condom.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 10:12 PM
1	How to end things amicably… Whatever you do, when she asks why you’re breaking up with her, make sure you’re not both on a bunch of Molly and whatever you do don’t tell her that because you care about her and you’re not going to be around to tell her this that you’re breaking up with her because she’s mean, and that she needs to stop making jokes at other people’s’ expense and being such a low key mean person or else people will secretly think she’s a bitch even though you personally know she has a good heart. I mean, you …	/r/seduction	27/04/25 04:25 PM
5	I find majority of girls boring, what can I do? Come on man… the answer is right there in the question. Dont go for the majority of women. Aim higher. Select a target that stirs desire, etc…	/r/seduction	23/04/25 06:15 PM
2	When did you realize she was flirting, not just being nice and what did you learn? 📠	/r/seduction	23/04/25 06:50 AM
25	When did you realize she was flirting, not just being nice and what did you learn? Deep down inside, you know she’s flirting. What you need is to let yourself believe it. Feel it. Two steps forward one step back. It’s a dance. And it’s a vibe and it’s up to you to slowly dial up the temperature. If she’s not interested she will let you know somewhere along the way but you close the deal a thousand little times along the way and then there will be no wondering. Get her to the place where there is no doubt in your mind that she wants you to kiss her, and do that by slowly gettin…	/r/seduction	23/04/25 06:49 AM
30	How do you guys do this The journey of 10,000 miles starts with a single step.	/r/seduction	20/04/25 07:13 PM
1	How to stop being easy to sleep with? That’s a cavalier thing to say in a place like this.	/r/seduction	19/04/25 11:40 PM
1	A conversation trick that instantly makes you more attractive Oh fuck yeah I am going to employ this tactic strategically to manipulate everyone into feeling heard.	/r/seduction	16/04/25 06:37 AM
142	Fat guys of seduction, how successful are you? Just came here to say fat guys of seduction is a sick band name	/r/seduction	16/04/25 02:46 AM
2	Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating? I say if you feel guilty about it then it may as well be cheating. If you care about her but want to study game, why not take the best of both worlds? There are so many books or programs like Charlie Houpert’s Charisma on Command that teach social game without necessarily focusing on seduction. I’ve been in your position. Do what you want to do, but if you ever start to feel guilty maybe examine your motives.	/r/seduction	13/04/25 11:50 PM
33	How do I stop pushing girls away by being an emotional bitch This is beyond the scope of a Reddit post. It sounds like you’re codependent. It’s okay it just means you have a big heart and a lot of love to give but until you get ahold of it it will remain unhealthy. Read “codependent no more” or “getting the love you want” or some similar such book. Amazon is your friend. This is actually an easier problem to tackle than it might currently seem.	/r/seduction	13/04/25 11:21 PM
2	Want to try a day approach. Motivate me. State comes from within.	/r/seduction	07/04/25 04:52 AM
1	Do good looking men get shit tested as much as the average guy? Yeah just by hotter women.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 11:36 PM
1	Unpopular seduction opinion: numbers game is so bad. Numbers game is good but the number is actually the number of hours you spend playing the game.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 10:24 PM
0	Would you rather be good looking with game but poor, or wealthy with no game? Game.	/r/seduction	06/04/25 08:50 PM
2	If you ever don’t know how to act about a situation, here’s how to act: It’s like how if you’re actually rich (or especially if you’re not I suppose) you shouldn’t tell a ton of stories about how rich you are.	/r/seduction	29/03/25 01:19 PM
3	Do girls not like nice guys at all? Girls like kindness. They don’t like someone they can manipulate and dominate. I think you should treat a girl like a queen and you are a king. Cliche but handy framework. Go to great lengths to make her happy, but at the same time be very willing to tell her NO without the slightest flinch. That’s how I do it anyway, and I do ok. Don’t be nice be kind. Aim to please but aim to please your self most of all. You pilot she passenger. You host she guest. There’s a million ways to do it but the impo…	/r/seduction	29/03/25 09:04 AM
2	Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar? How good are you	/r/seduction	22/03/25 03:09 AM
3	should you fuck mids for experience ? I think you should humanize women a little more.	/r/seduction	18/03/25 06:25 PM
1	Has your date ever caught you out with someone else on another date? Clearly.	/r/seduction	07/03/25 02:08 AM
5	Has your date ever caught you out with someone else on another date? Why ghost?	/r/seduction	06/03/25 02:27 PM
14	Gay bestfriend method You’d be surprised	/r/seduction	14/02/25 05:07 AM
3	Best answer to "I would date someone like you"? I wouldn’t recommend it babe, I’m bad news. If you meet a guy like me, run as fast as you can.	/r/seduction	12/02/25 09:30 PM
3	Got approached last night by a girl who used an opinion opener Ya know, there’s a chance the opinion opener felt weird to you because you study seduction and understood what she was doing. If you didn’t know about opinion openers then you probably wouldn’t have thought twice about it. Honestly as long as you don’t ask about two gals fighting over a guy named George or something really canned seeming I think the odds of anybody knowing what you’re doing are pretty slim.	/r/seduction	11/02/25 02:36 AM
2	Feel like I ruined my life You haven’t tried therapy. There are countless books you haven’t read. Literally bookstore upon bookstore filled with them. There are countless women you haven’t approached. There are countless sunrises you haven’t risen and worked out through. There are huge risks you haven’t even thought to take because it’s so outside your perceived reality of what’s possible. But you can do anything you want and you’re 30 acting like your life is over. And I feel your pain though because trauma ain’t no joke…	/r/seduction	09/02/25 07:37 AM
16	Feel like I ruined my life Your mindset is holding you back. There is no shame in therapy. Keep working on yourself. 30 is young you bitch I’m turning 40. Everything will be ok. You have SO much time. Stop deluding yourself. Even a slow learner can master anything with enough work. And if you’re unwilling to work I have no sympathy. Deep breaths champ you got this.	/r/seduction	09/02/25 02:54 AM
1	Which metro areas do you think are the worst for finding women? It sounds like you have a lot of negativity bro. Just to level with you, it sounds like your mindset is limiting you more than anything else. Get good and you won’t have to worry about any city. I mean, I guess if you want to rule out bisexual girls that’s on you man but I’d be careful man more girls are a bit bi than you might think.	/r/seduction	29/01/25 06:26 AM
3	What keeps you going after all the L’s? Much obliged homie. Glad I could help!	/r/seduction	28/01/25 02:41 PM
3	What keeps you going after all the L’s? Ok I’ll try to do 10 1) Listen 2) The attitudes I try to embody at all times (taken from Charlie Houpert) fun, respect, trust, and interest in the other person 3) Talk about your values and theirs. What do you like? What don’t you like? Why? Why do you do the things you do? What makes them tick? This helps forge deeper connections. 4) Be either overtly or just a little over the top with your enthusiasm. You might make yourself cringe at first but it’ll be worth it long term. 5) ASSUME THE SALE. …	/r/seduction	28/01/25 02:28 PM
1	Mentally scarred from going out alone Thank you 😊😱🥳	/r/seduction	28/01/25 01:46 PM
5	Mentally scarred from going out alone Dude what are you talking about. Hi I’m UltraAirWolf. Will you be my friend? Cool. Tell her your friend thinks she’s an idiot who doesn’t know shit from shinola. Honestly bro, remove yourself from the situation. Pretend it’s all actors. What kind of character would you consider that girl? The lead? The romantic interest? No! That’s the bitchy bitchy who gets paint spilled all over her in the end. And I can hear my imagined version of you saying “well ok yeah I know she was a bitch but she wouldn…	/r/seduction	28/01/25 07:02 AM
11	What keeps you going after all the L’s? Dude. I am a door to door salesman, and you know what the number one thing you learn is? Rejection doesn’t matter. It just doesn’t fucking matter. It says nothing about you. Some will, some won’t, so what, who’s next? And if you’re getting rejected to the point where you’re posting about it 1) good work because you must at least be taking risks and shooting your shot 2) if L’s bother you then you still have a lot of work to do. When you truly don’t care about the outcome, whether she likes you o…	/r/seduction	28/01/25 02:43 AM
1	For an inexperienced man, what is a good first date location? That’s wild.	/r/seduction	23/01/25 04:45 AM
1	For an inexperienced man, what is a good first date location? Sushi, scientists did some study and its high percentage	/r/seduction	23/01/25 04:42 AM