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No. I saw a self-verifying echo chamber full of catty women in their mid-thirties and decided I should seek my answer elsewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 02:40 PM
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ludicrous Because? transparent Transparently what? What exactly is wrong with my question? I get why it might not belong here, but I'm confused by your (seemingly baseless) acrimony. Edit: Having watched RPW positively shred outsiders who come to them seeking answers, I'm loath to post there. While I'm amused by the atmosphere of /r/RedPillWomen (a group of women striving to overcome their negative female traits, yet they're catty, cliquish, and hostile towards other women?! You don't say!) I do…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 07:33 AM
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I get this same advice from the older females in my family. I'm disinclined to listen to them because most of them are jaded divorcés who let themselves go, nagged incessantly, couldn't keep house, and then get upset when their men leave. My mother is the opposite (doctor who stopped working to keep house at the request of her husband, idolizes Martha Stewart and probably runs her home better), yet her advice is precisely the sort of thing that inspires so much bitterness on trp. "Leave the man …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 06:16 AM
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Ah. Yes. I was a bit concerned about that. Right now he sees a woman with no previous male partners who cooks, cleans, and submits as a miracle. I'm not 100% certain I'd still be his first choice if he came to see those as mandatory traits in a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 05:40 AM
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The books referenced in the sidebar are full of valid info. I'd give them to my brothers or my nephews, I'm just wondering if I could give them to my fiance without it coming off as though I'm critiquing his madhood.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 04:09 AM
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I've read the sidebar, been lurking in redpill related subs for about two years. Along with all the other "why's" I mentioned, I also want to introduce him to TRP because there's a lot of worthwhile material here. I think he should read TRP for the same reason I loaned him 'A Tale of Two Cities", and "All the Pretty Horses". The content is entertaining and relevant.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 04:07 AM
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From your comments you seem to be seeking a LTR leading to marriage. By the time he matures you both will be 35. And you will most likely be left high and dry. My advice is to find a guy who is atleast 10+ years older then you. This is the debate raging in my family ATM. Dad likes Captain Badass, he has stomped out the teensy bit of spoiled bitch my mother was able to get into me. He doesn't just let me do as I want (the way other men have.) He has expectations of me beyond just being pretty and…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 04:00 AM
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Ouch, what'd I do to you?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 03:43 AM
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Yeah, I know I'm welcome to post there, but I wanted a male opinion. I just want to show him TRP and be like: "This is us! Your beta male friends are full of shit when they say you're controlling and this is why our relationship works and their's don't" without it bowing up in my face.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 03:42 AM
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He isn't pussy whipped by any means. We are monogam-ish (I'm bi and he travels a lot so the arrangement suits us both) so it's not like I'm seeking to limit him sexually or vise versa. I'm just wondering if our relationship would be more solid if we were both on the same page.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 03:08 AM
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Wouldn't that be creating a problem where there isn't one?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 03:05 AM
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she is cramping like she has Ebola. This man gets it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 11:50 PM
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True. But it's off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/14 07:55 PM
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For example, people who want to devote their lives to being good at having casual sex with a lot of random women (PUAs) are judged as "creepy". It's the systematic method that makes it creepy, not the purpose behind it. Also, when pick up is done poorly it feels really dishonest and Ted Bundy-esque
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 06:27 PM
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It's not about women working, it's about the next generation learning the kind of critical thinking that allows them to realize when bulkshit is being spouted at them by authority figures with an agenda! It's about knowing when the data is skewed and asking the pertinent questions! It's...! It's... Ahh fuck it. Go back to your sexting and your kpop videos. It's not like the babyboomers left us much to protect anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 11:23 PM
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Blacks and Hispanics combined are 30% of the population. When you look at the economic history of the country, it's pretty difficult to find an era where you could say (at the very least) that the poorest 20% of white families didn't need two incomes. This elusive time period when "most American women didn't work" is a fantasy. When you break that idea down into the economic situations required to make it true, the fallacy it becomes pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 10:52 PM
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Minority women in America have always worked. Poor women have always worked. Nursing, teaching, cleaning houses, repairing clothing, doing laundry, caring for children and various other jobs have been "women's work" for the entire history of this country (and in England before that.) Your teacher is teaching you American history from a distinctively white and middle class perspective. Which is not surprising, since all the brown people are written out of US history courses until you get to colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 10:31 PM
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All of the examples I've read were separated-but-not-divorced couples or women who were already suffering extremely violent domestic abuse. The standard for marital rape is pretty high (in many states there has to be physical violence/restraint, legal separation, or forced drugging) which is probably why the descriptions are such horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 10:26 PM
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Source: The Industrial Revolution Surely you didn't think people were sending their children off to work, but leaving their wives at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 10:19 PM
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I thought I could date beta men until I met my alpha fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 07:13 PM
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There have already been several periods of selectively breeding enslaved humans for desirable traits. Unfortunately for you, most of society has decided that such behavior is inhuman and disgusting (bummer, huh?) Go pick up some Gorean novels and keep that fantasy where it belongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/14 07:05 PM
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In my case, this difference in income allowed me to seek the things I actually want in a mate (beyond his ability to provide). I feel like it just changes the way sexual market value is calculated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 04:16 PM
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You think a woman worth marrying would take on the burden of being your first mate and lower her SMV by having your children without marriage? Alright, I'll bite: why? Why on Earth would a worthwhile woman who knows she has options settle for a man (alpha as you may be) who expects her to assume all risks in a partnership?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 06:01 PM
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Dude... protection is a trait women seek in an Alpha. Captain Badass doesn't wait on me when I'm sick, but he's there without me requesting it. I'm his fiance. He attends to my welfare as any wise man should tend to an investment. He is there without my asking because it costs him nothing but means everything to me. Sometimes "sheltering a woman from her emotions" and being that "solid oak" is literally just being there.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 07:25 PM
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My fiance grabs my hair and forces me to my knees. I consider this "asking."
/r/askTRP24/11/14 07:00 PM
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THIS.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 09:05 PM
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You're in a partnership, not a dictatorship. If your lady presented her opinion respectfully, and you presented an opposing view without being an asshole, you aren't "admitting you were wrong" you're concluding that your teammate had a good idea. Go team! Edit: My fiance and I don't argue, we brainstorm solutions. It's a lot more productive.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:53 AM
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Most women never read the instructions that come with the pill and thus take it incorrectly from the very beginning.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 01:19 AM
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On the contrary, I'm able to discern that an "accident" is coming because the decision to get pregnant is totally rational. The women who do this are always acting in (what they believe to be) their best interest. The fact that it is not in her mate's best interest or in the couple's best interest as a whole does not enter into the equation. The average woman schemes and plots on a level men never dream of. Assuming female stupidity has been the downfall of many men.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 01:18 AM
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Sorry for the late reply, I really wanted to give a concise, considerate response. All of these men were in LTRs of >1 year. Ages range from 18 to 27. The circumstances that lead me to warn of an impending "accident" are diverse, but fairly predictable. Several men reached expected milestones in their careers ( they secured ideal post-graduation employment, got a position on a college football team, signed a professional basketball contract), a few settled into live-in relationships with single …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 10:00 PM
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Of course we are. Did you just learn that women are self-aware? I've warned so many of my male friends that their gfs were about to "accidentally" get pregnant. I haven't been able to save a single one...
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 04:50 AM
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Yes. This.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 05:29 AM
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Yep. Captain Badass will be surrounded by men married to frumpy mothers and I will live in the gym, never cut my hair, and keep house like a five star hotel. I intend to spend my youth looking way too hot to be anyone's mom.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 02:58 AM
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It's not shameful, it's just how half of humanity behaves. Men seek youth and beauty. Women seek providers. Stop whining about it and be that alpha provider.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 02:31 AM
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It's repeating? Dunno why...
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:20 PM
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On the contrary, I am very much aware that my body is built to attract a mate, get pregnant, and then raise a child. However, I feel humanity (or perhaps just many societies,) have evolved far past merely serving our biological purpose. By overpopulated, I mean that in America, the supply of children far outstrips demand. There are plenty of kids if you want one. Why destroy your figure for it? What's so special about your genes that they need to be passed along? There's a bunch of pretty girls …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:19 PM
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On the contrary, I am very much aware that my body is built to attract a mate, get pregnant, and then raise a child. However, I feel humanity (or perhaps just many societies,) have evolved far past merely serving our biological purpose. By overpopulated, I mean that in America, the supply of children far outstrips demand. There are plenty of kids if you want one. Why destroy your figure for it? What's so special about your genes that they need to be passed along? There's a bunch of pretty girls …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 07:33 PM
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On the contrary, I am very much aware that my body is built to attract a mate, get pregnant, and then raise a child. However, I feel humanity (or perhaps just many societies,) have evolved far past merely serving our biological purpose. By overpopulated, I mean that in America, the supply of children far outstrips demand. There are plenty of kids if you want one. Why destroy your figure for it? What's so special about your genes that they need to be passed along? There's a bunch of pretty girls …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 07:07 PM
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On the contrary, I am very much aware that my body is built to attract a mate, get pregnant, and then raise a child. However, I feel humanity (or perhaps just many societies,) have evolved far past merely serving our biological purpose. By overpopulated, I mean that in America, the supply of children far outstrips demand. There are plenty of kids if you want one. Why destroy your figure for it? What's so special about your genes that they need to be passed along? There's a bunch of pretty girls …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:32 PM
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On the contrary, I am very much aware that my body is built to attract a mate, get pregnant, and then raise a child. However, I feel humanity (or perhaps just many societies,) have evolved far past merely serving our biological purpose. By overpopulated, I mean that in America, the supply of children far outstrips demand. There are plenty of kids if you want one. Why destroy your figure for it? What's so special about your genes that they need to be passed along? There's a bunch of pretty girls …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 06:31 PM
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I can see your point everywhere but with the kids. It's not that I don't want them. It's that I hate them. I can't stand to be around them. The process of pregnancy destroys a woman's body. A professional can dig up your bones and tell you've had children! That's horrifying. Your breasts never fully recover from breast feeding. The late nights and stress age you quickly. They scream. They howl. They're filthy. They have nothing of value to say for 12+ years, yet they talk constantly anyway. They…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 04:52 PM
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But I'm not marrying him for the sex. I've never been married, but I figured that when the all consuming passion fades you're left with your goals and dreams and a sense of mutual respect. In my visions of the future, I'm not chained to a bed or being whipped in a kitchen. I'm taking off his boots when he gets home, planning exciting surprises for us, and helping to build a beautiful life with him. My goal in life is NOT to secure the ultimate alpha. I don't expect him to be a beastly stud forev…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 03:37 PM
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Isn't gaslighting making someone doubt their memories/sanity? I don't do that, I just don't bring it up. I let things that bother me go and then wallow in the unhappiness solo, rather than bring him down. His home time is like vacation, and it feels selfish for me to bring up issues when he's home to rest. I don't feel that I force him to put my feelings before his, if anything I take his feelings into account first. I'm always looking to improve, but I don't think I could be much of a danger to…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:37 PM
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I'm not a psychiatrist (dunno if you are either) but I don't would think I'd qualify for that diagnosis simply because I come from a family that doesn't discuss issues. I'd also like to point out that I wasn't abused. Far from it. My parents are lovely, caring, supportive people. Edit: He's actually my fiance but I'm kind of confused about why he should run from me? I feel empathy, I don't suffer from delusions of grandeur. I feel guilt when I do wrong. I'm not arrogant, entitled, or exploitativ…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:21 PM
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... someone simpler? Ouch.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:02 PM
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I don't have a STEM degree yet, I'm about to complete one. I'm actually one class away from being a certified technical writter as well! But no, I don't bother with structure when I'm writting on my phone. I'm sorry it gave you trouble, but the decision to waste time with that level of analysis was yours alone.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 07:59 PM
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No, it's not a selective memory. It's genuinely a distaste for conflict. I get upset and store it, rather than starting a conversation. This makes sense to me (he travels, why would I want to have a "talk" when he's only home for a week?), but it drives him crazy.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 07:57 PM
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I appreciate the input but I'm rather confused that your life advice would be to leave the man I love. Why? Because there are better alternatives? There will always be better alternatives. Isn't that what the men on this sub hate about women? My parents have introduced me to every available male they work with (mom is a doctor, dad is a lawyer.) I'm very aware that my options are open. I'm VERY aware that I could spend the next few years trading on my looks until I settled down with "the ultimat…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 07:37 PM
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His point of contention is actually my habit of ignoring my own displeasure, rather than how I voice my thoughts.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 07:03 PM
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I actually appreciate the disbelief, in a way. Thank you for the compliment, although I'll have to file it away in my "things not to focus on" box. One of the first things I learned from my relationship with Captain Badass is that my ego is MASSIVE. And ugly. "We can't have everything we want. Except for me. I get whatever I want." <--- I actually said that shit once upon a time. I really didn't even see the money as "the thing" that makes him head of our household. There's so many other things …
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:54 AM
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When we met, I was a student with a well-paying internship and he was a flashy bartender at the hippest of college dive bars swoon Anyway, shortly after we got together, Captain Badass picked up a well-paying job (which I hate, because he travels a lot) that he decided he would stick to until I graduate. He didn't want to come home and start school until I had the ability to bring in more money (he's lived broke before, but I come from a very comfortable family, and he knew I wouldn't handle it …
/r/askTRP22/10/14 03:32 AM
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I work, but he makes more money. But he used to joke that when I left school he'd have an allowance and be a "kept man". I thought he considered it a good thing.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 10:46 PM
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By this logic, I should stop encouraging his decision to go to school and get my masters while he keeps working. Not really sure how relationships work with such a zero sum mentality.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:57 PM
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I appreciate he imput, but there's only one man who calls me babes, and you ain't him.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:55 PM
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... your theory on how I avoid making him feel inferior is to work on myself MORE? Forgive me, but I don't see the logic.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:38 PM
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I suppose I wrote that poorly. Perhaps a better way to say that is: "frequently complimented by associates coworkers and acquaintances on my bearing, elegance and grace."
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:37 PM
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Seriously...? What's the deal with this sub? How and who am I trolling?
/r/askTRP21/10/14 08:30 PM
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Which means be a better woman at home...? I'm just kind of confused because when we first got together he used to laugh about his "sugarmomma". Now that graduation is approaching he seems far less amused.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:59 PM
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Which means...?
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:54 PM
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I followed the rules of the sub and I've been nothing but polite. I'm not sure why you think I'm trolling or who said trolling would even be directed at.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:31 PM
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I definitely take that as a compliment, since I think I've represented my situation pretty accurately, but at the same time, I'm rather confused. I do my best on the domestic front, but our messy kitchen and unfolded laundry are (currently) very visual reminders of my shortcomings. I spent four years working on a degree that's actually going to COMPLICATE my relationship with the man I love, rather than make it easier. I can be selfish and spiteful, capricious and panicky. But I try. And I'm her…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:16 PM
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Glad SO expects more of his woman than you do ;)
/r/askTRP21/10/14 06:59 PM
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Lmao omg, I've got to show SO this one! I'm 5'6, 125 lbs. No tattoos. No piercings (other than the standard single hole per ear) and I don't dye my hair. I'm far more comfortable in pearls than hipster glasses and "sassy" is not a quality I seek in any fashion accessory.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 06:54 PM
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Don't get too excited, my unfortunate SO is currently tasked with teaching a 23 year-old how to blow him. sigh
/r/askTRP21/10/14 05:56 PM
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Definitely! Although I'm far more insistent upon them than he is.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 05:48 PM
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Confirmed.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 05:40 PM
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