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Kinda. I had this happen to me once back when I used to work at a grocery store. I really wanted to tell her "Maybe you should smile more," but I resisted the urge to. I instead ignored her and rolled my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:48 PM
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Damn, no playing with Legos or doing other fun stuff, just sex, that kind of relationship sounds boring as hell. I wouldn't want to be romantically involved with someone who thinks that this is good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:27 PM
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Don't care. As long she doesn't have a problem with me hating on the Disney live action remakes (Disney has been running out of ideas).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:34 PM
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I would never date down. But I define dating down as dating someone who has qualities that I find to be unattractive/dealbreakers (like for example: smoking/vaping, promiscuous, atheist, fat, hates children, political extremist)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:35 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:13 AM
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Not exactly the same thing but one of the founders of American first wave feminism and the first ever female senator was a pro slavery white supremacist. Her name was Rebecca Latimar Felton. Actually there are a lot of other women like her from that time period that for some reason are never mentioned by the history books.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:03 PM
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I don't hate promiscuous women but I try to avoid them. I'm a bit particular about the kind of people I choose to associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:12 PM
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They should move to the US instead. Lots of men here love tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:15 AM
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The kind of woman that loves a murderer is the kind of woman that I'm staying far far away from....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:15 PM
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The problem with your post is that it doesn't acknowledge the nuances of relationship roles (excluding giving birth), it pretty much says that if you want to have children you have to abide by strict black and white gender roles. Even your definition of the 50/50 model lacks nuance and most likely isn't how most couples operate. My point is that each individual couple should decide for themselves what works best for them and their situation because what works for one couple might not work for an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:08 PM
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How often do you guys feel like you’ll be put in a position to help/defend random women? Why do you feel as though you’re even equipped to do so? If I’m in danger, you’re probably in danger too, lol To be fair I have seen some women on Reddit preaching about how men should hold other men accountable and how they should defend women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:15 PM
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I go to Starbucks 3 times a week, yet I don't normally stay and sit around and stuff. Outside of work I generally avoid talking to women that I don't know. I mean I do eventually want to find someone, but at the same time I've seen how difficult dating is for other men which really makes me think "is dating actually worth it" Edit: also, the woman who complain about men not approaching should probably try approaching. I wouldn't mind if a woman approached me first, I do generally respond positiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:36 PM
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Pimples.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:57 PM
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I don’t even know why this could be controversial at all. Maybe it's because you don't know what you're talking about and are just looking for excuses to justify your hatred for Autistic men. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:02 PM
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"You couldn't live with your own failure, and where did that bring you? Straight back to me."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:39 PM
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Not yet, but she said that she wants to read my book when I'm finished writing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:24 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:50 AM
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It's kinda hard to accurately plan that far ahead in terms of relationship dynamics if you don't have a specific man that you are interested in. But it's important to keep in mind that some effort is better than no effort and comparing yourself to other women is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:41 AM
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I am, but I'm currently writing a book. And my feelings about college have definitely worsened as time goes on. I haven't been doing well in school, so I'm trying to find alternative options for a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:26 AM
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Air raid sirens or police sirens. Wait, is this a question for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:22 AM
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I do think that it's a little sad that a girl that I've known for 3 months that I met at work is more supportive of my goals and dreams than anyone in my family. I don't really have mommy issues or daddy issues, but my parents act all pessimistic whenever I mention that I want to pursue a career in writing. I just wish that they were more supportive. I do often wonder if other men are in similar situations: where their parents try to discourage them from pursuing a creative career because of AI …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:17 AM
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When I was younger I had no desire for romance or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:15 PM
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It slightly irks me when people post stuff like that. Because it seems to encourage men to be performative in order to show that they are 'safe'. Pedro is very physically touchy because it's how he was raised and also it calms him down. The actors that he interacts with know this and are okay with his quirks. So it feels disingenuous when people take those clips out of context and use it as a example of what all men should do in order to attract women. And is Pedro even straight???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 07:08 PM
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Mom is currently unemployed but is looking for work. Dad is a Police Sergeant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:03 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:09 PM
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Why are you pissing in people's beds?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:55 PM
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68 cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:58 PM
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Huh? Is that the only conclusion that you've drawn from the previous post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:45 PM
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This is definitely one of your more random questions. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:46 PM
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Nope, just because she's a OnlyFans star.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:01 AM
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Your question is better suited for the redpill side of this community as the manosphere is something that is commonly associated with the redpill ideology. I personally don't have much to say about the manosphere. But I do think that many people (especially bluepill women on this subreddit) wrongly assume that people gravitate towards manosphere stuff for seemingly no reason. The cold hard truth is that they find manosphere stuff appealing for the same reason that some women gravitate towards fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:57 AM
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Not surprising. Having a low attention span is very common among iPad kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:11 PM
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I just re-watched The Princess Bride and now I feel weirdly optimistic about love 😢.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:34 PM
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For real I'm 5'8 and I know women who are taller than me. I'm the one who should be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:37 PM
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Yes. I deal with people with odd quirks a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:24 AM
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For someone who is a lesbien, OP sure does seem to be very interested in making posts about men or heterosexual relationships and also now is trying to give advice to people in heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:19 AM
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Giving love to people who won't give love back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:57 PM
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Ultimately many just don't think that it's worth it anymore. The effort it takes isn't worth the results. When you see so many men talking about their failed marriages or getting cheated on, it becomes harder not to ask questions like "is dating even worth it anymore?" There is someone who I kinda like right now but if things don't work out with her then I might just give up on dating. I'm not a black or redpiller, but it's hard to feel optimistic about dating when the effort doesn't seem to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:43 PM
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Got banned from whitepeopletwitter because I said that people should find more interesting things to do other than to whine about the same 5 people all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:07 PM
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I would politely inform her that Chatgpt doesn't think of itself as a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:25 PM
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I am mostly okay with dating Christian, Jews and non religious people. I personally am not religious but I believe and pray to God. As long as my partner believes in God, that's good enough for me. I will admit that I am skeptical of people who are heavily into Astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:53 PM
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● Loyal, kind, caring, emotionally intelligent. ● Family oriented ●not a Atheist ● has interesting goals and dreams ● isn't a political extremist or doesn't constantly bring up politics ● Wants to eventually have/adopt children ●Genuinely cares about me. ●Doesn't smoke or do drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:34 PM
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women: very selective about sexual partners Jokes on you, I think that's a good thing. A woman who is willing to have sex with just any man is not someone who I would be interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:15 PM
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If she meets my standards, then I would be okay with being in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:06 PM
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I meet 4 of these qualifications (responds to texts quickly, make plans, have a passport, and pretending to care about Taylor Swift.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:56 PM
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Calling women "homophobic" just seems dismissive Can you think of another reason why a woman would make such a big deal about her boyfriend being bisexual other than homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:24 PM
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Because cheating means that she doesn't love or respect me. Why is there such a difference between the sexes? Homophobic stereotypes against bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:42 PM
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I'd rather find out that she is bisexual. I'm heterosexual but I don't mind dating a bisexual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:56 PM
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Block him on Snapchat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:55 PM
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That sounds Fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:24 PM
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Not all women should become mothers some do terrible shit to their children. For example Casey Anthony, she killed her own child just so she could go party more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:16 PM
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Me by the end of the year (it's 100% going to happen) <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:03 PM
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Yes. Her having a PhD doesn't automatically mean that she is smarter than me. But to answer your question, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:35 PM
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Watching My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic is a suitable alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:15 PM
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Of course you think that there's no valid reason for men to not want to date a single mother. Because "all women are saints".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:11 PM
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Male/Heterosexual/Somewhat Asexual Interesting question....um...I assume that my ideal spouse would be looking for someone who is family oriented, is good with children, and has a lot of dreams and goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:37 PM
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No. I am many things but a gold digger is not one of them. Someone's wealth does not determine how attracted I am to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:07 PM
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Nah, I'm saying that some people here are just way too snarky, whiny or malicious for me to ever publicly agree with them. So I just play devil's advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:24 PM
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Many such cases here. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:02 PM
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Tell them directly that I like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:56 PM
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The girl I currently like only has one of these red flags, owning a small dog. But I don't get how that's an actual red flag. I prefer smaller dogs over big dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:01 PM
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On your point about men going to the club because of the women there. I personally feel like a nightclub is one of the worst places to look for a potential girlfriend, I've been to one once and probably won't go again. I've also heard other men express this opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:49 PM
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Tell her that I'm not interested in her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:43 AM
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This post does honestly make it seem like Gen-Z women are elitist/classist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:28 AM
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I'm not entirely sure how. I would have to discuss with my wife about how I can best support her while she's pregnant. I wouldn't be mad that she's doing less just because she is pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:30 PM
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Yes. By coming up with some sort of plan with my wife that we both agree with. Like if we're both home and not at work we could take turns changing dippers and feeding the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:51 AM
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The same argument can be said for things like monogamy, marriage, and men being the ones expected to propose. These are all traditional things that are still practiced in many modern relationships. My point is that there's a lot more nuance to this debate than just traditional vs non traditional because even your typical "modern western women" isn't a complete opposite of the traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:30 AM
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Hell naw! YouTube and books.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:01 AM
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I just want someone who is willing to put the same amount of effort into the relationship as I do. Traditional, modern, I don't truly care. Also let's not pretend that just because someone is a "modern western woman" that automatically means that they're willing to pay or split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:11 PM
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I have a few non negotiatable dealbreakers one of them is disrespecting my boundaries on things that I don't want to do. I'm not into drinking alcohol at all and I'm not very interested in going to bars or nightclubs. If a woman gets upset that I'm not interested in doing those things then that's her problem not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:09 PM
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You've been posting about "average men" a lot lately. Did something happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:40 PM
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I'll be right back, bout to go learn telekinesis. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:43 PM
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I think that I will get a girlfriend soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:43 PM
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Dating inflation is when you date someone who keeps on gaining weight over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:41 AM
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Neither should men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:22 PM
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No, that sounds depressing and unromantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:51 PM
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I don't do casual sex so I guess no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:46 PM
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Every day I thank God that none of the women that I know believe in stuff like this.🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:08 AM
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This post sounds like a desperate cry for help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:02 AM
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Probably very similarly to the way I currently do. Someone on here once told me that I think like a woman, and honestly they might be right. Although I do think that I would be more likely to approach/make the first move if I was a woman. And I would be more likely to date within my own race (black) if I was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:59 PM
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Ask God to allow me to unsee what I have just seen. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:53 PM
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Ok <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:15 PM
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Divorce immediately. It would really psychologically mess me up to think that the person I loved most thought that I was a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:04 PM
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Blame me, I'm the one preaching about how men shouldn't settle and should raise their standards (I'm not just talking about looks when I refer to settling though).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:14 PM
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Maybe. It depends of if I'm allowed to have my headache meds with me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:09 PM
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Yes, I'm trying to tread carefully in regards to her. Right now me and her are just friends but if we do eventually get together I will bring it up to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:10 PM
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What kind of people do you tend to crush for? Taken people, not on purpose. It's just a coincidence that the girls I like are usually happen to not be single. Are there any particular traits, physically, emotionally that draw you in? Pale. Blonde hair. Skinny. They take an interest in the things that I like, they respect me, I have some similar hobbies or personality traits as them. How often do you come across someone who really meets that mark? Not often, I don't find most people very attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:45 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:28 PM
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I definitely have a type. I don't know what he's yapping about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:43 PM
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Yes. Very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:38 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 11:32 PM
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OP!s post history. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:20 PM
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Graceley, mainly because she's closer to my age and wants to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:10 PM
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Talk about lack of accountability Accountability for what? OP made a generalized claim without providing any evidence. She also doesn't acknowledge that all love is conditional, which means that there are also conditions for women's love. Nobody is capable of loving anyone unconditionally, so it's okay love someone conditionally. And besides, all of OP's posts come across as mean spirited rants that are a byproduct of her insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:05 PM
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Breaking news, there's no such thing as unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:49 PM
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People can trust me with their throats Most disturbing thing I've read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:19 PM
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I think you and many Democrats vastly overestimate the amount of people that voted for Trump just because they can't get in a relationship. This is the kind of c0pium that really makes American Democrats seem very out of touch with reality. I recall last year I watched a YouTube video of a Russian woman explaining why she endorses Donald Trump for president and I found myself actually agreeing with a lot of what she said despite my negative opinion of Trump. A lot of her points had to do with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:07 PM
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I don't think that this is the best place to be asking for relationship advice.......
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:41 PM
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We both know you wouldn't be saying that if it was an attractive guy with a ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:36 PM
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It's 70 degrees where I'm at, and the next week is going to be even colder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:22 PM
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4 more days until Starbucks brings back the pumpkin spice latte. Yes!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:07 PM
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I ain't dating a Clanker.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:40 PM
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I'm trying to see if she gives an honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:37 PM
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Are you racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:04 PM
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69% of US adults are misogynists 420% of US adults are misandrists 666% of US adults are racist 1000% of US adults are homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:53 PM
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Good on you for not giving her money. If she wants to scam men so badly there's a website for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:21 PM
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I'm a virgin. But probably the second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:36 AM
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do you ever worry that someone could easily lie about their n count Somewhat. If you’re dating someone completely outside of your social circle, how could you know if the person’s telling the truth Ask questions related to the topic in order to find out her opinion on casual relationships. What’s the point in asking if someone could easily lie, and you’d have no idea? To see if they're okay answering uncomfortable questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:34 AM
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A. Low I'm borderline asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:27 AM
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Another banger from my "favorite" author. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:24 AM
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I would ask her why isn't she happy about the chocolates and tell her that she should be more honest with me in the future about this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:56 PM
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I would talk to her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:42 PM
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Baby Jumpscare!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:35 PM
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Yes. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:59 PM
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This is a real book.... <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:39 PM
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Eh somewhat. Someone who is at least smart enough to understand my way of thinking is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:38 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:13 PM
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No, I don't even say that word unironically on the internet either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:16 AM
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I should start charging people money just for looking at me in public. I could end up being a millionaire by Friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:43 AM
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I thought that babies just magically fell out of the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:20 PM
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you should be open to talk about your relationship history. What if there's nothing to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:02 PM
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I would be okay with being married to a right winger. As long as she meets my standards and respects me. I don't identify as either a leftist or rightist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:44 PM
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😀😃😄😃😀😃😄😃😀😃😄 :) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:16 PM
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I always like it when the baristas at Starbucks write a cute little message on my coffee cup. Today one of them wrote "Don't dwell on dreams and forget to live."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:09 PM
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No, please don't remind me of that. That debate brings out the worst in people.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:59 PM
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I've read a lot of OP's previous posts on this subreddit and have concluded that she thinks that men should put a lot more effort into relationships than woman do. She only cares about how women benefit from a relationship, which is why she thinks that women supporting their boyfriends is pick me behavior. OP even made a post criticizing men for not approaching women just because it meant that women would have to approach men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:49 PM
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Nah, honestly I look like a younger Will Smith..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:00 PM
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Just realized that OP referred to the woman in the video as being a "pick me".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:29 PM
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Because it shows that she loves and cares about her boyfriend. In a day and age where people are constantly posting pointless "gender war" bullshit it's nice to see some positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:22 PM
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Wish that my hair would grow back already, I don't like having a buzz cut anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:04 PM
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I generally am more afraid of women than I am of men just because of past experiences with bullying and physical abuse. This also means that I find it easier to trust other men than women. The reasons why I have such high standards for relationships have to do with not wanting to end up getting divorced like my parents and also due to me being on the asexual spectrum. I'm just not easily amused by women and am okay with being single for the rest of my life. This does also mean that I'm completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:59 PM
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Is this your way of coming out as lesbian? It's okay, we accept you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:50 AM
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Isn't Roblox's playerbase mostly 6 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:39 PM
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Based mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:52 PM
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Oh really, I've actually met quite a few women who meet my high standards. So I wouldn't say that my standards are unrealistic. Also I would rather die alone than to settle for someone that doesn't meet my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:09 PM
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I don't really consider anyone to be out of my league. This doesn't mean that I'm willing to date everyone it just means I try not to put people on pedestals anymore, as it gives them more power than they actually do have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:38 AM
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Don't care what league I belong to. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:15 AM
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Me realizing that I don't make a living wage. So now I'm going to die within the next 24 hours. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:10 AM
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He might be better off watching Skidibi Toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:48 AM
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Attractive hobbies for women: reading fantasy or sci fi, drawing, creative writing, exercise, volunteering, engineering, video games, cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:41 PM
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Don't sign up to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:01 PM
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I mean there's people who are mad at Pedro Pascal right now over nothing....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:49 PM
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was born in ohio. Come to Michigan, we're basically just like Canada but with Detroit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:49 PM
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Yes. I'm glad that she felt comfortable enough to open up to me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:45 PM
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This applies to people who think that they speak on behalf of their whole gender. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:42 PM
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I've had my ups and downs with him and he doesn't always agree with my life decisions but we're okay. In comparison to my mother, my relationship with my father is pretty stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:31 PM
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So is World War III going to start because of breasts? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:26 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:26 AM
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Ass I honestly don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:22 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 11:50 PM
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I doubt that, just look at her post history....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:43 PM
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Not a gal, but this is the funniest thing I've read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:42 PM
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Trying to force men into accepting non monogamous relationships is just going to push many of them into giving up on relationships. Also I would never take a cheating girlfriend back, because I know that I can find someone better than her and I would be compromising on my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:20 PM
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I'm still going to run for president when I can. It's time for the new era of America!! I will reorganize the US into the first Galactic Empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:21 AM
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Nobody is capable of loving anything unconditionally. Honestly, none of us deserve unconditional love anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:03 PM
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Run.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:10 AM
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Cl@nker, exterminate!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:19 AM
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I ask her "what do you mean by impressive?" For context, I work with special needs kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:13 PM
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I would rather die alone than to forgive a cheater or date someone who isn't into monogamy. I'm not going to compromise my personal boundaries just because some people are too horny to be with one person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:08 AM
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Dang Cl@nker lover!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:36 PM
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Overnight camp is supposed to be starting tomorrow at the summer camp that I work at. I'm excited for overnight camp but I'm sad that my work crush isn't working overnight camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 08:46 PM
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I am single. Wait a minute.....why do you care?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:45 PM
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Bring cat treats the next time I go over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:10 PM
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I'm glad that you're finally starting to accept the fact that you are not straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:18 PM
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I'm holding out for an alien bf I know it'll happen Careful, I might try to recruit him and the rest of his kind into my space empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:25 AM
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but you’re the only one saying women think this or that like you’re an authority on us. She does that quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:24 AM
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That subreddit is so annoying. Like who the fuck cares about what political party Sydney Sweeny is registered as?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:31 PM
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No. Mainly because I don't want a open relationship and i don't really have much desire for sex. And besides one woman in my life is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:29 PM
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I know that I've said some things about sex and promiscuity that have pissed off people here, but I'd honestly assume that she was referring to my view on marriage proposals. I truly would want my potential girlfriend to be the one who proposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:03 PM
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To offer my unique perspective (which sometimes manages to piss off blue, red and blackpillers) And also to blog about my life in the daily thread and troll people. I used to do this on r\teenagers and r\GenZ but I'm now too old for the teenager subreddit and the GenZ subreddit is full of millennials whining about politics, so now I've moved here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:45 PM
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Envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:20 PM
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Negative stereotypes that were first perpetuated by the Ku Klux Klan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:45 AM
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Why do men always over inflate how attractive other men are? They are not overinflating the attractiveness of him, they just simply have a different opinion than you. We are all biased when it comes to determining attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:39 AM
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I kinda just did. I notice that most people here with the "pinkpill" flair have very pessimistic views of relationships and men which often mirrors what blackpillers say about relationships and women. Instead of criticizing feminism, pinkpillers criticize redpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:11 AM
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Pinkpillers are just blackpillers who are too afraid to admit that they share the same black and white mindset about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:01 AM
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The current drama about celebrities like Sydney Sweeny and Pedro Pascal really shows how terminally online some people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:38 AM
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Sorry, you're not sigma enough for me. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:03 PM
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If you get a warm feeling after you interact with them. If you accept them for who they are and you also feel accepted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:57 PM
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You're mad that men aren't lowering their standards? Most people (including me) here think that men generally set their standards too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:31 PM
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6 books written.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:00 PM
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Damn, I didn't know that Jamie Lee Curtis was so inspiring. Good for you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:19 AM
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I don't use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:16 AM
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Jumpscare! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:21 PM
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So you're going to propose at a funeral?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:32 PM
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I don't think that she's wife material The only 2 things about her that I think are green flags are that she's kind and plays video games. I have a neutral opinion on her: height, weight, race (I'm also black but I usually like white women), wealth, and political standing. The 2 qualities that I think are red flags are that she doesn't want children and that she's a Athiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:59 PM
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Are you asking if she would be a good fit for us or you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:41 PM
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I am repeating what men say about men and dating. It’s literally what the guy in the video was saying. Less than 1% of women meet their standards. Hmmm but when men say this about women, they usually get called a incel or misogynist. Isn't that interesting. Meanwhile that guy is attempting to derail the conversation. Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:57 PM
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Running.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:43 PM
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Too much division among people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:27 PM
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So there's this new girl at my job that I kinda like and for the past month we’ve been talking and hanging around together at work every day. She is 100% my type and we get along so well and have similar personalities. It feels like I've known her for much longer than just a month. I notice that she purposefully tries to be near me or asks if we can do stuff together at work. Like ⁶ for example she asked if we could walk to our cars together after work, (I highly doubt that she asked this for sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:25 PM
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So you're allowed to shitpost but he can't, that doesn't seem fair. I mean, your comments are satire, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:16 PM
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Somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:57 AM
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Wait, I thought that you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:50 PM
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Most helpful purplepilldebate user. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 05:05 PM
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Perhaps they have divorced parents and don't want to end up like them. Like honestly, I'd only ever get married to someone if I think that they are my soulmate. I don't want to end up like my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:39 PM
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As a former incel, this idea doesn't sound very appealing to me. Mainly because of the "blue haired lefty" part. I don't know (or care) which political label I align with the most and I have met a few leftist girls where I feel like I have to 'walk on eggshells' while talking to them. I don't want to date someone who I feel like I really have to filter what I say around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:36 AM
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Anyone can be treated badly by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:24 PM
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I mean so what if he doesn't find her that attractive? I don't think that Sydney would be very offended that some random right wing Youtuber doesn't find her very physically attractive. She's not his girlfriend/wife anyways and also beauty is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:22 PM
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I'm already very picky about who I date, so I guess technically yes. Doesn't change my opinion on dating apps, which is already a very negative opinion. This question vexes me. Was my girlfriend the one who posted about me on the app or someone else? I'm not married but even if I was, why would I cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:53 PM
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Nah, my favorite short king Link shares a bed with Princess Zelda in one of the more recent games.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:41 PM
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Left 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:36 PM
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Men are afraid women will laugh at them, Right, because no man ever fears being abused....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:59 PM
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Let's not pretend that nobody would ever use that app to spread false information about a man that they dislike even though he's done nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:49 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:35 PM
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Skinny. I would prefer a working wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:33 AM
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Not sure about nudes scenes but definitely wouldn't date someone that does OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:29 AM
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Today at work I was asking a few of my coworkers if they're planning on going to the nightclub on Friday because I heard that some of my coworkers were planning on going to a nightclub on Friday but I'm not sure if I will be going (I don't like loud crowded environments and yes I have been to a nightclub before). One of my coworkers said that she won't go unless I'm going but the thing is, I was only planning on going if she was going.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:26 AM
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0, I never have really cold approached anyone. I am honestly quite anxious about speaking to strangers (especially women) so I don't talk to random people unless I have to or they speak first. Despite my paranoia I still would rather cold approach than to use dating apps. At least with cold approaching you are talking to the person in real life and can more easily establish a connection with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:51 AM
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I've been approached quite a few times and have been asked out 3 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:47 AM
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1.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:20 AM
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Some of my coworkers are planning on going to a nightclub on Friday and honestly I think that it's unlikely that I will be going with them. It depends on if my favorite coworkers are coming or not. I'm just not really a nightclub person, like I went 2 years ago and it was okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:28 PM
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I agree eventhough that happened all 3 times that I've been asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:06 PM
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I take the money. No,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:30 AM
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Maybe men aren't "holding up their end" of this stupid imaginary contract because they don't think that it's worth it. Maybe these women should start approaching if they want a boyfriend. Do you ever think to consider things from the POV of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:26 AM
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you think you look approachable, generally speaking? Yes, very. how generally friendly/gregarious are you? Does it match up with how approachable you look? I try to be as friendly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:05 AM
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You misunderstood my point. You can't expect people to 'speak out' about something that they don't know about. And besides what do you expect people to say other than "Rest in peace" or "She's in a better place now"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:56 AM
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Sunshine Stewart Your argument would be slightly more convincing if I had ever actually heard of this person before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:26 PM
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If I ever get married, it better be to someone who appreciates my cooking because my mom clearly does not appreciate my cooking for some reason eventhough other people have praised my cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:01 PM
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Maybe, but one time it wouldn't let me upload this image. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:49 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:22 PM
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You 'basically' said that men only like promiscuous women. I said that promiscuous women are a personal ick for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:41 PM
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Both of those people are fools. REAL MEN vote how they want to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:20 PM
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You don't know how being promiscuous relates to having sex early?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:11 PM
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Promiscuity is on top of my "ick list". Also making dumb generalizations is on the list also.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:02 PM
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Ha ha jokes on you, I'm actually demi/asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:46 PM
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I truthfully don't care that much about having sex. But I do feel a lot of pressure to have sex because of the stigma against adult male virgins. Similar thing with relationships, though I do want to get married and have children one day. The process of dating these days sounds tedious and kinda unrewarding unless you find someone who you are very compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:20 PM
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Ok. My answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:40 PM
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But that still isn't me thinking that the answer would be no. I won't ask anyone out unless I'm 90% sure that the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:01 PM
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Why would I ask someone out if I thought that they would say no? Life is too short to waste with people who don't want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:49 PM
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If I ask someone out, that means that I expect the answer to be yes. What kind of question is this??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:39 PM
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Fellia what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:30 PM
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of which party you support sooner rather than What if you don't support any political party because you think that they all suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:32 PM
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Wasn't Issac Newton a virgin when he died?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:28 PM
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This post comes across as victim blaming and undermining the impact that abusive women have on men. Automatically assuming that the man did something wrong when he opens up about having a crazy/abusive ex just highlights your personal bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:51 PM
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No, that seems like a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:29 PM
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Easy. First option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:06 AM
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Guess I'm a woman then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:47 AM
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Green
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:03 PM
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That's the best you got? Funny that's exactly what I overheard your mom saying to your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:58 PM
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Oh, so that's why she never responds to my comments.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:40 AM
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I think that he responded to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:47 PM
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This whole post is a great argument as to why using dating apps in 2025 isn't a good idea. This is the only subreddit where I see people getting mad about men having standards. Should men just go for women that they don't find attractive or appealing, is that what you're trying to advocate for? Thinking about dating and attraction in a purely logical sense is quite unhelpful and ineffective because some preferences can't be explained by logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:35 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:17 AM
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Aw shit, here we go again with this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:06 AM
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Same, except that I want a girlfriend. I'm just afraid that I'll end up with someone who cares about me less than I care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:13 AM
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Get rid of "crack" and bring back "Devil's tango", "Horizontal Dancing" and "Woohoo" as slang.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:27 PM
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I don't have a beard. So I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:13 PM
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I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:34 AM
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Would you say that the same is true the other way around, that there's no reward for being a woman centered man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:20 PM
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Tell her that I'm not interested and move on with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:42 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:09 PM
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Yes. Good chicken is good chicken no matter where it comes from. (For those wondering, I am the "anonymous redditor" that OP was referring to. I honestly was just trolling her and not taking the stuff she says seriously)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:41 PM
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Same. I love my creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:17 PM
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Here you go. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:39 PM
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Well I guess that pretty much every American politician (including the president) is lonely. Correlation isn't always causation. Just because someone is lonely doesn't mean that they are selfish. And just because someone is selfish doesn't mean that they are lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:38 PM
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Notice how she's the only one who mentioned loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:24 PM
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I'm not redpilled but I also refuse to be bluepilled. I tend to operate based on reciprocal effort. Like for example, I'm not going to buy flowers for someone unless I 100% know that they would do something similar for me. Doing so otherwise would be simpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:19 PM
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They are the hypergamous ones. Not women. So basically, "mEn bAd, wOmAn aRe sAiNts". Your comment is so fucking hilarious to me, because I've been telling people here that men in general should raise their standards because too many men settle for the first lady that gives them attention. Men should be less willing to accept gold diggers or people who don't genuinely love them, but unfortunately many are just to avoid being lonely and because they feel like they don't have many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:23 AM
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We just want to be loved and appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:57 AM
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I do deny your claim. But why? I would like to know the real reason why you care so much about male hypergamy. It is delusional to think the men are there for the food and not for the thin, attractive, significantly younger and more beautiful women. There's also a bunch of old ladies entering the restaurant in the video. Are those old ladies lesbien?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:54 AM
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What a childish idea. This is the opposite of what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:15 AM
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Magneto (Marvel) Orin the Red (Balders Gate 3) Demon lord Girahim (Zelda: Skyward Sword)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:05 AM
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Same reason I went to Hooters, for the good fried chicken. This might surprise you, but I think that old couples like fried chicken. Also at least you didn't deny my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:35 PM
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You know, I've realized that the only people who complain about male/female hypergamy are the people who don't benefit from it and are salty that they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:13 PM
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Well than what's the name of the chess piece that can move in all directions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:35 PM
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The music I listen to is only on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:02 PM
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I would sympathies with her and tell her that I have a different reason for wanting to wait to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:58 PM
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No. I am somewhat asexual so this post is just my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:16 AM
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Earlier today I convinced one of my coworkers to go watch Star Wars the Clone Wars. She's in for peak Star Wars!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 01:50 AM
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What exactly did you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:02 PM
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Woman who makes the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:57 PM
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I've gotten approached a few times and have been asked out 3 times. All 3 times I have said no because it felt slightly suspicious to be asked out by someone who I've never spoken to before, also the third girl was clearly way too young for me. I'm also a virgin by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:21 PM
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Look at the posts on the main sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:55 AM
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Does that stand for Brick Building Construction?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:21 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:02 PM
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The past 6 days have been not just good but fantastic. Yet i find this suspicious, because it is rare that I have this many great days in a row. I'm honestly expecting something really bad or really good to happen soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:00 PM
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Honestly i dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:28 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:07 AM
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Do men not watch porn en masse? What does that have to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:34 AM
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If men say noble things about themselves, I’ll repeat it too, but I have yet to hear it. I think that I am a very compassionate and ambitious man. There, now repeat that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:22 AM
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That's ironic coming from you. <image> What you claim as being the truth is just a sexist generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:52 PM
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Poorly disguised rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:14 PM
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I have high standards so around 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:52 AM
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Who is lusting over Hasan? Because everytime I hear about him it's because he said some dumb shit and caused drama. Why do you think it's an assumption? Because you're oversimplyfying attraction to the point where you make women seem like a monolith. I've noticed a common talking point among left leaning individuals is to shame single men by claiming that they can't find a date because they don't virtue signal to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:51 AM
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I fail to see how it's unreasonable to want to date someone who has a similar level of sexual experience/n-count. Though i'm assuming that you think that it's unreasonable....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:27 AM
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Typical blue piller assuming that virtue signaling actually gets people laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:13 AM
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No. Also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:29 AM
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Tell her that I don't want sex and ask her to contact the police. I don't have sex with people who I am not in a long term committed relationship with. Plus allowing someone that I don't know to stay at my house probably isn't a good idea. If I was friends with her then sure I would let her stay over at my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:22 AM
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He's not the only closeted homosexual man here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:19 PM
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I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:16 PM
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Yes. Although I don't know how I'd feel about dating a Muslim as I'm not very familiar with their culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 07:04 PM
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Darth Vader <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:55 PM
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• Athiest • Promiscuous •Hates cats and/or children •Isn't family oriented •Lacks communication skills • Is fat • Too old or too young • OnlyFans or anything like that • Political extremist •Constantly talks about politics •Isn't compassionate •Disrespects me, makes me feel unsafe, etc • Bigotry •Has nothing in common with me • no goals or ambitions. •Vaping, drugs, alcoholic. •high sex drive •Bad sense of fashion •Doesn’t want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:53 PM
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True. There's quite a few things that I consider to be a dealbreaker like being a Athiest, or hating children, or being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:30 PM
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I have seen about 4-5 different therapists throughout my short life. Over time I started to notice that I didn't quite need to see a therapist anymore and there are some things that I'd rather write in my diary about than to speak about to a therapist. People on this sub view therapy as being the ultimate fix for men's mental health, but I think that they are overexaggerating the helpfulness of therapy. do you think a weekly session of chopping wood and using an excavator to clear debris would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:23 PM
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Studies show the actual percentage of demisexuals is around 1%. Weird, that sounds a lot like the results for the study about Asexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:59 PM
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On this day in 2004 a husband and his wife had to spend their holiday at a hospital instead of out lighting fireworks. At that hospital the wife gave birth to an adorable little hellspawn. Today that hellspawn celebrates his 21st birthday. Happy birthday to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:43 PM
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There were probably other problems in the marriage and I'm guessing that she initially lied about her past. Why would any self respecting person want to stay married to someone who isn't honest about something they did? Also, everyone's past matters. Without the past there is no present or future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:57 AM
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Someone who will stick with me even when there is struggles and times get tough. Someone who I can build a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:06 AM
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I'm a INFJ. If one priorities finding group harmony within others before yourself, it might make you feel worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:01 AM
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I can’t talk about it here Yes you can. This is a judgment-free zone......or is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:50 PM
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Dang your birthday is like 3 days before mine. Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:44 PM
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Why so sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:38 PM
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Skinny white girls with blonde hair. When I was younger I had zero interest in romantic relationships but I do recall that in elementary school a few of the girls who were nice to me had the description that I described above. There have been times where I liked someone who wasn't my usual type. Like last year I liked this redheaded girl who was bisexual and earlier this year I liked a Hispanic girl who had dark hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:37 PM
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Very negatively. I would only ever have sex with someone who I'm in a long term committed relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:15 PM
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will sctually be encouraged to support male-only spaces, because it's clear women don't want men around Like i said, the male only space in this scenario sounds like something out of Hunger Games (which is not a good thing). I would be more inclined to support it if it was more like a actual utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:10 PM
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I personally am 20 and I don't find older women appealing at all for quite a few reasons: They're most likely at different stage of life than I am. Not much in common (I collect Legos and watch kids cartoons for crying out loud) Experience isn't always a green flag especially if they treat you more like a student rather than a boyfriend. This especially applies to sexual experience as I am a virgin and want to date someone who isn't very sexually experienced. Also more likely to be a mom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:43 PM
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No probably not I wouldn't feel betrayed. I would never cheat anyways, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:12 AM
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No. A great face also doesn't make up for a not so great body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:12 PM
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Is this how men feel about female OF creators? Yes, well that's at least how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:01 PM
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Yes. Just usually on days where I'm just chilling at home doing stuff like playing Zelda games or listening to true crime videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:59 PM
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Abide by the Bro Code and inform her that I think that she would be a better match with my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:03 AM
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Wait a minute? Isn't this the lady who was complaining about "boob armor" in Star Wars a few years ago? I thought that I recognized her name from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:59 AM
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Looks just okay but is honestly much better than what I see people in public wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:53 AM
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No. That's too different from my current life. Kinda sounds like District 12 from the Hunger Games. You'd probably get completely different responses if you asked a similar question for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:23 PM
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No. As long as she meets the most important requirements (not a Athiest, not a political extremist, isn't promiscuous, wants to start a family, is caring ambitious and compassionate, between the age of 19-23, doesn't vape, and similar BMI as me) I am willing to overlook other stuff that doesn't matter as much. I mean, nobody is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:15 PM
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No. Major overreaction. Violence should be a last resort not the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:26 AM
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I've seen this exact story before. 100% fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:18 PM
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No. The Incel community is probably more diverse than that person's friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:13 PM
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marry men who look way beneath them Chances are that those men also have money or fame. Cough cough...Taylor Swift Travis Kelsi, Kyle Jenner Timmothee Chalamet, Kim Kardashian (literally choose any of her boyfriends as an example). I'm not saying that either generalization is true but rich women are probably not the best example to use to prove that women are more willing to date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:43 PM
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I am able to get along with people who have drastically different political views as I am. I tend to judge people more on their actions than what views they hold. I also tend not to care who people vote for as it would be quite hypocritical since I did not vote in the most recent election. Like if I found out that someone who has been very nice to me and has helped me out with stuff voted for Trump. Guess what, I wouldn't care. This mindset also does apply to dating. The main thing that is if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:26 PM
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So you're upset that people are generalizing women as being hypergamous but then you proceed to generalize men as being attracted to gold diggers. Don't you see the irony in this? Also I'd rather die alone than to ever be in the presence of a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:54 PM
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The exact same way I live now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:20 PM
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They would not make good partners And you would?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:18 PM
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by their gross beliefs about women and sex Is it gross to refuse to date someone who isn't compatible with me? I have little interest in sex and would only ever be willing to have sex with someone who I am in a long term relationship with, I suspect that I might be asexual but I still want to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:16 AM
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I mean I'd rather die alone than to be with a woman that doesn't meet my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:42 AM
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First paragraph is wrong women are perfect Does this also apply to woman who are rapists, domestic abusers, bullies, and pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:35 AM
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you're not a prostitute. Funny enough, OP admitted to being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:11 PM
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Between the age of 19-24 Shares similar values. Like family, loyalty, honesty. Isn't promiscuous Is compassionate, kind, ambitious. Is slim or fit Is willing to take things slowly in a relationship. Wants to have children and is good with children. Isn't a Athiest. Doesn't constantly talk about politics Isn't a political extremist (far left or far right) Has intresting hobbies Likes cats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:42 AM
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Do you have casual sex? Ew no. Why does it matter what women you're not compatible with do in their lives? It only matters if they negatively judge others who don't have that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:40 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:26 AM
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Stuff like this is why I'm not homophobic. Men who stray from the conventional norms are treated differently and are sometimes judged harsher than men who fit the norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:20 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:06 AM
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I mean I know for a fact that my standards aren't unrealistic. I can name at least 3 people that i know who meet most of my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:24 AM
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She thinks that you're too dark? Ummmm, as a fellow black man, please disregard her advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:07 AM
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Encourage them to befriend/get along with people who are different than them. Too many people these days are tribalistic and unaccepting of others who aren't like them or look different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:00 AM
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Ah yes, because manipulating people into doing what you want is the cornerstone of every healthy and stable relationship. /s Also this post comes across as being very selfish and narcissistic because instead of encouraging couples to discuss at length their feelings about eventually getting married, OP encourages women to verbally abuse their significant other into doing what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:55 AM
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Why does it sound like he's congratulating someone for winning a competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:08 PM
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you’re sexually frustrated I'm definitely not insecure The thing that I'm most insecure about right now is having no idea what I'm gonna do after this summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:09 PM
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Today at work one of my coworkers recommended that I watch Love Island (I don't normally take show recommendations but whatever). I normally don't watch reality TV, but maybe I might enjoy watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:56 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:41 PM
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I don't think that admitting that there's a difference between men and women is bigotry. But I've noticed that the way some people talk about men is the exact same way that white supremacists talk about black people....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:24 PM
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Fortunately no. But I did run a 5k last Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:21 PM
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People are concerned about World War 3 happening, meanwhile I'm worried about this intense heat outside, it's 90 degrees where I'm at (32 Celsius in case the non-Americans were wondering). Hopefully it won't be so bad tomorrow morning because I have to go to work and I'm kinda sensitive to the heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:17 PM
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All that torment and pain. Why God, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:31 PM
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Kraven the Hunter!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:30 PM
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That's good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:56 PM
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OK, my answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:24 PM
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Who would be doing the thrusting, a man or a woman? C'mon this is very important information.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:19 PM
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Has your situation with your boyfriend improved or gotten worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:16 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:14 PM
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Backshot? As in penetrative sex or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:11 PM
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Shouldn't the opposite also be true, shouldnt women strive to meet the standards of the men they want to date? Or should men just have no standards and be willing to accept the first woman who gives him attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:08 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:00 PM
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Because you want sex more than us, obviously No, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:13 AM
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Does he regularly check in with the main character to get her consent? No, I actually have the book and just from reading the back of it, it's made quite obvious that Christian Grey ain't asking for permission...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:33 PM
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Not to sound like a doomer but this is one of those "damned if you do, damned if you don't" kind of situations that I've seen my fellow men fall into. There are many people who think that asking for permission too much kills the mood, but there are people with the exact opposite sentiment. Both are valid preferences but it does cause confusion and miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:03 PM
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Often. Usually at work.
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:23 AM
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That's actually not a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:15 AM
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This sounds like something Kanye West would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:20 PM
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Honestly when I do eventually get married I'd change my own last name to my wife's. My last name is way too common, several family members have married someone who has the same last name. In my high school graduation class, like 5 other people had the same last name as me. I pray that I don't marry someone who has the same last name as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:28 PM
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Go for a bike ride or walk in a city/town and then we would go get ice cream or just sit and skygaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:33 PM
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Mmmm, penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:14 PM
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Well I think they might be gay *
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:00 PM
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Eh, I'd rather be single forever than to drop my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:14 PM
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Is the same true for women who can't find a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:11 PM
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I'm a very vocal advocate against "traditional" gender roles, so I think that all of this stuff is fine, especially proposing and being asked out. I often dream about being proposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:01 PM
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Mental:Being able to take a joke/sarcasm. If someone can't handle my sarcasm then womp womp. Physical: around the same BMI as me (19-22)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:30 AM
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Just keep it to myself and distract myself with something unrelated. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:03 AM
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Awww, thank you man!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:32 AM
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I don't take medication for acne but I do use acne moisturizers that aren't specifically for black people. Never had a bad reaction to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:22 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:18 AM
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I'd pick the Rhino.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:21 PM
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As much as he (realistically) thinks that he needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:10 PM
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No, I need my alone time sometimes. Plus, I 100% guarantee that if someone was obsessed with me, they'd get jealous of how I treat my cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:13 PM
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I do rarely ever find attention that I receive from woman to be unwanted even if I don't find that particular person attractive. So, my answer is probably no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:33 AM
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I once got into a debate with someone who was very much against parent's divorcing because of how it would affect the kids. I think that they were bluepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:51 PM
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So let me get this straight, you don't think that a woman has ever reacted negatively to a man opening up about his problems in an appropriate and mature way? Women don't mind men emotional vulnerability in men so much as we are thoroughly sick of having to constantly nurture men through their self-inflected crises and "vulnerable" times only to be completely abandoned or more often victimized by the male partners when we have emotional problems. Prime example of the halo effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:01 PM
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Unfortunately none of those lines would really make me likely to swipe right. Especially 2# and 5#, immediate nope without hesitation. I am currently not very interested in traveling and I personally would think that whoever wrote line 2# probably takes life too seriously. Then again I have never used dating apps and am unlikely ever to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:29 PM
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I miss those hairstyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:36 AM
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No. Two of the girls I've been romantically interested in recently were taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:17 AM
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Imitate fictional characters that have a voice that you wish that you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:39 AM
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so we don’t have to become mommy and nag So communicating clearly what you want is nagging? Oh lord, I believe that this is the exact reason why so many relationships these days fail. Failure to communicate EFFECTIVELY. It's a personal ick of mine if someone is too passive in their communication. Passive communication just makes things needlessly complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:24 AM
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PPD users trying to go one day without making a "Woman bad" or "men bad" posts:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:06 AM
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No, unless her and her family can't seem to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:42 PM
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It's okay man, you don't have to hide who you are on here. We all accept you for being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:39 PM
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Happy Pride Month.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:05 PM
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Look, I think that maybe these women who obsess over giving hints should actually communicate what they want instead of relying on "easter eggs". Like I definitely would not want to date someone who refuses to even tell me what she wants. Open and clear communication > giving hints
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 06:02 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 01:06 AM
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Alright fine. Then what are you trying to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:08 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:05 AM
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Not said but perhaps "implied"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:59 PM
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Ew!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:57 PM
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have no idea why I should or would only restrict it to red-pilled men Because your post is trying to prove a point about how expecting woman to change their preferences due to shaming is hypocritical if one has never changed their preferences due to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:55 PM
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No, I don’t care about what women think of my preferences. Also, is this a question for men or redpilled men because I think it might be better targeted towards the latter demographic?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:17 PM
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least drink something together at social event Ew no.🤢 So just because other people are doing something, means that I should do it? That's fucking cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:04 AM
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When she's my girlfriend or if she decides to give me a gift first. Basically I need commitment before I start giving gifts. If she expects gifts before she decides that she wants to commit 🚩🚩.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:56 AM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:01 PM
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You met through YouTube? *
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:56 PM
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Would you continue searching relentlessly? That's what I'm doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:35 PM
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Clearly those aren't the same men that the person who you replied to was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:28 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:11 PM
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Damn, I've been forbid from answering this question. *
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:07 PM
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I could never date a Athiest or someone who smokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:00 PM
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If you get AIDS, don't blame us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:25 PM
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What's the point of saying that you did research when you didn't even provide a source? Also I don't want any of the things you listed (besides someone who I find attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:04 PM
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True. Bi people give the best advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:55 PM
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I remember one time when I was at a speed dating event, and there was this cute girl who I was talking to a lot during the event. During our conversation I asked her about God and she admitted that she was a Athiest, I kinda lost all interest in her after that because I'm against dating Athiests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:35 AM
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Alright OP, we get it you hate men. You can stop with the pointless terminally online "gender war" posts. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:17 AM
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So it's perfectly okay if you make generalizations about half the population based on anecdotal evidence but if a man does it, suddenly it's an issue? I'm not saying that he's right, I'm just pointing out something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 03:00 AM
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That has only happened once. I've also gotten friendzoned once. I've gotten rejected due to them already having partners twice. What really sucks about this is that I'm pretty sure that all of the girls that I liked (besides the one who friendzoned me) probably would have gone out with me if they were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:09 AM
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My reaction to the album cover (I don't give a shit about Sabrina Carpenter):
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:24 AM
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Don't care enough. There's so many guys that get cheated on, verbally/physically abused, taken advantage of, or feel unsatisfied in their relationship. It's hard to know if it's actually worth pursuing love these days. Also, Whenever I become romantically interested in someone I end up finding out that they're already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:52 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:24 PM
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Nobody experiences unconditional love and nobody actually deserves unconditional love. They don't deserve something that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:50 AM
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Because it's pride month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:06 AM
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Today was the first day of training for summer camp and there's a new camp counselors that I think is kinda cute. Hoping that tomorrow I can get a chance to speak to her. Today I mostly just spoke with people who I already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:25 AM
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That sounds very tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:38 PM
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Going on a walk or bike ride together through a city or park. We would then find a calm place to sit down at and talk about our goals, dreams, and passions in life. We would then cloudgaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:33 PM
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Still no. She doesn't do anything romantic on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:27 PM
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Oh look the femcel is back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:49 PM
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No. The fastest way for me to lose interest in someone is if they don't reciprocate my effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:55 PM
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I guess I'm not a man, since I don't dream about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:50 PM
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Pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 03:40 AM
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Stuff like this is why I'm never deleting YouTube. Lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:04 AM
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Try to find a different route to my destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:39 PM
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OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:37 PM
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So you think that my example is a strawman argument? But you're implying that promiscuous women are dance happy alcoholics who can't read. Not what I'm trying to say. People everywhere possess qualities that I would consider to be attractive and unattractive. But some unattractive qualities like being promiscuous or having a high sex drive are things that are automatic dealbreakers for me. Another person might not be promiscuous but they hate kids, again automatic dealbreaker. Someone doesn't ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:36 PM
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You're missing my point. The example was to point out qualities that would make someone more compatible with me because it is consistent with my lifestyle/beliefs vs qualities that would make someone less compatible with me (or things that I feel neutral about like being extroverted)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:15 PM
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Honestly I'm not sure if they're more prone to settling. But probably less prone to deadbedrooms because of high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:45 PM
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As someone that does care about N count, I do find it interesting how people view caring about this kind of stuff as being a symptom of insecurity rather than as wanting someone who has shared values and lifestyles. Like for example, if I had to choose between someone who: Has had sex on the first date and is open to doing it again, goes out to nightclubs often, drinks alcohol frequently, is a extrovert. Or someone who: Is not willing to have sex for the first year of a relationship, goes to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:14 PM
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, or a woman who wants to wait until commitment to have sex? The second kind. I would never have sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:43 PM
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At my very first job, there was a coworker who had an obvious crush on me. One of the reasons why I didn't reciprocate her interest was because she never asked me questions about myself, she only ever talked about herself and she sometimes talked about really mundane and boring stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:06 PM
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I've been saying this since forever. Preach, brother! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:58 PM
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Ha ha! She will be MY wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:50 PM
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I'm starting to think that I would make a great therapist. Two days ago, I took my little cousin to go see Thunderbolts* and he spent the whole car ride there talking about how his mom wants him to go to some military school and he's not sure if he should go or not. I was asking him follow up questions about it in order to gain a better understanding of the situation. I empathize with his situation, and he didn't feel like I was judging him. And he eventually decided that he will go to the milit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:49 PM
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do you honestly, truthfully, believe kamala would have caused half the drama trump has caused? Not to the extent of Trump. However I do imagine that her being pro-Israel won't decrease the number of protests going on around the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:19 AM
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Let's be honest, the world would still be shit even if she was president. And no I'm not saying this because she's a woman, I'm saying this because she's just like every other American politician: dull, out of touch, picks fights with others (although I can't entirely blame her for picking a fight with Trump, he's a easy target).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:51 AM
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From this comment and your various replies, it seems like you should maybe discuss this with someone you trust in real life. It seems like this predicament is going to go on and on again unless someone intervenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:37 PM
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Are they gonna send her to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:31 AM
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It's both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 11:16 PM
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No. I do usually only hang out with platonic friends in grop settings where everyone just pays for their own stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:17 PM
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Truthfully I think that both men and women need each other whether we want to admit it or not. Society functions better if people are able to cooperate together, and in order for cooperation to occur a stable community is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:06 PM
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Now that Trump and Elon Musk have officially broken up, I can finally ship Trump with his one true love. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:56 PM
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Does anyone else get bored of these poorly disguised "gender war" rant posts? Like we get it OP, you're a misandrist who has a very black and white view of men. You know it's not even the sexism that I find most problematic about these posts, it's the fact that the people who make these posts are too closed-minded to possibly have their views changed/challenged. *
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:37 AM
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Next Saturday I'm supposed to be going to a work bonding gathering,we're supposed to be doing a 5k obstacle course thing. But that's on the same day that I'm supposed to be going to a speed dating event, guess I'll just have to find a different speed dating thing to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:50 AM
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Around a year ago there was a really terrible snowstorm in my state and on my way home from college my car (which doesn't do very well in the snow) slid of the road and nearly hit a stop sign. The lady in front of me then got out of her car in order to see if I was okay. Luckily I wasn't injured at all but I was having difficulty getting my car unstuck. The lady then helped guide me on how to get my car back on the road and made sure that the cars behind me didn't get in my way. God Bless her he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 01:57 AM
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Even guys that read Lord of the Rings, Dune, Star Wars, nonfiction books or the Bible? I'm just curious, cause this is quite an interesting dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:59 AM
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That's the west side of Detroit that has the lung cancer problems, the city portion not so much. Whenever I go over there there's always someone sitting/walking outside smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:08 PM
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Oh my. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:58 PM
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It's interesting how those make fun of minimum wage workers when they themselves probably eat McDonalds everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:28 PM
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Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:29 PM
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Nah, I'm a billionaire and the CEO of Disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:45 PM
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Average PPD member's worst nightmare. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:09 PM
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What's that saying about a wolf in sheep's clothing in regards to male feminists? The people who openly brag about how good they are and that they're a proud ally are a lot of times actually bad people. Yet folks STILL fall for it because they're gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:22 AM
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I find it fascinating how you say stuff like this but then get mad about men's relationship standards. I truly wonder why that is the case....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:19 AM
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Yes. Emotionally cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:18 AM
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When both the right and left fall, I will finally rise!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 08:25 PM
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I thought that he wasn't in the middle? America could do with a revamp to its political system though, all these politicians do is bitch about "woke", "DEI", "Fascism", and "Trump" all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:29 PM
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The best thing one can do for their mental health is to pursue a passion. Like my passion is writing and helping others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:23 PM
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This shit is why I don't feel sorry for men. Okay, good for you😁. I know better than to expect sympathy from someone that immediately thinks of the worst possible outcome of a hypothetical question. Like damn, I can't imagine being THAT much of a "glass half empty" kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:19 PM
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don't think there's anything redeemable about denying her her freedom. I view it more as asking for a chance, as sometimes people can change their minds about someone who they misjudged. If she's absolutely sure that she doesn't want to be with me, that's also ok. I just want to make sure that she's 100% certain that she's making the right decision. I mean who knows maybe me and her could just be friends or maybe I won't even like her at all and just will immediately sign the document upon first…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:48 PM
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Break up. I don't like people who make politics their whole personality. Like I don't care who she votes for, as long as she doesn't simp for those politicians, I'm fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:16 PM
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Because I want to try to get along with others and work through our differences? Yeah that makes so much sense....... God forbid a man actually tries to see the good in people and is a optimist. If me and the government girlfriend can't seem to get along at all, okay that's fine we just go our separate ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:09 PM
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what if she tries to kill you? Call the police and sue the government. or worse dead bedroom you? That's the worst thing you could think of? Look, if things just don't work out at all, I will sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:52 PM
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My brain would tell me to sign it, mainly due to peer pressure from the government gf and my desire for peace. My heart would tell me not to sign it, because there might be potential for us to eventually like each other if we at least try to get along. Naturally I would follow my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:41 PM
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Maybe. A month ago I was watching this YouTube video about this girl who uninstalled dating apps to meet people in the real world. She mentioned something about how when she was at a bookstore a guy came up to her and told her that she was beautiful and she found that flattering. That video slightly restored my faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:02 PM
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Yes. He talked about how he wanted to marry a 14 year old, and I was telling him about how it was illegal in the US. Apparently I was wrong, as it's legal in several states. This was 3 years ago on a different subreddit, people are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:18 AM
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Are you trying to compete with someone over who has the biggest dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:50 AM
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Look if that happens, it's only fair that child marriage is also made illegal everywhere. Kinda weird that it's still legal in many places. I only know that it’s legal because I got into a debate with someone about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:04 AM
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This is 100% correct. If people like you, they make time for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:35 AM
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Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:47 PM
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I remember during my incel phase I got asked out twice and one of the really popular girls at my high school had a crush on me. Although to be fair back then I had zero interest in relationships and the girl that liked me turned out to be very promiscuous so it was never going to work out anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:13 PM
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Asexuals don't know how blessed they are. I don't feel blessed. My mom and other people think I'm gay. Dating is hard when it takes a year to decide if I like someone platonically or romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:22 PM
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Well I can explain that behavior. It's a status symbol even though it functions the same way as similar items. Almost a decade ago when I was in middle school, people viewed you as being uncool if you wore Sketchers, and they viewed those that had expensive shoes like Jordan's as being cool even though both Sketchers and Jordan's are shoe brands. i would buy one if it was easily accessible lol. Companies do that on purpose as they know that scarcity creates value. If someone tried to make a busi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:28 PM
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I have noticed that the only women here who complain about men's standards being too high are femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:08 PM
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This lady is just gaslighting people into thinking that there's something wrong with a man if he doesn't find a particular woman attractive. Honestly, she sounds like a narcissist. Also not the first time I've heard that take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:03 PM
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Having a bias when observing makes your claims less creditable. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:39 PM
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Be happy! Or else.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:41 PM
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Next week I start doing training for summer camp. I've been a camp counselor for two years now and I'm excited to be doing it again. Looking forward to seeing some familiar faces and some new ones because usually each year there's different kids and counselors. It's not like I actually do much else during the summer besides bike riding and jogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:39 PM
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Maybe he was just caught off guard by your suggestive comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:00 AM
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Damn man that sucks. Hopefully things turn out better if you decide to date her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:21 AM
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Anakin Skywalker and Padmé Amidala (Star Wars) Peeta Melark and Kaitness Everdeen (Hunger Games) Miles Morales and Gwen Stacy (Spiderman) Barry Allen and Patty Spivot (The Flash)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:18 AM
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This stuff just motivates me to never use dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:14 AM
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Um I don't actually expect to be approached because it's not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:41 PM
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Bros mad that I described a AI image as cute. God forbid a man be attracted to nerdy-looking, modestly dressed, redheaded white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:27 PM
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One man's trash is another man's treasure. Beauty is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:22 PM
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I don't hate women, the women in my life are wonderful. I just have absolutely zero sympathy for the women who hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:52 PM
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What? I think that she's like a 8.9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:44 PM
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Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:25 PM
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But I don't want to become a sex guru. I want love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:07 PM
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I am 20 and i personally have no interest in dating someone who is 5+ years older than me. There are a few reasons why: They are at a different stage of life than I am. They are most likely well established in their careers or are not in college anymore. I prefer someone who is more at my level in terms of dating experience. I also feel like someone who is around my age is less likely to have a issue with me still living with my mother and having never been on a date before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:05 PM
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I have never been on a date. But I frequently have dreams about going bike riding with a girl in a city and then we go near the boardwalk and watch the sun set.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:22 PM
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I don't signal at all. They just notice me and initiate conversation. I almost never initiated conversations with random people unless it's at work, but I have had several women initiate conversations with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:32 PM
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That's how all of her comments sound like to me.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:25 PM
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Hahahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:52 AM
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I don't think that I'm a accurate representation of most guys. I'm kinda asexual, doesn't watch sports, likes cats, has 4 ear piercings, I used to play with a Barbie dollhouse when I was younger, and I'm a psychology major.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:39 AM
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I respectfully hope that your phone runs out of battery before she's able to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:06 AM
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So someone who I think is just "okay looking"? Uh pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:57 PM
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I don't have Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:13 PM
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Fellas, my time has come... <image> Ok, but in all seriousness she seems like a sweet and funny person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:59 PM
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Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:45 PM
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I know but I just think that they’re a cute couple despite the poetic tragedy of their relationship. To me they're basically modern Romeo and Julliet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:52 PM
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Too many conflicting beliefs. My beliefs mostly align with Judaism, but I am not Jewish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:24 PM
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Yes, I actually prefer to date outside my race. Yes, unless she's an Athiest Hell no Yes Absolutely yes Probably not No Absolutely not! No (I'm too young to raise kids) Yes Yes Yes, I'd prefer that. Absolutely not! Yes No, I want to be the primary caregiver. No Yes, I live with my mother. Depends on the reputation of the sorority No Probably not Not sure, maybe no. Yes No Yes (I don't think it's fair to reject someone just because of their name) Don't have a best friend but absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 08:15 PM
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I'm looking for real authentic love. In a age where people promote gender war nonsense, or being overly paranoid about everything. I just want to have a real deep connection with someone who is loyal, emotionally intelligent, ambitious, absolutely exquisite, and matches my vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:50 PM
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Is it bad that when I do eventually have children that I want to be the primary caregiver of the kids? I want to be the one who takes them to school everyday, cooks dinner for them, and reads them bedtime stories. Like I do not have much interest in traditional family dynamics, I prefer to do things the way that best suits me. I still would have a job though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:35 PM
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I speculate that she's not actually that paranoid about going out to eat, she's just not interested. If she was interested she would agree to go out with him but then also suggest that they get to know each other better over text. Look, I also listen to true crime and her reaction would be 100% justified if he suggested that they go to a park at 9PM or his house. But he suggested that they go out to eat, people usually eat in public places like restaurants or cafes. Is she worried about him pois…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:13 PM
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I think that he realized that she wasn't that into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:03 PM
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It might be worth contacting your city/town council to potentially do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:52 PM
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There's at least 2 people who post in the main sub who I really hope get banned. Their posts contribute nothing besides being preachy and full of bigotry. I don't feel like reporting them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:03 PM
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I agree. There's many different kinds of women out there in the world. There's Goth girls, there's gamers, there's farm girls, there's Instagram models, there's tomboys, there's the OnlyFans girls, etc you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:47 PM
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Oh look, more childish gender war ragebait. This post operates on what I like to call "Kindergarten logic". Let me explain "Kindergarten Logic" You see, little Timmy justifies throwing poop at other kids just because little Sally threw poop at him first. So Jimmy thinks that it's okay to do bad things to others just because someone did something bad to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:41 PM
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Last year (19)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 06:18 PM
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No. I already do enough virtue signaling. Edit: before someone decides to take my comment out of context, yes I do believe in equality. But why should I identify as a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:34 PM
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The second type of woman. Someone who posts explicit photos on social media most likely has different values than me that would make us incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:14 PM
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Young men, for the first time in history, are now drinking less
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:07 PM
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Happy Men's Mental Health Month to all of my fellow kings. And happy Pride Month also to the queer folks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:01 PM
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It's not actually propaganda. It's just a trend where people state their unpopular/controversial opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:25 PM
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Propaganda that I won't fall for: You have to Go to a restaurant on a first date US politicians actually care about us Not wanting to date promiscuous people means that you're insecure Big tits > small tits Men don't need women. Women don't need men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:16 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:07 PM
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True. I love to see bigots getting upset when others challenge their narrow-minded views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:46 AM
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Nah, I would live my life the exact same, well except that I'd probably be more likely to compliment random women and be more willing to make the first move on people that I like (assuming that I'm a straight woman). I am convinced that my life would be slightly easier if I were a woman, considering my current circumstances. OP seems to assume that everyone compromise on their values when given the chance to, which honestly isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:27 AM
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I've gone two decades without sex and I can go the rest of my life without sex. Easiest $700million ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 12:02 AM
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Gotta look in the right places my friend, but that raises the question of 'what are the right places'? I don't think that you're likely to find a good long-term girlfriend at a bar or nightclub, but you might find her volunteering or at a park.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:46 PM
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I'm surprised that the most viewed video isn't about the N-word.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:38 PM
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She seems to think that women can do no wrong or that everything bad a woman does is a man's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:31 PM
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Does anyone else here have frequent dreams about being a hero? I been having dreams where I help comfort a random girl after something bad happened or take down a terrorist. Maybe I might be Superman....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:50 PM
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Help support her by advising her to find some sort of distraction (like meditation, video game, drawing) that can draw her mind away from what happened. Thinking about it will only prolong her mental suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:17 PM
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Why does your mother like your brother more than she likes you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:26 PM
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I mean I don't think that I'd want to hang out with someone who would ever say "all men are trash" regardless of if they actually meant it or not. To me it's exactly like someone saying something blatantly racist and then being like "Oh I wasn't talking about you, you're one of the good ones".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:02 PM
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This isn't rocket science. Humans desire companionship, but when they keep on falling or are discouraged from finding that companionship it usually leads to them becoming incels/femcels. There's a general stigma against seeking companionship with AI or sex robots and plus sex robots are expensive. Also I have a hard time taking a post that unironically uses the term "modern men" seriously. It's just like how those podcast bros talk about "modern women".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:50 PM
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Why sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:33 PM
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I used to be on the Student Congress at my university, I actually quite liked it a lot as it helped me become more connected with various students at the university.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:17 AM
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What if the people who have tried it tell you not to use it? Like seriously I've read several articles about how young people (at least in the US) are getting sick of dating apps and are trying to find partners through run clubs and cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:32 AM
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Favorite movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:47 AM
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Cool. Still rather become an author and a psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:56 PM
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The golden rule. Treat people how you want to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:32 PM
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Honestly, this is such a based mindset to have in regards to dating, well besides nearly having an affair with a married woman but you guys get my point. I believe that it is important for my fellow single men to exercise patience in regards to dating. I'm personally okay with dying alone and sexless if I don't meet the right person. I'm not advocating for men to go MGTOW/giving up on dating, I'm just saying that they shouldn't fear being alone, because that fear leads to desperation, and desper…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:31 PM
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Doing schoolwork and going bike riding.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:41 PM
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Not before I marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:48 PM
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She's kinda cute, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:41 PM
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Who are these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:40 PM
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Lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:44 PM
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How short?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:12 PM
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As a unapologetically masculine figure, He's fat, throws tantrums over criticism and probably hasn't been to the gym since The Empire Strikes Back came out. That doesn't sound very masculine to me. Also let's not pretend that people don't have valid reasons to dislike him, he's waging a pointless war with universities instead of actually trying to fix the American education system. Just another example of how people in the government just want to divide us and make us hate each other(and yes, my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:00 PM
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Thank you for engaging thoughtfully Best compliment that I've received all day. It seems that I misinterpreted your original post, I thought that you were defending stereotypical gender roles that Conservative individuals try to impose onto others. Now that you've further elaborated on your point, I honestly kinda agree with some of your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:01 PM
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No. I'm also talking about personality, values, and green flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:32 PM
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Bruh she's not broke💀. just crashing out post-breakup? Oh she's single, well what a coincidence so am I.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:06 PM
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I work with children with disabilities. I am happy with what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:59 PM
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I find her to be quite charming honestly. She has such a cute laugh. And I don't even find big boobs that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:46 PM
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True but my comment is about avoiding having unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:21 PM
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You seem to be putting men into a specific frame and being upset when a man doesn't fit the typical provider frame. Which I do find problematic, because it assumes that society will only function when everyone fits into a certain frame. Although there are some traditional beliefs that I think are valid, reducing men to certain "masculine" roles is not one of them. And time and money are precious, both men and women shouldn't have to waste their money and time on someone that brings no value to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:25 PM
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Here, watch this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:19 PM
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Watch YouTube videos. That's how I learned how to play chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:59 PM
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I feel like a good rule of thumb when it comes to having standards for relationships is that if you can't name at least 2 people (excluding celebrities) you have met that meet most of your standards, then your standards are probably too high. I consider my standards to be quite high, yet I can name at least 4 people that meet most of my standards (3 of them are not single but that's not the point)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:58 PM
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Being a white knight/pick me. They usually suffer from self-hatred, depression, or internalized misandry or even internalized misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:37 PM
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I wouldn't react at all. There's a lot of things that I do judge people for but how they got their education isn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:50 AM
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I can't believe that Donald Trump broke up with his boyfriend. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:16 AM
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No. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:25 PM
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Question for men: Who is your favorite Disney Princess? Me personally, I've always liked Mulan because she's basically just a tomboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:06 PM
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Someone who truly accepts you for who you are and will stick by you when shit gets rough and makes you feel like you would do anything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:53 PM
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Psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:45 PM
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Someone who longs for real true authentic love instead of meaningless stuff like hookups or situationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:35 PM
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Haven't ever tried that but blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:28 PM
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I'm kinda bored, feel free to ask me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:19 PM
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I exist. Literally every girl I've ever been interested in dating has been one who is slim with small boobs Also you sound just like the guys that say that women who adore short men don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:23 PM
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This is the wrong reason to not have respect. Oh that's cute, but I don't give a shit about the "correct reason".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:09 AM
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I honestly have near zero respect for men who would give all their hard-earned money away to someone they barely know. They do not respect themselves or their future and actively encourage selfish gold-digging behavior. The worst part about it is that they give their money to people that aren't even worth it. Like if you're gonna give someone a bunch of money at least give it to someone that will treat you like a king. [And no, this comment does not apply to donating money to charitable causes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:54 AM
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Second girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:22 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:18 PM
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Alright, so we got female British Donald Trump, a pirate that married her own stepson, and a manipulative and ruthless empress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:17 PM
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This makes me wonder about who they think would be a good female role model for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:10 PM
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My bad, I got mixed up about the different roles. Thought that I was forgetting about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:01 PM
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Not sure about the US, It's different here in the US, there's only a small percentage of women in manual labor jobs (construction, carpentry, electrician). Even back when slavery was legal, the female slaves usually did housework and the male slaves were out in the fields picking cotton and plowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:31 PM
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I don't think that anyone here represents the majority of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:38 PM
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Hell no. Self respect keeps me away from OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:07 PM
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In my defense, I respect women who aren't misandrists, racist, ableist, or elitist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:02 PM
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That's just sad bro. These girls lie constantly anyways, why shouldn't I do the same. This is the same excuse that kindergartens use when they get caught doing something stupid. "Well you see, little Timmy was throwing poop at me, so I did it back to get revenge." You see what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:22 PM
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I remember a while ago some people got mad when I said that I wouldn't date a woman who's 5+ years older than I am (I was 19 btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:43 PM
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A lot of people on this subreddit are incapable of ignoring ragebait. It's almost like they thrive of negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:28 PM
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I am able to do a handstand underwater.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:02 AM
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Alright, good to know.👍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:51 AM
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Whatever you do, don't ever let him read the Spiderman section of Marvel Zombies. That shit is traumatizing, And yes, that is the comic where this image comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:44 AM
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Men insist that the red pill isn’t mainstream Because it isn't, nobody I know in real life talks about this "gender war" nonsense🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:02 PM
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He only posts stuff like this when he hasn't had sex in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:50 PM
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Almost never... I swear that I'm not gay, I just don't find most random women sexually arousing or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:29 PM
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No, I don't dislike you. You seem pretty chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:42 PM
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I've been thinking of starting a YouTube channel, but honestly, I don't know what I should post. Vlogging? I'd much rather start a blog. Gaming? There's already an overabundance of gaming channels on YouTube. Commentary? Depends on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:25 AM
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33 and hair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:12 PM
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Oh so you only make good decisions huh.... So does that mean that you don't have any exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:04 PM
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It's more like a coping mechanism/paranoia than an actual worldview. However I do believe that it's hard to know who to trust, which just leads to me defaulting to not trusting almost everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:00 PM
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I should have put a disclaimer about how I wasn't talking about psychologists, not because I don’t trust what they say, but because they don't represent the average person. How did you become so ignorant of the world around you? Past experiences have shown me that I can't trust many people. The only woman in my life that I feel like I can be fully vulnerable with is my mother, but I wish that wasn't the case; I wish that I could trust my grandmother again, I wish that the girl that I used to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:26 PM
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Not a huge fan of her clothing style, I kinda prefer a more modest style like golf clothes. I am a man of style, I like someone who can match my style.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:22 PM
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I almost never see any women online claim that they find men being vulnerable attractive. Where is this movement, cause clearly I haven't been seeing it or maybe OP is overexaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:07 PM
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It definitely depends on age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:26 PM
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That's like asking if you think that it's okay to discriminate against someone based of their race. Of course people are gonna say no, only those that are very self-aware of their bigotry would respond with 'yes'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:54 PM
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Isn't she a little kid? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:32 PM
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As a genuine sexist, Bruh, at least you're honest. I really hate when dudes try to assert that women shouldn't be able to vote because they don't sign up to get drafted, in the US at least. Um let's be honest, they only think that women shouldn't vote because they vote for different politicians than them. I've noticed how for the past few months there hasn't been anyone saying that women shouldn't vote....i wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:41 PM
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Just "thank you"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:52 AM
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It's 100% okay as long as they have the N-word pass. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:00 PM
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What hobbies do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:32 PM
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I suspect that I know who you're referring to. I can't take any of their comments seriously knowing damn well that they're no better than the incels they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:11 PM
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Wow I'm totally convinced because you provided a few posts as evidence of a broad generalization. Was that the response you expected? * You seem to think that just because someone says something on the internet, that means that they speak for every single person on the planet. Very black and white way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:21 PM
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"mALe hYpErGAmoUs nAtUrE" Bro stop pretending like half of the things you say don't also apply to women. Both men and women usually don't want to date obese people. Fat people also sometimes don't want to date other fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:53 PM
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I feel like this post is trying to prove a point about settling. I mean I personally wouldn't want to be with a girl that does the bare minimum and doesn't admire my attractiveness. I think that it's only natural that humans want to be perceived as someone's "dream type" because it means that the person appreciates you despite your imperfections.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:42 PM
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Putting logic into attractiveness is pointless. Because for every 10/10, there's at least one person out there who thinks that they're "mid."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:45 PM
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I don't even plan on going to bars at all. The peer pressure usually comes from extended family members during family gathering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:41 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:54 PM
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Just say you don’t want to. I do, I explained why to my grandmother and she got offended and told me that I shouldn't be so blunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:13 PM
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Maybe he should be open about wanting a poly/open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:41 PM
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In less than 2 months I'm going to turn 21, which means here comes the annoying ass peer pressure to drink alcohol. You know there's something about that I don't understand, nobody goes around asking "Why don't you drink tea or Coca-Cola?" Yet it's somehow normal for people to ask "Why don't you drink alcohol?"Like why do I owe anyone an exclamation as to why I don't drink alcohol? And yes I have already been asked about it by several different family members. I've noticed that it's mainly mille…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:38 PM
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the only person l fuck with is Dr Umar Him? Dude preaches against interracial relationships and is a deadbeat dad, I can't take him seriously because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:02 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:59 PM
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If men are polygamous in nature then I guess I'm not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:10 PM
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I to fantasies about meeting my future wife on a random day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:59 PM
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Take 15 deep breaths and massage your forehead with your hands. That's at least what worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:23 PM
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What job do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:52 PM
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Or you'll filter out some perfectly nice woman who's tired of low-effort bullshit and wants some small measure of good faith from the men she I think that OP is trying to make the point about putting effort into the relationship. I think that he's afraid that if he puts more effort (spending money on dates) than the woman in the relationship then he won't be happy, he wants to avoid gold diggers and people who expect effort without giving any effort. This is also a concern that I have as someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:43 PM
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This is why I preach about men raising their standards. Men gotta have the self respect to avoid these gold diggers and to choose someone who is right for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:07 PM
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He's literally me!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:23 PM
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I am the kind of person that believes that a first date should a low cost or free activity because you don't really know the person very well and you don't know if the relationship is going to last. It's like, what if you find something out about your date that's a major dealbreaker or your date ghosts you after you took her out to some fancy restaurant and you paid? That means that you would have wasted your money and time on someone who is incompatible with you/ ghosted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:52 PM
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It's gonna go from "yes ma'am" to "yes master".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:22 PM
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I do truly wonder if women like this also put an equal amount of effort into their relationship. I don't think that this is expecting too much unless she isn't putting a equal amount of effort into making her boyfriend happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:15 PM
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I'm never taking anything OP says seriously again after this comment, I can excuse sexism but I draw the line at homophobia and racism: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:00 PM
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A few months ago on Valentine's Day while I was tabling for my on campus job at college some random old man though that I was trying to propose to my coworker. I didn't have a ring, why did he think I was proposing? Like yeah I will admit that I thought that my coworker was very attractive, but I don't think she's my type so there's no chance we'd actually get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:16 PM
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The word "feminine man" has at least 4 different implications/definitions (depending on who says it). I think in this instance she is referring to femboys, if that's the case then I can understand why he interpreted that as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:51 PM
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No. The sexual revolution and it's consequences have already been a disaster for our modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:40 PM
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Hell naw.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:38 PM
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Stay at home dad doesn’t sound very attractive to most women. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:05 PM
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I don't have Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:56 PM
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I hope you're having a better day than I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:23 PM
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Wheat Waffles sold out then someone called his mom and dad about his videos so he shuttered everything. His papa was disappointed in him I really want to know how that whole conversation played out, because that sounds embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:36 PM
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She said that she has lots of guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:50 PM
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That makes it even worse honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:47 PM
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I myself am ace/demi and I'd rather be with someone who understands my point of view about sex than someone who is promiscuous or has sex on the first date. My answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:31 PM
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"One person's chad is another person's beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:51 PM
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I get accused of bashing men. If a man posted the same type of stuff you do but about women, he would be labeled a incel and a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:46 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:03 PM
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Invite her to play games online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:40 PM
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That post desperately requires context...... <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:30 PM
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Would honestly still rather go to a speed dating event than install a dating app. Actually I did go to a speed dating event last year but for quite a few reasons nothing really came out of it. (It was a free event at my university so I can't complain too much)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:09 PM
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This might sound harsh but I don't believe that unconditional love exists and I'm glad that it doesn't exist. Love is truly meaningless if it's unconditional because it doesn't have value. Conditional love has value because you actively make a choice to love someone. You could choose to hate them, but you don't because whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:54 PM
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You would make a great Imperial Stormtrooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:23 PM
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was basically just OP asking if she was overreacting to comments she saw on Instagram Reminds me of a few users on this subreddit. Some people just get too easily offended by stuff they see online and require validation from others to justify their sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:03 PM
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Would you feel a bit disgusted if your wife had 2 previous boyfriends before ? I don't know. What's the cut-off for you ? Also am not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:40 PM
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How do people still believe that the posts on that subreddit aren't fake? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:09 PM
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Depends on the reason and if they have or are working toward a GED.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:28 AM
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That's unfortunate, good luck out there soldier.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:21 PM
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I dont like good girls Good, means that I have less competition. But be careful man, you don't want any STDs or to get taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:31 PM
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Bro really fell for the same scam twice. But on a more serious note, there might be other ways to acquire the book. What book are you even trying to buy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:16 PM
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AND WHO. FUCKING. SAT THAT SYSTEM. UP? I'm sorry bro but this is a terrible counterargument that I frequently see mentioned as a way of dismissing men's issues. It's a terrible argument because it blames the actions of the government/something beyond the control of the individual on a person that is not at all responsible for the action occurring just because said person shares a characteristic with those in power. Now that I think about it almost sounds like racism......
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:41 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:56 PM
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20 7 hours of sleep. Mid quality I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:46 PM
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And that is the point of a debate forum. To debate people you disagree with. You wanna know something funny, I don't even disagree with most of your points on this post (besides your point about men paying for dates, it enforces outdated gender norms. I believe that whoever wants to pay should pay regardless of gender or just go on a date that doesn't cost money). Your post just comes across as ranting rather than looking for a nuanced debate. It doesn't help that you constantly comment in the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:41 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:08 PM
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Accusing me of not having hobbies and hating men is a personal attack, which violates the rules of this forum. That was a genuine and valid question. Why do you find it offensive that I think that you are a misandrist? Do you love men? I love the women in my life and I'm glad that none of them are man-hating misandrists. Your post comes across more as a rant that doesn't acknowledge any nuances than a question. You seem to think that the statement of one or a few men applies to all men. You don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:05 PM
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Tbh, you sound boring to me. You sound like someone who would just nit pick every little thing someone like me does. Probably true considering every time I see her comment on this subreddit it's always something about how evil men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:54 PM
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Damn 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:45 PM
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they feel insecure and challenged by women who are more successful than them especially. It's no secret that successful people usually surround themselves with other successful people and prefer to date others who are on their level. The insecurity comes from the belief that a successful woman will leave a non-successful man when a more successful man comes along. Basically they're afraid that successful women are classist/elitist. they hate feminists and prefer tradwives They hate feminists for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:41 PM
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No. If someone my age is already going through a divorce, it would make me wonder what other bad life decisions has she made.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:36 PM
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It's their replacement for religion (if they lack any beliefs/don't belong to one). I've noticed that there are some who are also into Paganism (witchcraft). People need a moral compass for life, and when they are unable to come up with their own they rely upon things like the Bible or astrology to fill in that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:12 PM
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Honestly, I ship it. They could be the real-life Romeo and Juliet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:51 PM
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R.I.P mister turtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:45 PM
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How would you feel if a man said "Pick me/trad wife girls are real straight women. They actually love and yearn for men."?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:50 PM
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Jokes on you, I'm borderline asexual and very much against casual sex. And besides any woman that follows your advice is someone that I'd consider to be a red flag🚩and avoid at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:41 PM
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I've been saying this for a while, men who don't think highly of themselves are willing to settle for someone who gives the bare minimum. Right now I am single by choice because I haven't met that meets my standards yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:49 PM
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One of the funniest phenomenas that I've seen on this subreddit is women thinking that "simps" and "betas" are cool. They aren't cool, they're a few rejections away from subscribing to one of those "podcast bros".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:41 PM
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Umm okay......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:58 AM
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Do all straight men consider themselves to be masculine Many don't, such as myself (kinda) Do I as a woman have a much higher threshold for what I consider masculine to be in a man? I dunno, you answer. Is that wrong? I don't really care how women define masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:47 AM
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Ask the guy who made a documentary about "What is A Woman?" Nah just kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:43 AM
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Men are people, and they have problems too. If you cannot see it or relate to it, you should take a break from social medias and socialize with people in real life more. True, and It doesn't help that all of OP's other posts are just ranting about how bad men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:55 PM
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Is it really that hard for people to acknowledge that playing the "who has it worse" game is pointless and childish? Everyone has their own privileges (especially if you live in countries like the US, Canada, the U.K.) and everyone also has their own issues. Whining and crying about who has it worse only diminishes and undermines the issues that other people face, it doesn't solve anything it only serves to make things worse. And besides if an astroid were to crash into Earth right now, everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:37 PM
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I don't know, she hasn't been reading any books lately besides some book about the five love languages (she's reading it for her church group).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:03 AM
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Is this the same friend that you mentioned in your previous post, the one that you said was having relations with multiple men at the same time? (I promise that this is a 100% relevant question)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 02:00 AM
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Decided to buy my mom "It Ends With Us" - by Collen Hoover as a mother's day gift because I want her to read more books.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:48 AM
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I don't blame him for responding like that. Fishing for compliments is kinda corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:32 PM
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No. I work part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:37 PM
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My cats, Legos, drawing, getting a good grade on a test, beating a difficult challenge in a game, receiving praise for doing something well, compliments about my outfit or personality, when the kids that I work with seem happy to see me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:35 PM
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YouTube is a wild place these days..... <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:03 PM
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This situation is a perfect example of the bandwagon mentality. Your friend's wife jumped on the "nitpicking bandwagon" when the other lady started to criticize your friend. Your friend's wife changed her behavior not because of anything he did but because the other lady started nitpicking him. (Also side note, the wife's friend sounds like someone who is very overly judgemental and has a narrow view of what makes a man masculine and her behavior is starting to spread to your friend's wife)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:02 PM
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I don't like the concept of online dating. Where's the genuine connection, where's the intoxicating romance? Instead, it's relying on algorithms, texting, and judging people solely by what they put into their dating profile, and hoping that they respond to you instead of the 70 other guys who also matched with her. I'd just rather look for another speed dating event or meet someone through my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:27 PM
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Dating apps just seem like a waste of time and money in the year 2025. I've heard from many men and women about how depressing their experiences on dating apps were and how meeting people in real life is better. The thought of swiping through hundreds of people on a app never did seem very appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:03 PM
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The speed dating event that I was supposed to go to tomorrow got canceled. :( Yesterday my mom was telling me about how I should start using dating apps, and I just told her that I'm never going to use a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:29 PM
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Have you tried to reach out to her at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:42 PM
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I've had several older ladies hit on me. If they were at least 20 years younger I probably would have been more flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:30 PM
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Yes, I don't know why the hell OP is so obsessed with that story. If you scroll through the original post, you'll see that she replied to almost every comment. Like is this really that important?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:14 PM
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Honestly, the main reason I just don't cold approach (besides paranoia) is that every time I meet a girl that I think might be my type, she ends up already being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:51 PM
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AMERICAN POPE!🔥🔥🔥🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸💥💥 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:21 PM
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Hell yeah!!🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🔥💥 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:14 PM
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True, but honestly some of the guys that I got paired up with were very entertaining. One guy spent the entire time talking about how he wants to kidnap sea otters from the zoo because he's always wanted a pet otter. I hope that he got to achieve his dreams 🙏.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:46 PM
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In about 48 hours I'm going to a speed dating event. I'm a little excited and nervous. I recall the last time I went to a speed dating event, it was at the university that I used to go to and there was only one girl there that I found really interesting. But apparently she was only looking to make friends at the event, plus she was an Athiest (I have no interest in dating Atheists) so it wouldn't have worked out anyways. Hoping that I have better luck at this event. But to be fair the last speed…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:35 PM
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Why is OP still yapping on about this shit? She made like 80 comments about it yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:30 PM
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Breaking up = something went wrong with the relationship There is always a reason why someone leaves their partner. And whatever that reason may be, it’s an indicator that the relationship wasn’t perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:27 PM
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Well clearly there’s something wrong if one is breaking up with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:50 PM
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He seems fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:09 PM
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It went fine…we’ll see how it goes from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:03 PM
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So men who have zero interest in watching sports should be forced to watch sports instead watching actual quality television? I’ll be long dead before I start caring about watching other men throw balls at each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:10 PM
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Would you be okay with someone forcing you to watch Real Housewives of Potomac even though you have absolutely zero interest in that kind of television? Same logic applies to sports, can’t a man just watch what he wants to watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:04 PM
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Those are the two languages that I have past experiences studying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:13 PM
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Read 10 books Finish writing 2 books Try 2 new hobbies. Get a girlfriend. Learn either French or Spanish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:05 PM
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I think that after today I’m gonna take a break from Reddit to focus more on in real life stuff like school, and completing my New Year’s resolutions. Might come back if anything really interesting happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:58 PM
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Womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:59 AM
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Yes. There’s about 50 billion women who are not alive that you could have dated. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:53 AM
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Not gonna lie, if the girl in the above picture had blonde hair she would be my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:50 AM
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The only white knight I’ll ever respect can move in a L shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:32 AM
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I would like to see a source for that claim. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:53 AM
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But would bald women date bald men? Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:50 AM
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Something very good has happened recently. I won’t really go into much detail about for now but I will say that for the very first time in my life I’m gonna be busy this Valentine’s Day…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:49 AM
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You should look into Bonnie Blue also. Apparently she has beef with Lily and already beat her record. Basically she’s just Lilly but even worse. Also there’s something about Bonnie that I really don’t like (besides her lifestyle). There’s something about her that just screams “sociopath”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:29 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:22 PM
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I don’t think we needed to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:10 PM
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I will admit that at first it was because I had low self esteem. But during high school I realized that I should be more selective about who I romantically pursue after one of the girls that I liked turned out to be promiscuous🚩and a cheater🚩. My parents getting divorced also reinforced my view because I don’t want to end up like them. Now don’t get me wrong I’ve taken a lot of L’s in terms of dating. Like for example last year I tried to ask out one of my coworkers (I have 2 jobs, the girl I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:08 PM
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Jumping on the bandwagon of doing AMA’s. Feel free to ask me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:21 PM
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What inspired you to pursue a career in psychology?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:12 PM
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Guess I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:11 PM
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Not now, maybe later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:10 PM
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Yesterday he was talking about how he’d want to bang his own mother ‘if she was hot’.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:47 PM
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mEn i WiLL mAkE yOu 🤬😡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:25 PM
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On the topic of marriage proposals, I ideally wouldn’t want to be the person that proposes. Something something defying pointlessly gendered expectations and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:35 PM
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But that’s not how I process stress…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:21 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:26 PM
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Who says he’s gonna be the one that gets a third term?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:18 PM
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Confidence and intelligence are sexy. But not gonna lie in the clip she does not come across as confident or very intelligent, but rather abrasive (don’t know if this is the best way to describe her). Plus she’s talking loudly even though she doesn’t need to 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:08 PM
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Don’t show them this image. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:57 PM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:48 PM
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Definitely Feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:32 PM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:13 PM
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Sounds like something an alcoholic would say...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:29 PM
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Your only source for why age gap relationships don’t work is a redpill podcast? That’s like thinking that everyone is racist just because a Buzzfeed article said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:44 PM
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I would just assume that she’s trolling like most users on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:06 PM
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Yes. I currently live with my mom and I do my own laundry. Though I don’t cook for her because she never eats anything I cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:31 PM
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Yawn 🥱, more ragebait from my favorite redpiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:28 PM
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Yes. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:10 PM
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I don’t even care if i die a virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:03 PM
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You definitely seem to have a very black and white view of friendship, that seems to solely be based on your own experiences. Communities would not exist if humans had no need for each other and the people who live longest are usually those who have a supportive community. But regardless friendship will not help you as a man in any way Again this is subjective. It is no coincidence that the men who struggle the most in life are those that have no social life or only have negative social interact…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:27 PM
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Men do not need friendships YOU don't but other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:44 PM
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Trump X Kamala is a better ship <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:48 PM
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r/Ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:45 PM
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Next Friday there’s going to be a fashion show at my university and I’ve unironically been thinking about applying to be a model. Might either be the bravest or dumbest thing I’ve thought of doing this year. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:57 PM
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23%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:26 PM
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Fuck TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:05 PM
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Dude’s part of a dentist cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:44 PM
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They broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:43 PM
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Don’t worry, you’ll find someone to hang out with on February 14th.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:12 PM
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How I’m sleeping knowing that TikTok just got shut down:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:00 PM
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She won’t. Just ignore her answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:59 AM
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Not the worst thing to overthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:56 AM
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Nah bro there’s no way I’m using dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:02 AM
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I don’t even eat pork.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:08 PM
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Somehow, Gloomette returned. I kinda missed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:10 AM
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I dunno I just wanted to give my 2cents about consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:39 PM
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It has come to my attention that the topic of curcumscison has been trending today. My thoughts about this topic….um I dunno mate, but I do think it’s a bit weird that people mutilate their children’s genitals without the kid’s consent. We live in a society that that values consent a lot more than we did 1000 years ago, yet we still don’t think that kid’s consent matters when it comes to circumcision. How odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:35 PM
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More attractive. Since I disagree with most users on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:25 PM
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For some reason I always imagined you as being a skinny femboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:17 PM
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Womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:54 PM
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I can pretend to be a mime with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:33 PM
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Did she say thank you after I paid? If no, I'd really think hard about going on a second date. If yes, I'd consider going on a second date. Expressing gratitude is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:14 PM
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Eh, don't worry I got banned from Therewasanattempt eventhough I'm not active on that subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:21 AM
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Some of the things that I know about her so far is that she's majoring in Engineering, likes to golf, is interested in creative writing, and her native language is Spanish but is also fluent in English.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:32 AM
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Well fellas I think that I might have caught feelings for my coworker (it's a different coworker and a different job than last time). I will admit that I don't know a whole lot about her yet and I've only had a few conversations with her, but I will try to talk to her more often, I find her to be easy to talk to as we have a similar vibe and sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:10 AM
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You can still do that….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:36 AM
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People say stuff like this after their favourite candidate looses. Like back in 2022, people were talking about how the age of voting should be raised (take a guess at who those people voted for).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:35 AM
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INFJ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:28 AM
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If you’re a fan of 2d sidescroller games I recommend Shovel Knight: Spectre of Torment It has the vibe of a retro game even though it was made in the 2010’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:14 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:01 AM
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Your flair doesn't show up as pink on my screen. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:09 AM
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“Real men” don’t let people who aren’t men dictate what makes someone a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:38 PM
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I honestly can’t trust the opinions of anyone that confuses lust for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:08 PM
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I dunno about that. I just want him and Obama to kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:06 PM
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Trump and Obama unironically look so cute together. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:57 PM
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No, you can't save everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:15 PM
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Jokes on you, I’m not afraid to admit that I have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:15 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:51 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:50 PM
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You remind me of u\gloomette2, except she had a hentai addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:07 PM
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Meditate for 10-15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:04 PM
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Reason 666# for me to never install a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:18 PM
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Yet you feel as if you can "oBjeCtiVLy" decide if 50% of the population is evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:40 AM
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When logically I know they are evil. But what makes you yourself not evil? Because typically the kind of people that go around calling everyone evil are not the most kind hearted individuals....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:32 AM
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Pulled over by cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:48 AM
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People are talking about Donald Trump again. And oh boy some folks have some really bad takes….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:23 AM
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Some people simply can’t separate fiction from reality. They think that other people are like one dimensional characters in a story that serve a specific purpose when in reality nobody is really like that. Everyone on Earth has done something bad, there isn’t anyone who hasn’t committed some sort of evil act. The important thing is that we learn from our mistakes and have compassion for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:21 AM
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lol, You’re funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:03 PM
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Folks here are way too obsessed over this divine being called "chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:44 AM
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Bruh, it’s been constantly snowing where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:06 PM
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Just from interacting with many people and doing a lot of introspection I have concluded that there's many qualities that I deem to be unattractive but also qualities that I'd want a potential girlfriend to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:21 AM
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Me. I refuse to waste any time on someone who I don't see a future with which is why I haven't been on a date yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:42 AM
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Well I was thinking that it might be time that I finally separate from my imaginary girlfriend. Sorry the ghost of Queen Elizabeth II, I think we need to see other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:23 AM
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6'6.6
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:08 AM
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19-23
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:07 AM
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Who is the target audience for this video? Damnit, I keep on getting weird shit in my YouTube recommendations. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:06 AM
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Somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:01 AM
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“Chad” doesn’t take steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:12 AM
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No, unfortunately school is meant to prepare you for the workforce. Occasionally they will teach you about sex or drugs but those programs usually are outdated and ineffective. And besides relying solely upon government funded institutions for education is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:08 AM
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Ummm, not everyone thinks with their penis like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:53 AM
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That’s not what school is for, though…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:48 AM
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He looks like the kind of person you’d run into in the west side of Detroit (for those wondering, no that’s not a good thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:37 AM
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Nah If a woman wants to have sex on the first date. That would usually mean that she’s probably promiscuous and had sex on other first dates in the past. And besides I won’t ever want to have sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:34 AM
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Not gonna lie, if I was her I also wouldn't date anyone who DM'd me on Reddit. Especially not someone from this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:17 AM
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Alright, that's it. I'm done with reddit for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:40 AM
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Men don’t value a woman with a high body count. Just like with everything, some do, some don't. Men aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:28 AM
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This sounds like something a edgy twelve year old on Fortnite would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:17 AM
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I understand why they keep on mentioning charisma. Because basement dwellers will usually just hypefixate on physical appearance because they delusionally believe that nothing else matters besides looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:58 AM
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As a 20 year old with zero dating experience, I truly do not see any real benefit of dating someone much older than I am. A common argument I see in favor of dating older women is that "they can teach you about relationships/ they have experience". The main reason why I disagree with this point is: A. That's a odd dynamic to have for a romantic relationship as you are mostly going to be the one learning stuff instead of you both learning from each other. I don't want to be babied by someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:47 AM
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Don't listen to crazy people. They don't understand that pumpkin spice latte is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:04 AM
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Most nights are a "relaxing night in"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:36 AM
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I just realized that this is the first New Year's Eve where I have absolutely nothing to do. Like normally I invite my little cousins over to play games on my Playstation but this time they'll be out of town, so I got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:31 AM
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I can't wait for someone to find a way to defend this dude's actions. "iT wAs SeLf dEfEnSe" "tHe rEpOrTeR wAs PrObAbLy a iLLeGaL iMmiGrAnT"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:27 AM
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Not happy, rather have a Lego Star Wars set.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:54 PM
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But that's a achievable goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:51 PM
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My grandmother once told me that her brother once got stabbed by his girlfriend. I don't know what happened to his girlfriend after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:47 PM
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But are men also gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:31 PM
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I want to get better grades in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:29 PM
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Admitting to downvoting/blocking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:36 PM
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No. I'm just ranting because I saw a comment on here talking about looksmatches and how people shouldn't be going for 10/10. I also have been insecure about my lack of dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:36 PM
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To be fair one of really attractive girls turned out to be a major player and was cheating on her boyfriend. I seriously dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:21 PM
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I’m gonna be honest, I don’t really know what “league” I’m in. Like I’ve been asked out by a few girls but uhhh they were too young. And there’s been many occasions where a girl has flirted with me or shown interest in dating me (their attractiveness ranges from 7-9.5). I find the whole looksmatched debate to be confusing and kinda stupid. Like I don’t know or care what my “looksmatch” looks like. I can’t objectively rate my own attractiveness. If I like someone, that means that I view them as b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:08 PM
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Yes, I’d disown him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:05 PM
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Because I like reading, and lately i have been exclusively reading nonfiction so i want to get back into reading fiction. Also, I did not actually purchase Fifty Shades of Grey, I found it in a old shelf in my house. It may have originally belonged to one of my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:42 PM
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I couldn't decide what book to read so I made a color wheel (there's a website where you can make one) and it landed on The Hunger Games. Thank God it did not land on Fifty Shades of Grey, I'm not ready to lose my will to live just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:33 PM
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Based answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:21 AM
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As someone who is somewhat asexual, no just no. I'd rather be with the prude, at least she would share my views about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:18 AM
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I’ve been thinking of reading more books. I have a lot of books that I bought but never read.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:35 PM
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My last day of class was last Thursday and honestly I’m not sure what to do until the next semester starts in January. I’ve been thinking of working on my novel but I need something else to do besides just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:57 PM
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Is there a lore reason why my hand is much lighter than the rest of my body? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:12 PM
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I agree…well unless you have no other choice/self defense. In most cases scenarios there is a better option. I mostly align with Christianity and Judaism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:59 PM
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Okay, and? Many people nowadays are unfortunately very mean and unkind. It is pointless and childish to try to deflect blame onto men for women being rude and disrespectful to men. It is ones own fault for their ill behaviour towards another group of people, not the fault of the opposite sex (this applies for both men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 02:01 PM
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That's fine. I got a lot of fragment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:28 AM
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No. I'd take that as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:22 AM
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I didn't vote because I knew that my vote wouldn't matter and I knew that Trump was going to win. I genuinely do not like either candidate, I'm starting to miss Barack Obama, shit here wasn't as crazy back when he was in office.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:21 AM
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i probably would find several of the guys here fuckable The last thing the men on here should care about is if a random woman on Reddit wants to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:00 AM
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I only consider women over my height (5’8) as being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:04 AM
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10 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:02 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:00 AM
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Guys I have a question: Does the movie Batman Returns count as a Christmas movie? Yes, I’m talking about that movie with Danny DeVito’s Penguin and Michelle Pfefeller’s Catwoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:46 AM
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I dunno. For some reason “Unhoused” sounds a lot more threatening than “homeless”. Like for example: “If you don’t pay your bills you’re going to end up unhoused”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:40 AM
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No, look closer it says “if your ex isn’t blocked” meaning she doesn’t want you to talk to your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:11 AM
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Let’s see: I’m technically not broke My only close friend is a girl I have black hair I’m trying to quit watching it I didn’t vote this election Im a virgin I hate all physical contact besides hugs The only girls I’ve ever asked out were either the same age as me or a year older. I have no exes I don’t have Instagram or TikTok so this really doesn’t apply to me. My name does not start with J I guess I’m somewhat qualified according to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:07 AM
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This comment right here is the best response to the post. <image> Seriously what is she hoping to gain by yelling at him? She (and the other comments talking about unleashing their anger) are just justifying being emotionally unintelligent and acting like toddlers. If you want someone to understand your point the last thing you should do is antagonise someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:43 PM
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Bro, you’re about as dramatic as the women on The Real Housewives of Potomac.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:29 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:35 PM
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She probably liked you just because you’re funny or something. Also the people telling you that you fumbled are wrong. You weren’t interested in the girl that liked you, nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:39 AM
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This post is clearly an opinion. If this post was actually 100% objective, OP wouldn’t be asking people to change his view, the contents of the post would be less emotionally charged, and he would be using evidence other than things that he’s seen/ideas that he came up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:56 PM
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So the answer is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:21 PM
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Is this projection.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:07 PM
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I’d prefer not to unless I find the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:08 PM
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Only two of those points apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:44 PM
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I don’t get offended over simple errors like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:35 PM
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R.I.P
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:07 PM
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Not a woman, but I tend to like people that I envy. And one of my friendships did end because of my envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:44 PM
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I can solve one of your problems….. Look at the GIF and you will feel less cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:27 PM
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I might not be the best person to answer this question because I had a crush on a girl with a long pixie cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:24 PM
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There’s only 3 kinds of people that have 1mill karma: Automod Bots Onlyfans models
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:58 PM
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My mom still gets into arguments with her mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:53 PM
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I don't think a real god would say this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:32 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 PM
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I know, I just wanted to get him to admit that he’s projecting his insecurities onto other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:39 PM
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That doesn’t narrow it down very much….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:20 PM
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You too, soldier!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:19 PM
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Is there something that you’re upset about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:14 PM
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Doing well in university and at community college. Currently I’m majoring in Psychology. I’m also writing a superhero fantasy book that I’m hoping to eventually publish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:04 PM
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Gonna assume you have six fingers on your right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:49 PM
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How many fingers do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:43 PM
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She’s overreacting. Plus that’s a dumb question to ask on a FIRST date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:42 PM
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They just want someone who is good with their fingers. I can respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:40 PM
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I don’t really know how else am I supposed to meet single girls. I don’t like cold approaching, not old enough to go to bars and I don’t drink alcohol, and I don’t want to pay for dating apps. I guess I could ask my girl best friend/coworker if she can help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:38 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:17 PM
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Went to a in-person event earlier this year and I didn't really find anyone particularly interesting. I'm more concerned about wasting my time than getting rejeced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:16 PM
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Pretty sure it's over Zoom not text and the event coordinator gets to decide who you will be paired up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:12 PM
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I'm starting to think that you have 6 fingers on your right hand. Can't think of another reason why you'd be posting about fingers so much....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:07 PM
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So at my university there's going to be a online speed dating event and I've been debating with myself for the past few minutes if I should sign up or not. I mean it's free, so there's really not much of downside for attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:03 PM
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But if someone wrote this to you, this would not be wife material? Degeneracy does not equal wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:54 PM
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People can and will say anything they want. They can tell you that they really like Sci fi movies when they've never actually watched any. Sometimes people will lie to themselves about what they believe or like in order to gain the approval of someone else. Actions (or lack of action) reveal a lot more about someone's character than what they say. It takes more effort to do a action than to tell people about it. Someone can say that they love helping vulnerable people but when they pass by a hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:13 PM
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Guess I'm Trans now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:57 AM
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There are ways to tell that a woman is promiscuous without directly asking her: If her friends seem promiscuous, she most likely also is. The kind of lifestyle she has (goes to parties a lot, drinks a lot of alcohol) how she responds when i tell her that I want to take things slowly. Asking her about her views on sex and intimacy How she responds when I tell her that I think that I might be demi/asexual. (The last two points are probably the best way to tell if she is)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:56 AM
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Why is chatGPT offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:43 AM
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I took a picture of the moon a hour ago.......
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:41 AM
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Girl, why are you offended? You're probably above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:40 AM
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If they get rid of the teachers, who’s going to replace them, cause I’m pretty sure there’s a teacher shortage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:38 AM
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The game. I don’t know why they didn’t name the game something else. Especially since the game isn’t even based on the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:33 AM
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I’m playing Spiderman 2 right now. Highlight of my day: I dunno nothing particularly interesting happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:24 AM
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My rising sign is a Penis. No, it doesn't match me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:46 PM
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There really is no point of acknowledging “objective attractiveness”. Especially when someone disagrees on what makes someone “objectively attractive”. Like I personally disagree with the person you replied to but there’s probably a celebrity that he finds attractive that I think is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:06 AM
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I mean it’s been less than 48 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:49 PM
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But but, im just like Peeta!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:36 PM
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You got proof that this happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:56 AM
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What's wrong with videogames? Damn I thought that you were based.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:52 AM
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Imagine her fucking other dudes or getting a positive on a STD test, then you'll no longer feel attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:01 PM
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Doesn't your gf see what you say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:09 PM
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Uhhhh, I have many hobbies such as volunteering, drawing, writing, cooking and reading and yet the only people who seem interested in learning about my hobbies are old people. Most women don't seem to be interested in what I write, eventhough I am truly passionate about my writing. I honestly think that the survey results that you linked are unhelpful and useless for men who are trying to attract women. Especially the part about writing being an attractive hobby, I don't I've ever seen a woman s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:15 PM
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Then why are you on your phone right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:47 PM
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Nah, speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:39 PM
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So yeah, don't hesitate if you see a cute chick. I dunno mate, I notice that nearly every time I see an attractive girl, it turns out that she has a boyfriend. I'm starting to think that there's like zero single attractive girls my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:32 PM
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Trump and Harris would make a cute couple. Like damn, could you imagine the outrage if it turned out that they were having an affair. Even worse what if it happened at one of those Diddy parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:21 PM
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Aren't there people who use LinkedIn as a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:17 PM
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Wanting someone who is a virgin....to be fair I'm also a virgin so ya'll can't call me a hypocrite. I also would never date a Athiest despite the fact that I've renounced my Christian faith and I am currently not a very religious person.....though I do eventually want to convert to Judaism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:29 PM
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I don't know. Ask those people, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:38 PM
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Bold But if she just randomly approaches me and IMMEDIATELY asks me out, that would be an automatic 'no'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:54 PM
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Womp womp! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:38 AM
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Can you please invite me to the party?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:19 AM
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A well though out gift that shows that she's been paying attention to what i like. For example if she bought earings, or a bracelet, or a Star Wars comic book- I would consider that to be a well thought out gift. To me, 'submissiveness' just means affectionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:47 PM
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A gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:40 PM
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Low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:36 PM
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A gesture of appreciation like a gift or something. Something that shows that she's been paying attention to my interests. Or I guess taking the initiative when planning a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:36 PM
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No. I currently live alone and I'd say that I'm perfectly fine even without any socialization for a day or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:28 AM
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I don't know how I'd feel I can't exactly imagine what that looks like. Also I wouldn't ever be having sexual intercourse after just the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:43 AM
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Dry Bones or Link.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:24 AM
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Lock your phone in a cabinet for a day (well unless you're expecting some important call or something)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:05 AM
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Find new hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:02 AM
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You won't find your future husband unless you go outside and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:58 AM
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But what if he wants to look like the villagers from Minecraft?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:56 PM
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It'll still probably be less common than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:44 AM
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Bro I'm taking my wife's last name, I have the most generic black last name of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:34 AM
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If both of you are satisfied with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:32 AM
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Change takes time, if he's not willing to change you gotta move on or else it's going to kill your chances of finding someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:06 AM
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When you feel comfortable enough to bring it up to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:59 AM
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Pumpkin Spice Latte
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:46 AM
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Would you be willing to walk out on a good loving girlfriend who cheated on you and is sorry about it ? If she was actually"loving" she would never have cheated, and being sorry about it doesn't mean that she won't eventually do it again. It's better to find someone new who values loyalty as much as I do than to stay in a relationship with someone who betrayed my trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:14 PM
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If she is good with handling children or pets. Bonus points if she's good with special needs kids or disabled adults. To me, a woman being good with children is kind of a litmus test, because if she is good with children, then it's a good indicator that: 1. She has a high emotional intelligence 2. She is very patient and isn't easily angered 3. High empathy and is very kind. 4. Dependable and isn't selfish. The kind of woman that I want as a girlfriend is the kind of woman has the qualities that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:06 PM
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No sex, great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:43 PM
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Look man, there's probably a better place to meet people at, like the library or Starbucks. I don't think people go to vote in person in order to meet new people....then again I've never voted before so I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:57 AM
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That is the only reason I am thinking of voting this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:50 AM
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No but my uncle did one and found out that one of our ancestors fought in the civil war as a confederate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:48 AM
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Simp!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:45 AM
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Based on what? On "probably"? Let's be honest, you heard a catchy phrase and are just repeating it without thinking, aren't you? Let me ask, do you think that people who cheat in their past relationships are more or less likely to cheat in future relationships than people who've never cheated? Why not? People change what they pursue. I never said that people never change, I said that there's always a reason why someone changes their behavior. Also by "cheating" I'm not just talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:12 PM
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The likelihood that someone who cheated in the past cheating again is probably far greater than someone who never cheated decides to start cheating. Someone who doesn't value loyalty isn't automatically going to charge their way just because they changed partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:03 PM
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Womp womp!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:49 AM
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Same. There's a old saying about how over time you become like the people you hang around the most. So I definitely wouldn't want to hang around a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:25 AM
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Lol, it reminds me of high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:48 AM
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Into to psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:31 AM
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So today during psychology class the professor was talking about twenty things that people who live to a hundred years old do, and of course one of the things she mentioned was being sexually active. As soon as she got to that point the guy who was sitting next to me, loudly proclaimed "I'm not gonna make it to 100!" And a bunch of people started laughing when he said that. To make matters worse some other dude started telling him about "red light districts" and how one of the girls in the room …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:23 AM
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No. Disgusting lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:51 AM
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Modern fantasy sci-fi drama, that is very much inspired by Marvel, DC, and various mythological legends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:45 AM
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t but i do mind women with high n count who would also condemn a man that's used hookers in the past Something tells me you're going to get a lot of hate for that from certain users here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:39 AM
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Become confident in your abilities. Make a list of everything you like about yourself (don't tell me there's nothing you like about yourself). Write down positive affirmations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:46 AM
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To become more Resilient, you must learn to care less about what other people think of you. Your opinion of yourself matters more than anyone else's opinion about you because you know yourself better than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:40 AM
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Don't know what you're talking about. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:36 AM
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To be fair when I was 8 I learned about the word divorce for the first time and I started crying and I asked my mom about it and she said that's never going to happen. Guess what happened less than a decade later... Sometimes unexpected shit happens but worrying about it is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:26 AM
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You don't seem to understand the male point of view or be a expert on male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:21 AM
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Fortnite players when their mom says that they can't have any more V-Bucks: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:13 AM
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I'm referring to women who break up as soon as a shiny new boytoy comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:01 AM
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How would you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:58 AM
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Why am I not surprised that there's somebody here who's trying to scam us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:55 AM
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You kinda look like Donald Glover.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:51 AM
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