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I live with my GF too and remind myself whenever she goes psychotic that she has no financial or legal leverage over me, as well. Its one of the reasons I'm comfortable with dating exclusively here and there, but stopping short of marriage, which just seems like a terrible financial move.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 03:08 PM
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I've had a LTR demand that I learn to "handle" her emotional outburst because they were the result of PMS, anxiety, depression, etc. Her issues don't have to be your issues, and you shouldn't let her blame them on you or some sort of condition.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 05:09 PM
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But definitely still get your cardio in.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:38 PM
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Dude, you should want to workout and get in good shape for you, not for a chick. They are just byproducts of better fitness. Same with your career, your attitude, etc. Be selfish, pursue happiness, and bang some chicks on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:04 AM
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Learning to lose in order to win is an essential tactic with women.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:29 PM
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It takes a lot of discipline and dedication, but I'm proof that if you commit to a growth mindset, you will become the change you desire. If it was easy, everybody would be fit with several plates and a six figure income. It takes disappointments, setbacks, doubts, anxiety, and stress for even just incremental improvements. Personally, devoting my free time to my fitness (lifting + running), and eventually curbing heavy drug use, has enlightened me with a better way to respect myself and priorit…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:05 PM
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Man, you should be motivated to improve yourself for you, not to keep the girl around. "Losing" a girl isn't even game over. We can't equate our value, happiness, or sense of fulfillment to woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:02 PM
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What's cheese without a few crackers?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:51 PM
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All my best friends are from college. My sexual experience increased exponentially through partying in college. Some great memories that will outlast the loans are from college as well. Sure, it provided zero value to my professional career and the $200/mo payments are a drag, but I wouldn't trade the experiences and opportunities to grow into a man for any sum of money.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:12 PM
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Yo I'm going to bookmark this. Fire material. Thanks for posting. Every day we wake up, no matter if we're happy, sad, stressed, confident, or whatever it may be, is a day alive in a short, ruthless life within which we must confidently strive to live to the fullest. Either that, or complain until you get cancer and die.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:10 PM
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College was fun af highly recommend it tbh.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 02:00 PM
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Favorite post on TRP. The potbelly example described woman in a LTR perfectly; she doesn't like a fat belly, she likes less girls looking at you, thereby increasing her leverage. Now go buy and pay for groceries. We can't hold it against them - it's simply how females are. But we need to recognize the patterns.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:22 PM
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My variation on this is something like "You're good enough, but you can be better." Not sure complacency ever accomplishes anything?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 02:33 AM
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Growth mindset. Who I am today is someone I dreamed of being 10 years ago, but it's not someone I am content ending up being.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 08:21 PM
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Great post. Lifting + Running changed my life. 11 years in. Ignore the need for daily motivation. Stay disciplined and results will happen. Good intensity, form, nutrition, and monk discipline will yield results. It's that simple. You can accomplish any fitness goal you can fathom. The question really is, how badly do you really want to make a change? Stay disciplined. Adopt an underdog mentality. Think of everything that frustrates you. Turn it into additional reps. It's your fuel. All you have…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 04:03 PM
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Females demanding or setting expectations that males need to be nice is simply a control mechanism. Females are always testing the balance of power in a LTR. Being "nice" in the eyes of a female solely means doing shit to benefit them. I think males need to always prioritize themselves, recognize they have value to multiple females, and avoid being a doormat for the sake of avoiding confrontation. Even if you made the mistake of marrying, you're only a paycheck away from freedom.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 02:30 PM
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How do you approach a girl in a LTR who acts jealous, insecure, and immature when it comes to other girls? Is that red flag the death omen you believe it is?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:41 PM
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3 is important with virtually all females. These females say the most illogical things, complain/whine about everything, and make their problems into your problems....overanalyzing and thinking about what they said/meant can drive you crazy. Accepting you can be happy with her, or happy without her, gives you some self-comfort which makes ignoring all the bs easier.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 04:17 PM
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I don't really pay attention to what bitches do though. If I'm interested I say something. If it works, i bang, if it doesn't, I move on. Females are just so expendable that all I've really done is learned to value myself and dismiss their opinions of me, good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 08:41 PM
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Sounds immature anyways. Value them when they deserve it, but attachment is the root of suffering, so never put them on a pedestal. You can always get a new one.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:57 PM
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Really like the message behind this. I start work at 5am, so I don't really have time to journal. In "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius, he has a passage where he discusses how we are human, and our lives are thus human pursuits, so why live life so begrudgingly? If we are only human, living human lives, why not embrace and enjoy our human endeavors? I like to take a step back. If I see someone in the gym going half-speed, or hear someone complain about something trivial, I always remind myself; w…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:18 PM
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I agree. Also in sales. What I've found is that you need to apply pressure to get what you want - nobody will reward hard work or performance because you deserve it. Nobody gives it to you. You need to articulate what you want and why you deserve it. Fear would be the potential repercussions, but without risk there is no reward.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:46 AM
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This is a fire post. Not being afraid of shaking up the status quo is a great feeling. We were made to adapt and evolve.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:54 AM
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I weigh 195, bench 315, and have a 6 pack. I firmly subscribe to "lift big, eat big." Find what makes you feel good and just do that.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:06 PM
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Nothing makes me angrier than the delta between what I believe the world should be and what it actually is. The other day, my car broke down on a hill in SF. I have the hood popped open and the car is completely dead. People were yelling at me to move my car. Are you fucking kidding? Ideally I would move it, but it's fucked up and sorry you have to spend an additional second swerving around me. Ideally, someone should feel empathy for those in a situation like that. But they don't. That same man…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 04:51 PM
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How can you forget the goddamn buns? Thats the second most important part.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 12:30 AM
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I hate shopping. I like nice clothes, but I'll put in zero effort to acquire them. Most of my shirts are Oakland Raiders themed. Lift big. Eat big. Listen to music. Smoke weed. Repeat.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:52 AM
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I mean, getting married is a poor financial decision and everybody knows Money over Bitches so there's all the reason I need.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:13 AM
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Putting females on the pedestal was the biggest mistake I made early on in my dating/sex life. Now, all I need to be happy is a gym, weed, and a steady job. Girlfriends are a fucking hassle and I refuse to let a female catch me with my guard down.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:28 PM
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Good shit right here. Makes me think of a question for y'all. I moved to a city and I've been slaying some pretty mediocre looking girls. It's great to get laid but as soon as the nut comes out I want to never call these girls back again. Do you slay any girl above a 5 in your path? And if so, what's the best way to never talk to them again afterwards? They know where I live.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:25 PM
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The girl should be cooking something pre-approved by me imo.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 07:30 AM
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I like venting about shit I hate to my homies--does that count?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:30 AM
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I'm still new to TRP, but I can't agree more with OP. When I was 18 I benched 85lbs, was never in a serious relationship, and looked every bit like a freshman in college. My best friend once told me I didn't have the build to get jacked. I cared way too much what woman thought. 10 years later my two rep max is 295, I've got a couple LTR's out of my system (it's easy to buy into LTR's the first couple times, once you go through breakups you realize the concept of love/marriage is obsolete in 2015…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:55 AM
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Take some creatine and lift until you're a beast.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 05:03 AM
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After going through a breakup and watching my dad go through a divorce, you really gain perspective into how twisted females can be. I've been told "I want to hide any future children from you" by a female I dated for 5 years. I remember hearing my dad referred to as an "investment" while the other side tried to squeeze him for every dime by the person he was married to for 30 years. The concept of marriage is obsolete. It was first conceived when human lifespans were 30-40 years. Now, with peop…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 04:56 AM
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Thanks for sharing. It's always a great opportunity to hear advice from those 100 yards down the path you envision yourself needing to go to find happiness. I actually received a text today from my ex-gf of 5 years (she always texts me when she breaks up with her current bf) who I also have not seen in 2+ years. I went through the whole 9 yards getting over this bitch. I always respond by killing her with kindness, offering to listen to her problems...bullshit like that. With the amount of adver…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:01 AM
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Thanks for sharing. First post here. Valentine's day has sucked the the past 3 years for me. Family went broke, lost a girl I was with for 5 years, developed an ulcer that kept me out of the gym for a year, lost my best friend to a lung disease, and through all this, my good friend and homie was always by my side...well now he is in a serious relationship and I hardly ever see him. I actually was just out to dinner with two couples. 5th wheeling. I'm always in the gym. My career is going great. …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 06:27 AM
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My goal is to only shower on days I lift.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 04:37 AM
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