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I'd much rather they just make abortion rights legal again, it's not even a meme anymore that guns have more rights than women and it's absolutely fucking disgusting how humanity has reached this point.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 04:02 PM
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I think the biggest change needed is that men and women need to stop defining what the opposite gender should be like. women don't get to decide 'what a real man is' and men don't get to decide 'she should be more ladylike.'
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:50 PM
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Only took how many months?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/21 01:16 PM
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Not really, faking it doesn't improve anything, you're putting on a facade for the sake of something that wouldn't really require it, you're lying to the people around you and you're lying to yourself. and god help you if you're put into a situation where you actually need genuine confidence, that facade's gonna break like nobody's business and you'll be wishing you never faked it in the first place.
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:50 PM
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My belief isn't the fact they're different that's causing the problem, I believe the problem stems from the mindset that each gender no longer values the contribution the other provides. Gender hate groups keep growing at a rather dangerous rate and people are losing the ability to socialise in a positive manner and I think the only wake up call is if people take a break from the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 11:04 AM
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I'm not saying men and women cut contact from each other completely, but stop giving each so much shit and just to take a break from them in general. Stop looking for things the opposite gender are doing, be it good or bad and just live life for themself, go travel, aim for the job they want and take up their hobbies without worry of what the other gender is doing for a generation or two. If they find they miss the prospect of having a partner they'll be more considerate and value them more and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:10 AM
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I think men and women are at the stage where they 'need a break' after several millenia of putting up with each other's shit. Give it a generation or two things should cool down, if not, oh well, not like we're indesperate need of increasing the population right now are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:56 PM
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This is an ongoing issue in Japan from what I hear who are ahead of the trend, they're going from a generation of overpopulation into a generation of under populated, so much so, schools and the like are closing due to not enogh kids purely because it's just not worth doing so. Everyone is too busy with work to form friendships, nevermind find a partner, let alone one willing to start a family.' Herbivore men' are also growing more and more, not following traditional roles as an instigator.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:09 PM
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I think the problem stems less as it being 'exchange' and rather being reduced to nothing but an unpaid therapist. This was an issue I had a with a 'friend' a while back, the only time they wanted to speak with me was when they wanted to rant and complain about things, be it work, family or other friends. They never made time for me, never listend to my problems, never wanted to hang out, never wanted to go anywhere or do anything, just message me whenever they felt like it and use me as a verba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:49 PM
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I got banned from FDS after I made one funny comment on r/nicegirls
/r/MensRights05/05/21 12:01 PM
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Why? Because he doesn't want to marry after weighing up the pro's and con's of marriage? Multiple women declare their individuality on social media all the time, focusing in their careers and raising pets instead. Are they misandrists for doing so?
/r/MensRights23/04/21 01:26 PM
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I can't say this is strictly parenting but society in general, outside of shoddy PUA videos and their MLM books, dating is a case of sink or swim and many people are just deciding not to even jump in with how little direction they're getting.
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:42 PM
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Be even funnier if the AI was designed as a woman
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/21 11:46 AM
1

Here's a thought: Why not approach other guys yourself?
/r/seduction05/03/21 03:56 PM
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God it must suck for bisexuals where everyone is an asshole
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 11:45 AM
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Like customers that know their complaint is petty, but by throwing out the argument 'it's the principle if the matter' to justify wasting the servers time
/r/MensRights18/12/20 02:50 PM
1

Is it weird to say I wish you were my gf?
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:53 AM
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Leave her alone, people don't go to the gym to get hit on and women especially have to deal with that crap more times than they care to count.
/r/seduction20/11/20 04:05 PM
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Best I can advise is be up front about your inability to escalate with your partner and on times you want to kiss or cuddle etc, ask if you can do so first instead of just going for it
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:01 PM
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As a male virgin myself I would also prefer to be with a virgin woman, but I'm not opposed if she's had sex before however I do not wish to be with someone who's slept with half of the town, more power to those that want that lifestyle I just don't want anything to do with it. Above all, I just want the intimacy and the clear communication of what is enoyable and comfortable for them.
/r/seduction17/11/20 10:21 PM
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And another post that in its entirety consists of "got anxiety? Just don't do it!" If I got a dollar for everytime I came across these I'd have enough to live as a sugar daddy to three women for the rest of my life. Look, I get it, you want guys to drop the low self-esteem attitude and for them to believe in the high value they have and I respect your wish to get that across, but this isn't how you do it. telling them to 'just be confident' doesn't work and it very rarely has. These people didn'…
/r/seduction15/11/20 04:21 PM
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And the trend of me avoiding dating apps like a fucking plague continues.
/r/seduction15/11/20 03:50 PM
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I'm 6'4, never has that given me an advantage with women, so yes they can
/r/seduction12/11/20 03:43 PM
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Asking is usually the best and safest bet, work from asking to do hand holding, to hugging, to kissing and so on.
/r/seduction11/11/20 04:55 PM
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Then I guess I'm just not into feminine women, I like them confident and assertive and know what they want, which in modern society should not be something that should be frowned upon.
/r/seduction10/11/20 05:50 PM
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Nah, if women ain't got time for passive men, I ain't got time for passive women. Swings and roundabouts.
/r/seduction10/11/20 03:32 PM
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"-While we had casual sex." Well, I mean if you're offering, but I prefer dinner and a movie first, pal. But that's just my point, when you see these 'niceguy' posts as a guy yourself if you don't cringe at their self-inflicted personality killing any chances of actually even getting to shake hands with a woman then that's a cause for concern. Thing is, that 'niceguy' label is not just restriced to reddit, it's an internet title much like neckbeards, e-thots, bronies, MLM huns and so on except N…
/r/seduction31/10/20 07:38 PM
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"Just like you don't wanna sleep with the majority of women on Earth." Speak for yourself, if the monstergirl genre has taught me anything it's that if it has human looking tits and ass, most guys will want to fuck it. On a more serious comment, I do genuinely wonder why people actually label themself as a 'nice guy' as the title itself is kind of a derogatory statement nowadays in light of their self entitlement, kinda like how edgelords are frowned upon in the eyes of the many. Like seriously,…
/r/seduction31/10/20 07:21 PM
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Apparently this isn't normal behaviour? Growing up I was always taught to just maintain good eye contact, smile and nod at people you walk past, some appareciate it, some don't. But you're walking past people who aren't gonna even remember you so don't let the grouchy ones get to you and keep on keeping on.
/r/seduction26/10/20 09:23 PM
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I dunno, it depends on the person, some like the unbridled attention some don't like any at all, it's upto you to decide if you want to be the chaser or not. If you like giving someone your attention then don't change it to meet another persons standards and find someone who does appreciate what you do.
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:59 PM
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Not always, for the attention seekers they're a lost cause, for the ones wanting more, could find that a guy doesn't see them as a goal to get in their pants but reasons can vary. Honestly, I don't know where guys get the energy to chase after women so relentlessly, just watching it happen is fucking exhausting.
/r/seduction20/10/20 09:55 PM
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I think guys who are more laidback and make a conscious decision in regards to sex are propably favoured more than those who immediately say yes as soon as the offer is made.
/r/seduction20/10/20 08:50 PM
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"No coffee dates." Yeah no, fuck off with that, you can't accept a simple coffee or walk around as a date then clearly your interest isn't with the person. "Must be in a career they enjoy." It doesn't exist, everyone's dream job is going to be shit at some point. Emotionally, Physically and Financially healthy, so you want a celebrity in a life of luxury, good luck with that darling. 'I will not chase anyone for love. affection or attention." No one should be doing that full stop. Fuck this list…
/r/seduction20/10/20 07:53 PM
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You know I really hope this sub isn't indicative of what dating is actually like because holy shit none of this looks fun in the slightest...
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:01 PM
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Hire a prostitute, I know it's not the most ethical solution, but if channeling the sexual frustration into something productive isn't cutting it, that might be your only option.
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:35 PM
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Honest opinion? Just don't bother with it and forget dating entirely. I've burned out of dating for a long time while looking for a reason to care with no luck of that happening purely because plain and simple; dating is a luck game, it is not a fun one unless you have the social skills and physical appearance to make it work. Trying to date is just not not making me happy and I've been trying for years and dealing with some really shitty people constantly bringing me down and being too exhauste…
/r/seduction16/10/20 01:18 PM
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You may need to build up on your confidence first. Rejection sucks, but if you're that afraid of rejection that much then you haven't got much confidence to begin with.
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:09 PM
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Fair enough, I'm not saying anyone should cater to my timeframe because I say so and I'm not gonna rant and rave about them wasting my time either. No one has any entitlement to another person's time, all I ask is to understand that just as you're not obligated to work around my timeframe, I am not obligated to wait on you.
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:04 PM
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Doesn't matter, why would I wait a week on the possibility that they were busy? Regardless if their lack of response is intentional or not, fact of the matter is, I have no reason to waste my time in waiting on a person I'm not even that familiar with when I could spend that time on someone who is willing to reciprocate. Time's not stopping for you because you're busy, why should anyone else?
/r/seduction14/10/20 04:35 PM
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Not particularly, I don't see the point in continuing a conversation with someone who isn't interested, I can put my effort to better use with someone who actually appreciates my time.
/r/seduction14/10/20 04:13 PM
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I can't remember where I saw this, but there was a poll showed that men would rather miss a hundred positive hints than act on a negative one, because they are that disillusioned with women's actions just being friendly instead of flirty that it's simply not worth acting upon and much prefer women be up front about it. Thing is, 'hinting' is a dying art and honestly, it can't die soon enough, it's pointless, it's time-wasting, and it's just not as attractive as it used to be, it's also not the g…
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:04 PM
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I think we're focusing on the wrong problem, this isn't a case of missing the hoop that you needed to score during the main game, rather it's a case of missing the hoop every single time is what's getting people to lose their minds. Another problem is that unlike your hobbies, your workplace, your goals and so on, you are allowed to vent your frustrations about that sort of thing when things don't go the way you planned, when it comes to dating you have no such outlet, you are told to just suck …
/r/seduction08/10/20 05:45 PM
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Sadly we are in a day and age where people think they deserve better than what they got, and this isn't applicable to just dating or even women in general. Everyone online sees how someone else has it better in terms of status, wealth, possession and partners and believe they should have it as well Sexual liberation has shown that men don't need to be chivalrous or even courteous in order to get sex and women have no reason not to exploit their sex appeal for money so the value of the relationsh…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:27 PM
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That stuff is still going? I thought it died out with the like of MGTOW and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:50 PM
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Sorry, what does TRP stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 06:09 PM
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A way to simplify confidence is by having your ideals and principles and sticking to them regardless if they're a dealbreaker in her eyes, you like dubstep and she doesn't? Stick to that preference regardless what she says about it. If she has an opinion that differs from yours do not conform to hers just to appeal to her, don't try and say you have similar tastes if you don't, don't like all the same media genres she likes etc. Another way of looking at it is by prioritising your own value abov…
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:58 PM
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I mean, in the time of social distancing this is kind of expected. That said, you're kind of running before you can walk in this scenario. My advice would be to scrap approaching a girl with the intent on meeting her and instead try a different approach. Something I recommend as a type of warm up is to just compliment people as they walk by, make a remark on their clothes or something and if that feels too much for you, wear a mask, sunglasses and a hat so even if you fuck up, the people wont re…
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:14 PM
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I don't, you be a bitch, you get the ditch. I'm not wasting time and energy on someone who's first impression is to be negative, bullshit test or not when I could talk to someone more willing in making an effort. Playing hard to get is a dead tactic especially when the spare time we have is so precious to us now and not worth the chase
/r/seduction03/10/20 08:44 PM
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just focus on self improvisation, do what exercise you can, learn new things to cook and so on. Everyone is having the same issues and a lot of people are going through what you are, you aren't the only one coming out of this having lost a lot of social experience, it's best to just focus on what keeps you busy and sane.
/r/seduction30/09/20 10:16 PM
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this information goes against the consensus that I am generally unattractive to everyone thus I have chosen to ignore it.
/r/seduction29/09/20 08:10 AM
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Right, never show affection ever, and never say good morning or good night until officially dating, keep thing casual and friendly, got it.
/r/seduction27/09/20 06:34 PM
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Mine was through the insistence of my friends arranging nights out for me to go and approach a woman, they helped out a lot with providing the types of clothes to wear and ideas of an opener and they supported me when I inevitably got shot down which helped deal with the rejection. I'll admit, it really wasn't something I wanted to do and if given the choice to do it over again, I'd likely have told them all to eat a bag of dicks for going through this hassle, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't…
/r/seduction27/09/20 05:09 PM
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My god this is just like me, do you have a 'social battery' that at random points just dies and your only thought process is: get me away from here so I can go home?
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:46 PM
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Not really, just makes me think I'm not cut out for it and I'm better off quitting.
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:29 PM
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While I'm not into the casual or FWB scene, if I were, I'd definitely love it if women initiated first so I at least knew where the line was in terms of the relationship and to move at a pace she is comfortable with. Mind you, I'm the kind of guy who wants a woman to force herself on me so my opinion is most likely in the minority.
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:01 AM
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Push him up against a wall, trap him between your arms and tell him he isn't leaving until he agrees to date you.
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:23 PM
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I'm of the mind women need to take charge more and be more vocal about their wants.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:50 PM
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My best advice is assertion and self-positivity of your own image, confidence is always high in demand and these guys are contacting you because they are attracted to you so you have more worth than you think, you need to own that but not become a bitch either so don't drag people down even if others try to, just walk away from them. Humour goes a long way as well as straightforwardness in laying out what you want upfront and don't take any shit from anyone if you feel like someone is trying to …
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:25 PM
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Then it was never meant to be and we wouldn't work out, women get hassled a lot as it is on a daily basis and I'm not about to inconvenience their day further.
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:34 PM
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Nah, I'm good, if she was really interested, nothing stopping her from approaching.
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:24 PM
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I just nod and smile back, no reason to make a big deal out of it.
/r/seduction12/09/20 06:26 PM
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I've nothing against people that want to go an a sexual adventure, want to participate in a bukkake? Go right ahead. Want to drown in drugs and alcohol? Sky's the limit and then some, you're body, your choice. you're deciding to go for what you want and no one can tell you otherwise and I respect that. But respect my decision in wanting nothing to do with that kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 06:08 PM
2

what if the manager is also a woman?
/r/MensRights07/09/20 05:25 PM
1

I just hate the fact it took this kind of rallying cry for justice to be properly served, this should have been a no brainer and should have been resolved without the need of a protest. and to those horrid abominations of life that caused this horrific shit should be shot, burned and buried in an unmarked grave and have all records of their existence removed so they become nothing more than a bad memory to the world.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 05:24 PM
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I noticed this within the reviews of some contemporary fantasy novels I read a while back as inspiration for my own I'm working on. One featured an Incubus wooing a human woman rather unethically, pheromones during a date making her go into heat as well as knowing exactly what to say to impress her and he and the author was branded a rape fetishist and misogynist, appealing to the male fantasy. Another featured a Succubus full on attacking, restraining and then raping a married man in a park and…
/r/MensRights07/09/20 04:19 PM
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Sounds like a case of lost interest, he valued being close friends with you more than actually being with you. I don't mean this in any offense, but in the 3 months of hanging out and being friends was there ANY sign of intimacy or flirting during it? Hand holding, arm linking? Suggestive comments or tones?
/r/seduction03/09/20 10:17 PM
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"My eyes are up here." "I've made my decision."
/r/seduction01/09/20 07:15 PM
1

Push him against a wall and trap him between your arms and tell him he ain't leaving until he agrees to date you.
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:49 PM
1

As a guy I thought growers were natural, like isn't that what an erection means? Where it gets bigger under excitement and attention? Furthermore, I couldn't imagine constantly dealing with tenting and the fear of catching it in your zipper as well.
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:24 PM
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I'm a virgin, so my opinion is widely subjective and I'm probably in the minority in terms of sexual interest due to preferring women in charge, so I like the idea of performing cunnilingus, however the idea of receiving fellatio does not appeal to me.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:02 PM
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thank you, again I wasn't banking on having sex that night even as I'm at her door, I just wish I made some attempt at staying in contact at least to see where things go. Not very often I find a fellow gamer girl that's on the level as I am, I would have liked to at least have remained friends if nothing else, but I screwed myself out of that as well.
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:39 PM
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Maybe? Like I said, this isn't the first time nor is it the only situation it's happened, but frankly it's really irritating me that not only am I depriving myself of a possible relationship, I'm screwing myself out of a gaming friendship. I wouldn't care if she didn't even intend on sleeping with me that night, I just liked getting to know someone who's as nerdy if not more than I am and I had it and just dropped it because I was tired.
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:05 PM
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Probably should have added 'genuine advice' instead, would have worked better.
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:19 PM
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None, you leave her alone and let her do her thing and you don't bother her regardless if she's entering or leaving the premises and this applies to everyone in the gym, they're there to work out, not to get hit on. Your only reason for 'approaching' should be if you want any advice and she is within her right to tell you to find someone else to help. Gyms are one of the worst places to approach a girl, go to a bar or a club that encourages socialising and not a place that isn't intended for it.
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:12 PM
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In all actual seriousness, don't be afraid about being forward, you'll find a lot of guys actually like a girl going for what she wants.
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:34 PM
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Push him up against the wall and trap him between your arms and say you're not letting him go until he kisses you.
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:19 PM
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I wish I got a dollar for everytime I saw these types of posts, I'd never have to worry about paying my bills again. Look, I get it, you want to provide encouragement, but you here saying this 'man up' and 'toughen up' attitude is exactly the reason guys are reluctant to do so in the first place because you've failed to acknowledge their insecurity and worse you've made it out like they have no bearing whatsoever. What you find as easy does not mean it'll be the same for everyone else and until …
/r/seduction16/08/20 10:18 PM
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Not really, the guy's that have a relationship earned to feel wanted and desired by that woman, I sit on my ass playing games and browse reddit, if a girl wanted and desired me, I'd send her to a mental institute.
/r/seduction15/08/20 09:39 PM
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The samev inevitable thing that happened with groups like Metoo and MGTOW and any other nationalistic ideal that becomes widespread, the ideal got too big for its boots to be properly managed and contained and then the more vile-minded individuals came in and devolved what was once sensible ideals for the downtrodden into the toxic and corrupt shitshows they are today.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 09:36 PM
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While I wouldn't really advocate that, especially in light of the count of rape and assault cases it's clearly not the opposite. That being said, men aren't free from men haters either and while they're not as threatened as women are, the stories that do come from men that have been stalked and harrassed by women can sometimes be more disturbing than what women go through. It seems to be a quality vs quantity type of story with these sorts of things.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 09:27 PM
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arraneg a meet up date at a cafe and go dutch on the already cheap drinks, saves so much money, is a simple populated area so anyone can leave if one isn't feeling comfortable and if anyone objects then it's clear where their priorities lie.
/r/seduction13/08/20 09:11 AM
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It's ridiculous that we're expected to maintain an optimistic and positive outlook in what is essentially a soul crushing, depreciative aspect of life and any sign of negativity and stress is simply labelled as being an incel. It's no wonder the numbers are rising the way they are when people experiencing these difficulties are brushed aside as just simply bitter nice guys/girls entitled to what everyone ultimately wants out of this shit show.
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:03 PM
1

If you can dance attractively then yes, but if you dance like you're taking your first steps then no
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:54 PM
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Dating for men is like having to dive into a deep empty ocean in search of pearls, all the while having to race against other divers. Dating for women is like looking for a golden egg in a coop full of ornery chickens and hoping not to get pecked.
/r/seduction09/08/20 07:04 PM
1

I fucking hate this, like when did it become some sort of rule to get laid as soon possible and the punishment for failure be alienation or ostracisation? There are people going into their 40's that never even received any physical affection outside of their own family and even then, some are not so lucky to get any at all. we're in a time where depression and loneliness is sky rocketing, you think these people give a shit about their virginity? Nobody worth your time cares if you've lost your v…
/r/seduction07/08/20 09:35 PM
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Never used one myself, but seen friends who have and so long as proper measures are taken there's been no real downside to it, it's a type stress relief and it has helped them relax and realise that things aren't as precarious anf frivalous as people make it out to be. Obviously watch for the danger signs when going in, make sure to do some research before jumping in, always ALWAYS pack a condom don't take ANY chances, don't put anything valuable at risk, don't use your home, go to a hotel if a …
/r/seduction06/08/20 02:50 PM
1

Eh, I wouldn't be bothered too much, clearly she didn't want it bad enough if she didn't go for it herself.
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:52 AM
1

I highly doubt the people who died give a shit whether or nor their classmates or even their friends are approaching girls so I don't see how this is disrespecting them...
/r/seduction31/07/20 02:12 PM
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That's not what I mean, the idea of seduction and dating is supposed to be about having fun while engaging with another person in a closer manner than friends without needing to overthink the process. Yet seeing this and all of the other posts that have more lines than a driving for dummies guide just screams the opposite, that all of it is just work for a pay-off people aren't sure they really want. I get you're trying to help and I appreciate the effort you're putting in in providing informati…
/r/seduction25/07/20 09:45 PM
1

When faced with a wall of text such as this, nevermind the other 100 pages saying the same thing a different way, is it really any wonder a lot of guys can't be assed with it?
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:33 PM
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That's not what you asked, you asked what does he do if he gets horny, and I provided answers that don't require him to make a commitment. Furthermore, I don't judge people how they deal with their sexual urges so long as it's consensual and legal, I advise you do the same and stop deciding that others are fooling themselves just because it isn't within your purview. If people prefer to stay in their comfort zone, that's their decision.
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:00 PM
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Porn, strip clubs, escorts, ONS, FWB, don't need a relationship for that.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:01 PM
3

I wasn't going to insinuate but I know a lot of people will look at men towards this problem as if shy women are exempt from this rule, they're not.
/r/seduction21/07/20 10:28 PM
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It's also the result of sublt neglect and abuse those people have gone through to feel like they're opinions and wants are invalid, when they don't have people sharing their interests or worse belittling them for it is when the knockdown effect comes into play and it only escalates as time goes on and they feel like they should just shut up and keep their head down for the sake of avoiding torment.
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:27 PM
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After being on a lot of hollow dates, I can confirm this is the case, and it isn't just restricted to guys, but women as well, we don't want a pushover that goes along with everything we suggest, we want to hear what you want to do as well. You have to meet halfway and arrange your own activities and opinions, because all you're doing is becoming a yes-wo(man) by agreeing to everything we're suggesting without throwing in your own desires and you come across as boring and uninteresting to be aro…
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:24 PM
1

Wouldn't bet the farm on it, had plenty of girls sending that message to me and nine times out of ten, it culminated in her wanting someone to entertain her with jokes or games.
/r/seduction19/07/20 10:15 PM
1

I worked as a cleaner at a strip club for several months, more often than not, it's because they want that inbetween of a casual drink with the gang and a lively party with some girls that dance and talk.
/r/seduction18/07/20 10:40 PM
3

I don't even need to open that link to know EXACTLY what it is you're refering to, fuck that coke ad.
/r/MensRights16/07/20 08:37 PM
3

The thing is, the people reading this have been leading boring and sexless lives for years so they don't see the reason to break out. 'You can't miss what you never had' sound familiar? It's easy to tell them all of this, but far as guys like this are concerned, they've got what they need out of life, sex and relationships aren't a neccisity and often many contemplate if pursuing a chance at relationships is worth the effort required to do so.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:40 PM
22

Women only want men to open up about their emotions when it's line with their own and WHEN they want to hear about it. That one friends episode that featured Bruce Willis opening the floodgates is a prime example of why men should never open up, not just because of Rachels reaction but the fact it makes fun of a very serious and dark issue men are dealing with and completely belittles it.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 07:51 PM
2

No, but it's not a key factor either as OP has asked.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:55 PM
2

Probably a combination of my overly nerdy persona and my resting bitch face for the most part. I maintain good hygiene and colourful clothes that detract attention from my face, but apparently I'm just that off putting.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:52 PM
9

Mate, I'm 6'4 and never even had a single women look my way in a friendly manner nevermind sexual, so no, height doesn't matter.
/r/seduction11/07/20 07:33 PM
1

Don't approach women in the street, it seldoms work out, go to bars or such and go from there. If you aren't certain of approaching in a social area, ask your friends to go with you, so that way should you fall they'll be there to support and encourage you for taking that first step and keep trying from there.
/r/seduction09/07/20 11:01 AM
5

You don't need to tell me about man's desperation for validation, you want to see man's desperation in it's truest form, just go to a gym or active beach and watch how men suddenly put on their 'flex' whenever a woman walks past them...
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:48 PM
21

I just shrug and move on to someone else, I'm not about to subject myself to vy for a womans attention if she's interested in someone else.
/r/seduction08/07/20 06:28 PM
1

Thanks, I appreciate the help, but I value what little self-esteem I have left too much to take a chance on dating apps.
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:14 AM
4

I hate acting dominant as it's just not my personality to do so, am I just doomed to be single then?
/r/seduction06/07/20 10:08 PM
12

I would absolutely love it and I'd love for more women to be straightforward and blunt in their intent.
/r/seduction06/07/20 08:26 PM
2

In no way did I state that I think women are just for sex, and the fact you pull that blame card so quickly makes me even less inclined to believe any of the shit you spout. Furthermore your entire post is about pulling a woman into sexual attraction, hell even your response 'good, more pussy for me.' is more in line with you viewing women as sexual outlets more than anything I've commented. I've no intention of letting man or woman walk over me and I'm all for more good friends and fun times, b…
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:56 PM
1

All I've taken from this is not to bother, Jesus christ on a cream cracker, none of this looks the slightest bit fun or inspiring me to follow in the slightest. A 20 step guide? Is this shit serious? In the time I would spend closely analyzing and applying this I could have worked to earn enough to buy a video game that'll tide me over until I do it all over again. You and all of these other 'players' put all of this shit together and then wonder why more guys bury their heads in the sand or can…
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:39 PM
1

Never been to Applebee's, is it good?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/20 09:55 PM
1

Honestly, I don't know why, but I immediately thought he meant Ned Flanders and I was processing a good minute; How is he gay? I know he can be flamboyant, but he has a wife and ki- oh he meant Mr. Burns assistant...
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:24 PM
4

dead.
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:09 PM
1

Can I just say thank you? Going through this sub and looking at the constant shitlist of posts saying 'just be confident' 'got anxiety? just don't do it!' you actually provide insightful advice that might actually make a difference
/r/seduction04/07/20 05:28 PM
10

This is what gets me about the whole thing, is when I hear about women wanting men to be true to their emotions and completely backpedal, when their true emotions is them having no vote of confidence in themselves, because 9 times out of 10 that's what those bottled up emotions are. That 'confidence' that everyone says guys should have purely because they're a guy, is the bottled up emotions that women also want men to show which is the very thing they consider unattractive.
/r/seduction04/07/20 05:15 PM
41

Right, because that insecurity and lack of confidence hasn't stemmed from cases of belittlement along with a severe lack of praise no matter their accomplishments, not forgetting being tormented for having interests outside of other people's purview and social expectations that they HAVE to meet. No one wants to feel like they're worthless or have no confidence, but sadly a lot of guys lifestyle doesn't put them in a very positive or supportive light and only a very select view can overcome that…
/r/seduction04/07/20 02:00 PM
1

Fingers crossed... I do hold out hope hence why I'm in these types of subs, but seeing things like this makes me very reluctant in believing it'll happen.
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:14 AM
0

Ask?
/r/seduction27/06/20 09:20 PM
2

Will do, when I get the courage to start getting this thing beta-read I'll let you know.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 07:59 PM
5

I dunno, as an aspiring writer myself, also wanting to publish my own novels, it kind of gives me hope that maybe my writing isn't the absolute pits of human creativity and I have a genuine chance at it being liked and well received.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 07:47 PM
1

If I had a dollar for everytime I saw this type of post, I'd have enough to just live as a sugar daddy for the rest of my life. Confidence is not something that just anyone can have, if that were the case, loneliness and depression wouldn't be skyrocketing as it is. People's upbringings are a key factor of this and telling them 'just be confident' is displaying ignorance at what's making them struggle in the first place. You don't know what a person' been through what's led them to become the pe…
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:27 PM
1

So basically if you're a reddit user, it's not as easy as your advertising.
/r/seduction22/06/20 09:35 PM
1

Deadmau5 - Hey Baby or Projekt Melody - Ghost Data
/r/seduction19/06/20 08:51 PM
1

And what of those that don't have the confidence or moral support to do so? It's easy to say how it actually turns out, but people need the actual boost in confidence to make that leap in the first place.
/r/seduction13/06/20 08:42 AM
1

The problem with this, as sad as it is to admit; there's not much in the way of support groups to help people be more social nor deter those with a porn addiction when they get it, except of their own will to do better but even that's not a guarantee that'll resolve their needs for a release. Another underlying factor is that for most people, porn is their only option for a sexual release and not many are willing to go through the weeks if not months of activities towards becoming desirable and …
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:17 PM
23

I always remember that one Friends episode featuring Bruce Willis, Rachel pushes and pushes him to be more open about his emotions, all because she wanted to feel validated, and after the damn broke and he couldn't contain it anymore she was sick of him. Women only want men to be emotional when it's on THEIR wavelength not mens.
/r/MensRights07/06/20 08:59 PM
24

The guys using money as a means of attraction generally don't care about receiving connection on an emotional level and only on a surface level, why do you think sugar daddies, trophy wives and the like exist? Far as they're concerned, if their money has gotten them into their pants then that's all they need done.
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:39 AM
-1

Or... Just hire a prostitute?
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:27 PM
2

Mate there are 40 year old men and women that never received any physical affection outside of their family and even then... I think you're fine, quit worrying.
/r/seduction02/06/20 10:03 PM
2

Generally, but it's not really an invite for anything either and as a roommate he may glance at you but probably not act on it either.
/r/seduction30/05/20 08:21 AM
1

Can I just in genuine sincerity say; thank you so much for certifying my stance on not bothering with any of this bullshit? You and so many other posts that make paragraphs upon paragraphs constantly going over the 'game' make me glad that I'm not missing out on anything when in the time I could have read all the back and forth crap people like to persist, I'd more than likely have better spent that time getting an actual education on how to improve my life without relying on attracting women in…
/r/seduction19/05/20 09:55 PM
7

My problem is less 'am I bothering them?' and more 'can I be bothered?' Edit: a word.
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:26 PM
35

She's probably going to be horny sure, but there's probably already going to be a hundred guys just as if not hornier that are lining up for her approval. I get what you're saying about not letting the opportunity pass us by, but taking this fact on board and the unlucky ones coming home empty handed will just reinforce a negative mentality that even after several months of isolation and loneliness and people are still being considered undesirable will crush confidence badly.
/r/seduction16/05/20 10:37 PM
1

I think because just as girls can't see guys as dating material, for guys it's either relationship or bust because if they're made friends then they're just held on as a reminder that their feelings weren't reciprocated. It's a weird line of thinking but considering guys are always one extreme or another and rarely in between it's not so surprising.
/r/seduction15/05/20 07:21 PM
4

At one point I thought that women initiating the conversation would solve a lot of problems, but after seeing the lack of effort they make in maintaining that conversation even after initiating on the likes of bumble... If all she's making you do is carry the conversations she starts, then she's clearly just bored and wanting you to entertain her.
/r/seduction15/05/20 05:41 PM
2

As much as I like to encourage this mentality, don't forget that you're just one more candidate in the line of men chasing after her and if you aren't meeting her standards she can and more than likely will drop and ghost you in a moments notice.
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:39 PM
1

Right before the lockdown I've just come to the conclusion that seducing women is simply just too much effort and I'd much rather be at home chilling. Don't get me wrong, I want the companionship that media likes to portray relationships as this lovey dovery power couple, but the reality of it is a far cry from what it actually is and it's a lot of work and I just don't have that motivation to do it. Nevermind the fact that the journey to getting a relationship is an arduous task in of itself, s…
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:42 PM
5

That's not really restricted to music though is it? Adverts, TV shows, gaming and nearly every other media outlet puts women on a pedestal
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:20 PM
4

Set it Off, I can't recommend that one enough.
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:19 PM
1

I wanna bring up something that was the key point in your revival that many may not have the luxury of and it's something I realised myself. I'm not successful by any means of the word, and to this day after finally figuring the shitshow that dating is I'm still an introverted virgin with no relationship at 26 and still single after 10 years when my last relationship ended after she cheated on me and what followed was hollow and empty dates. But this stonewalling is on me, not anyone else's faul…
/r/seduction08/05/20 09:40 PM
1

Yeah, passionate about something that is beneficial if not of similar interest to them. I could say I'm passionate about TV shows and movies, An avid reader of large story-filled books and lore drenched worlds and hardcore gamer and none of that will be of any interest or attraction to a woman unless she herself was invested with it. The exception to this are men who are passionate about more physical things in their lives, exercising, community events, businesses and the like. Indoor passions m…
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:56 PM
2

I think what you're missing out to this whole thing is the preparation beforehand. You telling someone to go out and approach is exactly the same when someone says they want to improve themselves but have no outline or plan. I got lucky with my approaches to the point I'm fine by myself, but that's because my friends where there to help me pick out the nice clothes needed to go out, to give me ideas of funny pick up line, whenever a girl was in line of sight and to give me the moral support when…
/r/seduction03/05/20 08:27 AM
13

I swear, if I got even half a buck for the amount of times I see posts or comments saying "Got anxiety? Quit being a bitch and just do it." I'd have enough to live the rest of my days as a sugar daddy for three women. This doesn't help anyone and you clearly haven't been in the shoes of someone who suffers with social anxiety or many other circumstances that makes a person so reluctant to actually approach someone. No one wants to feel insecure, no one wants to feel like they don't matter, but u…
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:07 PM
5

My general knee jerk response is to make a joke that kills any further conversation. "Hi, I just wanted to say you have very nice eyes." My response? "Thanks, I got them from my parents."
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:44 PM
2

It's this sort of thing where I've resigned myself to being single due to dealing with mild autism making me generally incapable in showing any confidence in myself when everything I do is mediocre at best. I'm not that bad that I require a carer or anything, but at the same time I lack the ability to improve without someone else's help and obviously no one wants to hold someone else's hand 24/7. Nearly everything I CAN do by myself is the result of someone else showing me what to do and even th…
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:47 PM
374

Honestly, I appreciate the effort you made in posting but the only thing I took away from it is to never bother with online dating.
/r/seduction27/04/20 02:31 PM
1

Can I ask a potentially ridiculous question? We're told not to put women on a pedestal, I get that, no one wants to be forced to the top simply for being who they are. So why is it media completely disregards that notion entirely with the whole 'women are queens' shtick? Like adverts, online posts, music videos and so on, all of them aim to make women out like they're goddesses and then wonder why all they get is desperate horndogs at their door?
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:52 PM
4

I wish this was only a rare occurrence, but I've lost count the amount of times I've seen girls outright saying no and guys don't do the smart thing and walk away. Like isn't learning to take rejection and walk away one of the first things to learn when doing this sort of thing?
/r/seduction18/04/20 07:22 PM
3

Because interest fades? Because she found someone else who excites her more? Because she kept you around as a back up plan in case the other guy didn't work out? The list can go on, but no one knows the answer but her and as you've found out, she frankly doesn't give a shit about you and you need to respond in kind by blocking the shit out of her
/r/seduction17/04/20 07:02 PM
2

The same reason anyone ghosts, they lost interest and don't care about you enough to simply tell you.
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:56 PM
2

She's playing games, drop the bitch, then move on.
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:43 PM
0

This is actually one of the better encouragement posts I've seen, good job.
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:33 PM
1

I treat them equally, disinterested I walk away, shy I walk away. If I'm told I can't be shy as a guy then I don't want to have to waste time dealing with someone who is. Swings and roundabouts.
/r/seduction02/04/20 07:41 PM
1

Eh, I wouldn't worry too much about it, I've passed up many opportunities and chances simply because I believed it'd be too much of a hassle to deal with, least with anxiety it's a tangeble reason.
/r/seduction01/04/20 10:07 PM
3

It feels like the case of needing experience to get a job, but needing a job to get experience. What doesn't help is when people's views of a relationship are based on movie's and little else, growing up you have to figure out dating by yourself and if you aren't desirable or socially aware than you won't get that knowledge and when you reach a certain point it's treated like it's YOUR fault for not doing anything when the odds are stacked against you. I get it, failing the task is better than f…
/r/seduction29/03/20 09:04 PM
5

I'll initiate around 2-3 times because apparently as a guy it's an indisputed rule that I HAVE to make the first approach at which point I've more than likely described my likes and dislikes and if she hasn't picked up on that by then or is not willing to make an effort, then it wasn't going to work in the first place.
/r/seduction28/03/20 09:41 PM
73

I prefer an equal exchange, if they make no effort or initiative then that's what they get back.
/r/seduction28/03/20 08:45 PM
2

I think it depends on the scenario, I know the saying nothing ventured nothing gained is the case here but in this day and age, I find it's just not worth the risk but that's just me. I'm too socially feared and inept to understand social interest and so I find it's not worth taking the plunge and if a girl really wanted it she'd make the first move herself. A lot of it also dependant on how serious you are about going out with them, if it was your goal all along when you first met them then tha…
/r/seduction27/03/20 11:38 PM
4

Or instead of coming across as a pest I'll see who actually develops an interest instead of chasing around after women, sounds like a less headache inducing plan.
/r/seduction27/03/20 10:03 PM
2

Better idea; just chill out, act natural, don't get fully invested and move on if things don't work out as they wouldn't be good for you anyway if they flake that easily. This post takes way too much effort into what is essentially having to deal with people's shit for no reason other than the possibility of dipping your wick.
/r/seduction27/03/20 09:04 PM
3

I think the problem is distinguishing the rejection as it's not simply a case of getting turned down by the same type of person over and over. Example, getting turned down by the girl you met at the bar is different to being turned down by the person you thought you had a connection with is when things get problematic. It's the same with cold approaches, getting turned down by the hottest girl you've ever seen in your life isn't going to hurt, it's when you get turned down by a hundred girls is …
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:38 PM
5

In other words, don't use online dating, gotcha.
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:09 PM
1

And the trend of too much effort for too little reward continues...
/r/seduction27/03/20 09:10 AM
2

It's too a point I'm not sure if she's into me even if she's naked on my bed.
/r/seduction26/03/20 01:26 PM
0

I mean, dates cost money as well and there's no guarantee you'll get sex by the end of it. Also much like guys avoiding gold diggers, no girl is gonna wants to date a broke dude unless his dick game is A+ or she's get a fetish for virgins which is very unlikely. If all you've got on your mind for girls is to get them into your bed, you're better off looking for some venue instead of the run around.
/r/seduction21/03/20 07:13 PM
1

I think it depends on your social skills and ability to go out, are you the person who goes to concerts and nightclubs or listens to their headphones sat indoors with a hot drink watching TV series? If you're not the outgoing type then just avoid the ones seeking adventure.
/r/seduction21/03/20 07:08 PM
0

Why is fucking a prostitute not consensual?
/r/seduction21/03/20 06:46 PM
3

Bit of a difference in what people are actually afraid of when it comes to rejection, you got rejected by a girl who you were chatting on and off with, this wasn't someone you knew you wanted to go out with rather you wanted to see where it went thus you yourself weren't fully invested in it. Also, people aren't afraid of getting rejected by one person, it's the thought of it being one of many rejections they'll go through. I understand that when asking 100 girls out all you need is one to say y…
/r/seduction21/03/20 08:51 AM
1

Honestly? Flirty compliments and willingness to being in close proximity to someone is usually straightforward enough without it being awkward. Just whatever you do for the love of all that's holy do NOT do hints, we will not pick up on them.
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:58 PM
1

Or just rub one out over a porn vid or hell, hire a prostitute? Save a lot of time and energy and maybe money instead of balancing on what-ifs.
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:34 PM
1

Gotta say, I don't mean this in any offense, but you sound very generic and boring. It's understandable if you don't want to be the adventurous type, but more and more women are wanting to spend their 20's-30's having fun and making mistakes and by the sounds of it, you don't provide that sort of excitement. I say this as a 27 year old who is just as boring and uninteresting, I haven't had a relationship in 10 years and all past dates wheren't even that, they were a hangout at best, but I know w…
/r/seduction17/03/20 10:19 PM
1

Pretty much, my best analogy for this whole 'approach' game is that it's a lot like basketball, when you're in charge you have a keen sense on what to do, how the game is played and where to score. With two people it's more chaotic and less 'synergised' for lack of a better word, you know the saying; "The ball is in their court?" That means you need to rely on the other person to follow up and give you enough space to maneuver more often than not multiple times without directly communicating it …
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:59 PM
6

I think the problem is less on their subtleties and more on their ability to deliver than anything and I say that as someone who'd love nothing more than to meet a woman straightforward and clear with her intent. I've seen what girls constitute as 'interest' with hints as vague as dropping an eraser next to the guy she likes in class and then complains about guys not noticing her. Plus, show of hands how many times have you had 2 girls competing for you? Had a girl once approach, and I'm here th…
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:15 PM
19

Wait until it blows over? The virus isn't going to last forever and there's more pressing issues than dating right now. Put it on the back burner and do literally anything else.
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:04 PM
5

Honest opinion? Don't do it, while a gym can be a place for making friends, it's not a place for people to get hit on and a wide majority of girls have emphasised that gyms, beaches, bus stops and nature walks are terrible places to hit on a girl. You've found out she's an artist looking into college, maybe try something there.
/r/seduction09/03/20 09:10 AM
1

Same reason people quit jobs their when they win it big, or soldiers that quit fighting when the war's over, job's done time to kick back and relax. Simply put, they've gone through the journey and feel they don't need to do anything else, and this applies to guys as well especially in the dating era where people are trying so hard to just get recognised nevermind a date so when they acheive a relationship they feel they need not do anything else.
/r/seduction06/03/20 08:56 PM
1

Reading these comments really makes me glad I'm not wasting my time in this ridiculous 'game' everyone insists on making.
/r/seduction06/03/20 07:10 PM
31

And what if a guy is someone who wants to stay in his house all day and look at a screen?
/r/seduction04/03/20 11:15 PM
4

Dating should be give and take, you made a schedule, she cancelled, realistically she should arrange the next date and not expect you to do everything.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:54 AM
1

But it's a true effect, the guy doesn't care when the hottest woman switches off from him the second she meets him, it's when all 30 girls decide he's not worth a date is when a person's ego is crushed.
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:03 PM
0

How do you channel sexual tension into something productive? Because unless he plans on using the friction as some form of kinetic energy I'm at a loss.
/r/seduction01/03/20 02:17 PM
5

Go to a brothel or hire a prostitute man
/r/seduction01/03/20 01:13 PM
9

With rejection? Honestly; relief, thinking thank fuck I've done my part, I don't have to question what if anymore and I can go on with my day. It's when I think about the amount of times I've been rejected is when I question if my ego can take anymore, it's the reason I don't bother with the likes of Tinder and Bumble, I get denied enough in real life, what little ego and self esteem I have left will be devoured if I go onto dating sites.
/r/seduction01/03/20 12:57 PM
9

I think what the underlying issue is not the person rejecting you, but dealing with the possibility of being rejected a hundred times. That dating show Take Me Out is a key attribute to this, it doesn't matter to the guy what kind of girl rejects him, could be the most beautiful one there that says no and it won't affect him, it's when all the lights go out is when the guy's mentality is affected. Getting rejected by the most stunning and intelligent girl you ever laid eyes on isn't the problem,…
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:42 AM
2

No offense, but if a girl is aksing questions about your job, it's likely not because of what it involves, but how much it rewards.
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:38 PM
2

Seen this a fair few times and it makes me cringe and facepalm to no end that this is generally girls idea of approaching, like: "Hey, you look familiar, do you have a *insert family relation here*?" "Uhh... No?" "Oh, okay." Walks off. Like what response were you hoping for? Could you imagine him saying he does have a brother and then you're stuck in a conversation about the shit his brother's gotten upto? Because that doesn't sound like a fun time for anyone.
/r/seduction28/02/20 08:26 PM
6

If she's been bombarded by ten men then I'm better off moving onto someone else.
/r/seduction25/02/20 07:09 PM
0

True, but as someone who's worked as a server both in person and on the phone we do acknowledge when a customer is genuinely a nice person, someone complimenting us on our work ethic can be the one thing between a good day and a bad day. Strippers have no such acknowledgement, and I agree they probably deal with worse customers than a store assistant would, but the fact that even the genuinely nicest most beautiful person is susceptible for belittlement in their eyes is the reason I refuse to sh…
/r/seduction25/02/20 06:38 PM
28

I can see this is as an interesting premise, if nothing else it might wake guys up that girls are people too. My only issue with this is, strippers can be some of the most two-faced evil and downright fake people to exist and as an ex cleaner to a strip-club, the degrading and humiliating shit you hear these girls talk about almost makes you think all women are evil witches in disguise. You could be an offspring of Bruce Wayne and Tony Stark in every department from looks to personality to finan…
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:29 PM
8

I made a comment on a post about how all men do is ghost women trying to say that men get ghosted the same if not more than women. I was subjected to over 20 responses cursing and cussing me out calling me an overprivileged incel before getting perma-banned. FDS is a cancerous sub and no one can tell me otherwise.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/20 10:50 PM
1

Thinking of what to say wasn't my issue, least not this time, it was having the energy to keep the conversation going because I just felt done for no reason.
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:20 PM
6

Wasn't an 'approach' but worked in my favour, in the middle of walking my dogs and letting them run in the park I see the girl on the bench feeding bits of bread to a flock of birds and I decide to make a reference only a few will get and just said in a joking manner "Fuck these birds, am I right?" She laughed but didn't know what I was referring to thankfully, from there it was just small talk until it was time to go home, never saw her again after that but the talk was nice.
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:19 PM
1

Motivation to want to keep talking and socialising with someone, as I said, the conversation wasn't bad and she was nice to speak ot and nicer to look at, although nothing exciting or interesting was said, just simple and relaxed like the kind you have when at a cafe and yet I just felt the need to dip out as soon as I saw an opening to leave. I don't want this to be a recurrence, because then I'm making people feel like they're not worth talking to, and especially if I do find someone I vibe wi…
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:17 PM
2

I think it's not pressured but encouraged to see different women instead of settling for the first woman you fall for, if you have a case of oneitis and the relationship goes south, you potentially cripple any and all future attempts at dating, at least by seeing multiple women you realise you have options if things don't go your way. Come the end of the day, a relationship should be an extension of your life, not a core aspect, you need to be just as good without the relationship as you are wit…
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:15 PM
7

1 in 3.5billion isn't exactly favourable odds mate.
/r/seduction22/02/20 07:03 PM
3

If you want intentional rejections then try at the beach or a gym it's more likely to happen there.
/r/seduction22/02/20 08:39 AM
9

I feel like this is the case with dating in general, whereas girls are told to just wait for the right guy to come along, guys are always constantly told to improve themselves, be it the gym, college, employment or even socialising, they're always told they need to better themselves and it's what's causing this sense of defeatism. Like you said, there are men that are stronger, smarter, richer and better at conversation than ourselves but at the same time those men are also just as lonely as us …
/r/seduction21/02/20 09:54 PM
2

And people wonder why I don't want to deal with tinders bullshit.
/r/seduction20/02/20 09:04 PM
1

Then you've completely ignored why I'm not following this horseshit. It's not about trying to prove I'm different from the thousand guys she's been hit on that night alone because there's nothing I can provide that others haven't already offered, nevermind the fact she's more than likely tired of being pestered. If that wasn't the case and she is 'shit-testing me' if I show I'm unfazed by it, I'm enabling her shitty behaviour even more and she believes she can get away with it and the more peopl…
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:40 PM
1

It's understandable people need to be wary and can't just go off with every stranger that approaches them, there's no fault in turning someone down or being turned down yourself even if it's because they have a bad vibe, just don't be complaining about loneliness when you put yourself in that position.
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:32 PM
1

Pretty much. My social conditions and interactions with others over the years have left me with the belief that I am just generally unnattractive and annoying to be around, combined with low dating experience in which my last relationship ended with her cheating on me, I've learned to assume that women just aren't into me.
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:29 PM
-2

Your partner in for a lucky night then?
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:31 PM
2

If that's what you're into then no one should tell you different, just as no one should tell anyone that they should approach a a girl that's being a bitch simply because she's putting on an act. Act or not, it's not pleasant and there's no need for it, especially if it's an attraction method.
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:10 PM
11

Faking it or not, point of context is; who am I gonna want to spend time with? The girl that compliments and treats me like a decent human being, or the girl that acts like her shit don't stink and turns her nose up at me? I'm well aware I'm casting a smaller net by doing this but at the same time ask yourself is the wider net worth it if all you're going to catch is shit?
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:01 PM
59

Yeah no. Not looking to deal with someone who acts like a bitch, period. Being kind doesn't cost anything and if this is the kind of mind game a girl thinks is a good idea in gauging someone then it's no fucking wonder people are dealing with loneliness because no one with an ounce of common sense will have time or patience for this shit. All you're doing is enabling this kind of behaviour because if she thinks she can get away with being a bitch and all you do is blank it out then she's going t…
/r/seduction20/02/20 02:27 PM
2

Is anyone else getting concerned that more and more female teachers seem to be doing this? I swear it's at least once a week there's a report about this
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/20 09:49 PM
1

I'm simply of a mind that it's better safe than sorry, it's not the way to do things on a date I know, but in my mind it's just not worth the risk, plus I don't want to be the one who has to do the escalation all the time and if I have to be the instigator then it's not going to work out in the long run anyway.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:53 PM
0

Unless you're just looking for an easy lay, than I'd just forget about her and move onto someone else, if she's willing to have sex that easily with someone it doesn't inspire much confidence as relationship material.
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:27 PM
1

I remember a friend of mine introducing me to her girlfriend a while back and for whatever reason she unnerved me like hell despite the fact she was friendly, bubbly and outright fun and games yet this uneasy feeling never left me and I had no idea why. Like the kind of person to drink with but wouldn't sit next to on a couch if that's a good analogy? Anyway, at some point I managed to get my friend on his own and I felt the need to tell him something was creeping me the hell out about her which…
/r/seduction16/02/20 09:46 PM
9

I feel this is the problem with dating in general, so many people focus on the journey of getting into a relationship or sex that they don't know what to do when they get there nor know what to do afterwards.
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:58 PM
50

3 one word answers in a row and I'm out.
/r/seduction15/02/20 02:57 PM
1

It's not about doing it for your sake, it's about not doing it for their sake. Some people just don't want to be bothered and you enabling people to approach someone that genuinely doesn't want to be approached is only going to piss them off especially if it happens constantly. They're not some NPC you approach in a video game that's going to tell you their life story just because you're willing to talk to them, they're people that will have their own shit going and don't want to be hit on.
/r/seduction14/02/20 08:36 AM
1

Based on past experience? Someone who wears bright and attractive clothing that catches the eye, positions herself at the centre of busy places, uses their hands actively, I.E playing drums on their legs, silently clapping them together, isn't engaged with their phone or having their ears plugged and looking around their surroundings for anyone interesting that comes by.
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:35 PM
2

No one HAS to do anything they don't want to, it's like you said, we don't know what they're going through and being chatted up by someone could be the straw that breaks the camels back especially in the day of age of minimal social interaction they may want to just be left in peace. It's not rocket science on who looks approachable and who doesn't, read their body language, their actions, their expressions, is someone who sits in the corner dressed in dark colours, arms folded, eyes shut and ea…
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:12 PM
14

I always make it a point of confirming the date on the day and if there's no response I just call it as good as cancelled which is fine by me, I've got other shit I can do. What makes this worse is when they get in contact an hour after the date was planned and it's always some bullshit excuse. I get it, meeting a stranger is nerve-wracking as all hell, but it's the same for the opposite party and if that's your anxiety why are you on a dating site in the first place?
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:35 PM
1

I get the meaning behind this about shooting your shot and taking a chance, but there are times when someone legitimately wants to be left alone and being approached could be the thing to set them off. If someone wants to be approached they'll look the part and make themselves available for it, if they're not looking the part then the sign is they're not interested.
/r/seduction13/02/20 08:12 PM
15

There's a guy right there...
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:58 PM
1

Gotta say, of all the posts I've heard on this sub that basically dumb down to "JUST DO IT" with no regards to self-esteem or care for anxiety, I have to admit I actually liked this post a lot and genuinely feel motivated from it.
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:43 PM
8

Not specifically tinder, but I make it a point of meeting up at a cafe or something simple, that way either party can nope out if something goes wrong rather than relying on them or them relying on me for a ride home.
/r/seduction10/02/20 08:13 PM
1

I can see where you're coming from with the 2 scenario's, but it feels as if both of them aren't going to provide much success. Whereas the first scenario struggles with confidence which is often the biggest roadblock people face, the second scenario struggles with energy and if you lived through the 1st scenario at least once, then chances are you're too tired and busy to fit dating into your schedule.
/r/seduction09/02/20 08:17 AM
2

I think people need to stop being spoonfed the bullshit that there's someone for everyone when in reality that is just not the case and with the number of people getting older with no affection received in their life is getting higher, it's getting apparent people just aren't meant for dating or finding another person.
/r/seduction01/02/20 09:57 PM
1

I generally change the question and if they continue with 1 word answers 2 more times then I'm out.
/r/seduction01/02/20 09:43 PM
2

Gotta be honest, this all feels like an edgy, ego flex that'll likely end up on r/ihavesex at best. There's been nothing helpful to take away from this other than what should be common sense; women are people too, don't be an asshole in stringing people along and never contact exes after bad break ups no matter how much you want to bridge the gap.
/r/seduction30/01/20 09:13 PM
1

"An interesting game, the only way to win is not to play."
/r/seduction30/01/20 07:30 PM
1

I just hate that most fashionably appealing clothes tend to be the some of the more uncomfortable ones to wear, I cannot feel good in anything that isn't tracksuit or loungewear.
/r/seduction29/01/20 09:00 PM
3

That answers nothing, what's the good in working yourself to the bone to find a relationship only to work yourself to the bone in maintaining it? You make no mention of any pay-off especially when you make sex sound like a chore. Work and studying is supposed to be hard and stressful because it's mandatory in a persons life to pay their bills and provide a roof over their head and food on their plate. And as loneliness is on the rise and the usual trends of dating are dying, is it any wonder mor…
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:51 PM
5

And the trend of dating being more hassle than it's worth continue to annoy the fuck out of me... What the hell, is this seriously modern dating now? None of this sounds remotely fun or the slightest bit entertaining, just constantly masks of insincerity and acts of douchebaggery at every corner all for the sake of what? This post makes nothing about dating 'fun' the way it's advertised, this whole post looks like a do's and don't of applying for a job, hell you make sex sound more like some tes…
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:21 PM
3

I think it's best to make it a point that every nice thing women do for you is just out of kindness and necissity rather than any form of attraction... At the end of the day, you really just can't tell with women and like in your case it's best not to assume they're interested.
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:02 PM
3

what's RSD?
/r/seduction25/01/20 05:52 PM
0

Not particularly a fan of small flirts as they can be easily misconstrued. Generally I prefer women that are straightforward in their approach and go for what they want instead of waiting for the other person to make a move.
/r/seduction24/01/20 06:00 PM
3

I just hate the 'game' that's brought in with dating that is consistently perpetuated despite the fact it does nothing but waste people's time and effort, "Don't double text unless you want to appear desperate." "Let the phone ring 3 times before you answer." "Don't be available for a date at the drop of a hat." just as SOME examples of the asinine rules in this fucked up game. And then, the mjaority complains of loneliness because of them following through it and continuing what is a pointless …
/r/seduction23/01/20 10:02 PM
1

Been called this numerous times albeit they weren't really anyone I was especially interested in even as a friend, so I just respond that I'm trying to fit in with the boring company I'm in. Not a casanova move by any means, but calling someone boring is uncalled for, even if true and not someone I want to be associated with.
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:24 PM
3

Not advice, but thank you for affirming my stance that dating is still some stupid shitshow of a game when this type of crap is still a thing.
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:15 PM
1

I didn't fall into a gold-diggers clutches, does that count?
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:07 PM
1

What the fuck is 'state'? Like state of mind?
/r/seduction20/01/20 07:19 PM
1

I wouldn't worry about it to be honest, plenty of men and women are going through their prime not getting any affection from anyone outside their immediate family, hell some are getting in their 40's and still haven't held hands with a member of the opposite sex. So don't be panicking that you're the only virgin on campus because chances are you're not, just let nature run its course and focus on your studies, if a relationship comes your way, great, if not, oh well, it's not the end of the worl…
/r/seduction19/01/20 09:10 PM
1

I've had a lot of dates end with them dumping me, but very little has their been waterworks, however that may be because they have ammo to make me the bad guy in that I make them feel unwanted and unattractive because I don't compliment, flirt or initiate any physical contact with them. Thing is, neither do they, but clearly if it was that important to them they'd have made the first move, and to anyone telling me I should make the first move, take your opinion into your arms and fall on somethi…
/r/seduction19/01/20 09:07 PM
5

So tldr; dating is still a monumental chore and utter pain in the ass with little to no reward, got it.
/r/seduction19/01/20 03:48 PM
1

I think what people are having a problem comprehending with is being told that the fear they feel is false as opposed to making everything a negative, as if their reason for inability is all something made up, which it is in a sense. I won't say their fears are unwarranted, the vocal minority is louder than the silent majority after all and as you said, the bad lasts longer than the good in people's minds and after groups have made men and women feel like lesser beings for doing what they think …
/r/seduction11/01/20 11:05 PM
5

People, not just guys, want to believe in the approach anxiety because it makes them feel that there's nothing wrong with them if it's apparent in so many people. That way, what they're feeling is not an individual case and that as more and more people admit it, they feel it is normal and that they don't need to change anything about themselves because it so common. Change, for better or for worse, is a concept many don't want to deal with and as time is getting on, approaching people is becomin…
/r/seduction11/01/20 10:15 PM
5

A lot of the time it came a point I just thought; damn, this depression is taking it's sweet time trying to get me to kill myself I may as well just do whatever until then. It's not really solved anything and at times I wish that this depression will just push me over the point of no return already and get it over with, but there are moments when I do something that I don't normally do that things aren't so bad. A lot of the time, it's simply a case of saying fuck it, may as well give this a sho…
/r/seduction11/01/20 07:48 PM
2

If this is an anxiety and paranoia you can't get over it may be best to end the relationship now before it gets worse. I'm not gonna say she won't cheat because no one is infallible, after all, how many times can you tempt a person before they give in? All you have is your faith in her to not go behind your back and your instincts to warn you if you feel something is wrong.
/r/seduction09/01/20 05:27 PM
23

I remember talking with a girl online who hadn't met me IRl and I'm not one for posting pictures of myself and for the most part the ones there are of me, are usually of me sitting or lying down. The conversation wasn't much, very damn generic, what's your favourite colour sort of questions and one word answers, so as you can tell this match was on the throes of ending there and then. Soon as I mentioned my height, (6'4) suddenly things picked up and then discussions of arrangements were made an…
/r/seduction08/01/20 10:27 PM
5

Lesson learned; dating is still a monumental and boring chore.
/r/seduction04/01/20 10:56 PM
2

Not particularly, never really had any opportunities for me to be to anxious for it to happen.
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:17 PM
7

I think it's dependant on the types of people you want to attract. For example, a gal caked in makeup and dyed hair showing more skin than clothes that loves blasting concert music on a weekly basis is not gonna win me over even in my desperate state of looking for someone to be with. Make yourself more attuneable for the people you want to attract, don't try and cast a wide net to attract every girl within a 50 mile radius you'll just wear yourself out.
/r/seduction30/12/19 02:58 PM
5

cards against humanity?
/r/seduction29/12/19 09:33 PM
1

"After going through the grinder of dating-" Think you've been going on the wrong site, that's a dating app for gays. Also saying the girls will eventually leave the bad boys behind is really not a great sales pitch, no one wants to be a back up plan after they've had their fun and in the worser part of their years, it just brings in the saying "If I didn't deserve your best why should I deal with your worst?" Plus the whole spiel about 'nice' people finishing last is because being nice is the s…
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:58 AM
2

Personally I'd love it if women made the effort more rather than shitty ass 'hinting' People think women have it easier when seducing, 'just be flirty and confident' and he'll be putty in your hands. I'm sure that's probably more true than it is false but it does feel like the full guide is missing somewhere
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:35 PM
10

Don't use tinder, got it.
/r/seduction23/12/19 04:12 PM
1

Considering my social conditions, I'm in no way shape or form capable of chasing after girls, nor can I read 'hint's so I simply let bygones be bygones and not assume anything unless they specifically say they're interested.
/r/seduction23/12/19 04:09 PM
1

Can't be any worse than apathy, surely? I've lost out on relationships and had dates cut off because I simply never made a move and whenever I got called out on it I just shrugged and moved on from it. A problem with this mentality is there's no self reflection or sense of improvement either, just deflecting, I just say 'what's stopping them from making the first move?' 'if they really wanted it they could have gone for it.'
/r/seduction23/12/19 03:52 PM
1

Ask a boxer if the bloody jaw was worth the trophy, ask a rugby player if the broken ribs was worth the roaring crowd, ask a soldier if the bullet wounds was worth serving a country. You'll find the answer will vary between their beliefs and ideals for each person, some took it better, some took it worse, only you can answer if the end justified the means.
/r/seduction18/12/19 03:33 PM
1

I think it's more a case of endurance or pain threshold thing, although it's more accurate to say you're numb to it as opposed to being better at it.
/r/seduction17/12/19 06:10 PM
4

"Sometimes need to know when to listen and not comment." The actual fuck, isn't impediment of free speech EXACTLY what feminism is supposed to be fighting against?!
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/19 09:53 PM
3

Oh don't get me started on those people offering 'support groups' for dating, put them on an Anti-MLM post and be done with it
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:21 PM
3

If I ever meet a woman thats straightforward and obvious in her intent and interest without the fickle guessing games, I'd nominate her for presidency. I've got enough going on in my life I've only got time for yes or no, not maybe or later.
/r/seduction15/12/19 08:24 PM
7

Or how about fob off Tinder altogether and find something better to do with your time and less self-esteem killing?
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:35 PM
5

I keep coming to these subs to hope I get the motivation in actually getting back into dating after dealing with apathy and depression along with self-doubt after dealing with ridicule and bullying for longer than I should have due to difficulties beyond my control, and if it sounds like I'm making excuses, well stick your superiority up your ass. Also thank you for posts like these that reinforce my stance that dating is still a time-consuming, soul-sucking pile of shit that feels more and more…
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:33 PM
4

it's to make you feel included so when they talk about their own dating life you're not feeling left out of the topic.
/r/seduction15/12/19 06:18 PM
7

To any guy unaware of that sub, stay the fuck away. I made one comment on a post about equalising the stresses of dating by saying both had it difficult and was bombarded with threats and insults before getting permabanned from it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/19 09:51 PM
20

I'd say go for the experience, but don't be expecting it to turn out the way you're fantasizing and expect a lot of things that won't be in your sexual vocabulary.
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:13 PM
-1

Eh, I'm over it, worst case scenario would be needing an ambulance to find out I'd permanently dislocated my limbs and my date deciding to do the paramedic there and then, but I learned to brush it off and promptly blocked her from all contact without a word after that. The injury wasn't permanent and far as I'm aware she's a single mother of two now, plus it was only something we happened to see passing through so we decided on it spontaneously and I'm not particularly big on skating or ice eit…
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:30 PM
1

Slipped and fell, sprained my ankle and broke my wrist, had to leave, she wanted to continue, she found a new partner, left with him.
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:03 PM
1

Yeah, already attempted this once a while ago, didn't end well, not doing it again.
/r/seduction11/12/19 06:14 PM
2

kinoing?
/r/seduction11/12/19 04:52 PM
1

I'm 26
/r/seduction07/12/19 09:30 PM
2

The only time I legitimately felt like a creep was when a new girl came into our little friend group 20 years old who was way too damn innocent for her own good. 90% of the time a dirty joke was made, she would ask: What's that? At first we thought she just hadn't heard that one before but the more and more it happened, it just fell into an awkward silence whenever she asked
/r/seduction07/12/19 07:14 PM
29

Last time I heard someone say that to me I responded with "Thanks, got them from my parents." And my friends and family wonder why I'm always single.
/r/seduction07/12/19 06:50 PM
-1

I don't understand how people can be so clingy, like for the amount of people that struggle with social anxiety surely more people want to be by themselves than suffocated in a relationship why is this more often not the case? Admittedly I don't prioritise my relationships all that much to begin with, I find so long as they don't absorb into my life all that much I won't be left broken when they end.
/r/seduction07/12/19 05:35 PM
4

I think it falls along the lines that 'being nice' is just par for the course, it's not meant to be a desireable trait, you're supposed to be nice to people and not expect anything back, and if that's your only selling point than obviously no one wants to date you, if you're being nice expecting to be rewarded for it, then you're not really a nice person are you?
/r/seduction04/12/19 07:12 PM
2

can't tell if this belongs in r/Ihavesex or r/antiMLM
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:47 PM
1

Doubtful, also not into cuckholdery, thanks, but I'll keep my own motivation.
/r/seduction01/12/19 09:51 PM
8

Jokes on you, never had a crush.
/r/seduction01/12/19 09:13 PM
1

I stopped investing in relationships several months ago, there's very little chance of longevity to them and frankly the confidence crush and heartbreak just isn't worth it anymore.
/r/seduction30/11/19 06:05 PM
1

"Thanks for the sex homie, again at your/my place?" If it was just casual sex, then you need a casual response otherwise you're sending off the wrong signals.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:52 PM
3

I mean... My general rule is: Don't approach women so you've already got a lot more flexibility than me
/r/seduction27/11/19 07:54 PM
1

probably gonna get lost in here but here's another vote. Waste of time, either do or don't, no one's got time for maybe and you're a cruel person for stringing someone along.
/r/seduction27/11/19 04:45 PM
1

Yeah , not taking that chance, seen far too many rejections and even ridicule and shame to consider that a viable option. If women are so desperate for conversation, then they can make the approach instead and I'm sure it'll go a lot better for them than it would for men.
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:49 PM
1

Honestly, I'm just at the point of letting things play out the way they are, if I meet someone, great, new friend to spend time with. If not, great, more time I have to spend with myself and I'm not hurting for either one. I understand the concept of putting in effort when trying to meet someone, but when dating feels a tiring and boring chore and not the immense funtimes that everyone blemishes it is, then clearly I'm not fit for it. I'm comfortable the way I am, if that makes me undateable, th…
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:21 PM
1

Fuck no, too much effort
/r/seduction24/11/19 02:15 PM
1

I hardly ever socialise with people my own age let alone of the same gender so I think doing this is a bit out of the question.
/r/seduction23/11/19 07:57 PM
2

I've long given up with hints I'm too old to deal with time and energy wasting, either say you like me or don't so we can all move on instead of this stupid guessing game.
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:45 PM
2

what about hiring a prostitute?
/r/seduction19/11/19 02:02 PM
134

"Can't spend your life avoiding heartbreak." Watch me.
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:01 PM
1

Don't know why you want to drive a FWB mad for you as that kind of beats the purpose, but then again, I wouldn't know how to drive that kind of person crazy in the first place cuz I'm the furthest thing away from those types of guys and I particularly hate playing 'the game' anyway. The thing with the type you're looking for is you're competing against other women that those men will be looking to date and if they're willing to give it up before you are, you'll probably find yourself getting dro…
/r/seduction12/11/19 07:24 PM
1

Depends on what kind of man you want to drive crazy, as the saying goes, one man's trash is another man's treasure so maybe specify what kind you're looking for?
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:07 PM
1

I tend to just lay it out in the open, first date will always be a coffee date to familiarise and get to know one another and the cost will be two seperate cheques so she shows she can look after herself
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:11 PM
2

If it works, it works
/r/seduction09/11/19 07:20 PM
2

Messaging seems to be on this basis on whoever gets the last word in, so long as there isn't a message below yours, you're safe and until there's a response you can go about your day and move on. The same with setting up a date, even if you both agree to it, unless confirmation comes through on the day, then I won't show up.
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:34 PM
1

Sort of the same knee-jerk response when a girl says, "No, stop. that makes me horny." The only words that went into the guys head at that moment is; 'No, stop.' to which he then stops.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:54 PM
-1

A brothel? Also ask anyone on reddit in your nearby area? pretty sure many would jump at the chance and it's not a dating app so it doesn't count.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:51 PM
1

As someone who's wrote erotica for 4 years I can confirm this statement is false
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:30 PM
2

Still feels like too much work for something that's a debateable reward at best
/r/seduction02/11/19 08:38 AM
1

An average attractive lady will still be more successful in comparison to an average attractive man and is more likely to get the man she desires than the reverse that doesn't negate the point. Dating polls and surveys have shown men consider more women attractive then women consider men as attractive, for all the complaints about men being superficial they see more things attractive than women do hence this whole social distinction. Men encourage their male friends who are successful in the dat…
/r/seduction31/10/19 10:07 PM
20

I can agree to an extent because the status quo is women have easier access to sex compared to men, but I believe neither should be shamed for their sexual activities, only to accept when someone doesn't want to be with a person that's slept around be them man or woman.
/r/seduction31/10/19 02:39 PM
2

I mean, you said you guys aren't together so he doesn't really owe you anything, if you didn't want to have sex with him you wouldn't have done, so really there's nothing actually going for you if he's switching off and on with you so easily. If he was interested he'd have asked you to the party straight out, but the mess around likely left you hanging and waiting on him when he likely didn't even know.
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:33 PM
7

And you're shitting on the people's whose lives have been completely and utterly ruined beyond repair for no other reason than a girl didn't like the guy which happens more often than you think. If a single guy had the power to ruin a womans life just by not liking her he'd be condemmed and strung up within a week at most. The fact you're ignoring and belittling the 'minority' this happens to is just proof you only care about pushing a social agenda and not striving for equal treatment
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:30 PM
3

Short of asking him straight out; do you want to fuck? I don't think anything is getting across and he may be trying to actually maintain a friendly atmosphere rather than a sexual one
/r/seduction24/10/19 02:27 PM
3

Know the saying, opposites attract? You'll find the shy quiet ones love the straight forward confident people.
/r/seduction22/10/19 10:02 PM
1

What about the 40 somethings that make more money than I'll see in a year, more attractive than most average guys, don't normally suffer form social anxiety and yet have been rejected so many times and received no physical intimacy outside of their parents. Also, what the hell is 'man enough' when these days when basic romantic interest is considered grounds for sexual harrassment? Pretty sure if any decent woman wants to give her 'love and affection' to someone she'd seek out the person she wan…
/r/seduction20/10/19 06:38 PM
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Well guys are usually spending money on women anyways, with prostitutes it's guaranteed they get sex
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:34 PM
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Can't go wrong with knee high suspenders
/r/seduction15/10/19 07:39 AM
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