Umbrifer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club?		Umbrifer	/r/seduction	21/07/16 03:03 PM
3	I think I was picked up. Not sure how to proceed		Umbrifer	/r/seduction	16/02/16 07:25 PM

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1	If You Don't Feel Like Going to the Gym Today then Just Think of John. When I tore my Achilles tendon and was stuck in crutches and a walking boot two years ago my legs suffered for sure, but by using a decline bench creatively I was able to handle every other lift I usually do accept for deadlifts. John is right for persevering. OP is right for learning about the nature of excuses.	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/17 12:09 PM
2	To all of the posters who believe they are held back by some unchangeable physical condition Almost everyone checked the link but no one read the post and that's where the lesson is. This ugly skinny 16yr old twig boy earned the respect of people who came to the thread specifically to disrespect him. By not taking shit seriously, having a good time, being articulate, and by generally setting out to amuse himself rather than other people.	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/17 04:48 PM
2	Have you ever lacked the courage to approach a girl because you thought you were not enough for her? All the fucking time. My only recourse is the knowledge that lesser men than me are getting more pussy than me only because they have a half a second of blind courage and knowledge of self. Still not where I want in my development but at least I'm approaching and escalating more than I was this time last year.	/r/seduction	04/05/17 06:11 PM
17	Success with Women Cliff Notes For Quick Reference Do not Defend, Explain, Excuse (apologize for) or Rationalize any of your actions to her. Whatever you did, you did because you felt like it was the best action at the time.	/r/TheRedPill	24/04/17 02:44 PM
1	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? Try it out and let me know	/r/seduction	19/04/17 06:57 PM
1	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? No. A good framework to have is when you see a girl who looks interesting you start a conversation with her and don't be afraid to make eye or physical contact. If you guys click then you escalate and pull back accordingly until you get what you want or you get rejected.	/r/seduction	19/04/17 06:02 PM
1	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? What part of , "There are no short cuts, or foolproof formulas you just have to go out there, try, fail and try again until you find something women respond to" was unclear to you?	/r/seduction	19/04/17 05:01 PM
1	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? He's exaggerating it so you can see it but that's all you have to do. hold eye contact and use the tone of your voice to convey sexuality.	/r/seduction	19/04/17 02:07 PM
1	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? I'm 28 Edit: Point Taken	/r/seduction	19/04/17 02:04 PM
2	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuvL7Dk8x8s - Here's your homework	/r/seduction	18/04/17 09:33 PM
10	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? It's not a quality you have or don't have. It's a skill that you're either good at or need practice. Do the research, try it out, fail, calibrate, and try again. Repeat until you find something that women respond too. There are no shortcuts or foolproof methods. Just some insights, guidelines and courage.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 09:19 PM
2	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? I mean talking as if you were Luther Vandross or Shaggy. The subject isn't as important as the vibe you're portraying.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 08:30 PM
9	Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone? Because unless you're a rich celebrity, if you want sex you either have to talk to woman sexually or visit prostitutes.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 08:12 PM
1	Im 23 and a 17 year old wants to be fwb with me, what do I do? If you're safe legally than go for it	/r/seduction	18/04/17 06:48 PM
1	How can I eradicate jealousy from my life? I think it's about equal. Besides, Our social structure and sexual dimorphism is more similar to chimpanzees what with males being the primary food providers and larger sexual dimorphism between males and females. I think it is not only applicable but active within human mating strategies.	/r/seduction	28/03/17 07:11 PM
1	How can I eradicate jealousy from my life? There are a lot of answers here , but what's been helping me is a study done on chimpanzees that showed that lower status males in the group spent more time guarding their mate from the advances of other males than higher status males, who spent more time trying to bang other females than guarding the one they chose. Translated to human terms, the lower testosterone -low confidence males will get more jealous than a higher status one because he's more likely to have reproductive success by guard…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 06:05 PM
1	High N-count is acceptable for men but not for women Your model doesn't take into account that some men will not pair at all and that different women will pair with one man.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/17 05:02 PM
10	How to not fall into friend one when in the early stages of becoming friends with a girl Physical Escalation and Sexual conversation.	/r/seduction	17/03/17 02:19 PM
1	Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular? Positively	/r/seduction	17/03/17 01:59 PM
1	Been talking to this girl, and things got weird? You went backwards my friend. From kiss on the cheek to hug. Do what you think is best but it will never hurt your game to talk to other women. Helps you be less needy and worry less about antics such as this (speaking from experience, not calling you needy).	/r/seduction	16/03/17 09:49 PM
1	Been talking to this girl, and things got weird? Define well. Was there physical escalation on your part? IOIs from her? Did you guys have sexual conversation or were you just sharing intimate details. Either way from her message I think you should focus on other women	/r/seduction	16/03/17 09:42 PM
1	Would a guy become hot if he went from super skinny to more lean and muscular? He'd become hotter than he was before.	/r/seduction	16/03/17 05:18 PM
3	Been talking to this girl, and things got weird? She's playing games with you for attention and boredom alleviation. If you haven't met in person within the first week or two of talking on line then you should give up any serious intentions. Based on your conversation you should definitely give up any serious intention. best case scenario you waste time with her on snapchat that you could be spending talking to other girls. Worst case scenario is you meet up, do the deed, then she says she was raped. Next that girl, you don't need the crazy.	/r/seduction	16/03/17 03:41 PM
2	I'm reevaluating my approach to women and I think I'm too high strung, meaning I try to be too high energy. Any tips to make myself more "low key" and calm? Speak Slower, with Downward inflection. Breathe deeply and evenly. Concentrate on the tone of your voice and where in your abdomen you feel the reverberation (it should be in your chest not in your throat)	/r/seduction	15/03/17 03:48 PM
1	Is the goal of having sex with a girl you approach and getting her number a healthy mindset? Repeat and intensify. There are no shortcuts. Do the research and experiment with various women until you get a feel for what to do in different situations. That's all I can tell you man. You have to figure the rest out yourself.	/r/seduction	13/03/17 09:58 PM
1	Is the goal of having sex with a girl you approach and getting her number a healthy mindset? If you're interested in a woman sexually then you should be escalating from the beginning of the interaction. First thing I do is shake her hand and hold it for a little bit while maintaining Eye contact, then continue from there if she seems receptive. Read some material on Escalation ladders and the difference between friendly touching and sexual touching.	/r/seduction	13/03/17 09:27 PM
1	Is the goal of having sex with a girl you approach and getting her number a healthy mindset? No, Your goal should just be escalating. If it leads to sex , bonus. But at this point you should make your objective escalating further than you did last time. Making sex your objective right off the bat puts you in a mindset where you can lose. If your only goal is beating your past performance than your "victory" is based on yourself and is a better mindset to have because your emotions wont be based on anything she does, or does not do	/r/seduction	13/03/17 09:19 PM
1	The Gold Coin of the Male Sexual Marketplace You're missing the point. If your body language is based on external factors in life like position and wealth then that it is external confidence not internal confidence.. And plenty of ugly guys get to positions of relative power. Don't fall victim to the male hamster. You should be bossing people around, maintaining eye contact, holding your head up straight and speaking with descending inflection no matter what. You have to be convinced of your own superiority and capability regardless of who…	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 06:40 PM
4	The Gold Coin of the Male Sexual Marketplace If you're ugly as fuck but bossing everyone around in an environment and walking like you own the place you will be evaluated and shit tested in the same way as the hot dude who can't sustain eye contact or speak with descending inflection. The one who passes the most shit tests will likely get the girl.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/17 04:11 PM
39	The Gold Coin of the Male Sexual Marketplace Innate confidence is the knowledge that if you took everything outside of your body away from you you'd still be the same man and still be able to build yourself up to a position of respect. As much as I hate Rudyard Kipling his Poems are pretty Red Pill. The Poem "If" is particularly relevant to us: If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and…	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 05:51 PM
1	March 03 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread The Pros: Becoming more assertive at work. Managers are taking notice and I'm getting more respect and less bullshit. Started a new side hustle tutoring french. Meditating every day, Smoking less weed and drinking less alchohol Got over the fear of backflips to the point where I can do one without a trampoline of springboard, Now I just need to refine the technique. Only watched 1.5 hrs of television this week. Cons: Haven't approached anyone this week. Went slightly over budget Took a break fro…	/r/TheRedPill	03/03/17 10:07 PM
3	February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Thanks for this insight. I also want to start a web series and this will help.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 06:00 PM
3	February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread Positives: Flirted with the post-wall biddies at work (practise) and got free ganja edibles and entertainment out of it. Pushed past a huge mental fear and finally landed a correct a back flip onto a cushion mat in the capoeira gym. My style is also improving Organized a pub crawl this weekend with my homie, a natural chad for the purpose of analyzing and fixing my approaches. as well as getting another friend back in the game following a breakup. Hit the weights 4/7 days, Starting to develop a …	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 05:52 PM
5	Use prostitutes to create abundance mentality. You should re-evaluate the benefits that religion is bringing to your life...	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 04:47 PM
6	Use prostitutes to create abundance mentality. This is the red pill. Were you looking for a happy story?	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 02:42 PM
2	Use prostitutes to create abundance mentality. I think you're right, However your attachment to your religion has created cognitive dissonance within your mind that's causing you emotional turmoil.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 02:38 PM
2	Use prostitutes to create abundance mentality. You are quite correct. I started in the former state, saw myself drifting to the latter, then woke the fuck up and headed directly for the gym.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 02:33 PM
2	Use prostitutes to create abundance mentality. Not as rich as you seem to be, but I can afford to see a pro every paycheck and be fine. That being said, I don't, specifically for the reasons that you have just mentioned, However since I'm in the middle of a self-imposed dry spell, I think I'll be seeing one this soon.	/r/TheRedPill	24/02/17 02:30 PM
1	How to Make a Beta Slave Thanks, But I think you should post these views on their own as a word on frame and frame control. They are too esoteric for this thread	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/17 02:41 PM
1	Leaving This Sub- Give me Some Final Words of Advice Study Hard, Lift often. Talk to girls regardless of how scared you are.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/17 07:36 PM
1	Do you meditate? If so, how has it impacted your game? According to West Kai the Kaio-Ken puts a toll on your body always. If you overdo it it can kill you by pumping more energy through your body than it can withstand. Kaio-ken is a less refined version of the same Super Sayan transformation imo But I digress from the cartoons Analysis paralysis is one because it's very easy to go from meditation to thought and not know it. While you're taking in the scene, focusing your mind and breathing and gauging things it's possible, at points, to slip back i…	/r/seduction	16/02/17 05:13 PM
1	Do you meditate? If so, how has it impacted your game? Mixed results. I've used it to maintain frame and composure in impossible situations or solo nights and helps me evaluate my performance objectively allowing me to make quick intuitive jumps in ability or asses situations and body language very quickly, as well it helps avoid oneitis (Disclaimer, it can really backfire if you're not careful). However only in conjunction with consistent practice and trying new things. Without it you degenerate into analysis paralysis and circulate forever and eve…	/r/seduction	15/02/17 04:06 PM
5	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. You'd think it was like that but no. We could be talking about the same rap video or smoking weed or commiserating after getting shot down by the same chick and guys would shoot out that I talk too white. I was smarter than most of my peers, the black and white ones, and they all new it too but I never talked down to anyone and stood my ground when pushed. I do think that I'm better than little hood niggas who don't care about educating themselves but as you said. To each his own. I'm not accusi…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/17 03:16 PM
12	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. You're a dumbass. I was legally carrying a holstered knife visible on my belt ( that's the law in Ontario) when I was stopped by police and carded, frisked, and charged with Weapons Dangerous. Which means that I made someone fear for their life or property with my actions. And if you want me to die then do it yourself with a blade like a man.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 10:46 PM
10	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. I don't agree with you there. American black women perhaps but I'm sorry, the culture and mentality of that entire country is just...Toxic. I don't find them overly masculine for the most part and you don't have to worry about them being shrilly or naggy unless you aren't up on your own shit and have iron hard frame. Caribbean Woman , Canadian Caribbean, or African women are where my aims lie. If you're a little bitch you'll get treated like one but if your a real man then you'll get treated lik…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 10:43 PM
9	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. Swing and a miss. He's actually the reason I don't have a criminal record as when i was racially profiled by cops he helped me research my defense and allowed me to make a deal with the crown attorney and have the court drop the charges. He's a Social Worker, used to be chad in his young years but hes gone to seed and is a bit Beta. Still one of the best fathers I could have. Taught me how to read at 2 and never stopped trying to help me.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 10:36 PM
1	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. How did you come to that conclusion? Aside from the genetic conditions that are environmentally based (I.E. sickle cell anaemia) I don't see what your saying being reflected in biology. Are you inferring that interracial progeny have a reduced likelihood of contracting a recessive genetic disease due to wider genetic drift between the parents? If so, than I believe my point still stands because as I said earlier, Being of a different race doesn't guarantee a dissimilar genetic immunological prof…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 09:05 PM
46	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. They usually called me confused. It struck a nerve because I've always spoken with proper diction and grammar and always had my blackness questioned because of it. I'd say it's made me more terse with black chicks but this is the red pill. I treat all girls the same now.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 07:40 PM
51	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. Can confirm, Am black and dated white girls all through High-School (You have no idea how hard it is to find a black person in Switzerland 15 years ago). Their parents loved me as I was Bilingual, Athletic came from a good family Got back to Canada and, every single sistah girl gave me shit for it.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 07:35 PM
22	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. Thanks for that resumé. Saved me a bit of time.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 07:26 PM
1	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. There is more genetic variability within a given race than there is between different races. You are correct,however within the evolutionary time frameof our species travel was something usually rare and usually done by male soldiers. People rarely had access to other races. The scent study you mentioned a good example of a woman's (or properly endowed male's) ability to detect a genetic profile that is similar to her own, however being of a different race does not necessarily guarantee that the…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 07:12 PM
40	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. What? You chose to follow the hip hop culture. Don't make excuses. I'm black, Jamaican, and have picked up woman at the fucking symphony orchestra. You don't like ghetto culture, then fucking change it, starting with yourself, if you can't do that because you fear not getting pussy then you're a weakling.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 07:05 PM
18	Why white men hate when their daughters date black guys. Me and my black dad playing dominoes together would refute that.	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/17 07:01 PM
1	I'm in a position in a relationship that is absolutely crushing me.. would really appreciate some relationship help Hey Man. I'm glad that I could help you in a small way, and pretty honored that you'd follow up with me out of all the other guys that replied to your post the first time.I think that you already know what you want. You seem to need space but are still pretty torn up inside. An S.O. at this stage is a very attractive thing. You'll have someone to lean on. But from the situation thus far I don't think that this woman wants to be the type of S.O. that will help you through the situation properly. …	/r/seduction	13/02/17 06:10 PM
3	What's it like hitting on women as a man? It's nerve - wracking until you get numb to the rejections and it gets either exciting or boring depending on the interaction.	/r/seduction	06/02/17 03:42 PM
2	Anyone tell me why women are typically alot less nervous in the attraction phase between a girl and a guy? Are they really just better at controlling their emotions than men or is there something more involved? Dude, naw.	/r/seduction	26/01/17 03:01 PM
1	OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to Women Do you get sexual with your first message?	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/17 05:54 PM
2	OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to Women Just got back into my lifting routine after a torn Achilles tendon and I'm feeling great so far. My heart's been broken already but I'm not mad anymore. After all she gave me the greatest gift of all and sent me here. I'll send out some quips on OKC today and see what happens.	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/17 05:49 PM
2	OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to Women Could you explain more about this? specifically lists? I consider myself a 7.5 - 8.5 when clean - shaven. I read profiles and send short, offhand non-sexual but personalized messages while I'm on the shitter or the train or something. Responses are rare. I occasionally get messaged by women however they are always uglier than I will accept and I ignore them. I know I need better pics and will probably update them next week because a photographer buddy of mine owes me a favor. But if the message …	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/17 03:41 PM
2	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. 86 bucks for 45 lb plates seems a rip off. Its just cast iron. Used plates on kijiji were more cost effective. I don't use a rack I just adjust the weights on the two dumbells I have and work on the used incline bench I got for 50 bucks and given enough time I can thoroughly work out all the major muscle groups. I agree that the variety of the gym machines are good and encourage periodic trips to the gym to try out new methods, etc. However getting buds, flirting with girls and other shit is not…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/17 05:16 AM
2	On Curing Oneitis Now that you realize that your comments don't mesh with red pill ideals. Wherein a man's emotional control of himself and his comfort with his own self-reliance and amusement are paramount, versus the mental discord and target/outcome dependence that your post displays. What do you think you should do to regain your centre?	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/17 02:36 AM
2	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. It's nothing special. Just a a pair of bowflex adjustable dumbells, a small folding inclined bench (about 1.5 m length, maybe 60 cm width) that I lean against the wall when not in use, and one of those iron gym pullup bars that hangs from my doorway. When I wake up I shadowbox with tiny weights in my fists or on my ankles. After that cardio I just fold out the bench, hang the bars on my doorjamb and spin the dial to the weight I'm lifting at. I work upper body, lower body, or core muscles sunday…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/17 12:44 AM
12	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. Processed or refined sugars like cooking or baking sugar. Candy, White bread, high fructose corn syrup, the like	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 08:38 PM
4	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. I can't agree with you more. Lifting coupled with a martial arts discipline and meditation are essentials for any man in my book. I usually lift in the mornings. Head to work, and then head to class 3 times a week in the evening.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 08:33 PM
5	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. Lifting is a separate component of your fitness training. We all know the adage that a small trained guy will beat a big untrained guy but a big trained guy will beat a small trained guy. Martial arts is your training. Lifting and diet makes you bigger. The two together make you whole.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 08:31 PM
3	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. Honestly, just invest in some adjustable dumbbells. You can work pretty much your entire body with dumb bells, an incline/decline bench and a pull up bar. Money was my issue so I invested around $500 a few years back and I haven't regretted a penny.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 08:12 PM
2	The only oneitis in your life should be lifting. Damn, As a fellow boarder that is one of my worst fears. Can you focus on legs or arms in the meantime?	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 08:07 PM
3	On Curing Oneitis Oxytocin is the bonding hormone that underpins almost all mammalian social interaction that goes beyond the acquaintance level. The bond between you and your siblings, you and your parents, you and your friends, you and your children, you and your girl, even you and your dog are all underpinned by Oxytocin. Oxytocin receptors are formed within the first few years of a child's life and are dependent primarily on the environment of the womb and the environment of the growing infant. Any child with…	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 07:42 PM
2	On Curing Oneitis Take a look at what you just posted. Think about how those sentiments mesh with the ideals of the Red Pill, And answer yourself.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 07:26 PM
4	On Curing Oneitis She's probably out getting fucked man. Deal with it.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 07:23 PM
3	On Curing Oneitis You've misunderstood OP. The mere state of intense infatuation is detrimental to a male. Especially if the woman has no red flags because this state causes us to become less powerful in that we lose the independent self confidence that we had before we were infatuated. Moreover our sight becomes myopic and we lose perspective regarding what is and is not acceptable behavior in a partner. Screening Girls who are not compatible is a core principle of this forum. Not becoming overly attached to one…	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/17 07:21 PM
3	What's so wrong about it? I really don't understand. PS : she is in her 50s If you were trying to seduce a woman your age would you caller her by her last name throughout the interaction or ask for her first name? As well "Ma'am"? Unless you're at some old school religious southern cotillion or something leave that word in the past. It looks like you're purposely making a big deal about your age difference. Just talk to her like she's a normal girl not like she's your teacher	/r/seduction	24/01/17 02:57 PM
2	Too soon to ask her out on a date? Ask her out. You aren't the only guy texting her and someone else will have the courage if you don't. All you need to know is that she likes you and that you like her. You can find out the rest in person.	/r/seduction	10/01/17 08:31 PM
2	I'm in a position in a relationship that is absolutely crushing me.. would really appreciate some relationship help I'm so sorry for your loss OP. Take this time to sort yourself and your personal future out. In your situation, making decisions about Children and a long-term relationship with a woman you have been seeing for less than a year is a non-starter. Keep your relationship where it is until you know in your heart of hearts that you are on a stable emotional footing and when you do decide to commit to this woman you will do so from a calmer, and more rational place. If your mother was still alive this…	/r/seduction	10/01/17 02:29 PM
1	Should you tell girls you connected well with that you picked someone else? Friendzone them and continue with your life. Having other girls as friends will make you hotter to your current girlfriend and she will be less likely to take you for granted and you will be less likely to put her on a pedestal. As well, relationships can always end and having a social circle filled with girls who like you helps ease the pain of breakups.	/r/seduction	06/01/17 09:37 PM
2	Is it a good idea to go to clubs alone as a local dude? I think he's trying to say yes it's a good idea if you can do more than hang out by the wall and eat food. I agree with him. If the staff know you at the club and have a positive image of you then that's a good thing. You can always tell people that you planned to head out with friends but they cancelled and you didn't feel like ruining your night, it usually works well when your talking to girls and they ask why you're alone, or you could use that in your opener "My friends cancelled so I'm mak…	/r/seduction	05/01/17 10:22 PM
1	You ask a girl out, she said she's busy but will text you when she's free to see when you're available... but she doesn't. How do you proceed? "Wow, you missed out a lot by not going out with me,lol" sounds contrived and needy to me. Not even mentioning the date would keep the pressure off the girl and casually dropping some fun activity that he did during the break would do what you suggest and pique/gauge her interest without sounding whiney.	/r/seduction	05/01/17 09:30 PM
1	You ask a girl out, she said she's busy but will text you when she's free to see when you're available... but she doesn't. How do you proceed? She didn't forget, If it was an emphatic yes then she would have already suggested something to you. Interact with her normally, flirt, banter, etc. But don't extend the invitation again. Wait for her to bring it up. Ideally you should flirt with other girls in front of her so it doesn't look like she's the only girl you're talking too, and she will be way more likely to bring it up (she shouldn't be the only girl you're talking too regardless), In general though, just take the L and go on with …	/r/seduction	05/01/17 09:26 PM
3	Don't ask regular people for dating advice. Here we have relationshits convincing some poor SOB to marry an ex prostitute.....can't make this stuff up Yeah in Montreal that could get you two hours with a cute prostitute.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/17 09:03 PM
1	BREAKING NEWS: Watch "trickle truth" happening in real time on the Tinder subreddit! Absolutely not. Better to have extra dick then not enough.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/17 06:17 PM
5	How to approach a group? You need to be really playful and confident with that or it will end up badly.	/r/seduction	29/12/16 09:24 PM
40	How to approach a group? You need to be playful and high energy. I've opened sets by saying "You guys look like fun, what's poppin' in this corner?" "Hey guys, first time here?" Or even "My boys aren't here yet so I'mma kill time with you guys, I hope you won't bore me" Regardless of your target you need to engage the whole group in conversation. Ask questions like "How do you all know each other?" "Is it a girls night out?" It doesn't matter. Opinion openers are good for this. Situational ones too. I've opened a two se…	/r/seduction	29/12/16 09:22 PM
3	Feminine society hates chemistry I'm not arguing with you pal. We are Animals who came up with blades, fire, and mathematics. And that fantastic brain of ours is the best one on the planet. Your question was what makes me better than a baboon. I repeat, fire, blades, and mathematics. In other words manipulation of energy, technology, and higher thought processes. We are the apes who have those things through natural selection and trans-generational record keeping. No God necessary in this equation.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/16 04:38 PM
6	Feminine society hates chemistry Fire, Blades, and mathematics	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/16 02:30 PM
19	I may not ever be able to recover my manhood You fucked up, you know you fucked up. End of story. This is literally the end of the story. All that's left for you to do is analyse what actions led you to this point so that you can act better in the future. If you want to define yourself by this experience than your life will become an unending search for "redemption". don't do it. You lost, Accept it. It hurts, it's supposed to hurt, so that you are reminded not to do it again. This is called learning. Class is in session. So put on your bi…	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/16 05:24 PM
25	Kanye shows weakness and loses frame. Kim wants divorce Seems that he didn't want to get one but according to what's posted online, She gets 1mil for each year of marriage. They got married in 2014. She's getting at least 3 mil and ownership of the house and any gifts given. No custody agreement was made but we know how the courts will likely side.	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 09:47 PM
55	Kanye shows weakness and loses frame. Kim wants divorce You are absolutely incorrect. Women have sought out musicians and singers as objects of desire for centuries. More so now than ever. Probably because performing live displays an amount of confidence and frame control that many men will never achieve, and if they are good at music then that person has the ability to influence the mood and atmosphere of wherever they are to an unparalleled degree. And women are all about the feelz as we know for sure.	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 09:42 PM
74	Kanye shows weakness and loses frame. Kim wants divorce Makes sense. She was robbed while Kanye could do nothing. Time passes and while Kanye can replace the jewels ,the damage is done.. The entire time Kim is likely shit testing him constantly because she's trying to have him prove his genetic fitness. He tries and fails to reclaim his masculinity in her eyes because he doesn't know about the red pill. He listens to social media and shares his feelings to the world hoping for sympathy from her instead of mastering them in private with a trusted asso…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 07:05 PM
2	[FR] First Same-Night Tinder Lay Concise and informative report. Thank you, and keep it up.	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/16 06:13 PM
1	Studying seduction fucked my up my life. How do I fix this? Relax and have fun with it man. You've made your success the only thing that matters when you used to enjoy the experience. Forget about "winning". Just play the game.	/r/seduction	02/12/16 03:48 PM
4	What 12 Months of TRP Can Do Every non black person thinks that.	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/16 07:43 PM
5	Rape - "She liked the attention" Touching the neck is a very common self soothing behaviour in humans. we do it unconsciously when we're stressed and are trying to calm ourselves. The suprasternal notch is the small dimple at the bottom of our necks and women more often than men will cover this area when feeling vulnerable. It's a sign of distress. The point of this story is that normally rape victims will show the typical signs of distress (touching the neck) when recounting such a painful memory. the fact that this women did …	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/16 05:00 PM
3	Have you ever been so much of a beta that you felt ashamed for not liking fat chicks, and posted a long confession on Reddit begging for feminists to forgive you? Nice manouver. Good Luck man	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/16 08:43 PM
3	Have you ever been so much of a beta that you felt ashamed for not liking fat chicks, and posted a long confession on Reddit begging for feminists to forgive you? There is no way to say it without her getting angry at you no. Maybe have her catch you looking at skinny girl porn?	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/16 07:36 PM
-2	Got the confidence, good enough looks but can't form a sentence Improv classes: get used to speaking without a plan. Writing prose: whether it be keeping a journal or writing random stories, embed the mental habit of forming coherent sentences into your psyche. Also, is it really confidence if it's fueled by drugs?	/r/seduction	26/10/16 05:52 PM
2	HOW DO YOU HANDLE GUYS SHE ALREADY KNOWS INTERRUPTING YOU? Put your hand on the dude shoulder non-threateningly but firmly and say with a deep and confident voice. " I don't think we've been introduced, My name is RoyTagliaferro, and you are?"	/r/seduction	21/10/16 05:33 PM
1	Whats the best place to meet girls? Bars, lounges, hookah spots, museums and art galleries have all been ok for me.	/r/seduction	21/10/16 05:28 PM
1	So many girls post that they want an "adventure." What are some good ideas /plans to take them on an adventure? Dude, don't over think it. You don't have to pull out all the stops and take her on a quest. Just have an excursion with a progression of steps and venues with varying vibes. For example,:meet at a bar, hit a club, then have a late night ice cream or shisha. Boom, you've had an adventure. What these girls mean is that they want to experience a variety of things in what seems like a breif space of time. If you have a date that starts at one place , continues in another, and ends in yet another, t…	/r/seduction	21/10/16 05:10 PM
3	What do you say if the girl you approached turns out to be too young? I say, "you're too young for me, have a nice day". It sound like you're manufacturing an excuse not to approach.	/r/seduction	21/10/16 04:53 PM
1	She very rarely takes initiative Put it this way, If she leads more the 15-20% of the time. She's gonna leave, Women are a storm, Men are the calm before and within it. If you're leading and it's boring, then that's a problem with your leadership and you not taking the opportunity she's giving you to create more variety in your life. Sure, let her plan a day out once in a while, but it should be her doing it as a reward for your leadership, Not as a matter of course.	/r/seduction	21/10/16 03:40 PM
1	Pickup culture seems to foster abandonment fears and insecure attachment in guys I disagree completely. Insecure attachment and fears of abandonment are something that usually develops in a child's first few years of life between it and its parents. The objective of pickup is to inure an individual to abandonment fears through immersion therapy and cognitive behavioral modification. Moreover, the fact that there is a Pickup culture itself would challenge your idea because once a man enters this community he has opportunities to create for himself a social circle which can bo…	/r/seduction	21/10/16 03:27 PM
4	She very rarely takes initiative This. She's letting you be the man and lead. So be the man and lead.	/r/seduction	20/10/16 02:35 PM
1	How to approach women on the dancefloor? I asked a similar question a while ago and got many good answers. Hopefully you'll find something useful. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4txehz/how_do_i_capitalize_on_my_dancing_skills_when_in/	/r/seduction	30/09/16 03:55 PM
4	Girl still fucks her ex after breakup, even though he has a new one. Kegels and concentration are your friend man. Mantak Chia's the multi-orgasmic male and his old school lectures on youtube have helped me alot.	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/16 04:52 PM
1	How to handle situations where girl is a 'know-it-all' but wrong about a lot of things? If she was't holding the pussy, would you still keep quiet? Do you think it would reflect better on you if she found later that she was wrong and you just let her continue believing it? Don't ever be afraid to correct a woman. Especially if you're afraid that you will lose the opportunity for sex. This is an example of dishonesty, putting a woman on a pedestal, and generally doing yourself an injustice.	/r/seduction	08/09/16 03:19 PM
82	Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)? Are you kidding me man? GET OVER THAT WOMAN AND TALK TO MANY OTHERS!!	/r/seduction	26/08/16 05:40 PM
4	Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)? Yes. The man in that case was the alpha male of the group at that point in time. Women sleep with alpha males, or rather, males that consistently display social dominance. More than they sleep with men who are consistently submissive. If you are afraid to hurt her feelings, You are being submissive (she's not afraid to hurt yours, I promise you) If you are filtering your actions and responses because you don't want to lose her, you are being submissive (she's perfectly fine watching you go) If y…	/r/seduction	26/08/16 05:36 PM
2	Girlfriend said this after we had an amazing night together. How should i have reacted? Yeah, They all do. You have to be able to handle it. hell bring up your own fantasies. could have made it funny like saying "Aight then, next time we'll invite him and Jessica Alba and make it a real party" or some other shit to show that it doesn't get to you. and that you as well. have options. And if it does bother you, hide that shit. You're a male. You can do it P.S. Making dinner and breakfast won't keep a woman loyal.	/r/seduction	04/08/16 07:06 PM
1	How to deal with rejection from a girl you put in effort to... There are no magic bullets. I wish there were, but there aren't. You need to deal with your anger and frustration constructively. It's that simple. If all you have to dwell on is your lack of progress with Pickup then these women are right to reject you. Do you have a goal in life? If so, tally your results, analyse your performance, and use the negative feelings to spur you on in the gym, or studies, or whatever, sure in the knowledge that your mastery of your craft and persistence will get res…	/r/seduction	04/08/16 02:14 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? Dude, Yes! I've also done the hat thing and gotten good results but my dreads are too long for that now.	/r/seduction	22/07/16 04:09 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? Very in depth response. I agree with everything you've said but I still think your getting me wrong. For example, In the Karo tribal dance there is an implicit competition between the two or three men in the circle The game is to jump high with control and to the beat, why? Indicators of evolutionary fitness of course. You think I mean competition in fighting. I mean like having dance battles. Which these Karo men are in their own way doing.	/r/seduction	22/07/16 01:39 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? I'll keep my eyes open tonight. And looking back I can see many times where girls have shown up in my proximity in the smoking area or by the bar. I don't think I've ever tried to kiss a girl I was dancing with unless we got there together...Gonna try tonight! Thanks man	/r/seduction	22/07/16 12:39 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? Thank you man. I'll be trying this tonight	/r/seduction	22/07/16 12:36 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? Yes, someone else knows the struggle. I do Capoeira btw. I always switch up my style when dancing with a girl, slow it down. Use less space, more hips. I whine like a son of a gun and that's what I like to go when dancing with girls, I guess they just think I'll explode into the other style at any moment so they don't move closer and very rarely will I pull them closer.	/r/seduction	21/07/16 07:46 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? I out dance pretty much every girl who isin't a professional dancer. For example. I'm at the club last week with my friend and we're bustin a move in our lil area. A few other dudes who are on our level join us and we have a lil circle/oval goin on. I notice the looks were catching and single out one who I think was looking at me. Usually I'll slide over (if she's 2-3 steps away) with a smile on my face, give an gentle hip bump and use gestures to ask her to dance. But I feel like I've intimidat…	/r/seduction	21/07/16 06:58 PM
1	How do I capitalize on my dancing skills when in the club? I think you misunderstood me. I already have (some) confidence in my dancing skills and enjoy it for it's own sake. I always play ego games but not violently, I just refuse to move out of the space I'm occupying unless asked nicely and put so much energy into my moves that the guy realizes that I'm a martial artist / too big of a threat to flex on. I agree that dancing is a way to show positive evolutionary traits, but taking space for yourself in a crowded area is part of that. people have danc…	/r/seduction	21/07/16 06:51 PM
0	My Definite Guide to Inner Game No prob man. Just try not to over think it and approach the whole thing as a game. Not a sports game where the outcome matters, but a game of tag that you played on the playground as a kid where you had fun just running around being you. No words are going to help if you're nervous and afraid.	/r/seduction	19/07/16 09:34 PM
7	My Definite Guide to Inner Game Walk up to her and say "Hello My name is Feitkat, I noticed you noticing me and figured we should have a conversation"... then have an actual conversation man, about her outfit, your outfit, the weather, crazy republicans, crazy democrats, whatever. And then (and this is crucial) have fun with it! Then ask for her number	/r/seduction	19/07/16 06:58 PM
1	Explaining the dark truths behind why some older guys chase younger women and the "playboy" lifestyle. You...pretty much described it. You trickle down knowledge. I take what I can glean. If I don't learn enough to protect myself from (serious) exploitation and then strike out on my own, or best you, I never really deserved the knowledge in the first place. That's how the not so good guys in Star Wars work	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/16 03:01 PM
1	Explaining the dark truths behind why some older guys chase younger women and the "playboy" lifestyle. Yeah, That occurred to me. Either you aren't as Machiavellian as you say you are, or we have a more Sith like apprenticeship...minus the duel to the death	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/16 02:02 PM
1	Explaining the dark truths behind why some older guys chase younger women and the "playboy" lifestyle. Fuck man can you be my mentor?	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/16 07:38 PM
2	Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But Him I'm not saying you're wrong. That's just a surface level answer and basically the easy way out of understanding what's up in a woman's mind	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 08:45 PM
1	Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But Him There's only one reason. She thinks she can do better.The rest are the reasons shes telling you and herself. If they think they can get away with it/ can live with the separation/ think they'll be forgiven they'll do it if they think you're an inferior male. All of which are signs that your alpha frame is slipping. In your poolboy example it's always the alpha who is less physical that gets cucked for the poolboy. Sure he's a high powered CEO with money in the bank, but can he run a mile in the …	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 07:35 PM
3	Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But Him You don't have to convince me man, We're taking the same pills. But if you're going to move out of the anger phase then realize that it's not about promiscuity. Its about always getting the best possible genes. Women will constantly be selecting for better genes. our moms, grandmoms, sisters, cousins, daughters, whatever. If you don't consistently represent the best possible genes that that women can obtain for her offspring, your gonna get cucked. If you do, then you won't be. Simple as that.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 07:11 PM
5	Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But Him That's exactly what I'm saying man If a woman thinks that she can do better than you her instincts will tell her to swing. If she thinks you are the best she'll ever get, she'll move mountains to be with you.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 07:05 PM
10	Another Poor Bastard Finds Out His Wife Was a Whore For Everyone But Him You say that like a virgin wont branch swing if you aren't up on your game	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 06:49 PM
1	Am i right to follow the rule of 3? Following your own rules is the definition of integrity.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 09:08 PM
1	The System is Lying Again This is why I appreciate my usual hookah lounge	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 03:04 PM
2	Old Alpha player spread some redpill truths in a game forum to a frustrated Beta Depends on how you do it. Last weekend I was walking to a house party with 2 girls. one of them HB5 the other HB7. Some guy was walking towards us and I stepped out in front of them. The HB7 sees this and asked "Was that a protective thing?", I say "Yes" without looking back or breaking stride. When we got to the party I pulled out a chair for her and she said "or I could just sit on your lap"And that's where she was pretty much the entire night until we went to bed. Bought us weed too.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/16 01:14 PM
3	3 Ways to Pick Up Women (and Approach People) Pt 1 of 2 This is really less valuable than reading pretty much any material on opening from Mystery, Prad P, IN10SE, Savoy, Anything really	/r/seduction	06/06/16 07:50 PM
1	The last surviving limiting belief For Kegels, it's a subtle game. Trying to hold your kegels for the whole thing will probably shorten your fuse. What I do when solo or with a partner is hold the kegel only when you're about to have an orgasm. Also changing positions or tempo, and don't forget to tense the other muscles. Clench the buttocks, jaw, temples, occipital bone, roll your eyes upward and let the feeling pass over your entire body while maintaining a bit of control. Then have fun with it. Change positions and release the…	/r/seduction	06/06/16 06:33 PM
1	''All women are hypergamous'' is male hamstering for not owning up to the mistakes they made in the relationship that caused their women to go to someone else. That's not what he's saying. He's saying be aware of what your woman wants vs what she needs. She wants you to be some Hercules mutherfucker with all the money in the world. She needs social ,emotional and sexual stimulation. As an alpha it's up to you to regulate satisfying her needs not pandering to her wants. There is a difference.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/16 04:32 PM
2	''All women are hypergamous'' is male hamstering for not owning up to the mistakes they made in the relationship that caused their women to go to someone else. I agree. A woman won't leave if she thinks that you are the best she will get. Solution? Be your best self	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/16 04:27 PM
1	Girls with lots of guy friends I hate to play devils advocate but there is also the chance that she is already sleeping with one of them and simply not telling you.	/r/seduction	13/05/16 02:07 AM
2	Girls with lots of guy friends Be prepared for most of your correspondence with this girl to be seen by them. She will ask them whenever she doesn't get you and assuming that this group of guy griends is filled with orbiters (which they usually are) expect at least some of them to try and sabotage your game, unless you understand how to handle that shit. Also, you girl knows she can pick up plenty of guys. Be prepared for shit tests in that vein. Jealousy games , etc.	/r/seduction	12/05/16 03:21 PM
2	I lost my marriage, my career, and my kid Hey man. I read your story on TIFU and immediately thought that this man needs TRP. Hearing that this is 9 years ago and that you've managed to find happiness on that front and rebuild yourself is very encouraging. Do you have any advice for a young red-piller who wants to get married (for the first decade of the childs' life, after that re-evaluate) and implementing TRP in marriage? Again very glad to year that you recovered from the mistakes of your youth.	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/16 01:52 PM
1	Is dating even possible without having friends? I feel you. I was doing Capoeira for a year before I even met up with anyone outside the class for a beer. It's more about being organic in conversation. Make the small talk, use it as practice. The thing about university (any kind of school environment really) is that making friends is pretty easy if you talk to enough people. I've made passing connections in university that I reconnected with years later and are now some treasured friends. My only advice is don't really worry about making frie…	/r/seduction	12/05/16 01:44 PM
1	Do Not Open Up to Women About Your Struggle May we all find it. At the time I had no friends to turn to. so I threw myself into martial arts. Making. It worked but reconnecting with just 3 of my old friends who'd I'd almost cut complete contact with for year (in the midst of my depression) got me into a much better place in 6 months than staying for 18 months following the advice of that woman. The funny thing was that in the middle of all our fights she'd say red pill truths in attempts to "motivate me" into shaking myself out of my funk…	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/16 01:38 PM
6	Do Not Open Up to Women About Your Struggle When I said friends I was including both male and female friends. Yes I think a man can have female friends who add value and emotional support to his life. Also, while men are emotional creatures, we prefer to solve our problems with logic. Yes talking through your feelings has value in terms of introspection and and capacity to trace emotional triggers to their sources. But men are primarily solution based creatures, and that kind of discussion is usually more organic between men. Neither am I…	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/16 02:56 AM
3	Do Not Open Up to Women About Your Struggle I agree, and that's what friends are for. Not women you want to maintain sexual relationships with.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/16 12:51 AM
4	Do Not Open Up to Women About Your Struggle I agree with with the essence of your statement. But not that confiding in your woman is the answer. By all means tell her why you are upset. But look not to her for support or help. Control your emotions and let them add passion to your drive.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/16 12:01 AM
7	Do Not Open Up to Women About Your Struggle Women lie, Men lie, Numbers don't lie.	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/16 11:55 PM
2	Is dating even possible without having friends? You don't need a group of friends to pick up women if you have other qualities to compensate. But if your looking for something long term, then yes you need to have at least a few people to chill with. Women want a man who is as social as they are if not more. Rarely will they move down in social hierarchy unless its for a casual thing. And it just makes you less needy when you have other people to talk to. As for having nothing to talk about. Get a hobby, there will invariably be other people w…	/r/seduction	10/05/16 10:13 PM
1	Is there a way to be unconventionally seductive? Say if you're poor, talentless, not funny and/or in fashion? Don't worry about the girls right now. Get a hobby, Exercise, find a personal clothing style, and work on being happy with yourself before you try and get girls. All the theory aside, women are not attracted to losers, they are attracted to men who know themselves and like themselves.	/r/seduction	09/05/16 04:16 PM
1	If you could ask a girl only one question to get her interested (in a non friend-zone way), what would it be? I honestly, didn't think it needed to be spelled out like that but pretty much yeah.	/r/seduction	22/04/16 04:52 PM
2	Is it weird to ask out a girl in my class who I've not spoken to the entire semester? A few days? If you can't get a woman to laugh or blush within the course of an interaction you should probably not hang too much hope on that prospect...and step your conversation game up.	/r/seduction	22/04/16 01:05 PM
2	Is it weird to ask out a girl in my class who I've not spoken to the entire semester? You should have a conversation and at least pretend you're interested in what's in her mind. but aside from that full steam ahead. Folks are unwinding now and looking to release tension	/r/seduction	22/04/16 01:03 PM
2	If you could ask a girl only one question to get her interested (in a non friend-zone way), what would it be? Hah. I learned a term today. What I think Kezia Noble means is that the first thing you say is less important than how you deal with what she say back. Of course coupled with alpha male behaviors and mentalities. You can have the greatest opener from Shakespeare himself but if the conversation afterwards is shallow and bland and artificial you're chances arent good.	/r/seduction	22/04/16 12:45 PM
1	[18] Where to find hot girls/ talk to them? usually where people are	/r/seduction	21/04/16 11:12 PM
7	If you could ask a girl only one question to get her interested (in a non friend-zone way), what would it be? I probably wouldn't ask a question. And no question by itself will garner interest. Kezia Noble says it well. " What you say in the opening is not very important. What's more important is your response to her reaction, and your reaction to her response "	/r/seduction	21/04/16 10:57 PM
1	Time to take the red pill about sun exposure, your health and skin cancer. I understand the physical mechanisms just fine. I just can't imagine worrying about the sun. It's something I've never done, will never do, and if I end up with kids, I'm gonna want them to have the same protection so they can save money on sunscreen too	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/16 12:50 PM
-1	Time to take the red pill about sun exposure, your health and skin cancer. Stressing about the sun is one of those things that I just can't understand. I'm fairly dark and I've never put on sunscreen in almost 30 years, never burned either.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/16 07:04 PM
12	Should I get tested for STDs if I show no symptoms? Plenty of STD's are non-symptomatic in men. Get tested. Today	/r/seduction	08/03/16 09:59 PM
1	what to do when girl is always pushing the date or flaking? This is all on tinder? You don't even have a number? Just stop talking to her man. She's likely using your interest as a bolster for her self esteem.	/r/seduction	07/03/16 09:03 PM
1	I would appreciate your help, is my co-worker a pick up artist? He's probably read a few articles and attempted to apply them. Like was mentioned below, you can call anyone a Pick up Artist if they are attempting to better their social skills for the purpose of better communication with women. In a nutshell, your colleague has some interest in you and is attempting to flirt with you. He's just not sure quite how to do that yet so he's doing what he likely read or was told, and because he's unsure, it seems off. Although, like you said, he may have a chance s…	/r/seduction	19/02/16 05:43 PM
1	Best way to stop women on the streets? This was a good primer. Thank you man	/r/seduction	18/02/16 09:47 PM
2	I think I was picked up. Not sure how to proceed You're probably right. Thank's man	/r/seduction	16/02/16 09:51 PM
2	I Didn't Say No - But it Was Still Rape. This right here. Is why I make sure I dick a girl down so good she cant think of anything else. And also why my dirty talk follows a general formula of : Me: You like that don't you? Her: I like that Umbrifer, ooh I like that. Me: Oh yeah? You want this dick? Her: [insert affirmative] Me: pause or slow down considerably Then tell me you want it... Never gotten a "kind of" I'll tell you that Gents	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 08:20 AM
4	Can someone be my short term life coach to guide me out of this rut? (31 virgin) Just don't spend more than your willing to lose, In terms of time or money. If you spend and it goes nowhere and you begin to think about the more important stuff you should have been spending time and money on then you probably should have been paying more attention to those things in the first place. Make a space in your monthly budget for dating/fun, Try don't go over it. If your spending a shit ton of cash on a girl before she's sleeping with you...your gonna be a broke, pussyless, bitter ch…	/r/seduction	11/02/16 05:21 PM
2	Can someone be my short term life coach to guide me out of this rut? (31 virgin) will they use me for a meal"! It's pointless thinking like that. I've spent hundreds on a girl and got nowhere and I've bought a girl a bigmac and had my brains fucked out. What's the point of overanalyzing it? Stealing this	/r/seduction	11/02/16 05:17 PM
1	Can someone be my short term life coach to guide me out of this rut? (31 virgin) There is no magic bullet man. I deal with the same issue in terms of being on fire when I don't give a shit but freezing when I find the girl attractive. The answer, and I have by no means mastered this 100% is to really and truly be ok with the possibility that she will not find you interesting and shoot you down. Understand that that can, and probably has happened to you. And the world did not end, you did not become a hunchback. Girls did not look at you like a leper. Life goes on. The feelin…	/r/seduction	11/02/16 05:12 PM
5	The role of temper in seduction? Calling them on their shit is all good. By all means use those lines. Just don't do it in a way that shows that their actions have made you angry. You need to deliver your rebuke as cool and calmly as possible or they will probably feel justified in flaking because they can backwards rationalize it as you being immature so they had no real fault in flaking. Your mindset is right. but temper directed at a women is always counter productive. If there is a role for temper in seduction it would prob…	/r/seduction	09/02/16 08:58 PM
7	What are your thoughts on few sexual partners? Dude that's fine and encouraged. A real man has more going on in his life that the chase for ass. But you should really get laid at least once in a while	/r/seduction	09/02/16 07:11 PM
0	5 things you can do to improve immediately. Adjust intake according to your tolerance man. Everyone is different	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 02:09 PM
1	5 things you can do to improve immediately. Couldn't hurt. Spirituality has little to do with meditation. If you find yourself not being able to stand the silence when talking to women. Or not noticing changes in body language, meditation may help you. If you're already calm, observant, and actively present in every interaction...Then I got nothin for you man. Good luck	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 02:04 PM
2	5 things you can do to improve immediately. Kegels, They aren't just for women man	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 02:01 PM
1	Valentine's Gift? Before you've even met? That is too much investment too early in my book	/r/seduction	08/02/16 09:44 PM
3	Met an amazing girl, went on date, had great sex, then she lost interest. Seeking Advice! First rule is never be afraid to lose the girl. But yeah man you seem like you know what you're doing. Just do your thing and keep growing along the way. There's no reason you can better yourself and still get laid. i feel like people use the excuse of "bettering themselves" as a crutch to not approach or escalate.	/r/seduction	14/01/16 09:31 PM
4	Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep. Bro, Just go out with a few friends, have a couple drinks and start a conversation with someone, anyone. Practice flirting with the waitress if you're nervous. Hired guns are pretty much payed to be pleasant so even if you don't get a number the next conversation will seem easier and you'll be more relaxed	/r/seduction	13/01/16 02:09 PM
4	Afraid of what people will think of you picking up girls? Be the wolf, not the sheep. He's getting more pussy than you and doesn't give a shit what you think. There's the lesson OP is trying to get across	/r/seduction	13/01/16 02:06 PM
3	For five months, I can't drive, socialize much, and will stay at home alone the majority of the time. My self-esteem at an all time low, how can I take advantage of this time to improve myself? 1st: Cardio 2nd:Lift 3rd: Get a healthy diet and regular sleep schedule planned for yourself 4th: Think about who you are. If you ever watched Avatar (The Cartoon) then think about Uncle Iroh's advice "Now is the time, to start asking yourself the hard questions. Who are YOU. And what do YOU want?"...When you take away everything. The girl, the car, the money, even your friends. What are you left with?What are you without these trappings? What within yourself do you possess that you can draw upo…	/r/seduction	08/01/16 09:34 PM
1	Texting girls vs Calling girls Don't leave a message unless its actually important to some plans you already have. Talk until the conversation gets boring	/r/seduction	30/12/15 10:50 PM