Umsandly13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Learning to be a truthful, honest, respecting woman Spirituality/religion In my religion , which I sought out and chose, the emphasis is on purifying your soul. Character goes hand in hand with this. The idea is that, what’s inside our hearts and souls is what comes out in society, as well as becoming the best version of ourselves. It is said the greatest battle “is the one within ourselves” , to fight off our bad behaviors and habits. I think it’s beautiful	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/20 03:01 PM
3	Anti aging tips/looking youthful? Don’t spend money on anti aging creams, just use sunscreen daily	/r/RedPillWomen	20/06/19 05:49 PM
1	What rules did your mom teach you about being ladylike or a good homemaker that have always stuck with you? Mending clothes is such a necessary skill for the queen of the home to have. I want to learn so badly as I know my Hubby would appreciate it	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/19 03:48 PM
2	How can you work on having a prettier heart? Love this- it really is about changing your perspective from “all about me” to being more empathetic. Seriously so little is about us, And more about what’s going on with the other person. In my religion, we are taught to “always make 1000 excuses for your brother/sister” . This is an excellent mindset to have, religious or not. Always give others the benefit of the doubt and never take anything personally!	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/19 06:08 PM
2	Retinol Product for beginners? Try supplementing with collagen , it’s amazing for hair, skin and nails. I second that you likely don’t need retinol so talk to a dermatologist	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/19 01:43 PM
10	I hate children. You’re only 15, you don’t need to worry about any of this right now, I defiantly didn’t feel motherly towards children until I had my own.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/19 05:03 PM
1	How to be humble and loving, yet self respecting/respectful to my fiancé about his mother and sisters not liking me and keeping my distance. I empathize with you, not an easy situation at all. So, I get what you’re saying about how your efforts seem to make no difference. so 3 things you must accept and do: Accept her as she is, just like she said to. Don’t expect anything you do to change her behavior, at least anytime soon. Treat her with civility and be polite- don’t engage in any drama whatsoever, focus on your life and your marriage. You treat her respectfully regardless of her actions because you are a person of character , and…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/19 03:38 PM
0	How to be humble and loving, yet self respecting/respectful to my fiancé about his mother and sisters not liking me and keeping my distance. Mil issues are difficult, I’ve had my struggles over the years trying to navigate as well. First , you need to do some inner work with yourself. All of this comes down to ego. Your mil has insecurities/fears about losing her son and her position in his life. She’s having a hard time adjusting to being “dethroned”, Hence the bad behavior toward you you’ve described. Ultimately , it has nothing to do with you personally, as this is a battle within herself. You can’t solve this for her, but for the…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/19 01:06 PM
2	How can I teach myself to stop talking? This. Also have this issue, not just with my hubby but friends as well. I’m trying to learn to “pause” before I speak, think about my words beforehand. I have a problem with diarrhea of the mouth, lol for sure. I realize also, that pausing before speaking helps to “respond rather then react”. This takes a lot of mindfulness, but is an amazing way of controlling our emotions/reactions. What if all comes down to is willfulness and training yourself to hold back a bit. Sometimes for me, a good work…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/19 01:44 PM
3	Apparently knowing how to cook and sew is odd to my Coworkers Takes effort. Our culture is one that doesn’t see the Value in hard work	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/19 04:34 PM
1	How to cook good meals for husband and family with limited time? Best advice I ever got- everyday, cook dinner before you leave the house. after bfast and the kids are off to school, first thing I do is prepare dinner. Then I have the rest of the day for cleaning, errands , gym , whateves There’s no way I can wait to make dinner after I pick up my kids from school . Chaos time	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/19 05:19 PM