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I respect this, its a good way to center things anything mra related how will this effect the next generation of boys? i feel like a lot of us in the current and the older generations came away with a relatively normal childhoods but imagine the next generation growing up with social media and every facet of their lives being targeted and picked part I hope everyone in this space can use this mindset too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/23 12:03 AM
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The way i see it we need a descriptor to fix certain issues we face, the same way feminism does for women for example if we were discuss the issue of men's propensity for suicide ideation and a woman replies with 'well what about women? they suffer with the same thing too? and not all men suffer either' with that we are no longer able to address that issue anymore personally though I have no attachment to that word or its definition, I'm more interested in solving these issues that these words p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 04:59 PM
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True, I think this anger also emerges from the fact that we live in a very emotionally driven society aka tv, music, newspaper, movies are always so highly dramatized and are emotionally charged if my earlier education of media studies in college is to believed, one of the reasons for this is because emotional content resonates with people more and that leads to more sales but its not a stretch to say that all this bleeds into the general public too
/r/MensRights03/02/22 09:35 PM
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Thank you, you make a LOT of good points, I too have seen countless posts like these all over the internet, if one thing is common its the anger, which I can understand as I myself was at that stage at one point but eventually I learned to detach myself and not take things too personally Yeah those are good solutions but I don't think it matters here, as I've come to understand this page mostly used as a way for men to VENT, this could be because I don't think they have any other place to do tha…
/r/MensRights03/02/22 09:25 PM
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It doesn't but its a case that feminists make that men have a higher proclivity towards violence/murder 'mass epidemy' mass or not I think the point being made is that its more one sided even if 100 men are killed but only 10 women is killed, if it happens that 9 of those women were killed by men, than that might be an issue that feminist have, that's not to say I agree or not I also generally think its bad for a man to be killed, i say that as just aside to the feminist point that is personally…
/r/MensRights03/02/22 09:13 PM
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I agree with you I think all these post do is fan the flames of anger/hatred I wonder if there are higher powers that are just invested in seeing everyone fighting with each other, if not anything else all it does is distract us from bigger issues Also OP's post is interesting he says he follows this page but he only made his account two days ago and this is first and only post, so I wonder when this story took place, not saying I disagree with him or suggestion he is lying, I just think it's in…
/r/MensRights03/02/22 08:56 PM
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Yeah I don't know what to do with this information because it's not something that a healthy person would say or do unprovoked If anything you should have a word with your friend, him dating someone that would say something like this is a red flag, she clearly has anger issues If you're a good friend of his maybe you should let him know that his relationship isn't healthy all the best man
/r/MensRights03/02/22 08:42 PM
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The argument there could be that it's men killing men, so either way it's men that are committing the most acts of murder personally I don't try to equalize everything across the board, coz reality is, not everything is equal If i'm a man who believes that men and women have differences, then these differences can create different outcomes aka men's proclivity towards violence, could be one of them I get op's intentions but this may not be the best argument to make or continue
/r/MensRights03/02/22 08:37 PM
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Out of curiosity tho how would a man go about making critiques about how mra/this sub operates without instigating the 'just like the feminist' retort? OP seems to have made a post about something but doesn't really back it with anything
/r/MensRights28/12/21 09:03 PM
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Thanks for that, I just saved this for future reference when I debate a right winger/conservative
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:39 PM
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Just gonna UPvote you there.. hope that's ok :)) I will also add I'm tired of comments that start with 'lefties this, lefties that...' Never in my entire 30+ years of life ever heard an intelligent comment follow after that sentence
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:33 PM
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Thanks for your comments man, the Left gets attacked on here a lot, which I like but for some reason the Right always seems to get away with its misandry Even though I'd argue that while both our bad and far too simplistic to encompass the views of human population, I think its Right that's worse I hope it's not the case but I feel like Right has somehow become synonymous with men's rights activism
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:30 PM
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Random but what language do you speak friend, as your mother tongue that is?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 08:23 PM
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A matter of faaaccccctt, it’s actually other men who give them that ‘gay’ label for taking care of themselves I make the same point about women when they complain about 'beauty standards' In fact the stat OP mentions also says that males find like 80% something of females attractive So where this beauty standards comes from is OTHER women they follow on social media, Yes you are going to feel self conscious when you ONLY follow supermodels on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:41 PM
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How old are you btw?
/r/MensRights28/10/21 08:33 PM
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A high count generally means better sex, greater honesty in general, less Disney fantasy and less drama. Don't forget more std's, 100+ definitely means more std's ^.^
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 11:16 AM
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Well there's just as many women on FDS expecting men to pay for their whole lives just because of the fact that they are women and have ability to give birth even tho there are many men and situations aka short term ones where they ain't popping out babies just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:19 AM
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true unless her job is being an escort/ Onlyfans creator that is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:15 AM
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"Even my independent woman loving husband" not to be rude but those kinds of people sound like tools, yk when their personality seems to revolve around something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:00 AM
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"Women put up with a lot of shit in today's world" as opposed to your experience as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:41 AM
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Are you a man or woman rub?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:40 AM
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Women aren’t going to want to fuck if they’re constantly shamed You're making the assumptions that if women are more liberated they're going to fuck every guy even the short, lil dick dude, when it means they're still going to fuck the most attractive guys with the bigger dicks, with the other she's not sexually attracted to but either way women not engaging in riding the CC suits the tradcon men fine There’s also an issue of safety that most men don’t really have to worry about That's an occupa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:13 AM
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I hope you at least still spend some time with your kids because the way you worded that seems like you're incapable parent tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:45 AM
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Apparently women have said I was victim blaming when I suggested this!
/r/MensRights16/09/21 10:06 AM
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Found anything yet?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 10:02 AM
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Why wouldn't you be? ​ Okay? And I don't want to pay my bills. Tough shit. women only serve their own interests I mean that's why the 'white feminism' is a thing, supposedly they 'care' for the children but these women never talk about how these children who grew up in single parents homes have some of worse outcomes aka prison/ become rapists but as long as it gives women her choice that's all that matters, white feminism!
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:57 AM
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And perhaps it would behoove men to sleep with women who they know what they will do if they get her pregnant. same women should date men who they know won't beat/abuse them too
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:53 AM
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These are all things that can justify the texas bill and for women too and you wonder why men can be so cavalier about it or why we're not empathetic to 'women's causes' Okay? And I don't want to pay my bills. Tough shit. I didn't care then I care even LESS now
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:47 AM
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this is reasonable answer and in general should strive for and as a collective we should choose our battles wisely, advocating for a man to be able to abort a woman's pregnancy is something I feel we won't win plus there's whole loads of issues behind it aka what if the fetus isn't his etc he could be aborting someone else's kid... idk it seems like an uphill battle.. I ONLY care for the man being able to opt out at this point!!
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:42 AM
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Haha I thought I was the only one lol
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:37 AM
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This is the root of a LOT of our problems, one which if we don't fix we will never get anywhere as a group, the lack of consensus among men I personally agree with your statement but I feel like you might get backlash for using language like "Men only >complain<..." ironically they will complain about you saying they 'complain' but I believe we do need to critique ourselves just as much if not more than our oppositions do, that way we can see where we are lacking and can divert attention there t…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:36 AM
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This is something I theorized (it's habit of mine, questioning everything etc) for a long time and also the reasons behind why etc I know you probably don't want to be antagonistic but what population of men do you think actively care about men's issues/rights? and the same question but for the members of this sub, if you follow it closely how much of them actively care about the same things? I have to ask these questions to myself often seeing the disparity between advocacy between men and wome…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:32 AM
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in fact had one early on in our relationship Hmmm was it 2 guys and girl or the reverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:48 PM
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he'd have the benefit of physical intimacy with a woman he's attracted to sexually and romantically. Her personality. Compatibility. Chemistry. I mean that's the best case scenario, life would be perfect if we got to deal with women on their best case scenarios but that's not the case, if she's attractive now, is she going to stay attractive later? is she going to be groomed, do her hair? is intimacy consistent or is it going to be lots of she's not in the mood or she has a headache, she has wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:57 PM
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do we want a man who lacks self-control and has a history of sleeping around and using women for sex? What women say and do are two different things, there's a rapper called Future he has like 5 baby mommas but Ciara a singer still had kid with her, since being with her he has been with many other eligible women one being Lori Harvey all this while Future makes music about banging multiple women and in general treating them bad I mention him specifically because he is a public example unlike our…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:23 PM
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It's the apex fallacy women judge all men by the few at top of the hierarchy hence they think your average joe is fKKn 100+ women because Justin Bieber does
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:15 PM
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You'd think so but it be so hard to find tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:06 PM
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I think the way women see bodybuilders men may see heavily tattooed women, that is to say, it takes over their personality sure every individual is different but when you see a oiled up guy flexing every vein in his body, you're gonna make a judgement call on his personality revolving around going to the gym and meal prepping lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:05 PM
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I'm sorry. Are you okay? Do you need comforting on any level? Have I done or said anything to make you feel less good about you? Would you like something to eat? I made a Salade niçoise... with dolphin-safe tuna.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:19 AM
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Yes the people you're hanging around are from the ancient generations, people who are out of touch of reality lol, which is fine as I said generations are moving quicker and the gap is getting wider but it also just means the standards are different from yours to the current gen yk Oh yeah that was the the sub.. but damn no way.. so you're telling me.. a girl didn't have sex with her friends bf while she was away?? :O how could one lie about having sex with their roommates bf's haha but fr tho l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 08:24 PM
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I think you're out of touch, especially the current culture with almost loosening the already loose stigma around hook up culture and the convenience of apps making it easier than ever, this isn't like the early internet days where everyone was afraid of the internet and its people lol, lets also not forget female promiscuity being glorified thanks to female celebs like nicki minaj, Megan the stallion, cardi b, iggy azalea etc I have spoke to some and heard from others but its not uncommon to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:27 PM
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Just have a more realistic view of romance now lol Yeah you better wake up princess, this is the real world haha but i feel you, it's a view i see or hear often like wanting the 'generic' shit lol in fact i'm intrigued by you and would like to see how this story develops for you lol honesty maybe attractive but it’s not a turn on by itself lol At this point you know the drill... what is your 'turn on by itself then'? lol the last tangent and again you don't need to answer lmao and also p.s i lie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:24 PM
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Well your certainly a type of right man, would you tell me if it was otherwise though? Oh your good, you're really good! seems like your the challenging type of gf Lol I’m still in the process of learning what the right man is for me Yeah its the opposite of what i've been doing in relationships which is to make decision as fast as possible without thinking about the consequences... but i feel you, all you want is honesty and commitment huh, that's sweet actually even if it is 'generic' lol but …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:56 PM
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if he started a routine with a lion I’d pay to see that lol. Yeah and that lion wasn't fed for a week lol or something with a cannon maybe.. hmmmm Oh I’m submissive for the right man and I maybe breedable but good fucking luck with that lmfao Oh no we're moving too fast but if it helps I have 2 right hands and 2 right feet.. so you literally couldn't be more right than me tbh.. and you have 0 reasons to doubt what i'm saying for the reasons we discussed before 🤷‍♂️ haha but fr tell me what's the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:19 PM
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that's something for you to reflect about You definitely are young, if you think this is what we do here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:55 PM
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tractor people don’t like public sex it seems Hey you're pretty good too... where does that come from.. is it from intense sadness/loneliness like mine? shit ex had a bunch of dating accounts and forget about that joker!! he belongs in the circus!! I live to make men happy don’t you know lmaoo or so you say but are you submissive and breedable tho? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:54 PM
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Ah yes classic Luna320, ready to sue at a moments notice I wouldn't have you any other way Luna! least you won’t have to fuck your ugly wife and pop out number 14 now. must you be so crude >.< but true that's what i saved her as on my phone :P God damn lmao how do you come up with that shit You like? haha but yeah I guess working at the tractor licensing department at the DMV you naturally develop a sense of humour yk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:50 PM
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Fair enough but tbh?? I don't know what any of us grown adults are doing on this sub at all....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:33 PM
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Lol yeah never been my scene Ok... what the hell is your scene then? farmerdating.com .. since yk you got a kick out of that tractor licensing quip Lol yeah the conversation escalated real quick but for some reason I feel this always happens with you Luna.. like you came off so aggressive in the start.. i'm still shaking tbh! Lmao Life does find a way, just never imagined it on the tractor licensing floor lol Ayyy Jeff Goldblum will be happy what you did with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:31 PM
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I think you took my comment way to seriously, in classic luna320 fashion but in general yes i'm a skeptic who is skeptical, so sue me Luna! like i didn't realise I was committing a crime here, can I at least say bye to my ugly wife and 13 useless kids before you take me away to the reddit jail? Well damn, doesn’t take much for emasculation these days You're such a provocateur, I can't take it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:23 PM
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what definition? i'm saying 18yo olds looking like 28yos here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:18 PM
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so will look for another in the future but have to work on myself first. Good luck with that amigo but as we established the club is a no go if you're looking something other a casual sex lol Seems like we’re just talking past each other then cause it looks like we agree Idk do we agree? coz I have no idea what just happened.. 1 minute we're talking about 1 thing the next we're talking about public/train sex/ sex in the DMV Also thanks so much for the image of people bumping uglies in line for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:16 PM
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Lol literally just asking why you assume she’s lying on a anon account I didn't i just usually take what i hear online with a KG of salt Anyways have a good day then I actually was having a good day luna320 until you decided to unleash you're tirade against me/emasculate me in front of my redditor peers :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 06:05 PM
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Lol you're welcome i guess, what are you interested in then? but yeah that was just a tangent which you don't have to answer strangers still have casual sex together I wasn't arguing that but like you said not that many are big into casual sex and majority of that which happens its between known people aka maybe colleagues who have fling in the office and not just 2 people who bumped into each other in the DMV and got so aroused they just had to bump uglies right there in front of line for the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:59 PM
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Idk this is whole tangent from the post and the thread... which either way doesn't make a difference yk... idk lol it just seems extra... you're a provocateur i'll give you that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:49 PM
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Damn either you're a good conversationalist or he down bad BAD!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:46 PM
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Clubs are a more likely scene for people interested in casual sex but it doesn’t always happen in places considered to be nightlife places Yes but those instances don't usually involve strangers tho, like i've heard of couples having sex EVERYWHERE where as strangers not so likely not zero but less likely are clubs your preferred destination if you're cruising for casual sex luna320?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:45 PM
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You're asking more questions than the OP... i've never seen someone so set on such a trivial point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:42 PM
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So much here I've talked to a lot of women and I've spent years in these pill spaces lol.... but just as people you seen, i have seen just as many and have met just as much too... i think you're generalising WAY too much for BOTH men and women, I think it's even more egregious for you femsplain about men's sexuality tbh lol and you can't really compare sex drive to desire to peaches, its not necessarily a biological desire to want peaches lol as it is to breed but also human psychology will tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:39 PM
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That was a given but its mostly likely to be relevant in a club, it's not highly like the individual would try to have sex with someone on the train etc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:29 PM
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It's the internet and people in general... why do people do anything... personally I don't understanding why you're even arguing this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:28 PM
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how many hours did u end up waiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:25 PM
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Yeah but the internet is weird place, nothing personal tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:18 PM
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I mean you can only speak for yourself right, there are some people who are asexuals/low sex drive and that's not including societal expectations, as well as biology too I guess, all these combined make for a strong impulse but if I craved sex that much I would have just...had it the demand and supply at work here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:16 PM
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Lol well yeah, it's not like i was talking about 4 billion+ females here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:12 PM
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Being an 'anon' site doesn't stop anyone from lying, where are you getting this assumption from? people will say anything for myriad of reasons, I mean because it's the internet people will say ANYTHING the silliest thing I ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:10 PM
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That's just you projecting I'm just telling you majority of the (mainly white) women I seen have bad skin, age so terribly that they look WAY older
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:07 PM
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You might have your reasons, I don't know you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:05 PM
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We don't crave sex in the abstract the way men seem to. Maybe but it's not like supply and demand is the same for both sex, I see it more like feedback loop, where the constant supply of dick means less women have to 'crave' it while men the demand is high but supply is not, catch my drift?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:03 PM
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But I would be really pissed off I found myself duped into raising someone else's child I'm glad you can at least draw some boundaries, others who have similar interests seem to have none, I find it really sad when peoples kinks take over their whole lives
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:59 PM
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I just read another post about guy and his female friend who was talking about a good looking guy they knew and how she said she wanted to 'suck his dick' as soon as she looked at him and apparently she eventually did lol maybe it depends on the situation like in a club or like if he's famous but a LOT of women will go out their way trying to 'bang him'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:55 PM
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Would you tell us if you did tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:50 PM
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Just how much more do you think they're going to 'grow' from 18-22? i'm pretty sure girls finish maturing earlier too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:46 PM
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I'd say it's rare that a 16-17 year old could actually pass as a 20+ year old. You have no idea.. literally every girl from 16-19's look like in their later 20's not just because of makeup but their bad skin, damaged from too much tanning and in general have 'matured' face, so yes there are PLENTY women especially where I see here.. just go on social media too most of them look way older then they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:43 PM
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Straight forward, no hyperbole, no name calling, good answer! even men's lib will have no problem with agreeing with it.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 03:33 PM
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Well lucky for us you are not anyone of importance or power!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:34 PM
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I'm not sure how much trust/thought goes in to a woman having sexual encounters with men, I see regular college girls have 100+ bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:22 PM
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There are many factors but the biggest one I think is the lack of cross generational passing of knowledge, where parents pass on knowledge to their kids, what's specifically missing is fathers, I believe 90%+ of kids are raised by their mothers, when so many kids are raised by mothers are we surprised how kids these days turn out? now why aren't fathers 'teaching' their kids? well there are again many reasons but I'd imagine it has lot to do with the family structure aka the father works the mot…
/r/MensRights10/09/21 01:08 PM
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True as well as that it's the 'squeaky wheel gets the oil' thing, women are going to complain/advocate for a program to include a female host on a male show but men are not going to do the same for a female show, if not anything he might think people are going think he is weird to want to see a male when there's females to look at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/21 03:50 PM
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This.. I much prefer this message than the person you replied to, more often than not we lose this nuance everytime we have this convo, as if nurture has zero effect on us men just look at the super hero /movies we go grew up with, sure the modern ones have more female heroes but in general the past was mostly male, where it was men who was saving the damsel in distress, sure it was romantic but the idea was still very harmful to men it's not even superhero movies it's regular movies too like Ti…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 09:40 PM
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That's a privilege many a men don't get to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:33 PM
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what kind of a life would that be. The reality. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:38 PM
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Well if you choose people off of just superficial reasons you get superficial results which most of 'casual' hookups are but sure when women start paying half of dates we can talk about equal orgasms ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:14 PM
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I'm sorry but either way I find the 'it's men issue too' so disingenuous I can't see myself supporting, I have no problem with it if it just said to support women's bodily autonomy but it feels like a slap in the face to say that the reason we should be against it because they're looking out for men's interest in any way and THAT disgusts me even more and want nothing to do with it then, but thanks MelissaMiranti!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 07:57 PM
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Damn bro that man has a family you aint have to do him like that..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:48 PM
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Appreciate the follow up which helped paint out the person behind the post, like first of all I didn't know you were a woman yourself but overall I'd agree with most of your conditions on abortion and I think they hold up in most cases because its a solid amount of time for the pregnant person to decide if they wish to continue on to full term it's still a complex topic when you add in other factors like the father not wanting financial burdens etc but that's a topic thats a topic outside of the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 07:37 PM
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I'm not sure how much you think that really adds to a man in that situation as other than maybe being a married man it doesn't help any man regardless of how he feels about the pregnancy and that can also include in a marriage too but fair enough I don't really expect people to see any other side to this issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 07:20 PM
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It is a complex topic, no doubt, I'm guessing you have well informed view on abortion itself since you decided to make a post on it, is there a time limit where abortions should be allowed, yes or no, what would the conditions be aka rape, incest, possible health issues with baby/mother? I ask these things because I find it so impersonal have such debates from a complete 'stranger' without knowing anything about themselves and why it is the way they think they do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 11:30 PM
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since an unexpected baby can derail a man's life I agree with you but as abortion is legal in most states, this issue doesn't seem to matter in any other situation but only when it affects women do we hear it can have negative on a man's life, but literally every other situation it doesn't seem to matter I'll be honest this kind of tactic gets under my skin even more because it seems so disingenuous to me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 11:17 PM
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The question remains is, is love being conditional reasonable? should romantic love be unconditional?
/r/MensRights01/09/21 07:53 PM
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I don't like that one either "there are countless women who broke his heart" sounds like we're talking about a broken man and I rather not frame it like a victim.
/r/MensRights01/09/21 06:03 PM
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Seconded!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 05:44 PM
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Agreed there are so many male issues that don't directly involve women, we could be focusing on, being anti-feminist as our sole driver only hurts our cause in the long run.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 05:38 PM
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I had to save and screenshot your comment because this is how I felt about MR for the longest too!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 05:35 PM
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Yes this more describes how I feel, I can't ever say I felt FEMinism was ever for men and its slogan always was that it was for advancement of women's rights
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 05:33 PM
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I don't know that I would necessarily want one, I could see it being a little too robotic and lacking any sense of genuine intimacy or romance Also while we as men advocate for sex robots, I feel we should refrain from or try reduce the need to add qualifiers to the advent of the sex robots, there is already enough stigma behind men's use of sex dolls and women will also add on that, so we should add on to it, also I can understand someone not wanting one as you stated but again there's enough b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/21 07:33 PM
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You're preaching to the choir brother I'm already ready for the sex bot revolution but as I said: Not sure how I feel about all of those but I know that given enough time I could write a thousand flaws with anything Even if you have 1000 pro's for this, given enough time, someone can come up with 1000 more cons for it too and at the end of the day 'the squeaky wheels will get the oil' that means who ever 'campaigns' more for or against will win, it almost doesn't matter how much of an impassione…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/21 07:27 PM
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Are you obtuse? Do you think women were treated fairly in the 30s or 50s? Lol I don't think OP's getting the validation he was expecting lol
/r/MensRights27/08/21 10:22 PM
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Many men, particularly conservative It's funny you would specifically mention conservative men because I have seen many of those talks go down, where one of these guys would start his drivel with how 'REAL' men would never purchase such a thing and only 'basement dwelling mommas boys' would be interested in them and he would later go on (in great detail) how much he loves the feel of a real p*ssy and that would continue into him describing how he likes to perform oral on it... lmao i was embarra…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 09:10 PM
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It scary isn't it lol we're talking about advertisements, entertainment, bars/clubs etc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 09:01 PM
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"It's objectifying women!" I have read articles on the topic which had similar reservations along with others along the lines of 'it may lead to sexualization of children' aka sexbots, another one was that these sexbots may encourage men to act out these fantasies they have with dolls to real life women and the last one i heard was the whole 'it may harm women's autonomy' if men project the feelings they have towards their sex doll on to real women aka being a sexual object, passive, one sided e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 08:59 PM
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You know what you're right I didn't think about it like that and also not to be mean but you're comment added more value than the comment "Men aren't allowed to be happy" aka the one you replied to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/21 08:54 PM
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Given that even a broken clock is right twice a day, I think you make interesting points, tho I'm probably the minority in here who thinks that, as the language you used can seem callous/tactless to most If enough do it we would see change, at least for those who do. This is true, fundamentally at least there are roughly equal numbers in men and women but how we go about enacting change is the real question we need to work on and I see no reason why we couldn't, it's just going to take organized…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 04:22 PM
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and my husband gives me oral for as long as I want whenever I want the only sex acts we do are things I actually want to do "Me, me, me" that sounds sadly one sided tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:39 PM
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Soon as i saw the title I knew i'd find your comment here lol I think I saw you comment on the last post which said something to the effect of 'We need to be nice to the feminists' lol Though I'm not agreeing or disagreeing with you here
/r/MensRights25/08/21 03:28 PM
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(Sighs) It can be draining browsing this sub sometimes, like I don't think we need 310k men gathered in one place JUST to say 'Women/feminists are cancer/nazi's' or whatever, regardless of what r.feminism does, I don't think we should mirror there antics tbh It amazes sometimes tho this lack of self awareness especially compared to what the female oriented subs do, I guess they seem to operate from the perspective that they/we are right but the feminists are wrong, which i'm not arguing but bein…
/r/MensRights25/08/21 03:22 PM
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For me, personally I've stopped trying to debunk these kind of claims, I just go by intent and message and this consistent attack on men's character, to me at least sends a clear message how women feel about us. And I don't think this problem can be fixed with logic, statistics or facts tbh but for us to constantly be up at arms, trying to defend ourselves from such accusations is weak I believe, at some point we have to see it as it is and stop seeking womens understand/validation
/r/MensRights25/08/21 12:16 PM
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I hear a lot about what women expect from men but what is it YOU specifically bring Ms Complex-Aggressive? Are you doing all the things to satisfy your partner, exceed his expectations or is that you believe to be treated like a queen because of having a vagina? You cook... but do you cook good? when you clean do you clean well? do you also pay exactly half the bills or more? do you also plan surprises/dates/ remember milestones/anniversaries? etc and how much do you spend in the relationship co…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:57 PM
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Gotcha!
/r/MensRights24/08/21 05:59 PM
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Hella cool that you tried mushroom, i've thought about psychedelics myselfs and one day would like to try DMT, Acid etc would you try more of them? and I agree with you, also you sound a lot like Avatar on that last parts, love that show hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:10 PM
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Noooooooo... Pedro would never do that, I refuse to believe it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:40 AM
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You can only call yourself ugly if your mean and selfish. Because that’s the real ugly Aww your innocence is very touching mango ngl and noooooo you saying the man looks like a rat ahaha My immortal by who?? Evanescence And ahh gorillaz loved listening to that as a kid.. but havent heard that one, wanna give it a go.. but you're giving me too many recommendations at once.. i'm gonna forget some lol Cherry Glazerr is just 🤌🏼 if you don’t like it than you obviously have covid cuz you ain’t got no …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:09 AM
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Lmfao right. I see my bloodline and I’m like fuuuuh. We’re we colonizing 🤭 Ooooh thats dark lmao and yeah I heard you say about hawaii and their history/ their battle with sovereignty etc but didn't realise it was so sad, I thought you were exaggerating lol my bad, have you been there yet? and that was a really beautiful explanation of the greeting tbh and you truly live by it as i feel so welcomed by you.. even though I'm a stranger.. thanks girl 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:58 PM
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Hey! That negativity is 🚫 ✋🏽 not allowed 🚫 ✋🏽here! Negativity!? on PurplePillDebate?? I wouldn't dream of it 🙄 Hehe I'm glad you know what you want and adoption is very He looks like the character from flushed away Who and what that? I love depressing music!!!! Oh no girl.... tbh one of the saddest song for me is probably a song called My Immortal, whats yours? lol and sure I'll check out Cherry Glazer self explained and I'll report back to you with my thoughts... they have an album titled “stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:29 PM
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Then why are you trying seduce me pretending to be one? You're one sick ticket Lucian!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:05 PM
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Idk Simeneta I raised 3 kids on my Sims game all by myself and it wasn't THAT hard And also to add on that... maids work both as care takers and also bangmaids... but don't ask me how the maids infant baby looks so much like the master of the house
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:04 PM
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And woahhh... that's alot... seems like you're ancestors took it on themselves to erase racism ALL by themselves haha I was going to guess hawaii coz of your instagram bio... but you're right I wasn't going to guess all that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:18 PM
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Right!? Another reason for me not to have kid either :| I watch a lot his video and like his deadpan comedy lol and yeah that mazzy star song is depressing as hell bro and sure ill check out that cherry glazerr (sounds like a pornstar tho) too and not sure if it falls into all female band but Evanescence is one of my classic faves Hahah I actually will show you exactly what I am. Can I post pics on this thing? And uhh did you figure this out.. because I really would like to see
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 10:12 PM
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Well most people aren't having 10 kids like they did before either and there's lots more appliances to make the modern life easier and also for most people I'm guessing it helps to live in apartment first so they can 'practice' living together
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:49 PM
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Oooh also the the songs you suggested.. they were very interesting, I think the first one by la luz, seems more my kinda music, it reminds me of a song by mazzy star called look on down from the bridge even tho they sound nothing alike lol... tho i'd like to hear your view on the songs and why they resonate so much with you. and lastly I had a 'forage' through your IG, lot of fruit pics, pretty cool overall tho and also you as well, if that's you on the pfp, you have such an ambiguous look I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:42 PM
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Hey i hope u managed to sleep and/ or stopped crying! just thought I'd get back to you and touch bases, sounds like you're going through some stuff like suicidal ideation, I hope you find help for it.. in the meantime maybe this could help even if you don't have tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@n4lg0n/video/6991243205266246917 he's also mexican if it helps :) Those were my childhood dreams I’m not sure if I should still pursue those. Idk you enough to answer but I guess you have to look deep in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:35 PM
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Build me a dining room table and I’ll cook you a nice meal to put on it Will you make it pistachio free I'm lethally allergic to it 🥺 and also you wouldn't have to worry about the underwear problem coz I don't wear them BOOM! but jokes aside, I get the 50/50 concept in theory but in reality life just doesn't really go according to plan yk lot of unique and personal circumstances make it difficult to implement across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:21 PM
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whereas women get down on their hands and knees Oh my! (george takei voice) But I think there's some biology behind this, maybe the fact that females are more geared towards 'nest building' and males slightly less and also the fact that females have more olfactory nerves mean they can smell better.. idk im just spitballing here As far as the second part, I think first part of your sentence can explain that more, its about quality I guess yk getting on your hands and knees and not just microwavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 09:01 PM
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Yup I can agree with that just like there are plenty of women CEO's but just not as many as men Hmmm maybe we DO live in a fair AND righteous society then 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:55 PM
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I mean that's predicated on a society that's fair AND righteous (eye emoji)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:22 PM
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I mean really tho how hard is cleaning 1 bed studio apartment between 2 grown adults and as stated most machines are automated now... so whats the most difficult part? personally I would say cooking, there's no machines for that yet lol but I from my experience I see men usually doing more of that nowadays as women apparently 'can't cook for shit' as they
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:12 PM
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also you forgot You divorce? I take the house, 50% of wealth and kids with me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:07 PM
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You so poetical it brings a tear to my eye
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:04 PM
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Not all men want their women to be chaste, some want experienced women Which women are you btw? lol Neither do all men need or want their women to cook for them or clean up after them True I do see a LOT of the reverse where men do most of the work, especially the cooking because 'I can't cook for shit 😜' as I hear many a women proudly confess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:00 PM
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Ah, a friend shall sharpen a friend. Yes that is what they're their for and true I don't see myself defending him for those reasons, I think like taylor swift he uses women/people for writing material Yay I hope you like it honestly. I will be sad if you don’t but it’s ok. You're going to be upset because I have very strange sense of taste in music, 99% of music i listen to is soundtracks, this was the last one i listened to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IeqVSde0cOo from big mouth lol Do you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:36 PM
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your favorite activities consist of busting balls? Why not? iron sharpens iron.. is it not good to argue with people to challenge your views Miss pacifist? 🤔 Fuck I hate drake I don't like him either but his music is at least consistent but in general I don't listen to mainstream music as much anymore, I listen more to movie scores, soundtracks esp anime ones but I will check out the song you mentioned, ill tell them you sent me :) Oh that’s cool. Asian and white babies are cute. Don't know abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:18 PM
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I don't know these people bro... I didn’t take selfies cuz I also did a lot of crying You are a mess Mango but sure I'll take a gander through your IG when i'm on it next, hopefully there's nothing weird on there I thought strawberries were already primarily Sexual tbh and no apple isn't but I do have 2 apple trees idk what tropic is but my faves are Mangoes, Pineapple, Banana, Papaya, grapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 03:01 PM
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I’m tired but have all these thots going through my mind Reddit won't help I promise you and I see that's a lot of interest on top of your already quirky personality, it seems tiring to even read it, let alone doing all of those activities tbh What are your three favorite musicians? Really tho? but fine, it's Weeknd, Drake Ed sheeran?? idk I've been out of the loop for awhile of new music.. i guess you're gonna tell me your faves now? No that was a joke, i'm aesthetically drawn to a very specifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:46 PM
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Today I was lookin mad fire NGL HAHAHA were you, what made you look so fire? do show me if you're that confident and no save that strawberry kink for the bed time with your bf, this is a serious discussion with life altering implications besides that fruit isn't even in my top 5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:28 PM
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That's a light way to put but It's not just that when men are toxic they can be REALLY toxic because of the physical difference ovbz even one man can cause a massacre all by himself. even as a man if i'm scared to go out late at night, which a lot of women complain about, I'm worried other men would attack me, it doesn't matter at all about women, its more of an issue for us because we are the bigger victims here
/r/MensRights22/08/21 02:23 PM
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I don’t have the fight in me anymore. I don’t want to fight Yes you are all over the place rn, maybe it's best if you go to your chambers and rest? what are things you enjoy? and if you say mango, i'm going to block you please tell me about the women you’ve dated in the past Why the curiosity about me all of a sudden? but if you must know I only date MATURE navajo bitches! Wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:18 PM
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Some days I feel ugly and some days I feel pretty Ok and what of today? I usually feel pretty when I’m eating mangos I feel like you are not taking this very seriously Mango
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 02:01 PM
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I don't know what to make of any of that Mango but also you said you enjoyed hearing other people's views/upbringing, whats was your favorite one from reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:59 PM
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Yeah it was a tangent on your comment but it doesn't have to be as extreme as that, it could also be women complaining about their partners not doing domestic work, but the answer to that would be not dating a man with similar values aka doing domestic work yk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:51 PM
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I'm not your enemy but this language says a lot about how as mra's operate or men in general Everyone's main goal seems to be creating 'good arguments' because to them, everything revolves around 'winning' superficial arguments, whether that be twitter tweets, youtube comments or even reddit threads, the goal never seems to fix the underlying issues but to only argue the posting of these views also to the use of words like straw man/red herring or 'fallacies' in general add to all that I get no …
/r/MensRights22/08/21 01:46 PM
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Oh yeah it’s not because I’m super hot or something I see how would u rate urself on a scale of 1-10? and have you cheated yourself Mango?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:37 PM
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it’s 6 AM. I’ve been crying all day and restless. Y’all are nonstop on my ass I mean I don't want to probe coz I would rather not get involved but is that normal, crying, at 6am? is that a female thing? and whose 'y'all are nonstop on my ass'?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:35 PM
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Fair enough but we can't also discount the affairs that happen amongst women has increased to all time highs either, so even with a partner, doesn't mean she wont cheat, not saying you but in general also that wasn't my point though, its the amount of 'offers' in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 01:26 PM
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True but unfortunately I feel like one is seen as a personal issue while the other is a public issue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:55 PM
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Yeah i get a lot of offers Wow you got someone but still get a LOT of offers.. lucky you.. which also goes along with a lot of the narrative on this sub tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:53 PM
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I see interracials here and there but most of the marriage i've seen generally goes to people of similar background in most places, like if you go out now, you're most likely going to see white guys with white women, black women with black men with maybe few sprinklings of white guys and asian women (asian women sure love white guys lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:52 PM
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Well fair enough, speaking on it is one thing but with most women's actions, I've personally seen the opposite but goodluck to you with yours then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:49 PM
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If a woman is primarily seeking money and/or looks - and you're seeking love and intimacy - don't the two just clash? Tbf lot of women don't want to be in relationships with abusive/violent men... but it just happens yk... consistently too sometimes... but obviously if you tell a woman she shouldn't be dating/ leave those kind of men then you're victim blaming you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:42 PM
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Have you found love yourself mangoe-hoeee?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:36 PM
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You guys can’t laid bc you tell yourself over and over you can’t and won’t Tbf majority of female dating issues can be rationalised with this, I hear a lot of women say ohhh men don't do house works/ childcare/ won't make me orgasm etc when it's their own decision making that lead them to this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:35 PM
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They date them but most end up marrying men that are similar height/build/looks/temperament to their dad. they subconsciously do this ofc so they'd never admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:31 PM
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As I said you're definitely a minority here but also does this mean you would leave your husband/partner if he ever got too rich and not take any of his money in divorce? that will definitely be world's first too and I'd love to see lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:23 PM
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random criminals are not associated with men's rights movements. As MRA you speak for all men, not just mra men, otherwise there would be 0 critique because mra population is a tiny percentage You do know that more men are affected by assault and murder than women right? This invalidates your argument. you're not fighting me here and it's not about what I know, its the feminist. but yes more men are victims have you used this point against a feminist? the issue with this, it still backs their po…
/r/MensRights22/08/21 12:21 PM
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I think its mostly white mark zuckerberg type dudes,, that's just the culture they live in.. i feel the reverse is true for african americans, when I was in school i used to remember all the black kids always had the newest designer clothes and expensive jordan shoes while they and their family were really poor while the richer white kids used to dress like bums with really bland hair cuts (think bad luck brian)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:03 PM
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Well you are in the minority coz I've never heard a woman say "ughh he's perfect but I don't want to date him because he is TOO rich... I want him to be poorer" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:49 PM
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We don't say kill all _____. They do. That... was.... genius... but sure...We tell them this... and then they reply 'well at least we feminist don't actually shoot up places/people ala plymouth shooter ala talibans ala every past mass shooter' etc and BOOM we're back in the cat and mouse game!
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:29 PM
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care to elaborate the individual points?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:38 AM
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Youuu bitchhh.. thats genius! how did you come up with it? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:35 AM
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Oh totally man I think the finnish femboy flair is a good ice breaker too lol but dw too much trying to explain yourself we are just strangers we don't have to know you but i'm glad you success my man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:30 AM
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Hey man all the power to you if you want your butt hole filled, if you do I asked that you get it filled by a veiny one and you pretend to be a centaur hehe Yeah I think it's the being excited for others to want to see someone see masturbate over something private but but hey I can't tell a man who getting pegged what to do.. you dealing with enough shit already lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:28 AM
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Oh my femboy why do I feel like this is a commonly used phrase from you lol almost like an introduction haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:18 AM
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we are one of the most gender equal societies in the world yes Or so I've heard lmao the result of that is both men and women get penetrated right.. but that is interesting... on a day to day basis I don't imagine that would make a difference.. since there are individual differences between people that equality doesn't really mean much and no i don't think viewing pornographic material makes you a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:14 AM
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Smh when did i ask for tinder tips my guy? and what success are you gonna be getting as a femboy.. I dont think i'm interested in that kind of attention but you do you my boy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:00 AM
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it's not cuckolding if my gf sells pics of herself online And its not gay if i say no homo before any homosexual acts lmao damn femboy what's happening in finland lol it seems the women there are more masculine/ stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:56 PM
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Yk this might be the first time i'm agreeing with you femboy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:41 PM
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Oh gimpgirl555 what will you say next!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:40 PM
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as others have said legalizing it won't really do much.. it's been illegal most places but people still could get it easily, same way you can get weed (or any other drug if you want it) but overall it's just a small band aid, you'd be deluded if you think prostitutes are going to fix's men issues in any meaningful way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:38 PM
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It's funny though, this cat and mouse game, feminists: "those menrights guys are misogynists", The guys on here: "those feminists over there are misandrists" It's hard to see this as an adult man wanting positive changes while seeing this back and forth between grown men and women 'We're right and they're wrong" "No we're right and they are stupid poopyfaces"
/r/MensRights20/08/21 11:07 PM
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I was answering ‘he can’t say no then he would be a bigot/etc. he most certainly can say no Don't tell me that, tell your fellow females who disagree on the grounds of fat phobia, transmisogyny etc It’s when a fat guy is saying no fatties on his profile and upset he isn’t getting some Amazonian beauty. I think that's hyperbole but according to studies women say they prefer 'dad bods' anyways even still standards are standards regardless if YOU think they are reasonable or not for a person All th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 05:33 PM
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Also I think someone should be able to say no to a person no matter the reason. It doesn’t even need a reason. Ok, I think you're answering a question no one asked but as far as the other part I can see why, that's some peoples boundaries and they are uncomfortable with the imbalance but my main point was your assumption that girls can't have fun, is wrong, I believe EVERYTHING around modern times is built so women can have all the fun they wan't, whether its being let in clubs for free, free dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 04:15 PM
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women can’t have fun Hey you can, NO ONE is stopping you in fact now more than ever everything is in your favour to do so with ZERO repercussion, you have unlimited birth control options and choices, you have all the dating apps right at your fingertips, guys to pay for your dinner/dates/ everything and at the same time if you want to make money you could just join OFs/be an escort and be with 100's of men and after all that you still get to choose HIGH value man with a perfect/clean record and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:58 PM
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Well that's the problem isn't it? Having your cake and eating it too. Isn't it same for women? can they both have all the casual sex along with all the damage and still find a HIGH value bf/husband??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:46 PM
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casual sex is next to impossible for all but the top 1-2% of genetically gifted good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:43 PM
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Tbf i'm going to upvote your comment purely because yours is the only dissenting opinion here and even still you're polite about it if you may explain what are the criticism of his post, I'm curious, as you see I'm more interested in people on this sub that have disagreements with the posts than people who outright agree with them, since everyone here to a large degree in my opinion just 'preaching to the choir'
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:17 PM
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If we are for the betterment of males then we need to strongly oppose these kind of men too, the ones who do these heinous acts against our boys, personally this is the first i heard of this and only as a side note to the feminist issue here, it sickens me me man. I hope we can see the bigger of this though e.g. the cause behind why people are fleeing in the first place, also extreme ideologies in general like religion and politics too, I imagine lot of this will get painted on to men in general…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 08:46 PM
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Well written post, what inspired you to write it, I ask because I don't often see posts from women here and i'd like to know more about your views regarding these matters.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 06:37 PM
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MGTOW makes a consistent efforts to push away incels and is against incel culture I haven't been to that sub but how did they do this? was it with compassion and care? was it a group effort? was there a consensus that incel culture had nothing to do with mgtows? But I get that being part of that group you would be sensitive to anything related to your sub, like other people would be to their sub for example if you asked a FDS (female dating strategy) member about their sub being misandric they w…
/r/MensRights15/08/21 06:23 PM
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Agreed
/r/MensRights15/08/21 06:08 PM
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Fair enough I just have an issue around these parts when guys poeticize/romanticise certain ideals to make it seem more 'meaningful' this is what I thought when I read the line "lost generation" because it seemed a bit abstract the other but I feel like it's oversimplification even though its though its true but "miserable and just sit in their basement all day, playing video games, wanking off, not socialising, not doing meaningful work" is just the symptom not the cause as the guy said above s…
/r/MensRights15/08/21 06:07 PM
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What does this mean?
/r/MensRights15/08/21 02:42 PM
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Good straight forward response without poeticizing the issue, unlike the person below "Incels are a symptom of a lost generation of modern men." what does that even mean? Anyways we should always look to resolve the cause of the problem rather than treating the symptoms, in this case it's inequality, I think one of the cause of inequality is the overvaluing the need for women in the lives of men, just look at any dating site apparently the ratio is 8-1 of men to women, this tells me as men we ou…
/r/MensRights15/08/21 02:41 PM
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Its like sharing a token opinion that is just designed to trigger ppl For real all this reactionary shit does is trigger people and distract them and there's a quote that goes "Evil is whatever distracts" Sometimes to the detriment of the movement, I feel this sub just takes us further from our 'goals' like if I leave and come back in 5 years hopefully I WON'T see the same "A woman said all men should kiss my feet" posts etc then lol
/r/MensRights14/08/21 09:16 PM
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Yeah i clicked on it just to dislike it, i seen the other posts from this guy, they were both youtube videos from the same channel. I'm glad someone else thinks the same about these lazy "A woman somewhere did/ said ****** about so and so" posts that everyone else seemed to fall for Like who cares what a random person thinks, should I make a post about what a random drunk woman said to me 2 days when walking home?? like NO!
/r/MensRights12/08/21 10:58 PM
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What do you mean? I want to know why you feel this?
/r/MensRights12/08/21 10:36 PM
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I'm pretty sure the age is relative, that's just common sense no? don't you have a age preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:57 PM
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I'm not sure what I should do with this information tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:03 PM
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Man made claims and came through with the sources, respect!
/r/MensRights09/08/21 02:33 PM
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I'm western but in recent times i'm hearing a lot about radical feminists in south america making a lot of noise and apparently being crazier over there than here, while the feminists here being a bit over the top, so I wonder what its like over there
/r/MensRights09/08/21 02:30 PM
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Im thinking about making a main post asking for Solutions from everyone Please do, it's an important cause, not JUST for men but even MORE so for BOYS, I think most guys forget who will inherit this future and if we don't leave behind a good infrastructure, boys will suffer more what tangibles laws should be advocated for. (would be different for each country) This is a good one and if i were you i'd try not to be too antagonistic, which isn't easy because the sub itself is very polarizing and c…
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:56 PM
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I hate that many guys perpetuate more often than not, its the biggest headpalm moment for me tbh
/r/MensRights07/08/21 10:14 PM
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Hey man, I can already tell from this response that you're well meaning, insightful person and it's just a shame that some of the guys here feel the way they do, at times I feel like they are their own worst enemies I think if there were more concrete solutions people could rally around we wouldn't be so fragmented This is so true man and I am seriously contemplating how I would approach this too as I've created a youtube channel for men's issues and i'm trying figure out how I would move forwar…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 10:12 PM
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If MRA labeled itself a feminist organization If you want to imagine what that's like you can go on r/menslib that page is feminist through and through, have a look at their posts, their bio, their mission and goals is as they put it looking at men's right through the feminist lens due to this there's very little introspection that can be had of men's issues without mentioning or even alluding to it being caused by feminist/women you will be called out with the quickness.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:48 PM
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I don't believe in extremes and I think there some messages we can take from everything, including this post, I'm with you up until the 'call yourself a feminist' part, I think that's a too ghastly pill to swallow as is for most here In the current mindset, doing that is just too polarising, but they will get there, we need to take it step at a time but ideally I think we would take a solution based approach, I'm also overall concerned with the fragmented nature of this sub, I think before we se…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:23 PM
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I see you have justified within yourself but this doesn't stop the conflict you just chose the easy way out. everything you said sounds like excuses rather than reasons, the same ones everyone's been hearing for probably 100 years now, we've all seen women/feminists make such impassioned speeches about the cost of having kids to themselves and their career, their life, finances and we hear about the bringing up unwanted kids in the system and how much they suffer but none of those reasons matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:02 AM
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Very
/r/MensRights07/08/21 12:43 AM
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When are women blamed for anything? even the act of pregnancy is the male's fault for ejaculating inside her and besides even best case scenario it doesn't work out that way does it aka if the man is dead/in prison/ is an addict or all of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:43 AM
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Women have always wanted control over our reproduction I wish women were as supportive of men not wanting parental responsibilities of kids they didn't want.. then maybe women wouldn't face much resistance but right now women just want to have their cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:37 PM
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L, it definitely is not as 'traumatic' as you say it is ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:35 PM
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i dont live on a planet where this is not already the case You act like thats a good thing or to be proud of, the american way right... convenience over everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:34 PM
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I feel like you're confusing what *ought* to be with what *WILL* be. Reality< is women have 0 (zero) incentives to change for the benefit of men No matter how much we clamour and debate about it, they will not. we can only change ourselves... but no worries man
/r/MensRights06/08/21 07:13 PM
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It's everyone's fault, not mens The blame game isn't really important, regardless whose 'fault' it is, it's MEN that are dying, which is why ideally I believe it's on us to change/fix things because it hurts us more and also the fact that its easier to change ourselves then change women, I'm not sure if you're trying to apply egalitarian views here or not but that doesn't change anything, in fact it's PC just to say 'Oh it's all our fault' yes that shares the blame and no one/ group feels attack…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 06:53 PM
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Ironically it's mostly the guys on here who are happy for us to be sacrificed, this is line with the traditional ideals of men 'bravely' fighting to our deaths as honorable sighss. I expect women not to care about us but men also feel the same, that hurts more than anything else tbh
/r/MensRights06/08/21 06:42 PM
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Are women held to the same standards? It really be our own sometimes, most of the beliefs come from old tradition, which is so out of whack by today's standard aka men by large still being traditional and women being feminists.. this means that man works and provides for woman while woman gets to enjoy the advantages of being a modern woman, which is basically best of both worlds. pure fuckery on our parts tho!
/r/MensRights06/08/21 06:35 PM
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Focusing on this kind of stuff only hurts the real genuine issues we should be focussing on It really does, there's a saying that goes 'Focus Is Power' and rn I feel we are powerless
/r/MensRights06/08/21 05:06 PM
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Honestly reading the comments on that thread, I'm gonna go against the grain here (even though its seems petty/trivial) but I'd give them the benefit of the doubt here. If those women don't want their chairs pulled for and doors opened for them, I'm fine with that, it's not something I would complain or post here about Do we really need to make a fuss about everything? Like i've seen this is a common angst among lot of guys when it comes to 'benevolent sexism', this just give the feminists more …
/r/MensRights06/08/21 10:21 AM
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Honestly I was side eying the title, like "ughh another 'we need to do x'" post that just does nothing but rant but I was pleased to see at least the 2 lines which at least offers for actionable solutions
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/21 10:01 AM
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I'm a bit late to this post, not sure if you will even see it, but this was a GREAT post, one of my personal favorite comment is: Twitter isn't real, reddit isn't real, your mind and your health are real though and you're allowing them to be polluted and it's skewing your perspective. Take care of yourself, mate. All the best. it was a response to a dude who went full attack mode and also called you a feminist, coz you didn't agree with him, this stood out to me because I hear this sentiment oft…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 09:03 PM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about. You're seeing enemies everywhere, and you're ready for a fight at the drop of a dime. This is it, one of the most important point here, rest of your replies were very good too.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 08:48 PM
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You sure like asking questions u/questionasker012
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:22 PM
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Damn simenta finally got a W.. ya hate to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:05 PM
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Let me ask you this, why are there more male CEO's if the gender ratio is roughly 50/50, how can this be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 10:59 PM
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You can never have too much men supporting men tbh!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 05:02 PM
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We know those moderators don’t give a shit about men’s issues and hate against men and they likely never will Exactly, also if the success of the men's rights movement comes down to whether reddit mods 'support' us or not then we already FAILED in my opinion But yes for me men’s mental health issues is one of my chief concerns and has been for a long time, its ONLY second to boys health and welfare.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 03:44 PM
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Of course we know what we want. That's interesting I was just reading a post on another sub and a woman asked how do you know you're attracted to a man, or what you're attracted in a man and a LOT of women said they didn't know or their answer was very vague he’s not lost his fitness and continues to work hard on being attractive, is funny and fun to be with, listens to me during sex, and has good dick game I hope this is reciprocal, the general sentiment I hear from women is "he should love me …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 01:28 PM
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Emotional people are easy to manipulate
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:40 PM
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Agreed, I think a better use of our time is attack the source of power rather than individuals because once we remove 1 individual another will take its place, this is because we're not dealing with the source of the illness rather the symptoms
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 12:36 PM
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Got downvoted to the bottom but I agree nonetheless, all this modtalk just distracts us and after this is over it will be another distraction. If I didn't know any better I'd think we were avoiding the real issues purpose. There's a quote I like by Churchill "You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 12:33 PM
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Posting it on reddit, to subs that already agree with you, does nothing beacuse they already agree. Posting it on other subs does nothing because it will be downvoted/removed. I agree with this and it's a good point, I'm commenting this just so I can remember for future reference
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 12:10 PM
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Some people are realists and they want to choose their battles, putting their energy where it's more likely to make a difference. I'm new to the sub, so I don't know the details of what's happening here, but I think this was a mature response There's a quote by Churchill that goes "You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 12:03 PM
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admit that GENDER ROLES HURT EVERYONE and not just women I will admit that accepting this took me longer than it needed too but this was mainly due to my 'bluepill/traditional/religious' upbringing, not to mention our culture heavily promotes it We also can't ignore the polarizing effect of feminism it has on men, aka men being contrarians to everything feminism proclaim even if they are 'right'. I'm sure we have all seen the transition to right wing/ tradcon by large majority of men, thinking t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 11:56 AM
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His username checks out 'wtknight' aka WHITEknight lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 11:39 AM
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Right, that person can't be serious, as if bathing made a man high value, the delusion lmao or maybe its just that she has low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:13 PM
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The founding of feminism is the idea that if a law hurts women, it also hurts men and vise versa. and the founding of the police force was to protect and serve the public but we both know they take extra liberties when it comes to their job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:43 PM
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The guy above is right, women should have no say over or be able to define what masculinity is or isn't, the same would go for women and their 'femininity'
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:42 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 07:40 PM
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Being angry and spiteful is not a personality trait you want to keep This can be doubly said for feminists/women no? especially for the 'Killallmen' crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:43 PM
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What the person above is basically saying 'just go therapy bro' utter useless copy and paste advice, would've been easier just to say 'just be yourself and a nice gal will come along' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:40 PM
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Your mention of 'low ceiling' makes me think of the NBA sub lol most of the recent conversations involve around this term, as well as floor too. this due to the draft happening just yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:37 PM
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If you'd rather blame women than to take it on yourself and try to improve your life, fuck you Another high quality post from PPD as usual lol, one practice I'd like to see when it comes to people posting on this sub is maybe adding a little introduction of the OP themselves, so that way we know a lil bit more about the person posting, so we can decide if we should even give a f*ck about what they say Otherwise it would be like taking financial advice from a homeless man, which goes for this pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:34 PM
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This might go against the prevailing opinion here but I heard someone say that some of the disparity between sentences can be attributed to the gender of the judge. I can't confirm this but I heard that if the judge is male he is more likely to give harsher sentences to men and the opposite for women, while female judges apparently are more like to be equal in sentencing Another anecdote from a guy who was in a situation trying to get custody of his children, he advised that you should hire fema…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 09:33 PM
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So then do you think the standard should be lowered and the definition be made broader, that way more accusations will stick and if so what judgements do they face, the same charges as regular rape, since rape is rape and there isn't different degrees of rape like first, second, that i'm aware of
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:25 PM
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Considering the time it took you to write it.. you weren't even close, your post got destroyed in every single way possible but like I said dudes are good at replying and carry on only to soothe hurt the ego lmao if you consider that a win, you're slower than I thought. I mean ofc the loser would say that, her comment got more likes than your whole post... and the post itself got removed 😭 just accept it and move on my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:11 PM
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Its essentially a giant shitpost Yet you reply a day later with a whole essay, I'm sure everything she said marinated inside you, which is probably why your reply was complete trash or 'shitpost' as it were in fact I already knew it was over when I you commented 😭 "Its quite impressive."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:50 PM
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I guess noone gets to gatekeep ignorance. I guess not LadyDecooo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:38 PM
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Ok then good luck with that Avi!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:24 PM
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I see does this mean if a man is convicted of having sex with a woman by first promising relationship but later not wanting to be in a relationship for whatever reason aka he isn't into her/ incompatible sexually, he should be judged/sentence as rapist? be branded as such/ be on the sex offenders list/ not be allowed most jobs because of this? I feel like we are in such polarizing times regarding sex where its so inconsequential but also at the same time it is political I could understand when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:23 PM
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No, that was Boris the bullet dodger!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:17 PM
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Yeah it really, it really is..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 01:01 PM
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luckily you don't even have to be good at it Yeah you definitely don't....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:37 PM
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Lol men who accuse others of that typically are overcompensating to feel masculine. Check my name, UnMascd, I have zero delusions about my masculinity ma'am! The pattern is there, I just saw two other guys (right before I replied to you) who displayed the same views/thoughts and they both had bisexual in their bio, clearly they bat for both sides but whatever cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:35 PM
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^ this guy fucks... but I wonder why he is in these subs.. when he could be knee deep in pussy instead he chooses to argue with these incels.. suspect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:14 PM
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That's interesting, I never thought much about gay men's experiences especially in regards to men's issues, I'm sure you have your own unique issues that stem from your sexuality but I wonder how much of our issues our intertwined with the straight counterparts thanks for your comment, it made me think
/r/MensRights29/07/21 11:22 AM
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Yeah I'm sure it was haha defense much? but still I await your response to the above chicks response, since you are spending so much time replying to me, you should do the same for her :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:17 AM
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wtf are you even saying? In short men who display your behaviour are cucks/ are into pegging 95% of the time, does that make sense MrsDecoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:15 AM
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You should also do the same on FDS sub if your that way inclined and tell me their not slanted in anyway, if not add TwoX to that too, I however don't take words from pickme's seriously in any situation regardless of the context Decoy! In the real world, where men who actually get laid and interact with women on a frequent basis and which men are they specifically, either way even so i'm sure majority wouldn't MsDecoy But are you one of them DECOY who gets laid or are you the one watching in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:45 PM
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Saying women as a group don't suck and just want to use you isn't being BP What's grok? and no need to take it so seriously Sonic, I was merely parodying your flair 'Green Eyed Devil' but in general I have seen your comments a lot here and I was just commenting on it lightheartedly, I'm glad things have worked out well for you and I'm sure a most women on here appreciate your comments regardless, because it validates their views even if their very BP inclined, even if you are not. I studied it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:38 PM
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That's a lot, you are very expressive aren't you my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:31 PM
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poorer people have more casual sex Damn that sucks that I don't fit that stereotype then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:27 PM
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“Mr Decoy is my father, call me DeCool 😎” No you're fat and lazy, so i'll refer to you as such And I don’t. That’s why I listen and heed their perspective when they speak on it you don't but you speak for them often, being a man too, I find that SUSPECT, more than anything else DECOY! in the business we call them male pickme's and as such anything that's said can be easily discarded from them, as would be the case for a female pickme's too!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 02:24 PM
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Son of a gun now i feel OLD for not knowing that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:46 PM
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Here’s the thing, I think we men are GREAT (if not best) at REPLYING and to some that will be mistaken for critical thinking or logical even as many men will ascribe it on to themselves which is just a shallow if not inaccurate display of intelligence. I think as it stands now women are more logical and utilize critical thinking to a greater degree than men, as the broad above demonstrated by decimating your whole post, which you probably spent a great deal of time writing, while her reply was m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:41 PM
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What's OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:19 PM
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Then what brings you here friend even though you are "still having great sex over 10years in"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:07 PM
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The blue pilled devil strikes again lol he's here to spread the good word of NAWALT on you heathens!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:06 PM
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What more do you know of women's feelings MrDecoy? I know you have done your 'research' on the OKCupid data yourself too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:04 PM
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Really I thout it was the opposite tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 01:01 PM
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Now this is the quality content I sign up for, I'm going to follow your account in hopes for more gold!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:59 PM
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Is it happening any time soon? I doubt it, anything that requires critical thinking most guys on here fall flat, but for what its worth I do agree with this post overall, so yeah take that as you will Mr-TRP-helps-with-getting-casual-sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 12:34 PM
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I've not seen someone write so much filled with nothing but air, sure the laywomen will give you the credit because you wrote something longer than their attention span could hold, so they couldn't really critique it either way that was a long way to say that you are in fact a LVW yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:25 PM
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I think in the same way it's about agency or the perception of it, aka men being the aggressors and women being on the receiving end of the aggression
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/21 10:14 PM
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I’m just not trying to take in energy from people I’m fundamentally ‘against’ idk something about this made me want to write that, I hope you at least oscillated to my frequency lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:18 PM
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You sick bitch........ I LOVE it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:31 PM
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I feel and sense your energy that is emanating and I receive it wholeheartedly, I am now vibrating to your wavelengths, please reciprocate by oscillating to match my frequency, so that we may mind meld into a single being of oneness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:16 PM
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and what about the females of PPD? what does it say about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:06 PM
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If you’re always brooding and terribly insecure There seems to be a double standard here when women talk about their negative experience with men its activism but when do the same with their experience of women they're are labeled as 'incels/ misogynists' which is interesting because supposedly feminist want 'men to express themselves more' but than when they do they say stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:04 PM
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You are really into stats/ studies aren't you mate, why is that? is it part of your job?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:56 PM
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If you want to do that then why do you need TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:13 PM
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and if they only wanted sex they wouldn't pay OF creators/twitch streamers instead of real prostitutes I believe sexlessness is a symptom of a hyper sexual world, because people only want to sleep with the "best" people I don't think incels out here turning down puss because they have too much choice, I think the TRP exist because of the opposite because they have less choice I wonder how some people can get interpret same things in different ways, you're saying birth rates/ marriage is falling …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:05 PM
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If a woman openly call herself feminist without any context This but also I avoid the ones that label themselves 'strong,independent, who don't need no man' they are the female version of the nice guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:21 PM
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What kind of porn do you watch simeneta? 😏🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:13 PM
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we simply live in a time where being a man slut is more beneficial We deff don't, sexlessness among men's is higher than ever before but even still i think it's simplistic thinking that all men want is sex, if they did then prostitutes will solve all their problem, just look at this post, it gives you a general idea about what men want, I think you are being deluded if you think these dudes out here are not looking for looking for romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:10 PM
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I've seen more men say that wan't traditional relationships than not, but you're saying they don't, can you tell me what you think they want? I'm guessing they don't want to be in a relationship where they are the provider/ head of the household and woman stays home and looks after the children?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:36 PM
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That wasn't the point I was making aka being treated unfairly by people but more so of guys wanting for a traditional conservatism relationship because in general we can't force people to want a lifestyle that WE want, even if we could it wouldn't be worth it, it's just the reality. men wan't tradcon, women generally not, maybe we can pressure them, insult or beg them to change their mind but I'm deff not waiting on them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:45 PM
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Cheer up bud! (Y)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:32 PM
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for the first time someone actually goes through my post history to attack me I'm guessing you watch anime then? but no I did not go "through my post history" it was a joke but i'm guessing the shot fit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:20 PM
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Men want to feel needed and provide. I get what you're saying but this is just screaming 'i want/ i wish' for xxxxxx. men aren't JUST like that, men who had that probably made good living and was worthy of respect but men are wanting that end goal without putting in that value that was probably necessary at the time also my issue with these simplistic statements, its generalising and it looks at what is and not what HAS/SHOULD be, yes men want those things now but that's also because most men gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:15 PM
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Fair and whats steps have you taken to realize this goal of yours? since you clearly put a lot of thought in to it also another rule should if you watch anime you have to be at least 30 to have sex cause no one who watches that has any knowledge of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:08 PM
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Just those who hit on us Dw you will join that group of being old, and that will get less and less of that and then COMPLETELY stop by the time your 30 B)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:01 PM
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Age is just like a social construct man, as the kids today say it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:59 PM
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So let me ask you this: do dads want their 20 year old daughters dating men closer to dad's age? Do dad's want their daughters to be pornstars/onlyfans creators?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:46 PM
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Hey man age is just a social construct..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:43 PM
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Exactly the same with female ceo's if women were natural leaders their would be lot more of them! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:42 PM
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if your extremely young daughter was dating a male in his 40s We would also be extremely upset if our daughter we raised from infancy also becomes a prostitute but they do, regardless of how we raise them, so there's not much to do tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:35 PM
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I disagree with that conclusion but it goes back to my first point, feminism being bad doesn't make tradcod good, I don't just say that coz i have a vendetta against them, it's just logic and this is coming someone whose mindset for majority of my life was ALL tradcon. still this is the schism that severs me from MRA, knowing such a large part of MRA are just tradcon men, but i've made my peace with that.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 11:12 PM
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My issue is taking these labels too literally and using it as insults, like 'he/she is feminist/marxist' really doesn't add anything to any discourse because the opposition will always return with same childish retorts like 'tradcuck', who wins in that debate? Besides i've seen people claim those labels but act completely the opposite for example women who don't 'identify' as feminists but believe in all their talking points, also tradcon relationships where men are the leaders but their wives m…
/r/MensRights22/07/21 09:48 PM
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Interesting someone else commented the exact same thing but I hope it is just the lesser of two evils than actually people opting for that, which I have a belief and a strong fear, of which this post confirmed for me.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 09:31 PM
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Fair enough thought from what I understand, is that feminism, is just the natural conclusion of tradcon ideals, so I'm not sure how much faith I have in it for the future
/r/MensRights22/07/21 09:29 PM
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Overall I don't believe tradcon is a good alternative to feminism that most conservatives believe it to be
/r/MensRights22/07/21 11:25 AM
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Feminism being bad doesn't make tradcon a good idea! so If those numbers are accurate (which in my experience seems so) then MRM has a big problem, because tradcon is inherently anti-mra, though many will say 'tradcons are not like that' if it doesn't fit everyone that's the trend we can see regardless of 'snowflakes' in the community I hate that mra has become synonymous with conservatism, it really will not not grow the movement, since conservatism = traditional ideals and not men's rights. fo…
/r/MensRights22/07/21 11:24 AM
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Obese men are a turn off to women Dad bods do exist and according to stats they are PREFERRED, while the opposite of 'mom bod' no man will say is his preference, so that works in our favour, now that doesn't mean guys will get away with necessarily being morbidly obese but it DOES mean that there's greater margin of attraction for us ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:28 PM
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I don't really want to climb on top of an obese man. You CAN and WILL!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:21 PM
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Half their battle is their shit personality though Okay what about 99% of feminists and their only personality trait is being a feminist and how much of a victim they are and how much they are constant oppressed by men and patriarchy, is that an attractive quality!? that seems to be the 99% of modern women's mindset is that any better than incels who have vendettas against females??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:14 PM
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You being male means you're going to be dismissive of views that don't align to your narrow misogynist perspective Well would you look at that I guess we're both even in that sense than haha your black and white red pill nonsense Oh man those are a lot of pills >.< Men are the majority of abusers, check your #s Those are just accounted numbers, as you know men don't know how to 'express ourselves' as the feminists might say lol (of which women don't seem to have any issue with, maybe they're too…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:48 PM
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It depends entirely on the intentions of said joke First of all I don't think it was an organized 'joke' it was clearly something was just carried by women who thought they were being particularly edgy and not for a specific end goal Still in extremely poor taste, though. Yeah it usually is 'poor taste' AFTER the backlash and people doing damage control but all in all whatever its purpose/intention was lost in translation and it became an ammo for the mra to use against women/feminist, so make o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:48 PM
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"Kill all men" is a very distasteful joke You're making excuses "it was just a joke bro" imagine all the things we can get away with if we use that excuse Like how does that make it any less harmful? Women don't kill men at nearly the rates that men kill women. No but they try to kill themselves more often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:45 PM
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You being female means you're going to be more sensitive to info that pertains your group this as well as cognitive dissonance, the world isn't as clear cut as your claire magazines/ feminist blogs will inform you But the exact numbers are arbitrary between the genders, for example for domestic violence you, conventional wisdom will tell you its majority men who are abusing but the actual numbers are not that one sides if i remember correctly its 25-20 instances, which isn't that much and this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:14 PM
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Yeah and those sentiments were there before the catchy slogan too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:00 PM
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Well in general the whole sexual movement, it's very polarizing, on one hand sex is meaningless and impersonal where you can bang as man guys as you like without affecting you're desirability but sex is also this huge thing, where if it was had with differing context, it becomes violating because 1 partner thought they were owed a relationship because of said sex.. there are many other instances but I can think from the top of my head as i'm a bit busy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah in the words of Simon Cowell.. its going to be a resounding NO from me!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/21 03:50 PM
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And I'm sure you'd have contempt for said IG males if they started a movement to not sexualize them at the same time being as sexual as possible and get validation/ profit off of sexualizing themselves too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:03 PM
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Based on what I've seen on tiktok The phenomenon of spewing contempt for influencers and e-thots seems to only be directed at women, not men. Firstly yeah what YOU seen and secondly I've seen women make sexual remarks regarding males which in reverse by men i've seen get called out But this is an interesting take on equality, if you think both men and women have some propensity for flaws I was stating that the hate goes both way but you have to interject and say unequivocally that attacks go one…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:59 PM
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white American men are the most doting, 'happy wife happy life' That's interesting for someone to say as I am neither of things (white/american) but I agree, are you white yourself? but also side note I think there's huge correlation between these kinds of men and the size of feminism in that environment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:42 PM
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Yeah 'Kill all men' messaging will do that for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:44 PM
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Just because you don't attack e-boys doesn't mean others don't, like you for a lot of women guy who is interested in his looks/appearance has a very repulsion effect on lot of women, if i maybe even more specific guys with long hair.. woman supposedly being less shallow/ stereotype less. this is true even if the majority don't vocalize it, that's a double standard no one talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:34 PM
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Thanks, don't think I asked you just to be rude, it's just that plenty of people make very wild claims online, so I had to be sure! Also does this mean parenting isn't important since they don't have any impact on there future choices..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:35 AM
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Yeah this whole post was complete fantasy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:19 AM
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Around the time a child starts to go to school, non-shared environment becomes a stronger predictor of behavior than shared environment. What's your source for this claim stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:17 AM
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Damn that was a lot of character development in one thread...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/21 03:30 PM
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Slutty and classy are not mutually exclusive Yes in the same way as virginity and promiscuity are not mutually exclusive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:25 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QVibtTjReu4
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:15 AM
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Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:03 AM
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oh yeah divorced with multiple kids will get just as many high value men pursuing her... get real lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:56 AM
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Damn we got ourselves a regular Pierce Brosnan over here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:46 AM
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29 years.. you say, as in 29 years ago... in modern parlance that may as well been century ago old timer... but I wonder what brings certain people on here, I have seen your name pop up more than once too, are you divorced? There is no right or wrong way to start a relationship that is universal. and yeah there are hundreds of wrong ways to start a relationship aka lying cheating deceiving to list many
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:42 AM
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Yeah i wasn't really talking TO you rather through you and yeah those are great but human relations ARE never that simple, especially concerning matters of women and sex and how they view it/ relates to themselves. my point regardless if it relates exactly to yours or not is the view on sex has become so hot and cold, which is something directly caused by feminism, I get it if they were only trying to 'normalize' it but somehow they managed to do the opposite in the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:38 AM
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We live in such polarising times where sex on one hand is the mostly impersonal and is completely meaningless but on the other is also of the most importance/personal at the same time like what everyone is describing here, I guess that is one of the outcomes of fourth wave feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:07 PM
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"he'll come over to watch you fold clothes" why are women so corny on this page but its funny how its always the women who decide the threshold of sex aka when its too much/ not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:01 PM
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Woahh check out James Bond over here.. I think some respect would be lost if she shows lack of discernment aka banging a group of guys she met without any protection/ or blowing the uber guy without knowing his name, i'd certainly raise an eyebrow at the least yk but then again that might be because i'm a lower tier/ no options guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:39 PM
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Seeing this and all your replies to others, clearly this is like a job to you, I suppose you think tell someone their experiences, but its funny women like who seem to be in all men's talking points trying to add 'nuances' but you're quiet on women's talking points e.g when women call out men with 'Men are **** they always do *****' and when women are called out the same it's no women don't do that, most women are this, they look for that.. They have no game and would rather follow the path of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:19 PM
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Yes we are saving ourselves, you have no idea how hard it is for me to bat away these women all the time who keep trying to steal my man milk lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:36 PM
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But if women don't have casual sex, then how are men like you supposed to get casual sex? It's the inequality, same as for feminists, even now at peak of promiscuity majority of men aren't getting sex only a few are, the majority of the women are having sex with the small pool of men, 'casual sex' don't benefit the casual men, the statistics do point to that conclusion and besides I'm sure majority of men would prefer relationships, I think the men that you're thinking of are the small pool of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:21 PM
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What makes you say that? I disagree, I think guys find about 80% of women attractive while women only find 20% men attractive, so i think it's more likely other way round? > Average looking dudes can get casual sex fairly easily Hmm do tell me the process... i've been looking for awhile and it definitely hasn't seemed 'fairly easy'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:10 PM
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Yeah and where I am see plenty of women who are working higher paid jobs, having relationships, living their life even fat and ugly ones, does this mean Feminism will stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:02 PM
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Fr this man just fixed the incel problem with just 1 post.. they should give him the Nobel peace prize tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:59 AM
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Wow this man just fixed the incel problem with just 1 post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:58 AM
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And you do realize that women don’t care how they are painted I mean the whole point i'm making is that women do is for validation from strangers online... so you could not be more wrong, if women didn't care they wouldn't be on this sub everyday arguing, esp the high female earners lol I don’t think nor did I ever say that all men are trash, rapist or that we should kill them all Not really you but don't believe this to be the public sentiment? how women are scared to go out because of men? etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:56 AM
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Everyone likes to be desired or wanted, that’s not “needed,” I hope you know none of that paints women in any better light, "needing" or "wanting", is it any more respecting for grown women to show/shake their ass like baboons for validation?? I don't see men doing the same since everybody likes to be desired!? Men now are wanted like women have been for ages This doesn't explain anything, for as much "as all men are trash/rapists/ kill all men" or similar sentiments you would think women would …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:43 PM
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Well as much as there are onlyfans girls there are just as many women who are saying porn is wrong and should be banned/ attacking men for watching porn, so yeah that adds to also the fact that same women will say don't like other girls photos online, its just a double standard too either way this was a low energy post and adds nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:31 PM
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Hmm then why do women post their bodies all the time on SM more than anything else, even it has nothing to do with money, I don't think it's as simple as not wanting validation, then what would explain their constant need for improving their looks/body also in a vacuum maybe but in today's world if women just 'wanted' men. I would think they wouldn't be with men, especially if men are rapists/murderers/abusive even so it doesn't change women still being with men.. so idk..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:21 PM
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Onlyfans women with baggage/drama looking for CEO's you hate to see it overall standard of women has gone lower while their demands get higher and you hate to see it more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:32 PM
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Also interesting that women can preference for shy/timid as well as outgoing/ extrovert but a man's option should only be "strong independent woman who speaks her mind ctrl+v" otherwise he is looking for subservient/submissive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:18 PM
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If lines are not drawn then what's the limit? a woman who partakes in risky promiscuous unprotected sex shows lack of discernment as well as the lack of or worse chance for pair bonding, which I believe if a woman has 100+ body count And if we REALLY go deeper we can say a man is insecure if she wants to have sex during the relationship or hell even on your bed while she's next to you.. so idkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:09 PM
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Not being virgin isn't the same as having a community pussy/unlimited risky sexual behaviours like unprotected sex with strangers though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:04 PM
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Low n-count isn't a miracle. So EXTREMELY high it was ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 11:39 AM
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Personally I try to avoid name calling when it comes to discourses regardless of how the opposition behaves but those menslib guys, oooof they are some piece of work, I get detaching yourself from labels (gender) to look at gender dynamics more objectively but those guys have gone so far removed from it that I don't even know if they know what or who their fighting for anymore.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:32 AM
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Which isn't a bad thing. Equality is equality Agreed, I hope this is doesn't become a call to 'go back to' anything, regardless of how 'bad' it gets for either side, we're too far in now They laid their beds now they have to lie in it!!
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:29 PM
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I see it but I also see articles by women themselves proclaiming that men are not good enough for them.. you know how men not earning enough/educated enough somehow seems to affect women the most... so idk....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:22 PM
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And then there's the whole issue of all the founding mothers of feminism being either 1) open pedophiiles who want it and bestiality legalised (Germane Greer, Andrea Dworkin etc) These are strong accusations, do you have anything where I can read up on this, it's not that I disagree but if I wish to use this same point I don't want my source to be 'he said/she said' type of thing
/r/MensRights16/07/21 02:34 PM
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“I don’t want a woman who is career focused because I don’t want that lifestyle and stress and prefer someone who wants to prioritize family.” "aka you wan't a woman who is a incubator" which is one i hear OFTEN these days but yeah I wish there was a bit of nuance here, regardless whatever or however he states his preferences I don't imagine any woman saying 'Well that's great I hope you find the womanliest of all women and she does all those things for you also I didn't include like 95% of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:16 PM
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Forget that! I’ll take an average smart man any day. As long as he knows how to treat a woman, and is willing to try different things to make an effort to make me happy Funny I see more and more women post stuff like "you give an ugly guy a chance he does... " or "ugly guys just as bad" basically suggesting that she is dating someone for charity, this kinda shit makes me even more annoyed than women who are open about their standards than this sick mind game about "I love guys for their looks an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:40 AM
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Does your sick actually hang low when it is firm? Wouldn't you like to know weather boy..
/r/MensRights15/07/21 01:25 AM
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It’s not about money. I am glad I’m not married to a corporate climber. It’s soul sucking and turns people into sociopaths. I think this is interesting, I have similar feelings but I feel like it's taboo for a man to not want the same in a woman aka unless he wants a workaholic independent business woman than he wants an indentured servant, it feels like we're expected to date to support the feminist identity rather than for our wishes I make money coz i have to not coz i want to but I have to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:21 AM
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This post was useless you're not interested in helping anyone especially not men, you are more interested in prescribing feminism to others, which isn't a cure all to any problems in the world, honestly this was no better than religious people knocking on every door and trying to force their religion down their throats, so why are you so interested in 'converting' is it a power thing to have males call themselves feminists??
/r/MensRights14/07/21 06:58 PM
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Why are you so obsessed with us subscribing to a title, for people who don't like 'labels' us men to identify as such especially one that's so polarizing as FEMinism are you saying we can do all the things you mentioned without donning the title, if not then screw you and your whole ideology we don't want your conditional help.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 06:52 PM
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Thanks Drake
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:36 PM
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then explain womens sports? wnba, soccer? I think its funny... i'd like to see more women like you in feminist/female subs like twoxchromo sub calling out them for the hate/blame they constantly put on men, but women won't let men have their say even though they have 13m plus followers but its always "But they are blaming women"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:19 PM
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Ahhh man i didn't realise going to the park was such slutfest... 1 sec.. i'm racing my way there RN
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:14 PM
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Hey thanks for the support man, i needed that motivation will deff post!
/r/MensRights14/07/21 04:50 PM
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A bit tongue in cheek but catchy.. I love it thanks man!!
/r/MensRights14/07/21 04:45 PM
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Well, I lost two students to this war I'm not sure what you mean by this tbh but I feel for you, coming from a tough place, I can relate to that myself as I came from a 3rd world country but I'm glad you're bettering yourself and while also trying to advocate for men's issues too I think what the guys here are having issues is your appeal to women's feelings ahead of men's issues itself but I don't think you're deliberately trying to do that tho I believe our best shot at being heard is playing …
/r/MensRights14/07/21 12:41 PM
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Thanks brother, will give it a go
/r/MensRights14/07/21 12:13 PM
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this whole post was a mess tbh I dont know what answers you epxected, not in good faith either way but ill bite, my answer which goes along with my other replies.... respect! thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:04 AM
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Feminism only exists because too many men ignore our needs Even if EVERY single need was met, I don't see a reality where feminism doesn't exist at this point, it will create new struggles/needs to justify its own existence, this is facts! Don't you think TTPP?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:00 AM
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If you're not in support of marriage or nuclear families or men staying to support their own sons, not sure what dismantling feminism will do about male dereliction. What are if not abandonment of these ideals if not by feminists who promote single mother lifestyles aka you can do it ALL/ you don't need no man.. at the same time devaluing the fathers role aka "special persons day" aka celebrating mothers on fathers day, there are many instances of this you would not see because it does NOT affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:50 AM
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less std's though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:33 AM
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Complete and total control of procreation, women have options before aka multiple contraceptives as well as adding the man use contraceptives and pulling out, during pregnancy she can abort without any reason, after birth she can give up the baby without anyone elses consent due to safe haven laws, the man doesn't have any say in this more so that he can't opt of our pregnancy when its out there, esp which might not be planned or even be coercion/ poke holes condom, which also include him being …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:24 AM
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good to know and now you're here in the gutters of the internet, mentally you're probably no better than anyone else here since you're here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:30 AM
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Yes you seem like a person who wouldn't use that as a catch all response for any time she hears something she doesn't like or anything that does not conform to her very narrow female sensibilities right, surely not! ​ Ooop I just realised I i became a misogynist while typing this :S
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:19 AM
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Ayy welcome to the party man, take a seat :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:16 AM
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I too get your position and understand where your coming from, I think you may not get the reception you want here, you might even get some hate but it does seem like your heart is in the right place, I am advocating for a similar cause though not exactly the same execution but overall its for men to come together and for us build up from the ground/ start from scratch in defining what it is to be a man and what isn't etc I think we will get lot more out of that then 1000 years of arguing with f…
/r/MensRights14/07/21 12:12 AM
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Though I agree i'm not sure how much we can separate feminism from women a LOT of women may not identify with the title but make no mistake they're ideals align EXACTLY with feminism, there are those that may fall outside that definition and but overall I like to operate with in the idea that all women are feminists, i feel like for me that's the safest bet tbh but I'm not advocating for everyone else to feel the same tho!
/r/MensRights14/07/21 12:00 AM
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and that's coming from a place of female sexual dating privilege i hope you can at least accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:24 PM
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well.. any proposal to fix it?
/r/MensRights13/07/21 10:50 PM
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It's a shame tho this same view isn't held for female/feminist related subs where they spew equally narrow posts related to men, interesting that!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:31 PM
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what a weird comment from a weird guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:28 PM
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What happened to them and why didn't they work out? is it related to them being independent and you being dependent on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:27 PM
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A gross or scary guy you don’t want is not an option It can also be said that women's standards be high tbh.. in a poll it said that women only found 20% of men attractive and the rest were 'gross' i guess which is interesting when women always talk inner beauty/ beauty standards/ the personality is whats important etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:06 PM
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We offer companionship and partnership is it free and is it not reciprocal? and even if it was one sided i believe the cost of that is nagging/ stress and more nagging too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:44 PM
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Honestly this is the best/ most reasonable take here, it doesn't even seem like an MRA take in itself tbh but more a general one the problem with this sub (and communicating online in general) is that it seems so transient, people post anonymously and go, there's no building and pooling of knowledge I guess I'm writing this because I'm working on creating a youtube channel and made this account to gather perspectives of people who partake in mra discussions, such as yourself and wanted to find o…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 09:18 PM
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