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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	A primer of sorts on understanding and healing from sexual violence	STRATEGY	UnabashedCalabash	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 03:11 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Would you help a female in danger? Are you…being sarcastic? I certainly hope so :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 10:28 PM
40	Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers" They have crippling low self-esteem.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 03:10 PM
13	Why... are men ??? 🤢😳 I cried telling a man I was dating about my sexual abuse, and he then proceeded to get aroused and sexually abuse me, then blamed me for it (I dissociated, he screamed at me “why didn’t you stop me?!”) Somehow or another I didn’t think this was a massive red flag (I know, I know, I was broken), stayed in a relationship with the guy, and surprise to surprise he turned out to be an abusive rapist loser creep. Never, ever, ever, ever stick around for a guy who finds crying or stories of sexual abus…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 05:12 PM
16	I've also been compared to having "steak " every day and other objects that grow old or boring I also would not tell men my sexual history with regard to personal behavior because it’s none of their business, was trauma-caused mainly, and I don’t have casual sex anymore and have no STDs or children. I do have to tell a potential partner my trauma history, to make sure he would be sensitive to it. If I get the impression he would judge women for sleeping around after going through what I’ve gone through I wouldn’t date him either...I wouldn’t want to date someone like that, plus I do write…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 07:53 PM

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