UnabsolvedGuilt Archive

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2	Q4women would you date a trans guy? That’s fair! Always game in reflecting on your thought process, but the pedantry in this app is so exhausting that I don’t have the patience for it lol. Just blocked and move on	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 02:00 PM
1	Q4women would you date a trans guy? I was also baited into arguing with that person until I clicked the pfp and saw the post history in Schizoid. This is not someone to engage in an argument with, whatever they are responding to in their head is not what anyone is actually typing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 07:49 AM
–	Q4women would you date a trans guy? That is definitional pedantry and you have been pedantic multiple times in this thread. I was never making any claims about what ontologically defines “man”. YOU are the one who inserted that when my logic never had anything to do with defining man, it was explicitly about heterosexual women’s attractions to male genitalia that again YOU were disingenuously pretending not to understand by bringing up growing beards and removing breasts. “Do you think men who can’t grow beards or have gynecomasti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 07:44 AM
3	Man hating art I found on Pinterest part 7 What am I or anyone else supposed to think about that? It doesn’t brand itself as a vent sub even tho that’s what a lot of the posts are and it just makes for a toxic cesspool that Reddit as a platform is not interested in banning. You not taking it seriously doesn’t mean it isn’t a serious thing… 2.5 million members is no small feat dude Even on /AskMen and most other subs marketed to men, vent posts about women that include what are considered sexist will always get pushback from OTHER men. Th…	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/03/26 04:13 AM
3	Man hating art I found on Pinterest part 7 I think I made my edit right after you replied if you want to look at that last paragraph Regarding this point, it is a misandry sub because they do not moderate it despite the appearance of moderating it. I’m certain you’ve seen other subs that passively allow things if you regularly use this platform; I don’t think you’re being honest when comparing it to MensRights because you can test it out yourself, make an outright misogynistic post on there and it will get deleted by a mod, you will be r…	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/03/26 04:00 AM
4	Man hating art I found on Pinterest part 7 TwoX is rampant with misandry so I think that’s a good example “Dude women are things and misogyny gone wild have an insane amount of members” Those are porn subs. You have to he more intellectually honest to make this point. All porn subs by nature of what they are, are generally niche and not representative whatsoever of the broader platform culture. NSFW has different standards for moderation and are not what is usually part of the convo when talking about what the platform from a high level …	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/03/26 03:52 AM
5	Man hating art I found on Pinterest part 7 Ngl this is the worst counter argument you could make. Misogyny gets subreddits takedown down, there are well known misandrists subs that never get moderated against by the platform	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/03/26 03:22 AM
5	Q4women would you date a trans guy? This type of pedantry is why stereotypes about Redditors exist. No, a man losing his penis or having a micropenis does not make him less of a man. That is absolutely irrelevant to straight women being attracted to penises. You’re on a debate sub reasoning like a 14 year old. Beyond childish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 10:02 PM
1	Q4women would you date a trans guy? You are being pedantic. Growing beards and having their beasts removed is not a priority when ftm ppl never have good alternatives for a penis and balls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 07:06 PM
1	Q4women would you date a trans guy? I think they’d both matter to most heterosexuals lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 07:02 PM
6	Jack Denmo False Accusation Led To 3 Years In Jail This entire story is crazy. She got caught lying to police multiple times and he was still convicted	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 06:26 PM
6	How come whenever men mention being s*xually assaulted, people always have to bring up that women are "assaulted more often" and try to downplay mens assaults instead of just being supportive? A lot of the women that would say fgm is worse are the mothers who allow their boys to be mutilated by doctors because of “culture” and hygiene or whatever. It’s the empathy gap at play, they care less about the same things when men are harmed more. That is the same reason you will never see feminists talking about homelessness in absolute numbers; if women are underrepresented in urban homeless populations- they will advocate for women’s only shelters and nothing for the 70% of homeless people …	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 06:11 PM
3	How come whenever men mention being s*xually assaulted, people always have to bring up that women are "assaulted more often" and try to downplay mens assaults instead of just being supportive? Interesting, considering you are literally doing the thing of bringing up women being assaulted to downplay male victims in this thread.	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 06:07 PM
9	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s These ppl cannot help but be dishonest. Imagine you said men get stabbed and brutally murdered in comparison to women getting harassed to down it the same way the other guy did. The only time murder is ever downplayed to this extent is in the context of male victims btw. Then to say “women also get attacked and mugged…” as if men aren’t also victimised by those exact same things. Most rape in general is not a result of stranger violence for as much you’d believe with all the talk of women being …	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 05:49 PM
14	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s I would love to see the answer to this to see if there is any internal consistency. The exact same logic used with provable stats, does this justify the general statement that children are not safe around women- or will there be some sort of rationale to make it still men’s faults 🤔	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 05:44 PM
6	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s 100% that is what you’re insinuating. Why even bring it up as a point of comparison otherwise.	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 05:41 PM
9	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s This is what trying to argue without a purpose looks like. You SHOULD contextualise your stats in their countries for a lot of reasons, but primarily bc government reporting is the main reason some of this information even exists- and the US has some solid institutions for peer review and validating methodology that does not always exist for numbers from other countries. It’s not about discounting global stats, it is just not useful to use them in a conversation like this for a variety of reason…	/r/MensRights	27/03/26 02:48 PM
10	What % of deadbeat dads are due to parental alienation caused by the mother? You can take that one step over, a lot of occupied French women married Nazis bc they have very self protective instincts and would rather acclimate to evil than die for their beliefs the way they expect men to. Yet the only thing feminists have to say about that is saying it’s “unfair” how those women were shamed to try to make them out to be victims of men, when the “men” in question are literal nazis. If you can’t stand up to that, what do you stand for	/r/MensRights	26/03/26 12:41 AM
21	What % of deadbeat dads are due to parental alienation caused by the mother? I always say this, you can tell someone’s being dishonest when they refuse to acknowledge the contradictions in their logic. Try to have a conversation with feminists about domestic abuse propagated by women, and they will write it ALL off as reciprocal and claim the men are always initiating (not true). They know they’re lying and that is the only way dumb narratives like this are allowed to exist online- they straight up do not acknowledge that many women will be awful and vindictive when brea…	/r/MensRights	25/03/26 08:39 PM
33	I would advise not to use the "black on black crime" gotcha as a response to feminists bringing up statistics about men being violent. I get the point you’re making, but is it not a good thing to draw that distinction for the explicit purposes of highlighting how racist a lot of radfem talking points are? It’s hardly a gotcha when they do believe those things, imo it’s good to make ppl bite the bullets if their belief systems bc if they refuse to then the cognitive dissonance is easier for everyone else to witness	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/26 01:08 PM
1	"Elevator Pitch" for the Men's Rights Movement - Thoughts? Yep just saw it, direct and invites good questions. Brevity is everything with elevator pitches, yours has that punchiness that I think OP indirectness may have lacked. Could def be a bit longer, but as a short statement that does get straight to the point	/r/MensRights	25/03/26 04:16 AM
2	"Elevator Pitch" for the Men's Rights Movement - Thoughts? I respect your effort but I agree w this comment’s sentiments, and that is also not nearly brief enough for an elevator pitch. You can shorten it a bit to serve the purpose of an at a glance explanation, all this current version does is invite open-ended questions imo	/r/MensRights	24/03/26 08:20 PM
7	Some Brigerton fans are r@pe apologists. R@pe is fine if it's a man living in the 19th century Jesus	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/03/26 05:28 PM
9	I see an increased amount of "white men" being used as a categorisation on here Could you link one of those posts you are directly referring to? Not that I doubt it happens, but race and intersectionality is relevant to gender imo so the way it’s being used would signal more of an issue than it just being used. I’ve seen the exact same thing you’re saying in feminist spaces where some critique the use of white woman, saying that it excuses misogyny by positioning the gender aspect to be less important than the race, so people will use their race as a proxy to attack their g…	/r/MensRights	23/03/26 08:48 PM
6	Is this rape? Maybe not legally, but colloquially that is def under the umbrella of what we call rape. If ever in that situation and it’s hard for a lot of men to use that word because they are not trying to imply or even accuse their girlfriends of being rapists bc that has the moral loading of violence and malice that may not be present in these coercive situations It is rape but I wish we had more developed language for this type of rape because the word itself has so much moral loading. I don’t think most…	/r/MensRights	23/03/26 08:17 PM
1	We all heard about made up pay gap, why nobody talks about real issue of the tax gap? Gotcha, ty for patience	/r/MensRights	22/03/26 08:01 AM
1	We all heard about made up pay gap, why nobody talks about real issue of the tax gap? Last question and I’ll leave it here and accept that I may just not be connecting the dots, I understand what you are saying that men live for a shorter amount of time after retirement than it seems women do… how does that connect to the original argument you brought it up in? Like is the point to say that the existence of a pay gap (assuming it does exist in the way you define) is not a problem due to being offset by the fact that men will generally die sooner?	/r/MensRights	22/03/26 06:57 AM
1	We all heard about made up pay gap, why nobody talks about real issue of the tax gap? I may actually be stupid because I’m struggling to understand, but in the last paragraph are you just saying that retirement age for men is actually low for men considering life expectancies?	/r/MensRights	22/03/26 06:24 AM
1	We all heard about made up pay gap, why nobody talks about real issue of the tax gap? Just curious, what is the last point about retirement age to life expectancy relevant to- or ig what are you trying to connect it to in this convo	/r/MensRights	21/03/26 10:42 PM
10	Man hating comment under a video completely unrelated to men “Ever notice how women are prejudiced and encourage discrimination” is what she’s actually saying btw. Backhanded compliment if you can even call it that	/r/EverydayMisandry	21/03/26 09:34 PM
9	Sexual assault by women Ah, I’ve been trolled	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 11:10 PM
11	Sexual assault by women Scary. That’s why these beliefs matter to discuss instead of all being accepted as normal, I would never have married my wife if she described herself as a feminist like that	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 11:09 PM
21	Sexual assault by women It’s happened before so a warranted fear, glad that is not your case though	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 10:49 PM
26	Sexual assault by women Been there brother. I’ve talked abt my own experiences openly once in a men’s group years back and have never rlly said it plainly to my wife, sometimes it feels like my memories are rewriting themselves and I struggle to know what was a dream and what was real. Everyone knows the type of damage this causes in a person and it wasn’t until very recently that I was able to get a psychiatrist and therapist and started working on making things better for myself, but I was unwilling to do so in the p…	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 10:37 PM
1	Why Is It Legit for Girls to Invade Men's Bathrooms and Film Everything? Legally I don’t think so bc you can press charges for that I think that doordasher recording the nude man in his home sleeping is a good example of that. A lot of noise online gross people who will always other women no matter how wrong, but the narrative quickly shifted when the law got involved. The law (and government broadly) is a reflection of the people’s will to some degree, and I do think most people are in favour of punishing that behaviour	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 10:31 PM
97	Sexual assault by women Block that common-reindeer person, they were wrong for that response and we all know it. No need to engage with blatant psychopaths like that	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 10:10 PM
25	Sexual assault by women What a disgusting response to that question.	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 10:07 PM
2	I Think We Strayed Away I will reply to the full thing when I get a chance but that last paragraph caught my eye: “Last thing...you sound like that one guy who defended Trump's pro-crime behaviour because he said "we are past that point", you are just outright believing in tribalism and want the other side "destroyed". You have no difference to the conservatives who have no pleasure in life other than to "own the libs".” I am “the libs” here. You are disingenuous as fuck for that and you know it, gtfoh with that nonsen…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/26 09:36 PM
2	I Think We Strayed Away Yeah I read the replies and it seems like boring concern trolling.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/26 07:26 PM
3	I Think We Strayed Away I’ve read EVERY reply and comment on this post. There is no “we” here if you are only superficially aligned with the left, and don’t seem to care about principally left leaning stances without pretending all the problems exclusively come from conservatives, or obfuscate the root of certain problems as if feminism or other left leaning movements have never held structural power. You are choosing to define male systemic discrimination as non systemic and making an arbitrary distinction between cul…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/26 07:21 PM
6	I Think We Strayed Away The first post by the cup of milk guy is 100% ai generated. They are definitely a dissent bot, not sure abt the others	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/03/26 06:49 PM
1	TIL why autistic men have it so much harder indeed, while reading "The assertive woman" by Bloom/Coburn/Pearlman from 1975. Non-assertive men are interpreted in a very malicious way, further encouraging aggressive and dominant behaviours while activly punishing sensible characters. Copy paste and add > in front Testing	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 11:58 PM
1	TIL why autistic men have it so much harder indeed, while reading "The assertive woman" by Bloom/Coburn/Pearlman from 1975. Non-assertive men are interpreted in a very malicious way, further encouraging aggressive and dominant behaviours while activly punishing sensible characters. How do you guys quote things w indentation like that? Can I do it on mobile? Will just refer to your paragraphs by numbers instead of quoting cause a lot of work to copy and paste, so thank you for spacing them out like that 1&2 - I mean I don’t have anything uniquely against feminism that I would apply to every framework bc I think the type of ideological possession it seems you’re expressing (for lack of better word, not sure how else to articulate that thought) is a dangerous way of thinking …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 10:44 PM
2	TIL why autistic men have it so much harder indeed, while reading "The assertive woman" by Bloom/Coburn/Pearlman from 1975. Non-assertive men are interpreted in a very malicious way, further encouraging aggressive and dominant behaviours while activly punishing sensible characters. I disagree w a lot of your stated positions, but I love how you defended yourself here because I think you align much closer with the average person than what is portaged online. I’m certain most people who think themselves feminists are not really engaging with the collective as much as they are just using a label that they think conforms to philosophy they’re familiar with That opens up a whole separate can of worms abt the nature of belief and to what degree someone like you even ought to ali…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 08:13 PM
2	Have any of you actually struggled to find the clitoris? Welp it was removed so 🤷	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 09:18 AM
4	Have any of you actually struggled to find the clitoris? 100% thinking the same. Feels like a weird dating culture question and does not have anything to do with discussing egalitarianism	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/03/26 08:51 AM
3	I'm so beyond tired of hearing people say that I should get offline if I want to escape misandry. Misandry is online and offline in abundance. That person has been trolling in here for the months since I’ve joined, no clue why they have not been moderated against	/r/MensRights	14/03/26 07:44 AM
17	Men have to deal with unwanted sexual comments all the time, yet are treated as the problem if they speak out against it while also being told only women have to deal with being sexualized. I was just having this convo w a group of guy friends and one of them jokingly said he was a bit misandrist as a way of better a becoming feminist. I glad I vocally disagreed and pushed back in front of everyone to say that even they were being dishonest in the way feminists tend to by bending reality to fit sexist presumptions without critically examining them Does not matter whatsoever if they are left or right wing, straight women as a whole have a terrible engagement with sexual discourse wh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/26 04:26 PM
8	Little bit piss off Oh rlly? Didn’t know that	/r/MensRights	11/03/26 11:46 AM
2	Do bad actors make it harder for people to take men’s rights seriously? I don’t deny that you are thinking with good faith but this post still reads as concern trolling in a way that my mind is currently too tired to articulate	/r/MensRights	10/03/26 05:12 AM
1	“You Don’t Need a Vote to Raise Hell” Fantastic post!!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/03/26 06:19 AM
6	TV series or movie with male bashing and toxic feminism: do you drop it immediately or endure it for the good things of the show? Easy drop	/r/MensRights	09/03/26 01:41 AM
1	Why the hell should a guy nowadays consider marriage? Truthfully for tax and other legal benefits. It’s not a great deal straight up, and not a decision that can be made lightly	/r/MensRights	06/03/26 08:33 PM
2	Pre-Nup vs "Stash money away" Just another double standard.	/r/MensRights	02/03/26 01:53 AM
2	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. I see, thanks for explaining!	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 04:14 AM
2	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. Oh I didn’t know that’s how it works, thanks. Usually shows when there’s a deleted msg so I was confused by that notif	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 02:43 AM
1	Most women want Chad instead of good Guy? You regularly post about math but can’t understand sourcing your claims. Childish and pathetic, glad your post was removed	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 08:49 PM
12	Anti-Islam troll uploads video with misleading title, comments go as well as you would expect Racism and misandry are borderline inseparable when misandrists are desperate to find brown men to pin their animus on. I’m an atheist so it’s not my prerogative to defend Islam, but it is still extremely noticeable how South East Asian men always get the worst hate, even when the commenters are factually incorrect	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/02/26 06:41 PM
3	Most women want Chad instead of good Guy? My guy, you are smart enough to know to source your own data and to NOT rely on ai to confirm your biases for you. Thats not intellectually honest at all, low effort post	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 06:15 PM
3	Most women want Chad instead of good Guy? Google ai lol? Low quality borderline rage bait post, please do better	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 05:58 PM
2	What reforms to marriage & family law would you propose? Did you mean to say that to me? I would agree tho yeah, it is problematic imo the way governments are involved in marriage. Still, I can’t imagine a proper enough alternative system to propose	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 05:57 PM
2	What reforms to marriage & family law would you propose? This is a bit of a fanatical one but I think even if it means processes are longer, it should all be paid for by tax dollars so that the parties have free attorney representation. Having to pay thousands and ending up in years worth of debt just to get divorced is just crazy to me. So many people get financially crippled trying to deal w family courts and it is a tactic ppl with more financial support use against those with less, treating it as a war of attrition until the other party gets sick …	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 05:44 PM
5	What reforms to marriage & family law would you propose? Beautifully stated	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 05:41 PM
0	Questioning an old trope. I agree in principle it should be general nonviolent rhetoric, but in society as it currently exists I think it’s important for men to hear specifically not to hit women EVER- bc no matter correct you may be in the situation, you will only ever be punished for it. It will never be worth it, not even in self defense	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 05:20 PM
2	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. U/0cupofmilk I see notification of a reply but it doesn’t show when I click on it for some reason. Shows that you quoted my last sentence which I do stand on in case there was and contention abt that; the men’s rights movement is anti sexual discrimination and that includes misogyny	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 02:49 PM
11	The men's rights movement, likewise, isn't about criticism for the sake of criticism. Unless you have specific names to call out, this post is tantamount to concern trolling and serves no positive purpose outside of validating yourself. Stop being vague and criticise who you mean to criticise instead of generalising whilst talking abt how bad it is to generalise Like this entire paragraph, “Male advocates often lump all women into the category of feminism,- WHO says that? Feminism is obviously an ideology that someone would have to agree with to be a feminist, not defined by sex.…	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 01:48 PM
10	Comparing societal reactions to male vs female academic struggles Please be serious. You asked me directly to explain why I called you disingenuous, so I tried to explain in fully that I wasn’t doing that, then tried to reiterate so you weren’t misunderstanding my criticism of your original comment as a personal attack. I was engaging with what you said to clarify confusion, and that mess I’m just looking to argue? Whatever. Not here to change your mind, but I will still vocalise my dissent to make it clear to anyone reading that “The Responsibility falls on o…	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 08:46 PM
9	Comparing societal reactions to male vs female academic struggles I don’t think YOU are being disingenuous, it’s the talking point specifically that is disingenuous bc there is a lot of assumptions being taken for granted when you make it about individual accountability to just be an autodidact. Criticising your ideas (more specifically your words) isn’t a judgment if your character or intentions, that is something people tend to get sidetracked on with online arguments- but your intentions don’t really matter as much as the salience of the actual point itself…	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 08:09 PM
8	Comparing societal reactions to male vs female academic struggles Completely disingenuous engagement unless you think there is literally never any value in social welfare systems. If people have predictable outcomes depending on factors like location and wealth, then no, it’s not as simple as saying the problem would be fixed by telling everyone to just pick up a book and read more. Takes for granted that you even know what to read for the sake of continued education and enrichment, considering a lot of high selling consumer lit is just porn.	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 06:44 PM
6	Women rate of pedophilia higher than men (looking for source) Ofc you would only comment abt men as if they even account for a majority of the problem, and not say anything abt how many women don’t even believe a female can rape a male- even when said female is 30 and said male is 16. Funny how that works, even when women are the literal perpetrators, the lack of social consequence must “male gooner mentality” and toxic masculinity, with the analysis just ending there.	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 06:00 PM
2	Feminists ignoring female predators and male victims Oh cool	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 05:47 PM
2	Feminists ignoring female predators and male victims Oh you’re good, what’s your native language?	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 05:28 PM
5	Feminists ignoring female predators and male victims I understand wanting to be careful of biases, but that doesn’t seem like critical thinking if the competition imposed by the other men is still for the purpose of attracting the best women- which it does tend to be It is generally true that across wealth brackets the majority of consumer household spending is done by women and not to a significant degree. You can claim that other men push each other into competing for high paying jobs sure, but what is the reward for it especially when most of t…	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/02/26 05:09 PM
1	Men bad and women good circlejerk from the reddit hivemind I get that point bc it would be inference to extrapolate from a city to larger society. I think you can reasonably infer from that type of hypothetical that no outside influence is built in, but either way I think you can reasonably make some claims isolated to big cities bc they are really societies of their own Like if this were to happen in New York City or Tokyo then even just isolated to those cities you would see significant behaviour changes worth talking abt since that type of violence i…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/02/26 05:11 PM
1	Men bad and women good circlejerk from the reddit hivemind That’s what I said though, his last reply wasn’t even a counter argument- he just made an accusation of misandry as an insult then blocked. If you are the previous person he replied to; your arguments were already clearly stated as I am choosing to engage with them in our other thread. Maybe the upvote system on Reddit makes people more sensitive to this, but blocking exists as a feature for a reason and can be used without any greater justification than they just don’t want to talk to you anymo…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/02/26 04:50 PM
2	Men bad and women good circlejerk from the reddit hivemind Ngl I don’t know why people say stuff like this online after being blocked. It’s not a moral positive or negative, it’s a feature that exists and should be used if the person doesn’t want to be replied to anymore since no one is entitled to a conversation It just is what it is, strange to jump an alt to make a comment abt that calling it immature as if you are owed being able to continue the convo imo. I don’t see what’s it have to do with maturity when his previous reply stopped engaging with t…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/02/26 04:29 PM
1	Men bad and women good circlejerk from the reddit hivemind Okay I get your counter claim, I have a refutation for it that might bridge the gap so lmk what you think The relevance in bringing up non-stranger violence was to substantiate his claim that women are also CAPABLE of mass violence. I don’t think it is explicitly stated in that comment but what he’s likely alluding to as a general men’s advocacy talking point is that societal violence is largely emergent and not innate to gender. For that claim, it matters to express how women can be violent too…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/02/26 04:24 PM
3	Men bad and women good circlejerk from the reddit hivemind What is the purpose of the argument here? As in how it relates to what the other commenters were saying I don’t think it’s disagreeable that stranger violence is more likely to come from a man, but stranger violence is generally not nearly as much of a problem as interpersonal violence and I think the was important to make as a counterpoint Not to mention we understand to a decent degree that bullying and violence expresses itself very differently between the sexes- with many of those cases of m…	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/02/26 09:59 AM
1	Why do they always resort to body shaming when calling out shitty men? Agreed	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/02/26 03:06 AM
-8	Can someone explain to me why the British mainstream media is SO obsessed with demonizing boys? Feminism is a European movement first and foremost and I feel like that does not get said nearly enough when Americans discuss it from a meaningfully different context. The UK, France, and Germany have had so many ideological revolutions from their centuries of history. Feminist narratives are built into their culture in a way that is absolutely taken for granted	/r/MensRights	21/02/26 04:14 PM
38	Why do they always resort to body shaming when calling out shitty men? Bc they are not principally opposed to it. Progressives women are ironically the most reactionary people you will ever meet if the topic is gender	/r/EverydayMisandry	21/02/26 03:33 AM
8	Men's Issues are invisible in discourse Perfect engagement with a bad faith actor, their comment was almost certainly ai generated as well	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/26 02:58 PM
12	Men's Issues are invisible in discourse Thanks for sharing	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/26 02:56 PM
25	Men's Issues are invisible in discourse They completely understand too, they’re just dishonest bc they need to be to justify themselves and their actions. I would not have ever learned of class dynamics and intersectionality had it not been for leftists and feminists, if it suits them they can and will provide amazing analyses breaking down social structures and dynamics understand the parts as well as the whole, but when it doesn’t suit them they turn into proto-conservatives who all believe in gender essentialism and regressive blac…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/26 02:45 PM
4	Look at how virtue signalling falls apart Agreed. I’ve only ever experienced truly malicious biphobia from women, femcels also seem to be very comfortable with racism in ways that’s masked by other groups	/r/MensRights	17/02/26 03:28 AM
6	Why isn't there an ideology or political/social movement for men? The patriarchal system harms us the most. It places an unbearable burden on men's shoulders. Feminism is a system that tries to correct the part of the patriarchal system that harms women. There is no ideology that defends us. Perfectly stated	/r/MensRights	11/02/26 06:05 PM
16	I hate that you can’t talk about misandry in leftist spaces That’s the joke, many of these spaces are hardly even leftist. Popular online feminism is very reactionary and regressive	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/01/26 02:12 PM
29	“It’s a women’s space” until a feminist has critiques of male spaces. I’ve observed and thought abt this as well, and I think it’s largely bc (regardless of why) men and women just use language differently. In those examples, the women are hardly ever trying to have a dialogue- they instead try to express and signal disgust bc they know it’ll galvanise enough women and male sympathisers to shout down the opposition and prevent the dialogue from being had. Esp in online spaces, you have to be hyper aware of bad faith engagement from someone looking for a gotcha to …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/12/25 02:21 PM
7	The most common bad faith responses from feminists, explained. Great post, will come back to read this again	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/12/25 07:23 AM
8	Call it sexism There are many reasons to disagree with this, but just as a matter of utility- there is value in having narrowly defined terms for abstract concepts. Like it is a good thing to use the word misandry instead of sexism when talking abt something like the draft, saying it’s blanketedly sexist just allows for narratives to be spun to obfuscate the issue and suddenly we have politicians talking abt how women are victimised more in war then men are. Language is a tool, without the ability to communica…	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/12/25 06:51 PM
4	No You’re Not It’s interesting because I understand the arguments on a logical level, but what bothers me is the real-world applications of these thoughts. It just makes it so that people who are objectively better off put off or never had kids, and most kids will continue being born to poor families anyway cause it’s not like they have access to this info. It’s troubling for future generations and what the economy is going to be like after the boomers are fully gone. Not the it’s necessarily anyone’s respons…	/r/EverydayMisandry	15/12/25 09:32 PM
1	Why would men want girlfriends if they didn’t like women? It is.	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/12/25 06:09 PM
12	Thousands of German students take to the streets to protest the possible return of Conscription The irony is that “adhering to ideology and ignoring reality” is literally what you’re doing in your claims here, you just think your ideologies are just enough to supersede anyone else’s perspective	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/12/25 08:50 PM
10	Thousands of German students take to the streets to protest the possible return of Conscription There is no reason to attribute being an inherent protector or virtuousness to gender, this is just repackaged reactionary thinking. Idky you would expect anything other than disagreement with this sub when our contention is with gender essentialism in any form, even seemingly positive. Benevolent sexism is sexism, and if the material reality of your “virtue” ethics is the continued attitude of politicians treating men as expendable tools of war, you should acknowledge that too instead of preten…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/12/25 08:49 PM
15	According this new finding: A majority of GenZ, Millennial, and politically conservative men agree that "men are more discriminated against in hiring decisions than women." For damn sure. Makes genuinely no sense to be a male feminist imo, doesn’t mean you have to be right wing	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/12/25 09:16 PM
90	Peer-reviewed study concludes that misandry is“false” sociology is a perfect example of why you should not take for granted what you read on the internet is valid, especially if it has the appearance of credibility. you see a title like this, click int the article, and it’s always some poorly methodised survey of a tiny sample of people. gg x9 peer reviewed journals	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/11/25 05:28 AM
3	They call it "Propaganda" themselves ... okay read it, and i can see you’re engaging in good faith, but i think you’re straight up wrong to say it doesn’t assume anything. the assumption is built into the logic which is why everyone else except for you is rejecting it, not gonna fully deconstruct it cause other comments like this one and this onehttps://www.reddit.com/r/everydaymisandry/s/K3qm4Ih9V0 explain it properly i don’t know if you can provide accurate analysis here if you are unwilling to engage with the intent of the language.…	/r/EverydayMisandry	28/11/25 01:25 AM
15	They call it "Propaganda" themselves ... driving so will check other reply after, but the downvotes on this one did make me chuckle lol	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/11/25 05:00 PM
34	They call it "Propaganda" themselves ... very curious to how mr. simon will engage w this!!!	/r/EverydayMisandry	27/11/25 04:15 PM
12	“It’s dumb to suggest that gay men should treat straight women and lesbians should treat straight men the same.” agreed, esp if you play online games as a hobby. for one reason or another, a large chunk of the women i’ve befriended thru gaming or on discord have been lesbians straight women from my experiences tend to play games that their boyfriends/husbands got them into playing, so they’re a lot more likely to duo exclusively w their partner and not befriend straight guys in those environments- which i wouldn’t even necessarily blame them for cause a lot of dudes in those spaces will cross boundaries an…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/11/25 11:32 PM
12	“It’s dumb to suggest that gay men should treat straight women and lesbians should treat straight men the same.” 100% this. i can name 3 of my female friends that exclusively date women and a handful more that are bisexual, i’d never think of myself as a “straight guy with a lesbian friend”- just a guy with female friends and some of them happen to be gay. i did not seek them out on that basis. i think it’s strange that for things like gender and sexual orientation, despite every single cultural norm being stated to be results of the patriarchy, it’s always women that imo overwhelmingly consider these thin…	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/11/25 11:23 PM
8	Is femicide an unfair term? yep	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/11/25 09:35 PM
26	Is femicide an unfair term? from an academic standpoint there’s probably some value in the terms, just one of those things where people misuse academic terminology for the sake of cultural discourse that they just do not apply to. similar thing w toxic masculinity, absolutely taken and misused from the way it was originally applied in academic papers	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/11/25 09:35 PM
17	"Anti misogyny" sub goes mask off yep. literally female top commenters in subs like this always have to do the obligatory “not all women” thing against any negative generalisation, yet in women’s spaces they’ll just tell you misandry straight up isn’t real. good joke. they are definitely the more virtuous, more honest, more emotionally intelligent, and better at communicating sex btw	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/11/25 08:03 PM
8	Happy International Men’s Day nothing in particular, in my experience cis men are mostly accepting of trans men	/r/EverydayMisandry	20/11/25 01:13 AM
1	It's absurd that intactivism is shamed/ignored. We should be MORE assertive, and outraged. It's RIDICULOUS my parents are haitian and same here. the hygiene arguments have always been gross cope	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/11/25 01:03 PM
9	Another Day, Another “Misandry isn’t real” Post the “men” in those times btw were 15-17 year old boys that grown women could not have more gleefully shipped off to die en masse and never return so they could enjoy the benefits of industrialists using them for cheap labour. moral paragons.	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/11/25 11:59 AM
5	Another Day, Another “Misandry isn’t real” Post you handled that w so much more grace than i would’ve. probs was just gonna say retard and call it a day- few things genuinely more stupid than making war gendered. i wonder what that person thinks of using race to evaluate things like crime 🤔 or what she would think abt women largely abusing children more 🤔 wonder how quickly multi varied analysis would start to matter when it’s not something you can scapegoat men for. “hating men” is definitely the reason american women tar and feathered young…	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/11/25 11:40 AM
70	Another Day, Another “Misandry isn’t real” Post what a strange thing to think. surely even as a misandrist, you must be aware that forceful conscription fulfills these criteria. billions of men (many truly just being boys 15-17) have died in wars over the past century to allow women to think that men have never been subject to unimaginable violence (the type of women who post shit like usually never have any first hand experience with anything suspiciously)	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/11/25 02:53 AM
20	Misandrists therapist influencers i watched her when she first started doing youtube. absolutely a shame to see how uncritical she has gotten to challenging her biases	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/11/25 08:24 PM
98	Misogyny is not Misandry love this post. can’t fully expand my thoughts on it rn, but this is definitely something i’ve become more cognizant of and try to actively combat. feminists play so many language games, constantly redefining terms because their narrative of victim hood simply trumps everything else. this is the same way they see no issue in saying stupid shit like women are the real victims of men dying in wars. their perspectives are all that matters	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/25 11:36 AM
3	I'm so tired of Vaush's take on male loneliness to hell with vaush, haven’t heard his voice in over a year and couldn’t be happier abt it	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/11/25 11:42 AM
4	Hell No been there buddy. not even halfway thru the week yet 🫠	/r/EverydayMisandry	12/11/25 01:08 AM
8	Hell No i think you’re mistaken lol, i meant what does this mean in regards to the content of the post. as in how is “he’s trash” every woman’s warning when (anecdotally i admit) it seems like the men that get the most negative attention from women also get the most positive attention. like i’m almost certain whomever made that post figures it applies to andrew tate, and he’s definitely also some women’s “he’s perfect” despite being an utterly despicable person. this sort of cognitive dissonance driven …	/r/EverydayMisandry	12/11/25 01:06 AM
18	Hell No what does this even mean lol, the whole nice guy vs bad boy meme is abt the “he’s trash” men getting all the attention	/r/EverydayMisandry	12/11/25 12:56 AM
2	Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it. yep. it’s not even selfish, it’s self-interested, and a lot of women have no issue being self-interested even tho men do so much outsourcing of our identities. don’t know exactly why that is but it’s definitely unhealthy. might just be an easier way to live when you don’t internally feel good abt yourself and can fall back on external praise to not be suicidal lol still, the flaws are glaring. you can be selfishly altruistic, which i’d argue a lot of men are cause we’re raised to be obsessed wit…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/11/25 05:11 PM
3	Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it. true. i think men can learn a lot from feminists, esp regarding decentering. every single man i know lives for female validation one way or another. it’s like oxygen to us	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/11/25 04:43 PM
3	Feminism, Ableism, and Weaponized Incompetence: A Tale of ADHD men who are shamed and marginalized. agreed. unfortunately their misconceptions come from the way people colloquially misuse adhd to refer to their poor attention spans from being addicted to social media and nothing to do with an actual diagnosis. i was definitely what a lot of people would call lazy before i got a proper diagnosis and started medications and treatment. i went from being a D average student in hs to making straight As in college as an adult which I could’ve never expected, and having so much more mental clarity an…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/25 04:20 PM
–	Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it. note that despite this, women are also increasingly becoming more religious than men	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/11/25 09:06 PM
6	You're only allowed to generalise straight men and you'll be downvoted for saying the truth what’s more likely is that we’ll get a think piece abt how female hyper sexuality is linked to trauma from being abused my straight men who are responsible for everything wrong w the world	/r/EverydayMisandry	07/11/25 07:52 PM
24	Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it. this isn’t a secret to anyone, women just collectively lie abt it (feminist or not) so they don’t have to feel responsible. men do not work dangerous jobs and long hours out of a higher sense of civic duty or naturally sacrificial spirit, we spend most of our time outside the home due to the mating pressures of women wanting men who spend time outside the home. most of them can’t even articulate why they want that, the idea of men not being busy in the way they wish to be just makes them uncomfo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/11/25 06:48 PM
2	I am convinced that many women want to protect their role as the main parent to their children experienced that myself as a teen. my mother would complain for years abt us not doing anything, but as soon as i started being independent and taking agency over my life she would insert herself and say “let me be your mom”. like actually pick one. i have not known a SINGLE friend in my life who’s not had terrible relationships w their mothers btw. fathers seem to be more varied from absent to abusive to perfect and the best person in their lives, but every friend in my age group has struggled …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/11/25 10:44 PM
2	I hate knowing that I'm 15 years late and lost my youth yep. different rules cause they’re playing a different game that we aren’t allowed to participate in	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/11/25 09:52 PM
6	I hate knowing that I'm 15 years late and lost my youth agreed, but it’s hard to disregard cause of how dangerous it is. part of what dr k talks abt w the dangers of empathy, being completely ignorant to your selfishly good intentions harming other people	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/11/25 09:16 PM
16	I hate knowing that I'm 15 years late and lost my youth you are literally the problem. perfect example of everything wrong with this situation. the definition of misandry isn’t blaming women. this isn’t even worth engaging with beyond that point bc even people who criticise feminists know that reducing misogyny to hating men is factually incorrect and dishonest. literally the only thing this serves is to obfuscate and reduce. every single problem that “men” as a category face is somehow the individual MAN’s responsibility to resolve for himself- as i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/11/25 08:49 PM
4	Feminism, Ableism, and Weaponized Incompetence: A Tale of ADHD men who are shamed and marginalized. perfectly well put and i’ve always said this but more broadly extrapolated when people make generalisations, there are always two categories of responsibility: things men do/cause and things that “society” does/causes. the moment something gets defined as being exclusively belonging to women is when all of the sudden we start deconstructing and being nuanced abt different pressures and influenced just bc they don’t want to feel blamed for anything, but they refuse to apply those same logic frame…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/11/25 09:37 PM
11	It’s crazy that misandrists claim there would be no dictatorship if we had a woman plenty of women would bring up their trauma from other women in their youth in response to this, so the contrarian voices aren’t from ppl who don’t remember hs. it’s from ppl who were probably the ones abusing and victimising other ppl to begin with	/r/EverydayMisandry	04/11/25 04:04 PM
5	How Gun Blasts From Indoor Shooting May Cause Brain Injuries how do you account for what we know abt ancient cultures with huge gender disparities explicitly due to things like aggression, as in the case of sparta? without fact checking myself, i think it’d be reasonable to assume that ancient greek writers wrote a lot abt differences in male/female nature that were later incorporated into the academics of post wwii societies	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/11/25 03:04 PM
1	“It was mostly men who volunteered!” (With a voice of distain) YOUR point was a deflection from THE point you were responding to. “i didn’t engage with every single point on that sentence” and it’s the main thing they’re claiming and not the straw man you presented lmfao. regardless of how long you’ve been here, people who think like you have no business in a community like this doing nothing but obfuscating and refusing to engage with discussions.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/11/25 02:11 PM
5	Does anyone else have a problem with the lack of epstimological rigor of feminist theory and criminology? one of the ways to evaluate the strength of a (non religious) philosophy is to see how well they resolve their own contradictions. feminism is the only philosophy of its kind that makes no attempt to do so, and feminists are actually very similar to religious apologists the way they will endlessly justify contradictions instead of truth seeking in any meaningful manner that’s why a lot of cultural discourse is endlessly making and complaining abt observations. there are no proposed conclusions t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/25 06:01 AM
2	Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities part 2 there are plenty of analogous concessions where men prioritise the emotional needs of women over their own categorically, and if you can’t honestly admit to that then you aren’t prepared to have a conversation about it: very commonly discussed and easy to acknowledge if you’re being intellectually honest; on a cultural and institutional/systemic level- the prioritisation of women’s physical health in situations where the men are calling police on their partners assaulting them. obviously …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/25 10:39 PM
2	Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities absolutely not, but ofc you would frame it that way to fit your narrative. the entire purpose of the mandatory part is to ELIMINATE the dynamic being a matter of trust between two parties, and to insert a third party (the government) as an arbiter of truth regardless of what the parties involved think. mandatory doesn’t imply only against what a woman would want, it implies against what couples would want for the expressed sake of prioritizing uncomfortable truths against comfortable lies- entir…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/25 10:39 PM
3	Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communities suggest to a woman that dna testing should be mandatory due to how many women commit paternity fraud, and see how quickly they respond with offensive as if you are accusing them directly which is enough to make them disagree w the entire sentiment. they never make the concessions men make to placate their feelings even in the face of harm.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 02:51 PM
2	They don't just have a problem with women being expected to vocalize their consent. They hate when men are expected to do the same thing too. this might be my biggest objection to feminism that would bar me from ever using the label. they want literally the same end goals as red pillers, just coming from different places from how to get there. spent the entire first two decades of my life hearing feminist propaganda abt deconstructing gender norms… just for feminists to reconstruct gender norms in a manner that’s more emotionally convenient without offering any meaningful solutions to things like non violent coercive rape that happens…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 02:31 PM
1	What is the stance of this subreddit? yep	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 02:08 PM
4	Is The Left For Men Anymore? unfortunate byproduct of our two party system. so many people have to align themselves with groups they are fundamentally misaligned with just to have institutional power	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 02:03 PM
2	"Women have it harder with grief". Our friend Ana Psychology. unfortunately ana psych is exactly why a sub like this needs to exist. she’s clearly not conservative and misandrist for the reasons you’d expect from an overtly bigoted right winger- she embodies the dangers of liberal feminism always making and assuming their largely ahistorical claims about gender dynamics are anything close to reflective of reality. this is the misandry that poisons society. i refuse to believe an honest actor could ever believe society blames women for everything, especiall…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 01:57 PM
1	“It was mostly men who volunteered!” (With a voice of distain) landing on intellectual dishonesty then. the original comment you replied to said “There are some women who act supportive for social brownie points but aren't actually. And women often get treated as if they're safe inherently like to come out to and stuff but they really aren't. They might not easily beat you senseless (though they can with a weapon) but they'll possibly sic people around them on you and people might not even question it for example.” the second sentence is very literally the …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 01:44 PM
3	“It was mostly men who volunteered!” (With a voice of distain) you are not engaging, this is dissonant. i am literally not claiming the act of feigning progressive aesthetics is exclusive to women- i am claiming it is useful to specifically critique women for that behaviour given they are the gender that’s culturally associated with virtue and tolerance. an analogue would be something like- people culturally conditioned to think men are innately more rational or logical than women don’t expect men to be as emotionally reactive or insecure as many of them te…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 01:35 PM
2	Patriarchy is real.... brilliant analysis	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 01:09 PM
6	“It was mostly men who volunteered!” (With a voice of distain) then engage with the point being made? idk how to quote the way i see you guys do on reddit- but the point is that no, “people” don’t do this regardless of gender because women uniquely get grouped in with lgbt in cultural conversations as if their nature as women makes them inherently less prone to bigotry. arguably cause similar problems regarding racial intersectionality with feminists as well	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 12:50 PM
7	“It was mostly men who volunteered!” (With a voice of distain) you would like to believe that in regards to this specific criticism of women, but i wonder if you do the same in the face of criticisms of men. men generally aren’t seen as “safe” and naturally accepting of lgbt the way women are, despite the category of women largely including homophobes. so yes, the distinction matters	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 12:30 PM
5	Our relations with feminism literally what value does this comment add to the conversation started by this post. not a matter of good or bad, and we are clearly not reducing all of these different lenses to just “feminism” for reason that you seem to have missed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 12:26 PM
10	Lived Experience there’s a reason why despite whatever racial tensions exist in america, you never see any serious black activists proposing we just start being racist back to white people. it’s a non starter because people who have experienced racism simply want to eradicate it universally, not have even their ideological opponents suffer from it there must be some research that helps understand this phenomena in regards to feminism, but it is true that women tend towards collectivism to a larger degree than me…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/25 03:10 AM
1	Misandry IS real . And it kills. another understated point is the deadliness of colon cancer that just gets no attention because it doesn’t predominately harm women	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/25 09:54 PM