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14	Found out my wife cheated Saturday.. she took the kids and has cut all communication. Most of this will apply to you. If you think part of it does not apply just wait a bit... this is what is known as the list. Feel free to add to it. It will only help others. Don't drink. It'll only hurt the situation. Trust me. You need to stay calm; drinking will not help with this. Do not lose your temper. If you do not stay calm you will lose. She wants you to get upset. She wants to be able to call the cops on you. She will try to provoke you to get you to say things to use against you. STA…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/25 05:34 AM
1	Florida in sobriety I had this BS happen to me. If the matter goes to court then the Judge will most likely order a CDT test. Which indicates how much you have been drinking over the last 3 months. Whatever anyone thinks now is irrelevant. Stay on the path bro, If you want access to your children.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/25 06:44 AM
1	Where to go? Depends if you are looking to relax on your own or would like female company?	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/25 06:22 AM
2	Recovery Time I was with my Ex for 13 years and we have children. The first 3 months was hell, disbelief and coming to terms with everything. Wondering if you can recover. The following 9 months was processing all the emotions, ups and downs. So about 18 months total, it took me to start feeling normal again and returning to my former self. Like everyone says, life does get better. Stay strong and stoic. I am still going through family court.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/24 03:53 AM
2	Stopping My Emotional Responses My wife and I seperated 1 year ago, we have 4 children and are still going through proceedings. The secret is type as many emails as you want it is healthy, just don't ever send them. Save them and next week you will thank yourself you didn't send it. This is one wild emotional roller coaster. Stay stoic	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/24 01:44 AM

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