UnarmedSnail Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phone Sounds like she already left. Just some paperwork to do.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/24 03:06 AM
7	She said, "You could just pick up the dog poop without me asking. You see it just like I do." I would, step by step, logically go through the reasoning to the conclusion that this is a situation she created for herself and it is up to her to solve this dilemma. Be sure to use details to paint the picture for her.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/24 06:09 PM
10	Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife? Oh she did, but I didn't allow her her own timeline. Get out.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/24 02:25 PM
4	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? I'm not blaming men at all, in fact your story is very similar to mine. She sucked me dry without an apology, nor any sign of remorse. Every single thing that happened was my fault including and especially the things she instigated, and when there was no me left, she left. She abused our kids and especially my son because he was a lot like me. She broke me over ten years, and when she threatened to kill the kids it was enough. I forced her to leave the house and move in with the guy she'd been s…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 05:12 AM
5	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? The fact that you're in here reading these leads me to believe you.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 11:51 PM
3	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? I see you. I've known many good women over my lifetime. Subreddits like this we get stories of the predators. TY for being better.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 11:40 PM
15	Are there women that are devastated by divorce like we are? There are good women out there that get used and abused and are undeserving of what happened to them. The people who tell those stories won't likely be found here. Edit: Seems there are good women here. I was wrong lol.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 10:55 PM
2	Am I in the wrong here? Document EVERY thing she's done and is doing. Show a pattern, build a case.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 03:46 AM
2	Am I in the wrong here? As a kid who was left behind by my dad you have to do what you can to protect your kids from life fucking up kind of trauma if you can.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/24 03:41 AM
1	The loneliest Father’s Day Yeah. I'm going to pick my battles though.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/24 12:15 AM
1	The loneliest Father’s Day It's a generic example of how a parent lies to their children to poison them against the other parent after the fact, and no I didn't.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/24 12:13 AM
1	The loneliest Father’s Day "I didn't want to tell you this, but 10 years ago your father..."	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 06:10 AM
3	The loneliest Father’s Day Lies, damn lies, and propaganda.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 06:09 AM
8	The loneliest Father’s Day I didn't get a single "Happy father's day" from anyone. Not at home. Not from family. Not at work. Had to listen to other's FD activities though. Wasn't going to ask. I didn't get to talk to my daughter who lives with her mom. That hurts the most. Didn't see my son either, who lives at home, but that's not unusual for a Sunday. Got an acknowledgement from him the next day, so it's cool. Not going to beg. It is what it is.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 06:07 AM
1	This what I learned from this. I got tired of my children and myself being an excuse for abuse.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/24 05:31 PM
1	The fight? I think it's a guilt response. The more she feels guilty about what she's done and doing to you, the more she blames you for her feeling bad about it. The more she will make you pay in a snowballing effect of guilt, pain, and projection. It probably started years before you noticed it.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/23 08:16 AM
3	Who are these men that go through divorce once and then get married again, and WTF are they thinking?? A lot of us have bad instincts about good life partners. By the time #2 comes around, we've gained ingrained bad habits and trauma to go with the bad instincts.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/23 03:21 AM
3	Who are these men that go through divorce once and then get married again, and WTF are they thinking?? Loneliness and terrible training/ instincts about choosing a mate.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/11/23 03:18 AM
9	financially supporting this “wife” of mine for the past 2 years.. the only thing that I receive in return is constant stress and bickering from her. Men who were me, how is life now after getting out of the situation? OP. You're not only damaging your future and finances, You're damaging your mental and physical health the longer you stay. My ex pushed me into a debilitating heart attack from the constant stress she put me under.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/23 10:30 AM
7	financially supporting this “wife” of mine for the past 2 years.. the only thing that I receive in return is constant stress and bickering from her. Men who were me, how is life now after getting out of the situation? OMG yes! My blood pressure dropped 50 points after divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/23 10:28 AM
1	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? Cheating and manipulation are normal in a lot of marriages. That's the problem	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 07:21 AM
1	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? Oh I bet she's been manipulating and emotionally controlling our OP for a long, long time now. That takes a while to break out of.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 06:09 AM
2	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? That's a "selfish cock-guzzling whore". Willing to throw our OP under the bus like that. What a cunt.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 05:49 AM
1	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? Don't let her make you take the blame for her fuck ups!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 05:43 AM
1	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? Oh yes. Tell everything she's been up to. Make sure it's age appropriate.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 05:42 AM
1	Does your ex refuse to see reality, understand what she did? Lol. Be well!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/23 01:19 AM
2	Does your ex refuse to see reality, understand what she did? PS. She calls me racist because I like her people, food, and culture to this day. I can't like what she likes.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/23 01:18 AM
2	Does your ex refuse to see reality, understand what she did? Yeah my X seemed to be under the impression that she had a right to abuse and manipulate anyone in the family any time she wanted, and as long as she wanted. I thought it was a cultural thing and sometime she'd realize what she was doing wrong. I was wrong and let it go on far too long. She still blames and bad mouths me to our kids 7 years later. I'm just glad the kids know better.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/23 01:16 AM
1	What is the worst thing your ex did to you that hurt? I completely agree with this.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 10:49 PM
2	What is the worst thing your ex did to you that hurt? Tells you the state of mind she was in. Scary that.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 04:32 AM
2	What is the worst thing your ex did to you that hurt? Then they find it can be a real power trip.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 04:30 AM
2	What is the worst thing your ex did to you that hurt? She absolutely destroyed my son's psyche and left me to pick up the pieces. I did my best to put him back together over the last 10 years. I hope it's enough.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 04:28 AM
2	Women's brain are hard-wired to blame men. Just accept it as a fact. You put three or more women together and their enjoyment of schadenfreude and taste for popcorn increases exponentially.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/23 06:46 AM
1	If your wife returned what was said? "I absolutely agree. I NEVER should have married that thing you call daughter and I called wife."	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/23 02:54 AM
2	If your wife returned what was said? I feel like I'll be grieving forever. I still have to interact with her to see my daughter and she does shit deliberately twist the knife. It's been 10 years...	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/23 02:36 AM
2	Is there a scientific or evolutionary reason so many women are so negative towards their husbands after kids? Herpes in 3!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/23 09:29 PM