Uncomfortabletomato Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-4	After 20 years and 50k of child support payments, next month will be my last one. I'm turning 40 in March and have been paying since I was 19 and owed 23k in back pay a year ago. Don't give up $50,000 over 20 years is what….? Just over $200 a month for two kids? I dont agree with alimony and what not but that was hardly supporting your kid (specifically the one you didn’t see for 8 years).	/r/MensRights	16/11/22 04:32 PM
3	Mothers get flowers on Mother's Day. What should fathers get on Father's Day? I gave my dad a tie for every occasion growing up lol it became fun to find the silliest, most ridiculous ties	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 01:41 AM
1	Mothers get flowers on Mother's Day. What should fathers get on Father's Day? I give my husband some kind of handmade gift from our child and his favorite dinner… then usually we go to this Nordic spa near us for a day out with massages etc. He’s a hardworking tradesman and the massage is so deserved.	/r/MensRights	29/10/22 01:39 AM
3	When talking about consent— Why doesn’t the discussion extend to consent to have my child. Then men should be able to opt out of child support responsibilities. No man should be able to tell a woman to keep or abort. But no woman should be able to force a man into fatherhood or responsibilities either.	/r/MensRights	26/10/22 10:49 PM
0	Body positivity is only for women Imagine if the title said “body positivity is only for disabled people with disfigurements. Not lazy, fat, white moms with saggy bodies”.	/r/MensRights	26/10/22 02:10 PM
25	Has no one seen the recent family guy episode? Isnt Quagmires entire character a rapist? Lol	/r/MensRights	22/10/22 09:42 PM
13	An unfortunate case of wife saying no to abortion at the cost of her life. Husband has no say and will be left with two kids to raise. My aunt had brain cancer and was capable of making her own decision until about a month before she passed. Brain cancer doesn’t automatically mean someone becomes fried and can’t make choices about their bodies.	/r/MensRights	21/10/22 10:57 PM
12	Who is responsible for abortions? According to ‘Ejaculate Responsibly’ author Gabrielle Blair, it's men of course. Never mind that men literally have zero say in whether an abortion happens or not. I would say that birth control and other preventative measures need to be made available for men but to say that reproductive health is only a man’s responsibility is asinine.	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 06:12 PM
25	Rampant misandry in the AirBnB sub: I wanted to understand why they wouldn’t rent out to men. Turns out all men are disgusting and destructive. I 10000% believe it. Even if the little bin is full, wrap it in toilet paper and put it in a different one	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 10:40 PM
53	Rampant misandry in the AirBnB sub: I wanted to understand why they wouldn’t rent out to men. Turns out all men are disgusting and destructive. I just want to add that I am in fact a woman but I remember having sleepovers with my friends growing up and some of them would legit leave their menstrual blood-soaked pads face up in the trash	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 10:07 PM
8	Rampant misandry in the AirBnB sub: I wanted to understand why they wouldn’t rent out to men. Turns out all men are disgusting and destructive. I have to imagine that there is as much cum on walls as there is menstrual blood left around. That’s to say there probably isn’t much.	/r/MensRights	14/10/22 10:03 PM
0	looking for opinions on this mess But women stand up men all the time too. This isn’t some man-specific thing that occurs which is even more irritating. If some man sent her a venmo request she’d probably bitch lol	/r/MensRights	03/10/22 01:04 PM
2	Toxic femininity? It always amazes me how mothers can be truly phenomenal, nurturing, caring, etc and then you have these absolutely vile women who I don’t even want to call mothers on the other side. I hear about narcissistic mothers WAY more than narc dads.	/r/MensRights	29/09/22 07:30 PM
2	Canadian men. Be careful. If you cohabit for a certain time it will be considered common law marriage. I believe you… it’s a shitty situation to even have to be in in the first place and I certainly don’t blame men for being apprehensive since in every way, a breakup/divorce is bad for them and only them.	/r/MensRights	29/09/22 11:31 AM
2	Canadian men. Be careful. If you cohabit for a certain time it will be considered common law marriage. I’ve heard of that happening so it’s definitely a risk. I just mean if you’re planning on living with someone or already do, an agreement should be signed. It’s better than having none lol	/r/MensRights	29/09/22 11:30 AM
2	Canadian men. Be careful. If you cohabit for a certain time it will be considered common law marriage. Absolutely, you need separate lawyers for each party.	/r/MensRights	29/09/22 11:30 AM
8	Canadian men. Be careful. If you cohabit for a certain time it will be considered common law marriage. Sign a cohabitation agreement! It sucks that you even have to consider doing this, and sucks even more having to pay for it. We signed one pre-marriage and I think it was around $500 or so.	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 06:23 PM
76	Search "Body Positivity" on Google Images and see the results for yourselves. It's not "body" positivity it's "female" positivity. Tbh I went through a period where I legitimately felt brainwashed by the movement. I had just given birth and gained more weight than I was happy with but found that BP movement and thought “well this is fine!” It’s really toxic and I’m glad I don’t have that mindset now	/r/MensRights	27/09/22 12:26 PM
5	Iran protests for women's rights: Men taking most of the risks, as usual. Less than 1/10 of the arrested are women. I don’t want to call people names but it definitely feels like an “I hate all women no matter what” kind of post lol	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 04:07 PM
0	Iran protests for women's rights: Men taking most of the risks, as usual. Less than 1/10 of the arrested are women. I don’t know what your point is	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 03:47 PM
18	Iran protests for women's rights: Men taking most of the risks, as usual. Less than 1/10 of the arrested are women. I’m not sure if you’re trying to catch me in some kind of “gotcha” moment, but the reality is that women in Iran do have less rights than men and there’s absolutely no reason for such a hostile post. Women in the west can be entitled and ridiculous but women in the Middle East are fighting sometimes for their lives. Anyway, have a great day	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 03:33 PM
7	Iran protests for women's rights: Men taking most of the risks, as usual. Less than 1/10 of the arrested are women. Yes, do you?	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 02:56 PM
22	Iran protests for women's rights: Men taking most of the risks, as usual. Less than 1/10 of the arrested are women. Women were never murdered in the West for not wearing hijabs. These situations aren’t comparable	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 02:04 PM
37	Iran protests for women's rights: Men taking most of the risks, as usual. Less than 1/10 of the arrested are women. I feel like this post is a really shitty take considering women in Iran suffer through true oppression, hence the reason for the protests at all…	/r/MensRights	26/09/22 02:03 PM
9	Consensus on "financial" abortion right for males Abortion should be 10000% the woman’s choice however in my opinion, that means that if a man wants an abortion and she doesn’t, he should not be forced to pay for child support of any kind	/r/MensRights	24/09/22 11:11 PM
1	Latvia to reintroduce conscription for men aged 18-27 Oh lmao I was like how do you ban pregnancy hahah that makes sense	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 09:48 PM
1	Latvia to reintroduce conscription for men aged 18-27 What do you mean by pregnancy should be banned lol I am confused by that comment	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 09:42 PM
3	In case anyone was wondering what they teach in our schools today. Taught that men don’t experience sexism today. This is a little off topic but I watched a tiktok the other day of a transgender woman… which I say loosely. She had a full beard and moustache and did absolutely nothing to pass as a woman. Naturally a few comments called her out on it and this person literally said “I don’t owe anyone passing. If I’m a woman, I’m a woman”. Okay….	/r/MensRights	23/09/22 12:53 PM
6	Feminist implies that a medical device for collecting sperm samples is misogynistic, shames male patients for being unable to produce sperm samples naturally. I thought that OOP was talking about an IUD insertion and not a pap	/r/MensRights	19/09/22 12:28 AM
7	Woman has sex with a man knowingly having a std doesn’t tell him and now that he wants to break up redditors come to call him pathetic this is anti consent Oh my bad. I’m dumb.	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 12:30 PM
7	Woman has sex with a man knowingly having a std doesn’t tell him and now that he wants to break up redditors come to call him pathetic this is anti consent I’m sorry if you’re offended that I don’t want to sleep with people who have genital herpes. I am confident however that I do not.	/r/MensRights	17/09/22 03:27 AM
124	Woman has sex with a man knowingly having a std doesn’t tell him and now that he wants to break up redditors come to call him pathetic this is anti consent I stopped having any sexual contact with a man a few years ago because he disclosed he had herpes. No one should be forced to have sex with someone with an STI just to save on their feelings. I didn’t want a permanent STI.	/r/MensRights	16/09/22 04:43 PM
3	circumcision needs to stop! Yes it was a big fight with my husband at first but it’s an area I wouldn’t compromise… and he is so happy now that we didn’t!! Legal doesn’t mean it’s moral!	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 04:42 PM
6	circumcision needs to stop! This randomly came up on my feed just now but I want to say I am a mother in Canada and my son is uncircumcised. I would never in a million years remove something that is so necessary.	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 12:44 AM