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Uncommon_Sense_123/r/RPChristians08/03/18 11:43 PM
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Well get a partner. No one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:38 AM
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Then don't be a SAHW or get your own version if that is what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:21 AM
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There is going out for coffee and there is not getting anything done because she is hanging out with the girls instead of being a homemaker. Most of her time should be spent in the home, not putting herself in a position to meet guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:52 PM
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I am sad to see homemaker confused with its modern connotation of SAHMs. Most SAHMs or SAHWs cannot handle serving their family. The moms cannot make a meal or clean up, but manage to go shopping and out for coffee and ask for maid service. The SAHWS seem to want the benefits of the husband's money without giving him respect, cooking, cleaning and being a companion in his service.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 09:43 PM
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It was not my intent to go so far off subject but to raise issues with orthodoxy that you are glossing over, namely the right for a man to chose the sexual acts he wishes to engage in with his wife and the allowance of remarriage up to three times. Since RP is about sexual strategy these issues warrant mentioning because this sub is attempting to combine RP into a Christian framework.
/r/RPChristians28/03/18 01:53 AM
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There is Married Red Pill that is for married men and men in LTR. If men in LTRs really believed women were so shitty they should dump their GFs and go full RP and not enter into LTRs but they do so anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:03 AM
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I think most people are just talking shit. If women were really as bad as MRP or RP makes them then they would be stupid not to go MGTOW. MGTOW, whose adherents actually go their own and are not in waiting for a GF, is the endgame for those who actually beliefs RP truths and are not just blowing off steam and venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:35 AM
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Don't overthink the term and read into it more than what is mean. You can just as easily replace true self with personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 09:26 PM
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I think you are correct. I refer to it as the original Battle of the Sexes but I take it right back to their state of being prior to the Fall. Adam was already ruling of Eve. This is evidenced by God presenting her to him and his naming her. But Eve would not have interpreted Adam's behavior as ruling in the worldly sense we have now but it would have felt like a benevolent action on Adam's part. For me the actual curse was that the marital relationship would always be scarred by disharmony sinc…
/r/RPChristians23/03/18 09:18 PM
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I think some of the confusion about be yourself comes from misunderstanding what is really being said. Men complain that the advice of being yourself is BP and women were either lying on purpose or where unaware when telling men and raising their sons with this attitude. However, I am a woman and this advice was given to me as well but I understood it to me more nuanced. Be yourself is just the short version of put forth your best effort and don't "change" who you fundamentally are to get a BF/G…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:54 PM
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Because it's hard to take you seriously when you entered into a marriage knowing the trouble began prior to it and somehow blame the woman for your lack of a spine to call it off or postpone until the issues were resolved. Unless you had a shotgun to your head, you are half at fault for going through with the marriage. So you Google DB and find MRP. Well now you have your answers. The problem was women want alphas. So you sidebar and lift, get your alpha on but the marriage still fails. So eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:26 AM
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I love the Adam and Eve story. It's what I base my interpretation of male headship on. Eve came from the side of Adam to walk beside him and with him as a helper. She is the missing part of Adam for those wgo chouse marriage. And when a Christian woman marries she is being returned to her Adam. The two become one spiritually through the rib (female) returning to the owner and physically through sex. These two make the whole in marriage and go on to produce godly offspring. The OT describes a com…
/r/RPChristians22/03/18 06:19 PM
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I am very proactive with my marriage. I wanted to find additional ways to make my husband happy so I Googled some phrase and MRP came up. Some of it was common sense but a lot was over-generalizations. Being the girl who never got picked in HS I could relate to the frustration of the men posting, Chad got all their girls; Tiffany got all the Chads. It was like HS mentality on a grown-up level. Basic levels of dread such as dressing nice, lifting and getting in shape is nothing knew to me. Learni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 04:55 PM
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That's the great thing about sex with a partner who actually cares about your needs. The two of you work it out. I can't give you a play by play because partners change it up all the time. Sometimes the woman will rub herself while having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:30 AM
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Because you don't understand that a good portion of women orgasm by clit stimulation and not by PIV sex and you are confusing porn fantasy of a big dick for what actually happens IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:06 AM
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You sound sexually inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:41 PM
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Let those guys say that they think more women should be traditional wives and see how far their career goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 04:26 PM
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Anything resembling a traditional idealized 1950s styled marriage is not allowed to be advocated for in today's society. You did not reference marriage but the gender roles you are describing were for marriage. I keep my lifestyle and views to myself as does my husband. To say you want a traditional gendered lifestyle will get you labeled "backwards" pretty fast. But as much as women say the sexes are equal they are not. A woman can change a tire, but a man can change a tire without tiring from …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 01:29 PM
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If men don't like sluts then men should stick to masterbating so women will not have the opportunity to become sluts. If there are no male sluts then there are no female sluts since at its basic level sex involves two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:51 PM
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As far as the OK Cupid girl wanting to be treated like a princess, if I were a guy I wouldn't just run the opposite direction I'd sprint like hell. Princess equals demanding, entitled, whiney, high maintenance and costly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:27 PM
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Been doing it for three decades. When I am not working I become a 1950s housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 03:02 PM
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I am the wife. No kids but that is my view. OP wanted views. Housewives I grew up around had no problem getting the job done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:01 PM
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If I am resting my head down there, then yes while I rub his publc hair I will sometimes gently cup my hand around his pennis and kiss it and press it against my cheek. Really had no idea this would be considered unusual. Who wants a partner who acts like they are counting down the seconds until it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:31 PM
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Until I start replacing semen for eggs in the cake recipe it's not a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:08 PM
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I don't like RPW and have been banned. I hate the whole Captain/First Officer dynamic. That's not marriage for me. Marriage for me is a return to the Garden of Eden. It is Eve's return to Adam and the making of a whole life together with the man as leader and the woman as helper. It is a form of bonding not encouraged by RP. But my view of marriage is very un-feminist. Lots of marriages would be better of the husband was given the option to be a man and the woman would stop trying to turn him in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:05 PM
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I have no idea what that means. Where is the fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:27 PM
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I have been married for 29 years. As a wife I am also a lover to my husband and this was just my description of a Rated R BJ. I give Rated X head and it entails a complete southern round trip. Your see life needs to grow and be fun. Sex is best when it is nasty, dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:20 PM
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Cruise through my history and you will know I'm not a man, but a middle-aged woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:10 PM
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Wife to a husband. Giving head is a joy. I become aroused when smelling my partner. I love the feel of my lips around his head, kissing his balls and rubbing his perineum. When he cums in my mouth the warmth feels comforting. After he is finished, I lightly rub his pubic hairs and continue to lick off any drops. When there are no more drops the BJ is complete, and I will lay my head down a few minutes and cradle his sick against my cheek.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 02:07 PM
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Maybe he was playing the field and now that he is older he is planning for this stage of his life, still sounds red to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:45 PM
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Don't know why you call him beta. This seems very Married Red Pill. I'm not sure how effective this strategy would be if they were married a couple of decades. I'm not so sure that the Courts would not view the house as their house no matter whose name was on the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:14 PM
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Got married at 18 because I wanted love, friendship, sex, fun. I'm still married and want the same. An equal partnship does not interest me because I want a a more patriarchal form of marriage. But everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 08:43 PM
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Being ladylike is acting graceful. In public your look is feminine and your demeanor is soft. You behave in a reserved way, no dirty jokes, no foul language, high and you express your femininity to your partner in ways that arouses his male instinct to protect. At home your ladylike soft femininity causes you to submit to his sexual advances. As the clothes are shed so too are your inhibitions. There is no need for him to "create his slut" because a lady is nothing but a polite, well-mannered wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 05:54 PM
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This may not fit the question. I was born before the free love era in1970. I'm the oldest of two siblings by ten years and was raised by two parents until their divorce in 1986. My siblings are ten years younger. This serves as background. I was 16 when my father was involuntarily divorced, my siblings were 6. The standard every other weekend applied with my dad's visitation. So a full-time authoritarian father was removed from my siblings at an earlier age than me. I went on to marry at 18. My …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 11:31 PM
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The best thing you can offer a man, who is also looking for a relationship and not a ONS, is the real you. The "you" that you really are and not the contrived act to fool him. And this applies for men and women because both when dating have a tendency to be a better version of themselves than what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:49 PM
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Old dating advice, you don't give the milk away for free. In other words, he has no need to marry you if he is getting sex, no further need to marry you if you are doing traditional housewife duties without the benefit of marriage. This is how you end up with cohabitating women posting "My live in BF says he doesn't want to get married but I do." This may not be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:20 PM
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I would not clean and cook for a guy if I were just dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:56 PM
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Do you not realize there is a whole other world outside of BP, PP and RP. Your source is a forum that goes though female dating profiles and only picks the ones that backup the preconceived idea of entitlement and then posts those prefiltered posts as proof of AWALT. Sort of like going to a popular bar on a Friday night and saying, everyone drinks while deliberately ignoring the vast majority who are not at the bar. It's all silly at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:17 PM
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Fear induced sex sounds like hysterical bonding sex. My issue with higher levels of dread isn't that they don't work, but running non-stop dread like this will ultimately ruin the relationship. I would imagine that the first couple of successful dreadings produce awesome sex. She responds, he gets pacified and backs down. Rinse. Repeat and you have a pattern for disfunction. She will recognize that he backs down once she ups the sex. Ideally she should automatically want amped up sex. But as RP …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 11:34 PM
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Tools are to men as shoes are to women. In keeping with the stereotype, men collect tools like women collect shoes. Just like some shoes are not worn often, some tools are seldom used. The analogy stands because underused tools for men become that pair of shoes a woman buys for a sleds event only to wear once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:38 PM
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I don't know the answer because I believe you just have to suck it up sometimes. I've been married for 29 years. It's all about what you want and what you are willing to sacrifice to get it. Now we have women complaining about emotional labor. Sometimes you have to get over yourself and stop letting society influence you. I do dishes and pick up clothes he leaves on the floor and don't take it to Reddit to complain. I just don't care if I have to do extra, or perceive that I am, because I know m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:19 AM
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The fun really starts when the dentures come out. https://ifstudies.org/blog/americas-generation-gap-in-extramarital-sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 11:39 PM
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I don't know if you can make someone happy but you certainly can make them miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:02 PM
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People assume it's the institution of marriage that fails and not individuals who should have never married due to their sexual preferences and drives. Most marriages do not suffer from infidelity but a lot do. Why? The easy answer is that marriage is outdated and unnatural. But marriage in various forms has always been created and justified as a stabilizing factor of a functional society. The more realistic answer is found in the link. Marriage as an institution works for those person whose pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:24 PM
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Yes I did numerous times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 02:56 AM
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He was dating me to have a girlfriend and a relationship not just sex, according to him. I just asked him. We've been married for twenty-nine years. "If you are dating someone just for sex save yourself the drama and get a prostitute. If your endgame is sex go to the Bunny Ranch." Husband We have sex about two to three times a week. I count BJ to completion as sex. I don't discuss sex in detail, but as long as monogamy is kept, he gets what he wants and when he wants. Foreplay or no play prior d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:55 AM
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I married the guy who took me on numerous dates and didn't require anything more than a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 10:43 PM
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How does this work exactly? If she wants to keep dating the guy and get to know him she must sleep with him around date 3. Say she does this and on date 5 he dumps her because she was just a plate but she was looking for a relationship. Then she is off to another guy that she likes and sleeps with him, but discovers in Date 10 he has emotional problems. And on to the next guy who follows the three date rule and on to another. It takes a while to really know somene. Three dates is not even scratc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 10:26 PM
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Now you are being ridiculous and trolling so bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 08:25 PM
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You can intensely train all you want but you will only be as buff as your genetic makeup allows. That was what I was getting at with my initial reply to this post. The guys you admire who are cut are that way because of hard work and the genetic predisposition to achieve those desired effects when combined with diet and hard work. Example: Olympic sprinters are good at sprinting not only because they train but also because they have a natural ability. They have a predisposition to be good sprint…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 07:43 PM
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They were what a natural human body looked like with moderate exercise that's why I brought them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 07:09 PM
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Look at how young men and women looked in the 1960s before the obesity epidemic. For the most part they looked average. Just like in present day, once the weight is shifted and the deadlifts complete most men and women will still be average in terms of body and looks. The only ones who stand above average are a small few in comparison to the majority. These small few go on to be the standard of societal beauty. They become the Chads of legend, the quarterback who always gets the hottest girl. TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 06:54 PM
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No, because just like women, who can exercise all they want to but unless she has good genes will never have the face or the body to be a fitness model or supermodel, men too will have similar limits to what they can genetically achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:54 PM
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Arabic for God willing or if Allah wills it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:50 PM
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If you get the right partner there is no need for dread. Dressing nice and lifting are just normal upkeep and not dread IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:03 PM
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Attractiveness or desire? They are two different things that sometimes cross over. What you described is a man who keeps himself looking good. But just because he looks good does not mean he will be desired in his LTR. Some of the issues that people have with dwindling sex (desire) in a LTR has its basis in monogamy and not understanding the tradeoff required. If you have a woman who understands that monogamy kills all novelty in sex and that monogamy naturally produces for some people a decline…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 03:38 PM
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I think it was the men of old, who seeking to box in female sexuality, who sold you this lie. Just like it's men who say "it's not size that matters but the motion of the ocean." Ask a woman and she will tell you size matters, but it's not necessarily a deal breaker. For centuries women were not allowed to express what they liked sexually, so men spoke on their behalf and told of things that they wanted to hear with little bearing to the truth. I'm sorry but it's been known since the dawn of tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 08:15 PM
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Then what is left for your to be RP about? You've disclaimed some of their major views.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:18 PM
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Yeah there is a difference. From what I am reading hysterical bonding mainly works short-term and then the desire tapers off because it was not based on genuine desire. Genuine desire does not have to be manipulated whereas hysterical bonding requires some preconceived trauma by the woman. So when the wife goes back to low sex the husband must again go to the dread level that manipulates desire in her. She in turn will respond with sex out of fear of loss to keep him, marking her territory, prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:56 PM
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I'm thinking of the MRP field reports about flirting with women in front of the wife to show the wife that the husband has more options. Hysterical bonding happens many times because of a psychological trauma. It happens in both sexes in response to adultery and life-altering experiences such as near death. It is the attempt to sooth the mental trauma with sex. The woman who sees her husband cheating may become more sexual because of fear, not desire. Here I'm not talking about the subset of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 05:45 PM
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I disagree with the use of higher dread levels in marriage to produce "desire" in the wife by competitive insecurity and then framing the wife's increased sexuality towards husband as proof of success, when it is coming from her fear of losing her spouse to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 05:24 PM
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To address the inequality in marriage that men feel, marriage should be categorized according to type, i.e. traditional, chattel, egalitarian. For instance a traditional man and woman should be allowed to chose a format of marriage that sets forth what marriage best represents them. Their marriage contract would include divorce on grounds of adultery, proven physical abuse, and desertion. If any of these were found as just cause, then the offending party would not be eligible for alimony and any…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 09:28 PM
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There is evidence that women get tired of monogamy faster than men. But, regarding your points about married women and infidelity, no one ever asks if the woman was suited for marriage to begin with. In my observation, lots of men and women are falling into marriage just because rather than asking themselves is this what they truly want or what society says they should want. Some women are just the marrying kind and well-suited for it. http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/05/23/nytimes_on_l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 03:56 PM
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No. 5 is not found in the closest original text. https://bible.org/seriespage/lesson-45-caught-act-john-753-811
/r/RPChristians22/02/18 04:30 PM
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No they don't when you caved in and let him do one of the things you didn't like. Your boundary line moved when you first caved in. But seriously, you need to take a step back before you ruin some guys life with an accusation that can't be proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 12:24 AM
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And, this is why some men think women are dangerous to them and need contracts in place before any sexual activity. In essence the only opinion you wanted was one which validated how you viewed the scenario. All other opinions that don't reach your conclusion are not welcomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 12:18 AM
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Bottom line: A woman who wants to keep her husband will fuck him and do so with enthusiasm. A woman who thinks her husband is bluffing about walking away from the marriage will receive what you are receiving, nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:06 PM
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We all sell out for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:18 AM
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If you go back to the buffet bar for a second plate, don't blame the buffet for making you fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 04:11 AM
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I thought RP was supposed to give the budding alphas so many opportunities to be the captain of their own ship. How did the woman get out of line in the first place? As to the paternity test, well yes get one but if he made the beta mistake of not vetting his first officer, and her shady ass gets knocked up...Wait, how did this happen. Someone wasn't tracking her cycle and someone did not have her get an IUD and went all bareback and couldn't be bothered with a condom. I've got a name for the sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:34 AM
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Different culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:53 PM
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Based on your title, I don't support women cheating. If your GF or wife is so shady that you doubt the kid is yours, rethink your investment, hope the test is a false positive and find a better woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:52 PM
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If you have to get a paternity test you need a new girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:47 PM
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That is what I don't understand about raw physical attraction. I mean I look at him and I want him so I initiate. Why is this not considered raw physical attraction? When I met him, I checked him out head to toe trying to see what I would be getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:19 PM
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He is an overweight man so according to RP it would be out of obligation. But, as a woman raised in church to submit to her husband, and who has a natural submissive streak, I am aroused by him because as my husband he is above me and I am under him and pleasing him makes me very happy. I also initiate and taught myself to swallow, which arouses me even more. So many RP guys overlook the natural submissive, especially RPChristian guys. I just find it strange that RP sexuality has to be buff, goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:04 PM
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This was just rough sex and what happens when women screw guys without knowing them and their sexual tastes prior to doing the deed. Feminists don't mind casual sex but can't seem to get across to women that yeah you can hook up but you need to ask questions before just blindly assuming you are getting a Disney Prince Charming guy who loves gentle, eye gazing missionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:54 PM
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You got me. I do all of the above and more but that is because I take the sharing your bodies Bible verse very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:38 PM
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So, if I give my husband a BJ, anal, and PIV and offered to go ass to mouth can I tell him the TRP says congrats he is now an alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 07:15 PM
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My God you guys can over think some shit. Dick move equating "whore" with sex a woman is enjoying just because it's not Rated G and missionary. And let's do away with the term "caveman sex" too. Oh, and "create your slut" needs to go as well. We are not in third grade. Not all women like a hard pounding and some, brace yourself for the shocker, actually find degrading to be degrading. Who cares what's going on in her mind or yours. It's sex, not a thesis paper, and both parties should be having …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:09 PM
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Don't worry. My opinion has a snowballs chance in hell becoming a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:11 PM
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"Spiritual leadership means the husband has the burden of responsibility. Its counterpart is the sort of submission that encourages and equips the husband for that leadership. As Kathy’s example shows, submission can be an active and engaging trait—but in the end, someone has got to break the tie. I love how Tony Evans puts it: “Spiritual headship is God telling the woman to duck so he can punch the man.” ' link Okay if the man is the leader and the wife follows him according to scripture, he be…
/r/RPChristians14/02/18 01:19 PM
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This is why women need to stop with the ONS and get to know more about their partner and his sexual desires. Preferably sex should only be done in marriage, or second best in a very committed marriage. This was not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:45 PM
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Who is this "you all"? I can't be a better husband since I'm a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 03:43 PM
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More likely female dissatisfaction, not adultery. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 01:01 PM
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The man who suffers a divorce and unemployment has become an outcast in his own life. His once together family is gone, wife is fucking another guy or woman, the kids are ripped from his care, the friends he had at work are gone, and it takes longer for the middle-aged to get another job, even then the pay will likely be less. When people talk about men being under appreciated this is one example. Society loves him when he wins and casts him out when he loses. Top that with the "men don't cry" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 01:48 AM
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I am happily married. What I wrote about is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 09:14 PM
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Nope, you spy a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:32 PM
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I'm married and have been since age 18, no kids by choice, and no one gets a happily ever after, just Disney because no one wants to see that Hospice death scene they cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:26 PM
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What has that got to do with what I posted as a reply? If I misunderstood your quote tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:22 PM
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"And the TRPs want them to quash all their income generating capabilities and just rely on his ability to bring in steady income for the next 30 or so years." If you are implying the RPers want a SAHW then we are reading two different subs. Most want a working woman to provide lube for the divorce rape once she does a branchswing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 08:17 PM
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Share some personal stories and show a vulnerable side. Note, don't share anything too deep that could backfire and show an aspect of vulnerability, a softer side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 04:44 PM
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What about the first part of my question? You say up in the thread that "fatties" are your thing, so how can you so easily change what you are attracted too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:34 PM
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And I knew a short guy in school who was a Chad in his own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:13 AM
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It was Christian values that freed me sexually but I realize that all did not walk away with that message.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:45 AM
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So if you really are into overweight women, then how can you so easily change your preference. That is a stereotype about overweight women eating a buffet every night. Most I know maintain their girth by just general crappy food.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 02:02 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:44 AM
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Okay if fat is your thing, then you know where the pond is to fish from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:41 AM
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Well then, have you said hello to Jenny Craig or WeightWatchers groups? Most are going to stay fat so if fat is your thing I see a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:38 AM
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So problemed women are attracted to RPers who then turn around and say "see AWALT" when said problemed woman starts doing what problemed women do which is causing problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:28 AM
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Didn't you post a while back about a lady your were starting to have feelings for? What happened? Getting so discouraged after two days, really? Give it some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 01:20 AM
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I was not being snarky, but if you follow the Biblical guidelines for modesty in dress, modesty in lifestyle, no premarital sex, and giving yourself to a Christian man in marriage and submitting to his leadership, you will be the opposite of what TRP and MGTOW say about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 11:11 PM
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You posted in r/TrueChristian so if you don't wanna sleep around and be an upstanding woman, you already have your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 10:40 PM
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Well my first boyfriend cheated on me, so AMALT. All the proof I need. My husband's father left him and his family when he was a child for another woman. AMALT. My mom had a guy she was crushing on before she kicked my dad out. AWALT Is it AMALT or AWALT. Or, if could be that you make the same mistake over and over when choosing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 09:58 PM
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Sounds like you are looking for a relationship and not just a plate. I am not educated and don't have a career. I would hate to think that someone like me would not be given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:21 AM
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Yeah, pretty much replied with the ahove to show that there has been a variation in age differences in marriage and that every female was not marrying ten years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:17 AM
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My husband has gained 100 pounds since I married him. Not all women leave, some take their vows very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 02:56 AM
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I'm curious. Why are you passing up these women for sex? I thought that RP was a sexual strategy. Or are you looking for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 02:51 AM
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"At the end of the 18th century, the average age of first marriage was 28 years old for men and 26 years old for women." History Channel link I replied to you in response to your quote at the bottom. If the average age of women in the 18th was 26 and the average age for men was 28, then the gap was not a large. I'm sure there were some age variation to come up with this, but this was the average for that period in history. "It's been common throughout all of history for women to marry 10-15 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 02:16 AM
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I became interested in the subject because I married young and assumed that people in the past, say in the 1800s did so too. I was surprised to learn otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:45 AM
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I can find other articles and excerpts from books disputing the above in the west. http://www.history.com/news/history-lists/5-things-victorian-women-didnt-do-much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:40 AM
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Some of these ideas I've never heard of except in what used to be higher academic circles not widely available to the public, which now thanks to the Internet is available to every Joe and Jane out there. Sports: Sure the higher up intellectual cultural critics say football, boxing, hockey, wrestling are bad because it encourages male aggression. IRL: HS football still gets funded at the expense of music. Parents and towns are proud of their local home teams. No one "on the ground" is paying muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:29 AM
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Congrats on being here. This country is great because it offers the person freedom of choice. I can be religious or atheist. I can have green hair and brown. As far as marriage, you get to chose your form as well, with one caveat. You must chose the correct partner not just based on looks. You want a old school patriarchal marriage, get a girl who wants to be submissive. Want an equal marriage, get a girl with modern views. But don't go to an amoral group like RP or MRP where they post about che…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:19 PM
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Thanks, but condolences are not deserved. We were estranged and I waiting too long to make amends. Thought about it and was planning it out but the decision was made for me. Ticktock, game over. But thank you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:04 PM
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No but to each his/her own. Don't watch porn and do not find a revolving door vagina to be a sign of liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:27 PM
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Yes he was because he married a very submissive women. Marriage lasted until his death on February 3, 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:24 PM
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My understanding of TRP is that the man focuses on the best strategy for his life with outcome independence. You do you for you without the need for validation of society, women, parents, friends. You posted questions showing that you did not read the side bar and wanted the info spoonfed to you. It was a low quality post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:43 PM
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Well since we are sharing personal stories that shape reality, here we go. After my dad divorced in his mid-40s he opened up to me about his dating and the loneliness he felt. Long story short he remarried and went on to had a 20+ year second marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:38 PM
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I love the head grab. Never understood why more women don't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:17 PM
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He is very giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:07 PM
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Just Googled it and your are right. I hate porn but many love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:24 AM
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All the feminists I've heard of are against porn for its exploration of women. Maybe this has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:57 AM
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This is true with the exception of anal. If the new guy is too big anal may be off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:23 AM
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That's a strange question. Why would you assume he's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 06:07 AM
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I'm higher. Don't know what you mean by responsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:57 AM
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If you are at a Vegas hotel resort there is no way you know the average age of the guests. Seeing five people on the elevator does not give an accurate representation to even form a wild guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:54 AM
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Is there a Pussy Exchange Rate (PER) and where do you find it? Is it in the same location as the Pussy Pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:46 AM
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I never have sex for a favor. That would br demeaning to my husband. Sex is a gift for me and when he wants it I respond like it's ice cream. Yes I'll take a second scoop and put some nuts on top. Pack it down until there is room for no more. I never fake orgasms either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:33 AM
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Well, I'm a woman who works out. I've switched over to lifting and light cardio. But seriously, you saw 11 guys at the resort gym. C'mon. Unless your viewed the 24/7 gym footage for the past month or so you can't go by what you saw. Everytime I go to the hotel gym in a resort area, most of the people there are middle-aged to 60+. I guess the fun really starts when the dentures come out. This is why you can't base an opinion on limited personal information.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 05:30 AM
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If a woman values her partner she will give him a BJ if he wants one, especially if it has been her practice in the past. All the other reasons on here are excuses. Dick smells. Option 1. Well if you can't tell him then maybe you should keep the legs together until you know him better to feel free to be honest. Option 2. Have a couples shower to clean off. Dick too Big: Do a hand mouth combo. Not Circumcised: Options 1 and 2 above. Bad Past Experience: Yeah, really reaching but I'll play. Talk t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:52 AM
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Same place as "Where's the racism?" Simmering below the surface, below the niceties shown in public but openly expressed by anonymous postings on the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 02:26 PM
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Have no idea what you are talking about. I've been married 29 years and neither one of us suffered a death of self or personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:15 PM
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I think men and women should just be the best versions of themselves. If you have to work as hard at keeping or attracting women as RP or MRP says, then you would be better suited alone. The truth is usually found in the middle and is not a static abstract but can be a sliding scale dependent upon each individual's situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 02:55 PM
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Still not adressing my reply. But you never really wanted a discussion or debate but others to validate you. At this stage in human history there is a good chance that we will once again have true overlords. AI's will run the world and we will be bred down to 3-foot tall, human housepets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:26 PM
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You cease to be an outlier when your contribution to society is so great it becomes like "an act of God." Look at the make up of the US government representatives, most are not that attractive and many have weight issues. They are just the people who have direct influence on your life since they contribute to setting public policy. I guess they too are outliers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:51 PM
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The fact that I just gave you undisputed overlords in science and culture who dispute your premise and whom your refuse to recognize is not my problem but yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:37 PM
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I have to disagree about judging the book by the cover. Stephen Hawkins, brilliant, but not good looking then or now. He is going down in history for his work. Bill Gates, average then and now, could buy us all he's so rich. Oprah, average then, obese, and has a massive cultural presence and influence. Einstein, odd looking in younger years and older, permanently etched in history for his contribution to the world. Ted Bundy, charismatic psychopath, but if you were to judge him by "the cover", a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:18 PM
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Maybe I'm slow today, but if an alpha is the one who has power over the female in a relationship, are you asking if a beta who assumes power in the relationship becomes alpha by taking the lead and if so, what did he do to transfer from beta to alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 11:05 PM
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Yes, I do support the right of a couple to set forth the terms of their sexuality in writing so that false rape accusations cannot be made. This sexual agreement could be used as proof in court of consent by the nonverbal consenter. Some of the things you describe could be considered rape even in marriage much less a regular partner, such as being non-communicative such as passed out or asleep during sexual activities. So I think a private contract opting out of strict verbal consent may be a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:19 PM
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1 Corinthians 11:9 says woman was created for the glory of man. Genesis has her as a helper. My response to you was the phrase "put her first" implied a BP marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 10:31 PM
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There is a difference between putting their needs first versus taking their needs into consideration and making decisions based on what the husband deems best for the family. One the husband will quickly lose his authority and vision, the other he retains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:32 PM
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Putting her needs before his is him deferring to her under the guise of his leading. The woman was created for the benefit of man, not vice versa in historical readings of Christianity. What OP describes with the saying "her needs first" is basically the wife in the driver's seat with the husband as a tag along. The wife puts the husband's needs first and plays a supporting role to him. Not the opposite. She is just a part of the whole and not the whole. She is to merge into him as the metaphori…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 04:22 PM
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I think the term traditional is way over used and really has little meaning. My grandparents were marriage 1.0. Both grandfather and grandmother worked full time. My grandmother ruled the house and him. The idea that trad families were only ones with the husband provider set up is more stereotype then truth for many Americans in the 1940s - 1950s era. Somehow the ideal became confused later on as being the only form of marriage 1.0. The myth became perceived reality. In another comment you descr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 01:47 PM
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I think you are projecting your personal story on to others and coming to an incorrect conclusion. You seem to imply things would be different if only you had the opportunity to practice in your teens. As far as sexual inhibitions, most men and women do suffer from some sort of insecurity and nervousness at the prospect of sex with a new partner. This is rather common and it affects men too in much the same way but on a whole other level. Banging your way through the HS yearbook to overcome it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:56 PM
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As a woman, I would rather see the women in my family, wearing hijab and modest clothing, married, and in stable homes than engaging in serial monogamy and hook-up culture. With that being said, I don't see full out sharia coming to the US. The only reason why Islam is not growing faster here is that it suffers from the same literal mindset that evangelical Christianity suffers from and this holds no intellectual appeal for many. If a more moderate and progressive form of Islam actually takes ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:24 PM
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For me kissing is a form of intimacy and will be the first deterent to sexual progression. When you are kissing, you take in and exchange your germs, the others scent and the first sign of sexual compatibility. If you taste bad, smell "off", and can't be bothered to coordinate your lips and tongues so that the two dance together, you are probably not suitable mates for each other. The bad taste and "off" body smell will repulse me at a subconscious level. The lack of kissing coordination, and wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:55 PM
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Kudos to you. I can't abide by that teaching and am certain it has no bearing in scripture or common sense. Since the OT kings would have had harems with women from pagan cultures, I am sure quite a few gave BJs to completion. No where is this discussed in the bible and the sin of Onan was a sin of not completing the family duty and deceiving through purposely not impregnating his brother's widow.
/r/RPChristians09/01/18 03:44 PM
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The phrases "create your slut" and "caveman" sex seem to reek of immaturity and lack of real sexual experience with a live partner not the one on screen as you work out your right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 04:01 PM
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Be a wife. If you know he is stressed from work, how does your threatening divorce and telling him you signed-on to Ashley Maddison help? Adding another stressor to a man already under stress is not a good plan. Have you asked yourself why he stopped taking the T-pills even though they were helping? He told you that you act angry. What have you done to work on your anger, besides bitch? He probably has zero confidence because he has stress at work, a family to support by a stressful job, and an …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/17 09:21 PM
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In addition to the submissive stereotype, Asian woman are typically shorter than western women and give the short western guy the advantage of being taller compared to his Asian GF. There is also the perception that Asian women don't get chubby.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/17 02:33 AM
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Both sexes cheat and historically more men were adulterous. Now women are catching up with adultery and petitioning for divorce at a higher rate. You can't make marriages work by having the state trap men and women in a union that is toxic. Maybe a better option would be to make it a lot harder to enter into a state/government marriage. And give tax breaks to the married working class and let them be first in line for government aid before single moms who have kids out of wedlock. There are no e…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 06:42 PM
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My husband's father left him, his brother, and his wife in poverty. Never paid up on child support and set up house with a new woman and her existing child. He made no attempt to see his kids until they were in their thirties. The mother never hired an attorney or went back to the courts to have him thrown in jail for nonpayment of child support. She had to go to work at a truck stop and her eldest son had to get a job at fifteen to help support the family because dad was off spending money on t…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 04:54 PM
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I dunno the death penalty is hardcore. What happens if the spouse chooses to forgive? Will there be a waiver exemption?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 12:55 AM
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So will the men be punished for adultery too or just the women? Do you really think mass rape is the answer?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 08:06 PM
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Well RP adopts anything that remotely resonates with them. I guess you haven't made it through their iconic reading list. Might I suggest The Manipulated Man. While the author is a divorcee who would usually be mocked as a post-wall bitch who screwed over a good man, she gets a free pass because her book embodies all things manosphere. She is the exception to AWALT. Seriously if one book could sum up the mindset of the group this book, The Manipulated Man, is close to biblical level. The author …
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 06:54 PM
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I think the second link was more valuable. To quote you: "JBP thinks that if we respected marriage more there would be less sexual assault. JBP gives women carrer advice by telling them to be less aggressive and be conscious of their innate desire for family time." What you said is innocent enough until it falls into RP hands. In RP hands it turns into: "See even an educated psychologist admits that there are biological differences in the sexes and that women are more suited for home life as mot…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 05:50 PM
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I did not mean to come off abruptly but I have a feeling you have never experienced a religious conversion and enjoyed the afterglow of its simplified worldview with easy solutions. Everything seems to unfold magically before your eyes and every new experience coincidentally matches the teachings.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 03:08 PM
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https://areomagazine.com/2017/09/17/the-curious-case-of-jordan-peterson/ http://www.macleans.ca/opinion/is-jordan-peterson-the-stupid-mans-smart-person/ Maybe you will get an idea from this link. All I know is that RP loves this guy. I believe the second link explains his popularity with the alt-right.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 03:03 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/7gfabo/lauren_southern_take_on_marriage/ I'm linking this for you to review. Since Buddy referenced SMV this post directly addresses what RP teaches about SMV of both sexes. The video explains it and my replies are rebuttals with supporting links. As with any cult mentality there is always a grain of truth which has been twisted to suit the group's goal.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 06:41 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/4fjpcg/red_pill_detox_first_aid_kit_start_here/ I would suggest reading the above link before engaging him. I don't know if he is red pilled or just in some corner of the manosphere. Both MGTOW and RP like Jordan Peterson and use similar terminology. Unfortunately when you called Buddy out about his trolling the college student's issue with the rape joke professor you put yourself into the blue pill camp. So now your advice means nothing because you ar…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 06:32 AM
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Yeah a big heads up here. Stay away from guys who claim to be RP Christians. They have a huge tendency to gloss over the love your wife as yourself verse but love those other verses about submission. They totally turn Jesus into an alpha bruh in their image by merging the RP ideas with Christianity and view the religion through a RP lens. They are way harder on women than the Bible ever was. Watch out for guys who practice kino (excessive touchy behavior like hand on the arm, back) and are evasi…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/17 03:05 AM
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From a female perspective, I view RP, especially MRP, as being anti-man. All men are not invited into their conversations of masculinity, only the ones healthy and young enough to get and maintain physical strength and sexual stamina. There is no room for the man with physical disability or the man with performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction. I guess in RP world these men don't matter and don't count as real men. RP seems to forget that ageing does not stop at thirty-five and life is not pe…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/17 04:26 PM
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http://www.foryourmarriage.org/marriage-as-covenant/
/r/RPChristians22/11/17 01:51 AM
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I read your past posts/replies. Are both you and your LTR on the same page religiously? I know she is alluding to marriage, but what do you want? If you read MRP you will find that some married guys on there are actively cheating or looking to cheat. But that is ignored since RP is amoral and it is a double standard. So there are plenty of wives and GFs out there whose husbands are doing the same thing. Therefore, "he's not yours, it's just your turn" also applies as advice for women. So you nee…
/r/RPChristians17/11/17 05:15 AM
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Romans 5:12 states that sin entered the world through Adam. So it is shared responsibility: Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned: Romans 5:12. The virtuous wife below: http://www.sacred-texts.com/bib/apo/sir026.htm As far as Sarah, Abraham went right along with it. Abraham didn't have to impregnate Sarah's handmaid and he didn't have to go along with sending them off but did so because God told him to li…
/r/RPChristians16/11/17 08:00 PM
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Calling women "devil spawns" will not furthur your cause and is not scriptural. Do you think Isaac worked all those years for a devil spawn wife? How about Abraham? Would you like to tell him Sarah was devil spawn? Just because you are on the Internet doesn't mean your words will not be judged as if they were spoken aloud. A young lady posted on here to understand the value being feminine brings and you basically called her a member of Satan's brood. That is not scriptural. The woman sinned firs…
/r/RPChristians16/11/17 04:16 PM
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