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/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:52 AM
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Times like this remind me that feminism and women have taken away many mens biological imperative, the culture tells all of them that it’s not healthy for them to want women and they are some evil beings if they complain about one man sleeping with 5 women for all of her youth, laughing & mocking the poor weak man trained to support feminist if he looks and says “oh wait a min, is this really right? I have nothing and I’m shamed for wanting anything?” lol I’m sorry, but it’s funny, an ideology s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:42 AM
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I don't know about that. Have you considered that feminism and women have taken away many mens biological imperative, the culture tells all of them that it’s not healthy for them to want women and they are some evil beings if they complain about one man sleeping with 5 women for all of her youth, laughing & mocking the poor weak man trained to support feminist if he looks and says “oh wait a min, is this really right? I have nothing and I’m shamed for wanting anything?” lol I’m sorry, but it’s f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:28 AM
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You need to get your testosterone levels examined bro. Many such cases. Also I hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:32 AM
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Could your girlfriend keep you if Nicki Minaj or Zendaya came knocking? No, of course not. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:47 PM
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I like to like the dictator who is in charge and has the ability to decide if I live or die. Keeps me alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:17 PM
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As opposed to Russia?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:16 PM
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Lol enjoy being pissed off bro. If I was in Ukraine, I’d be long gone or I’d be waving my Russian flag and have a giant picture of Putin in my living room. No way in hell am I dying for a lost war for Western liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:14 PM
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Lol okay bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:05 AM
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At the end of the day, I think it absolutely has an effect and signifies something in men too. The men I knew with high counts were broken, sad people, whether they were attractive or not. Not necessarily bad guys, but not A list material for a serious relationship; this is the cause of the AF/BB dichotomy men endlessly moan about, which could probably be better rendered as a sort of perversion (and more literally, an inversion) of the Madonna-Whore complex, which was itself first described by F…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:59 AM
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I don’t buy it and I’ve heard it too. They’re just ego stroking you. Still a good thing and I’m sure you’re as hard as the Rock or whatever, but I wouldn’t take what they say at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:35 AM
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To some extent the effect is certainly real. On OLD, I deliberately am only looking for hook ups and even do stuff like only open with hey because only the most interested matches will reply. But that being said, most of the straight women I know are having consistent sex either through strings of hook ups or FWB situations or some combination thereof. It’s gross to be with such a person and sad that I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 05:07 AM
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It’s impossible not to slow down once you have real responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:20 AM
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Good point. Even women at zero could still have slept around endlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:18 AM
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I’m not bragging about my sex life bro. I’ll be very open about how unhappy I am about it, and a huge part of it is that women with low counts are an endangered species. Shit, just women who like me are an endangered species. It doesn’t change the fact that you got deceived if you think this. You’re literally the last person she wants to know, besides maybe her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:39 AM
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You can’t hate someone for being average. You’ll end up hating too many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:11 AM
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Where does he meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:08 AM
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I can see your meaning. Perhaps men here just more consistently run into LVW with higher n-counts, on account of being lower status. It would lead to a biased view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:07 AM
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I believe it. It’s honestly sad seeing some of these women. They’re very, very experienced with men sexually, but they have no romantic experience at all and hence no idea what we want or are thinking/feeling or what a relationship should look like. My current gf is that way and she basically lets me walk all over her, no idea what to expect from a relationship or what constitutes normal treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:02 AM
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It’s pretty typical my guy. That’s like one partner every semester + a few. Women can rack up infinite bodies in however little time they want, so all it takes is one hoe phase to get a lifetime’s worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:43 AM
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Have you noticed that the ugly ones tend to have even higher counts? Life is so strange and paradoxical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:41 AM
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Very much normal. To some extent, it was even decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:40 AM
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Yeah OP is kidding himself and probably bullied his GFs into lying about their counts. Many such cases. 10? I’d be ecstatic if it was just 10 at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:33 AM
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Chad never asked for your sympathy, only your wife’s number. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah fair enough I can see that angle. Dictatorships aren’t generally more fun. I think it’s complicated by the issue that poorer and less stable societies are more likely to be authoritarian, so correlation is overwhelming any observable causation. Sorry bro when I said “about to arrest” I meant “able to”. Autocorrect fucked me lol. He didn’t do anything special, just restricted birth control, pushed “pro-family” stuff (though not that much), and allowed more immigrants in (mostly from Central …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:46 PM
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irrelevant stat about life expectancy We’re talking about fertility. Life expectancy in the former USSR collapsed in the 90s when the whole country failed. They’re recovering now, however modestly. Putin was about to arrest population decline in Russia, something most European countries cannot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:02 PM
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Bro they lived into their 80s and 90s. Even retirees have limits lol. That stuff dies down after your 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 12:47 PM
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Well I’m sorry that you feel that way. Both sides of my grandparents were married for 50+ years each. Do you think they were attracted to each other at 65, 70? Not even a little, I’d imagine. They still loved each other just as strongly, stronger even. And no one “deserves” a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 03:28 AM
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Why not? I’m not some shallow monster who’s only obsessed with looks. She has a compatible personality and in fact she is the one who begged to date me. I’ve told her I’m not attracted to her as a matter of honesty, but she still hasn’t left or anything. It seems she loves me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:27 PM
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I just turned 24
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:26 PM
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Exactly. I’m not at all attracted to my girlfriend, but I still love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:37 PM
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I do agree, to be honest. Russia had a lot of success in this regard. There’s a lot of reasons why. I could make a post on it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:40 PM
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It honestly sucks about our culture. “Children” used to literally lead armies at 14. Shit didn’t used to be like this. Now kids can’t even go outside till they’re teenagers. Part of the issue is that the average age is astronomical compared to past times. The average age should be in the twenties or even teens. Instead it’s like 30s or higher. Absurdity. It creates a false impression that even someone as old as 25, whose fertility is already beginning to decline however modestly, is a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:51 AM
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Is this sub just men shilling their fetishes now? Your future wife is going to ecstatic about your kink, but I think I’ll stick to women my own age. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:48 AM
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Whatever. Sounds like his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:46 AM
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I hope you realize that government intervention these days means some macabre, Neo-Liberal Hell. It won’t be them ordering us to make nuclear families. Quite the opposite, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:30 AM
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Uh yeah. Not really what I was referring too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:17 PM
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We don’t demand your dating style or strategy changes, just honesty about what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:29 PM
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You’ve literally never settled over anything? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:11 PM
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No they don’t! You’ve spent wayyy too much time online if you sincerely think that most people resent the opposite sex. They might view their counter-parts with a certain healthy skepticism and they might not fully understand their inner-workings and they might hold benign sexist views (ie. men should defend their woman). But holding proactive resentment is unusual and indicative of a personal issue. It’s abnormal and you shouldn’t tolerate that attitude from a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:08 PM
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You know you’re in Statistics Hells when the people calling for more intense stats analysis are just talking about mean/median/range shit. No offense, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:11 PM
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To get a chance to woo a beautiful girl, it’s an entirely reasonable price. If I had a button that gave me a date with a girl I liked but I had to pay 45 bucks to use it, you can bet I’d hit that shit every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:39 PM
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I wouldn’t argue it even shows interest so much as shows that they don’t have a lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:29 PM
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I’ve taken friends, men and women, out for drinks/a meal/free drugs tor their birthdays, just because we’re friends. I’ve even taken 2-3 people and paid for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:28 PM
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Agreed and normally I’d argue that what happens online stays online, so it’s not too important. In this case though, we’re discussing how to actually convince the girl to split the check. It absolutely won’t stay online. He’s basically asking how to dye his red flag to orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:26 PM
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Men will really spend 45 bucks on a girl’s meal and think they were “taken advantage of”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:23 PM
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Blood, no clue about the other stuff. It was pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:29 AM
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There’s still a lot of pressure on white guys to date white that more than compensates. I might make a post on it on purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:47 PM
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You guys are all assuming the best - that there’s some hidden aspect about him making him more desirable. Instead, make yourselves miserable and assume the worst. She’s only with him because she’s insecure and thinks it’s a looksmatch. Maybe she was fat in high school, maybe she was mistreated by a few partners, maybe she’s just plain sad. She’s misjudging herself and paired with someone below her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:28 PM
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Not at all bro. People accuse me of having a small dick all the time, and I’d hardly be saying that if I agreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:24 PM
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Mate what kind of example would even satisfy you, then? It seems like you would claim to be right even the most outlandish hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:21 PM
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That was almost 20 years ago, friend. Could it not simply be you who has changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:20 PM
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Certainly people can fall for someone in spite of his or her flaws, but most people don’t just ignore them. They might try to fix them (and some of them legit are just fixable), they might learn to live with it, or they might not have even known it was there until they got to know that person better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:19 PM
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Ultimately being witty or otherwise capable is only going to get you so far. They must also have mutually comparable personalities too, I imagine. Like for instance, maybe they’re both kind of humble, see that trait reflected in the other, and like that person more because of it. If this happens over a multitude of personality traits, it strengths the match.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:17 PM
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Do you really think most men have ED these days? I’m willing to believe it’s a lot more common than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:14 PM
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Decline of gender roles goes both ways, I’m afraid. People either aren’t teaching their sons those things OR they’re reaching their daughters too (see Lainey Wilson’s, Things a Man Oughta Know). Most lessons these days are gender neutral, and correspondingly boys are taught girl things too. Sure, women would like men who can do that, but would they like them any more than men who can do “feminine” things, like cook for them? I don’t think so, at least in general. I imagine it’s mostly up to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:05 PM
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This stuff is truly horrifying and no one cares in the slightest. I got tested out of paranoia and even though I’m higher than average, I’m only average from like 30-40 years ago. It’s insanity. We need mandatory test injections for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:59 PM
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Not at all. Most men aren’t getting matches consistently enough to be that pre-selective. Even leaving things open ended, I’d only average one lay every 2 weeks or so. Imagine how little it would be if I demanded a relationship or FWB from the jump. There’s no incentive to be pre-selective unless you’re absolutely flooded with matches and can’t keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:10 PM
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What are you talking about bro? What would be a smarter reason to become a terrorist? Because someone told you God wants it? Oh yeah, very intelligent lol At least the incels are self-motivated and unique compared to other terrorists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:35 PM
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Your title is about attractive women and then your post is about how incels are fucked. Yeah, no kidding bro. That’s why they become terrorists. Most people here aren’t like that. Is it really the Elephant Man’s fault that he can’t bag attractive women? Or was it just pomp and circumstance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:25 PM
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Exactly. I’m dating one right now because I have to but it’s not like it’s serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:43 AM
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It’s gross
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:40 AM
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And her having sex with other men while you’re dating her doesn’t prevent that either. Men are just insecure about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:39 AM
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Yeah the last thing I want is to be literally as intimate as possible with my soulmate literally as soon as possible. I think she should fuck at least 2, maybe 3 dudes first. I don’t even let a girl date me until she fucks one of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:18 AM
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I hate this culture bro. What a shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:16 AM
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Go tell your pastor lol Is it our fault you’re surrounded by literally zero people who would consider it a bad thing to sleep around? Presumably, you chose that social circle. Women can do the same thing, just with more difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:11 AM
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How did they meet younger girls like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:10 AM
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Very strange to be so anti-slut shaming yet have this retrograde view.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:00 AM
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I have a higher body count and have issues with intimacy and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:59 PM
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Yeah, most of them would come to accept it. It’s better than nothing and, with a family on their hands, they’ll have more pressing matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:06 PM
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You’re not listening to what I said. Your own comment proves my point. There are half a million more men than women, even though women live longer. Why? It’s mostly due to migration. The result is that the 20s to 40s demographic is strongly male, by a few percentage points. In a few countries like Sweden, the effect is more prominent. It’s a real factor that impacts the dating market. Male dominated areas were seen to have more incel content on Twitter in one study.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:45 PM
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You’re looking at the amount overall. Women live longer for a whole host of reasons, so there’s more in total. We actually have a strong male bias in the younger demographics, mostly driven by immigration.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:46 PM
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And ironically it’s the decline of beta bux as a successful strategy that’s driving the social angst that manifests into TRP and the manosphere. If it was still viable, men would be ultimately satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:43 PM
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Making a woman cum is the most beta thing I’ve ever heard of. Imagine simping for a woman so hard that you literally make her cum. Pathetic, but it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:40 PM
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Ok so sexism isn’t the belief that one sex is inferior, because you’re allowed to say women are weaker. Only if you think the inferiority isn’t real is it sexist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:15 PM
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You’re basically lecturing a bunch of sad teenagers and 20-somethings that their 30s will be even worse. Yes, they will be even worse. That’s when suicide first peaks, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:14 PM
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12 is average for a college graduate bro. Entirely standard for Western women. In fact, I think it’s the average in a few countries like Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:41 PM
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Nope. Sorry bud, I’m the one who decides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 03:39 PM
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Only after the dudes become old and jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:00 AM
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Hey don’t kink shame bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:47 PM
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Unfortunately you didn’t bother to review the sub’s rules before posting so your rant about how anyone who struggles in dating just isn’t trying hard enough will probably be deleted. Anyone coming here complaining about le females who doesn’t even do stuff like groom themselves or “have passion” is either aware or so totally delusional that you’re not going to be able to save them through a computer monitor. There’s no point in lambasting them. They either know (and probably are just depressed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:42 PM
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What happens in the US dictates what happens in Canada though. It’s too bad the Shark Tank guy couldn’t learn French. He could’ve been Canadian Trump (and probably a bad PM, but funny nonetheless).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:00 PM
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Yeah definitely an element missing to this convo is whether they opened up at an appropriate time (after months/years in an LTR versus way too soon) and whether they actually “opened up” or revealed they were about to shoot up the school. I’ve only ever opened up to girls who seemed to have gone through the same things. Once I did it way too soon, once at an appropriate time. It makes all the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:30 AM
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Where do I go to meet these widows?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:10 PM
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Okay well maybe you should have posted your widow FWB’s nudes instead of an article about a woman crying after sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:01 PM
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LOL WHAT Bro where the widows at? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:00 PM
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It’s definitely not. It’s the default. He’s essentially complaining that these “stuck up girls” took the extra time to let him down gently. Big L on social awareness. Or maybe they were rude, but even then it’s not like randomly DMing girls is particularly polite lol. He has some strange conception of himself as a 21st century gentleman who deserves and provides the respect you’d imagine, even though he’s trolling for sex in the most obnoxious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:34 PM
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I would prefer a virgin and I’ve literally never tried to turn the lights off during sex. I remember when I was 15 I heard that song that goes “you look better with the lights off” and I remember a girl saying it was an insult, so I always try to turn them on if I’m not preoccupied. Feels kind of like a double bind though. The only guys who aren’t hypocrites for wanting a virginal waifu are inexperienced themselves, so of course they’d be bad at sex. If I tell you I don’t think I’m that bad, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:32 PM
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She even did him the courtesy of a rejection instead of just instantly blocking. Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:26 PM
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It’s true bro. Symmetry is one of the most basically attractive things for all (sentient/semi-sentient) organisms, and even some that aren’t. Essentially every animal is symmetrical. Some have insane levels of it, like starfish. It has to do with the actual biochemical mechanism by which an organism grows. Symmetrical growth indicates you grew healthy, in a controlled and (literally) balanced way. Asymmetrical growth indicates some issue, some chemical or hormone issue usually or perhaps a growt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:23 PM
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Eh I don’t think it’s that unrealistic tbh. The people here are definitely Reddit autismos, but they’re also autismos fixating on sex/relationships/etc. If they’re just average dudes and they put some modest work into their appearance, they can do just fine. I guess it depends on what your definition of success is. Like I’ve slept with more people than the average person my age and have been in more LTRs, but I don’t consider myself successful. Most people here seem to believe it should be a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:17 PM
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At this point? Most people are always shit posting. The high IQ threads where something is actually learned are the Science threads. They’re enough to justify this sub existing and they don’t get stale because new studies always come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:12 PM
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Sometimes people make fake accusations of misogyny, but on a place like this (as opposed to IRL) those accusations are called out and examined. If they aren’t genuine, they’re dismissed. It would be impressive to me if I looked into your mind and truly found zero resentment or hatred for women. It’s not like it’s unbalanced. Misandry gets called out too. If women can manage not to hate the sex responsible for 90% of the crime and 99% of the sex crime, I think we can learn to live with a few rude…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:05 PM
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You might be a six but you deserve a bf who knows you’re a 10. A guy who gets insulted a girl who’s “so ugly” would reject him? That’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:01 PM
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No spoilers bro I’m still watching his story lol Yeah he did. Big Ed is the slayer of the black pill. Not only did he have a previous marriage, but it ended because he cheated on her. Just lmao. Imagine getting cheated on Big Ed. Proof that it’s about (or at least can be about) the cheater and not the cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:41 PM
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Well it’s certainly a minority. Sorry if I sounded a bit bonkers. I just mean that it comes up a lot. It seems higher than the proportion would be for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:49 PM
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I am paranoid, but if you aren’t your partners best, you’re asking to get cheated on. Like they know what’s out there and probably where to get it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:07 PM
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Okay but it seems to happen literally all the time. Why are so many women in such relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:01 PM
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No, they absolutely could be. In fact, I’d reckon most men marry the most attractive woman they sleep with. For instance, my current partner is the most attractive, which isn’t saying much. For women, though, it’s almost never the case that their partner is the most attractive. They can get with men 1-3 points higher by casual sex, so they will almost always be with better partners than their looksmatch. There was a good thread about this a while back, which I’m mostly lifting the ideas from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:58 PM
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Yeah bro I do want flowers. Life sucks for men. It’s truly a nightmare where you can’t even talk about how much it sucks without being blasted, essentially told you deserve it. So yeah, I guess I could go be a fag and whine to my gf about how I want flowers. But I can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:51 PM
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No, they’re just the best you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:48 PM
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Because women can very easily find another man who is better for sex. If the man in the LTR isn’t the best, he’s basically asking to be cheated on. You should care. I sincerely don’t know why women don’t. If he can sleep with more attractive women than you casually, then better partners are only a few swipes away. Realistically, most men are lucky to get much of anything, let alone from a woman they sincerely adore. Their partner usually is their best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:45 PM
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Yeah instead you go “you’re an incel and women can secretly tell and that’s why women hate you”. It has happened to me plenty of times for disagreeing with a woman. You don’t assume they’re married, let alone ask about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:43 PM
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Whatever. It must be nice to actually feel that kind of thing for people still, better yet to actually be able to get with them. Sounds like you’re just bitching for no reason tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:38 PM
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Yeah honestly. One thing I don’t understand about FDS is it could literally just be “don’t be fat” and that “dating strategy” will work for 99% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:22 PM
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I am fatphobic and I’m proud. Don’t shame me for my preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:44 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:43 PM
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At the end of the day, you simply will not be able to compete with her best bro. She could easily have, say, 10 partners including you. Do you really think you’re the top 10%? Top 5% for 20? Borderline narcissistic. And that would just be if she randomly picked guys, not picking literally the hottest guys she can for casual sex. It’s frankly absurd to imagine you’re her best partner in any objective way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:41 PM
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Yeah, exactly man. LTRs fucking suck. Why would any man want to be in one? You can get all the perks without having it, including literally having children if you find the right girl. We hate them. We just have no other option but to be in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:30 PM
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If he’s hot enough to have options, she probably doesn’t really dislike him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:27 PM
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You should get your testosterone levels checked, being completely serious. It could be indicative of a health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:21 PM
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Lol what No matter how good Big Ed feels about himself, he will be laughed out by 99/100 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:19 PM
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Those things are generally unattractive in women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:11 PM
4

What, am I supposed to not be attracted to the idea of my girl beating up some skank? This cuts both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:02 PM
4

What do you mean where’s the outrage? People blast it as immoral. If they were really that evil, they’d divorce every woman they marry after 5-10 years and just keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:58 PM
12

I’ll never forgive literally anyone I can blame for making me miss out on young love. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:56 PM
1

Perhaps, but it feels dismissive to leave it at “pick the wrong men”. They can be quite deceitful and it’s not like women are being taught how to pick them out in a seminar class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:14 AM
1

It’s honestly the red pill for women. It’s not like you’re going to die alone or he’s going to think you’re ugly. It’s just the unfortunate reality. Also, 30s is a bit early for “significantly”. Maybe a little, but honestly some people are finding a style and stuff and glow up. It can be a conscious effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:09 AM
2

Damn what kind of Chad is making his fuck buddies do the dishes? I’m jealous tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:01 AM
4

Yeah, actually I disagree. If you’re truly that hideous, your best play is to expose yourself to as many people as possible (not like that, you perv). You want to sign up for 5, 6, 7, 8 dating apps. There’s no limit! If you’re that ugly, you need to find that one in a million and that‘s almost impossible IRL, especially if you’re also anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:21 PM
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That’s just the nature of Reddit. Simplistic answers get the most upvotes while some long essay that careful nuances the question is likely to be ignored. The upvote/downvote system also leads to an incredibly powerful hive mind so the majority opinion dominates. On debate subs like this one, it’s almost schizophrenic to see the difference threads can have because of this, with one side or the other dominating. It crushes the discourse for debate subs but Reddit wasn’t designed for debate tbh. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:53 PM
2

Yeah not really. You can slowly begin to love someone. It’s silly to generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:48 PM
3

From the abstract of your first article: Further results indicated that personality–attraction relationships were mediated by a well-groomed appearance. So basically extroverts (and also agreeable people) are more attractive because they practice more grooming, rather than it being do to physical attractiveness. Makes sense given they’re probably going out more. Their next line is: The results suggest a kernel of truth to the idea that sociable individuals are also attractive. So I don’t think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:25 PM
1

Bro where in the study does it say that??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:19 PM
3

This should be under Science and we should have a real talk about it. Instead it’s just people (mostly men) shitposting about how their crippling agoraphobia is actually not their fault at all, a learned behavior, as if no one else has bad experiences outside. Perhaps it’s an illness like anxiety, perhaps you have trauma from childhood, perhaps it’s truly that you’re so gross most people would loathe you. We’re not talking about that. We’re talking about a sample size of generally normal people.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:18 PM
0

No way bro. Being a bad boy is just objectively sexy. No homo, but if you were gay you’d seriously rather fuck some nice guy husband material over someone genuinely hot and dangerous? No one should do that to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:11 PM
1

Absolutely by the standards of earlier times, and to be honest I think that’s the main driving factor in increased rates of depression and suicide. But cultures change, sometimes quite rapidly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:02 PM
2

This is just silly. Of course there’s a trend, but it’s not a rule. Have you ever seen Big Ed on 90 day fiancée? Perfect example of an extrovert (I mean he literally put this shit on National TV) who is, uh, yeah. You have to see him to believe him lol. The other commenter gave you a good example of a hot introvert, just watch some TLC if you want ugly extroverts. Like I said, a trend probably exists. But is it the rule? Not at all. It’s not even a strong trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:59 PM
2

I caution against such unbridled optimism. We’ve been totally at the mercy of these variants, unable to even vaguely predict them. As in, we don’t know when or where they’ll arise (or even if), don’t know how deadly they are even if we have the sequence, don’t know how contagious, don’t know which species’ it can infect, etc. We’re in the dark every time a new one arises. We’re trying to go back to normal, but Denmark’s excess mortality is through the roof. They’re just not counting COVID deaths…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:53 PM
3

Precisely. It should be easier than ever for introverts with online dating. If they really are just too nervous for that, I imagine their anxiety is fucking up a lot more in their lives than dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:48 PM
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Yeah but realistically most mental illnesses are horrible for your SMV/RMV, for both sexes. Women just have a lower bar to clear so it’s not a death sentence. And by any standard, that’s totally reasonable. You would objectively have an illness. There’s no way to get around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:44 PM
1

Distinction without a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:42 PM
1

Love can definitely sneak up on you too bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:46 PM
1

What, over one little thing? There’s a middle ground between applauding sleeping around and totally ostracizing people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:45 PM
3

Bro when they are actively married and dating you like in the hypothetical, it’s absolutely your business. They’re your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:15 PM
0

Yes they are called asexuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:15 PM
4

Yeah, if you get laid regularly. Yeah, if you get laid regularly. Yeah, if they get laid regularly. Meaning unique partners, ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:00 PM
5

It IS unusual and a great achievement. Do you think most men could just go to a bar and meet someone with any likelihood? No, absolutely not. They’re above average if they get even a pathetically low (for a man) n-count of like 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:49 PM
1

Because if it’s delusion, eventually you probably will break out of it or at least it’s a serious possibility. Falling out of so-called genuine love would be more improbable. I think I’m getting pretty rambley and nonsensical here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:47 PM
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Not really. We were always entirely dispensable. Look at how Ukraine is drafting every boy from 18 to 60 while the women gladly leave. It’s just that society suddenly cares about women now, where it didn’t before. By comparison, it looks like they specifically hate us, but it was always this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:22 PM
0

That kind of crap belongs in a young adult novel. She is just a controlling partner, irrelevant to the fact that she objectifies you. She could be controlling even if she loved every single thing about you, or loved nothing at all. Everyone wants their partner to behave their best, in theory, some just take it too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:43 PM
0

What? Pretty sure they share all sorts of cringey mostly-fiction about getting laid. They call it field reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:35 PM
16

I see so many happy men in these comments yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:32 PM
8

No, because he will sincerely prefer the former to the latter, even in terms of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:32 PM
12

And it just happens to be that they prefer way less attractive men at the same time they start to lose their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:31 PM
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Okay well when women stop, we’ll stop
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:30 PM
8

Most women here say they almost never meet a man they are actually attracted and that the attraction has to be grown over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:29 PM
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The number one negative issue is that male suicide is an all time high. In the UK, suicide is the leading cause of death for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:27 PM
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It just seems very coincidental that “what attracts you” changes at the same time women’s looks fade and they want to start families. Almost, too coincidental.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:25 PM
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No, I won’t understand. I literally do not care bro. If you are with someone you sincerely like and find attractive, you are incredibly fortunate and have no right to whine about this sort of thing. Like I said, you just want to be miserable and I won’t indulge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:17 PM
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Lol no, no they didn’t. For instance, the average age of marriage in the Middle Ages was like 22-24, but they considered people adults at like 14-16. What do you think happened in that decade gap? The key is that it was way less promiscuous. She had a lot fewer partners and less experience with them, even if she wasn’t literally a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:49 PM
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You don’t know the first thing about me, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:47 PM
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Sure, in theory. Settling consciously creates an inherent dissatisfaction that can almost certainly only be resolved by either leaving or a mental technique. One such mental technique is to adopt preferences for unusual partners, such as dudes with lots of piercings or something. You are getting people who most consider disgusting, to be blunt, but you’ve convinced yourself they’re attractive for whatever reason. A common example in guys is chubby chasers who have rationalized an aberrant attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:43 PM
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It need not be a conscious effort, of course. Your own mind tricked you into accepting subpar men, apparently men. In the absence of better options, it rationalizes to accept what it can get it. You’re certainly right that ugly people do have lower standards and that plays a role, but even still they’re more likely to settle. Most people do settle, but it’s more nuanced than “she settled for him”. It’s more like, she compromised on his looks. Or, perhaps he looks past her hoe years. Almost no on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:27 PM
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Yeah it is bro. Even if I’m evil and looking to cheat, I wouldn’t hit on a girl in public because the odds of success are so laughably low, like below 5% not even. It’s even lower if it’s someone attractive enough to warrant risking my LTR for. So what temptation? The temptation to go up and repulse a girl and get called a creep behind my back? Ha When you’re Jason Mamoa, you can come back to me and say that you’ve been tempted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:18 PM
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Nonsense. Men, at least, settle for partners like that all the time. You just learn to live with it. It’s not like you can replace them with someone you won’t be embarrassed by.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:13 PM
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I hate you bro. What are you even talking about? Christ. You really just want to be as miserable as possible, don’t you? I am once again begging women to make me their handbag. Not caring about my personality is a plus tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:09 PM
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Okay let’s imagine a hypothetical here. Say that I settled with my wife and wasn’t attracted to her. If I use some MKUltra techniques to brainwash myself to become attracted to her, would I no longer be settling? Have I “un-settled” her, so to speak? I think if the attraction is delusional, it’s not really valid. You weren’t really into these women, just making do with what you could. Meaning, settling. You traded up for a different sort of woman as soon as you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:08 PM
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Well sure but like I’m not “constantly refusing to give into that urge”. Women literally never approach me bro lol Below average men can easily die alone by just not approaching. What temptation could exist that isn’t self-inflicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:04 PM
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You settled and used some variety of psychological/mental tricks to come to term with it, sub-consciously most likely (though it could certainly be done consciously).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:02 PM
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1) I’m pretty sure that’s a man you’re replying too 2) That’s just life bro. You grow up, marry someone you kind of like. Certainly not your ideal, but matches your standards in important ways. Hopefully the feelings stay around for a while, but realistically they will come and go. Do you think most people in history had deeply loving, stable marriages? I doubt it. We were sold a fairy tale is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:57 PM
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No, you were just delusional. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:54 PM
2

It goes away as you get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:53 PM
1

Lol what? I wish I had constant women willing to sleep with me bro. Not likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:52 PM
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Cheating in a relationship, as opposed to a marriage, is barely even cheating. You didn’t make any vows before God or whatever. These stats are heavily inflated by people getting cheated on by these unserious partners. If you get cheated on in a relationship and it actually hurts you, you can take solace in the fact that you were almost duped and got out in time. Of course, if you weren’t hurt (which is way more likely), you won’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:50 PM
1

No, I don’t. In fact, I think she’ll like her man less as she gets comfortable with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:48 PM
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We’re a few steps away from accepting that men should just leave their wives when they get old. After all, OP says I’m always justified in going for the best I can get. Who cares about her decades long commitment? Well, besides her ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:41 PM
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Bro I literally can’t find enough physical qualities to compromise on and have never been with a woman I was really that attracted too. Men absolutely aren’t demanding Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:32 PM
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Yeah my mistake. No idea why I thought females were mostly the feminine ones. So weird
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:57 PM
1

Sorry what? Are you talking about people on here or actual autistic men you met?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:56 PM
1

It’s probably only going to get worse for a while too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:54 PM
2

Sex crazed? Maybe for hotter men than me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:54 PM
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Sounds like internalized misogyny if that’s your definition of feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:53 PM
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Agreed. I think our generation is going to push back on gender nonconformity like that for straight people, at least to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:50 PM
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The issue is that no one argues any less for men. Indeed, people probably exaggerate how looks-focused men are, if anything. Meanwhile, it is commonly denied for women that looks are majorly important - literally the most important thing to them. Men are raised to believe that women give even the smallest shit about their character (genuinely funny). But also their resources, which is more realistic. Yet even the resources don’t matter too much these days. So the issue is men had a positive perc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:37 PM
1

Someone’s gotta go tell them they have to be miserable like us. They must not have gotten the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:32 PM
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Fuck that so hard bro. I absolutely refuse to accept it. I’ll die alone before I wife up some used up girl who has “matured”, coincidentally at the same time her looks faded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:29 PM
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No, HVM are more picky than HVW. LVM are less picky than LVW. I literally would date anyone with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:27 PM
1

Yeah absolutely. I’m not exactly sure if it’s precisely insecurity as some people say, but it’s certainly bad news bears for the relationship and his opinion of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:17 PM
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Yep or just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:03 PM
2

I think it would be very naive to assume she never had casual sex given she never says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:01 PM
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I assume he’s going to leave her considering he told her all this stuff. He’d be a moron to marry her now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:48 PM
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I have a feeling this bachelor doctor who is barely 30 will do fine, especially given he convinced a Stacey to marry him and was willing to deliberately torch the relationship like this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:43 PM
5

This would have been 10 years ago, so before Tinder took off for real around 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:38 PM
2

Hey it’s not like I’m some sick freak degenerate either bro. I just know that more exist. Ever heard of anal beads? They make those but for your urethra. Does it feel better than sex? I doubt it. It probably feels very different entirely. There’s also weird ass nipple play and shit that can use toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:00 PM
2

Very beautiful post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:25 PM
0

Maybe the first time but you get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:22 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:21 PM
1

Based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:21 PM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:19 PM
0

I have no doubt you will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:17 PM
2

Surprised you feel so confident barging into a conversation about mens’ sex toys when you clearly don’t know too much about them. Ah yes, the two types of sex toys: up the butt or massive fake onahole. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:05 PM
1

Whatever. They were never hated like now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:01 PM
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I don’t get it either man. Imagine having the ability to basically choose your partners like women can. Insane. Why settle for ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:50 PM
1

Bro how is fucking dudes compensating for being homosexual? That’s just actually being homosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:04 AM
1

Yeah, see “macabre cult of personality”. Course you didn’t bother to read my post so you whataboutism about Trump as if you’re replying to a guy defending him. The US president isn’t the leader of his ideology globally. The world is a lot bigger than the US. So what if Americans are hypocrites? The scope of the study is global. Go back to r/politics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:02 AM
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Kind of like when you assume the OP didn’t think of a really obvious thing and start shitposting without reading it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:18 AM
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You link a bunch of tangential articles that all use conservative/liberal in a different way, but no one can possibly read through the whole thing to find relevant figures and the like. Just link the actual figure bro, or at least tell me which article is actually important and you want me to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:14 AM
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Nonsense. People would be willing to say whether they’d be willing to report in a hypothetical circumstance. If conservative women are less likely to report these assaults, then their lack of willingness should become evident. I honestly suspect there is already literature on this out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:04 AM
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Okay, fine, but what made you jump to this as your first answer? It could also be the case that Conservative women are merely less likely to suffer crimes than their liberal counterparts (maybe due to a wealth gap)? More likely to own and know how to use a firearm? All reasons it could be happening. It’s certainly a multitude of many factors, I’m sure, so there’s a lot of possible answers. Like your first possible could is the worst possible scenario lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:25 PM
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It would be hypocritical if they were marrying those men and adopting kids with them, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:22 PM
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Perhaps but no one in this thread has any evidence that this is happening,’meaning that the result of the data is driven by it. There are endless reasons to not report no matter where you are or who you are. Even if it has happened once or twice is history, and there are plenty of anecdotes in this thread about it, is it occurring at such a frequency to create a statistically significant gap? We have no evidence of that. In theory, it should be quite easy to get something. Even just a survey abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:19 PM
1

Why are you so confident to say that when you have no proof? Seems like a pretty big assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:14 PM
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Rambling nonsense that belongs on r/politics dude. You have no proof that Conservatives are any more prone to scandals. What about Dem Senator Al Franken sexually assaulting a coworker? Or another Democratic House Rep who pressured an employee into a threesome, being kicked out of the House based on rigid (not that I don’t support it) sexual assault rules she herself voted for. The family values wing of the party is long dead and has been replaced by a macabre cult of personality for the only pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:12 PM
1

So how does being homosexual make a politician hypocritical for being pro-family?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:03 PM
0

Bro do you not know there are like a billion Catholic people? Like entire continents are Catholic. This country will be plurality Catholic soon. Of course there were more children in all the churches
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:01 PM
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Do you have any actual proof that it’s just down to social pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:00 PM
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I think I’ll need a source for that. You see, I saw a docuseries from a bunch of super liberal 20-35 year olds. They told me that religion bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:58 PM
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Immutable in that it can’t be lowered. I guess it’s true, they could choose to raise it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:27 PM
1

Absolutely, but Germany had no draft when Hitler took over. He reinstituted it, perhaps against popular support, after becoming a dictator via the Enabling Act. We asked Hitler to act justly, but he only used our good faith for his own ends. We can hardly afford to make the same mistake with Putin or Xi.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:24 PM
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Pointless question that will never happen. Women don’t want to get their legs blown off and men don’t want them too either. If they get drafted, they’ll be in non-combat rolls cooking or cleaning or pushing paper, ready to come back home and steal the valor of actual soldiers when the fighting is done. Israel’s all female divisions have a casualty rate 4x higher than all male divisions. The mixed sex divisions’ casualties are 12x higher. It’s a bad idea. Even female volunteers should be treated …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:11 PM
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2/3rds of all American soldiers in WW2 were draftees. An even higher proportion of Soviet soldiers were. Was WW2 an unjust cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:07 PM
1

Not a bad point tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:02 PM
1

The problem is that the video game and porn interference begins even before genuine puberty can begin. I refuse to believe it has zero psychological impact in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:57 PM
1

10 is “high”. Higher than average, but only modestly and I wouldn’t even say high except you still seem to be “making up for lost time”. It’s enough to statistically impact your marital stability, even as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:39 PM
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Something doesn’t have to be immoral or even have bad consequences to be impulsive. If I see some cool flowers or a cute stuffed animal while I’m out shopping, I might impulsively decide to grab it for my SO. It’s not bad ofc, but I’m not thinking it through either. In the long run though, impulsive people like me can run into major issues because that impulsivity seeps into other, more serious things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:37 PM
1

Yeah this from a guy who chose to care and is bragging about his virgin gf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:34 PM
2

In theory, but in reality the couple that has never known better won’t know to break up. Or maybe not. That’s still just a theory too. But OP’s argument that inexperienced people are more stable partners seems true, for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:33 PM
6

The only limiting variable for women to rack up hundreds or thousands of partners is their own impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:31 PM
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People are very sensitive to flaws they have which are immutable, meaning which they can’t get rid of. Look at all the short man rage threads, for example. People hate the idea that they made a mistake in the past and must now suffer consequences from it, even if those consequences are as minor as just hiding your dirty laundry from your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:30 PM
1

In order to have the same drop off in marital stability that women receive from 1 additional partner, men must have 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:27 PM
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Even if there was no competition at all though, it would still indicate a certain moral belief and personality type that the man might not want to marry. It’s also still gross, which is the direct reason men care (even if there’s conceivably valid reasons why they’re grossed out).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:29 PM
4

Unions vary a lot by industry and even more when you include region or corporation. I’d caution against lambasting all unions when you’re probably thinking about specific, problematic ones (ie. the Chicago Public School union). Some aren’t even really unions, just fronts for management to control their workers through an intermediary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:26 PM
2

Very achievable, almost inevitable if you had lived in an older time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:30 AM
3

Just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:28 AM
2

Yeah but then you’re vetting some random Thai girl about whether she slept around a lot before marrying you. It’s even less secure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:12 PM
6

Very true. There's only so much you can learn from the same person, but I feel like I learn something new from each new person, even if it was only a one time thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:49 AM
2

I don't really know what you mean by the orgasm from strong stimulation stuff, but I respect another man who has gone through the effort to learn how to multiple orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:47 AM
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1/2) Is this more likely in a relationship with one person you trust, or a series of hook ups with people you don't? Hmmm 3) Herpes. 4) Pretty legendary bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:44 AM
0

I can't tell you about that, I'm not a bum-fucker. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:40 AM
1

Wouldn't want to miss all of those highly discerning, highly promiscuous women, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:38 AM
0

Don't get cocky. Pre-med is just the beginning. Try to do some research if you aren't already (I know it can be hard at bigger universities) and good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:28 AM
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I think it's more about generally proving a low inhibition, especially in the context of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:59 AM
2

Okay bro and maybe he'll shoot rainbows out of his ass too. Realistically, no one is going to not care that you're a fucking millionaire (spelled properly). It's a huge plus. How could it not be? Men: I don't care about a woman's finances. Also Men: invents the dowry You know, especially the men on Reddit should LOVE a woman who makes money considering they whine about having to pay on dates. Finally, someone who will pay for their own Applebee's before I go back to shitposting on my lame pill s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:55 AM
4

You catch the latest season of Rick and Morty bro? Some pretty wacky shenanigans this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:43 PM
0

Odds are they would lie and you wouldn’t even know they were a slut bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:39 PM
1

Okay bro this is taking it way too far. 5 in relationships is better than 3 outside of them? Value? Wtf?! Is it a weighted equation or something? Lmao You can’t calculate this shit bro. Just listen to what makes you uncomfortable. It’s not like you’re so dripping in women that you can afford to turn them down for having a few too many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:17 PM
5

No, they can easily just lie about it. They just have to have the common sense not to air their dirty laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:15 PM
1

I’ve been assured many times on here that women can easily sniff out TRP men and other such misogynists. Should be no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:13 PM
1

Yeah nobody discloses and they’re even passing laws in some places to decriminalize hiding certain STDs, at a time when STIs have never been more common and are growing resistance to antiviral/antibiotic drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:50 PM
1

I don’t really think they lose respect for those men. The men are just okay with it because they like the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:45 PM
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I’m very aware that I have to settle with a used up girl. It’s okay and I’m already in an LTR. There’s no need to be mean about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:26 PM
1

I pick the virgin woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:25 PM
3

I was blue pilled and thought I just had to be nice. Never stood a chance bro. No one even tried to offer me any guidance on how to get girls. Literally no one. Pretty rough. And so what? I missed my shot? Fuck that. I know I can date younger so I will. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:21 PM
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It’s not mutually exclusive. One woman for sex, another type for marriage. It’s just AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:20 PM
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I’d hook up with sluts that I’d never dream of marrying and pursue a different type of woman for something serious. Also I like how you think sub-20 is low. The average is 7, girl. Low is sub-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:15 PM
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It’s roots are biological. You’re grossed out by her hoe stories for the same reason you’re grossed out by her sleeping with another man, even with consent. The mechanics of what you feel and why you feel it are very much overlapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:12 PM
2

It’s interesting you say that. Maybe it’s time I broke up with my gf and got a girl like that to explore with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:27 PM
3

Because you probably assume every misogynist is conservative. You probably think the two terms are practically interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:25 PM
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Congrats bro but the average man has like 5-8 partners, maybe a couple LTRs. The median is likely even lower and the issue gets worse for each new generation since the Millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:13 PM
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This will hopefully change soon. China is starting to offer financial benefits for women to marry unemployed or less well-off men, including vocational training among other things. Mathematically, it can’t be solved. But men do still make more on average in total. It is only the youngest generation where the dynamic is flipped and women now make more. Perhaps the cultural norm will change to reflect a different society once there’s more of an equality of outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:11 PM
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Yeah I get where you’re coming from man. I come from a well off community where my family (top 2% of income in the US, not to brag it’s just my daddy’s money anyhow) was one of the poorer families. People think money will make them happy, but goddamn were people miserable, even soulless in a way. No one was religious, no one. Small families with little extended family. PC culture, but at the same time isolated so the one or two gay people were treated as community fascinations. It was an odd pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:21 PM
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As a gay man, you’re essentially playing on easy mode. I wish I was gay. I don’t know why you make this so difficult and over-complicated for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:28 PM
4

You shouldn’t obsess over wealth like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:09 PM
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Well it’s a debate sub bro. Go to r/CapitalismVSocialism and you’ll find Anarcho-Capitalists arguing with Stalinists (among other things) and they both hate each other and think the other is lying. That’s just the nature of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:08 PM
1

Okay well obviously sex isn’t as important as having friends point blank lol, but it’s still important
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:02 PM
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Yeah very odd to talk about how sex doesn’t matter but that he needs an open relationship to have his needs met.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:00 PM
1

Well no, it’s not like women like that don’t exist. OP and I just weren’t HVM back then who could get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:39 AM
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Yeah, life sucks. It’s not fair, but we missed our shot and have to settle with what we get - washed up, embittered women who already had their fun. When they had options, they chose to be played by better men rather than date us. I feel OP’s pain. It’s not like we didn’t try when we were young. We did, but we never had a chance. It’s not the end of the world though. At least now we have some modicum of affection from women. It’s tough but it’s better than being alone like before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:10 AM
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You got the answer bro. It’s not fair at all. Men who agree to it are cheated. Simple as. What other answer could there be? No, it actually is fair? It would be silly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:07 AM
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If your priorities aren’t congruent, you shouldn’t be together in the first place. Of course, her priorities come first to her. Youth is a commodity. Sorry bro. Yours is mostly up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:02 AM
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A small subset of men, leaving many men who want serious relationships on the side. Basically the crux of the issue that is driving the whole TRP ideology, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:58 PM
2

So insecurity, to you, seems to just be being aware of what reality actually is? Why would you not be worried that your wife has had better experiences with better men? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:25 PM
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You aren’t if she has a certain level of experience. We can disagree on when that is, but you will never be Mia Khalifa’s best. It’s not insecurity at all to process reality accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:02 PM
3

I think it’ll be more acceptable when the “whores” start causing terror attacks like incels do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:00 PM
3

The technique is referred to as a double bind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:58 PM
2

What are you even talking about bro? I fucking wish I was gay and could put that shit on all my applications. It helps you out at every stage in life. It doesn’t take any strength at all. Maybe you’re from a developing country?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:57 PM
2

Sure but that’s not how most people would use it. By your definition, you’re insecure about skydiving without a parachute. Insecurity implies you’re wrong to feel that way, that the problem is with your perception rather than what you’re perceiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:55 PM
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Bro you are delusional if you think you will be her best partner out of dozens of others. Like, almost to the point of narcissism. It’s not insecurity so much as probability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:53 PM
1

Depends on the Master’s. Even then, the good job will be sexy. The possibility of a good job in the future, however likely, isn’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:59 PM
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They’re happy to. They can always find men to keep around. If they can’t get commitment from one who makes it worth while, it’s no big deal. Look how many men are willing to go MGTOW, so it’s even easier for women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:42 PM
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Graduate school is not sexy at all bro. Literally the opposite of sexy. Not sure why you listed it as one of the reasons women should be dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:40 PM
1

Obese women actually have more sex with more partners. It’s part of why men are disgusted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:39 PM
1

So why did you end things with the women who were so great?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:36 PM
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Lmao okay if you think your lame internet anecdote trumps actual studies. Go find a study that doesn’t contradict your ideas if you’re so convinced you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:31 PM
1

45% of college aged women don’t have sex once in an entire year? Jesus Christ help us all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:28 PM
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Husbands who make serious purchases without consulting their wives won’t be husbands for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:12 AM
2

I seriously doubt it. That’s just billionaire privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:11 AM
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Better health? Women live longer. Rape would be literally the only violent crime women suffer more than men, but I guess it’s true. Male rape is hilariously undercounted though so the gap isn’t as wide as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:06 AM
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Is this seriously the only privilege you can think of? To be expected to provide a disproportionate amount of resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:05 AM
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Most men can’t just find girls to impregnate without commitment. Most women would genuinely laugh at the idea of the average man getting away with such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:04 AM
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Nonsense. Younger women despise older men and think they’re creepy. They’ve said as much on this same subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:02 AM
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Because trans identification shows no signs of slowing down and some portion of trans people will detrans inevitably. Plus detrans is very fringe. You’re essentially in a cult, for the purposes that all your friends are trans or trans-affirming. Your life and identity is centered around it. Abandoning that would be difficult for anyone, but especially so when you will likely be compared to anti-trans bigots as you attempt to rediscover yourself. Additionally, it’s plainly fascinating. Detrans wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:24 PM
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Or anyone named Ned for that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:26 PM
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If she posted that here and kept up her LARP as a man, we’d be talking about how her personality must be trash if all 30 of the girls rejected “him”. Maybe it is, “he” could be way feminine or something. I honestly wouldn’t be too surprised if she has a horrid personality or didn’t do super-basic courtship stuff like pay for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:25 PM
0

Yeah why would people push for unequal preferences for themselves? To make life easier? Why would they want that? Just so inexplicable why someone would want policies to favor their own group 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:23 PM
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I think “what would caring entail” is still a worthy question even if it will never happen on a large scale. What would “women” have to do to change your attitude, hypothetically speaking? Feel free to read that in a Ben Shapiro voice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:21 PM
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Eh it’s still better than a white conservative area. “Racism still exists!!” Oh shit I’ll go let people know. Maybe we can cause another few billion in damage by rioting and it’ll be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:20 PM
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I’m willing to accept that many women think men are extremely privileged, living on “easy mode” (to reappropriate some terminology).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:18 PM
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I don’t know about that. She would have been an extremely feminine man. She would have been short, no muscles, likely a feminine facial structure, and certainly inherently feminine in demeanor. It’s not exactly riveting to women. She’s likely the least attractive guy those girls have seen that night, aside from maybe some deformed dude I also don’t think she expected power to be suddenly thrust upon her. I think she just wasn’t expecting to see literally all of her agency in dating stripped away…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:12 PM
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Detrans is gonna be booming for both sides in less than a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:08 PM
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Not at all bro. There’s no room for them to be merciful or even tactful. Less conspicuous men would exploit any opening to try and keep a pursuit going. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:47 PM
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I would still be deeply surprised. Something like 90-98% of men have had sex at some point, saying nothing of quality or quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:52 PM
1

I’ve literally never seen a TRP guy on here shilling anything you have to pay for. I certainly haven’t in real life, which again is OP’s complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:28 PM
2

Ah yet another soapbox CMV with a view no one disagrees with I have never even heard someone way the words alpha male IRL, let alone claim to be one. Where are these people? The fact that it’s about weird online sex terminology is only tangential to the fact that they’d be bragging about how awesome they are to your face. It would be pathetic even if they were just bragging about anything else. Even if it was something genuine, like say they actually are the richest person in the room and are br…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:00 PM
2

I swear some ungodly portion of single women are women who are morbidly obese or single moms or openly whores. If they just were normal, they’d have been snapped up. They actively sabotage themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:47 AM
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Grow up bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:44 AM
2

Man what even is that? You have to haul yourself to a club to meet a woman? You can’t limit yourself like that. What if your soulmate just isn’t a hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:43 AM
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I hate the blockers bro. So obnoxious how websites show you that while you’re blocked. You just have to deal with their insanity yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:27 AM
2

Literally every woman goes through it. They may not stop being what you consider a hoe, but a period of peak sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:25 AM
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Men seriously believe that the quality of man hasn’t declined at all in the past 50 or so years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:24 AM
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It is simply not okay for women to negatively lambast their partner’s appearance. It is not okay. She clearly dislikes the man on some level. The same can be said for a man criticizing his woman. If your partner loves you, he or she will be bragging about you to people. Criticizing you to other people IRL, even in seemingly benign ways? That’s not something your soulmate would do. I want to know how and why you feel women are permitted to criticize their partners. I have never seen anything like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:17 PM
1

I’m trying to say it’s so rare for someone to be that tall (actually, and not lying) that it basically doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:05 PM
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Yeah it’s like the 8” dick of height. Great in theory, some girls like it, pushes the limits of too big, but there’s worse curses to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:20 AM
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6’5” is the equivalent of being 5’3” in terms of frequency, at least in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:18 AM
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Executions for most violent male offenders
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 05:14 AM
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Yeah, send them to a prison where they can rape men for the rest of their lives instead, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:45 PM
0

Bro you know you’re talking to a real human being and not some Internet boogey man, right? It hurts when you say untrue things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:16 AM
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No. I’m saying that the natural replacement rate of most groups in America, ADOS Black Americans and white Americans alike, is below replacement levels. It’s only natural to call Hispanic Americans the New Americans. I think it was even the cover of a Time magazine. Trust me I’m Catholic myself I have no qualms about them replacing the Protties after they put us through centuries of persecution. If anything though, there are way, way more white Catholics in America than ever before. Something li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 02:08 AM
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Bro you have serious mental issues and need therapy. I can help connect you with resources if you’d like. I know it can hard to ask for the help you need, especially as a man. I’m here for you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:39 AM
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Brock is supposed to unironically be SEAsian bro. That’s a fact. It’s set in Japan, bro it’s called KANTO. SEAs are much more common than anyone of African descent. You have serious mental issues if you go through someone’s post history cause you got booty hurt. Just a fact too, sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:39 AM
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I am so sick of you prostitution incels my god
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:25 AM
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Obviously we want all those people castrated. Last I checked polling data on the matter, most women oppose stuff like the death penalty point blank. I can’t imagine they’d ever accept it “just” for rape (certainly not for pre-crimes like being a pedophile, even though it’s the only lasting solution to the problem). There’s very few real solutions to the problem and women are the ones most vocally opposing them, although to some extent it feels like most people are unwilling to take the only poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:20 AM
-2

You ODed on red pills a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:35 PM
2

At least you live up to your username
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:20 PM
0

To ensure humanity survives?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:14 PM
1

Oh sorry I didn’t phrase that super well. I meant men (at least the “dating strategists” of Reddit) will just lie down if that happens to be what’s attractive to the girl. There’s no karma coming for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:58 PM
1

If they’re that rich, why not pay for it? There’s height surgery too if you have that kind of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:48 PM
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I’m sorry bro but you have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:01 PM
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Because if he could get a woman better than you once, he can again. This is doubly true if he can obtain such a woman with zero commitment, as can step out without much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:46 PM
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“Unrealistic beauty standards” is a cultural backlash to the hyper-superficial culture that social media has created, and little else. It’s not meant to describe even necessarily just views men have about women, or even women about women. Men can have unrealistic body standards too. Imagine having an average dick and growing up watching 7-9”ers obliterate 5’ girls since you were 11 years old. Unfortunately the whole message has kind of just become fatlogic incarnate. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:30 PM
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If you simply think 4th dimensionally, even sex is a payment for sex because you have to be good enough to get her to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:19 PM
1

It’s just social convention around stated reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:09 PM
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Because if he’s been with 12+ girls, you are almost certainly not the best and never will be. Especially since we all get older with age and men prefer 18-25 y/o girls, gross as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:52 PM
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People will likely retort that Internet communities aren’t a good sample, but they’re missing the point. Critical thinking of dating strategy for either sex produces hilariously immoral, degenerate behavior that - unfortunately - works, remarkably well at that, and for both sexes. These strats might have worked in a pre-modern age, but they have never been more lethal than now. The anonymity of OLD and the sexual liberation of the 60s has combined to create a consequence-free, digital playground…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:15 AM
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See guys prefer virgins because you can tell them any silly thing and they’ll accept it. Girls who have never had a real relationship are similarly very malleable, though more on the relationship side than the sex itself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:08 AM
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Hook ups aren’t inherently between just two people, but I guess you’ve only been with one person so you wouldn’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:01 AM
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Yeah for most men the only one consistently complimenting them is the wife (who, of course, has to).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:56 AM
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No one is going to deny that it is an AF/BB dynamic or at least that this was the dynamic of the 60s-90s, prior to the Information Age. However it is also true that both genders inevitably prioritize maturity and responsibility more with age, as they become more mature and responsible themselves. However this is merely a natural adjustment of age. Chad will age and become more mature too. It’s not like you can’t be hot and responsible; if anything, being diligent enough to sculpt a body takes a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:54 AM
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If anything, the rise of OF and sugar baby/daddy culture (which has always existed, but w/e) actually means women we are aiming to date are less interested in that cash money. After all, the ones most obsessed can deliberately seek it out and even may find men who are happy to fill that role. Remember too that young women are, for the first time in human history, making more than the young men. Plus they have the most developed welfare system in human history behind them. It is harder than ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:44 AM
1

I mean I think the most obvious would be group sex, but there’s others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:38 AM
1

Pretty sure they just wouldn’t share it with their friend’s nerdy son?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:08 AM
1

I mean at 200k/year, they will be millionaires quite soon. Especially since they are only in their 20s/30s and have many decades of pay raises to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:03 AM
1

There’s experience that can only be gained by a varied partner pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:53 AM
1

Mate it is called lying. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:51 AM
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They wouldn’t care about hiding it if they didn’t mind at all??? Like, why do you think they even asked in the first place? Why do you think she chose to lie about it? This is going to take all my critical reasoning skills, but I think the guy might actually care about it, independent of the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:48 AM
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Actually if you think about it fucking the sluttiest girl in town is the most Alpha thing you can do because it means you can’t be intimidated
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:46 AM
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Ok bro we have established that it’s cope. Now what? We move to the 3rd world and buy a virgin for 8 goats? We start prowling the local HS at 4 PM? Women don’t want to give us the option and to obtain one requires absurd sacrifices like age gaps, religious nutters, etc. Obviously we all want some lovely virgin princess who never farts, but most men are stuck with wives who are overweight and had their fun 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:45 AM
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Why don’t you want to know if you’re 100% unbothered by it? I’d want to know everything about my soulmate who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and tie my financial, mental, and emotional well-being to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:41 AM
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Yes, because women would not be sleeping with him left and right. Simply having virgins available indicates that men are less promiscuous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:40 AM
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I want a girl who knows what she’s doing from Day 1. What am I supposed to do? Teach the love of my life about an entire world of sexual experiences and pleasure? PASS. I want Chad to teach her first and give her trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:39 AM
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Yeah part of the reason so many openers are just hey is because of people using it for other reasons. I have no problem with that, but it means you have to figure out who is even a “real match” first. Simple messages vet for interested women, even if the response rate is 1/5th of something personalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:36 AM
1

Stats? Kind of an outlandish claim IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:33 AM
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OLD can be essentially entirely passive, even as a man. Sure you won’t get as many matches and certainly will blunder on more of them, but you’re keeping the stream open too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:32 AM
2

Catholics are very different. You can’t compare Americans to the “New Americans” If you look only at white Catholics, most of the trends Protestants show hold steady.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:41 PM
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It’s extinct in that it is entirely muted isn’t the monoculture. When was the last time you saw someone pray? The Boomers and such may still be “Christian” by the standards of today, but only like 1/5th of the next generation is and they’re mostly cultural Christians with little genuine faith. The Bible Belt is going to hold out for another few years, sure, but they’ve already given up on school prayer, banning evolution, the sanctity of marriage (after they were the same Prottys who normalized …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:40 PM
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Just leave this shithole, or move to a quiet corner of it where cultural norms are very different like Puerto Rico or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:38 PM
3

Requirements for dating go up, but marriages are the main driver of sex gaps by age
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:51 PM
0

Sorry but you’ve only gotten this far because we let you, and the next generation knows better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:36 AM
1

They 100% can be. Actually their invasion was so condemned that everyone condemned it basically, even Hitler. But it didn’t start until 1936 or so, so about 20 years after my family left Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:31 PM
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And yours were nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 01:28 PM
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Italy was divided and conquered by hostile foreign (mostly European) powers since essentially the fall of Rome until the 19th century. It was brutalized, colonized, conquered, and all the rest too. It really doesn’t matter though. You can be Polish, but you’re still white. That’s just how it is, and you get the benefits and negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:22 AM
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I’m Italian I didn’t do shit. My family came over in like 1917. You can’t even blame us for Ethiopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:29 PM
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Just a brisk 5-figure elective, cosmetic surgery with lifelong complications away from slaying poon
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:24 PM
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I’m sure the 2% of women above 5’10” are very very torn up about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:34 PM
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Hey man how can I improve my height by 4 inches? It’s easy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:30 PM
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Bro what? NO ONE? Not even the people who enslaved them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:28 PM
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Hey he only beat a pregnant woman with a gun. We all have our bad days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:25 PM
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Yeah man you straight up have no clue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:24 PM
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Bro the absentee father rate was only like 10% in the black community back in the 1960s. This stuff is all very recent, actually it happened AFTER we ended Jim Crow. This is why I hate when white people like you speak on black issues. You’re just horribly informed. How would disenfranchisement contribute to fatherlessness? Like hello, there’s literally zero connection lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:23 PM
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You have no idea what it’s like to be a white man in America these days and watch your whole society be stripped from you because your ancestors were pathetic weaklings. Please don’t get into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:21 PM
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Shut up fatty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:09 PM
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Yes, this may all be true. But you fail to awknowledge that it hurts my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:17 AM
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haha yeah me too buddy high-five Meanwhile IRL Reddit has a 50% obesity rate lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:16 AM
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I think you might be conflating different sorts of pleasure. Sure there’s pleasure in giving for anyone, but it’s psychological rather than physical. I also think that should be apparent in like 5 seconds of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:15 AM
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Yeah until they stop being catcalled lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:17 AM
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Finally a real response that isn’t either “but I actually am the 1% of girls that likes pegging softboys” or “women secretly want a wife beater”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:35 PM
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I honestly don’t even know why posts like hers get replies like yours. Of course they want to be catcalled. You’d want to be catcalled. Sure you’re not going for the girl I imagine unless she’s stunning, but it’s nice to be so hot someone breaks social convention to tell you. Now if you only got attention from ugly girls you might complain. That’s the experience of many women who rant about catcalling online
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:33 PM
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Ultimately we associate passivity with niceness in men. Men think they’re “nice” just for being doormats. I guess they are nice in the shallowest way possible, that they are just callously exploited by the people around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:30 PM
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No, because they're literally incapable of understanding human emotions. You have serious issues, but I don't think you need me to tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:25 PM
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Sure but that hardly means they have no standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:06 PM
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This is totally untrue, especially as far as serious relationships are concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:01 PM
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Fat girls are toxic and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:59 PM
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There isn't much of a maturity gap, but women typically want a man who is more mature than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:57 PM
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And, back then, people entered puberty later and matured more slowly due to poor nutrition and a lower obesity rate. It's only natural they married at such an age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:55 PM
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You're really underestimating how obnoxious it can be to be with a partner with autism or OCD or something. It's insufferable. They can't understand how you feel and react accordingly. They can't figure out if a complaint you're making is a huge deal or some little mindless comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:50 PM
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It's a deal breaker for most men; you shouldn't lie. Who would settle for a person with a serious conditions like that unless they couldn't do better? If she has anything that could be passed on to my kids, I'm going to stay away from a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:48 PM
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You have little freedom, no purpose in life, no respect from anyone besides your immediate peers (who also have no respect from society), and you're dumb as fuck. It's only the "best time of your life" to people will poor values or shitty lives. The best time in your life is when you present your newly born second child to your firstborn toddler and tell him he has a little brother/sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:42 PM
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A lot of the issue on TRP is that it focuses too much on women, which is fair since it's based on dating and hooking up rather than broader philosophy. A lot of the conclusions it draws with women can be easily expanded to men. NAWALT could easily just be NApeopleALT, for example. The sub totally refuses to look inward at men's broad issues, even in regards to dating, and refuses to address them. Instead all issues stem from women. This creates a pining to return to the pre-liberation days of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:37 PM
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