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Inner Game UnderstandingCalm916/r/seduction13/10/24 02:15 AM
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In "game" terms I'd say it's a case of getting over that point of no return... Almost every woman wants sex to happen organically and spontaneously. You got to a very high level of intimacy with her without having sex, and usually what happens is that it creates expectations on the girl to actually have sex with you next time, resulting on pressure for which the girl might fold. If I had to guess, I would say the best thing you could have done would have been to try to get more intimate with her…
/r/seduction30/12/24 11:11 PM
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Simply because it does not happen in 100% of the cases. It happens in very few. Actually I had cases in which the opposite happened: sets opened by more attractive friends ended up swaying in my direction just because of personality differences. You can believe whatever the hell you want man. Suit yourself. I saw these mechanics live myriad times and have quite a large sample. At least 30 weekends together and hundreds of total sets approached together. These friends of mine are SIGNIFICANTLY mo…
/r/seduction14/10/24 01:41 PM
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That's why I posted this. And your comments are not adding anything useful to the discussion so far. I'm glad to hear from anyone more experienced than me and take in their advice. But so far you only sound like a self-absorbed narcissist.
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:02 PM
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Here's your candy 🍭 Now there's plenty of other posts where you can say that you are 6'5'' and 12st, why are you still here?
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:41 PM
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Thank you so much for the kind words 🙂
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:31 AM
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I think what you should do is quite simple. Evaluate what you want from this woman. If you are looking for sex, perfect, you might just have found a fwb. Just make sure to use protection. And don't be a bastard about it. Make sure it is clear to her from the very beginning that you do not want anything serious. If you are looking for anything other than just sex, dump her immediately. This is not the kind of woman you want to get attached to.
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:47 AM
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Neither are people who make smug comments and unfounded assumptions about others. Go out and practice more buddy 😉
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:21 AM
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The problem is not the "just the four notches" but 1.the amount of effort I'm spending for the amount of returns 2.utter lack of meaningful connections being built I honestly don't think my technique is bad, it's probably that I'm using a bad medium (mostly dating apps), wrong demographics (dating apps + clubs). Also, dating apps completely fucked up my standards (used to date 6.5 and up now I can't settle for anything under a 8, which is definitely excessive). The "standards" part is probably t…
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:08 AM
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I wanted to add, I'm also quite in a privileged position to talk about looks as I usually go out with a group of 3 friends who are all more attractive than me, and all definitely above the 7. One in particular could easily be a top model: extremely handsome, over 1.90, greek god physique. What I noticed is that looks do matter, but not even close to as much as general opinion states. The real difference is just that better looking guys get approached more often (we are still talking about veeery…
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:53 AM
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Brother, I get your frustration and partially I agree/see your point of view. But, sorry, this is cuck mentality. I am not going to hide away or stop trying because "feminism and entitlement" are ruining my chances. My post is not about that. It's about the impossibility, in today's society, to be spontaneous, honest and open about emotions in relationships and dating. And everyone fucking shielding their own emotions because of getting burned too many times and being afraid. And me basically sl…
/r/seduction13/10/24 02:45 AM
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