| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 255 | The importance of not sharing your trauma with the men you’re dating | MALE DEPRAVITY | UnderstandingOdd1092 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 05:30 PM |
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| 51 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardIf body hair is not a big deal why do ads for razors show hairless legs? Why would you recommend withholding sex until women shave? Their logic is always so flawed it's embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 01:03 PM |
| 11 | I wish his wife sees this 😔"but she has also never forgotten and is still in love with me and wishes things could've been different" and "we talk sometimes nothing is ever inappropriate" literally contradict each other. Contacting her was already cheating and continuing to do it and hide it is still cheating. How do these men sleep at night? I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:39 PM |
| 52 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.And would prevent women from doing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 15 | Seeing a man for some time, find out he follows some “no simp” Tiktok account with Kevin Samuels videos… I’m shocked.Ugh. The last guy I went on a few dates with sent me some videos on there so I looked who he was following and same... a bunch of porn accounts. One of the girl was literally 14, dancing in her bikini. A 28M shouldn't be following her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:29 AM |
| 6 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.Thank you! I've been no contact with both for years. I hope your family supports you in the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 107 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.Telling people to be "the bigger person" is cruel and lazy. Instead of standing up for what's right, they force the nicer person to bow down to the bullies. I felt gaslit my whole childhood by my mother letting me be abused by my brother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 8 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Totally, they also want to be able to brag they bagged a woman with x degree and make sure their children are smart. He knew I was childfree too. They see women as supporting roles in their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 11:10 AM |
| 212 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Gosh, my LVX implied he would love his future wife to be a SAHM (he purposely went after career driven women!) and after describing all she would do, he looked at me expectantly. All I replied was "sounds like I need a wife too". Who wouldn't want someone to be there for them, cook, clean and do all the work. Lazy men are gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 09:07 PM |
| 142 | Blood in the water: a custom made tacticPersonally I tend to use my nose as an insecurity. I've had something happen to it that changed its shape. I honestly don't care much but if someone were to use it to neg me, it's very obvious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:00 PM |
| 26 | Let’s normalize walking awayYes! Every time I've excused something, it has always come back to bite me. The first red flags never changed and were always the reasons I ended things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 14 | And he looks like it at 26Even as a pick me, seeing all these 30+yo men on dating apps with "not sure what I'm looking for", "let's see how it goes", "looking for something casual maybe more if I like you" made me cringe. If you're not looking for anything serious now, you never will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:10 PM |
| 8 | What do you ladies think ?These men really tell on themselves. Women absolutely give men attention, compliments and do "half the work". If she's not, then you're doing a bad job. You might even be forcing her hence the "just laying there". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 16 | What do you ladies think ?"giving him as much foreplay as he gives you" So none? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 5 | What do you ladies think ?Ah yes, nothing says healthy example of what sex should be than porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 5 | The importance of not sharing your trauma with the men you’re datingIn my case it wasn't even something I allowed but something that was done to me. He didn't care. Agreed! All they'll know now is that all my exes were hot, generous and treated me perfectly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:35 PM |
| 6 | The importance of not sharing your trauma with the men you’re datingThey really show us how little respect they have for us. My LVX wouldn't listen to my recommendations about anything (even a movie) but if another man did tell him to try it, he would. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 10 | The importance of not sharing your trauma with the men you’re datingI'll never understand how they can have so little empathy. I literally just told you something traumatic happened to me and you managed to make it all about yourself. Like, what's unfair is what happened to me. What's unfair is what you're putting me through right now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 31 | The importance of not sharing your trauma with the men you’re datingHere's the thread about it https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ixvzzo/the\_blood\_in\_the\_water\_test/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:21 PM |
| 33 | When the most basic requirement is exhausting.I thought they liked everything without thinking and that's why they liked all these bikini pictures?! Which one is it? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:34 PM |
| 35 | FDS Translates VICE - "Adult" Men with their Mattresses on the FloorHow lazy do you have to be that assembling a bed frame is seen as such a hardship? Also, everyone knows that quality men refer to women as bitches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 33 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortWhy do so many men lack empathy?? I wonder how many people broke up because they tried discussing the abortion laws. When I was mentioning it to my (ex) LVM he made it sound like he was pro-life which horrified me. I had asked him his opinion on our first date and he said he was pro-choice. When he saw my reaction, he decided he didn't want to talk about it and tried going to bed. I told him how I wasn't going to be able to sleep until he explains himself so he threw a tantrum and pretended to l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 19 | If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.When I called out my ex LVM for following bikini models, he said it was for the giveaways and was just too lazy to go and unfollow them. "Follows for the freebies, stays for the titties"! Never accepting the "lazy excuse" again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:21 PM |
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