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| 1 | I can’t tell if my belief that “warmth/showing interest = unattractive” is true or just something red pill content installed in me — and now I second-guess every warm thing I sayIf they are putting in effort as well then to me that is a huge green light. By warmth do you mean showing genuine interest beyond being friends? I do think it’s important early to recognize if that is your intention and let them know. Having a platonic friend is also great as well because they will almost have a friend they would/could set you up with and getting a new friend group is always great. I don’t recommend the slow play friend into girlfriend route as most women will know fairly early… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/26 02:36 PM |
| 0 | I can’t tell if my belief that “warmth/showing interest = unattractive” is true or just something red pill content installed in me — and now I second-guess every warm thing I sayI think the issue can be as others alluded to that warmth and kindness can quickly bleed into neediness and desperation and putting people on unearned pedestals. I would always practice warmth and kindness in your interactions but reevaluate on a constant basis energy and effort balance. It should be a two way street. Who is always the one to reach out, who goes out of their way to accommodate the other, etc. You should not have to win people over to be your friend or girlfriend by going over th… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/26 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Red pill correlation with cuck fetishFrom my understanding it’s actually being cheated on that can develop a cuck/humiliation fetish. It is your way of taking control of a traumatic situation. Similar to the way victims of sexual assault can develop CNC and bondage kinks to control a traumatic situation that happened to them. Therapy helps. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/26 07:27 PM |
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