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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Wife/Mommy boss and my story This…this is what I wish I read before starting my divorce journey. OP, I commend you and hope many others find this post as they travel a similar path. Rooting for you bro!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/23 04:34 AM
5	Divorced Young This sucks. It hurts. The world is weird. I see you and hear you. Like the other brothers said on this forum, chalk this one up to a loss but recognize all the flags. Really think through things. Is there anything you can fix, not for the next one, but for yourself. Take time to heal but also have some fun. Find something that brings you joy and confidence and then go slay, my dude. After 21, age is nothing but a number (even though you really feel your age after 30). You’re young, smart, and se…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 03:03 AM
1	Am I a bad dad? Just that you’re smart enough to not fight over the petty. it sounds like therapy could help both of you. It does for me. It gave me the confidence to own the fact that our relationship isn’t going to get better by only one of us trying. Therapy has helped me realize that while I do have problems I need to work on, I still deserve better. Joke: I blame hallmark and lifetime movies for all bad female behavior and complexes. Lol	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 08:19 PM
1	Am I a bad dad? You’re a good father because you care! The fact that you’re reflective and questioning yourself indicates to me that you’re a good person at some point. You’re being ran ragged and you’re too exhausted. The toxic part of me would have responded to your wife, “If you’re so concerned about our child’s welfare, why don’t you get a job to help support her healthy eating?”. Unfortunately, that will only lead to more arguing and it’s not worth it. Like @No_Pace2396 said, try therapy. When you do the w…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 07:55 PM
3	Today is sock day. I’m about to embark on this journey myself. Trying to go for an “amicable” divorce with a mediator and lawyer. All this stuff sucks. I appreciate you and the other’s sharing here. Best of luck in your next chapter.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 02:07 AM
3	Today is sock day. Congrats! Out of curiosity, how long did it take to get the divorce?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 01:27 AM

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