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| 2 | Helping others out for nothing in return? Getting out of this mindset?You do these things for people because you implicitly expect that you're trading your kindness and helpfulness for their respect and affection. It doesn't work like that. Gifts should be given freely and with no expectation of reciprocation. If you help someone because you think it'll make them like you more, or prevent them from liking you less, or because your sense of self is derived from being helpful and selfless and laid-back, you will only ever end up resenting those people for not giving… | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 05:39 PM |
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